In writing to you upon the subject
of mental cultivation, it would seem scarcely necessary
to dwell for a moment on its advantages; it would
seem as if, in this case at least, I might come at
once to the point, and state to you that which appears
to me the best manner of attaining the object in view.
Experience, however, has shown me, that even into
such minds as yours, doubts will often obtain admittance,
sometimes from without, sometimes self-generated,
as to the advantages of intellectual education for
women. The time will come, even if you have never
yet momentarily experienced it, when, saddened by
the isolation of superiority, and witnessing the greater
love or the greater prosperity acquired by those who
have limited or neglected intellects, you may be painfully
susceptible to the slighting remarks on clever women,
learned ladies, &c., which will often meet your ear, remarks
which you will sometimes hear from uneducated women,
who may seem to be in the enjoyment of much more peace
and happiness than yourself, sometimes from well-educated
and sensible men, whose opinions you justly value.
I fear, in short, that even you may at times be tempted
to regret having directed your attention and devoted
your early days to studies which have only attracted
envy or suspicion; that even you may some day or other
attribute to the pursuits which are now your favourite
ones those disappointments and unpleasantnesses which
doubtless await your path, as they do that of every
traveller along life’s weary way. This
inconsistency may indeed be temporary; in a character
such as yours it must be temporary, for you will feel,
on reflection, that nothing which others have gained,
even were your loss of the same occasioned by your
devotion to your favourite pursuits, could make amends
to you for their sacrifice. A mind that is really
susceptible of culture must either select a suitable
employment for the energies it possesses, or they will
find some dangerous occupation for themselves, and
eat away the very life they were intended to cherish
and strengthen. I should wish you to be spared,
however, the humiliation of even temporary regrets,
which, at the very least, must occasion temporary
loss of precious hours, and a decrease of that diligent
labour for improvement which can only be kept in an
active state of energy by a deep and steady conviction
of its nobleness and utility; further still, (which
would be worse than the temporary consequences to
yourself,) at such times of despondency you might
be led to make admissions to the disadvantage of mental
cultivation, and to depreciate those very habits of
study and self-improvement which it ought to be one
of the great objects of your life to recommend to
all. You might thus discourage some young beginner
in the path of self-cultivation, who, had it not been
for you, might have cheered a lonely way by the indulgence
of healthy, natural tastes, besides exercising extensive
beneficial influence over others. Your incautious
words, doubly dangerous because they seem to be the
result of experience, may be the cause of such a one’s
remaining in useless and wearisome, because uninterested
idleness. That you may guard the more successfully
against incurring such responsibilities, you should
without delay begin a long and serious consideration,
founded on thought and observation, both as to the
relative advantages of ignorance and knowledge.
When your mind has been fully made up on the point,
after the careful examination I recommend to you,
you must lay your opinion aside on the shelf, as it
were, and suffer it no longer to be considered as a
matter of doubt, or a subject for discussion.
You can then, when temporarily assailed by weak-minded
fears, appeal to the former dispassionate and unprejudiced
decision of your unbiassed mind. To one like
you, there is no safer appeal than that from a present
excited, and consequently prejudiced self, to another
dispassionate, and consequently wiser self. Let
us then consider in detail what foundation there may
be for the remarks that are made to the depreciation
of a cultivated intellect, and illustrate their truth
or falsehood by the examples of those upon whose habits
of life we have an opportunity of exercising our observation.
First, then, I would have you consider
the position and the character of those among your
unmarried friends who are unintellectual and uncultivated,
and contrast them with those who have by education
strengthened natural powers and developed natural capabilities:
among these, it is easy for you to observe whose society
is the most useful and the most valued, whose opinion
is the most respected, whose example is the most frequently
held up to imitation, I mean by those alone
whose esteem is worth possessing. The giddy, the
thoughtless, and the uneducated may indeed manifest
a decided preference for the society of those whose
pursuits and conversation are on a level with their
own capacity; but you surely cannot regret that they
should even manifestly (which however is not often
ventured upon) shrink from your society. “Like
to like” is a proverb older than the time of
Dante, whose answer it was to Can della
Scala, when reproached by him that the society
of the most frivolous persons was more sought after
at court than that of the poet and philosopher.
“Given the amuser, the amusée must also
be given." You surely ought not to regret the
cordon sanitaire which protects you from the
utter weariness, the loss of time, I might almost
add of temper, which uncongenial society would entail
upon you. In the affairs of life, you must generally
make up your mind as to the good that deserves your
preference, and resolutely sacrifice the inferior
advantage which cannot be enjoyed with the greater
one. You must consequently give up all hope of
general popularity, if you desire that your society
should be sought and valued, your opinion respected,
your example followed, by those whom you really love
and admire, by the wise and good, by those whose society
you can yourself in your turn enjoy. You must
not expect that at the same time you should be the
favourite and chosen companion of the worthless, the
frivolous, the uneducated; you ought not, indeed,
to desire it. Crush in its very birth that mean
ambition for popularity which might lead you on to
sacrifice time and tastes, alas! sometimes even principles,
to gain the favour and applause of those whose society
ought to be a weariness to you. Nothing, besides,
is more injurious to the mind than a studied sympathy
with mediocrity: nay, without any “study,”
any conscious effort to bring yourself down to their
level, your mind must insensibly become weakened and
tainted by a surrounding atmosphere of ignorance and
stupidity, so that you would gradually become unfitted
for that superior society which you are formed to
love and appreciate. It is quite a different case
when the dispensations of Providence and the exercise
of social duties bring you into contact with uncongenial
minds. Whatever is a duty will be made safe to
you: it can only be from your own voluntary selection
that any unsuitable association becomes injurious
and dangerous. Notwithstanding, however, that
it may be laid down as a general rule that the wise
will prefer the society of the wise, the educated
that of the educated, it sometimes happens that highly
intellectual and cultivated persons select, absolutely
by their own choice, the frivolous and the ignorant
for their constant companions, though at the same time
they may refer to others for counsel, and direction,
and sympathy. Is this choice, however, made on
account of the frivolity and ignorance of the persons
so selected? I am sure it is not. I am sure,
if you inquire into every case of this kind, you will
see for yourself that it is not. Such persons
are thus preferred, sometimes on account of the fairness
of their features, sometimes on account of the sweetness
of their temper, sometimes for the lightheartedness
which creates an atmosphere of joyousness around them,
and insures their never officiously obtruding the
cares and anxieties of this life upon their companions.
Do not, then, attribute to want of intellect those
attractions which only need to be combined with intellect
to become altogether irresistible, but which, however,
I must confess, it may have an insensible influence
in destroying. For instance, the sweetness, of
the temper is seldom increased by increased refinement
of mind; on the contrary, the latter serves to quicken
susceptibility and render perception more acute; and
therefore, unless it is guarded by an accompanying
increase of self-control, it will naturally produce
an alteration for the worse in the temper. This
is one point. For the next, personal beauty may
be injured by want of exercise, neglect of health,
or of due attention to becoming apparel, which errors
are often the results of an injudicious absorption
in intellectual pursuits. Lastly, a thoughtful
nature and habit of mind must of course induce a quicker
perception, and a more frequent contemplation of the
sorrows and dangers of this mortal life, than the
volatile and thoughtless nature and habit of mind have
any temptation to; and thus persons of the former
class are often induced, sometimes usefully, sometimes
unnecessarily, but perhaps always disagreeably, to
intrude the melancholy subjects of their own meditations
upon the persons with whom they associate, often making
their society evidently unpleasant, and, if possible,
carefully avoided. It is, however, unjust to
attribute any of the inconveniences just enumerated
to those intellectual pursuits which, if properly pursued,
would prove effectual in improving, nay, even in bestowing,
intelligence, prudence, tact, and self-control, and
thus preserving from those very inconveniences to
which I have referred above. Be it your care
to win praise and approbation for the habits of life
you have adopted, by showing that such are the effects
they produce in you. By your conduct you may
prove that, if your perceptions have been quickened
and your sensibilities rendered more acute, you have
at the same time, and by the same means, acquired
sufficient self-control to prevent others from suffering
ill-effects from that which would in such a case be
only a fancied improvement in yourself. Further,
let it be your care to bestow more attention than
before on that external form which you are now learning
to estimate as the living, breathing type of that which
is within. Finally, while your increased thoughtfulness
and the developed powers of your reason will give
you an insight in dangers and evils which others never
dream of, be careful to employ your knowledge only
for the improvement or preservation of the happiness
of your friends. Guard within your own breast,
however you may long for the relief of giving a free
vent to your feelings, any sorrows or any apprehensions
that cannot be removed or obviated by their revelation.
Thus will you unite in yourself the combined advantages
of the frivolous and intellectual; your society will
be loved and sought after as much as that of the first
can be, (only, however, by the wise and good my
assertion extends no further,) and you will at the
same time be respected, consulted, and imitated, as
the clever and educated can alone be.
I have hitherto spoken only of the
unmarried among your acquaintance: let us now
turn to the wives and mothers, and observe, with pity,
the position of her, who, though she may be well and
fondly loved, is felt at the same time to be incapable
of bestowing sympathy or counsel. It is indeed,
perhaps, the wife and mother who is the best loved
who will at the same time be made the most deeply
to feel her powerlessness to appreciate, to advise,
or to guide: the very anxiety to hide from her
that it is the society, the opinion, and the sympathy
of others which is really valued, because it alone
can be appreciative, will make her only the more sensibly
aware that she is deficient in the leading qualities
that inspire respect and produce usefulness.
She must constantly feel her unfitness
to take any part in the society that suits the taste
of her more intellectual husband and children.
She must observe that they are obliged to bring down
their conversation to her level, that they are obliged
to avoid, out of deference to, and affection for her,
all those varied topics which make social intercourse
a useful as well as an agreeable exercise of the mental
powers, an often more improving arena of friendly
discussion than perhaps any professed debating society
could be. No such employment of social intercourse
can, however, be attempted when one of the heads of
the household is uneducated and unintellectual.
The weather must form the leading, and the only safe
topic of conversation; for the gossip of the neighbourhood,
commented on in the freedom and security of family
life, imparts to all its members a petty censoriousness
of spirit that can never afterwards be entirely thrown
off. Then the education of the children of such
a mother as I have described must be carried on under
the most serious disadvantages. Money in abundance
may be at her disposal, but that is of little avail
when she has no power of forming a judgment as to
the abilities of the persons so lavishly paid for forming
the minds of the children committed to their charge:
the precious hours of their youth will thus be very
much wasted; and when self-education, in some few
cases, comes in time to repair these early neglects,
there must be reproachful memories of that ignorance
which placed so many needless difficulties in the
path to knowledge and advancement.
It is not, however, those alone who
are bound by the ties of wife and mother, whose intellectual
cultivation may exercise a powerful influence in their
social relations: each woman in proportion to
her mental and moral qualifications possesses a useful
influence over all those within her reach. Moral
excellence alone effects much: the amiable, the
loving, and the unselfish almost insensibly dissuade
from evil, and persuade to good, those who have the
good fortune to be within the reach of such soothing
influences. Their persuasions are, however, far
more powerful when vivacity, sweetness, and affection
are given weight to by strong natural powers of mind,
united with high cultivation. Of all the “talents”
committed to our stewardship, none will require to
be so strictly accounted for as those of intellect.
The influence that we might have acquired over our
fellow-men, thus winning them over to think of and
practise “all things lovely and of good report,”
if it be neglected, is surely a sin of deeper dye
than the misemployment of mere money. The disregard
of those intellectual helps which we might have bestowed
on others, and thus have extensively benefited the
cause of religion, one of whose most useful handmaids
is mental cultivation, will surely be among the most
serious of the sins of omission that will swell our
account at the last day. The intellectual Dives
will not be punished only for the misuse of his riches,
as in the case of a Byron or a Shelley; the neglect
of their improvement, by employing them for the good
of others, will equally disqualify him for hearing
the final commendation of “Well done, good and
faithful servant." This, however, is not a point
on which I need dwell at any length while writing
to you: you are aware, fully, I believe, of the
responsibilities entailed upon you by the natural
powers you possess. It is from worldly motives
of dissuasion, and not from any ignorance with regard
to that which you know to be your duty, that you may
be at times induced to slacken your exertions in the
task of self-improvement. You will not be easily
persuaded that it is not your duty to educate yourself;
the doubt that will be more easily instilled into
your mind will be respecting the possible injury to
your happiness or worldly advancement by the increase
of your knowledge and the improvement of your mind.
Look, then, again around you, and see whether the
want of employment confers happiness, carefully distinguishing,
however, between that happiness which results from
natural constitution and that which results from acquired
habits. It is true that many of the careless,
thoughtless girls you are acquainted with enjoy more
happiness, such as they are capable of, in mornings
and evenings spent at their worsted-work, than the
most diligent cultivation of the intellect can ever
insure to you. But the question is, not whether
the butterfly can contentedly dispense with the higher
instincts of the industrious, laborious, and useful
bee, but whether the superior creature could content
itself with the insipid and objectless pursuits of
the lower one. The mind requires more to fill
it in proportion to the largeness of its grasp:
hope not, therefore, that you could find either their
peace or their satisfaction in the purse-netting,
embroidering lives of your thoughtless companions.
Even to them, be sure, hours of deep weariness must
come: no human being, whatever her degree on
the scale of mind, is capable of being entirely satisfied
with a life without object and without improvement.
Remember, however, that it is not at all by the comparative
contentedness of their mere animal existence that
you can test the qualifications of a habit of life
to constitute your own happiness; that must stand on
a far different basis.
In the case of a very early marriage,
there may be indeed no opportunity for the weariness
of which I have above spoken. The uneducated and
uncultivated girl who is removed from the school-room
to undertake the management of a household may not
fall an early victim to ennui; that fate is
reserved for her later days. Household details
(which are either degrading or elevating according
as they are attended to as the favourite occupations
of life, or, on the other hand, skilfully managed
as one of its inevitable and important duties) often
fill the mind even more effectually to the exclusion
of better things than worsted-work or purse-netting
would have done. The young wife, if ignorant and
uneducated, soon sinks from the companion of her husband,
the guide and example of her children, into the mere
nurse and housekeeper. A clever upper-servant
would, in nine cases out of ten, fulfil all the offices
which engross her time and interest a thousand times
better than she can herself. For her, however,
even for the nurse and housekeeper, the time of ennui
must come; for her it is only deferred. The children
grow up, and are scattered to a distance; requiring
no further mechanical cares, and neither employing
time nor exciting the same kind of interest as formerly.
The mere household details, however carefully husbanded
and watchfully self-appropriated, will not afford
amusement throughout the whole day; and, utterly unprovided
with subjects for thought or objects of occupation,
life drags on a wearisome and burdensome chain.
We have all seen specimens of this, the most hopeless
and pitiable kind of ennui, when the time of
acquiring habits of employment, and interest in intellectual
pursuits is entirely gone, and resources can neither
be found in the present, or hoped for in the future.
Hard is the fate of those who are bound to such victims
by the ties of blood and duty. They must suffer,
secondhand, all the annoyances which ennui inflicts
on its wretched victims. No natural sweetness
of temper can long resist the depressing influence
of dragging on from day to day an uninterested, unemployed
existence; and besides, those who can find no occupation
for themselves will often involuntarily try to lessen
their own discomfort by disturbing the occupations
of others. This species of ennui, of which
the sufferings begin in middle-life and often last
to extreme old age, (as they have no tendency to shorten
existence,) is far more pitiable than that from which
the girl or the young woman suffers before her matron-life
begins. Then hope is always present to cheer her
on to endurance; and there is, besides, at that time,
a consciousness of power and energy to change the
habits of life into such as would enable her to brave
all future fears of ennui. It is of great
importance, however, that these habits should be acquired
immediately; for though they may be equally possible
of acquisition in the later years of youth, there are
in the mean time other dangerous resources which may
tempt the unoccupied and uninterested girl into their
excitements. Those whose minds are of too active
and vivacious a nature to live on without an object,
may too easily find one in the dangerous and selfish
amusements of coquetry in the seeking for
admiration, and its enjoyment when obtained.
The very woman who might have been the most happy herself
in the enjoyment of intellectual pursuits, and the
most extensively useful to others, is often the one
who, from misdirected energies and feeling, will pursue
most eagerly, be most entirely engrossed by, the delights
of being admired and loved by those to whom in return
she is entirely indifferent. Having once acquired
the habit of enjoying the selfish excitement, the
simple, safe, and ennobling employments of self-cultivation,
of improving others, are laid aside for ever, because
the power of enjoying them is lost. Do not be
offended if I say that this is the fate I fear for
you. At the present moment, the two paths of
life are open before you; youth, excitement, the example
of your companions, the easiness and the pleasure
of the worldling’s career, make it full of attractions
for you. Besides, your conscience does not perhaps
speak with sufficient plainness as to its being the
career of the worldling; you can find admirers enough,
and give up to them all the young, fresh interests
of your active mind, all the precious time of your
early youth, without ever frequenting the ball-room,
or the theatre, or the race-course, nay,
even while professedly avoiding them on principle:
we know, alas! that the habits of the selfish and
heartless coquette are by no means incompatible with
an outward profession of religion.
It is to save you from any such dangers
that I earnestly press upon you the deliberate choice
and immediate adoption of a course of life in which
the systematic, conscientious improvement of your mind
should serve as an efficacious preservation from all
dangerously exciting occupations. You should
prepare yourself for this deliberate choice by taking
a clear and distinct view of your object and your motives.
Can you say with sincerity that they are such as the
following, that of acquiring influence
over your fellow-creatures, to be employed for the
advancement of their eternal interests that
of glorifying God, and of obtaining the fulfilment
of that promise, “They that turn many to righteousness
shall shine as the stars for ever and ever." If
this be the case, your choice must be a right and
a noble one; and you will never have reason to repent
of it, either in this world or the next. Among
the collateral results of this conscientious choice
will be a certain enjoyment of life, more independent
of either health or external circumstances than any
other can be, and the lofty self-respect arising from
a consciousness of never having descended to unworthy
methods of amusement and excitement.
To attain, however, to the pleasures
of intellectual pursuits, and to acquire from them
the advantages of influence and respect, is quite a
distinct thing from the promiscuous and ill-regulated
habits of reading pursued by most women. Women
who read at all, generally read more than men; but,
from the absence of any intellectual system, they neither
acquire well-digested information, nor, what is of
far more importance, are the powers of their mind
strengthened by exercise. I have known women
read for six hours a day, and, after all, totally incapable
of enlightening the inquirer upon any point of history
or literature; far less would they be competent to
exercise any process of reasoning, with relation either
to the business of life or the occurrences of its social
intercourse. How many difficulties and annoyances
in the course of every-day life might be avoided altogether
if women were early exercised in the practice of bringing
their reasoning powers to bear upon the small duties
and the petty trials that await every hour of our
existence! Their studies are altogether useless,
unless they are pursued with the view of acquiring
a sounder judgment, and quicker and more accurate
perceptions of the every-day details of business and
duty. That knowledge is worse than useless which
does not lead to wisdom. To women, more especially,
as their lives can never be so entirely speculative
as those of a few learned men may justifiably be, the
great object in study is the manner in which they
can best bring to bear each acquisition of knowledge
upon the improvement of their own character or that
of others. The manner in which they may most effectually
promote the welfare of their fellow-creatures, and
how, as the most effectual means to that end, they
can best contribute to their daily and hourly happiness
and improvement, these, and such as these,
ought to be the primary objects of all intellectual
culture. Mere reading would never accomplish
this; mere reading is no more an intellectual employment
than worsted-work or purse-netting. It is true
that none of these latter employments are without
their uses; they may all occupy the mind in some degree,
and soothe it, if it were only by creating a partial
distraction from the perpetual contemplation of petty
irritating causes of disquiet. But while we acknowledge
that they are all good in their way for people who
can attain nothing better, we must be careful not to
fall into the mistake of confounding the best of them,
viz. mere reading, with intellectual pursuits:
if we do so, the latter will be involved in the depreciation
that often falls upon the former when it is found neither
to improve the mind or the character, nor to provide
satisfactory sources of enjoyment.
There is a great deal of truth in
the well-known assertion of Hobbes, however paradoxical
it may at first appear: “If I had read as
much as others, I should be as ignorant.”
One cannot but feel its applicability in the case
of some of our acquaintance, who have been for years
mere readers at the rate of five or six hours a day.
One of these same hours daily well applied would have
made them more agreeable companions and more useful
members of society than a whole life of their ordinary
reading.
There must be a certain object of
attainment, or there will be no advance: unless
we have decided what the point is that we desire to
reach, we never can know whether the wind blows favourably
for us or not.
In my next letter, I mean to enter
fully into many details as to the best methods of
study; but during the remainder of this, I shall confine
myself to a general view of the nature of that foundation
which must first be laid, before any really valuable
or durable superstructure can be erected.
The first point, then, to which I
wish your attention to be directed is the improvement
of the mind itself, point of far more importance
than the furniture you put into it. This improvement
can only be effected by exercising deep thought with
respect to all your reading, assimilating the ideas
and the facts provided by others until they are blended
into oneness with the forms of your own mind.
During your hours of study, it is
of the utmost importance that no page should ever
be perused without carefully subjecting its contents
to the thinking process of which I have spoken:
unless your intellect is actively employed while you
are professedly studying, your time is worse than
wasted, for you are acquiring habits of idleness, that
will be most difficult to lay aside.
You should always be engaged in some
work that affords considerable exercise to the mind some
book over the sentences of which you are obliged to
pause, to ponder some kind of study that
will cause the feeling of almost physical fatigue;
when, however, this latter sensation comes on, you
must rest; the brain is of too delicate a texture to
bear the slightest over-exertion with impunity.
Premature decay of its powers, and accompanying bodily
weakness and suffering, will inflict upon you a severe
penalty for any neglect of the symptoms of mental
exhaustion. Your mind, however, like your body,
ought to be exercised to the very verge of fatigue;
you cannot otherwise be certain that there has been
exercise sufficient to give increased strength and
energy to the mental or physical powers.
The more vigorous such exercise is,
the shorter will be the time you can support it.
Perhaps even an hour of close thinking would be too
much for most women; the object, however, ought not
to be so much the quantity as the quality of the exercise.
If your peculiarly delicate and sensitive organization
cannot support more than a quarter of an hour’s
continuous and concentrated thought, you must content
yourself with that. Experience will soon prove
to you that even the few minutes thus employed will
give you a great superiority over the six-hours-a-day
readers of your acquaintance, and will serve as a solid
and sufficient foundation for all the lighter superstructure
which you will afterwards lay upon it. This latter,
in its due place, I should consider as of nearly as
much importance as the foundation itself; for, keeping
steadily in view that usefulness is to be the primary
object of all your studies, you must devote much more
time and attention to the embellishing, because refining
branches of literature, than would be necessary for
those whose office is not so peculiarly that of soothing
and pleasing as woman’s is. Even these lighter
studies, however, must be subjected to the same reflective
process as the severer ones, or they will never become
an incorporate part of the mind itself: they will,
on the contrary, if this process is neglected, stand
out, as the knowledge of all uneducated people does,
in abrupt and unharmonizing prominence.
It is not to be so much your object
to acquire the power of quoting poetry or prose, or
to be acquainted with the names of the authors of
celebrated fictions and their details, as to be imbued
with the spirit of heroism, generosity, self-sacrifice, in
short, the practical love of the beautiful which every
universally-admired fiction, whether it have a professedly
moral tendency or not, is calculated to excite.
The refined taste, the accurate perceptions, the knowledge
of the human heart, and the insight into character,
which intellectual culture can highly improve, even
if it cannot create, are to be the principal results
as well as the greatest pleasures to which you are
to look forward. In study, as in every other
important pursuit, the immediate results those
that are most tangible and encouraging to the faint
and easily disheartened are exactly those
which are least deserving of anxiety. A couple
of hours’ reading of poetry in the morning might
qualify you to act the part of oracle that very evening
to a whole circle of inquirers; it might enable you
to tell the names, and dates, and authors of a score
of remarkable poems: and this, besides, is a
species of knowledge which every one can appreciate.
It is not, however, comparable in kind to the refinement
of mind, the elevation of thought, the deepened sense
of the beautiful, which a really intellectual study
of the same works would impart or increase. I
do not wish to depreciate the good offices of the
memory; it is very valuable as a handmaid to the higher
powers of the intellect. I have, however, generally
observed that where much attention has been devoted
to the recollection of names, facts, dates, &c., the
higher species of intellectual cultivation have been
neglected: attention to them, on the other hand,
would never involve any neglect of the advantages
of memory; for a cultivated intellect can suggest
to itself a thousand associative links by which it
can be assisted and rendered much more extensively
useful than a mere verbal memory could ever be.
The more of these links (called by Coleridge hooks-and-eyes)
you can invent for yourself, the more will your memory
become an intellectual faculty. By such means,
also, you can retain possession of all the information
with which your reading may furnish you, without paying
such exclusive attention to those tangible and immediate
results of study as would deprive you of the more solid
and permanent ones. These latter consist, as I
said before, in the improvement of the mind itself,
and not in its furniture. A modern author has
remarked, that the improvement of the mind is like
the increase of money from compound interest in a
bank, as every fresh increase, however trifling, serves
as a new link with which to connect still further
acquisitions. This remark is strikingly illustrative
of the value of an intellectual kind of memory.
Every new idea will serve as a “hook-and-eye,”
with which you can fasten together the past and the
future; every new fact intellectually remembered will
serve as an illustration of some formerly-established
principle, and, instead of burdening you with the
separate difficulty of remembering itself, will assist
you in remembering other things.
It is a universal law, that action
is in inverse proportion to power; and therefore the
deeply-thinking mind will find a much greater difficulty
in drawing out its capabilities on short notice, and
arranging them in the most effective position, than
a mind of mere cleverness, of merely acquired, and
not assimilated knowledge. This difficulty, however,
need not be permanent, though at first it is inevitable.
A woman’s mind, too, is less liable to it; as,
however thoughtful her nature may be, this thoughtfulness
is seldom strengthened by habit. She is seldom
called upon to concentrate the powers of her mind
on any intellectual pursuits that require intense and
long-continuous thought. The few moments of intense
thought which I recommend to you will never add to
your thoughtfulness of nature any habits that will
require serious difficulty to overcome. It is
also, unless a man be in public life, of more importance
to a woman than to him to possess action, viz.
great readiness in the use and disposal of whatever
intellectual powers she may possess. Besides this,
you must remember that a want of quickness and facility
in recollection, of ease and distinctness in expression,
is quite as likely to arise from desultory and wandering
habits of thought as from the slowness referable to
deep reflection. Most people find difficulty in
forcing their thoughts to concentrate themselves on
any given subject, or in afterwards compelling them
to take a comprehensive glance of every feature of
that subject. Both these processes require much
the same habits of mind: the latter, perhaps,
though apparently the more discursive in its nature,
demands a still greater degree of concentration than
the former.
When the mind is set in motion, it
requires a stronger exertion to confine its movements
within prescribed limits than when it is steadily
fixed on one given point. For instance, it would
be easier to meditate on the subject of patriotism,
bringing before the mind every quality of the heart
and head that this virtue would have a tendency to
develop, than to take in, at one comprehensive glance,
the different qualities of those several individuals
who have been most remarked for the virtue. Unless
the thoughts were under strong and habitual control,
they would infallibly wander to other peculiarities
of these same individuals, unconnected with the given
subject, to curious facts in their lives, to contemporary
characters, &c.; thus loitering by the way-side in
amusing, but here unprofitable reflection: for
every exercise of thought like that which I have described
is only valuable in proportion to the degree of accuracy
with which we can contemplate with one instantaneous
glance, laid out upon a map as it were, those features
only belonging to the given subject, and keeping
out of view all foreign ones. There is perhaps
no faculty of the mind more susceptible of evident,
as it were tangible, improvement than this: besides,
the exercise of mind which it procures us is one of
the highest intellectual pleasures; you should therefore
immediately and perseveringly devote your efforts
and attention to seek out the best mode of cultivating
it. Even the reading of books which require deep
and continuous thought is only a preparation for this
higher exercise of the faculties a useful,
indeed a necessary preparation, because it promotes
the habit of fixing the attention and concentrating
the powers of the mind on any given point. In
assimilating the thoughts of others, however, with
your own mind and memory, the mind itself remains
nearly passive; it is as the wax that receives the
impression, and must for this purpose be in a suitable
state of impressibility. In exact proportion to
the suitableness of this state are the clearness and
the beauty of the impression; but even when most true
and most deep, its value is extrinsic and foreign:
it is only when the mind begins to act for itself
and weaves out of its own materials a new and native
manufacture, that the real intellectual existence
can be said to commence. While, therefore, I
repeat my advice to you, to devote some portion of
every day to such reading as will require the strongest
exertion of your powers of thought, I wish, at the
same time, to remind you that even this, the highest
species of reading, is only to be considered
as a means to an end: though productive of higher
and nobler enjoyments than the unintellectual can
conceive, it is nothing more than the stepping-stone
to the genuine pleasures of pure intellect, to the
ennobling sensation of directing, controlling, and
making the most elevated use of the powers of an immortal
mind.
To woman, the power of abstracted
thought, and the enjoyment derived from it, is even
more valuable than to man. His path lies in active
life; and the earnest craving for excitement, for action,
which is the characteristic of all powerful natures,
is in man easily satisfied: it is satisfied in
the sphere of his appointed duty; “he must go
forth, and resolutely dare.” Not so the
woman, whose scene of action is her quiet home:
her virtues must be passive ones; and with every qualification
for successful activity, she is often compelled to
chain down her vivid imagination to the most monotonous
routine of domestic life. When she is entirely
debarred from external activity, a restlessness of
nature, that can find no other mode of indulgence,
will often invent for itself imaginary trials and
imaginary difficulties: hence the petty quarrels,
the mean jealousies, which disturb the peace of many
homes that might have been tranquil and happy if the
same activity of thought and feeling had been early
directed into right channels. A woman who finds
real enjoyment in the improvement of her mind will
neither have time nor inclination for tormenting her
servants and her family; an avocation in which many
really affectionate and professedly religious women
exhaust those superfluous energies which, under wise
direction, might have dispensed peace and happiness
instead of disturbance and annoyance. A woman
who has acquired proper control over her thoughts,
and can find enjoyment in their intellectual exercise,
will have little temptation to allow them to dwell
on mean and petty grievances. That admirable Swedish
proverb, “It is better to rule your house with
your head than with your heels,” will be exemplified
in all her practice. Her well-regulated and comprehensive
mind (and comprehensiveness of mind is as necessary
to the skilful management of a household as to the
government of an empire) will be able to contrive
such systems of domestic arrangement as will allot
exactly the suitable works at the suitable times to
each member of the establishment: no one will
be over-worked, no one idle; there will not only be
a place for every thing, and every thing in its place,
but there will also be a time for every thing, and
every thing will have its allotted time. Such
a system once arranged by a master-mind, and still
superintended by a steady and intelligent, but not
incessant inspection, raises the character
of the governed as well as that of her who governs:
they are never brought into collision with each other;
and the inferior, whose manual expertness may far
exceed that to which the superior has even the capability
of attaining, will nevertheless look up with admiring
respect to those powers of arrangement, and that steady
and uncapriciously-exerted authority, which so facilitate
and lighten the task of obedience and dependence.
This mode of managing a household, even if they found
it possible, would of course be disliked by those
who, having no higher resources, would find the day
hang heavy on their hands unless they watched all
the details of household work, and made every action
of every servant result from their own immediate interference,
instead of from an enlarged and uniformly operating
system.
This subject has brought me back to
the point from which I began, the practical
utility of a cultivated intellect, and the additional
power and usefulness it confers, raising
its possessor above all the mean and petty cares of
daily life, and enabling her to impart ennobling influences
to its most trifling details.
The power of thought, which I have
so earnestly recommended you to cultivate, is even
still more practical, and still more useful, when
considered relatively to the most important business
of life that of religion. Prayer and
meditation, and that communion with the unseen world
which imparts a foretaste of its happiness and glory,
are enjoyed and profited by in proportion to the power
of controlling the thoughts and of exercising the
mind. Having a firm trust, that to you every other
object is considered subordinate to that of advancement
in the spiritual life, it must be a very important
consideration whether, and how far, the self-education
you may bestow on yourself will help you towards its
attainment. In this point of view there can be
no doubt that the mental cultivation recommended in
this letter has a much more advantageous influence
upon your religious life than any other manner of spending
your time. Besides the many collateral tendencies
of such pursuits to favour that growth in grace which
I trust will ever remain the principal object of your
desires, experience will soon show you that every
improvement in the reflective powers, every additional
degree of control over the movements of the mind,
may find an immediate exercise in the duties of religion.
The wandering thoughts which are habitually
excluded from your hours of study will not be likely
to intrude frequently or successfully during your
hours of devotion; the habit of concentrating all the
powers of your mind on one particular subject, and
then developing all its features and details, will
require no additional effort for the pious heart to
direct it into the lofty employments of meditation
on eternal things and communion with our God and Saviour:
at the same time, the employments of prayer and meditation
will in their turn react upon your merely secular
studies, and facilitate your progress in them by giving
you habits of singleness of mind and steadiness of
mental purpose.