“Whatever may be the customs
and laws of a country, women always give the tone
to morals. Whether slaves or free, they reign,
because their empire is that of the affections.
This influence, however, is more or less salutary,
according to the degree of esteem in which they are
held: they make men what they are.
It seems as though Nature had made man’s intellect
depend upon their dignity, as she has made his happiness
depend upon their virtue. This, then, is the law
of eternal justice, man cannot degrade
woman without himself falling into degradation:
he cannot elevate her without at the same time elevating
himself. Let us cast our eyes over the globe!
Let us observe those two great divisions of the human
race, the East and the West. Half the old world
remains in a state of inanity, under the oppression
of a rude civilization: the women there are slaves;
the other advances in equalization and intelligence:
the women there are free and honoured.
“If we wish, then, to know the
political and moral condition of a state, we must
ask what rank women hold in it. Their influence
embraces the whole life. A wife, a
mother, two magical words, comprising the
sweetest sources of man’s felicity. Theirs
is the reign of beauty, of love, of reason. Always
a reign! A man takes counsel with his wife; he
obeys his mother; he obeys her long after she has ceased
to live, and the ideas which he has received from
her become principles stronger even than his passions.
“The reality of the power is
not disputed; but it may be objected that it is confined
in its operation to the family circle: as if the
aggregate of families did not constitute the nation!
The man carries with him to the forum the notions
which the woman has discussed with him by the domestic
hearth. His strength there realizes what her gentle
insinuations inspired. It is sometimes urged as
matter of complaint that the business of women is
confined to the domestic arrangements of the household:
and it is not recollected that from the household of
every citizen issue forth the errors and prejudices
which govern the world!
“If, then, there be an incontestable
fact, it is the influence of women: an influence
extended, with various modifications, through the whole
of life. Such being the case, the question arises,
by what inconceivable negligence a power of universal
operation has been overlooked by moralists, who, in
their various plans for the amelioration of mankind,
have scarcely deigned to mention this potent agent.
Yet evidence, historical and parallel, proves that
such negligence has lost to mankind the most influential
of all agencies. The fact of its existence cannot
be disputed; it is, therefore, of the greatest importance
that its nature should be rightly understood, and
that it be directed to right objects."
It would not be uninteresting to trace
the action and reaction by which women have degraded
and been degraded alternately the source
and the victims of mistaken social principles; but
it would be foreign to the design and compass of this
work to do so. The subject, indeed, would afford
matter for a philosophical treatise of deep interest,
rather than for a chapter of a small work. A
rapid historical sketch, and a few deductions which
seem to bear upon the main point, are all that can
be here attempted.
The gospel announced on this, as on
every other subject, a grand comprehensive principle,
which it was to be the work of ages (perhaps of eternity)
to develop. The rescue of this degraded half of
the human race was henceforth the ascertained will
of the Almighty. But a long series of years were
to elapse before this will worked out its issues.
Its decrees, with the noble doctrines of which it
formed a part, lay buried beneath the ruins of human
intellect. But they were only buried, not destroyed;
and rose, like wildflowers on a ruined edifice, to
adorn the irregularity which they could not conceal.
The fantastic institutions of chivalry which it is
now the fashion to deride (how unjustly!) were among
the first scions of this plant of heavenly origin.
They bore the impress of heaven, faint and distorted
indeed, but not to be mistaken! Devotion to an
ideal good, self-sacrifice, subjugation
of selfish and sensual feelings; wherever these principles
are found, disguised, disfigured though they be, they
are not of the earth, earthly. They,
like the fabled amaranth, are plants which are not
indigenous here below! The seeds must come from
above, from the source of all that is pure, of all
that is good! Of these principles the gospel was
the remote source: women were the disseminators.
“Shut up in their castellated towers, they civilized
the warriors who despised their weakness, and rendered
less barbarous the passions and prejudices which themselves
shared." It was they who directed the savage passions
and brute force of men to an unselfish aim, the defence
of the weak, and added to courage the only virtue
then recognised humanity. “Thus
chivalry prepared the way for law, and civilization
had its source in gallantry."
At this epoch, the influence of women
was decidedly beneficial; happy for them and for society
if it had continued to be so! If we attempt to
trace the source of this influence, we shall find it
in the intellectual equality of the two sexes; equally
ignorant of what we call knowledge, the respect due
by men to virtue and beauty was not checked by any
disdain of real or fancied superiority on their part.
The intellectual exercises (chiefly
imaginative) of the time, so far from forming a barrier
between the two sexes, were a bond of union. The
song of the minstrel was devoted to the praise of beauty,
and paid by her smile. The spirit of the age,
as imbodied in these effusions, is the best proof
of the beneficial influence exercised over that age
by our sex. In them, the name of woman is not
associated in the degrading catalogue of man’s
pleasures, with his bottle and his horse, but is coupled
with all that is fair and pure in nature, the
fields, the birds, the flowers; or high in virtue
or sentiment, with honour, glory, self-sacrifice.
To the age of chivalry succeeded the
revival of letters; and (strange to say!) this revival
was any thing but advantageous to the cause of women.
Men found other paths to glory than the exercise of
valour afforded, and paths into which women were forbidden
to follow them. Into these newly-discovered regions,
women were not allowed to penetrate, and men returned
thence with real or affected contempt for their unintellectual
companions, without having attained true wisdom enough
to know how much they would gain by their enlightenment.
The advance of intelligence in men
not being met by a corresponding advance in women,
the latter lost their equilibrium in the social balance.
Honour, glory, were no longer attached to the smile
of beauty. The dethroned sovereigns, from being
imperious, became abject, and sought, by paltry arts,
to perpetuate the empire which was no longer conceded
as a right. Influence they still possessed, but
an influence debased in its character, and changed
in its mode of operation. Instead of being the
objects of devotion of heart, fantastic,
indeed, but high-minded, they became the
mere playthings of the imagination, or worse, the
mere objects of sensual passion. Respect is the
only sure foundation of influence. Women had
ceased to be respected: they therefore ceased
to be beneficially influential. That they retained
another and a worse kind of influence, may be inferred
from the spirit, as imbodied in the literature, of
the period. Fiction no longer sought its heroes
among the lofty in mind and pure in morals its
heroines in spotless virgins and faithful wives.
The reckless voluptuary, the faithless and successful
adulteress, these were the noble beings
whose deeds filled the pages which formed the delight
of the wise and the fair. The ultimate issues
of these grievous errors were most strikingly developed
in the respective courts of Louis XIV. and Charles
II., where they reached their climax. The vicious
influence of which we have spoken was then at its
height, and the degradation of women had brought on
its inevitable consequence, the degradation of men.
With some few exceptions, (such exceptions, indeed,
prove rules!) we trace this evil influence in the
contempt of virtue, public and private; in the base
passions, the narrow and selfish views peculiar to
degraded women, and reflected on the equally degraded
men whom such women could have power to charm.
A change of opinions and of social
arrangements has long been operating, which ought
entirely to have abrogated these evils. That they
have not done so is owing to a grand mistake.
Women having recovered their rights, moral and intellectual,
have resumed their importance in the eye of reason:
they have long been the ornaments of society, which
from them derives its tone, and it has become too
much the main object of their education to cultivate
the accomplishments which may make them such.
A twofold injury has arisen from this mistaken aim;
it has blinded women as to the true nature and end
of their existence, and has excited a spirit of worldly
ambition opposed to the devoted unselfishness necessary
for its accomplishment. This is the error of the
unthinking the reflecting have fallen into
another, but not less serious one. The coarse,
but expressive satire of Luther, “That the human
mind is like an intoxicated man on horseback, if
he is set up on one side, he falls off on the other,”
was never more fully justified than on this subject.
Because it is perceived that women have a dignity
and value greater than society or themselves have discovered, because
their talents and virtues place them on a footing of
equality with men, it is maintained that their present
sphere of action is too contracted a one, and that
they ought to share in the public functions of the
other sex. Equality, mental and physical, is proclaimed! This
is matter too ludicrous to be treated anywhere but in a professed satire; in
sober earnest, it may be asked, upon what grounds so extraordinary a doctrine is
built up! Were women allowed to act out these principles, it would soon
appear that one great range of duty had been left unprovided for in the schemes
of Providence; such an omission would be without parallel. Two principal
points only can here be brought forward, which oppose this plan at the very
outset; they are
1st. Placing the two sexes in
the position of rivals, instead of coadjutors, entailing
the diminution of female influence.
2d. Leaving the important duties
of woman only in the hands of that part of the sex
least able to perform them efficiently.
The principle of divided labour seems
to be a maxim of the Divine government, as regards
the creature. It is only by a concentration of
powers to one point, that so feeble a being as man
can achieve great results. Why should we wish
to set aside this salutary law, and disturb the beautiful
simplicity of arrangement which has given to man the
power, and to woman the influence, to second the plans
of Almighty goodness? They are formed to be co-operators,
not rivals, in this great work; and rivals they would
undoubtedly become, if the same career of public ambition
and the same rewards of success were open to both.
Woman, at present, is the regulating power of the great
social machine, retaining, through the very exclusion
complained of, the power to judge of questions by
the abstract rules of right and wrong a
power seldom possessed by those whose spirits are
chafed by opposition and heated by personal contest.
The second resulting evil is a grave
one, though, in treating of it, also, it is difficult
to steer clear of ludicrous associations. The
political career being open to women, it is natural
to suppose that all the most gifted of the sex would
press forward to confer upon their country the benefit
of their services, and to reap for themselves the
distinction which such services would obtain; the duties
hitherto considered peculiar to the sex would sink
to a still lower position in public estimation than
they now hold, and would be abandoned to those least
able conscientiously to fulfil them. The combination
of legislative and maternal duties would indeed be
a difficult task, and, of course, the least ostentatious
would be sacrificed.
Yet women have a mission! ay, even
a political mission of immense importance! which they
will best fulfil by moving in the sphere assigned
them by Providence: not comet-like, wandering
in irregular orbits, dazzling indeed by their brilliancy,
but terrifying by their eccentric movements and doubtful
utility. That the sphere in which they are required
to move is no mean one, and that its apparent contraction
arises only from a defect of intellectual vision, it
is the object of the succeeding chapters to prove.