“The education of women is more
important than that of men, since that of men is always
their work."
We are now to consider how far the
present systems of female education tend to the great
end here mentioned the truth of which, reflection
and experience combine to prove. Great is the
boast of the progress of education; great would be
the indignation excited by a doubt as to the fact
of this progress. “A simple question will
express this doubt more forcibly, and place this subject
in a stronger light: ’Are women qualified
to educate men?’ If they are not, no available
progress has been made. In the very heart of
civilized Europe, are women what they ought to be?
and does not their education prove how little we know
the consequences of neglecting it?" Is it possible
to believe, that upon their training depends the happiness
of families the well-being of nations?
The selfishness, political and social; the forgetfulness
of patriotism; the unregulated tempers and low ambition
of the one sex, testify but too clearly how little
has been done by the vaunted education of the other.
For education is useless, or at least neutral, if
it do not bear upon duty, as well as upon cultivation,
if it do not expand the soul, while it enlightens
the intellect.
How far expansion of soul, or enlightenment
of intellect, is to be expected from the present systems
of female education, we have seen in effects, let
us now go back to causes.
It is unnecessary to start from the
prejudice of ignorance; it is now universally acknowledged
that women have a right to education, and that they
must be educated. We smile with condescending
pity at the blinded state of our respected grandmothers,
and thank God that we are not as they, with a thanksgiving
as uncalled for as that of the proud Pharisee.
On abstract ground, their education was better than
ours; it was a preparation for their future duties.
It does not affect the question, that their notion
of these duties was entirely confined to the physical
comfort of husbands and children. The defect of
the scheme, as has been argued, was not in rationality,
but in comprehensiveness, a fundamentally
right principle being the basis, it is easy to extend
the application of it indefinitely.
Indiscriminate blame, however, is as invidious as it is useless; if the
fault-finder be not also the fault-mender, the exercise of his powers is, at
best, but a negative benefit. Let us, therefore, enter into a calm
examination of the two principal ramifications, into which education has
insensibly divided itself, as far as the young women of our own country are
concerned; bearing in mind that women can only exercise their true influence,
inasmuch as they are free from worldly-mindedness and egotism, and that,
therefore, no system of education can be good which does not tend to subdue the
selfish and bring out the unselfish principle. The systems alluded to are
these:
1st. The education of accomplishments
for shining in society.
2d. Intellectual education, or that of the mental
powers.
What are the objects of either?
To prepare the young for life; its subsequent trials;
its weighty duties; its inevitable termination?
We will examine the principles on which both these
educations are made to work, and see whether, or how
far, they have any relation to those most called for,
by the future and presumed duties of the educated.
The worldly and the intellectual, alternately objects
of contempt to each other, are equally objects of
pity to the wise, as mistaken in their end, and deceived
as to the means of attaining that end.
The education of accomplishments,
(especially as conducted in this country,) would be
a risible, if it were not a painful subject of contemplation.
Intense labour; immense sums of money; hours, nay,
days of valuable time! What a list of sacrifices!
Now for results. Of the many who thus sacrifice
time, health, and property, how few attain even a
moderate proficiency. The love of beauty, the
power of self-amusement (if obtained) might, in some
degree, justify these sacrifices; they are valuable
ends in themselves, still more valuable from contingent
advantages. There is a deep influence hidden under
these beautiful arts, an influence far
deeper than the world in its thoughtlessness, or the
worldly student in his vanity, ever can know, an
influence refining, consoling, elevating: they
afford a channel into which the lofty aspirings, the
unsatisfied yearnings of the pure and elevated in
soul may pour themselves. The perception of the
beautiful is, next to the love of our fellow-creatures,
the most purely unselfish of all our natural emotions,
and is, therefore, a most powerful engine in the hands
of those who regard selfishness as the giant passion,
whose castle must be stormed before any other conquest
can be begun, and in vanquishing whom all lawful and
innocent weapons should, by turns, be employed.
Let us consider how we employ this
mighty ally of virtue and loftiness of soul.
Into the cultivation of the arts, disguised under the
hackneyed name of accomplishments, does one particle
of intellectuality creep? Would not many of their
ablest professors and most diligent practitioners
stare, with unfeigned wonder, at the supposition, that
the five hours per diem devoted to the piano and the
easel had any other object than to accomplish the
fingers? The idea of their influencing the head
would be ridiculous! of their improving the heart,
preposterous! Yet if both head and heart do not
combine in these pursuits, how can the cultivators
justify to themselves the devotion of time and labour
to their acquisition: time and labour, in many
cases, abstracted from the performance of present,
or preparation for future duties, this is
especially applicable to the middle classes of society.
Let us now turn to the issues of this
education! The accomplishments acquired at such
cost must be displayed. To whom? the possessor
has no delight in them, her immediate relatives,
perhaps, no taste for them; to strangers,
therefore. It is not necessary to make many strictures
on this subject; the rage for universal exhibition
has been written and talked down: in fact, there
are great hopes for the world in this particular;
it has descended so low in the scale of society, that
we trust it will soon be exploded altogether.
The fashion, therefore, need not be here treated of,
but the spirit which it has engendered, and which
will survive its parent. This, as influencing
the female character especially the maternal bears
greatly upon the point in view; to live
for the applause of the foolish many, instead
of the approbation of the well-judging few;
to rule duty, conscience, morals, by a low worldly
standard; to view worldly admiration as the aim, and
worldly aggrandizement as the end of life; these are
a few, a very few, indications of this
spirit, and these have infected every rank, from the
highest to the middle and lower classes of society.
To every thing gentle or refined, to every thing lofty
or dignified in the female character, this spirit
is utterly opposed. Refinement would teach to
shun the vulgar applause which almost insults its object, dignity
would shrink from displaying before heartless crowds
those emotions of the soul, without which all art
is vulgar, and how can women, who have
neither refinement nor dignity, retail that influence
which, rightly used, is to be so great an engine in
the regeneration of society? How can the vain
and selfish exhibitor of paltry acquirements ever mature
into the mother of the Gracchi, the tutelary guardian
of the rising virtues of the commonwealth? It
is in vain to hope it.
Before making any strictures on intellectual
education, it is necessary to enter into a short explanation;
for it is not denied that rightly-cultivated mental
power is a great good. The kind of cultivation
which is here decried is open to the same objections
as the last mentioned. It is the cultivation
of power, with a view, not to the happiness of the
individual, but to her fame; not to her usefulness,
but to her brilliancy. We have only to look round
society, and see that intellect has its vanity as
well as beauty or accomplishments, and that its effects
are more mischievous. It has a hardening, deadening
kind of influence; the more so, that the so-called
mental cultivation frequently consists only of a pedantic
heaping up of information, valuable indeed in itself,
but wanting the principle of combination to make it
useful. Stones and bricks are valuable things,
very valuable; but they are not beautiful or useful
till the hand of the architect has given them a form,
and the cement of the bricklayer has knit them together.
It is a fine expression of Miss Edgeworth, in speaking
of the mind of one of her heroines, “that the
stream of literature had passed over it was apparent
only from its fertility.” Intellectual cultivation
was too long considered as education, properly so
called. The mischief which this error has produced,
is exactly in proportion to the increase of power
thereby communicated to wrong principles.
What, then, is the true object of
female education? The best answer to this question
is, a statement of future duties; for it must never
be forgotten, that if education be not a training
for future duties, it is nothing. The ordinary
lot of woman is to marry. Has any thing in these
educations prepared her to make a wise choice in marriage?
To be a mother! Have the duties of maternity, the
nature of moral influence, been pointed
out to her? Has she ever been enlightened as
to the consequent unspeakable importance of personal
character as the source of influence? In a word,
have any means, direct or indirect, prepared her for
her duties? No! but she is a linguist, a pianist,
graceful, admired. What is that to the purpose?
The grand evil of such an education is the mistaking
means for ends; a common error, and the source of
half the moral confusion existing in the world.
It is the substitution of the part for a whole.
The time when young women enter upon life, is the
one point to which all plans of education tend, and
at which they all terminate: and to prepare them
for that point is the object of their training.
Is it not cruel to lay up for them a store of future
wretchedness, by an education which has no period in
view but one; a very short one, and the most unimportant
and irresponsible of the whole of life? Who that
had the power of choice would choose to buy the admiration
of the world for a few short years with the happiness
of a whole life? the temporary power to dazzle and
to charm, with the growing sense of duties undertaken
only to be neglected, and responsibilities the existence
of which is discovered perhaps simultaneously with
that of an utter inability to meet them? Even
if the mischief stopped here, it would be sufficiently
great; but the craving appetite for applause once
roused, is not so easily lulled again. The moral
energies, pampered by unwholesome nourishment, like
the body when disordered by luxurious dainties, refuse
to perform their healthy functions, and thus is occasioned
a perpetual strife and warfare of internal principles;
the selfish principle still seeking the accustomed
gratification, the conjugal and maternal prompting
to the performance of duty. But duty is a cold
word; and people, in order to find pleasure in duty,
must have been trained to consider their duties as
pleasures. This is a truth at which no one arrives
by inspiration! And in this moral struggle, which,
like all other struggles, produces lassitude and distaste
of all things, the happiness of the individual is
lost, her usefulness destroyed, her influence most
pernicious. For nothing has so injurious an effect
on temper and manners, and consequently on moral influence,
as the want of that internal quiet which can only
arise from the accordance of duty with inclination.
Another most pernicious effect is, the deadening within
the heart of the feeling of love, which is the root
of all influence; for it is an extraordinary fact,
that vanity acts as a sort of refrigerator on all
men on the possessor of it, and on the observer.
Now, if conscientiousness and unselfishness
be the two main supports of women’s beneficial
influence, how can any education be good which has
not the cultivation of these qualities for its first
and principal object? The grand objects, then,
in the education of women, ought to be, the conscience,
the heart, and the affections; the development of those
moral qualities which Providence has so liberally bestowed
upon them, doubtless with a wise and beneficent purpose.
Originators of conscientiousness, how can they implant
what they have never cultivated, nor brought to maturity
in themselves? Sovereigns of the affections, how
can they direct the kingdom whose laws they have not
studied, the springs of whose government are concealed
from them? The conscience and the affections
being primarily enlightened, all other cultivation,
as secondary, is most valuable. Intelligence,
accomplishments, even external elegance, become objects
of importance, as assisting the influence which women
have, and exert too often for unworthy ends, but which
in this case could not fail to be beneficial.
Let the light of intellect and the charm of accomplishments
be the willing handmaids of cultivated and enlightened
conscience. Cultivate the intellect with reference
to the conscience, that views of duty may be comprehensive,
as well as just; cultivate the imagination still with
reference to the conscience, that those inward aspirations
which all indulge, more or less, may be turned from
the gauds of an idle and vain imagination, and shed
over daily life and daily duty the halo of a poetic
influence; cultivate the manners, that the qualities
of heart and head may have an additional auxiliary
in obtaining that influence by which a mighty regeneration
is to be worked. The issues of such an education
will justify the claims made for women in these pages;
then the spirit of vanity will yield to the spirit
of self-devotion: that spirit confessedly natural
to Women, and only perverted by wrong education.
Content with the sphere of usefulness assigned her
by Nature and Nature’s God, viewing that sphere
with the piercing eye of intellect, and gilding it
with the beautiful colours of the imagination, she
will cease the vain and almost impious attempt to
wander from it. She will see and acknowledge
the beauty, the harmony of the arrangement which has
made her physical inferiority (the only inferiority
which we acknowledge) the very root from which spring
her virtues and their attendant influences. Removed
from the actual collision of political contests, and
screened from the passions which such engender, she
brings party questions to the test of the unalterable
principles of reason and religion; she is, so to speak,
the guardian angel of man’s political integrity,
liable at the best to be warped by passion or prejudice,
and excited by the rude clashing of opinions and interests.
This is the true secret of woman’s political
influence, the true object of her political enlightenment.
Governments will never be perfect till all distinction
between private and public virtue, private and public
honour, be done away! Who so fit an agent for
the operation of this change as enlightened, unselfish
woman? Who so fit, in her twofold capacity of
companion and early instructor, to teach men to prefer
honour to gain, duty to ease, public to private interests,
and God’s work to man’s inventions?
And shall it be said that women have no political existence,
no political influence, when the very germs of political
regeneration may spring from them alone, when the
fate of nations yet unborn may depend upon the use
which they make of the mighty influences committed
to their care? The blindness which sees not how
these influences would be lessened by taking her out
of the sphere assigned by Providence, if voluntary,
is wicked if real, is pitiable. As
well might we desire the earth’s beautiful satellite
to give place to a second sun, thereby producing the
intolerable and glaring continuity of perpetual day.
Those who would be the agents of Providence must observe
the workings of Providence, and be content to work
also in that way, and by those means, which Almighty
wisdom appoints. There is infinite littleness
in despising small things. It seems paradoxical
to say that there are no small things; our littleness
and our aspiration make things appear small.
There are, morally speaking, no small duties.
Nothing that influences human virtue and happiness
can be really trifling, and what more influences
them than the despised, because limited, duties assigned
to woman? It is true, her reward (her task being
done) is not of this world, nor will she wish it to
be enough for her to be one of the most
active and efficient agents in her heavenly Father’s
work of man’s regeneration, enough
for her that generations yet unborn shall rise up
and call her blessed.