Letter, from the Pen of My Husband, Now Deceased
Pawtucket, June 20, 1852.
Mrs. M. M. Bucklin:
My daughter in affliction, I would
that, like Paul on Mars Hill, I could enter at once,
with eloquence and persuasion, on a subject that might
have the influence of restoring or bringing back your
natural buoyancy and elasticity of spirit. I
need not tell you that I feel earnestly, sensibly
and deeply for you; and any mortal effort or sacrifice
within my power should not be wanting to effect an
object so desirable by your friends. But Malvina,
an arm of flesh is not to be relied upon; no human
ken can reach the mysterious windings and wonderful
intricacies of a mother’s love for her offspring.
That is, as yet, the unrevealed handiwork of Omnipotence,
who in wisdom conceived the beautiful mechanism, and
brought to perfection the refinements of our nature;
and to his almighty fiat are we indebted, both for
the boon of death and the glorious hope of the resurrection.
How peculiarly adapted to our consolation is the doctrine
of the resurrection. The angel of mercy has withdrawn
from your boson a beloved child. O, how sweet
the consolation of hope through the very life-giving
words of Him who cannot lie, as so beautifully and
so tenderly expressed to Martha, “Thy brother
shall rise again.” And, my daughter, be
assured that your little Emma shall rise again, for
said the same Almighty Comforter, “of such is
the Kingdom of Heaven.” Therefore it would
be wise in us not to sorrow for her who is asleep.
I know you believe that Jesus died and rose again.
And so, also, of them who sleep in Jesus, will God
bring with him.
The question by the afflicted man
of Uz might once, with some degree of propriety have
been asked, “If a man die shall he live again?”
But we believe in the resurrection of the dead, because
He who has promised is able to perform, and no science
however new, nor speculation however magnificent,
should be allowed to rob us of this beautiful and
life-giving hope. I know that it is hard for us
to concieve the mighty power of transformation or
to demonstrate the great principle of a spiritual
ascension from our decayed bodies, of those seraphic
hosts, who are to stand as ministering angels around
the majesty of Heaven, through all the never ending
cycles of eternity, no matter what objections skepticism
may urge of the impossibility of conceiving how the
dead can be raised up to a newness of life. Our
faith receives it as a revealed fact, and our hearts
rejoice in the glorious hope, because we know that
our Redeemer liveth, and that he will again stand
upon this earth. And though these our frail bodies
may be destroyed by death, yet shall we see God.
Marvellous as may be the transition, at death and the
resurrection, we shall all preserve our own identity,
and see and know the beloved companions of our earthly
pilgrimage.
Blessed be God for this sweet hope
in the resurrection of the dead, that so clothes the
far off and unseen world with ecstatic anticipations
of the renewed presence of our friends, to whom, even
in their glorified appearance, we shall be no strangers.
We must not persuade ourselves that the preservation
of little Emma’s sacred dust is a mere tribute
of affection to her memory; but rather a prophecy of
that precious hope, that she shall awake from this
sleep and meet us again, and that we shall know her
again, and that we shall be together, and unitedly
hear that voice, sublime and almighty, yet tender
and soothing, saying, “I am the resurrection
and the life; he that believeth in me though he were
dead, yet shall he live.”
The resurrection of the dead is the
crowning act of the Redeemer’s power, and the
consummation of his work. How beautiful to contemplate
the spiritual import and eternal grandeur of his mission:
“We may be blest, but Emma’s
glorious
O’er all the stings of death victorious.”
Dear M.M.:
“You feel like Eve, when Eden’s
gate
Had closed on her forevermore;
You feel that life is desolate,
And Paradise is o’er.
No tears be yours, for tears are vain;
Your heart and not your robe
is rent:
If God who gave did take again,
’Tis folly to lament.
Then drop the curtain, fold by fold,
O’er her consecrated
bower;
And veil from curious eyes, and cold,
Your dead, yet living flower.”
Affectionately, your
Father.