COLONIAL WOMAN AND EDUCATION
I. Feminine Ignorance
Unfortunately when we attempt to discover
just how thorough woman’s mental training was
in colonial days we are somewhat handicapped by the
lack of accurate data. Here and there through
the early writings we have only the merest hints as
to what girls studied and as to the length of their
schooling. Of course, throughout the world in
the seventeenth century it was not customary to educate
women in the sense that men in the same rank were
educated. Her place was in the home and as economic
pressure was not generally such as to force her to
make her own living in shop or factory or office,
and as society would have scowled at the very idea,
she naturally prepared only for marriage and home-making.
Very few men of the era, even among philosophers and
educational leaders, ever seemed to think that a woman
might be a better mother through thorough mental training.
And the women themselves, in the main, apparently
were not interested.
The result was that there long existed
an astonishingly large amount of illiteracy among
them. Through an examination made for the U.S.
Department of Education, it has been found that among
women signing deeds or other legal documents in Massachusetts,
from 1653 to 1656, as high as fifty per cent could
not write their name, and were obliged to sign by
means of a cross; while as late as 1697 fully thirty-eight
per cent were as illiterate. In New York fully
sixty per cent of the Dutch women were obliged to
make their mark; while in Virginia, where deeds signed
by 3,066 women were examined, seventy-five per cent
could not sign their names. If the condition
was so bad among those prosperous enough to own property,
what must it have been among the poor and so-called
lower classes?
We know, of course, that early in
the seventeenth century schools attended by both boys
and girls were established in Massachusetts, and before
the Pilgrims landed at Plymouth there was at least
one public school for both sexes in Virginia.
But for the most part the girls of early New England
appear to have gone to the “dame’s school,”
taught by some spinster or poverty-stricken widow.
We may again turn to Sewall’s Diary for
bits of evidence concerning the schooling in the seventeenth
century: “Tuesday, Oc, 1688. Little
Hanah going to School in the morn, being enter’d
a little within the Schoolhouse Lane, is rid over
by David Lopez, fell on her back, but I hope little
hurt, save that her Teeth bled a Little; was much frighted;
but went to School." “Friday, Jath,
1686-7. This day Dame Walker is taken so ill
that she sends home my Daughters, not being able to
teach them." “Wednesday, Jath, 1686-7.
Mr. Stoughton and Dudley and Capt. Eliot and
Self, go to Muddy-River to Andrew Gardner’s,
where ’tis agreed that L12 only in or as Money,
be levyed on the people by a Rate towards maintaining
a School to teach to write and read English."
“Ap, 1691.... This afternoon had Joseph
to School to Capt. Townsend’s Mother’s,
his Cousin Jane accompanying him, carried his Hornbook."
And what did girls of Puritan days
learn in the “dame schools”? Sewall
again may enlighten us in a notation in his Diary
for 1696: “Mary goes to Mrs. Thair’s
to learn to Read and Knit.” More than one
hundred years afterwards (1817), Abigail Adams, writing
of her childhood, declared: “My early education
did not partake of the abundant opportunities which
the present days offer, and which even our common country
schools now afford. I never was sent to any school.
I was always sick. Female education, in the best
families went no farther than writing and arithmetic;
in some few and rare instances, music and dancing."
The Dutch women of New York, famous
for their skill in housekeeping, probably did not
attend school, but received at home what little they
knew of reading, writing, and arithmetic. Mrs.
Grant, speaking of opportunities for female education
in New Amsterdam in 1709, makes it clear that the
training of a girl’s brain troubled no Hollander’s
head. “It was at this time very difficult
to procure the means of instruction in those inland
districts; female education, of consequence, was conducted
on a very limited scale; girls learned needlework (in
which they were indeed both skilful and ingenious)
from their mothers and aunts; they were taught too
at that period to read, in Dutch, the Bible, and a
few Calvinist tracts of the devotional kind. But
in the infancy of the settlement few girls read English;
when they did, they were thought accomplished; they
generally spoke it, however imperfectly, and few were
taught writing. This confined education precluded
elegance; yet, though there was no polish, there was
no vulgarity."
The words of the biographer of Catherine
Schuyler might truthfully have been applied to almost
any girl in or near the quaint Dutch city: “Meanwhile
[about 1740] the girl [Catherine Schuyler] was perfecting
herself in the arts of housekeeping so dear to the
Dutch matron. The care of the dairy, the poultry,
the spinning, the baking, the brewing, the immaculate
cleanliness of the Dutch, were not so much duties as
sacred household rites." So much for womanly education
in New Amsterdam. A thorough training in domestic
science, enough arithmetic for keeping accurate accounts
of expenses, and previous little reading these
were considered ample to set the young woman on the
right path for her vocation as wife and mother.
This high respect for arithmetic was
by no means limited to New York. Ben Franklin,
while in London, wrote thus to his daughter: “The
more attentively dutiful and tender you are towards
your good mama, the more you will recommend yourself
to me.... Go constantly to church, whoever preaches.
For the rest, I would only recommend to you in my absence,
to acquire those useful accomplishments, arithmetic,
and book-keeping. This you might do with ease,
if you would resolve not to see company on the hours
set apart for those studies." In addition, however,
Franklin seems not to have been averse to a girl’s
receiving some of those social accomplishments which
might add to her graces; for in 1750 he wrote his
mother the following message about this same child:
“Sally grows a fine Girl, and is extreamly industrious
with her Needle, and delights in her Book. She
is of a most affectionate Temper, and perfectly dutiful
and obliging to her Parents, and to all. Perhaps
I flatter myself too much, but I have hopes that she
will prove an ingenious, sensible, notable, and worthy
Woman, like her Aunt Jenny. She goes now to the
Dancing-School..."
II. Woman’s Education in the South
It is to be expected that there was
much more of this training in social accomplishments
in the South than in the North. Among the “first
families,” in Virginia and the Carolinas the
daughters regularly received instruction, not only
in household duties and the supervision of the multitude
of servants, but in music, dancing, drawing, etiquette
and such other branches as might help them to shine
in the social life that was so abundant. Thomas
Jefferson has left us some hints as to the education
of aristocratic women in Virginia, in the following
letter of advice to his daughter:
“Dear Patsy: With
respect to the distribution of your time, the
following is what I
should approve:
“From 8 to 10,
practice music.
“From 10 to 1,
dance one day and draw another.
“From 1 to 2,
draw on the day you dance, and write a letter next
day.
“From 3 to 4,
read French.
“From 4 to 5,
exercise yourself in music.
“From 5 till bedtime,
read English, write, etc.
“Informe me what books you
read, what tunes you learn, and inclose me your
best copy of every lesson in drawing.... Take
care that you never spell a word wrong....
It produces great praise to a lady to spell well...."
It should be noted, of course, that
this message was written in the later years of the
eighteenth century when the French influence in America
was far more prominent than during the seventeenth.
Moreover, Jefferson himself had then been in France
some time, and undoubtedly was permeated with French
ideas and ideals. But the established custom
throughout the South, except in Louisiana, demanded
that the daughters of the leading families receive
a much more varied form of schooling than their sisters
in most parts of the North were obtaining. While
the sons of wealthy planters were frequently sent
to English universities, the daughters were trained
under private tutors, who themselves were often university
graduates, and not infrequently well versed in languages
and literatures. The advice of Philip Fithian
to John Peck, his successor as private instructor
in the family of a wealthy Virginian, may be enlightening
as to the character and sincerity of these colonial
teachers of Southern girls:
“The last direction I shall
venture to mention on this head, is that you abstain
totally from women. What I would have you understand
from this, is, that by a train of faultless conduct
in the whole course of your tutorship, you make every
Lady within the Sphere of your acquaintance, who is
between twelve and forty years of age, so much pleased
with your person, & so satisfied as to your ability
in the capacity of a Teacher; & in short, fully convinced,
that, from a principle of Duty, you have both, by
night and by day endeavoured to acquit yourself honourably,
in the Character of a Tutor; & that this account,
you have their free and hearty consent, without making
any manner of demand upon you, either to stay longer
in the Country with them, which they would choose,
or whenever your business calls you away, that they
may not have it in their Power either by charms or
Justice to detain you, and when you must leave them,
have their sincere wishes & constant prayrs for Length
of days & much prosperity."
We have little or no evidence concerning
the education of women belonging to the Southern laboring
class, except the investigation of court papers mentioned
above, showing the lamentable amount of illiteracy.
In fact, so little was written by Southern women, high
or low, of the colonial period that it is practically
impossible to state anything positive about their
intellectual training. It is a safe conjecture,
however, that the schooling of the average woman in
the South was not equal to that of the average women
of Massachusetts, but was probably fully equal to
that of the Dutch women of New York. And yet
we must not think that efforts in education in the
southern colonies were lacking. As Dr. Lyon G.
Tyler has said; “Under the conditions of Virginia
society, no developed educational system was possible,
but it is wrong to suppose that there was none.
The parish institutions introduced from England included
educational beginnings; every minister had a school,
and it was the duty of the vestry to see that all poor
children could read and write. The county courts
supervised the vestries, and held a yearly ‘orphans
court,’ which looked after the material and
educational welfare of all orphans."
Indeed the interest in education during
the seventeenth century, in Virginia at least, seems
to have been general. Repeatedly in examining
wills of the period we may find this interest expressed
and explicit directions given for educating not only
the boys, but the girls. Bruce in his valuable
work, Institutional History of Virginia in the
Seventeenth Century, cites a number of such cases
in which provisions were made for the training of
daughters of other female relatives.
“In 1657, Clement Thresh, of
Rappahannock, in his will declared that all his estate
should be responsible for the outlay made necessary
in providing, during three years, instruction for
his step-daughter, who, being then thirteen years
of age, had, no doubt, already been going to school
for some length of time. The manner of completing
her education (which, it seems, was to be prolonged
to her sixteenth year) was perhaps the usual one for
girls at this period: she was to be taught
at a Mrs. Peacock’s, very probably by Mrs. Peacock
herself, who may have been the mistress of a small
school; for it was ordered in the will, that if she
died, the step-daughter was to attend the same school
as Thomas Goodrich’s children." “Robert
Gascoigne provided that his wife should ... keep their
daughter Bridget in school, until she could both read
and sew with an equal degree of skill." “The
indentures of Ann Andrewes, who lived in Surry ...
required her master to teach her, not only how to
sew and ‘such things as were fitt for women to
know,’ but also how to read and apparently also
how to write.” ... “In 1691 a girl
was bound out to Captain William Crafford ... under
indentures which required him to teach her how to
spin, sew and read...."
But, as shown in previous pages, female
illiteracy in the South, at least during the seventeenth
century, was surprisingly great. No doubt, in
the eighteenth century, as the country became more
thickly settled, education became more general, but
for a long time the women dragged behind the men in
plain reading and writing. Bruce declares:
“There are numerous evidences that illiteracy
prevailed to a greater extent than among persons of
the opposite sex.... Among the entire female population
of the colony, without embracing the slaves, only one
woman of every three was able to sign her name in
full, as compared with at least three of every five
persons of the opposite sex."
III. Brilliant Exceptions
In the middle colonies, as in New
England, schools for all classes were established
at an early date. Thus, the first school in Pennsylvania
was opened in 1683, only one year after the founding
of Philadelphia, and apparently very few children
in that city were without schooling of some sort.
As is commonly agreed, more emphasis was placed on
education in New England than in any of the other
colonies. A large number of the men who established
the Northern colonies were university graduates, naturally
interested in education, and the founding of Harvard,
sixteen years after the landing at Plymouth, proves
this interest. Moreover, it was considered essential
that every man, woman, and child should be able to
read the Bible, and for this reason, if for no other,
general education would have been encouraged.
As Moses Coit Tyler has declared, “Theirs was
a social structure with its corner stone resting on
a book.” However true this may be, we are
not warranted in assuming that the women of the better
classes in Massachusetts were any more thoroughly
educated, according to the standards of the time, than
the women of the better classes in other colonies.
We do indeed find more New England women writing;
for here lived the first female poet in America, and
the first woman preacher, and thinkers of the Mercy
Warren type who show in their diaries and letters
a keen and intelligent interest in public affairs.
It seems due, however, more to circumstances
that such women as Mercy Warren and Abigail Adams
wrote much, while their sisters to the South remained
comparatively silent. The husband of each of these
two colonial dames was absent a great deal and
these men were, therefore, the recipients of many
charming letters now made public; while the wife of
the better class planter in Virginia and the Carolinas
had a husband who seldom strayed long from the plantation.
Eliza Pinckney’s letters rival in interest those
of any American woman of the period, and if her husband
had been a man as prominent in war and political affairs
as John Adams, her letters would no doubt be considered
today highly valuable. True, Martha Washington
was in a position to leave many interesting written
comments; for she was for many years close to the very
center and origin of the most exciting events; but
she was more of a quiet housewife than a woman who
enjoyed the discussion of political events, and, besides,
with a certain inborn reserve and reticence she took
pains to destroy much of the private correspondence
between her husband and herself. Perhaps, with
the small amount of evidence at hand we can never
say definitely in what particular colonies the women
of the higher classes were most highly educated; apparently
very few of them were in danger of receiving an over-dose
of mental stimulation.
A few women, however, were genuinely
interested in cultural study, and that too in subjects
of an unusual character. Hear what Eliza Pinckney
says in her letters:
“I have got no further than
the first volm of Virgil, but was most agreeably disappointed
to find myself instructed in agriculture as well as
entertained by his charming penn, for I am persuaded
tho’ he wrote for Italy it will in many Instances
suit Carolina." “If you will not laugh too
immoderately at mee I’ll Trust you with a Secrett.
I have made two wills already! I know I have
done no harm, for I con’d my lesson very perfectly,
and know how to convey by will, Estates, Real and
Personal, and never forgett in its proper place, him
and his heirs forever.... But after all what
can I do if a poor Creature lies a-dying, and their
family takes it into their head that I can serve them.
I can’t refuse; butt when they are well, and
able to employ a Lawyer, I always shall."
And again she gives this glimpse of
another study: “I am a very Dunce, for
I have not acquired ye writing shorthand yet with any
degree of swiftness.” That she had made
some study of philosophy also is evident in this comment
in a letter written after a prolonged absence from
her plantation home for the purpose of attending some
social function: “I began to consider what
attraction there was in this place that used so agreeably
to soothe my pensive humour, and made me indifferent
to everything the gay world could boast; but I found
the change not in the place but in myself.... and
I was forced to consult Mr. Locke over and over, to
see wherein personal Identity consisted, and if I was
the very same Selfe."
Locke’s philosophical theory
is surely rather solid material, a kind indeed which
probably not many college women of the twentieth century
are familiar with. Add to these various intellectual
pursuits of hers the highly thorough study she made
of agriculture, her genuinely scientific experiments
in the rotation and selection of crops, and her practical
and successful management of three large plantations,
and we may well conclude that here was a colonial
woman with a mind of her own, and a mind fit for something
besides feminine trifles and graces.
Jane Turell, a resident of Boston
during the first half of the eighteenth century, was
another whose interest in literature and other branches
of higher education was certainly not common to the
women of the period. Hear the narrative of the
rather astonishing list of studies she undertook,
and the zeal with which she pursued her research:
“Before she had seen eighteen,
she had read, and ’in some measure’
digested all the English poetry and polite pieces in
prose, printed and manuscripts, in her father’s
well furnished library.... She had indeed
such a thirst after knowledge that the leisure
of the day did not suffice, but she spent whole nights
in reading....”
“I find she was sometimes fired
with a laudable ambition of raising the honor
of her sex, who are therefore under obligations to
her; and all will be ready to own she had a fine genius,
and is to be placed among those who have excelled.”
“...What greatly contributed
to increase her knowledge, in divinity, history,
physic, controversy, as well as poetry, was her
attentive hearing most that I read upon those heads
through the long evenings of the winters as we
sat together."
Mrs. Adams was still another example
of that rare womanliness which could combine with
practical domestic ability a taste for high intellectual
pursuits. During the Revolutionary days in the
hour of deepest anxiety for the welfare of her husband
and of her country, she wrote to Mr. Adams: “I
have taken a great fondness for reading Rollin’s
Ancient History since you left me. I am
determined to go through with it, if possible, in
these days of solitude." And again in a letter
written on December 5, 1773, to Mercy Warren, she says:
“I send with this the first volume of Moliere
and should be glad of your opinion of the plays.
I cannot be brought to like them. There seems
to me to be a general want of spirit. At the
close of every one, I have felt disappointed.
There are no characters but what appear unfinished;
and he seems to have ridiculed vice without engaging
us to virtue.... There is one negative virtue
of which he is possessed, I mean that of decency....
I fear I shall incur the charge of vanity by thus criticising
an author who has met with so much applause....
I should not have done it, if we had not conversed
about it before."
Evidently, at least a few of those
colonial dames who are popularly supposed to
have stayed at home and “tended their knitting”
were interested in and enthusiastically conversed
about some rather classic authors and rather deep
questions. Mrs. Grant has told us of the aunt
of General Philip Schuyler, a woman of great force
of character and magnetic personality: “She
was a great manager of her time and always contrived
to create leisure hours for reading; for that kind
of conversation which is properly styled gossiping
she had the utmost contempt.... Questions in
religion and morality, too weighty for table talk,
were leisurely and coolly discussed [In the garden]."
Again, Mrs. Grant pays tribute to
her mental ability as well as to her intelligent interest
in vital questions of the hour, in the following statement:
“She clearly foresaw that no mode of taxation
could be invented to which they would easily submit;
and that the defense of the continent from enemies
and keeping the necessary military force to protect
the weak and awe the turbulent would be a perpetual
drain of men and money to Great Britain, still increasing
with the increased population."
There were indeed brilliant minds
among the women of colonial days; but for the most
part the women of the period were content with a rather
small amount of intellectual training and did not seek
to gain that leadership so commonly sought by women
of the twentieth century. Practically the only
view ahead was that of the home and domestic life,
and the whole tendency of education for woman was,
therefore, toward the decidedly practical.
IV. Practical Education
These brilliant women, like their
sisters of less ability, had no radical ideas about
what they considered should be the fundamental principles
in female education; they one and all stood for sound
training in domestic arts and home making. Abigail
Adams, whose tact, thrift and genuine womanliness
was largely responsible for her husband’s career,
expressed herself in no uncertain terms concerning
the duties of woman: “I consider it as
an indispensable requisite that every American wife
should herself know how to order and regulate her family;
how to govern her domestics and train up her children.
For this purpose the All-wise Creator made woman an
help-meet for man and she who fails in these duties
does not answer the end of her creation."
Indeed, it would appear that most,
if not all, of the women of colonial days agreed with
the sentiment of Ben Franklin who spoke with warm
praise of a printer’s wife who, after the death
of her husband, took charge of his business “with
such success that she not only brought up reputably
a family of children, but at the expiration of the
term was able to purchase of me the printing house
and establish her son in it." And, according to
this practical man, her success was due largely to
the fact that as a native of Holland she had been taught
“the knowledge of accounts.” “I
mention this affair chiefly for the sake of recommending
that branch of education for our young females as likely
to be of more use to them and their children in case
of widowhood than either music or dancing, by preserving
them from losses by imposition of crafty men, and
enabling them to continue perhaps a profitable mercantile
house with establish’d correspondence, till a
son is grown up fit to undertake and go on with it."
And Mrs. Franklin, like her husband
and Mrs. Adams, had no doubt of the necessity of a
thorough knowledge of household duties for every woman
who expected to marry. In 1757 she wrote to her
sister-in-law in regard to the proposed marriage of
her nephew: “I think Miss Betsey a very
agreeable, sweet-tempered, good girl who has had a
housewifely education, and will make to a good husband
a very good wife.”
With these fundamentals in female
education settled, some of the colonists, at least,
were very willing that the girls should learn some
of the intellectual “frills” and fads that
might add to feminine grace or possibly be of use
in future emergencies. Franklin, for instance,
seemed anxious that Sally should learn her French and
music. Writing to his wife in 1758, he stated:
“I hope Sally applies herself closely to her
French and musick, and that I shall find she has made
great Proficiency. Sally’s last letter
to her Brother is the best wrote that of late I have
seen of hers. I only wish she was a little more
careful of her spelling. I hope she continues
to love going to Church, and would have her read over
and over again the Whole Duty of Man and the
Lady’s Library." And again in 1772 we find
him writing this advice to Sally after her marriage
to Mr. Bache: “I have advis’d him
to settle down to Business in Philadelphia where he
will always be with you.... and I think that in keeping
a store, if it be where you dwell, you can be serviceable
as your mother was to me. For you are not deficient
in Capacity and I hope are not too proud....
You might easily learn Accounts and you can copy Letters,
or write them very well upon Occasion. By Industry
and Frugality you may get forward in the World, being
both of you yet young."
V. Educational Frills
Toward the latter part of the eighteenth
century that once-popular institution, the boarding
school for girls, became firmly established, and many
were the young “females” who suffered as
did Oliver Wendell Holmes’ dear old aunt:
“They braced my aunt
against a board,
To make her straight
and tall;
They laced her up, they starved
her down,
To make her light,
and small;
They pinched her feet, they
singed her hair,
They screwed it up with pins;
Oh, never mortal suffered
more
In penance for
her sins.”
One of the best known of these seminaries
was that conducted by Susanna Rowson, author of the
once-famous novel Charlotte Temple. A letter
from a colonial miss of fourteen years, Eliza Southgate,
who attended this school, may be enlightening:
“Hon. Father:
“I am again placed at school
under the tuition of an amiable lady, so mild,
so good, no one can help loving her; she treats all
her scholars with such tenderness as would win the
affection of the most savage brute. I learn
Embroiderey and Geography at present, and wish
your permission to learn Musick.... I have described
one of the blessings of creation in Mrs. Rowson, and
now I will describe Mrs. Lyman as the reverse:
she is the worst woman I ever knew of or that
I ever saw, nobody knows what I suffered from
the treatment of that woman."
The Moravian seminaries of Bethlehem,
Pennsylvania, and of North Carolina were highly popular
training places for girls; for in these orderly institutions
the students were sure to gain not only instruction
in graceful social accomplishments and a thorough knowledge
of housekeeping, but the rare habit of doing all things
with regularity, neatness, decorum, and quietness.
The writer of the above letter has also described
one of these Pennsylvania schools with its prim teachers
and commendable mingling of the practical and the artistic.
“The first was merely a sewing school,
little children and a pretty single spinster about
30, her white skirt, white short tight waistcoat, nice
handkerchief pinned outside, a muslin apron and a close
cap, of the most singular form you can imagine.
I can’t describe it. The hair is all put
out of sight, turned back, and no border to the cap,
very unbecoming and very singular, tied under the
chin with a pink ribbon blue for the married,
white for the widows. Here was a Piano forte and
another sister teaching a little girl music.
We went thro’ all the different school rooms,
some misses of sixteen, their teachers were very agreeable
and easy, and in every room was a Piano.”
It was a notable fact that dancing
was taught in nearly all of these institutes.
In spite of Puritanical training, in spite of the
thunder-bolts of colonial preachers, the tide of public
opinion could not be stayed, and the girls would
learn the waltz and the prim minuet. Times had
indeed changed since the day when Cotton Mather so
sternly spoke his opinion on such an ungodly performance:
“Who were the Inventors of Petulant Dancings?
Learned men have well observed that the Devil was
the First Inventor of the impleaded Dances, and the
Gentiles who worshipped him the first Practitioners
of this Art.”
Colonial school girls may have been
meek and lowly in the seventeenth century the
words of Winthrop and the Mathers rather indicate that
they were but not so in the eighteenth.
Some of them showed an independence of spirit not
at all agreeing with popular ideas of the demure maid
of olden days. Sarah Hall, for instance, whose
parents lived in Barbadoes, was sent to her grandmother,
Madam Coleman of Boston, to attend school. She
arrived with her maid in 1719 and soon scandalized
her stately grandmother by abruptly leaving the house
and engaging board and lodging at a neighboring residence.
At her brother’s command she returned; but even
a brother’s authority failed to control the spirited
young lady; for a few months after the episode Madam
Coleman wrote: “Sally won’t go to
school nor to church and wants a nue muff and
a great many other things she don’t need.
I tell her fine things are cheaper in Barbadoes.
She says she will go to Barbadoes in the Spring.
She is well and brisk, says her Brother has nothing
to do with her as long as her father is alive.”
The same lady informs us that Sally’s instruction
in writing cost one pound, seven shillings, and four
pence, the entrance fee for dancing lessons, one pound,
and the bill for dancing lessons for four months,
two pounds. No doubt it was worth the price; for
later Sally became rather a dashing society belle.
One thing always emphasized in the
training of the colonial girl was manners or etiquette the
art of being a charming hostess. As Mrs. Earle
says, “It is impossible to overestimate the value
these laws of etiquette, these conventions of custom
had at a time, when neighborhood life was the whole
outside world.” How many, many a “don’t”
the colonial miss had dinned into her ears! Hear
but a few of them: “Never sit down at the
table till asked, and after the blessing. Ask
for nothing; tarry till it be offered thee. Speak
not. Bite not thy bread but break it. Take
salt only with a clean knife. Dip not the meat
in the same. Hold not thy knife upright but sloping,
and lay it down at the right hand of plate with blade
on plate. Look not earnestly at any other that
is eating. When moderately satisfied leave the
table. Sing not, hum not, wriggle not....
Smell not of thy Meat; make not a noise with thy Tongue,
Mouth, Lips, or Breath in Thy Eating and Drinking....
When any speak to thee, stand up. Say not I have
heard it before. Never endeavour to help him
out if he tell it not right. Snigger not; never
question the Truth of it.”
Girls were early taught these forms,
and in addition received not only advice but mechanical
aid to insure their standing erect and sitting upright.
The average child of to-day would rebel most vigorously
against such contrivances, and justly; for in a few
American schools, as in English institutions, young
ladies were literally tortured through sitting in
stocks, being strapped to backboards, and wearing stiffened
coats and stays re-inforced with strips of wood and
metal. Such methods undoubtedly made the colonial
dame erect and perhaps stately in appearance, but
they contributed a certain artificial, thin-chested
structure that the healthy girl of to-day would abhor.
As we have seen, however, some women
of the day contrived to pick up unusual bits of knowledge,
or made surprising expeditions into the realm of literature
and philosophy. Samuel Peters, writing in his
General History of Connecticut in 1781, declared
of their accomplishments: “The women of
Connecticut are strictly virtuous and to be compared
to the prude rather than the European polite lady.
They are not permitted to read plays; cannot converse
about whist, quadrille or operas; but will freely
talk upon the subjects of history, geography, and
mathematics. They are great casuists and polemical
divines; and I have known not a few of them so well
schooled in Greek and Latin as often to put to the
blush learned gentlemen.” And yet Hannah
Adams, writing in her Memoir in 1832, had this
to say of educational opportunities in Connecticut
during the latter half of the eighteenth century:
“My health did not even admit of attending school
with the children in the neighborhood where I resided.
The country schools, at that time, were kept but a
few months in the year, and all that was then taught
in them was reading, writing, and arithmetic.
In the summer, the children were instructed by females
in reading, sewing, and other kinds of work. The
books chiefly made use of were the Bible and Psalter.
Those who have had the advantages of receiving the
rudiments of their education at the schools of the
present day, can scarcely form an adequate idea of
the contrast between them, and those of an earlier
age; and of the great improvements which have been
made even in the common country schools. The
disadvantages of my early education I have experienced
during life; and, among various others, the acquiring
of a very faulty pronunciation; a habit contracted
so early, that I cannot wholly rectify it in later
years.”
North and South women complained of
the lack of educational advantages. Madame Schuyler
deplored the scarcity of books and of facilities for
womanly education, and spoke with irony of the literary
tastes of the older ladies: “Shakespeare
was a questionable author at the Flatts, where the
plays were considered grossly familiar, and by no means
to be compared to ‘Cato’ which Madame
Schuyler greatly admired. The ’Essay on
Man’ was also in high esteem with this lady."
Many women of the day realized their lack of systematic
training, and keenly regretted the absence of opportunity
to obtain it. Abigail Adams, writing to her husband
on the subject, says, “If you complain of education
in sons what shall I say of daughters who every day
experience the want of it? With regard to the
education of my own children I feel myself soon out
of my depth, destitute in every part of education.
I most sincerely wish that some more liberal plan
might be laid and executed for the benefit of the
rising generation and that our new Constitution may
be distinguished for encouraging learning and virtue.
If we mean to have heroes, statesmen, and philosophers,
we should have learned women. The world perhaps
would laugh at me, but you, I know, have a mind too
enlarged and liberal to disregard sentiment.
If as much depends as is allowed upon the early education
of youth and the first principles which are instilled
take the deepest root great benefit must arise from
the literary accomplishments in women."
And again, Hannah Adams’ Memoir
of 1832 expresses in the following words the intellectual
hunger of the Colonial woman: “I was very
desirous of learning the rudiments of Latin, Greek,
geography, and logic. Some gentlemen who boarded
at my father’s offered to instruct me in these
branches of learning gratis, and I pursued these studies
with indescribable pleasure and avidity. I still,
however, sensibly felt the want of a more systematic
education, and those advantages which females enjoy
in the present day.... My reading was very desultory,
and novels engaged too much of my attention.”
After all, it would seem that fancy
sewing was considered far more requisite than science
and literature in the training of American girls of
the eighteenth century. As soon as the little
maid was able to hold a needle she was taught to knit,
and at the age of four or five commonly made excellent
mittens and stockings. A girl of fourteen made
in 1760 a pair of silk stockings with open work design
and with initials knitted on the instep, and every
stage of the work from the raising and winding of
the silk to the designing and spinning was done by
one so young. Girls began to make samplers almost
before they could read their letters, and wonderful
were the birds and animals and scenes depicted in
embroidery by mere children. An advertisement
of the day is significant of the admiration held for
such a form of decorative work: “Martha
Gazley, late from Great Britain, now in the city of
New York Makes and Teacheth the following curious
Works, viz.: Artificial Fruit and Flowers
and other Wax-works, Nuns-work, Philigre and Pencil
Work upon Muslin, all sorts of Needle-Work, and Raising
of Paste, as also to paint upon Glass, and Transparant
for Sconces, with other Works. If any young Gentlewomen,
or others are inclined to learn any or all of the
above-mentioned curious Works, they may be carefully
instructed in the same by said Martha Gazley.”
Thus the evidence leads us to believe
that a colonial woman’s education consisted
in the main of training in how to conduct and care
for a home. It was her principal business in
life and for it she certainly was well prepared.
In the seventeenth century girls attended either a
short term public school or a dame’s school,
or, as among the better families in the South, were
taught by private tutors. In the eighteenth century
they frequently attended boarding schools or female
seminaries, and here learned at least in
the middle colonies and the South not only
reading and writing and arithmetic, but dancing, music,
drawing, French, and “manners.” In
Virginia and New York, as we have seen, illiteracy
among seventeenth century women was astonishingly
common; but in the eighteenth century those above
the lowest classes in all three sections could at
least read, write, and keep accounts, and some few
had dared to reach out into the sphere of higher learning.
That many realized their intellectual poverty and
deplored it is evident; how many more who kept no
diaries and left no letters hungered for culture we
shall never know; but the very longing of these colonial
women is probably one of the main causes of that remarkable
movement for the higher education of American women
so noticeable in the earlier years of the nineteenth
century. Their smothered ambition undoubtedly
gave birth to an intellectual advance of women unequalled
elsewhere in the world.