There appears to be a great quantity
of conceit around, especially concerning women.
The statement was recently set afloat that a well-known
lady had admitted that George Meredith understands
women better than any writer who has preceded him.
This may be true, and it may be a wily statement to
again throw men off the track; at any rate it contains
the old assumption of a mystery, practically insoluble,
about the gentler sex. Women generally encourage
this notion, and men by their gingerly treatment of
it seemed to accept it. But is it well-founded,
is there any more mystery about women than
about men? Is the feminine nature any more difficult
to understand than the masculine nature? Have
women, conscious of inferior strength, woven this
notion of mystery about themselves as a defense, or
have men simply idealized them for fictitious purposes?
To recur to the case cited, is there any evidence
that Mr. Meredith understands human nature as
exhibited in women any better than human nature in
men, or is more consistent in the production of one
than of the other? Historically it would be interesting
to trace the rise of this notion of woman as an enigma.
The savage races do not appear to have it. A
woman to the North American Indian is a simple affair,
dealt with without circumlocution. In the Bible
records there is not much mystery about her; there
are many tributes to her noble qualities, and some
pretty severe and uncomplimentary things are said about
her, but there is little affectation of not understanding
her. She may be a prophetess, or a consoler,
or a snare, but she is no more “deceitful and
desperately wicked” than anybody else.
There is nothing mysterious about her first recorded
performance. Eve trusted the serpent, and Adam
trusted Eve. The mystery was in the serpent.
There is no evidence that the ancient Egyptian woman
was more difficult to comprehend than the Egyptian
man. They were both doubtless wily as highly
civilized people are apt to be; the “serpent
of old Nile” was in them both. Is it in
fact till we come to mediaeval times, and the chivalric
age, that women are set up as being more incomprehensible
than men? That is, less logical, more whimsical,
more uncertain in their mental processes? The
play-writers and essayists of the seventeenth and
eighteenth centuries “worked” this notion
continually. They always took an investigating
and speculating attitude towards women, that fostered
the conceit of their separateness and veiled personality.
Every woman was supposed to be playing a part behind
a mask. Montaigne is always investigating woman
as a mystery. It is, for instance, a mystery
he does not relish that, as he says, women commonly
reserve the publication of their vehement affections
for their husbands till they have lost them; then
the woful countenance “looks not so much back
as forward, and is intended rather to get a new husband
than to lament the old.” And he tells this
story:
“When I was a boy, a very beautiful
and virtuous lady who is yet living, and the widow
of a prince, had, I know not what, more ornament in
her dress than our laws of widowhood will well allow,
which being reproached with as a great indecency,
she made answer ’that it was because she was
not cultivating more friendships, and would never marry
again.’” This cynical view of woman, as
well as the extravagantly complimentary one sometimes
taken by the poets, was based upon the notion that
woman was an unexplainable being. When she herself
adopted the idea is uncertain. Of course all
this has a very practical bearing upon modern life,
the position of women in it, and the so-called reforms.
If woman is so different from man, to the extent of
being an unexplainable mystery, science ought to determine
the exact state of the case, and ascertain if there
is any remedy for it. If it is only a literary
creation, we ought to know it. Science could
tell, for instance, whether there is a peculiarity
in the nervous system, any complications in the nervous
centres, by which the telegraphic action of the will
gets crossed, so that, for example, in reply to a
proposal of marriage, the intended “Yes”
gets delivered as “No.” Is it true
that the mental process in one sex is intuitive, and
in the other logical, with every link necessary and
visible? Is it true, as the romancers teach, that
the mind in one sex acts indirectly and in the other
directly, or is this indirect process only characteristic
of exceptions in both sexes? Investigation ought
to find this out, so that we can adjust the fit occupations
for both sexes on a scientific basis. We are
floundering about now in a sea of doubt. As society
becomes more complicated, women will become a greater
and greater mystery, or rather will be regarded so
by themselves and be treated so by men.
Who can tell how much this notion
of mystery in the sex stands in the way of its free
advancement all along the line? Suppose the proposal
were made to women to exchange being mysterious for
the ballot? Would they do it? Or have they
a sense of power in the possession of this conceded
incomprehensibility that they would not lay down for
any visible insignia of that power? And if the
novelists and essayists have raised a mist about the
sex, which it willingly masquerades in, is it not time
that the scientists should determine whether the mystery
exists in nature or only in the imagination?