OF TRADESMEN RUINING ONE ANOTHER BY
RUMOUR AND CLAMOUR, BY SCANDAL AND REPROACH
I have dwelt long upon the tradesman’s
management of himself, in order to his due preserving
both his business and his reputation: let me
bestow one chapter upon the tradesman for his conduct
among his neighbours and fellow-tradesmen.
Credit is so much a tradesman’s
blessing that it is the choicest ware he deals in,
and he cannot be too chary of it when he has it, or
buy it too dear when he wants it; it is a stock to
his warehouse, it is current money in his cash-chest,
it accepts all his bills, for it is on the fund of
his credit that he has any bills to accept; demands
would else be made upon the spot, and he must pay
for his goods before he has them therefore,
I say, it accepts all his bills, and oftentimes pays
them too; in a word, it is the life and soul of his
trade, and it requires his utmost vigilance to preserve
it.
If, then, his own credit should be
of so much value to him, and he should be so nice
in his concern about it, he ought in some degree to
have the same care of his neighbour’s. Religion
teaches us not to slander and defame our neighbour,
that is to say, not to raise or promote any slander
or scandal upon his good name. As a good name
is to another man, and which the wise man says, ‘is
better than life,’ the same is credit to a tradesman it
is the life of his trade; and he that wounds a tradesman’s
credit without cause, is as much a murderer in trade,
as he that kills a man in the dark is a murderer in
matters of blood.
Besides, there is a particular nicety
in the credit of a tradesman, which does not reach
in other cases: a man is slandered in his character,
or reputation, and it is injurious; and if it comes
in the way of a marriage, or of a preferment, or post,
it may disappoint and ruin him; but if this happens
to a tradesman, he is immediately and unavoidably
blasted and undone; a tradesman has but two sorts of
enemies to encounter with, namely, thieves breaking
open his shop, and ill neighbours blackening and blasting
his reputation; and the latter are the worst thieves
of the two, by a great deal; and, therefore, people
should indeed be more chary of their discourse of tradesmen,
than of other men, and that as they would not be guilty
of murder. I knew an author of a book, who was
drawn in unwarily, and without design, to publish
a scandalous story of a tradesman in London. He
(the author) was imposed upon by a set of men, who
did it maliciously, and he was utterly ignorant of
the wicked design; nor did he know the person, but
rashly published the thing, being himself too fond
of a piece of news, which he thought would be grateful
to his readers; nor yet did he publish the person’s
name, so cautious he was, though that was not enough,
as it proved, for the person was presently published
by those who had maliciously done it.
The scandal spread; the tradesman,
a flourishing man, and a considerable dealer, was
run upon by it with a torrent of malice; a match which
he was about with a considerable fortune was blasted
and prevented, and that indeed was the malicious end
of the people that did it; nor did it stop there it
brought his creditors upon him, it ruined him, it brought
out a commission of bankrupt against him, it broke
his heart, and killed him; and after his death, his
debts and effects coming in, there appeared to be
seven shillings in the pound estate, clear and good
over and above all demands, all his debts discharged,
and all the expenses of the statute paid.
It was to no purpose that the man
purged himself of the crime laid to his charge that
the author, who had ignorantly and rashly published
the scandal, declared himself ignorant; the man was
run down by a torrent of reproach; scandal oppressed
him; he was buried alive in the noise and dust raised
both against his morals and his credit, and yet his
character was proved good, and his bottom in trade
was so too, as I have said above.
It is not the least reason of my publishing
this to add, that even the person who was ignorantly
made the instrument of publishing the scandal, was
not able to retrieve it, or to prevent the man’s
ruin by all the public reparation he could make in
print, and by all the acknowledgement he could make
of his having been ignorantly drawn in to do it.
And this I mention for the honest tradesman’s
caution, and to put him in mind, that when he has
unwarily let slip anything to the wounding the reputation
of his neighbour tradesman, whether in his trading
credit, or the credit of his morals, it may not be
in his power to unsay it again, that is, so as to
prevent the ruin of the person; and though it may
grieve him as long as he lives, as the like did the
author I mention, yet it is not in his power to recall
it, or to heal the wound he has given; and that he
should consider very well of beforehand.
A tradesman’s credit and a virgin’s
virtue ought to be equally sacred from the tongues
of men; and it is a very unhappy truth, that as times
now go, they are neither of them regarded among us
as they ought to be.
The tea-table among the ladies, and
the coffee-house among the men, seem to be places
of new invention for a depravation of our manners and
morals, places devoted to scandal, and where the characters
of all kinds of persons and professions are handled
in the most merciless manner, where reproach triumphs,
and we seem to give ourselves a loose to fall upon
one another in the most unchristian and unfriendly
manner in the world.
It seems a little hard that the reputation
of a young lady, or of a new-married couple, or of
people in the most critical season of establishing
the characters of their persons and families, should
lie at the mercy of the tea-table; nor is it less
hard, that the credit of a tradesman, which is the
same thing in its nature as the virtue of a lady,
should be tossed about, shuttle-cock-like, from one
table to another, in the coffee-house, till they shall
talk all his creditors about his ears, and bring him
to the very misfortune which they reported him to
be near, when at the same time he owed them nothing
who raised the clamour, and owed nothing to all the
world, but what he was able to pay.
And yet how many tradesmen have been
thus undone, and how many more have been put to the
full trial of their strength in trade, and have stood
by the mere force of their good circumstances; whereas,
had they been unfurnished with cash to have answered
their whole debts, they must have fallen with the
rest.
We need go no farther than Lombard
Street for an exemplification of this truth.
There was a time when Lombard Street was the only bank,
and the goldsmiths there were all called bankers.
The credit of their business was such, that the like
has not been seen in England since, in private hands:
some of those bankers, as I have had from their own
mouths, have had near two millions of paper credit
upon them at a time; that is to say, have had bills
under their hands running abroad for so much at a
time.
On a sudden, like a clap of thunder,
King Charles II. shut up the Exchequer, which was
the common centre of the overplus cash these great
bankers had in their hands. What was the consequence?
Not only the bankers who had the bulk of their cash
there, but all Lombard Street, stood still. The
very report of having money in the Exchequer brought
a run upon the goldsmiths that had no money there,
as well as upon those that had, and not only Sir Robert
Viner, Alderman Backwell, Farringdon, Forth, and others,
broke and failed, but several were ruined who had not
a penny of money in the Exchequer, and only sunk by
the rumour of it; that rumour bringing a run upon
the whole street, and giving a check to the paper
credit that was run up to such an exorbitant height.
I remember a shopkeeper who one time
took the liberty (foolish liberty!) with himself,
in public company in a coffee-house, to say that he
was broke. ‘I assure you,’ says he,
’that I am broke, and to-morrow I resolve to
shut up my shop, and call my creditors together.’
His meaning was, that he had a brother just dead in
his house, and the next day was to be buried, when,
in civility to the deceased, he kept his shop shut;
and several people whom he dealt with, and owed money
to, were the next day invited to the funeral, so that
he did actually shut up his shop, and call some of
his creditors together.
But he sorely repented the jest which
he put upon himself. ’Are you broke?’
says one of his friends to him, that was in the coffee-house;
‘then I wish I had the little money you owe me’
(which however, it seems, was not much). Says
the other, still carrying on his jest, ’I shall
pay nobody, till, as I told you, I have called my people
together.’ The other did not reach his jest,
which at best was but a dull one, but he reached that
part of it that concerned himself, and seeing him
continue carelessly sitting in the shop, slipped out,
and, fetching a couple of sergeants, arrested him.
The other was a little surprised; but however, the
debt being no great sum, he paid it, and when he found
his mistake, told his friends what he meant by his
being broke.
But it did not end there; for other
people of his neighbours, who were then in the coffee-house,
and heard his discourse, and had thought nothing more
of it, yet in the morning seeing his shop shut, concluded
the thing was so indeed, and immediately it went over
the whole street that such a one was broke; from thence
it went to the Exchange, and from thence into the
country, among all his dealers, who came up in a throng
and a fright to look after him. In a word, he
had as much to do to prevent his breaking as any man
need to desire, and if he had not had very good friends
as well as a very good bottom, he had inevitably been
ruined and undone.
So small a rumour will overset a tradesman,
if he is not very careful of himself; and if a word
in jest from himself, which though indeed no man that
had considered things, or thought before he spoke,
would have said (and, on the other hand, no man who
had been wise and thinking would have taken as it
was taken) I say, if a word taken from the
tradesman’s own mouth could be so fatal, and
run such a dangerous length, what may not words spoken
slyly, and secretly, and maliciously, be made to do?
A tradesman’s reputation is
of the nicest nature imaginable; like a blight upon
a fine flower, if it is but touched, the beauty of
it, or the flavour of it, or the seed of it, is lost,
though the noxious breath which touched it might not
reach to blast the leaf, or hurt the root; the credit
of a tradesman, at least in his beginning, is too much
at the mercy of every enemy he has, till it has taken
root, and is established on a solid foundation of
good conduct and success. It is a sad truth,
that every idle tongue can blast a young shopkeeper;
and therefore, though I would not discourage any young
beginner, yet it is highly beneficial to alarm them,
and to let them know that they must expect a storm
of scandal and reproach upon the least slip they make:
if they but stumble, fame will throw them down; it
is true, if they recover, she will set them up as
fast; but malice generally runs before, and bears
down all with it; and there are ten tradesmen who fall
under the weight of slander and an ill tongue, to
one that is lifted up again by the common hurry of
report.
To say I am broke, or in danger of
breaking, is to break me: and though sometimes
the malicious occasion is discovered, and the author
detected and exposed, yet how seldom is it so; and
how much oftener are ill reports raised to ruin and
run down a tradesman, and the credit of a shop; and
like an arrow that flies in the dark, it wounds unseen.
The authors, no nor the occasion of these reports,
are never discovered perhaps, or so much as rightly
guessed at; and the poor tradesman feels the wound,
receives the deadly blow, and is perhaps mortally stabbed
in the vitals of his trade, I mean his trading credit,
and never knows who hurt him.
I must say, in the tradesman’s
behalf, that he is in such a case to be esteemed a
sacrifice to the worst and most hellish of all secret
crimes, I mean envy; which is made up of every hateful
vice, a complication of crimes which nothing but the
worst of God’s reasonable world can be guilty
of; and he will indeed merit and call for every honest
man’s pity and concern. But what relief
is this to him? for, in the meantime, though the devil
himself were the raiser of the scandal, yet it shall
go about; the blow shall take, and every man, though
at the same time expressing their horror and aversion
at the thing, shall yet not be able, no not themselves,
to say they receive no impression from it.
Though I know the clamour or rumour
was raised maliciously, and from a secret envy at
the prosperity of the man, yet if I deal with him,
it will in spite of all my abhorrence of the thing,
in spite of all my willingness to do justice, I say
it will have some little impression upon me, it will
be some shock to my confidence in the man; and though
I know the devil is a liar, a slanderer, a calumniator,
and that his name devil is derived from it;
and that I knew, if that, as I said, were possible,
that the devil in his proper person raised and began,
and carried on, this scandal upon the tradesman, yet
there is a secret lurking doubt (about him), which
hangs about me concerning him; the devil is a liar,
but he may happen to speak truth just then, he may
chance to be right, and I know not what there may be
in it, and whether there may be any thing or no, but
I will have a little care, &c.
Thus, insensibly and involuntarily,
nay, in spite of friendship, good wishes, and even
resolution to the contrary, it is almost impossible
to prevent our being shocked by rumour, and we receive
an impression whether we will or not, and that from
the worst enemy; there is such a powerful sympathy
between our thoughts and our interest, that the first
being but touched, and that in the lightest manner
imaginable, we cannot help it, caution steps on in
behalf of the last, and the man is jealous and afraid,
in spite of all the kindest and best intentions in
the world.
Nor is it only dangerous in case of
false accusations and false charges, for those indeed
are to be expected fatal; but even just and true things
may be as fatal as false, for the truth is not always
necessary to be said of a tradesman: many things
a tradesman may perhaps allow himself to do, and may
be lawfully done, but if they should be known to be
part of his character, it would sink deep into his
trading fame, his credit would suffer by it, and in
the end it might be his ruin; so that he that would
not set his hand to his neighbour’s ruin, should
as carefully avoid speaking some truths, as raising
some forgeries upon him.
Of what fatal consequence, then, is
the raising rumours and suspicions upon the credit
and characters of young tradesmen! and how little do
those who are forward to raise such suspicions, and
spread such rumours, consult conscience, or principle,
or honour, in what they do! How little do they
consider that they are committing a trading murder,
and that, in respect to the justice of it, they may
with much more equity break open the tradesman’s
house, and rob his cash-chest, or his shop; and what
they can carry away thence will not do him half the
injury that robbing his character of what is due to
it from an upright and diligent conduct, would do.
The loss of his money or goods is easily made up, and
may be sometimes repaired with advantage, but the
loss of credit is never repaired; the one is breaking
open his house, but the other is burning it down;
the one carries away some goods, but the other shuts
goods out from coming in; one is hurting the tradesman,
but the other is undoing him.
Credit is the tradesman’s life;
it is, as the wise man says, ’marrow to his
bones;’ it is by this that all his affairs go
on prosperously and pleasantly; if this be hurt, wounded,
or weakened, the tradesman is sick, hangs his head,
is dejected and discouraged; and if he does go on,
it is heavily and with difficulty, as well as with
disadvantage; he is beholding to his fund of cash,
not his friends; and he may be truly said to stand
upon his own legs, for nothing else can do it.
And therefore, on the other hand,
if such a man is any way beholding to his credit,
if he stood before upon the foundation of his credit,
if he owes any thing considerable, it is a thousand
to one but he sinks under the oppression of it; that
is to say, it brings every body upon him I
mean, every one that has any demand upon him for
in pushing for their own, especially in such cases,
men have so little mercy, and are so universally persuaded
that he that comes first is first served, that I did
not at all wonder, that in the story of the tradesman
who so foolishly exposed himself in the coffee-house,
as above, his friend whom he said the words to, began
with him that very night, and before he went out of
the coffee-house; it was rather a wonder to me he did
not go out and bring in half-a-dozen more upon him
the same evening.
It is very rarely that men are wanting
to their own interest; and the jealousy of its being
but in danger, is enough to make men forget, not friendship
only, and generosity, but good manners, civility, and
even justice itself, and fall upon the best friends
they have in the world, if they think they are in
the least danger of suffering by them.
On these accounts it is, and many
more, that a tradesman walks in continual jeopardy,
from the looseness and inadvertency of men’s
tongues, ay, and women’s too; for though I am
all along very tender of the ladies, and would do
justice to the sex, by telling you, they were not
the dangerous people whom I had in view in my first
writing upon this subject, yet I must be allowed to
say, that they are sometimes fully even with the men,
for ill usage, when they please to fall upon them
in this nice article, in revenge for any slight, or
but pretended slight, put upon them.
It was a terrible revenge a certain
lady, who was affronted by a tradesman in London,
in a matter of love, took upon him in this very article.
It seems a tradesman had courted her some time, and
it was become public, as a thing in a manner concluded,
when the tradesman left the lady a little abruptly,
without giving a good reason for it, and, indeed,
she afterwards discovered, that he had left her for
the offer of another with a little more money, and
that, when he had done so, he reported that it was
for another reason, which reflected a little on the
person of the lady; and in this the tradesman did very
unworthily indeed, and deserved her resentment:
but, as I said, it was a terrible revenge she took,
and what she ought not to have done.
First, she found out who it was that
her former pretended lover had been recommended to,
and she found means to have it insinuated to her by
a woman-friend, that he was not only rakish and wicked,
but, in short, that he had a particular illness, and
went so far as to produce letters from him to a quack-doctor,
for directions to him how to take his medicines, and
afterwards a receipt for money for the cure; though
both the letters and receipt also, as afterwards appeared,
were forged, in which she went a dismal length in
her revenge, as you may see.
Then she set two or three female instruments
to discourse her case in all their gossips’
companies, and at the tea-tables wherever they came,
and to magnify the lady’s prudence in refusing
such a man, and what an escape she had had in being
clear of him.
‘Why,’ says a lady to
one of these emissaries, ’what was the matter?
I thought she was like to be very well married.’
‘Oh no, Madam! by no means,’ says the
emissary.
‘Why, Madam,’ says another
lady, ’we all know Mr H ;
he is a very pretty sort of a man.’
‘Ay, Madam,’ says the
emissary again, ’but you know a pretty man is
not all that is required.’
‘Nay,’ says the lady again,
’I don’t mean so; he is no beauty, no rarity
that way; but I mean a clever good sort of a man in
his business, such as we call a pretty tradesman.’
‘Ay,’ says the lady employed,
‘but that is not all neither.’
‘Why,’ says the other
lady, ’he has a very good trade too, and lives
in good credit.’
‘Yes,’ says malice, ’he
has some of the first, but not too much of the last,
I suppose.’
‘No!’ says the lady; ‘I
thought his credit had been very good.’
‘If it had, I suppose,’
says the first, ’the match had not been broke
off.’
‘Why,’ says the lady,
‘I understood it was broken off on his side.’
‘And so did I,’ says another.
‘And so did I, indeed,’ says a third.
‘Oh, Madam!’ says the tool, ‘nothing
like it, I assure you.’
‘Indeed,’ says another,
I understood he had quitted Mrs ,
because she had not fortune enough for him, and that
he courted another certain lady, whom we all know.’
Then the ladies fell to talking of
the circumstances of his leaving her, and how he had
broken from her abruptly and unmannerly, and had been
too free with her character; at which the first lady,
that is to say, the emissary, or tool, as I call her,
took it up a little warmly, thus:
1. Lady. Well, you
see, ladies, how easily a lady’s reputation may
be injured; I hope you will not go away with it so.
2. Lady. Nay, we
have all of us a respect for Mrs ,
and some of us visit there sometimes; I believe none
of us would be willing to injure her.
1. Lady. But indeed,
ladies, she is very much injured in that story.
2. Lady. Indeed,
it is generally understood so, and every body believes
it.
1. Lady. I can assure
you it is quite otherwise in fact.
2. Lady. I believe
he reports it so himself, and that with some very
odd things about the lady too.
1. Lady. The more base unworthy
fellow he.
2. Lady. Especially if he knows
it to be otherwise.
1. Lady. Especially
if he knows the contrary to be true, Madam.
2. Lady. Is that
possible? Did he not refuse her, then?
1. Lady. Nothing
like it, Madam; but just the contrary.
2. Lady. You surprise me!
3. Lady. I am very glad to hear
it, for her sake.
1. Lady. I can assure
you, Madam, she had refused him, and that he knows
well enough, which has been one of the reasons that
has made him abuse her as he has done.
2. Lady. Indeed,
she has been used very ill by him, or somebody for
him.
1. Lady. Yes, he
has reported strange things, but they are all lies.
2. Lady. Well; but
pray, Madam, what was the reason, if we may be so
free, that she turned him off after she had entertained
him so long?
1. Lady. Oh, Madam!
reason enough; I wonder he should pretend, when he
knew his own circumstances too, to court a lady of
her fortune.
2. Lady. Why, are not his circumstances
good, then?
1. Lady. No, Madam. Good! alas,
he has no bottom.
2. Lady. No bottom!
Why, you surprise me; we always looked upon him to
be a man of substance, and that he was very well in
the world.
1. Lady. It is all
a cheat, Madam; there’s nothing in it; when it
came to be made out, nothing at all in it.
2. Lady. That cannot
be, Madam; Mr has lived always
in good reputation and good credit in his business.
1. Lady. It is all
sunk again then, if it was so; I don’t know.
2. Lady. Why did she entertain him
so long, then?
1. Lady. Alas!
Madam, how could she know, poor lady, till her friends
inquired into things? But when they came to look
a little narrowly into it, they soon found reason
to give her a caution, that he was not the man she
took him for.
2. Lady. Well, it
is very strange; I am sure he passed for another man
among us.
1. Lady. It must
be formerly, then, for they tell me his credit has
been sunk these three or four years; he had need enough
indeed to try for a greater fortune, he wants it enough.
2. Lady. It is a
sad thing when men look out for fortunes to heal their
trade-breaches with, and make the poor wife patch up
their old bankrupt credit.
1. Lady. Especially,
Madam, when they know themselves to be gone so far,
that even with the addition they can stand but a little
while, and must inevitably bring the lady to destruction
with them.
2. Lady. Well, I
could never have thought Mr was
in such circumstances.
3. Lady. Nor I;
we always took him for a ten thousand pound man.
1. Lady. They say he was deep in
the bubbles, Madam.
2. Lady. Nay, if
he was gotten into the South Sea, that might hurt
him indeed, as it has done many a gentleman of better
estates than he.
1. Lady. I don’t
know whether it was the South Sea, or some other bubbles,
but he was very near making a bubble of her, and L3000
into the bargain.
2. Lady. I am glad
she has escaped him, if it be so; it is a sign her
friends took a great deal of care of her.
1. Lady. He won’t
hold it long; he will have his desert, I hope; I don’t
doubt but we shall see him in the Gazette quickly for
a bankrupt.
2. Lady. If he does
not draw in some innocent young thing that has her
fortune in her own hands to patch him up.
1. Lady. I hope
not, Madam; I hear he is blown where he went since,
and there, they say, they have made another discovery
of him, in a worse circumstance than the other.
2. Lady. How, pray?
1. Lady. Nothing,
Madam, but a particular kind of illness, &c. I
need say no more.
2. Lady. You astonish
me! Why, I always thought him a very civil, honest,
sober man.
1. Lady. This is
a sad world, Madam; men are seldom known now, till
it is too late; but sometimes murder comes out seasonably,
and so I understand it is here; for the lady had not
gone so far with him, but that she could go off again.
2. Lady. Nay, it
was time to go off again, if it were so.
1. Lady. Nay, Madam,
I do not tell this part of my own knowledge; I only
heard so, but I am afraid there is too much in it.
Thus ended this piece of hellish wildfire,
upon the character and credit of a tradesman, the
truth of all which was no more than this that
the tradesman, disliking his first lady, left her,
and soon after, though not presently, courted another
of a superior fortune indeed, though not for that
reason; and the first lady, provoked at being cast
off, and, as she called it, slighted, raised all this
clamour upon him, and persecuted him with it, wherever
she was able.
Such a discourse as this at a tea-table,
it could not be expected would be long a secret; it
ran from one tittle-tattle society to another; and
in every company, snow-ball like, it was far from lessening,
and it went on, till at length it began to meet with
some contradiction, and the tradesman found himself
obliged to trace it as far and as well as he could.
But it was to no purpose to confront
it; when one was asked, and another was asked, they
only answered they heard so, and they heard it in
company in such a place, and in such a place, and some
could remember where they had it, and some could not;
and the poor tradesman, though he was really a man
of substance, sank under it prodigiously: his
new mistress, whom he courted, refused him, and would
never hear any thing in his favour, or trouble herself
to examine whether it were true or no it
was enough, she said, to her, that he was laden with
such a report; and, if it was unjust, she was sorry
for it, but the misfortune must be his, and he must
place it to the account of his having made some enemies,
which she could not help.
As to his credit, the slander of the
first lady’s raising was spread industriously,
and with the utmost malice and bitterness, and did
him an inexpressible prejudice; every man he dealt
with was shy of him; every man he owed any thing to
came for it, and, as he said, he was sure he should
see the last penny demanded; it was his happiness that
he had wherewith to pay, for had his circumstances
been in the least perplexed, the man had been undone;
nay, as I have observed in another case, as his affairs
might have lain, he might have been able to have paid
forty shillings in the pound, and yet have been undone,
and been obliged to break, and shut up his shop.
It is true, he worked through it,
and he carried it so far as to fix the malice of all
the reports pretty much upon the first lady, and particularly
so far as to discover that she was the great reason
of his being so positively rejected by the other;
but he could never fix it so upon her as to recover
any damages of her, only to expose her a little, and
that she did not value, having, as she said wickedly,
had her full revenge of him, and so indeed she had.
The sum of the matter is, and it is
for this reason I tell you the story, that the reputation
of a tradesman is too much at the mercy of men’s
tongues or women’s either; and a story raised
upon a tradesman, however malicious, however false,
and however frivolous the occasion, is not easily
suppressed, but, if it touches his credit, as a flash
of fire it spreads over the whole air like a sheet;
there is no stopping it.
My inference from all this shall be
very brief; if the tongues of every ill-disposed envious
gossip, whether man-gossip or woman-gossip, for there
are of both sorts, may be thus mischievous to the tradesman,
and he is so much at the mercy of the tattling slandering
part of the world, how much more should tradesmen
be cautious and wary how they touch or wound the credit
and character of one another. There are but a
very few tradesmen who can say they are out of the
reach of slander, and that the malice of enemies cannot
hurt them with the tongue. Here and there one,
and those ancient and well established, may be able
to defy the world; but there are so many others, that
I think I may warn all tradesmen against making havoc
of one another’s reputation, as they would be
tenderly used in the same case.
And yet I cannot but say it is too
much a tradesman’s crime, I mean to speak slightly
and contemptibly of other tradesman, their neighbours,
or perhaps rivals in trade, and to run them down in
the characters they give of them, when inquiry may
be made of them, as often is the case. The reputation
of tradesmen is too often put into the hands of their
fellow-tradesmen, when ignorant people think to inform
themselves of their circumstances, by going to those
whose interest it is to defame and run them down.
I know no case in the world in which
there is more occasion for the golden rule, Do as
you would be done unto; and though you may be established,
as you may think, and be above the reach of the tongues
of others, yet the obligation of the rule is the same,
for you are to do as you would be done unto, supposing
that you were in the same condition, or on a level
with the person.
It is confessed that tradesmen do
not study this rule in the particular case I am now
speaking of. No men are apter to speak slightly
and coldly of a fellow-tradesman than his fellow-tradesmen,
and to speak unjustly so too; the reasons for which
cannot be good, unless it can be pleaded for upon
the foundation of a just and impartial concern in the
interest of the inquirer; and even then nothing must
be said but what is consistent with strict justice
and truth: all that is more than that, is mere
slander and envy, and has nothing of the Christian
in it, much less of the neighbour or friend.
It is true that friendship may be due to the inquirer,
but still so much justice is due to the person inquired
of, that it is very hard to speak in such cases, and
not be guilty of raising dust, as they call it, upon
your neighbour, and at least hurting, if not injuring
him.
It is, indeed, so difficult a thing,
that I scarce know what stated rule to lay down for
the conduct of a tradesman in this case: A
tradesman at a distance is going to deal with another
tradesman, my neighbour; and before he comes to bargain,
or before he cares to trust him, he goes, weakly enough
perhaps, to inquire of him, and of his circumstances,
among his neighbours and fellow-tradesmen, perhaps
of the same profession or employment, and who, among
other things, it may be, are concerned by their interest,
that this tradesman’s credit should not rise
too fast. What must be done in this case?
If I am the person inquired of, what
must I do? If I would have this man sink in his
reputation, or be discredited, and if it is for my
interest to have him cried down in the world, it is
a sore temptation to me to put in a few words to his
disadvantage; and yet, if I do it in gratification
of my private views or interest, or upon the foot of
resentment of any kind whatever, and let it be from
what occasion it will, nay, however just and reasonable
the resentment is, or may be, it is utterly unjust
and unlawful, and is not only unfair as a man, but
unchristian, and is neither less nor more than a secret
revenge, which is forbidden by the laws of God and
man.
If, on the other hand, I give a good
character of the man, or of his reputation, I mean,
of his credit in business, in order to have the inquirer
trust him, and at the same time know or believe that
he is not a sound and good man (that is, as to trade,
for it is his character in trade that I am speaking
of), what am I doing then? It is plain I lay a
snare for the inquirer, and am at least instrumental
to his loss, without having really any design to hurt
him; for it is to be supposed, before he came to me
to inquire, I had no view of acting any thing to his
prejudice.
Again, there is no medium, for to
refuse or decline giving a character of the man, is
downright giving him the worst character I can it
is, in short, shooting him through the head in his
trade. A man comes to me for a character of my
neighbouring tradesman; I answer him with a repulse
to his inquiry thus
A. Good sir, do
not ask me the character of my neighbours I
resolve to meddle with nobody’s character; pray,
do not inquire of me.
B. Well, but, sir,
you know the gentleman; you live next door to him;
you can tell me, if you please, all that I desire to
know, whether he is a man in credit, and fit to be
trusted, or no, in the way of his business.
A. I tell you, sir,
I meddle with no man’s business; I will not give
characters of my neighbours it is an ill
office a man gets no thanks for it, and
perhaps deserves none.
B. But, sir, you
would be willing to be informed and advised, if it
were your own case.
A. It may be so,
but I cannot oblige people to inform me.
B. But you would
entreat it as a favour, and so I come to you.
A. But you may go to any body else.
B. But you are a
man of integrity; I can depend upon what you say; I
know you will not deceive me; and, therefore, I beg
of you to satisfy me.
A. But I desire
you to excuse me, for it is what I never do I
cannot do it.
B. But, sir, I am
in a great strait; I am just selling him a great parcel
of goods, and I am willing to sell them too, and yet
I am willing to be safe, as you would yourself, if
you were in my case.
A. I tell you, sir,
I have always resolved to forbear meddling with the
characters of my neighbours it is an ill
office. Besides, I mind my own business; I do
not enter into the inquiries after other people’s
affairs.
B. Well, sir, I
understand you, then; I know what I have to do.
A. What do you mean by that?
B. Nothing, sir,
but what I suppose you would have me understand by
it.
A. I would have
you understand what I say namely, that I
will meddle with nobody’s business but my own.
B. And I say I understand
you; I know you are a good man, and a man of charity,
and loth to do your neighbours any prejudice, and that
you will speak the best of every man as near as you
can.
A. I tell you, I
speak neither the best nor the worst I speak
nothing.
B. Well, sir, that
is to say, that as charity directs you to speak well
of every man, so, when you cannot speak well, you refrain,
and will say nothing; and you do very well, to be
sure; you are a very kind neighbour.
A. But that is a
base construction of my words; for I tell you, I do
the like by every body.
B. Yes, sir, I believe
you do, and I think you are in the right of it am
fully satisfied.
A. You act more
unjustly by me than by my neighbour; for you take my
silence, or declining to give a character, to be giving
an ill character.
B. No, sir, not for an ill character.
A. But I find you take it for a
ground of suspicion.
B. I take it, indeed,
for a due caution to me, sir; but the man may be a
good man for all that, only
A. Only what?
I understand you only you won’t trust
him with your goods.
B. But another man
may, sir, for all that, so that you have been kind
to your neighbours and to me too, sir and
you are very just. I wish all men would act so
one by another; I should feel the benefit of it myself
among others, for I have suffered deeply by ill tongues,
I am sure.
A. Well, however
unjust you are to me, and to my neighbour too, I will
not undeceive you at present; I think you do not deserve
it.
He used a great many more words with
him to convince him that he did not mean any discredit
to his neighbour tradesman; but it was all one; he
would have it be, that his declining to give his said
neighbour a good character was giving him an ill character,
which the other told him was a wrong inference.
However, he found that the man stood by his own notion
of it, and declined trusting the tradesman with the
goods, though he was satisfied he (the tradesman)
was a sufficient man.
Upon this, he was a little uneasy,
imagining that he had been the cause of it, as indeed
he had, next to the positive humour of the inquirer,
though it was not really his fault; neither was the
construction the other made of it just to his intention,
for he aimed at freeing himself from all inquiries
of that nature, but found there was no prevailing
with him to understand it any other way than he did;
so, to requite the man a little in his own way, he
contrived the following method: he met with him
two or three days after, and asked him if he had sold
his goods to the person his neighbour?
‘No,’ says he; ‘you know I would
not.’
‘Nay,’ says the other,
’I only knew you said so; I did not think you
would have acted so from what I said, nor do I think
I gave you any reason.’
‘Why,’ says he, ’I
knew you would have given him a good character if you
could, and I knew you were too honest to do it, if
you were not sure it was just.’
’The last part I hope is true,
but you might have believed me honest too, in what
I did say, that I had resolved to give no characters
of any body.’
’As to that, I took it, as any
body would, to be the best and modestest way of covering
what you would not have be disclosed, namely, that
you could not speak as you would; and I also judged
that you therefore chose to say nothing.’
’Well, I can say no more but
this; you are not just to me in it, and I think you
are not just to yourself neither.’
They parted again upon this, and the
next day the first tradesman, who had been so pressed
to give a character of his neighbour, sent a man to
buy the parcel of goods of the other tradesman, and
offering him ready money, bought them considerably
cheaper than the neighbour-tradesman was to have given
for them, besides reckoning a reasonable discount for
the time, which was four months, that the first tradesman
was to have given to his neighbour.
As soon as he had done, he went and
told the neighbour-tradesman what he had done, and
the reason of it, and sold the whole parcel to him
again, giving the same four months’ credit for
them as the first man was to have given, and taking
the discount for time only to himself, gave him all
the advantage of the buying, and gave the first man
the mortification of knowing it all, and that the
goods were not only for the same man, but that the
very tradesman, whom he would not believe when he
declined giving a character of any man in general,
had trusted him with them.
He pretended to be very angry, and
to take it very ill; but the other told him, that
when he came to him for a character of the man, and
he told him honestly, that he would give no characters
at all, that it was not for any ill to his neighbour
that he declined it, he ought to have believed him;
and that he hoped, when he wanted a character of any
of his neighbours again, he would not come to him
for it.
This story is to my purpose in this
particular, which is indeed very significant; that
it is the most difficult thing of its kind in the
world to avoid giving characters of our neighbouring
tradesmen; and that, let your reasons for it be what
they will, to refuse giving a character is giving
a bad character, and is generally so taken, whatever
caution or arguments you use to the contrary.
In the next place, it is hard indeed,
if an honest neighbour be in danger of selling a large
parcel of goods to a fellow, who I may know it is
not likely should be able to pay for them, though his
credit may in the common appearance be pretty good
at that time; and what must I do? If I discover
the man’s circumstances, which perhaps I am let
into by some accident, I say, if I discover them,
the man is undone; and if I do not, the tradesman,
who is in danger of trusting him, is undone.
I confess the way is clear, if I am
obliged to speak at all in the case: the man
unsound is already a bankrupt at bottom, and must fail,
but the other man is sound and firm, if this disaster
does not befall him: the first has no wound given
him, but negatively; he stands where he stood before;
whereas the other is drawn in perhaps to his own ruin.
In the next place, the first is a knave, or rather
thief, for he offers to buy, and knows he cannot pay;
in a word, he offers to cheat his neighbour; and if
I know it, I am so far confederate with him in the
cheat.
In this case I think I am obliged
to give the honest man a due caution for his safety,
if he desires my advice; I cannot say I am obliged
officiously to go out of my way to do it, unless I
am any way interested in the person for
that would be to dip into other men’s affairs,
which is not my proper work; and if I should any way
be misinformed of the circumstances of the tradesman
I am to speak of, and wrong him, I may be instrumental
to bring ruin causelessly upon him.
In a word, it is a very nice and critical
case, and a tradesman ought to be very sure of what
he says or does in such a case, the good or evil fate
of his neighbour lying much at stake, and depending
too much on the breath of his mouth. Every part
of this discourse shows how much a tradesman’s
welfare depends upon the justice and courtesy of his
neighbours, and how nice and critical a thing his reputation
is.
This, well considered, would always
keep a tradesman humble, and show him what need he
has to behave courteously and obligingly among his
neighbours; for one malicious word from a man much
meaner than himself, may overthrow him in such a manner,
as all the friends he has may not be able to recover
him; a tradesman, if possible, should never make himself
any enemies.
But if it is so fatal a thing to tradesmen
to give characters of one another, and that a tradesman
should be so backward in it for fear of hurting his
neighbour, and that, notwithstanding the character
given should be just, and the particular reported
of him should be true, with how much greater caution
should we act in like cases where what is suggested
is really false in fact, and the tradesman is innocent,
as was the case in the tradesman mentioned before
about courting the lady. If a tradesman may be
ruined and undone by a true report, much more may he
be so by a false report, by a malicious, slandering,
defaming tongue. There is an artful way of talking
of other people’s reputation, which really,
however some people salve the matter, is equal, if
not superior, in malice to the worst thing they can
say; this is, by rendering them suspected, talking
doubtfully of their characters, and of their conduct,
and rendering them first doubtful, and then strongly
suspected. I don’t know what to say to
such a man. A gentleman came to me the other day,
but I knew not what to say; I dare not say he is a
good man, or that I would trust him with five hundred
pounds myself; if I should say so, I should belie
my own opinion. I do not know, indeed, he may
be a good man at bottom, but I cannot say he minds
his business; if I should, I must lie; I think he
keeps a great deal of company, and the like.
Another, he is asked of the currency
of his payments, and he answers suspiciously on that
side too; I know not what to say, he may pay them
at last, but he does not pay them the most currently
of any man in the street, and I have heard saucy boys
huff him at his door for bills, on his endeavouring
to put them off; indeed, I must needs say I had a bill
on him a few weeks ago for a hundred pounds, and he
paid me very currently, and without any dunning, or
often calling upon, but it was I believe because I
offered him a bargain at that time, and I supposed
he was resolved to put a good face upon his credit.
A tradesman, that would do as he would
be done by, should carefully avoid these people who
come always about, inquiring after other tradesman’s
characters. There are men who make it their business
to do thus; and as they are thereby as ready to ruin
and blow up good fair-dealing tradesmen as others,
so they do actually surprise many, and come at their
characters earlier and nearer than they expect they
would.
Tradesmen, I say, that will thus behave
to one another, cannot be supposed to be men of much
principle, but will be apt to lay hold of any other
advantage, how unjust soever, and, indeed, will wait
for an occasion of such advantages; and where is there
a tradesman, but who, if he be never so circumspect,
may some time or other give his neighbour, who watches
for his halting, advantage enough against him.
When such a malicious tradesman appears in any place,
all the honest tradesmen about him ought to join to
expose him, whether they are afraid of him or no:
they should blow him among the neighbourhood, as a
public nuisance, as a common barrettor, or
raiser of scandal; by such a general aversion to him
they would depreciate him, and bring him into so just
a contempt, that no body would keep him company, much
less credit any thing he said; and then his tongue
would be no slander, and his breath would be no blast,
and nobody would either tell him any thing, or hear
any thing from him: and this kind of usage, I
think, is the only way to put a stop to a defamer;
for when he has no credit of his own left, he would
be unable to hurt any of his neighbour’s.