CHAPTER VI - HINTS ON DRESS FOR ELDERLY WOMEN
Dress has much to do with a youthful
or aged appearance. Shawls and long mantles that
fall from the shoulders give even youthful figures
a look of age, because the lines are long and dignified
and without especial grace. Beautiful wraps,
or coats that do not come very far below the hip-line,
can be worn becomingly by elderly ladies, neither emphasizing
their years nor making them appear too frivolously
attired. There is a smack of truth in the maxim,
As a woman grows old the dress material should
increase in richness and decrease in brightness.
Handsome brocades, soft, elegant silks, woollen textures,
and velvets are eminently suitable and becoming to
women who are growing old.
Black, and black-and-white, soft white
chiffon veiled in lace, cashmeres, and such
refined tissues should be selected by those in “the
first wrinkles of youth.” Grays combined
with filmy white material, dull bronzes lightened
with cream-tinted lace, are also charmingly appropriate.
Pale blue veiled in chiffon is another grateful combination.
White should be worn more than it
is by old ladies. It is so suggestive of all
that is clean, bright, and dainty; and if there is
anything an old lady should strive to be in her personal
appearance it is dainty. Exquisite cleanliness
is one of the most necessary attributes of attractive
old age, and any texture that in its quality and color
emphasizes the idea of cleanliness should commend itself
to those in their “advanced youth.”
Little old thin women, large ones
too, for that matter, who are wrinkled and colorless,
should not wear diamonds. The dazzling white gems
with pitiless brilliancy bring out the pasty look
of the skin. The soft glow of pearls, the cloudlike
effects of the opal, the unobtrusive lights of the
moonstone harmonize with the tints of hair and skin
of the aged.
Elderly women should not wear bright
flowers on their bonnets or hats. Fresh-looking
roses above a face that has lost its first youthfulness
only make that fact more obvious. Forget-me-nots,
mignonettes, certain pretty white flowers, the palest
of pink roses, or the most delicate tint of yellow
veiled with lace are not inappropriate for those who
do not enjoy wearing sombre bonnets and hats which
are composed only of rich, black textures. Lace
cleverly intermingled with velvet and jewelled ornaments
of dull, rich shades are exceedingly effective on the
head-gear of the old.
Those who are gray-haired and
indeed all women as they grow old should
wear red above their brows instead of under their chins.
A glint of rich cardinal velvet, or a rosette of the
same against gray hair is beautiful.
Lace! Lace! Lace! and still
more Lace for the old. Lace is an essential to
the dress of a woman more than forty years of age.
Jabots, ruches, yokes, cascades, vests,
and gowns of lace, black or white, are all for the
old. Rich lace has an exquisitely softening effect
on the complexion. Thin women with necks that
look like the strings of a violin should swathe, smother,
decorate, and adorn their throats with lace or gossamer
fabrics that have the same quality as lace. These
airy textures, in which light and shadow can so beautifully
shift, subdue roughnesses of the skin and harshness
in lines. Old Dame Nature is the prime teacher
of these bewitching artifices. Note her fine effects
with mists and cobwebs, with lace-like moss on sturdy
old oaks, the bloom on the peach and the grape.
Nature produces her most enchanting colorings with
dust and age. Laces, gauzes, mulls, chiffons,
net, and gossamer throw the same beautiful glamour
over the face and they are fit and charming accompaniments
of gray hair, which is a wonderful softener of defective
complexions and hard facial lines.
Too much cannot be written upon the
proper arrangement in the neck-gear of the aged.
The disfiguring wrinkles that make many necks unsightly
may be kept in obeyance by massaging. No matter
what the fashion in neck-gear, the aged must modify
it to suit their needs. An old lady with a thin,
pipe-stem neck should adopt a full ruche and fluffy,
soft collar-bands. I cannot forbear repeating
that tulle as light as thistle bubbles, either white
or gray or black, is exquisitely effective for thin,
scrawny necks. The fleshy, red neck should be
softened with powder and discreetly veiled in chemisettes
of chiffon and delicate net.
Old ladies may keep in the style,
thus being in the picture of the hour; but it is one
of the divine privileges of age that it can make its
own modes. Absolute cleanliness, cleanliness
as exacting as that proper nurses prescribe for babies,
is the first and most important factor in making old
age attractive. Rich dress, in artistic colors,
soft, misty, esthetic, comes next; then the idealizing
scarfs, collars, jabots, and fichus of lace and
tulles. Old people becomingly and artistically
attired have the charm of rare old pictures. If
they have soul-illumined faces they are precious masterpieces.