The decalogue of the Zend-Avesta mentions
many strange sins. The strangest among them is
sorrow. The Persian abhorred it. His Muhammadan
victor, who had learned from him much, learned also
its avoidance. If it ever perturbed the Moors,
by the time Andalusia was theirs it had vanished.
Joy was a creed with them. Their poets made it
the cardinal virtue. The Aragonese and Provencals,
whom they indoctrinated, made it the basis of the
gaya cienca-the gay science of love,
and chivalry the parure of the knight.
Before chivalry departed and very
shortly after it appeared, that joy, lifted into joie
d’amour, glowed like a rose in the gloom of the
world. It humanized very notably. It dismissed
much that was dark. It brought graces hitherto
unknown. It inspired loyalty, fealty and parage-the
nobility of noble pride-but particularly
the worship of woman.
In the East, woman had also been worshipped.
But not as she was in Europe at this period.
At no epoch since has she been as sovereign. Set
figuratively with the high virtues in high figurative
spheres, she ruled on earth only less fully than she
reigned in heaven. The cultus, instituted
first by the troubadours, then adopted by royals,
connected consequently with pride of place, became
fashionable among an aristocracy for whose convenience
the rest of humanity labored. Too elevating for
the materialism of the age that had gone and too elevated
for the democracy of the age that followed, it was
comparable to a precipitate of the chemistry of the
soul projected into the heart of a life splendid and
impermanent, a form of existence impossible before,
impossible since, a social order very valiant, very
courteous, to which the sense of rectitude had not
come but in which joy, unparalleled in history, really,
if unequally, abounded. Never more obvious, never
either was it more obscure. It was abstruse.
It had its laws, its jurists, its tribunals and its
code.
Chivalry required of the novice various
proofs and preliminaries before admitting him to knighthood.
The gay science had also its requirements, preparatory
tests which young men of quality gave and primary instruction
which they received, before their novitiate could terminate.
The tests related to women married and single.
By address in the lists, by valor in war, by constant
courtesy and loyalty, it was the duty of the aspirant
to please them. Pending the novitiate no word
of love was permitted and any advancement might be
lost through an awkwardness of speech or gesture.
But the caprices of a lady properly endured and
the tests undergone unfalteringly, relations might
ensue, in which case, if the lady were single, the
connection was not thought contrary to the best traditions,
provided that it was a prelude to marriage, nor, if
the lady were already married was it thought at variance
with those traditions, provided that the articles
of the code were observed.
Concerning the origin of the code
history stammers. The chief authority, Maitre
Andre, said that in Broceliande-a locality
within the confines of the Arthurian myth-a vavasour-quidam miles-met
a lass-formosa puella-who agreed to accept his attentions on
condition that he outjousted the Knights of the Round Table and got a falcon
from them for her. These labors accomplished and the vavasour rewarded-plenius suo
remuneravit amore-there was found attached
to the falcon’s claw, a scroll, a holy writ,
a code of love, a corpus juris amoris.
The story is as imaginary as Broceliande.
The code was probably derived from some critique of
pure courtesy then common in manuals of chivalry.
But its source is unimportant. Gradually promulgated
throughout Christendom it resulted in making love
the subject of law for the administration of which
courts open and plenary were founded. These courts
which were at once academies of fine sentiments and
parliaments of joy, existed, Maitre Andre stated,
before Salahaddin decapitated a Christian and lasted,
Nostradamus declared, until post-Petrarchian days.
The code is as follows:
I. Causa conjugii
ab amore non est excusatio
recta.
II. Qui non
celat amare non potest.
III. Nemo duplici potest
amore ligari.
IV. Semper amorem minui
vel crescere constat.
V. Non est sapidum
quod amans ab invito sumit amante.
VI. Masculus non
solet nisi in plena pubertate amare.
VII. Biennalis viduitas
pro amante defuncto superstiti
praescribitur amanti.
VIII. Nemo, sine
rationis excessu, suo débet amore privari.
IX. Amare nemo
potest, nisi qui amoris suasione compellitur.
X. Amor semper
ab avaritia consuevit domiciliis exulare.
XI. Non decet
amare quarum pudor est nuptias affectare.
XII. Verus amans
alterius nisi suae coamantis ex affectu non
cupit
amplexus.
XIII. Amor raro
consuevit durare vulgatus.
XIV. Facilis perceptio
contemptibilem reddit amorem, difficilis
eum parum facit haberi.
XV. Omnis consuevit
amans in coamantis as pectupallescere.
XVI. In repentina
coamantis visione, cor tremescit amantis.
XVII. Novus amor
veterem compellit abire.
XVIII. Probitas sola
quemcumque dignum facit amore.
XIX. Si amor minuatur,
cito deficit et raro convalescit.
XX. Amorosus semper est
timorosus.
XXI. Ex vera
zelotypia affectus semper crescit amandi.
XXII. De coamante suspicione
percepta zelus interea et affectus
crescit amandi.
XXIII. Minus dormit et edit
quem amoris cogitatio vexat.
XXIV. Quilibet amantis
actus in coamantis cogitatione finitur.
XXV. Verus amans
nihil beatum credit, nisi quod
cogitat amanti
placere.
XXVI. Amor nihil
posset amori denegare.
XXVII. Amans coamantis
solatiis satiari non potest.
XXVIII. Modica praesumptio
cogit amantem de coamante suspicari
sinistra.
XXIX. Non solet amare
quem nimia voluptatis abundantia vexat.
XXX. Verus amans
assidua, sine intermissione, coamantis
imagine
detinetur.
XXXI. Unam feminam nihil
prohibet a duobus amari, et a duabus
mulieribus unum.
Of these articles, the translation of a few may suffice.
The allegation of marriage is
an insufficient plea against love.
No one should love two people
at the same time.
Without exceeding good reason
no one should be forbidden to love.
No one need love unless persuasion
invite.
It is not seemly to
love one whom it would be unseemly to marry.
A new love banishes
an old one.
Love readily yielded
is lightly held.
The establishment of courts for the
maintenance of principles such as these may seem unnecessary.
Yet they had their raison d’etre. In cases
of tort and felony the lord of a fief possessed the
right of justice high and low. There are crimes
now which the law cannot reach. It was the same
way then. There were controversies which no mere
man could adjust. To remedy the defect the wives
of the lords created tribunals of their own.
In the English dominions on the Continent
generally, as also in Flanders, Champagne and Provence,
these courts were frequent. In describing them
Nostradamus said that “disputes arising from
the beautiful and subtle questions of love were submitted
to illustrious ladies who, after deliberation, rendered
judgments termed, ‘Lous arrests d’amours.’”
Of the beautiful and subtle questions
here is one: A confidant charged by a friend
with messages of love found the lady so to his liking
that he addressed her in his own behalf. Instead
of being repulsed he was encouraged. Whereupon
the injured party brought suit. Maitre Andre,
prothonotary of the court, relates that the plaintiff
prayed that the fraud be submitted to the Countess
of Champagne, who, sitting in banco with sixty
ladies, heard the complaint and, on deliberation, rendered
judgment as follows: “It is ordered that
the defendants henceforth be debarred the frequentation
of honest people.” Here is another instance.
A knight was charged by a lady not to say or do anything
in her praise. It so fell about that her name
was lightly taken. The knight challenged the
defamer. Thereupon the lady contended that he
had forfeited all claim to her regard. Action
having been brought the court decided that the defence
of a lady being never illicit the knight should be
rehabilitated in favor and reinstated in grace.
Which, the prothonotary states, was done.
It was over these delicate matters,
over others more delicate still, that the Courts of
Love claimed and exercised jurisdiction. Execution
of the decrees may seem to have been arduous.
But judgments were enforced not by a constabulary
but by the community. Disregard of a decision
entailed not loss of liberty but loss of caste.
In the case of a man, entrance was denied him at the
tournaments. In the case of a woman, the drawbridges
were up. Throughout the land there was no one
to receive her. As a result the delinquent was
rare. So too was contempt of the jurists.
Sometimes a girl appeared before them. Sometimes
a king.
To-day it all seems very trivial.
But at the time marriage was a matter concerning which
the party most interested had the least to say.
Love was not an element of it and disinclination a
detail. Moreover in the apoplectic conditions
of the world a woman’s natural guardians were
not always at hand, the troubadour always was; the
consequence being that a lady was left to do more
or less as she saw fit and it was in order that she
might do what was fittest that decretals were made.
They served another purpose.
They set a standard which is observed to-day.
Article XI of the code: Non decet amare
quarum pudor est nuptias affectare,-It
is not seemly to love one whom it would not be seemly
to marry, is one of the pivots of modern ethics.
On it was constructed Ruy Blas. The tale
is tragic but then the entire realm of love is choked
with tragic tales, though it is less so when the precept
is observed and still less when there is regard for
the injunction against double loving.
In addition, the provisions of the
code were instrumental in originating that regard
for appearances which society previously had neglected
and from which contemporaneous refinement proceeds.
Chivalry came with the crusades; with the Courts of
Love, good manners.
They had another merit. In guiding
the affections they educated them. To love and
to be loved is not simple but complex. Love may
come from mutual attraction. That is common.
It may come of natural selection, which is rare.
Natural selection presupposes a discernment that leads
a man through mazes of women to one woman in particular,
to a woman who to him is the one woman in all the
world, to the woman who has been awaiting him and who
recognizes him when he comes. Or vice versa.
In the Middle Ages it was usually from the woman that
the initial recognition proceeded. It was she
who did the selecting. In the best society she
does so still.
To encourage her the Courts of Love
authorized a form of contemplative union in which
lovers exchanged vows similar to those taken at the
investiture of a vassal. The knight knelt before
the lady, put his hands in hers and acknowledged himself
her liegeman. The homage was formally accepted.
The knight received a kiss which was renewable every
year. But nothing more. In theory at least.
Any further reward of fealty being due to the sheer
generosity of the lady who then was lord. The
kiss however was collectable. In the event of
deferred payment action could be brought. One
was. By way of defence the defendant alleged that
Mr. Danger was present. Mr. Danger was the defendant’s
husband.
These hymens of the heart, instituted
by virtue of Article I, Causa conjugii ab
amore non est excusatio recta-Against
love marriage is an insufficient excuse-resulted
in a sort of moral bigamy that was sanctioned generally
by custom, in Provence by the clergy, and which, like
marriage was contracted in the presence of witnesses.
Gerard de Roussillon, a mediaeval writer, described
a lady who while marrying one man coincidentally gave
a ring and promise of love to another. The proceeding
was strictly in accordance with the sentiment of the
day which regarded love as incompatible with marriage.
A case in point is contained in the
reports of Martial d’Auvergne. A knight
loved a lady who could not accept his vows inasmuch
as she loved some one else. But she promised
to do so if it so happened that she lost the other
man-a contingency which to-day would mean
if he died or ran away. Very differently the
jurisprudence of the epoch interpreted it. The
lady married the man she loved whereupon the knight
exacted fulfilment of the agreement. Queen Eleanor,
before whom the case was heard, decided in his favor,
on the ground, perhaps subtle, that the lady’s
husband, in becoming her husband, became ipso facto,
by that very act, amatorially defunct.
In a case not similar but cognate,
judgment rendered by the Countess of Champagne was
as follows: “By these presents we declare
and affirm that love cannot exist between married
people for the reason that lovers grant everything
unconstrainedly whereas married people are obliged
to submit to one another. Wherefore shall this
decision, reached prudently in conformity with the
opinion of many other ladies, be to you all a constant
and irrefragible truth. So adjudged in the year
of grace 1174, the third day of the calends of May,
seventh indiction.”
In another case Ermengarde of Narbonne
decided that the addition of the marriage tie cannot
invalidate a prior affair, nisi-unless
the lady has in mind to have done with love forever.
Decretals of this nature, however
absurd they may seem, were at least serviceable in
the reforms they effected. According to the civil
law if a husband absented himself for ten years, the
wife had the right to remarry. According to the
law of love, the absence of a lover, however prolonged,
did not release the lady from her attachment.
The civil law authorized a widow to remarry in a year
and a day. The law of love exacted for the heart
a widowhood of twice that period. The civil law
permitted a husband to beat his wife reasonably.
The law of love enforced for the lady respect.
The resulting conditions, perhaps
analogous to those of eighteenth-century Italy where
every woman of position had, in addition to a husband
a cavalière servente, succeeded none the
less in developing outside of marriage and directly
in opposition to it, the ideal of what marriage is,
the union not only of hands but of hearts. The
Courts of Love might go, their work endured.
They made woman what she had been in republican Rome
and what she is to-day, the guide and associate of
man.
Slowly thereafter they followed knight-errantry
to its grave without however meanwhile becoming what
Hallam described as “fantastical solemnities.”
“I never had,” Hallam declared, “the
patience to look at the older writers who discussed
this tiresome subject.” In view of which
his opinions are not important, particularly as the
Courts of Love so far from becoming fantastic went
to the other extreme. Instead of questions beautiful
and subtle, there arose others, highly realistic, together
with investigations de visu which young gentlewomen
treated in terms precise.
Before decadence set in, at a time
when these establishments were at their best and notwithstanding
the ethical purport of their decisions, misadventures
occurred. Of these, one, commonly reported by
all authorities, is curious.
The Lord Raymond of Castel-Roussillon
had for wife the Lady Marguerite. Guillaume de
Cabstain, a lad of quality came to their court where
he was made page to the countess and where, after
certain episodes, he composed for her the lai
which runs:
“Sweet are the
thoughts
That love awakes in
me.”
Etc. When Raymond heard
the song he led Guillaume far from the castle, cut
his head off, put it in a basket, cut his heart out,
put it also in a basket, returned to the castle, had
the heart roasted and had it served at table to his
wife. The Lady Marguerite ate without knowing
what it was. The repast concluded, Raymond stood
up. He told his wife that what she had eaten
was the heart of the page. He fetched and showed
her the head and asked how the heart had tasted.
The Lady Marguerite, recognizing the
head, replied that the heart had been so appetizing
that never other food or drink should take from her
its savor. Raymond ran at her with his sword.
She fled away, threw herself from a balcony and broke
her skull.
The story, though commonly reported,
has not been substantiated. It occurred a long
time ago and, it may be, never occurred at all.
But as a picture of mediaeval love, life and death,
it is exact. If it did not occur, it might have.
Joy’s fingers are ever at its lips bidding farewell.
It was in that attitude that its parliaments departed.