“To renounce your individuality,
to see with another’s eyes, to hear with another’s
ears, to be two and yet but one, to so melt and mingle
that you no longer know are you you or another, to
constantly absorb and constantly radiate, to reduce
earth, sea, and sky and all that in them is to a single
being, to give yourself to that being so wholly that
nothing whatever is withheld, to be prepared at any
moment for any sacrifice, to double your personality
in bestowing it-that is love.”
So Gautier wrote, very beautifully
as was his beautiful custom. But in this instance
inexactly. That is not love. It is a description,
in gold ink, of one of love’s many costumes.
Every poet has provided one. All give images
and none the essence. Yet that essence is the
sphinx’s riddle. Its only OEdipus is philosophy.
Philosophy teaches that the two fundamental
principles of thought are self-preservation and the
preservation of the species. Every idea that has
existed or does exist in the human mind is the result
of the permutations and combinations of these two
principles and their derivatives. Of the two
the second is the stronger. Its basis is a sentiment
which antiquity deified, primitive Christianity scorned,
chivalry nimbused and the Renaissance propelled over
the paths easy or perilous which it has since pursued.
But into the precise nature of that sentiment metaphysics
alone has looked. Plato was the first that analyzed
it. For the few thereafter the rich courses of
his Banquet sufficed. They regaled themselves
on it. But for humanity at large, to whom the
feast was Greek, there was only the descriptions of
poets and the knowledge, agreeable or otherwise, which
personal experience supplied. In either case the
noumenon, the Ding an sich, the thing in itself,
escaped. It was too tenuous perhaps for detention
or else too obvious. Plato himself did not grasp
it.
The omission Schopenhauer discerned.
Schopenhauer was an idealist. The forms of matter
and of man he arranged in two categories, which he
called Representation and Will. In his system
of philosophy everything not produced by the one is
the result of the other. Among the effects of
the latter is love.
This frivolity-the term
is Schopenhauer’s-is, he declared,
a manifestation of the Genius of the Species, who,
behind a mask of objective admiration, deludes the
individual into mistaking for his own happiness that
which in reality concerns but the next generation.
Love is Will projecting itself into the creation of
another being and the precise instant in which that
being emerges from the original source of whatever
is into the possibilities of potential existence, is
the very moment in which two young people begin to
fancy each other. The seriousness with which
on first acquaintance they consider each other is due
to an unconscious meditation concerning the child
that they might create. The result of the meditation
determines the degree of their reciprocal inclinations.
That degree established, the new being becomes comparable
to a new idea. As is the case with all ideas
it makes an effort to manifest itself. In the
strength of the effort is the measure of the attraction.
Its degrees are infinite while its extremes are represented
by Venus Pandemos and Venus Urania-ordinary passion and exalted affection.
But in its essence love is always and everywhere the same, a meditation on the
composition of the next generation and the generations that thence proceed-Meditatio
compositionis generationis futurae e qua iterum pendent
innumerae generationes.
The character of the meditation, its
durability or impermanence, is, Schopenhauer continued,
in direct proportion to the presence of attributes
that attract. These attributes are, primarily,
physical. Attraction is induced by health, by
beauty, particularly by youth, in which health and
beauty are usually combined, and that because the Genius
of the Species desires above all else the creation
of beings that will live and who, in living, will
conform to an integral type. After the physical
come mental and temperamental attributes, all of which,
in themselves, are insufficient to establish love
except on condition of more or less perfect conformity
between the parties. But as two people absolutely
alike do not exist, each one is obliged to seek in
another those qualities which conflict least with
his or her own. In the difficulty of finding
them is the rarity of real love. In connection
with which Schopenhauer noted that frequently two
people, apparently well adapted to one another, are,
instead of being attracted, repelled, the reason being
that any child they might have would be mentally or
physically defective. The antipathy which they
experience is induced by the Genius of the Species
who has in view only the interests of the next generation.
To conserve these interests, nature,
Schopenhauer explained, dupes the individual with
an illusion of free will. In affairs of the heart
the individual believes that he is acting in his own
behalf, for his own personal benefit, whereas he is
but acting in accordance with a predetermined purpose
for the accomplishment of which nature has instilled
in him an instinct that moves him to her ends, and
so forcibly that rather than fail he is sometimes
compelled to sacrifice what otherwise he would do
his utmost to preserve-honor, health, wealth
and reputation. It is illusion that sets before
his eyes the deceiving image of felicity. It is
illusion which convinces him that union with some one
person will procure it. Whatever efforts or sacrifices
he may consequently make he will believe are made
to that end only yet he is but laboring for the creation
of a predetermined being who has need of his assistance
to arrive into life. But, once the work of nature
accomplished, disenchantment ensues. The illusion
that duped him has vanished.
According to Schopenhauer love is,
therefore, but the manifestation of an instinct which,
influenced by the spirit of things, irresistibly attracts
two people who, through natural conformity, are better
adapted to conjointly fulfil nature’s aims than
they would be with other partners. Schopenhauer
added that in such circumstances, when two individuals
complete each other and common and exclusive affection
possesses them both, their affection represents a
special mission delegated by the Genius of the Species,
one which consequently assumes a character of high
elevation. In these cases, in addition to physical
adaptation there is, he noted, a mental and temperamental
concordance so adjusted that the parties alone could
have achieved nature’s aims. In actuating
them to that end the Genius of the Species desired,
for reasons which Schopenhauer described as inaccessible,
the materialization of a particular being that could
not otherwise appear. In the series of existing
beings that desire had no other sphere of action than
the hearts of the future parents. The latter,
seized by the impulsion, believe that they want for
themselves that which as yet is but purely metaphysical,
or, in other words, beyond the circle of actually
existing things. In this manner, from the original
source of whatever is, there then darts a new being’s
aspiration for life which aspiration manifests itself
in the actuality of things by the love of its potential
parents, who, however, once the object of the Genius
of the Species attained, find, to their entire astonishment,
that that love is no more. But meanwhile, given
that love, and the potential parents may become so
obsessed by it that they will disregard anything which,
ordinarily, would interfere.
This disregard, Schopenhauer further
explained, is due to the Genius of the Species to
whom the personal interests of the individual, laws,
obstacles, differences of position, social barriers
and human conventions are so many straws. Caring
only for the generation to be lightly he dismisses
them. It is his privilege, Schopenhauer declared.
Our existence being rooted in him, he has over us
a right anterior and more immediate than all things
else. His interests are supreme.
“That point,” Schopenhauer
concluded, “antiquity perfectly understood when
it personified the Genius of the Species as Eros, a
divinity who, in spite of his infantile air, is hostile,
cruel, despotic, demoniac and none the less master
of gods and of man.
‘Tu, deorum hominumque
tyranne, Amor!’”
For a philosopher Schopenhauer is
very graphic. It is his great charm and possibly
his sole defect. In the superabundance of his
imagination there was not always room for the matter
of fact. Then too he had a theory. Everything
had to yield to it. The trait, common to all metaphysicians,
von Hartmann shared. In the latter’s Philosophie
des Unbewussten the Genius of the Species becomes
the Unconscious, the same force with a different name,
a sort of anthropomorphic entity lurking on the back
stairs of Spencer’s Unknowable and from there
ruling omnipotently the lives and loves of man.
Both systems are ingenious. They
are profound and they are admirable. They have
been respectfully received by the doct. But in
their metaphysics of the heart there is a common error.
Each confounds instinct with sentiment. Moreover,
assuming the validity of their hypothetical idol,
there are phenomena left unexplained, the ordinary
case for instance of an individual inspiring but not
requiting another’s love. In one of the
two parties to it the entity obviously has erred.
According to Schopenhauer and von Hartmann the entity
is the unique cause of love, which itself is an instinct
that deludes into the furtherment of nature’s
aims. But in an unrequited affection such furtherment
is impossible. In which event if philosophy is
not at fault the entity must be; the result being that
it lacks the omnipotence claimed. Demonstrably
it has some power, it is even clear that that power
is great, but in the same sense that occultists deny
that death is, so may true lovers deny that the entity
exists. For them it is not. Without doubt
it is the modern philosophic representative of Eros,
but of Eros Pandemos, son and heir of the primitive
Aphrodite whom Plato described.
Love does not proceed from that source.
The instinct of it certainly does but not sentiment
which is its basis. Commonly instinct and sentiment
are confused. But, if a distinction be effected
between their manifestations, it will be recognized
that though desire is elemental in both, in instinct
desire is paramount while in sentiment it is secondary
and frequently, particularly in the case of young
women, it is dormant when not absent, even though
they may be what is termed “wildly in love.”
Instinct is a primitive and general instigation, coeval
and conterminous with life. Love is a specific
emotion, exclusive in selection, more or less permanent
in duration and due to a mental fermentation in itself
caused by a law of attraction, which Plato called imeros
and Voltaire the myth of happiness invented by Satan
for man’s despair.
Imeros is the longing for love.
The meditation which Schopenhauer described may enter
there, and usually does, whether or not the parties
interested are aware of it. But it need not necessarily
do so. When Heloise was in her convent there
could have been no such meditation, yet, she loved
Abailard as fervently as before. Moreover, when
the work of nature is accomplished, disenchantment
does not, as Schopenhauer insisted, invariably ensue.
Disenchantment results when the accomplishing is due
to instinct but not when sentiment is the cause.
Had instinct alone prevailed humanity would hardly
have arisen from its primitive state. But the
evolution of the sentiment of love, in developing the
law of attraction, lifted men from animality, angels
from the shames of Ishtar, and heightened the stature
of the soul.
The advance effected is as notable
as it is obvious, but its final term is probably still
remote. Ages ago the sphinx was disinterred from
beneath masses of sand under which it had brooded
interminably. In its simian paws, its avian wings,
in its body which is that of an animal, in its face
which is that of a sage, before Darwin, before history,
in traits great and grave, the descent of man was
told.
There remains his ascent. Future
monuments may tell it. Meanwhile evolution has
not halted. Undiscernibly but indefatigably its
advance proceeds. Its culmination is not in existing
types. If humanity descends from apes, from humanity
gods may emerge. The story of Olympus is but a
tale of what might have been and what might have been
may yet come to pass. Even now, if the story
were true and the old gods could return, it is permissible
to assume that they would evaporate to ghostland eclipsed.
The inextinguishable laughter which was theirs is absent
from the prose of life. Commerce has alarmed
their afflatus away. But the telegraph is a better
messenger than they had, the motor is surer than their
chariots of dream. In contemporary homes they
could have better fare than ambrosia and behold faces
beside which some of their own might seem less divine.
The prodigies of electricity might appear to them
more potent than the thunderbolts of Zeus and, at
the sight of modern engines, possibly they would recall
the titans with whom once they warred and sink back
to their sacred seas outfaced.
In the same manner that we have exceeded
them it is also permissible to assume that posterity
will exceed what we have done. From its parturitions
gods may really come, beings that is, who, could contemporaneous
man remain to behold them, would regard him as he
regards the ape.
That advance, if effected, love will
achieve. In its history, already long, yet relatively
brief, it has changed the face of the earth. It
has transformed laws and religions. It has reversed
and reconstructed every institution human and divine.
As yet its evolution is incomplete. But when
the final term is reached, then, doubtless, the words
of the Apocalypse shall be realized, for all things
will have been made anew.