CHAPTER IV - MOTHER’S BABY
There is another wonderful secret
that I have to tell you. I wonder if you can
guess what this is! No, it is not about a flower,
nor a bird but, yes, you have guessed it
right, for it is about a girl just like you!
Is it not queer how much alike the
flowers and birds and little girls are, after all,
even if they do not look at all alike?
You have lungs just the same as the
bird, and breathe as it does. You have two feet,
but instead of wings you have arms and hands.
You have a sign language, as the flowers have, and
you have a language of sounds that is even better
than the bird language. When you are happy, I
can tell it by the smiles on your face, and sometimes
when you are a wee bit cross, I know it by a tiny
frown that mars the beauty of your face. But,
of course, that does not happen very often, because,
you know, as we grow older, our faces do not change
their expressions as easily as they do when we are
young. And would it not be dreadful, if when you
grew up, you always had a frown on your face and were
not nice looking at all? You know the frown wrinkles
try to stay, and every time we let them come out they
leave a tiny mark.
When the flower took in the fresh
air it made green coloring matter, but when you take
in the fresh air it makes red coloring matter.
So if you want to have red cheeks and red lips you
must have plenty of fresh air. I know you get
a great deal in the daytime when you are playing, but
you must be sure to get it at night, too, or you will
lose all your pretty color. Be sure that your
window is open every night.
You remember, the leaves not only
had to breathe but they had to digest the food for
the plant, too, but the bird had a stomach to perform
that work.
In this way you are like the birds,
for you have a stomach which takes care of the food
you eat. If you wish to grow strong and well so
as to be able to run and play and also to help your
mother with her work, you must eat plenty of good,
nourishing food. You know some food makes muscles,
but other things are not very good for people to eat.
Plenty of bread and milk and cereals, also meat, potatoes
and fruit, are very good things to make girls grow.
You must take care of your stomach, too, and give
it time to rest, for it works very hard and might get
tired out. Then what would you do?
You have seen, Violet, that in a great
many ways you are like the birds and flowers, but
now I am going to tell you something that perhaps you
did not know. Girls have ovaries just the same
as flowers and birds, and inside each ovary are a
great many little ovules that after a while will
ripen as the seeds did, only instead of growing into
flowers or birds they will grow into babies.
Is that not lovely, and are you not glad that perhaps
some day you will be able to have a baby all your own?
But of course that will not be for a great many years
yet, for you must wait until you have grown into a
strong woman and have a home of your own and a husband
to help take care of the baby.
When the little ovules are ripe
there must be a nest prepared for them, just the same
as there was one prepared for the flowers and birds.
But now I shall tell you another wonderful secret.
Mothers do not have to build nests, for they are already
prepared for them right inside their bodies close
to their hearts. The nest is called the womb.
Although we do not have to build the nest, we have
to take good care of it so it may grow strong.
This nest and the tiny ovules
are growing constantly from the time the girls are
babies, but they grow so very slowly that none of the
ovules are ripe until the girl is about twelve
years old. After that one ripens every month
and passes to the nest or womb. At the same time
an extra amount of blood is sent to the womb to provide
nourishing material for the ovule to use in its growth.
But the womb, or nest, is not strong enough yet to
hold a healthy baby, so this extra amount of blood
with the ovule is sent out of the body through the
vagina, which is a muscular tube leading from the
womb to the external parts (private parts). We
call this flow the menstrual flow. This occurs
every month and each time the womb becomes a little
stronger and better able to hold a growing babe.
But the womb is not fully developed until the rest
of the body is matured.
Menstruation is the sign of the possibility
of motherhood. Realizing this fact, one cannot
fail to have a high idea of this function. Most
girls, naturally, desire children. Little girls
love their doll babies, and spend much time in caring
for them, but as girls grow into womanhood they desire
real babies. A woman who does not desire children
has had her mind perverted by false ideas or fear.