CHAPTER IX - INJURY OF THE NEST
We who love birds would not do anything
to injure their homes, but there are some children
who have not learned to love birds or who are thoughtless
and injure their nests, sometimes even tearing them
to pieces or breaking off the limb of the tree.
There also are thoughtless children
who do things to injure their bodies. You would
think it very foolish to allow someone to put a bee
on your face that would sting you and yet there are
some thoughtless children who would do just that if
you would let them. They might even try to tell
you it would not hurt you, but of course you would
know better. You, who know how necessary is every
part of the body, would not allow anyone to injure
any part of it, especially the part that contains
the mother nest. Think how badly the mother bird
must have felt when the child destroyed the nest,
and think how badly you would feel, when it came time
for you to marry and have a baby, if you found the
nest had been so injured that you could not have any.
You know, the nest as well as the rest of the body
belongs to you alone, and no one has a right to injure
it, but sometimes girls are as careless or as thoughtless
as the boy with the bee and do things that are harmful.
I have told you how to care for this mother nest so
it will grow well and strong, but now I must tell
you something more. As you go out in the world
you will meet some girls and some boys who have never
been told these things and do not understand all the
things you do. Sometimes they have very wrong
ideas and will do many things that are harmful.
Not only that, but they will try to get you to do
them. Some little girls who do not understand
what their organs are for will even play with them,
for they think it gives them a pleasurable sensation.
I am sure they would not do this if they understood
that by so doing they were injuring the precious nest.
You know if you or anyone else would put things into
your eyes or ears or play with them in any way you
might lose your sight or hearing. It is the same
way with the mother nest and other organs. The
best plan is to just keep them clean and then not
touch them at any other time nor allow anyone else
to do so. But in bathing the parts you must be
careful to have your own towel and not use any cloths
that have been used by other people, for there are
some dreadful diseases, called the black plagues,
that can be carried to these organs by anything that
is not strictly clean, and these diseases sometimes
destroy the nest and ovules. So you must
be careful in all you do.
If at any time, Violet, questions
come up in your mind as to what is the best thing
for you to do, remember that mother will be glad to
answer them or will help you obtain books that will
explain things to you. Do not go to your companions,
for they might not understand and would give you wrong
ideas. In school we have text books and a teacher,
who is older and more experienced than we, to whom
we can go for help in our school problems. We
know she will tell us the right solution and we know
it is better to go to her than to the other pupils.
So in this study of our bodies and the care of them,
we must learn from some one older and more experienced,
or we must study books that have been written for that
purpose. Then we will be sure to obtain the right
ideas.
After a while, when you are grown
and it is nearing the time for you to marry, I will
tell you some things about the care of the baby and
how you may have a good-natured, healthy child.
But now all you need to do for a number of years is
to take good care of this mother nest and the rest
of your body, so it will grow strong and well.