FREEWOMEN AND DORA MARSDEN
This is by way of a postscript.
Dora Marsden is a new figure in the feminist movement.
Just how she evolved is rather hard to say. Her
family were Radicals, it seems, smug British radicals;
and she broke away, first of all, into a sort of middle
class socialism. She went into settlement work.
Here, it seems, she discovered what sort of person
she really was.
She was a lover of freedom. So
of course she rebelled against the interference of
the middle class with the affairs of the poor, and
threw overboard her settlement work and her socialism
together. She was a believer in woman suffrage,
but the autocratic government of the organization
irked her. And, besides, she felt constrained
to point out that feminism meant worlds more than
a mere vote. The position of woman, not indeed
as the slave of man, but as the enslaver of man, but
with the other end of the chain fastened to her own
wrist, and depriving her quite effectually of her
liberties this irritated her. Independence
to her meant achievement, and when she heard the talk
about “motherhood” by which the women
she knew excused their lack of achievement, she was
annoyed. Finally, the taboo upon the important
subject of sex exasperated her. So she started
a journal to express her discontent with all these
things, and to change them.
Naturally, she called her journal
The Freewoman. “Independent” expresses
much of Dora Marsden’s feeling, but that word
has been of late dragged in a mire of pettiness and
needs dry cleaning. It has come to signify a
woman who isn’t afraid to go out at night alone
or who holds a position downtown. A word had
to be chosen which had in it some suggestion of the
heroic. Hence The Freewoman.
The Freewoman was a weekly. It
lived several months and then suspended publication,
and now all the women I know are poring over the back
numbers while waiting for it to start again as a fortnightly.
It was a remarkable paper. For one thing, it
threw open its columns to such a discussion of sex
that dear Mrs. Humphry Ward wrote a shocked letter
to The Times about it. Of course, a good many
of the ideas put forth in this correspondence were
erroneous or trivial, but it must have done the writers
no end of good to express themselves freely. For
once sex was on a plane with other subjects, a fact
making tremendously for sanity. In this Miss
Marsden not only achieved a creditable journalistic
feat, but performed a valuable public service.
Her editorials were another distinctive
thing. In the first issue was an editorial on
“Bondwomen,” from which it would appear
that perhaps even such advanced persons as you, my
dear lady, are still far from free.
“Bondwomen are distinguished
from Freewomen by a spiritual distinction. Bondwomen
are the women who are not separate spiritual entities who
are not individuals. They are complements merely.
By habit of thought, by form of activity, and largely
by preference, they round off the personality of some
other individual, rather than create or cultivate
their own. Most women, as far back as we have
any record, have fitted into this conception, and
it has borne itself out in instinctive working practice.
“And in the midst of all this
there comes a cry that woman is an individual, and
that because she is an individual she must be set free.
It would be nearer the truth to say that if she is
an individual she is free, and will act like
those who are free. The doubtful aspect in the
situation is as to whether women are or can be individuals that
is, free and whether there is not danger,
under the circumstances, in labelling them free, thus
giving them the liberty of action which is allowed
to the free. It is this doubt and fear which is
behind the opposition which is being offered the vanguard
of those who are ’asking for’ freedom.
It is the kind of fear which an engineer would have
in guaranteeing an arch equal to a strain above its
strength. The opponents of the Freewomen are
not actuated by spleen or by stupidity, but by dread.
This dread is founded upon ages of experience with
a being who, however well loved, has been known to
be an inferior, and who has accepted all the conditions
of inferiors. Women, women’s intelligence,
and women’s judgments have always been regarded
with more or less secret contempt, and when woman
now speaks of ‘equality,’ all the natural
contempt which a higher order feels for a lower order
when it presumes bursts out into the open. This
contempt rests upon quite honest and sound instinct,
so honest, indeed, that it must provide all the charm
of an unaccustomed sensation for fine gentlemen like
the Curzons and Cromers and Asquiths to feel anything
quite so instinctive and primitive.
“With the women opponents it
is another matter. These latter apart, however,
it is for would-be Freewomen to realize that for them
this contempt is the healthiest thing in the world,
and that those who express it honestly feel it; that
these opponents have argued quite soundly that women
have allowed themselves to be used, ever since there
has been any record of them; and that if women had
had higher uses of their own they would not have foregone
them. They have never known women to formulate
imperious wants, this in itself implying lack of wants,
and this in turn implying lack of ideals. Women
as a whole have shown nothing save ‘servant’
attributes. All those activities which presuppose
the master qualities, the standard-making, the law-giving,
the moral-framing, belong to men. Religions,
philosophies, legal codes, standards in morals, canons
in art, have all issued from men, while women have
been the ‘followers,’ ‘believers,’
the ‘law-abiding,’ the ‘moral,’
the conventionally admiring. They have been the
administrators, the servants, living by borrowed precept,
receiving orders, doing hodmen’s work.
For note, though some men must be servants, all women
are servants, and all the masters are men. That
is the difference and distinction. The servile
condition is common to all women.”
This was only the beginning of such
a campaign of radical propaganda as feminism never
knew before. Miss Marsden went on to attack all
the things which bind women and keep them unfree.
As such she denounced what she considered the cant
of “motherhood.”
“Considering, therefore, that
children, from both physiological and psychological
points of view, belong more to the woman than to the
man; considering, too, that not only does she need
them more, but, as a rule, wants them more than the
man, the parental situation begins to present elements
of humor when the woman proceeds to fasten upon the
man, in return for the children she has borne him,
the obligation from that time to the end of her days,
not only for the children’s existence, but for
her own, also!”
When asked under what conditions,
then, women should have children, she replied that
women who wanted them should save for them as for a
trip to Europe. This is frankly a gospel for
a minority a fact which does not invalidate
it in the eyes of its promulgator but she
does believe that if women are to become the equals
of men they must find some way to have children without
giving up the rest of life. It has been done!
Then, having been rebuked for her
critical attitude toward the woman suffrage organization,
she showed herself in no mood to take orders from
even that source. She subjected the attitude of
the members of the organization to an examination,
and found it tainted with sentimentalism. “Of
all the corruptions to which the woman’s
movement is now open,” she wrote, “the
most poisonous and permeating is that which flows
from sentimentalism, and it is in the W. S. P. U. [Women’s
Social and Political Union] that sentimentalism is
now rampant.... It is this sentimentalism that
is abhorrent to us. We fight it as we would fight
prostitution, or any other social disease.”
She called upon women to be individuals,
and sought to demolish in their minds any lingering
desire for Authority. “There is,”
she wrote, “a genuine pathos in our reliance
upon the law in regard to the affairs of our own souls.
Our belief in ourselves and in our impulses is so
frail that we prefer to see it buttressed up.
We are surer of our beliefs when we see their lawfulness
symbolized in the respectable blue cloth of the policeman’s
uniform, and the sturdy good quality of the prison’s
walls. The law gives them their passport.
Well, perhaps in this generation, for all save pioneers,
the law will continue to give its protecting shelter,
but with the younger generations we believe we shall
see a stronger, prouder, and more insistent people,
surer of themselves and of the pureness of their own
desires.”
She did not stick at the task of formulating
for women a new moral attitude to replace the old.
“We are seeking,” she said, “a morality
which shall be able to point the way out of the social
trap we find we are in. We are conscious that
we are concerned in the dissolution of one social
order, which is giving way to another. Men and
women are both involved, but women differently from
men, because women themselves are very different from
men. The difference between men and women is the
whole difference between a religion and a moral code.
Men are pagan. They have never been Christian.
Women are wholly Christian, and have assimilated the
entire genius of Christianity.
“The ideal of conduct which
men have followed has been one of self-realization,
tempered by a broad principle of equity which has been
translated into practice by means of a code of laws.
A man’s desire and ideal has been to satisfy
the wants which a consciousness of his several senses
gives rise to. His vision of attainment has therefore
been a sensuous one, and if in his desire for attainment
he has transgressed the law, his transgression has
sat but lightly upon him. A law is an objective
thing, laid upon a man’s will from outside.
It does not enter the inner recesses of consciousness,
as does a religion. It is nothing more than a
body of prohibitions and commands, which can be obeyed,
transgressed or evaded with little injury to the soul.
With women moral matters have been wholly different.
Resting for support upon a religion, their moral code
has received its sanction and force from within.
It has thus laid hold on consciousness with a far
more tenacious grip. Their code being subjective,
transgression has meant a darkening of the spirit,
a sullying of the soul. Thus the doctrine of self-renunciation,
which is the outstanding feature of Christian ethics,
has had the most favorable circumstances to insure
its realization, and with women it has won completely so
completely that it now exerts its influence unconsciously.
Seeking the realization of the will of others, and
not their own, ever waiting upon the minds of others,
women have almost lost the instinct for self-realization,
the instinct for achievement in their own persons.”
Whether she is right is a moot question.
Certainly in such matters as testimony in court, the
customs-tariff, and the minor city ordinances, women
show no particular respect for the law. Ibsen
sought in “The Doll’s House” to
show that her morality had no connection with the laws
of the world of men. Even in matters of human
relationship it is doubtful if women give any more
of an “inner assent” to law than do men.
Woman’s failure to achieve that domination of
the world which constitutes individuality and freedom this
Dora Marsden would explain on the ground of a dulling
of the senses. It may be more easily explained
as a result of a dulling of the imagination. The
trouble is that they are content with petty conquests.
There you have it! Inevitably
one argues with Dora Marsden. That is her value.
She provokes thought. And she welcomes it.
She wants everybody to think not to think
her thoughts necessarily, nor the right thoughts always,
but that which they can and must. She is a propagandist,
it is true. But she does not create a silence,
and call it conversion.
She stimulates her readers to cast
out the devils that inhabit their souls fear,
prejudice, sensitiveness. She helps them to build
up their lives on a basis of will the exercise,
not the suppression, of will. She indurates them
to the world. She liberates them to life.
She is the Max Stirner of feminism.
Freedom! That is the first word
and the last with Dora Marsden. She makes women
understand for the first time what freedom means.
She makes them want to be free. She nerves them
to the effort of emancipation. She sows in a
fertile soil the dragon’s teeth which shall spring
up as a band of capable females, knowing what they
want and taking it, asking no leave from anybody,
doing things and enjoying life Freewomen!