And yet our Herminia was a woman after
all. Some three years later, when Harvey Kynaston
came to visit her one day, and told her he was really
going to be married, what sudden thrill
was this that passed through and through her.
Her heart stood still. She was aware that she
regretted the comparative loss of a very near and
dear acquaintance.
She knew she was quite wrong.
It was the leaven of slavery. But these monopolist
instincts, which have wrought more harm in the world
we live in than fire or sword or pestilence or tempest,
hardly die at all as yet in a few good men, and die,
fighting hard for life, even in the noblest women.
She reasoned with herself against
so hateful a feeling. Though she knew the truth,
she found it hard to follow. No man indeed is
truly civilized till he can say in all sincerity to
every woman of all the women he loves, to every woman
of all the women who love him, “Give me what
you can of your love and of yourself; but never strive
for my sake to deny any love, to strangle any impulse
that pants for breath within you. Give me what
you can, while you can, without grudging, but the
moment you feel you love me no more, don’t pollute
your own body by yielding it up to a man you have
ceased to desire; don’t do injustice to your
own prospective children by giving them a father whom
you no longer respect, or admire, or yearn for.
Guard your chastity well. Be mine as much as
you will, as long as you will, to such extent as you
will, but before all things be your own; embrace and
follow every instinct of pure love that nature, our
mother, has imparted within you.” No woman,
in turn, is truly civilized till she can say to every
man of all the men she loves, of all the men who love
her, “Give me what you can of your love, and
of yourself; but don’t think I am so vile, and
so selfish, and so poor as to desire to monopolize
you. Respect me enough never to give me your
body without giving me your heart; never to make me
the mother of children whom you desire not and love
not.” When men and women can say that alike,
the world will be civilized. Until they can
say it truly, the world will be as now a jarring battlefield
for the monopolist instincts.
Those jealous and odious instincts
have been the bane of humanity. They have given
us the stiletto, the Morgue, the bowie-knife.
Our race must inevitably in the end outlive them.
The test of man’s plane in the scale of being
is how far he has outlived them. They are surviving
relics of the ape and tiger. But we must let
the ape and tiger die. We must cease to be Calibans.
We must begin to be human.
Patriotism is the one of these lowest
vices which most often masquerades in false garb as
a virtue. But what after all is patriotism?
“My country, right or wrong, and just because
it is my country!” This is clearly nothing
more than collective selfishness. Often enough,
indeed, it is not even collective. It means merely,
“My business-interests against the business-interests
of other people, and let the taxes of my fellow-citizens
pay to support them.” At other times it
means pure pride of race, and pure lust of conquest;
“My country against other countries; my
army and navy against other fighters; my right
to annex unoccupied territory against the equal right
of all other peoples; my power to oppress all
weaker nationalities, all inferior races.”
It never means or can mean anything good or
true. For if a cause be just, like Ireland’s,
or once Italy’s, then ’tis a good man’s
duty to espouse it with warmth, be it his own or another’s.
And if a cause be bad, then ’tis a good man’s
duty to oppose it, tooth and nail, irrespective of
your patriotism. True, a good man will feel more
sensitively anxious that strict justice should be done
by the particular community of which chance has made
him a component member than by any others; but then,
people who feel acutely this joint responsibility
of all the citizens to uphold the moral right are not
praised as patriots but reviled as unpatriotic.
To urge that our own country should strive with all
its might to be better, higher, purer, nobler, more
generous than other countries, the only
kind of patriotism worth a moment’s thought
in a righteous man’s eyes, is accounted by most
men both wicked and foolish.
Then comes the monopolist instinct
of property. That, on the face of it, is a baser
and more sordid one. For patriotism at least
can lay claim to some sort of delusive expansiveness
beyond mere individual interest; whereas property
stops short at the narrowest limits of personality.
It is no longer “Us against the world!”
but “Me against my fellow-citizens!”
It is the last word of the intercivic war in its most
hideous avatar. Look how it scars the fair face
of our common country with its antisocial notice-boards,
“Trespassers will be prosecuted.”
It says in effect, “This is my land.
As I believe, God made it; but I have acquired it,
and tabooed it to myself, for my own enjoyment.
The grass on the wold grows green; but only for me.
The mountains rise glorious in the morning sun; no
foot of man, save mine and my gillies’ shall
tread them. The waterfalls leap white from the
ledge in the glen; avaunt there, non-possessors; your
eye shall never see them. For you the muddy
street; for me, miles of upland. All this is
my own. And I choose to monopolize it.”
Or is it the capitalist? “I
will add field to field,” he cries aloud, despite
his own Scripture; “I will join railway to railway.
I will juggle into my own hands all the instruments
for the production of wealth that my cunning can lay
hold of; and I will use them for my own purposes against
producer and consumer alike with impartial egoism.
Corn and coal shall lie in the hollow of my hand.
I will enrich myself by making dear by craft the necessaries
of life; the poor shall lack, that I may roll down
fair streets in needless luxury. Let them starve,
and feed me!” That temper, too, humanity must
outlive. And those who are incapable of outliving
it of themselves must be taught by stern lessons,
as in the splendid uprising of the spirit of man in
France, that their race has outstripped them.
Next comes the monopoly of human life,
the hideous wrong of slavery. That, thank goodness,
is now gone. ’Twas the vilest of them
all the nakedest assertion of the monopolist
platform: “You live, not for yourself,
but wholly and solely for me. I disregard your
claims to your own body and soul, and use you as my
chattel.” That worst form has died.
It withered away before the moral indignation even
of existing humanity. We have the satisfaction
of seeing one dragon slain, of knowing that one monopolist
instinct at least is now fairly bred out of us.
Last, and hardest of all to eradicate
in our midst, comes the monopoly of the human heart,
which is known as marriage. Based upon the primitive
habit of felling the woman with a blow, stunning her
by repeated strokes of the club or spear, and dragging
her off by the hair of her head as a slave to her
captor’s hut or rock-shelter, this ugly and
barbaric form of serfdom has come in our own time by
some strange caprice to be regarded as of positively
divine origin. The Man says now to himself, “This
woman is mine. Law and the Church have bestowed
her on me. Mine for better, for worse; mine, drunk
or sober. If she ventures to have a heart or
a will of her own, woe betide her! I have tabooed
her for life: let any other man touch her, let
her so much as cast eyes on any other man to admire
or desire him and, knife, dagger, or law-court,
they shall both of them answer for it.”
There you have in all its native deformity another
monopolist instinct the deepest-seated of
all, the grimmest, the most vindictive. “She
is not yours,” says the moral philosopher of
the new dispensation; “she is her own; release
her! The Turk hales his offending slave, sews
her up in a sack, and casts her quick into the eddying
Bosphorus. The Christian Englishman, with more
lingering torture, sets spies on her life, drags what
he thinks her shame before a prying court, and divorces
her with contumely. All this is monopoly, and
essentially slavery. Mankind must outlive it
on its way up to civilization.”
And then the Woman, thus taught by
her lords, has begun to retort in these latter days
by endeavoring to enslave the Man in return.
Unable to conceive the bare idea of freedom for both
sexes alike, she seeks equality in an equal slavery.
That she will never achieve. The future is
to the free. We have transcended serfdom.
Women shall henceforth be the equals of men, not by
levelling down, but by levelling up; not by fettering
the man, but by elevating, emancipating, unshackling
the woman.
All this Herminia knew well.
All these things she turned over in her mind by herself
on the evening of the day when Harvey Kynaston came
to tell her of his approaching marriage. Why,
then, did she feel it to some extent a disappointment?
Why so flat at his happiness? Partly, she said
to herself, because it is difficult to live down in
a single generation the jealousies and distrusts engendered
in our hearts by so many ages of harem life.
But more still, she honestly believed, because it
is hard to be a free soul in an enslaved community.
No unit can wholly sever itself from the social organism
of which it is a corpuscle. If all the world
were like herself, her lot would have been different.
Affection would have been free; her yearnings for
sympathy would have been filled to the full by Harvey
Kynaston or some other. As it was, she had but
that one little fraction of a man friend to solace
her; to resign him altogether to another woman, leaving
herself bankrupt of love, was indeed a bitter trial
to her.
Yet for her principles’ sake
and Dolly’s, she never let Harvey Kynaston or
his wife suspect it; as long as she lived, she was
a true and earnest friend at all times to both of
them.