The prophet’s domestic life
exerted considerable influence upon his religion;
effects of which are to be seen in the Mohammedan home
of to-day.His numerous marriages afforded experience
which led to the framing of many “divine”
laws referring to women.As has already been
hinted, Kadijah, his first wife, exercised considerable
influence over his prophetic career.She evidently
had a strong affection for him, which feeling was
heartily reciprocated.She had a personality strong
enough to curb his natural passion, and to preserve
her place in spite of it in his regard.Her encouragement
and support when success and failure were trembling
in the balance, urged him to persist in the development
of his ideas.He was faithful to her during their
married life, and to her memory afterwards, and promised
her, upon her deathbed, that she should share his
heavenly chamber after his death, with the Mother
of Jesus and the sister of Moses.Within a month
of her death he was betrothed to Ayesha, a child of
seven.He did not actually marry her until she
was nine years of age, and during the interval consoled
himself by wedding a widow who had acted as nurse to
one of his daughters.This marriage seems to have
been more a matter of convenience than of affection
on his part, and in later days she was able to keep
her position as his wife only by the yielding of certain
of her privileges to other members of the harem.
Seven months after his arrival in
Medinah, during the time of poverty, the marriage
with Ayesha was celebrated, the child of nine being
united to the man of fifty-three! a marriage defended
on the ground of political expediency, whereby the
devotion of Abu Bakr, the child’s father was
strengthened.She seems to have been second only
to Khadijah in the prophet’s affections, and
exercised a petty tyranny over him, which was submitted
to even when it affected his revelations.She
excited the envy of the other wives because of her
privileges, and in spite of intrigue, was able to hold
her own.She was extremely sarcastic in regard
to some of the revelations, and even went so far on
one occasion as to jeer the prophet on his faithfulness
in recording them.This sarcasm was prompted by
jealousy, because of Mohammed’s marriage with
Zainab, which was so illegal as to cause him to throw
the responsibility on God.Zainab was the wife
of the prophet’s adopted son Zaid, who, having
discovered his foster-father’s love, thought
it wise to divorce her in his favour.The revelation
Mohammed produced seems to have been held over until
his critics had been mollified by some victory hence
the sarcasm!
During the raiding of the Jews, Mohammed
was considerably disturbed by the desire of the wives
to accompany him on the expeditions.He eased
the difficulty by arranging that one only should go
with him on each expedition, and should obtain the
favour by lot.Ayesha got into difficulty on
one of these expeditions.She dropped a necklace
and remained behind the returning party in order to
seek for it.A youth who, too, had loitered behind,
found it, and accompanied her back to the camp.Her enemies were not slow to take advantage of this
incident to prejudice her before the prophet.He was deeply hurt, and in face of the surge of public
opinion, sent her back to her parents.The complications
arising out of the divorce would probably have alienated
the sympathies of Abu Bakr, her father, so with his
usual diplomacy, Mohammed produced a revelation, in
which God declared Ayesha innocent of any cause for
divorce!It was through Ayesha, too, that the
prophet conceived the idea of praying for deliverance
from the torment of the grave, for she casually remarked
one day that she had heard a Jewish woman speaking
about torment after death.Through all her life
with the prophet she proved herself to be strong in
character, and a fitting mate for a man of Mohammed’s
type.
Other wives did not play such an important
part in the prophet’s life work.He seems
to have exhibited his taste for beauty in all his
selections.Keud was the daughter of a man of
considerable wealth and influence, and, like Zainab,
was one of the Abyssinian refugees.In the expedition
against Khaibah, Mohammed’s greed was excited
by the sight of some valuable ornaments belonging
to one of his vanquished enemies.He sought to
gain possession of them by marrying the daughter of
the owner, Safiyyah, whose husband and brother had
both been killed in the battle that had been fought.She accepted the prophet’s offer, and contented
herself for her losses in the squabbles of his harem.His other wives were Juwairijah, Hafsah, Um Salmah,
Um Kabibah, another of the Abyssinian refugees, and
Zainab, widow of his cousin.The last wife was
Maimunah, who is said to have offered herself to him
when he was considering the invasion of Mecca.A Coptic (Christian) slave girl, Mary, and Rihanah,
a Jewess, were added to the harem, but went through
no form of marriage with him.Mary was sent as
a present from one of the Coptic rulers in answer
to the prophet’s letter, urging the claims of
Islam; while Rihanah, whose husband was one of the
many who were cruelly slaughtered by decapitation after
a victory over the Jews, was at nightfall, almost
immediately after the massacre, taken to the prophet’s
tent.It is evident that the prophet had many
opportunities of still further increasing his harem,
for many women offered themselves; while the relatives
of handsome widows would make no arrangements for
the re-marriage of the bereaved ones until they had
been offered to the prophet and refused.
It cannot be expected that things
could always run smoothly with so many women possessing
rights to his attention, and there is much evidence
to show that Mohammed was often disturbed by the difficulty
of pleasing all.His relations to the feminine
sex, as may be expected, led to a very low estimate
of the position of women.Hence the utter degradation
to which they are subjected in Islam.Although
he did not practice it, he sanctioned wife beating.Divorce was made easy for the men, who could cast
off their wives any time they so desired.Thus
it is quite common to-day for women to steal from their
husbands in order to provide for themselves in case
of divorce.The evil of such a system is apparent.It makes the women mere slaves at the mercy of the
caprice of their husbands.The polygamy and concubinage
which is sanctioned in the Koran, has degraded the
women to a degree that may be imagined, and certainly
has not, as some authorities contend, abolished other
evils.It is true that he improved slightly the
condition of women in his day, giving them privileges
they had not up to that time enjoyed, and by those
who endeavour to picture him as a hero, his failure
to arrive at a true estimate of the position of women
is covered by the statement that it was impossible
for him to grapple with a hopeless problem.It
is encouraging to know that, with the growing influence
of Western Christian civilisation, the condition of
women in Moslem lands is gradually improving, although
the village folk still consider us to be weak in character
because we are courteous in our behaviour to them.In Egypt, Government schools for girls are being organised,
and throughout the whole Moslem world education is
spreading.The religion of Mohammed is so clearly
defined that it can never be reformed.The only
hope for the nations that are under its sway is that
with the advance of western civilisation there may
be a yielding to the influence of Christianity.It cannot be possible to enjoy the blessings of the
West while men are tyrannised by a non-progressive
religion of the East.
Just before he died Mohammed organised
an expedition against the Romans, and this in spite
of sickness unto death.He had made his last
pilgrimage to Mecca, and had delivered what may be
termed his final charge to his followers.The
whole tone of his address seems to have been influenced
by the thought of the proximity of death.He
emphasised the doctrines he had inculcated, showing
that the Islamic brotherhood removed all that tended
to social inequality.The rich man was no better
than the poor; the aristocrat who boasted of his ancestry,
no more important in the sight of God than the lowliest
beggar.The only difference that could exist between
man and man was a difference in degree of piety.Property rights he recognised as regarding believers,
and evidently implied that unbelievers possessed no
such rights.He asked respect and humane treatment
for women, and undoubtedly manifested a desire for
a better condition of affairs than he in his lifetime
had been able to establish.The subsequent illness
was probably due to the strain and anxiety of this
pilgrimage.Ayesha, the girl wife, tended him.The many stories that have been told of these last
days are not at all reliable, but it is certain that
for five days he was quite helpless and delirious.On the 7th of June, 632 A.D., ten years after the
flight from Mecca, he died in the arms of Ayesha,
leaving a work that wrought havoc in the Christian
Church for centuries, and which, inspired by his immortal
spirit, still exists in unyielding enmity against
the faith of the meek and lowly Nazarene, whose native
soil, in the providence of God, is owned by Islam’s
son.Never again will be heard the clash
of steel on steel as Christian tries to vanquish Moslem.Those days are happily past and gone.Carnal
weapons cannot avail against spiritual forces.The eternal, peaceable Spirit of Jesus is slowly but
surely permeating the gloom of Islam.We see
the resultant disintegration, and hope for that great
day when, led by the broken and contrite spirit of
their leader, the hosts of Islam shall bow before
the King of Kings, recognising what, in time, they
were impelled to deny Unity in Trinity,
the at present unrevealed mystery of Deity.
Britain, the greatest Moslem power
of the world, needs to change her policy in regard
to Christian missionary work amongst Moslems, if she
is desirous of promoting the welfare of those benighted
people.She must give freedom to the heralds
of the Cross who labour in the lands of the Crescent.And the prayers of her people must ascend on behalf
of the sons and daughters of Islam who sit in darkness
and the shadow of death.