On the following Friday, after the
Sabbath evening meal, the boys asked their father
to read them another letter from his cousin in Jerusalem.
He was pleased at their eagerness, and, while Upstairs
getting the letter, some of the boys’ friends
came in and settled comfortably down, for all were
eager to hear the letter read.
Mr Jacob said: “This time
I will read a letter from your Cousin Dora to my sister
which will certainly interest you, my dear,”
turning to his daughter, “but at the same time,
I think it will interest you all.”
“My dear Milly, Isaac
must have written to Jacob all about our arrival,
so I will begin by giving you some idea of our life
here and my impressions. The people, who so kindly
asked us to stay with them till Father finds a dwelling,
have a few rooms in a house, which has a marble paved
courtyard. Six other families also have two or
three rooms each. All the work is done in the
courtyard, even the cooking; for each family uses
tiny stoves, made of mud, into which they put a little
lighted charcoal and cook just outside or near their
own doors; for there are no kitchens or fireplaces
in any of the rooms, and thus we see what each family
cooks. The Sephardim (Jews who have lived here
for years) eat their meals in the courtyard.
They lay a mat on the marble tiles, on which they
place a small low table, and they sit on the mat and
eat. Two Sephardim families have rooms in the
house and they speak Arabic and Spanish, and their
ways of living are more like those of the Turks, just
as the Jews in England live more like the English.
“Everyone seems most interested
in us. Many people have come to visit us, to
see the new arrivals!
“The evening of the day on which
we arrived was Friday; there was a clear moonlight
such as you would not often see in England, and it
was very warm, too; so we and our visitors sat in
the courtyard. All eagerly asked us many questions,
till quite late; and thus the evening passed very
quickly and pleasantly.
“After prayers on Sabbath some
people sent a bottle of wine and a most delicious
pudding, which is made nowhere but in Jerusalem.
It tastes like milk and honey, with other tasty things
mixed up in it. Others sent a lovely sponge cake,
coated with different-coloured sugar-icing: many
other good things were also given to us; and they lasted
us for nearly a month.
“Later in the day the people
who sent the eatables paid us visits, and ate some
of the good things. It is rather a nice custom,
I think, for new arrivals to have no bother to prepare
food for their visitors, as it gives them time to
enjoy their company. What a lot of talking there
was! The men discussed several things with Father,
while the women wanted to know many things about England
which Mother could tell them. The boys and girls
could not take their eyes off our clothes, so much
did they admire them! It was quite amusing, the
funny questions they asked us about them. They
all promised to help us look for a dwelling; and they
kept their promise. I can tell you it was a great
help and comfort to us that they did, for I don’t
know what would have become of us out here, away from
our old friends, where the ways of living are so different
from what we have been used to. Whether it will
always be so or not, of course I can’t say time
alone will show.
“Very soon afterwards they found
us a vacant dwelling, which Father was very thankful
to get, and in my next letter I will tell you something
of our life after we had moved in; but I must tell
you more of what happened when we were staying with
our kind host. The first afternoon, one of our
visitors insisted on our I going to her home; so, when
I and our youngsters arrived, we were taken to a room,
and in it was a table covered with lovely apricots,
and delicious-looking pastries and jams; also wine
which only cost 3d. a bottle, so it is very nearly
as cheap as buying water. When they handed us
some of the good things we naturally took them and
ate them.
“Suddenly I saw our host’s
children move away from us saying: ’She
is a Shiksa,’ and ‘He is a Shakitz,’
and they kept on whispering and pointing to us.
I could not think what we had done to make them act
in such a way, and so asked their mother. She
answered: ’They are surprised to see you
eating without making a Brocha (a blessing), for
our children unless they first make a Brocha
never taste anything.’
“You know, dear Milly, that,
though we too were taught to do as they here, yet
the hurry and scurry of going to school and the busy
life in London have made us forget to practise these
religious laws. We, however, felt very uncomfortable
and ashamed of ourselves, and made up our minds to
get into the habit of doing it that is to
remember to thank our Creator for every blessing we
receive, including food so that it should
become a matter-of-course.
“Now I must tell you about our
water-supply, for the scarcity of water struck us,
very much, coming from London; for here every drop
is precious and is used for several things, as every
drop has to be bought, and money amongst our Jerusalem
brethren is very scarce. In fact, it often costs
more than the wine of the country.
“A water-carrier brings us up
every morning a skin bag of water (it is made of skins
sewn together, with a small outlet at the top); for
it we pay twopence, which is equal to more than a
shilling in London. The water that he brings
he pours into a large earthern jar, which keeps it
cool, and to it is attached over the mouth of the jar
a sieve which is made of thick unbleached calico:
if this were not done, hundreds of little red worms
would get into the jar, because the water in Palestine
is full of them. A law was made by the Jews that
to drink water that had not been passed through a
sieve was a sin; and, as little children are taught
not to commit any sin, they do not drink any water
that has not been passed through a sieve; owing to
this, many illnesses are prevented among the Jews
that are rampant among the Arabs and others.
“The Jews are also very careful
about their water for ordinary use, yet they really
employ it more plentifully than we do in London when
used in connection with laws of health as laid down
in the Shulchan Aruch (a book of laws). For example,
as soon as you step out of your bed, you pour water
over your hands, wash your face, gargle your throat,
and rub your teeth with a clean finger and rinse your
mouth. No one would think of moving out of the
room without doing this. I know among the very
orthodox Jews in London they do the same thing, but
the average Jew does not do it, and here it is done
by everyone even a baby is taught to do
it the same way.
“Later in the day, or when the
men go to Synagogue, and we have finished with our
household duties, we have the regular soap-and-water
wash. Then again, everytime we have a meal we
have to wash our hands and repeat a blessing; and,
as this is done at various other times in a large family,
it takes a good deal of water, but as it is used for
cleaning purposes we need not stint ourselves.
This law is especially valuable here, for it is very
hot, and, if we were not very clean and especially
careful about cleansing our eyes and mouths and throat,
we should run the risk of catching a great many diseases
which are quite common in the Holy Land at present.
“I remarked to some women that
it surprised me how much water was used for personal
washing considering how scarce it was, but they told
me that they were as careful with every drop of water
as they were with food; none was wasted. Where
the religious laws commanded the use of water for
personal washing and cleansing they did not grudge
it; for was not the body of man the temple where the
Holy Spirit of God dwelt? God’s spirit
is in each one of us, and, therefore, we must do our
best to keep our bodies clean for the presence of
our Heavenly King, just as carefully as we should
keep a house or palace clean in which our earthly
king dwelt more carefully indeed. What
would courtiers around an earthly king say if they
saw us take our food in the presence of the king,
and praise him, with dirty hands?
“They save water in many ways
that are rather amusing to a stranger until he gets
to know the reason for it. For instance, they
do not, at meals, use different plates on the Sabbath,
when they have a few courses: they eat the fish
on one side of the plate, and then they wipe it and
turn the plate over, and have soup and meat on the
deeper side thus saving the washing of
many plates.
“In my next letter I will write
you all my tribulations and struggles in getting used
to the new life when we moved into our own house.
My great comfort is that we have got to know an American
family, and they have been so kind to us and so cheery
that it has made us feel a bit brighter, and Mother
says that in time we shall get used to our new life.
But I doubt it after living in London.”
When Mr Jacob had finished reading
the letter the young folks began talking, the older
ones listening and giving a smile now and then.
One said: “I should not like to be there.”
“Neither should I,” said another girl;
“it must be awful after London.”
“The only thing that I like
about the life,” said the former, “is the
hospitality and the friendliness that they show to
one another, and the jolly good time they give to
people who are utter strangers to them. We don’t
do that here we seem cold and unfriendly.”