The next Friday evening Mr Jacob read
the following letter.
“My Dear Cousin Mill, I
have not yet written to tell you how we manage during
cold weather. Before we arrived, we were under
the impression that it was always warm in Palestine.
Certainly the sun does shine more in winter here than
in England, and while it shines the weather is very
pleasant; but we get very cold weather, too, especially
in Jerusalem. We get very little snow, but a
good deal of frost, which no one enjoys. No doubt
you wonder why, because we all enjoyed the cold and
frost in England, and loved the skating and the snowballing.
“The reason is very clear, for
here we have no cheery open fireplaces, which give
out so much heat in England; in fact there are not
even any steel or iron ovens, and the result is, the
Palestinian houses are intensely cold in frosty weather.
The ceilings are all lofty and in the shape of a dome,
which, with the very thick stone walls is very pleasant
in summer but very cold in the winter. Then there
is very little firewood to be had here, as the Turks
try to prevent much tree-planting, so fire wood is
a luxury which very few can afford. Instead,
we have all copper buckets pierced with holes standing
on a tripod and filled with burning charcoal, which
is placed in the middle of the room.
“How we all eagerly cluster
round it and watch the red hot charcoal, hoping that
by looking at it the warmth will go into our
bodies! Such a small amount of charcoal as we
can afford does not warm a room very much, so all
the windows are closed tightly to prevent any cold
air coming in. This also prevents the fumes of
the burning charcoal from escaping, so naturally the
air gets very stuffy, and many suffer from headaches
or fall into a heavy sleep.
“You will wonder why it is many
people do not get frozen. Well, the old proverb
holds good here, that ‘Necessity is the mother
of invention,’ so even in the coldest weather
we have a remedy; for we heat also our brass samovar,
which holds about thirty glasses of tea, and we drink
a glass of hot tea every now and then.
“As the samovar boils all day
the steam also sends out some warmth into the room.
“Then, again, the younger children
are during the very cold weather kept warm in bed
with feather coverlets and pillows, which the elder
people try to keep warm in doing the necessary household
duties. Very few go out in the streets, except
the men when they go to Shule, and the elder boys
when they go to the Yeshiba or Cheder, and even they
are very often kept at home.
“One comfort is that ‘Father
Frost’ does not stay long, so we can manage
to bear his icy breath: the greatest hardship
is when he visits us on a Sabbath, for of course on
that day we cannot heat the samovar and so we have
to do with less tea.
“We prepare our Sabbath meals
in a small scullery, or porch, in which a small brick
oven is built to keep the food hot for the Sabbath.
A few pieces of wood are put in, and, when well lighted,
the oven is half-filled with charcoal-dust this
again is covered by pieces of tin or lime, and, on
top of all, the saucepans are put containing food for
the Sabbath meals: also bottles or jars of water
are thus kept hot for tea or coffee. Neighbours
who are not lucky enough to have such an oven bring
in their food, and we let them put it in our ovens.
In this way we have enough for every one to drink
who may come in. Sometimes twenty poor people
come in on a Sabbath day and say: ’Spare
me, please, a little hot water?’ No one would
think of refusing to give them some, even if they
had to share their last glass with them.
“Generally on cold Sabbath afternoons
our parents have a nap after eating the nice hot cholent,
and we girls and the young married women go and spend
a few hours with our old lady friend, who always entertains
us with stories and discussions on various interesting
subjects. So the time passes very quickly and
so pleasantly that we forget how cold it is.
About twenty or thirty of us all sit close together
on her divan covered up with rugs, and this with the
excitement over the tales she tells us, helps to keep
us warm.
“Last Sabbath our old lady was
not very well, and we were feeling very miserable
without her entertaining tales. Suddenly, one
of my girl-friends asked me to tell them about our
life in London.
“As they had never read or heard
about life outside Jerusalem, it was most amusing
to hear their exclamations of wonder; for they could
hardly believe what I told them was true, till our
old lady confirmed our statements.
“First, they wanted to know
how young men and women behaved toward each other.
“I told them that every man
and every woman, whether young or old, either in the
street or in-doors, always shook hands with friends at
this they looked very surprised and some seemed even
horrified, exclaiming: ‘What a sin to commit.’
I asked them where it was written that this was a
sin? ‘Well,’ some replied, ’our
parents or husbands say it is a sin,’ ‘I
don’t think it is a sin, but only a custom,’
said I. ‘But it is a sin,’
insisted one little wife of fifteen ’to touch
one another’s hands.’ I tried to
explain to her, but she would not listen to me and
we were on the verge of quarreling but as usual, when
there was a difference of opinion between any of us,
we always appealed to our old lady and she agreed
with me that there was no sin in shaking hands.
‘Sin,’ she said, ’comes from thoughts if
while talking or laughing or even shaking hands, evil
thoughts pass through the minds of men or women then,
and then only, is the act likely to be a sin.
In Europe,’ she went on to say, ’it is
quite a natural thing for men and women to shake hands
and talk to each other naturally.’
“Then I asked my new friend
Huldah (a young wife of fifteen years of age) to tell
us all about her own love-affair and marriage.
She was greatly shocked to hear me speaking of love
before marriage ’Such a thing
could never happen to a modest Jewish maiden in those
days,’ she said.
“I told her that it did happen
in Europe. ‘May be,’ she replied;
’it may happen in lands where Jews mix with
non-Jews and copy their ways!’
“As I rather liked to tease
her, I said she was mistaken, for here in Jerusalem
did the great Rabbi Akiba fall in love with his wife
before marriage. ‘Oh, that was quite different!’
she replied. ‘Not at all,’ said I,
for were not feasts and rejoicing held so that youths
and maidens could meet one another in the vineyards
and dance in the meadows? Look in the Bible,’
I continued, ’and you will see it is mentioned
there.’ Then all looked abashed. The
only one who smiled was our old lady.
“‘Don’t unsettle
their minds, dear,’ she whispered softly to me.
’I don’t want to,’ I said; ’I
only want to show them that, though such things are
done in other countries, there is no sin in it as they
have been brought up to believe.’ ‘Well,
well!’ she said, ’let us hope God will
restore our beloved land to us in his own good time,
and then we shall again, as in days of old, celebrate
such Festivals!’
“We all said ‘AMEN,’ most heartily,
to this wish.
“In my next letter I will tell
you of our friend’s engagement and marriage.
Your loving cousin, Millie.”