We have traced the conspiracy of Lord
Byron against his wife up to its latest device.
That the reader’s mind may be clear on the points
of the process, we shall now briefly recapitulate
the documents in the order of time.
I. March 17, 1816. While
negotiations for separation were pending, ’Fare
thee well, and if for ever.’
While writing these pages, we have
received from England the testimony of one who has
seen the original draught of that ‘Fare thee
well.’ This original copy had evidently
been subjected to the most careful and acute revision.
Scarcely two lines that were not interlined, scarcely
an adjective that was not exchanged for a better;
showing that the noble lord was not so far overcome
by grief as to have forgotten his reputation. (Found
its way to the public prints through the imprudence
of a friend.)
II. March 29, 1816. An
attack on Lady Byron’s old governess for having
been born poor, for being homely, and for having unduly
influenced his wife against him; promising that her
grave should be a fiery bed, etc.; also praising
his wife’s perfect and remarkable truthfulness
and discernment, that made it impossible for flattery
to fool, or baseness blind her; but ascribing all
his woes to her being fooled and blinded by this same
governess. (Found its way to the prints by the imprudence
of a friend.)
III. September 1816. Lines
on hearing that Lady Byron is ill. Calls her
a Clytemnestra, who has secretly set assassins on her
lord; says she is a mean, treacherous, deceitful liar,
and has entirely departed from her early truth, and
become the most unscrupulous and unprincipled of women.
(Never printed till after Lord Byron’s death,
but circulated privately among the ‘initiated.’)
IV. Au, 1817. Gives
to M. G. Lewis a paper for circulation among friends
in England, stating that what he most wants is public
investigation, which has always been denied him;
and daring Lady Byron and her counsel to come out
publicly. (Found in M. G. Lewis’s portfolio
after his death; never heard of before, except among
the ‘initiated.’)
Having given M. G. Lewis’s document time to
work,
January 1818. Gives the
Fourth Canto of ‘Childe Harold’ to
the public.
Ja, 1819. Sends to
Murray to print for private circulation among the
‘initiated’ the First Canto of ‘Don
Juan.’
Is nobly and severely rebuked for
this insult to his wife by the ‘Blackwood,’
August 1819.
October 1819. Gives Moore
the manuscript ‘Autobiography,’ with leave
to show it to whom he pleases, and print it after
his death.
Oc, 1819, Vol. IV.
Letter 344. Writes to Murray, that he may
read all this ‘Autobiography,’ and show
it to anybody he likes.
De, 1819. Writes to
Murray on this article in ‘Blackwood’ against
‘Don Juan’ and himself, which he supposes
written by Wilson; sends a complimentary message to
Wilson, and asks him to read his ‘Autobiography’
sent by Moore. (Letter 350.)
March 15, 1820. Writes
and dedicates to I. Disraeli, Esq., a vindication
of himself in reply to the ‘Blackwood’
on ‘Don Juan,’ containing an indignant
defence of his own conduct in relation to his wife,
and maintaining that he never yet has had an opportunity
of knowing whereof he has been accused; accusing Sir
S. Romilly of taking his retainer, and then going
over to the adverse party, etc. (Printed for
private circulation; to be found in the standard
English edition of Murray, vol. ix. .)
To this condensed account of Byron’s
strategy we must add the crowning stroke of policy
which transmitted this warfare to his friends, to be
continued after his death.
During the last visit Moore made him
in Italy, and just before Byron presented to him his
‘Autobiography,’ the following scene occurred,
as narrated by Moore (vol. iv. :
’The chief subject of conversation,
when alone, was his marriage, and the load of obloquy
which it had brought upon him. He was most anxious
to know the worst that had been alleged of his
conduct; and, as this was our first opportunity
of speaking together on the subject, I did not
hesitate to put his candour most searchingly to the
proof, not only by enumerating the various charges
I had heard brought against him by others, but
by specifying such portions of these charges as
I had been inclined to think not incredible myself.
’To all this he listened with patience,
and answered with the most unhesitating frankness;
laughing to scorn the tales of unmanly outrage related
of him, but at the same time acknowledging that there
had been in his conduct but too much to blame and
regret, and stating one or two occasions during
his domestic life when he had been irritated into
letting the “breath of bitter words”
escape him,. . . which he now evidently remembered
with a degree of remorse and pain which might well
have entitled them to be forgotten by others.
’It was, at the same time, manifest,
that, whatever admissions he might be inclined
to make respecting his own delinquencies, the inordinate
measure of the punishment dealt out to him had sunk
deeply into his mind, and, with the usual effect
of such injustice, drove him also to be unjust
himself; so much so, indeed, as to impute to the quarter
to which he now traced all his ill fate a feeling of
fixed hostility to himself, which would not rest,
he thought, even at his grave, but continue to
persecute his memory as it was now embittering his
life. So strong was this impression upon him,
that, during one of our few intervals of seriousness,
he conjured me by our friendship, if, as he both
felt and hoped, I should survive him, not to let unmerited
censure settle upon his name.’
In this same account, page 218, Moore testifies that
’Lord Byron disliked his countrymen,
but only because he knew that his morals were held
in contempt by them. The English, themselves
rigid observers of family duties, could not pardon
him the neglect of his, nor his trampling on principles;
therefore, neither did he like being presented
to them, nor did they, especially when they had wives
with them, like to cultivate his acquaintance.
Still there was a strong desire in all of them
to see him; and the women in particular, who did not
dare to look at him but by stealth, said in an under-voice,
“What a pity it is!” If, however,
any of his compatriots of exalted rank and high
reputation came forward to treat him with courtesy,
he showed himself obviously flattered by it.
It seemed that, to the wound which remained open
in his ulcerated heart, such soothing attentions were
as drops of healing balm, which comforted him.’
When in society, we are further informed
by a lady quoted by Mr. Moore, he was in the habit
of speaking of his wife with much respect and affection,
as an illustrious lady, distinguished for her qualities
of heart and understanding; saying that all the fault
of their cruel separation lay with himself.
Mr. Moore seems at times to be somewhat puzzled by
these contradictory statements of his idol, and speculates
not a little on what could be Lord Byron’s object
in using such language in public; mentally comparing
it, we suppose, with the free handling which he gave
to the same subject in his private correspondence.
The innocence with which Moore gives
himself up to be manipulated by Lord Byron, the naïveté
with which he shows all the process, let us a little
into the secret of the marvellous powers of charming
and blinding which this great actor possessed.
Lord Byron had the beauty, the wit,
the genius, the dramatic talent, which have constituted
the strength of some wonderfully fascinating women.
There have been women able to lead
their leashes of blinded adorers; to make them swear
that black was white, or white black, at their word;
to smile away their senses, or weep away their reason.
No matter what these sirens may say, no matter what
they may do, though caught in a thousand transparent
lies, and doing a thousand deeds which would have ruined
others, still men madly rave after them in life, and
tear their hair over their graves. Such an enchanter
in man’s shape was Lord Byron.
He led captive Moore and Murray by
being beautiful, a genius, and a lord; calling them
‘Dear Tom’ and ‘Dear Murray,’
while they were only commoners. He first insulted
Sir Walter Scott, and then witched his heart out of
him by ingenuous confessions and poetical compliments;
he took Wilson’s heart by flattering messages
and a beautifully-written letter; he corresponded
familiarly with Hogg; and, before his death, had made
fast friends, in one way or another, of the whole ’Noctes
Ambrosianae’ Club.
We thus have given the historical
resume of Lord Byron’s attacks on his wife’s
reputation: we shall add, that they were based
on philosophic principles, showing a deep knowledge
of mankind. An analysis will show that they
can be philosophically classified:
1st. Those which addressed the
sympathetic nature of man, representing her as cold,
methodical, severe, strict, unforgiving.
2nd. Those addressed to the
faculty of association, connecting her with ludicrous
and licentious images; taking from her the usual protection
of womanly delicacy and sacredness.
3rd. Those addressed to the
moral faculties, accusing her as artful, treacherous,
untruthful, malignant.
All these various devices he held
in his hand, shuffling and dealing them as a careful
gamester his pack of cards according to the exigencies
of the game. He played adroitly, skilfully,
with blinding flatteries and seductive wiles,
that made his victims willing dupes.
Nothing can more clearly show the
power and perfectness of his enchantments than the
masterly way in which he turned back the moral force
of the whole English nation, which had risen at first
in its strength against him. The victory was
complete.