We have now brought the review of
the antagonism against Lady Byron down to the period
of her death. During all this time, let the candid
reader ask himself which of these two parties seems
to be plotting against the other.
Which has been active, aggressive,
unscrupulous? which has been silent, quiet, unoffending?
Which of the two has laboured to make a party, and
to make that party active, watchful, enthusiastic?
Have we not proved that Lady Byron
remained perfectly silent during Lord Byron’s
life, patiently looking out from her retirement to
see the waves of popular sympathy, that once bore
her up, day by day retreating, while his accusations
against her were resounding in his poems over the whole
earth? And after Lord Byron’s death, when
all the world with one consent began to give their
memorials of him, and made it appear, by their various
‘recollections of conversations,’ how incessantly
he had obtruded his own version of the separation
upon every listener, did she manifest any similar
eagerness?
Lady Byron had seen the ‘Blackwood’
coming forward, on the first appearance of ‘Don
Juan,’ to rebuke the cowardly lampoon in words
eloquent with all the unperverted vigour of an honest
Englishman. Under the power of the great conspirator,
she had seen that ‘Blackwood’ become the
very eager recipient and chief reporter of the stories
against her, and the blind admirer of her adversary.
All this time, she lost sympathy daily
by being silent. The world will embrace those
who court it; it will patronise those who seek its
favour; it will make parties for those who seek to
make parties: but for the often accused who do
not speak, who make no confidants and no parties,
the world soon loses sympathy.
When at last she spoke, Christopher
North says ’she astonished the world.’
Calm, clear, courageous, exact as to time, date, and
circumstance, was that first testimony, backed by the
equally clear testimony of Dr. Lushington.
It showed that her secret had been
kept even from her parents. In words precise,
firm, and fearless, she says, ’If these statements
on which Dr. Lushington and Sir Samuel Romilly formed
their opinion were false, the responsibility and the
odium should rest with me only.’ Christopher
North did not pretend to disbelieve this statement.
He breathed not a doubt of Lady Byron’s word.
He spoke of the crime indicated, as one which might
have been foul as the grave’s corruption,
unforgivable as the sin against the Holy Ghost.
He rebuked the wife for bearing this testimony, even
to save the memory of her dead father and mother, and,
in the same breath, declared that she ought now to
go farther, and speak fully the one awful word, and
then ’a mitigated sentence, or eternal
silence!’
But Lady Byron took no counsel with
the world, nor with the literary men of her age.
One knight, with some small remnant of England’s
old chivalry, set lance in rest for her: she
saw him beaten back unhorsed, rolled in the dust,
and ingloriously vanquished, and perceived that henceforth
nothing but injury could come to any one who attempted
to speak for her.
She turned from the judgments of man
and the fond and natural hopes of human nature, to
lose herself in sacred ministries to the downcast and
suffering. What nobler record for woman could
there be than that which Miss Martineau has given?
Particularly to be noted in Lady Byron
was her peculiar interest in reclaiming fallen women.
Among her letters to Mrs. Prof. Follen, of Cambridge,
was one addressed to a society of ladies who had undertaken
this difficult work. It was full of heavenly
wisdom and of a large and tolerant charity.
Fenelon truly says, it is only perfection that can
tolerate imperfection; and the very purity of Lady
Byron’s nature made her most forbearing and
most tender towards the weak and the guilty.
This letter, with all the rest of Lady Byron’s,
was returned to the hands of her executors after her
death. Its publication would greatly assist the
world in understanding the peculiarities of its writer’s
character.
Lady Byron passed to a higher life
in 1860. After her death, I looked for the
publication of her Memoir and Letters as the event
that should give her the same opportunity of being
known and judged by her life and writings that had
been so freely accorded to Lord Byron.
She was, in her husband’s estimation,
a woman of genius. She was the friend of many
of the first men and women of her times, and corresponded
with them on topics of literature, morals, religion,
and, above all, on the benevolent and philanthropic
movements of the day, whose principles she had studied
with acute observation, and in connection with which
she had acquired a large experience.
The knowledge of her, necessarily
diffused by such a series of letters, would have created
in America a comprehension of her character, of itself
sufficient to wither a thousand slanders.
Such a Memoir was contemplated.
Lady Byron’s letters to Mrs. Follen were asked
for from Boston; and I was applied to by a person in
England, who I have recently learned is one of the
existing trustees of Lady Byron’s papers, to
furnish copies of her letters to me for the purpose
of a Memoir. Before I had time to have copies
made, another letter came, stating that the trustees
had concluded that it was best not to publish any
Memoir of Lady Byron at all.
This left the character of Lady Byron
in our American world precisely where the slanders
of her husband, the literature of the Noctes Club,
and the unanimous verdict of May Fair as recorded
by ‘Blackwood,’ had placed it.
True, Lady Byron had nobly and quietly
lived down these slanders in England by deeds that
made her name revered as a saint among all those who
valued saintliness.
But in France and Italy, and in these
United States, I have had abundant opportunity to
know that Lady Byron stood judged and condemned on
the testimony of her brilliant husband, and that the
feeling against her had a vivacity and intensity not
to be overcome by mere allusions to a virtuous life
in distant England.
This is strikingly shown by one fact.
In the American edition of Moore’s ‘Life
of Byron,’ by Claxton, Remsen, and Haffelfinger,
Philadelphia, 1869, which I have been consulting,
Lady Byron’s statement, which is found in the
Appendix of Murray’s standard edition, is entirely
omitted. Every other paper is carefully preserved.
This one incident showed how the tide of sympathy
was setting in this New World. Of course, there
is no stronger power than a virtuous life; but, for
a virtuous life to bear testimony to the world, its
details must be told, so that the world may know them.
Suppose the memoirs of Clarkson and
Wilberforce had been suppressed after their death,
how soon might the coming tide have wiped out the record
of their bravery and philanthropy! Suppose the
lives of Francis Xavier and Henry Martyn had never
been written, and we had lost the remembrance of what
holy men could do and dare in the divine enthusiasm
of Christian faith! Suppose we had no Fenelon,
no Book of Martyrs!
Would there not be an outcry through
all the literary and artistic world if a perfect statue
were allowed to remain buried for ever because some
painful individual history was connected with its burial
and its recovery? But is not a noble life a
greater treasure to mankind than any work of art?
We have heard much mourning over the
burned Autobiography of Lord Byron, and seen it treated
of in a magazine as ‘the lost chapter in history.’
The lost chapter in history is Lady Byron’s Autobiography
in her life and letters; and the suppression of them
is the root of this whole mischief.
We do not in this intend to censure
the parties who came to this decision.
The descendants of Lady Byron revere
her memory, as they have every reason to do.
That it was their desire to have a Memoir of her
published, I have been informed by an individual of
the highest character in England, who obtained the
information directly from Lady Byron’s grandchildren.
But the trustees in whose care the
papers were placed drew back on examination of them,
and declared, that, as Lady Byron’s papers could
not be fully published, they should regret anything
that should call public attention once more to the
discussion of her history.
Reviewing this long history of the
way in which the literary world had treated Lady Byron,
we cannot wonder that her friends should have doubted
whether there was left on earth any justice, or sense
that anything is due to woman as a human being with
human rights. Evidently this lesson had taken
from them all faith in the moral sense of the world.
Rather than re-awaken the discussion, so unsparing,
so painful, and so indelicate, which had been carried
on so many years around that loved form, now sanctified
by death, they sacrificed the dear pleasure of the
memorials, and the interests of mankind, who have an
indefeasible right to all the help that can be got
from the truth of history as to the living power of
virtue, and the reality of that great victory that
overcometh the world.
There are thousands of poor victims
suffering in sadness, discouragement, and poverty;
heart-broken wives of brutal, drunken husbands; women
enduring nameless wrongs and horrors which the delicacy
of their sex forbids them to utter, to
whom the lovely letters lying hidden away under those
seals might bring courage and hope from springs not
of this world.
But though the friends of Lady Byron,
perhaps from despair of their kind, from weariness
of the utter injustice done her, wished to cherish
her name in silence, and to confine the story of her
virtues to that circle who knew her too well to ask
a proof, or utter a doubt, the partisans of Lord Byron
were embarrassed with no such scruple.
Lord Byron had artfully contrived
during his life to place his wife in such an antagonistic
position with regard to himself, that his intimate
friends were forced to believe that one of the two
had deliberately and wantonly injured the other.
The published statement of Lady Byron contradicted
boldly and point-blank all the statement of her husband
concerning the separation; so that, unless she was
convicted as a false witness, he certainly was.
The best evidence of this is Christopher
North’s own shocked, astonished statement, and
the words of the Noctes Club.
The noble life that Lady Byron lived
after this hushed every voice, and silenced even the
most desperate calumny, while she was in the world.
In the face of Lady Byron as the world saw her, of
what use was the talk of Clytemnestra, and the assertion
that she had been a mean, deceitful conspirator against
her husband’s honour in life, and stabbed his
memory after death?
But when she was in her grave, when
her voice and presence and good deeds no more spoke
for her, and a new generation was growing up that knew
her not; then was the time selected to revive the
assault on her memory, and to say over her grave what
none would ever have dared to say of her while living.
During these last two years, I have
been gradually awakening to the evidence of a new
crusade against the memory of Lady Byron, which respected
no sanctity, not even that last and most
awful one of death.
Nine years after her death, when it
was fully understood that no story on her side or
that of her friends was to be forthcoming, then her
calumniators raked out from the ashes of her husband’s
sepulchre all his bitter charges, to state them over
in even stronger and more indecent forms.
There seems to be reason to think
that the materials supplied by Lord Byron for such
a campaign yet exist in society.
To ‘The Noctes’ of November
1824, there is the following note apropos to a discussion
of the Byron question:
’Byron’s Memoirs, given by
him to Moore, were burned, as everybody knows.
But, before this, Moore had lent them to several persons.
Mrs. Home Purvis, afterwards Viscountess of Canterbury,
is known to have sat up all one night, in which,
aided by her daughter, she had a copy made.
I have the strongest reason for believing that one
other person made a copy; for the description of
the first twenty-four hours after the marriage
ceremonial has been in my hands. Not until after
the death of Lady Byron, and Hobhouse, who was
the poet’s literary executor, can the poet’s
Autobiography see the light; but I am certain it
will be published.’
Thus speaks Mackenzie in a note to
a volume of ‘The Noctes,’ published in
America in 1854. Lady Byron died in 1860.
Nine years after Lady Byron’s
death, when it was ascertained that her story was
not to see the light, when there were no means of judging
her character by her own writings, commenced a well-planned
set of operations to turn the public attention once
more to Lord Byron, and to represent him as an injured
man, whose testimony had been unjustly suppressed.
It was quite possible, supposing copies
of the Autobiography to exist, that this might occasion
a call from the generation of to-day, in answer to
which the suppressed work might appear. This
was a rather delicate operation to commence; but the
instrument was not wanting. It was necessary
that the subject should be first opened by some irresponsible
party, whom more powerful parties might, as by accident,
recognise and patronise, and on whose weakness they
might build something stronger.
Just such an instrument was to be
found in Paris. The mistress of Lord Byron could
easily be stirred up and flattered to come before the
world with a book which should re-open the whole controversy;
and she proved a facile tool. At first, the
work appeared prudently in French, and was called
‘Lord Byron juge par les Témoins
de sa Vie,’ and was rather a
failure. Then it was translated into English,
and published by Bentley.
The book was inartistic, and helplessly,
childishly stupid as to any literary merits, a
mere mass of gossip and twaddle; but after all, when
one remembers the taste of the thousands of circulating-library
readers, it must not be considered the less likely
to be widely read on that account. It is only
once in a century that a writer of real genius has
the art to tell his story so as to take both the cultivated
few and the average many. De Foe and John Bunyan
are almost the only examples. But there is a
certain class of reading that sells and spreads, and
exerts a vast influence, which the upper circles of
literature despise too much ever to fairly estimate
its power.
However, the Guiccioli book did not
want for patrons in the high places of literature.
The ’Blackwood’ the old classic
magazine of England; the defender of conservatism
and aristocracy; the paper of Lockhart, Wilson, Hogg,
Walter Scott, and a host of departed grandeurs was
deputed to usher into the world this book, and to
recommend it and its author to the Christian public
of the nineteenth century.
The following is the manner in which
‘Blackwood’ calls attention to it:
’One of the most beautiful of the
songs of Beranger is that addressed to his Lisette,
in which he pictures her, in old age, narrating to
a younger generation the loves of their youth;
decking his portrait with flowers at each returning
spring, and reciting the verses that had been inspired
by her vanished charms:
’Lorsque les yeux
chercheront sous vos rides
Les traits charmants qui m’auront
inspire,
Des doux recits les jeunes
gens avides,
Diront: Quel fût
cet ami tant pleure?
De men amour peignez, s’il
est possible,
Vardeur, l’ivresse, et
meme les soupçons,
Et bonne vieille,
an coin d’un feu paisible
De vôtre ami repetez les
chansons.
“On vous dira:
Savait-il être aimable?
Et sans rougir vous
direz: Je l’aimais.
D’un trait mechant se
montra-t-il capable?
Avec orgueil vous
repondrez: Jamais!’”
‘This charming picture,’
‘Blackwood’ goes on to say, ’has
been realised in the case of a poet greater than
Beranger, and by a mistress more famous than Lisette.
The Countess Guiccioli has at length given to
the world her “Recollections of Lord Byron.”
The book first appeared in France under the title
of “Lord Byron juge par les Témoins
de sa Vie,” without the name of
the countess. A more unfortunate designation
could hardly have been selected. The “witnesses
of his life” told us nothing but what had been
told before over and over again; and the uniform
and exaggerated tone of eulogy which pervaded the
whole book was fatal to any claim on the part of the
writer to be considered an impartial judge of the wonderfully
mixed character of Byron.
’When, however, the book is regarded
as the avowed production of the Countess Guiccioli,
it derives value and interest from its very faults.
There is something inexpressibly touching in
the picture of the old lady calling up the phantoms
of half a century ago; not faded and stricken by
the hand of time, but brilliant and gorgeous as
they were when Byron, in his manly prime of genius
and beauty, first flashed upon her enraptured sight,
and she gave her whole soul up to an absorbing
passion, the embers of which still glow in her heart.
’To her there has been no change,
no decay. The god whom she worshipped with
all the ardour of her Italian nature at seventeen is
still the “Pythian of the age” to her
at seventy. To try such a book by the ordinary
canons of criticism would be as absurd as to arraign
the authoress before a jury of British matrons,
or to prefer a bill of indictment against the Sultan
for bigamy to a Middlesex grand jury.’
This, then, is the introduction which
one of the oldest and most classical periodicals of
Great Britain gives to a very stupid book, simply
because it was written by Lord Byron’s mistress.
That fact, we are assured, lends grace even to its
faults.
Having brought the authoress upon
the stage, the review now goes on to define her position,
and assure the Christian world that
’The Countess Guiccioli was the
daughter of an impoverished noble. At the
age of sixteen, she was taken from a convent, and sold
as third wife to the Count Guiccioli, who was old,
rich, and profligate. A fouler prostitution
never profaned the name of marriage. A short
time afterwards, she accidentally met Lord Byron.
Outraged and rebellious nature vindicated itself
in the deep and devoted passion with which he inspired
her. With the full assent of husband, father,
and brother, and in compliance with the usages
of Italian society, he was shortly afterwards installed
in the office, and invested with all the privileges,
of her “Cavalier Servente."’
It has been asserted that the Marquis
de Boissy, the late husband of this Guiccioli lady,
was in the habit of introducing her in fashionable
circles as ’the Marquise de Boissy, my wife,
formerly mistress to Lord Byron’! We do
not give the story as a verity; yet, in the review
of this whole history, we may be pardoned for thinking
it quite possible.
The mistress, being thus vouched for
and presented as worthy of sympathy and attention
by one of the oldest and most classic organs of English
literature, may now proceed in her work of glorifying
the popular idol, and casting abuse on the grave of
the dead wife.
Her attacks on Lady Byron are, to
be sure, less skilful and adroit than those of Lord
Byron. They want his literary polish and tact;
but what of that? ‘Blackwood’ assures
us that even the faults of manner derive a peculiar
grace from the fact that the narrator is Lord Byron’s
mistress; and so we suppose the literary world must
find grace in things like this:
’She has been called, after his
words, the moral Clytemnestra of her husband.
Such a surname is severe: but the repugnance
we feel to condemning a woman cannot prevent our
listening to the voice of justice, which tells
us that the comparison is still in favour of the guilty
one of antiquity; for she, driven to crime by fierce
passion overpowering reason, at least only deprived
her husband of physical life, and, in committing
the deed, exposed herself to all its consequences;
while Lady Byron left her husband at the very moment
that she saw him struggling amid a thousand shoals
in the stormy sea of embarrassments created by
his marriage, and precisely when he more than ever
required a friendly, tender, and indulgent hand to
save him.
’Besides, she shut herself up in
silence a thousand times more cruel than Clytemnestra’s
poniard: that only killed the body; whereas Lady
Byron’s silence was destined to kill the soul, and
such a soul! leaving the door open to
calumny, and making it to be supposed that her
silence was magnanimity destined to cover over frightful
wrongs, perhaps even depravity. In vain did
he, feeling his conscience at ease, implore some
inquiry and examination. She refused; and
the only favour she granted was to send him, one fine
day, two persons to see whether he were not mad.
’And, why, then, had she believed
him mad? Because she, a methodical, inflexible
woman, with that unbendingness which a profound moralist
calls the worship rendered to pride by a feelingless
soul, because she could not understand the possibility
of tastes and habits different to those of ordinary
routine, or of her own starched life. Not to
be hungry when she was; not to sleep at night,
but to write while she was sleeping, and to sleep
when she was up; in short, to gratify the requirements
of material and intellectual life at hours different
to hers, all that was not merely annoying
for her, but it must be madness; or, if not, it
betokened depravity that she could neither submit
to nor tolerate without perilling her own morality.
’Such was the grand secret
of the cruel silence which exposed Lord
Byron to the most malignant interpretations,
to all the calumny and
revenge of his enemies.
’She was, perhaps, the only woman
in the world so strangely organised, the
only one, perhaps, capable of not feeling happy and
proud at belonging to a man superior to the rest
of humanity; and fatally was it decreed that this
woman alone of her species should be Lord Byron’s
wife!’
In a note is added,
’If an imaginary fear, and even
an unreasonable jealousy, may be her excuse (just
as one excuses a monomania), can one equally forgive
her silence? Such a silence is morally what
are physically the poisons which kill at once,
and defy all remedies; thus insuring the culprit’s
safety. This silence it is which will ever
be her crime; for by it she poisoned the life of
her husband.’
The book has several chapters devoted
to Lord Byron’s peculiar virtues; and under
the one devoted to magnanimity and heroism, his forgiving
disposition receives special attention. The climax
of all is stated to be that he forgave Lady Byron.
All the world knew that, since he had declared this
fact in a very noisy and impassioned manner in the
fourth canto of ‘Childe Harold,’ together
with a statement of the wrongs which he forgave; but
the Guiccioli thinks his virtue, at this period, has
not been enough appreciated. In her view, it
rose to the sublime. She says of Lady Byron,
’An absolute moral monstrosity,
an anomaly in the history of types of female hideousness,
had succeeded in showing itself in the light of magnanimity.
But false as was this high quality in Lady Byron,
so did it shine out in him true and admirable.
The position in which Lady Byron had placed him,
and where she continued to keep him by her harshness,
silence, and strange refusals, was one of those which
cause such suffering, that the highest degree of
self-control seldom suffices to quiet the promptings
of human weakness, and to cause persons of even
slight sensibility to preserve moderation. Yet,
with his sensibility and the knowledge of his worth,
how did he act? what did he say? I will not
speak of his “farewell;” of the care he
took to shield her from blame by throwing it on
others, by taking much too large a share to himself.’
With like vivacity and earnestness
does the narrator now proceed to make an incarnate
angel of her subject by the simple process of denying
everything that he himself ever confessed, everything
that has ever been confessed in regard to him by his
best friends. He has been in the world as an
angel unawares from his cradle. His guardian
did not properly appreciate him, and is consequently
mentioned as that wicked Lord Carlisle. Thomas
Moore is never to be sufficiently condemned for the
facts told in his biography. Byron’s own
frank and lawless admissions of evil are set down
to a peculiar inability he had for speaking the truth
about himself, sometimes about his near
relations; all which does not in the least discourage
the authoress from giving a separate chapter on ‘Lord
Byron’s Love of Truth.’
In the matter of his relations with
women, she complacently repeats (what sounds rather
oddly as coming from her) Lord Byron’s own assurance,
that he never seduced a woman; and also the equally
convincing statement, that he had told her (the Guiccioli)
that his married fidelity to his wife was perfect.
She discusses Moore’s account of the mistress
in boy’s clothes who used to share Byron’s
apartments in college, and ride with him to races,
and whom he presented to ladies as his brother.
She has her own view of this matter.
The disguised boy was a lady of rank and fashion,
who sought Lord Byron’s chambers, as, we are
informed, noble ladies everywhere, both in Italy and
England, were constantly in the habit of doing; throwing
themselves at his feet, and imploring permission to
become his handmaids.
In the authoress’s own words,
’Feminine overtures still continued to be made
to Lord Byron; but the fumes of incense never hid from
his sight his IDEAL.’ We are told that
in the case of these poor ladies, generally ’disenchantment
took place on his side without a corresponding result
on the other: THENCE many heart-breakings.’
Nevertheless, we are informed that there followed
the indiscretions of these ladies ’none of those
proceedings that the world readily forgives, but which
his feelings as a man of honour would have condemned.’
As to drunkenness, and all that, we
are informed he was an anchorite. Pages are given
to an account of the biscuits and soda-water that on
this and that occasion were found to be the sole means
of sustenance to this ethereal creature.
As to the story of using his wife’s
money, the lady gives, directly in the face of his
own Letters and Journal, the same account given before
by Medwin, and which caused such merriment when talked
over in the Noctes Club, that he had with
her only a marriage portion of 10,000 pounds; and
that, on the separation, he not only paid it back,
but doubled it.
So on the authoress goes, sowing right
and left the most transparent absurdities and misstatements
with what Carlyle well calls ’a composed stupidity,
and a cheerful infinitude of ignorance.’
Who should know, if not she, to be sure? Had
not Byron told her all about it? and was not his family
motto Crede Byron?
The ‘Blackwood,’ having
a dim suspicion that this confused style of attack
and defence in reference to the two parties under consideration
may not have great weight, itself proceeds to make
the book an occasion for re-opening the controversy
of Lord Byron with his wife.
The rest of the review devoted to
a powerful attack on Lady Byron’s character,
the most fearful attack on the memory of a dead woman
we have ever seen made by living man. The author
proceeds, like a lawyer, to gather up, arrange, and
restate, in a most workmanlike manner, the confused
accusations of the book.
Anticipating the objection, that such
a re-opening of the inquiry was a violation of the
privacy due to womanhood and to the feelings of a
surviving family, he says, that though marriage usually
is a private matter which the world has no right to
intermeddle with or discuss, yet
’Lord Byron’s was an exceptional
case. It is not too much to say, that, had
his marriage been a happy one, the course of events
of the present century might have been materially
changed; that the genius which poured itself forth
in “Don Juan” and “Cain” might
have flowed in far different channels; that the
ardent love of freedom which sent him to perish
at six and thirty at Missolonghi might have inspired
a long career at home; and that we might at this
moment have been appealing to the counsels of his
experience and wisdom at an age not exceeding that
which was attained by Wellington, Lyndhurst, and Brougham.
’Whether the world would have been
a gainer or a loser by the exchange is a question
which every man must answer for himself, according
to his own tastes and opinions; but the possibility
of such a change in the course of events warrants
us in treating what would otherwise be a strictly
private matter as one of public interest.
’More than half a century has elapsed,
the actors have departed from the stage, the curtain
has fallen; and whether it will ever again be raised
so as to reveal the real facts of the drama, may, as
we have already observed, be well doubted.
But the time has arrived when we may fairly gather
up the fragments of evidence, clear them as far as
possible from the incrustations of passion,
prejudice, and malice, and place them in such order,
as, if possible, to enable us to arrive at some
probable conjecture as to what the skeleton of the
drama originally was.’
Here the writer proceeds to put together
all the facts of Lady Byron’s case, just as
an adverse lawyer would put them as against her, and
for her husband. The plea is made vigorously
and ably, and with an air of indignant severity, as
of an honest advocate who is thoroughly convinced
that he is pleading the cause of a wronged man who
has been ruined in name, shipwrecked in life, and
driven to an early grave, by the arts of a bad woman, a
woman all the more horrible that her malice was disguised
under the cloak of religion.
Having made an able statement of facts,
adroitly leaving out ONE, of which he could
not have been ignorant had he studied the case carefully
enough to know all the others, he proceeds to sum up
against the criminal thus:
’We would deal tenderly with the
memory of Lady Byron. Few women have been
juster objects of compassion. It would seem as
if Nature and Fortune had vied with each other
which should be most lavish of her gifts, and yet
that some malignant power had rendered all their bounty
of no effect. Rank, beauty, wealth, and mental
powers of no common order, were hers; yet they
were of no avail to secure common happiness.
The spoilt child of seclusion, restraint, and parental
idolatry, a fate (alike evil for both) cast her
into the arms of the spoilt child of genius, passion,
and the world. What real or fancied wrongs
she suffered, we may never know; but those which she
inflicted are sufficiently apparent.
’It is said that there are some
poisons so subtle that they will destroy life,
and yet leave no trace of their action. The murderer
who uses them may escape the vengeance of the law;
but he is not the less guilty. So the slanderer
who makes no charge; who deals in hints and insinuations:
who knows melancholy facts he would not willingly
divulge, things too painful to state;
who forbears, expresses pity, sometimes even affection,
for his victim, shrugs his shoulders, looks with
“The significant
eye,
Which learns to lie with silence, ”
is far more guilty than he who tells
the bold falsehood which may be
met and answered, and who braves
the punishment which must follow upon
detection.
’Lady Byron has been called
“The moral
Clytemnestra of her lord.”
The “moral Brinvilliers”
would have been a truer designation.
’The conclusion at which we arrive
is, that there is no proof whatever that Lord Byron
was guilty of any act that need have caused a separation,
or prevented a re-union, and that the imputations upon
him rest on the vaguest conjecture; that whatever
real or fancied wrongs Lady Byron may have endured
are shrouded in an impenetrable mist of her own
creation, a poisonous miasma in which she
enveloped the character of her husband, raised
by her breath, and which her breath only could
have dispersed.
“She dies
and makes no sign. O God! forgive her."’
As we have been obliged to review
accusations on Lady Byron founded on old Greek tragedy,
so now we are forced to abridge a passage from a modern
conversations-lexicon, that we may understand what
sort of comparisons are deemed in good taste in a
conservative English review, when speaking of ladies
of rank in their graves.
Under the article ‘Brinvilliers,’ we find
as follows:
MARGUERITE D’AUBRAI, MARCHIONESS
OF BRINVILLIERS. The singular atrocity
of this woman gives her a sort of infamous claim to
notice. She was born in Paris in 1651; being
daughter of D’Aubrai, lieutenant- civil of
Paris, who married her to the Marquis of Brinvilliers.
Although possessed of attractions to captivate lovers,
she was for some time much attached to her husband,
but at length became madly in love with a Gascon
officer. Her father imprisoned the officer in
the Bastille; and, while there, he learned the
art of compounding subtle and most mortal poisons;
and, when he was released, he taught it to the
lady, who exercised it with such success, that, in
one year, her father, sister, and two brothers
became her victims. She professed the utmost
tenderness for her victims, and nursed them assiduously.
On her father she is said to have made eight attempts
before she succeeded. She was very religious,
and devoted to works of charity; and visited the
hospitals a great deal, where it is said she tried
her poisons on the sick.’
People have made loud outcries lately,
both in America and England, about violating the repose
of the dead. We should like to know what they
call this. Is this, then, what they mean by
respecting the dead?
Let any man imagine a leading review
coming out with language equally brutal about his
own mother, or any dear and revered friend.
Men of America, men of England, what do you think
of this?
When Lady Byron was publicly branded
with the names of the foulest ancient and foulest
modern assassins, and Lord Byron’s mistress was
publicly taken by the hand, and encouraged to go on
and prosper in her slanders, by one of the oldest
and most influential British reviews, what was said
and what was done in England?
That is a question we should be glad
to have answered. Nothing was done that ever
reached us across the water.
And why was nothing done? Is
this language of a kind to be passed over in silence?
Was it no offence to the house of
Wentworth to attack the pure character of its late
venerable head, and to brand her in her sacred grave
with the name of one of the vilest of criminals?
Might there not properly have been
an indignant protest of family solicitors against
this insult to the person and character of the Baroness
Wentworth?
If virtue went for nothing, benevolence
for nothing, a long life of service to humanity for
nothing, one would at least have thought, that, in
aristocratic countries, rank might have had its rights
to decent consideration, and its guardians to rebuke
the violation of those rights.
We Americans understand little of
the advantages of rank; but we did understand that
it secured certain decorums to people, both while living
and when in their graves. From Lady Byron’s
whole history, in life and in death, it would appear
that we were mistaken.
What a life was hers! Was ever
a woman more evidently desirous of the delicate and
secluded privileges of womanhood, of the sacredness
of individual privacy? Was ever a woman so rudely
dragged forth, and exposed to the hardened, vulgar,
and unfeeling gaze of mere curiosity? her
maiden secrets of love thrown open to be handled by
roues; the sanctities of her marriage-chamber
desecrated by leering satyrs; her parents and best
friends traduced and slandered, till one indignant
public protest was extorted from her, as by the rack, a
protest which seems yet to quiver in every word with
the indignation of outraged womanly delicacy!
Then followed coarse blame and coarser
comment, blame for speaking at all, and
blame for not speaking more. One manly voice,
raised for her in honourable protest, was silenced
and overborne by the universal roar of ridicule and
reprobation; and henceforth what refuge? Only
this remained: ’Let them that suffer according
to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls
to him as to a faithful Creator.’
Lady Byron turned to this refuge in
silence, and filled up her life with a noble record
of charities and humanities. So pure was she,
so childlike, so artless, so loving, that those who
knew her best, feel, to this day, that a memorial
of her is like the relic of a saint. And could
not all this preserve her grave from insult?
O England, England!
I speak in sorrow of heart to those
who must have known, loved, and revered Lady Byron,
and ask them, Of what were you thinking when you allowed
a paper of so established literary rank as the ‘Blackwood,’
to present and earnestly recommend to our New World
such a compendium of lies as the Guiccioli book?
Is the great English-speaking community,
whose waves toss from Maine to California, and whose
literature is yet to come back in a thousand voices
to you, a thing to be so despised?
If, as the solicitors of the Wentworth
family observe, you might be entitled to treat with
silent contempt the slanders of a mistress against
a wife, was it safe to treat with equal contempt the
indorsement and recommendation of those slanders by
one of your oldest and most powerful literary authorities?
No European magazine has ever had
the weight and circulation in America that the ‘Blackwood’
has held. In the days of my youth, when New England
was a comparatively secluded section of the earth,
the wit and genius of the ‘Noctes Ambrosianae’
were in the mouths of men and maidens, even in our
most quiet mountain-towns. There, years ago,
we saw all Lady Byron’s private affairs discussed,
and felt the weight of Christopher North’s decisions
against her. Shelton Mackenzie, in his American
edition, speaks of the American circulation of ‘Blackwood’
being greater than that in England. It was
and is now reprinted monthly; and, besides that, ‘Littell’s
Magazine’ reproduces all its striking articles,
and they come with the weight of long established
position. From the very fact that it has long
been considered the Tory organ, and the supporter of
aristocratic orders, all its admissions against the
character of individuals in the privileged classes
have a double force.
When ‘Blackwood,’ therefore,
boldly denounces a lady of high rank as a modern Brinvilliers,
and no sensation is produced, and no remonstrance
follows, what can people in the New World suppose,
but that Lady Byron’s character was a point
entirely given up; that her depravity was so well
established and so fully conceded, that nothing was
to be said, and that even the defenders of aristocracy
were forced to admit it?
I have been blamed for speaking on
this subject without consulting Lady Byron’s
friends, trustees, and family. More than ten
years had elapsed since I had had any intercourse
with England, and I knew none of them. How was
I to know that any of them were living? I was
astonished to learn, for the first time, by the solicitors’
letters, that there were trustees, who held in their
hands all Lady Byron’s carefully prepared proofs
and documents, by which this falsehood might immediately
have been refuted.
If they had spoken, they might have
saved all this confusion. Even if bound by restrictions
for a certain period of time, they still might have
called on a Christian public to frown down such a cruel
and indecent attack on the character of a noble lady
who had been a benefactress to so many in England.
They might have stated that the means of wholly refuting
the slanders of the ‘Blackwood’ were in
their hands, and only delayed in coming forth from
regard to the feelings of some in this generation.
Then might they not have announced her Life and Letters,
that the public might have the same opportunity as
themselves for knowing and judging Lady Byron by her
own writings?
Had this been done, I had been most
happy to have remained silent. I have been astonished
that any one should have supposed this speaking on
my part to be anything less than it is, the
severest act of self-sacrifice that one friend can
perform for another, and the most solemn and difficult
tribute to justice that a human being can be called
upon to render.
I have been informed that the course
I have taken would be contrary to the wishes of my
friend. I think otherwise. I know her strong
sense of justice, and her reverence for truth.
Nothing ever moved her to speak to the public but
an attack upon the honour of the dead. In her
statement, she says of her parents, ’There is
no other near relative to vindicate their memory from
insult: I am therefore compelled to break the
silence I had hoped always to have observed.’
If there was any near relative to
vindicate Lady Byron’s memory, I had no evidence
of the fact; and I considered the utter silence to
be strong evidence to the contrary. In all the
storm of obloquy and rebuke that has raged in consequence
of my speaking, I have had two unspeakable sources
of joy; first, that they could not touch her; and,
second, that they could not blind the all-seeing God.
It is worth being in darkness to see the stars.
It has been said that I have drawn
on Lady Byron’s name greater obloquy than ever
before. I deny the charge. Nothing fouler
has been asserted of her than the charges in the ‘Blackwood,’
because nothing fouler could be asserted. No
satyr’s hoof has ever crushed this pearl deeper
in the mire than the hoof of the ‘Blackwood,’
but none of them have defiled it or trodden it so
deep that God cannot find it in the day ’when
he maketh up his jewels.’
I have another word, as an American,
to say about the contempt shown to our great people
in thus suffering the materials of history to be falsified
to subserve the temporary purposes of family feeling
in England.
Lord Byron belongs not properly either
to the Byrons or the Wentworths. He is not one
of their family jewels to be locked up in their cases.
He belongs to the world for which he wrote, to which
he appealed, and before which he dragged his reluctant,
delicate wife to a publicity equal with his own:
the world has, therefore, a right to judge him.
We Americans have been made accessories,
after the fact, to every insult and injury that Lord
Byron and the literary men of his day have heaped
upon Lady Byron. We have been betrayed into injustice
and a complicity with villainy. After Lady Byron
had nobly lived down slanders in England, and died
full of years and honours, the ‘Blackwood’
takes occasion to re-open the controversy by recommending
a book full of slanders to a rising generation who
knew nothing of the past. What was the consequence
in America? My attention was first called to
the result, not by reading the ‘Blackwood’
article, but by finding in a popular monthly magazine
two long articles, the one an enthusiastic
recommendation of the Guiccioli book, and the other
a lamentation over the burning of the Autobiography
as a lost chapter in history.
Both articles represented Lady Byron
as a cold, malignant, mean, persecuting woman, who
had been her husband’s ruin. They were
so full of falsehoods and misstatements as to astonish
me. Not long after, a literary friend wrote
to me, ’Will you, can you, reconcile it to your
conscience to sit still and allow that mistress so
to slander that wife, you, perhaps, the
only one knowing the real facts, and able to set them
forth?’
Upon this, I immediately began collecting
and reading the various articles and the book, and
perceived that the public of this generation were
in a way of having false history created, uncontradicted,
under their own eyes.
I claim for my countrymen and women,
our right to true history. For years, the popular
literature has held up publicly before our eyes the
facts as to this man and this woman, and called on
us to praise or condemn. Let us have truth when
we are called on to judge. It is our right.
There is no conceivable obligation
on a human being greater than that of absolute justice.
It is the deepest personal injury to an honourable
mind to be made, through misrepresentation, an accomplice
in injustice. When a noble name is accused, any
person who possesses truth which might clear it, and
withholds that truth, is guilty of a sin against human
nature and the inalienable rights of justice.
I claim that I have not only a right, but an obligation,
to bring in my solemn testimony upon this subject.
For years and years, the silence-policy
has been tried; and what has it brought forth?
As neither word nor deed could be proved against Lady
Byron, her silence has been spoken of as a monstrous,
unnatural crime, ’a poisonous miasma,’
in which she enveloped the name of her husband.
Very well; since silence is the crime,
I thought I would tell the world that Lady Byron had
spoken.
Christopher North, years ago, when
he condemned her for speaking, said that she should
speak further,
‘She should speak, or some one
for her. One word would suffice.’
That one word has been spoken.