In leaving this subject, I have an
appeal to make to the men, and more especially to
the women, who have been my readers.
In justice to Lady Byron, it must
be remembered that this publication of her story is
not her act, but mine. I trust you have already
conceded, that, in so severe and peculiar a trial,
she had a right to be understood fully by her immediate
circle of friends, and to seek of them counsel in
view of the moral questions to which such very exceptional
circumstances must have given rise. Her communication
to me was not an address to the public: it was
a statement of the case for advice. True, by
leaving the whole, unguarded by pledge or promise,
it left discretionary power with me to use it if needful.
You, my sisters, are to judge whether
the accusation laid against Lady Byron by the ‘Blackwood,’
in 1869, was not of so barbarous a nature as to justify
my producing the truth I held in my hands in reply.
The ‘Blackwood’ claimed
a right to re-open the subject because it was not
a private but a public matter. It claimed that
Lord Byron’s unfortunate marriage might have
changed not only his own destiny, but that of all
England. It suggested, that, but for this, instead
of wearing out his life in vice, and corrupting society
by impure poetry, he might, at this day, have been
leading the counsels of the State, and helping the
onward movements of the world. Then it directly
charged Lady Byron with meanly forsaking her husband
in a time of worldly misfortune; with fabricating a
destructive accusation of crime against him, and confirming
this accusation by years of persistent silence more
guilty than open assertion.
It has been alleged, that, even admitting
that Lady Byron’s story were true, it never
ought to have been told. Is it true, then, that
a woman has not the same right to individual justice
that a man has? If the cases were reversed,
would it have been thought just that Lord Byron should
go down in history loaded with accusations of crime
because he could be only vindicated by exposing the
crime of his wife?
It has been said that the crime charged
on Lady Byron was comparatively unimportant, and the
one against Lord Byron was deadly.
But the ‘Blackwood,’ in
opening the controversy, called Lady Byron by the
name of an unnatural female criminal, whose singular
atrocities alone entitle her to infamous notoriety;
and the crime charged upon her was sufficient to warrant
the comparison.
Both crimes are foul, unnatural, horrible;
and there is no middle ground between the admission
of the one or the other.
You must either conclude that a woman,
all whose other works, words, and deeds were generous,
just, and gentle, committed this one monstrous exceptional
crime, without a motive, and against all the analogies
of her character, and all the analogies of her treatment
of others; or you must suppose that a man known by
all testimony to have been boundlessly licentious,
who took the very course which, by every physiological
law, would have led to unnatural results, did, at
last, commit an unnatural crime.
The question, whether I did right,
when Lady Byron was thus held up as an abandoned criminal
by the ‘Blackwood,’ to interpose my knowledge
of the real truth in her defence, is a serious one;
but it is one for which I must account to God alone,
and in which, without any contempt of the opinions
of my fellow-creatures, I must say, that it is a small
thing to be judged of man’s judgment.
I had in the case a responsibility
very different from that of many others. I had
been consulted in relation to the publication of this
story by Lady Byron, at a time when she had it in her
power to have exhibited it with all its proofs, and
commanded an instant conviction. I have reason
to think that my advice had some weight in suppressing
that disclosure. I gave that advice under the
impression that the Byron controversy was a thing
for ever passed, and never likely to return.
It had never occurred to me, that,
nine years after Lady Byron’s death, a standard
English periodical would declare itself free to re-open
this controversy, when all the generation who were
her witnesses had passed from earth; and that it would
re-open it in the most savage form of accusation,
and with the indorsement and commendation of a book
of the vilest slanders, edited by Lord Byron’s
mistress.
Let the reader mark the rétributions
of justice. The accusations of the ‘Blackwood,’
in 1869, were simply an intensified form of those first
concocted by Lord Byron in his ‘Clytemnestra’
poem of 1816. He forged that weapon, and bequeathed
it to his party. The ‘Blackwood’
took it up, gave it a sharper edge, and drove it to
the heart of Lady Byron’s fame. The result
has been the disclosure of this history. It is,
then, Lord Byron himself, who, by his network of wiles,
his ceaseless persécutions of his wife, his efforts
to extend his partisanship beyond the grave, has brought
on this tumultuous exposure. He, and he alone,
is the cause of this revelation.
And now I have one word to say to
those in England who, with all the facts and documents
in their hands which could at once have cleared Lady
Byron’s fame, allowed the barbarous assault of
the ‘Blackwood’ to go over the civilised
world without a reply. I speak to those who,
knowing that I am speaking the truth, stand silent;
to those who have now the ability to produce the facts
and documents by which this cause might be instantly
settled, and who do not produce them.
I do not judge them; but I remind
them that a day is coming when they and I must stand
side by side at the great judgment-seat, I
to give an account for my speaking, they for their
silence.
In that day, all earthly considerations
will have vanished like morning mists, and truth or
falsehood, justice or injustice, will be the only
realities.
In that day, God, who will judge the
secrets of all men, will judge between this man and
this woman. Then, if never before, the full truth
shall be told both of the depraved and dissolute man
who made it his life’s object to defame the
innocent, and the silent, the self-denying woman who
made it her life’s object to give space for repentance
to the guilty.