AS MOTHER USED TO DO
Man’s admiration for things
as mother used to do them is as great an obstacle
as business as usual in the path of winning the war
and husbanding the race. The glamour surrounding
the economic feats of mother in the past hides the
shortcomings of today.
I once saw one of her old fortresses,
a manor home where in bygone days she had reigned
supreme. In the court yard was the smoke house
where she cured meat and fish. In the cellar
were the caldrons and vats where long ago she tried
tallow and brewed beer. And there were all the
utensils for dealing with flax. In the garret
I saw the spindles for spinning cotton and wool, and
the hand looms for weaving the homespun. In her
day, mother was a great creator of wealth.
But then an economic earthquake came.
Foundations were shaken, the roof was torn off her
domestic workshop. Steam and machinery, like cyclones,
carried away her industries, and nothing was left to
her but odds and ends of occupations.
Toiling in the family circle from
the days of the cave dwellers, mother had become so
intimately associated in the tribal mind with the
hearthstone that the home was called her sphere.
Around this segregation accumulated accretions of
opinion, layer on layer emanating from the mind of
her mate. Let us call the accretions the Adamistic
Theory. Its authors happened to be the government
and could use the public treasury in furtherance of
publicity for their ideas set forth in hieroglyphics
cut in stone, or written in plain English and printed
on the front page of an American daily.
One of the few occupations left to
mother after the disruption of her sphere at the end
of the eighteenth century was the preparation of food.
In the minds of men, food, from its seed sowing up
to its mastication, has always been associated with
woman. Mention food and the average man thinks
of mother. That is the Adam in him. And so,
quite naturally, one must first consider this relation
of women to food in the Adamistic Theory.
When the world under war conditions
asked to be fed, Adam, running true to his theory,
pointed to mother as the source of supply, and declared
with an emphasis that came of implicit faith, that
the universe need want for nothing, if each woman
would eliminate waste in her kitchen and become a
voluntary and obedient reflector of the decisions of
state and national food authorities. This solution
presupposed a highly developed sense of community
devotion in women running hand in hand with entire
lack of gift for community action. Woman, it was
expected, would display more than her proverbial lack
of logic by embracing with enthusiasm state direction
and at the same time remain an exemplar of individualistic
performance. The Adamistic scheme seems still
further to demand for its smooth working that the
feminine group show self-abnegation and agree that
it is not itself suited to reason out general plans.
It is within the range of possibility,
however, that no comprehensive scheme of food conservation
or effective saving in any line can be imposed on
women without consulting them. The negro who agreed
“dat de colored folk should keep in dar
places,” touched a fundamental note in human
nature, over-running sex as well as racial boundaries,
when he added, “and de colored folk must do
de placin’.” It might seem to run
counter to this bit of wisdom for women to be told
that the welfare of the world depends upon them, and
then for no woman to be given administrative power
to mobilize the group.
But the contest between man’s
devotion to the habits of his ancestry in the female
line, and the ideas of his very living women folk,
is as trying to him as it is interesting to the outside
observer. The conflicting forces illustrate a
universal fact. It is always true that the ruling
class, when a discipline and a sacrifice are recognized
as necessary, endeavors to make it appear that the
new obligation should be shouldered by the less powerful.
For instance, to take an illustration quite outside
the domestic circle, when America first became convinced
that military preparation was incumbent upon us, the
ruling class would scarcely discuss conscription,
much less adopt universal service. That is, it
vetoed self-discipline. In many States, laws were
passed putting off upon children in the schools the
training which the voting adults knew the nation needed.
In the same way, when food falls short
and the victualing of the world becomes a pressing
duty, the governing class adopts a thesis that a politically
less-favored group can, by saving in small and painful
ways, accumulate the extra food necessary to keep
the world from starving. The ruling class seeks
cover in primitive ideas, accuses Eve of introducing
sin into the world, and calls upon her to mend her
wasteful ways.
Men, of course, know intellectually
that much food is a factory product in these days,
but emotionally they have a picture of mother, still
supplying the family in a complete, secret, and silent
manner.
This Adamistic emotion takes command
at the crisis, for when human beings are suddenly
faced with a new and agitating situation, primitive
ideas seize them. Mother, it is true, did create
the goods for immediate consumption, and so the sons
of Adam, in a spirit of admiration, doffing their
helmets, so to speak, to the primitive woman, turn
in this time of stress and call confidently upon Eve’s
daughters to create and save. The confidence
is touching, but perhaps the feminine reaction will
not be, and perchance ought not to be just such as
Adam expects.
Women have passed in aspiration, and
to some extent in action, out of the ultra-individualistic
stage of civilization.
The food propaganda reflects the hiatus
in Adam’s thought. I have looked over hundreds
of publications issued by the agricultural departments
and colleges of the various States. They tell
housewives what to “put into the garbage pail,”
what to “keep out of the garbage pail,”
what to substitute for wheat, how to make soap, but,
with a single exception, not a word issued suggests
to women any saving through group action.
This exception, which stood out as
a beacon light in an ocean of literature worthy of
the Stone Age, was a small pamphlet issued by the
Michigan Agricultural College on luncheons in rural
schools. Sound doctrine was preached on the need
of the children for substantial and warm noon meals,
and the comparative ease and economy with which such
luncheons could be provided at the school house.
Children can of course be better and more cheaply
fed as a group than as isolated units supplied with
a cold home-prepared lunch box. And yet with the
whole machinery of the state in his hands, Adam’s
commissions, backed by the people’s money, goad
mother on to isolated endeavor. She plants and
weeds and harvests. She dries and cans, preserves
and pickles. Then she calculates and perchance
finds that her finished product is not always of the
best and has often cost more than if purchased in the
open market.
It may be the truest devotion to our
Allies to challenge the individualistic rôle recommended
by Adam to mother, for it will hinder, not help, the
feeding of the world to put women back under eighteenth
century conditions. Food is short and expensive
because labor is short. And even when the harvest
is ripe, the saving of food cannot be set as a separate
and commendable goal, and the choice as to where labor
shall be expended as negligible. It is a prejudiced
devotion to mother and her ways which leads Adam in
his food pamphlets to advise that a woman shall sit
in her chimney corner and spend time peeling a peach
“very thin,” when hundreds of bushels
of peaches rot in the orchards for lack of hands to
pick them.
Just how wide Adam’s Eve has
opened the gate of Eden and looked out into the big
world is not entirely clear, but probably wide enough
to glimpse the fact that all the advice Adam has recently
given to her runs counter to man’s method of
achievement. Men have preached to one another
for a hundred years and more and practiced so successfully
the concentration in industry of unlimited machinery
with a few hands, that even mother knows some of the
truths in regard to the creation of wealth in the
business world, and she is probably not incapable of
drawing a conclusion from her own experience in the
transfer of work from the home to the factory.
If they are city dwellers, women have
seen bread and preserves transferred; if farm dwellers,
they have seen the curing of meat and fish transferred,
the making of butter and cheese. They know that
because of this transfer the home is cleaner and quieter,
more people better fed and clothed, and the hours
of the factory worker made shorter than those “mother
used to work.” With half an eye women cannot
fail to note that the labor which used to be occupied
in the home in interminable hours of spinning, baking
and preserving, has come to occupy itself for regulated
periods in the school, in business, in factory or
cannery. And lo, Eve finds herself with a pay
envelope able to help support the quieter, cleaner
home!
All this is a commonplace to the business
man, who knows that the evolution has gone so far
that ten percent of the married women of America are
in gainful pursuits, and that capital ventured on apartment
hotels brings a tempting return.
But the Adamistic theory is based
on the dream that women are contentedly and efficiently
conducting in their flats many occupations, and longing
to receive back into the life around the gas-log all
those industries which in years gone by were drawn
from the fireside and established as money making
projects in mill or work-shop. And so Adam addresses
an exhortation to his Eve: “Don’t
buy bread, bake it; don’t buy flour, grind your
own; don’t buy soap, make it; don’t buy
canned, preserved, or dried food, carry on the processes
yourself; don’t buy fruits and vegetables, raise
them.”
Not a doubt seems to exist in Adam’s
mind as to the efficiency of functioning woman-power
in this way. According to the Adamistic theory,
work as mother used to do it is unqualifiedly perfect.
This flattering faith is naturally balm to women’s
hearts, and yet there are skeptics among them.
When quite by themselves women speculate as to how
much of the fruit and vegetables now put up in the
home will “work.”
They smile when the hope is expressed
that the quality will rise above the old-time domestic
standard. The home of the past was a beehive in
which women drudged, and little children were weary
toilers, and the result was not of a high grade.
Statistics have shown that seventy-five percent of
the home-made bread of America was a poor product.
I lived as a child in the days of home-made bread.
Once in so often the batch of bread “went sour,”
and there seemed to be an unfailing supply of stale
bread which “must be eaten first.”
Those who cry out against a city of bakers’
bread, have never lived in a country of the home-made
loaf. It is the Adamistic philosophy, so complimentary
to Eve, that leads us to expect that all housewives
can turn out a product as good as that of an expert
who has specialized to the one end of making bread,
and who is supplied with expensive equipment beyond
the reach of the individual to possess. But there
are rebellious consumers who point out that the baker
is under the law, while the housewife is a law unto
herself. Against the baker’s shortcomings
such brave doubters assure us we have redress, we
can refuse to patronize him; against the housewife
there is no appeal, her family must swallow her product
to the detriment of digestion.
It may be the brutal truth, taking
bread as the index, that only a quarter of the processes
carried on in the home turn out satisfactorily, while
of the other three-quarters, a just verdict may show
that mother gets a “little too much lye”
in the soap, cooks the preserves a “little too
hard,” “candies the fruit just a little
bit,” and grinds the flour in the mill “not
quite fine enough.”
But perhaps even more than the quality
of the product does the question of the economical
disposition of labor-power agitate some women.
They are asking, since labor is very scarce, whether
the extreme individualistic direction of their labor-power
is permissible. The vast majority of American
homes are without servants. In those homes are
the women working such short hours that they can,
without dropping important obligations, take over
preserving, canning, dehydrating, the making of bread,
soap, and butter substitute? Has the tenement-house
dweller accommodation suitable for introducing these
industrial processes into her home? Would the
woman in the small ménage in the country be wise
in cutting down time given, for instance, to the care
of her baby and to reading to the older children,
and using the precious moments laboriously to grind
wheat to flour? My observation convinces me that
conscientious housewives in servantless or one-servant
households, with work adjusted to a given end, with
relative values already determined upon, are not prepared
by acceptance of the Adamistic theory to return to
primitive occupations.
But even if business and home life
could respond to the change without strain, even if
both could easily turn back on the road they have come
during the last hundred years, commerce yielding up
and the home re-adopting certain occupations, we should
carefully weigh the economic value of a reversion
to primitive methods.
The Adamistic attitude is influenced,
perhaps unconsciously but no less certainly, by the
fact that the housewife is an unpaid worker. If
an unpaid person volunteers to do a thing, it is readily
assumed that the particular effort is worth while.
“We get the labor for nothing” puts to
rout all thought of valuation. No doubt Adam will
have to give over thinking in this loose way.
Labor-power, whether it is paid for or not, must be
used wisely or we shall not be able to maintain the
structure of our civilization.
Then, too, the Adamistic theory weighs
and values the housewife’s time as little as
it questions the quality of the home product.
Any careful reader of the various “Hints to
Housewives” which have appeared, will note that
the “simplifying of meals” recommended
would require nearly double the time to prepare.
The simplification takes into consideration only the
question of food substitutions, price and waste.
Mother is supposed to be wholly or largely unemployed
and longing for unpaid toil. Should any housewife
conscientiously follow the advice given her by state
and municipal authorities she would be the drudge at
the center of a home quite medieval in development.
Let us take a concrete example: In
a recently published and widely applauded cookbook
put out by a whole committee of Adamistic philosophers,
it is stated that the object of the book is to give
practical hints as to the various ways in which “economies
can be effected and waste saved;” and yet no
saving of the woman’s time, nerves and muscles
is referred to from cover to cover. The housewife
is told, for instance, to “insist upon getting
the meat trimmings.” The fat “can
be rendered.” And then follows the process
in soap-making. Mother is to place the scraps
of fat on the back of the stove. If she “watches
it carefully” and does not allow it to get hot
enough to smoke there will be no odor. No doubt
if she removes her watchful eye and turns to bathe
her baby, her tenement will reek with smoking fat.
She is to pursue this trying of fat and nerves day
by day until she has six pounds of grease. Next,
she is to “stir it well,” cool it, melt
it again; she is then to pour in the lye, “slowly
stirring all the time.” Add ammonia.
Then “stir the mixture constantly for twenty
minutes or half an hour.”
In contrast to all this primeval elaboration
is the simple, common-sense rule: Do not buy
the trimmings, make the butcher trim meat before weighing,
insist that soap-making shall not be brought back to
defile the home, but remain where it belongs, a trade
in which the workers can be protected by law, and
its malodorousness brought under regulation.
In the same spirit the Adamistic suggestion
to Eve to save coal by a “heatless day”
is met by the cold challenge of the riotous extravagance
of cooking in twelve separate tenements, twelve separate
potatoes, on twelve separate fires.
The Adamistic theory, through its
emphasis on the relation of food to Eve, and the almost
religious necessity of its manipulation at the altar
of the home cook-stove, has drawn thought away from
the nutritive side of what we eat. While the
child in the streets is tossing about such words as
calories and carbohydrates with a glibness that comes
of much hearing, physiology and food values are destined
to remain as far away as ever from the average family
breakfast table. Segregating a sex in the home,
it is true, centralizes it in a given place, but it
does not necessarily train the individual to function
efficiently. Mother, as she “used to do,”
cooks by rule of thumb; in fact, how could she do
otherwise, since she must keep one eye on her approving
Adam while the other eye glances at the oven.
The Adamistic theory requires individualistic action,
and disapproves specialization in Eve.
The theory also demands economic dependence
in the home builder. Mother’s labor is
not her own, she lives under the truck system, so to
speak. She is paid in kind for her work.
Influenced by the Adamistic theory, the human animal
is the only species in which sex and economic relations
are closely linked, the only one in which the female
depends upon the male for sustenance. Mother
must give personal service to those about her, and
in return the law ensures her keep according to the
station of her husband, that is, not according to her
ability or usefulness, but according to the man’s
earning capacity.
The close association of mother with
home in the philosophy of her mate, has circumscribed
her most natural and modest attempts at relaxation.
Mother’s holiday is a thing to draw tears from
those who contemplate it. The summer outing means
carrying the family from one spot to another, and
making the best of new surroundings for the old group.
The “day off” means a concentration of
the usual toil into a few hours, followed by a hazy
passing show that she is too weary to enjoy. The
kindly farmer takes his wife this year to the county
fair. She’s up at four to “get on”
with the work. She serves breakfast, gives the
children an extra polish in honor of the day, puts
on the clean frocks and suits with an admonition “not
to get all mussed up” before the start.
The farmer cheerily counsels haste in order that “we
may have a good long day of it.” He does
not say what “it” is, but the wife knows.
At last the house is ready to be left, and the wife
and her brood are ready to settle down in the farm
wagon.
The fair grounds are reached.
Adam has prepared the setting. It has no relation
to mother’s needs. It was a most thrilling
innovation when in the summer of 1914 the Women’s
Political Union first set up big tents at county fairs,
fitted with comfortable chairs for mother, and cots
and toys, nurses and companions for the children.
The farmer’s wife for the first time was relieved
of care, and could go off to see the sights with her
mind at rest, if she desired anything more active than
rocking lazily with the delicious sensation of having
nothing to do.
Women must not blame Adam for lack
of thoughtfulness. He cannot put himself in mother’s
place. She must do her own thinking or let women
who are capable of thought do it for her.
Men are relieved when mother is independent
and happy. The farmer approved the creche tent
at the county fairs. It convinced him that women
have ideas to contribute to the well-being of the community.
The venture proved the greatest of vote getters for
the suffrage referendum.
In fact, men themselves are the chief
opponents of the Adamistic theory to-day. The
majority want women to organize the home and it is
only a small minority who place obstacles in the way
of the wider functioning of women. It is Eve
herself who likes to exaggerate the necessity of her
personal service. I have seen many a primitive
housewife grow hot at the suggestion that her methods
need modifying. It seemed like severing the silken
cords by which she held her mate, to challenge her
pumpkin pie.
But women are slowly overcoming Eve.
Take the item of the care of children in city parks.
The old way is for fifty women to look after fifty
separate children, and thus waste the time of some
thirty of them in keeping fifty miserable children
in segregation. The new way, now successfully
initiated, is to form play groups of happy children
under the leadership of capable young women trained
for such work.
Salvaging New York City’s food
waste was a very splendid bit of cooeperative action
on the part of women. Mrs. William H. Lough of
the Women’s University Club found on investigation
that thousands of tons of good food are lost by a
condemnation, necessarily rough and ready, by the
Board of Health. She secured permission to have
the sound and unsound fruits and vegetables separated
and with a large committee of women saved the food
for consumption by the community by dehydrating and
other preserving processes.
This was not as mother used to do.
Mother’s ways are being investigated
and discarded the whole world round. At last
accounts half the population of Hamburg was being fed
through municipal kitchens and in Great Britain an
order has been issued by Lord Rhondda, the Food Controller,
authorizing local authorities to open kitchens as
food distributing centers. The central government
is to bear twenty-five percent of the cost of equipment
and lend another twenty-five percent to start the
enterprise.
Mother’s cook stove cannot bear
the strain of war economies.
Dropping their old segregation, women
are going forth in fellowship with men to meet in
new ways the pressing problems of a new world.