Here are grouped songs whose main
theme is love, subdivided as below. Many are
hardly “popular” in the strict sense:
though current among the folk, they differ from the
true folk-song, or “song-ballet.”
On the other hand, many bear a striking resemblance
to certain of those listed in I and II, above.
1. SONGS OF CONSTANT LOVE.
AVONIA (RED RIVER VALLEY), ii, 4a3b4c3b
and 4a3b4c3b, 4: A constant lover’s song
of farewell to Helen, as she leaves the vale of Avonia.
BARNEY AND KATE, 4abab, 6: Barney,
maudlin with drink, comes one winter’s night
to Kate’s window and implores her to admit him.
She sends him packing. He goes away whistling,
rejoicing in her chastity.
KITTY WELLS, 4ababcdcd and 3abab,
3. Her lover’s Lament upon her death.
The refrain is:
While the birds they
were singing in the morning,
And the
ivy and the myrtle were in bloom,
The sun on the hill-top
was dawning,
It was then
we laid her in the tomb.
NORA O’NEIL, 4a3b4a3b, 5:
Her lover’s invitation to Nora to meet him “at
the foot of the lane” when the nightingale sings
in the dusk.
SWEET BIRDS, ii, 4a3b4a3b and 5aa,
6: A maiden’s song of longing for her absent
lover: she asks the birds to bear her message
of devotion to him and to bring him back secure in
his affection for her.
[CONSTANT JOHNNY], 4aa, 14: A
maiden sings her devotion to her absent sailor lover.
He returns and they are married.
LORLA, 4aabb, 2: A lover’s
elegy over the grave of Lorla beneath the elm, as
he recalls the golden willow under which they once
sat on violet banks.
LONESOME DOVE, 4a3b4c3b, 5: A
constant husband sings his resolve to return like
a lonesome dove to his wife and children in “Californy.”
LONESOME DOVE, 4aabb, 8: The
singing of a dove bereft of its mate reminds a constant
husband of his Mary, recently dead of consumption.
PRETTY SARO, iii, 4aabb and 4aabb,
6ca: Her absent lover sings of his devotion,
wishing he were a priest and knew how to write to her,
or a dove to fly to her.
COME, ALL YE JOLLY BOATSMAN BOYS,
7aabb, 5: A ribald song of a sailor to his amorata
by night, and the birth of the child nine months later.
A PACKAGE OF OLD LETTERS, ii, 8aa,
11: A dying maiden bids her sister bring them
from their rosewood casket to read them to her again,
and asks that at her death they be buried with her.
JACK AND MAMIE, 6aabb and 4aaa3a,
4: Jack plunges into the water to recover the
hat of his girl sweetheart, Mamie. Jack, the man,
leaves her for a long voyage, and his ship never returned.
SWEET SUMMER EVENING, 4abcb, 7:
The poet one summer evening overhears a mother chide
her daughter for her devotion to her roving sailor
lover, who soon appears and bids her an affectionate
farewell.
WAIT FOR THE WAGON, 3abcbdefe and
4a(ter), 4: A lover’s call to Phyllis
to jump into the wagon with him a-Sunday morning; he
tells her of the cabin he has built for her, and wooes
her to marry him.
LOVELY NANCY, 4abcb, 5: A dialogue,
in quatrains, between Nancy and her lover, whom
she wishes to accompany on his voyage to the West Indies.
NANCY TILL, 4aabb and 4aabb, 4:
A serenade by her lover “down in the canebrakes
close by the mill,” urging her to be ready to
go with him “a-sailing on the Ohio.”
[EPHRIAM AND LUCY], 4a3b4c3b and 4a3b4c3b,
4: The night before their wedding-day, amid night-hawks,
owls, and whippoorwills, “we danced by the light
of the moon.”
2. SONGS OF LOVE INCONSTANT.
[SHE WAS HAPPY TILL SHE MET YOU],
4aa5b4cc5b4dd5e4ff5e and 4ababcc5b, 2: A
husband forsakes his wife; later, becoming repentant,
he returns to seek her at the house of her mother,
who forbids him access to her.
[BEDROOM WINDOW], 4abcb, 5: The
lover by night calls his sweetheart to awake.
She warns him away, saying that her father is armed
to repulse his presence. He vows to have her
for his own. A suggestion of his sinister motive
closes the song.
I’LL HANG MY HARP ON A WILLOW
TREE, ii, 4a3b4a3b4c3d4c3d, 3: A lover voices
his resolve to forsake the charms of his fickle mistress
to court a warrior’s fate at the Saracen’s
hand on the field of Palestine.
THERE WAS A RICH OLD FARMER, ii, 3abcb,
9ca: The singer recites his farewell to
father and sweetheart to seek his fortune, and his
faith in her until a letter arrives telling
of her marriage to another man.
JACK AND JOE, 4a3b4b3c and 4a3b4b3c,
3ca: Both are sailors, away from home.
Jack, returning first, is commissioned by Joe to kiss
his sweetheart Nellie for him. When Joe returns,
like Miles Standish, he finds that Jack and she are
married.
ALL ON THE BANKS OF CLAUDA, 3abcb,
10: By this stream the poet overhears a maiden’s
complaint against her fickle Johnny. Like Oenone,
she prays the mountain to hear her, and implores Cupid
to fire his heart anew.
THE AUXVILLE LOVE, 4aabb, 6:
A merchant’s daughter, “in Auxville town
or Delaware,” love-lorn, gathers flowers, Ophelia-like,
and dies under a green pine on the mountain.
CUCKOO, ii, 4aabb, 5ca:
A love-lorn maiden’s warning to her sex not to
be deceived, as she, by false men in springtime when
the cuckoo calls.
WE HAVE MET AND WE HAVE PARTED, ii,
4abcb and 4abcb, 5ca: A maiden’s scornful
farewell to her fickle lover, as she returns him the
presents and letters he has sent her.
IF I HAD MINDED MAMMA, 3abcb and 3abcb,
6: A maiden’s regret that she has been
deluded by a faithless lover:
He is like the blue-birds
ever
That flies
from tree to tree;
And when he sees another
girl
He never
thinks of me.
I USED TO LOVE, 4abcb and 4abcb, 4:
A maiden voices her complaint against the “dark-eyed
girl,” her successful rival, and her wish for
“coffin, shroud, and grave,” to end her
woe.
THE BUTCHER’S BOY, iii, 4aabb,
8ca: A maiden voices her complaint against
the New York butcher’s boy, once her childhood
playmate and lover, who now has forsaken her for a
wealthier girl; then goes upstairs and hangs herself,
leaving a note pinned on her breast.
THE PALE AMARANTHUS, 4aabb, 5:
A maiden’s complaint against her faithless lover,
whom she vows to forget.
I HAVE FINISHED HIM A LETTER, 4abcb
and 4abcb, 7: A maiden’s complaint against
her lover, who has forsaken her for Annie Lee.
CAN YOU THEN LOVE ANOTHER?, ii, 3abcbdefe
and 3abcb, 3: A lorn maiden’s plaint:
Say, must I be forgotten,
Cast like
a flower aside?
Have I from memory faded,
Once all
your joy and pride?
TO CHEER THE HEART, ii, 3abcbdefe
and 3abcbdede, 4: A maiden’s complaint
against her faithless lover. He is the son of
a “rich merchant,” she, the daughter of
a “laboring man.” “But why need
I care? For I have another man.”
A POOR STRANGE GIRL, 4aabb, 7:
The poet one May morning overhears a damsel complaining
against her faithless lover, and against her loss of
friends and home.
PRETTY POLLY, 4aabb, 5: A lover
recites his visit one evening to her home, where he
sees his rivals enjoying her company. He retires
to a grove, sucks comfort from his whiskey bottle,
and wishes that she were drowned, floating on the
tide, that he, like a fisherman, might draw her in
his net to shore.
HANG DOWN YOUR HEAD AND CRY, 4aabb,
2: A fragment (two quatrains), apparently
a complaint of a lover to his faithless sweetheart.
THE DYING GIRL’S MESSAGE, ii,
4abcb, 15: Her death-song to her mother, breathing
forgiveness for her faithless lover, and closing with
a vision of Christ waiting to receive her.
A second version contains only an
elaboration of this last motif.
THE COLD, DARK SCENES OF WINTER, 3abcb,
9: In the winter the lover woos his fair, but
is rejected. In the spring, her mind changing,
she writes him of her love for him. He replies
that meanwhile his heart has changed in turn and that
he is already married to another.
LOVING HANNER, 3abcb, 9: The
lover sings his devotion to her, but in the face of
her coolness and her parents’ opposition, vows
to go on a long voyage to try to forget her but
in vain.
MY BONNIE LITTLE GIRL, 4a3b4c3b, 4:
Courting her too slow, the singer finds his sweetheart
has fled with another man.
LOVELY NANCY, ii, 4aabb, 5ca:
A bachelor’s warning against “courting
too slow”: Sweet William goes on a voyage;
meanwhile Nancy, his sweetheart, writes him of her
marriage to another. William dies of grief and
Nancy, of remorse.
I’M SCORNED FOR BEING POOR (VAIN
GIRL), 3abcb, 8: A lover’s farewell to
his sweetheart, who has forsaken him to be married
to a wealthy stranger from New England.
LITTLE NELLIE, 4a3b4c3b, 8: She
forsakes her lover, the singer, to marry wicked, wealthy
Mr. Brown, who is a drunkard and dies of
a broken heart.
THE SQUIRE, 2abcb, 10: The wealthy
young squire, being rejected in love by pretty Sally,
vows to dance on her grave when she dies.
LITTLE SPARROW (A REGRET), ii, 4abcb,
5ca: A complaint of a love-lorn maiden warning
her kind against the faithlessness of all men.
THE AWFUL WEDDING, 4abcb, 7:
At the marriage feast each guest is asked for a song.
The bride’s former lover sings his unchanging
affection for her. She swoons and spends the
night in her mother’s bed, where she is found
dead the next morning.
THE YOUNG MAN’S LOVE, 2aa, 9:
The singer one evening overhears a young man lamenting
the faithlessness of his sweetheart, who scorns him
for his poverty.
[MAGGIE], 3a3b4c3b and 2abab (approximately),
7: A story of Maggie, the constant wife, who
seeks in bar-room and dry-goods store her faithless
husband, who has eloped with Lula Fry. Failing
to find him, she wanders to the cemetery, and thence
to the railroad trestle, where she is killed by train
No. Four.
JOE HARDY, 4a3b4c3b, 6: A maiden’s
explanation to her jilted lover that when she plighted
her troth in Bangor, she had not then met Joe Hardy,
whom she now adores.
3. SONGS OF LOVE THWARTED.
LOVELY JULIA, iv, 4abcb, 9ca:
Crossed in love by her parents, she leaves the city,
goes upon a mountain, and plunges a dagger into her
breast. Her lover finds her and in like manner
dies with her.
JOHNNY DOYLE, 2aa, 14ca:
A maiden, who loves Johnny, is forced by her parents
to prepare to marry Samuel Moore. Just as the
priest enters, her earrings fall to the floor and
her stay-laces burst. She is carried home fatally
ill. The mother now proposes to send for Johnny
Doyle, but it is too late she is dead.
ANNIE WILLOW, iii, 4a3b4c3b, 8:
Her lover dreams of her and goes to her uncle’s
house to visit her. Upon being told that she is
absent, he fights his way in with drawn sword and
takes her away with him.
GREENBRIAR SHORE, 4aa, 10: An
amorous youth recites his love for Nancy on Greenbriar
Shore. Her father chases him away with an “army
of a thousand or more.” The sad lot of
womankind deplored.
4. SONGS OF ABSENT LOVERS REUNITED.
THE SINGLE SOLDIER (THE SAILOR LOVER,
JOHN RILEY), v, 4abcb, 8ca: “A pretty
fair damsel in a garden” is wooed by a passing
soldier (or sailor). She rejects him, saying
her lover is absent in the wars. Assured of her
faithfulness, he proves his identity by taking their
betrothal ring from his pocket.
ANNIE AND WILLIE, 4a3b4c3b, 7:
He bids her farewell at the seashore and goes on a
long voyage. After three years he returns, and,
disguised as a beggar, tests her devotion, draws the
“patch from his eye,” is recognized, and
marries her. (Cf. The Bailiff’s Daughter
of Islington, page 8, above.)
PRETTY POLLY, 4aabb, 8: Pining
for her soldier lover, who is absent in the “town
of renown,” she goes in the guise of a trooper
to seek him, becomes his room-mate for the night,
and discloses her identity in the morning.
5. SONGS OF THE MURDEROUS LOVER.
(CF. I FOR SIMILAR BALLADS.)
FLORELLA (FLOELLA, FAIR ELLA, JEALOUS
LOVER), iv, 3abcb, 11ca: Her lover comes
one moonlit night to her cottage window and persuades
her to wander with him “through meadows dark
and gay.” She reluctantly follows, and
is murdered by him, forgiving him with her dying breath.
LITTLE OMY WISE (LITTLE ANNA), iii,
4aa, 13: John Lewis seduces her with promises,
lures her to Adam’s Spring, murders her, and
throws her body into the stream. She is “missen,”
the body is found, the murderer views it and confesses
the crime.
MILLER-BOY, ii, 4a3b4c3b, 12ca:
Johnny, the miller’s apprentice, falls in love
with a Knoxville girl. One night the pair go walking;
he murders her with a fence-stake, explains the stains
on his clothes as due to nose-bleed, but is convicted.
(Cf. Lizzie Wan, Child, N, and Waxford Girl,
page 13.)
POLLY VAUGHN, 2abcb (approximately),
4ca: One evening dressed in white she goes
walking, takes refuge from a shower under a holly bush,
is mistaken for a swan by her lover, Jimmy Randal,
and shot.
ROSE COLALEE (COLLEEN?), 4a3b4c3b,
2: She is murdered on the bank of a river, by
her lover, who, intoxicated with Burgundy wine, is
persuaded by his father’s promise of money,
to slay her.
NOTE. Amid the flotsam
and jetsam of popular parlor-songs everywhere current
the following have come to hand. They are hardly
worth preserving, even by title, save for the fact
that in spite of their pseudo-literary tang they are
fellow travelers by oral tradition with the true folk-songs
and song-ballads.
The list is: The Old, Old Love
is Growing Still; There’s a Spark of Love Still
Burning; I’ll Remember You, Love, in My Prayers;
The White Rose; I’ll Love Thee Always; Jack
and Mary; Willie and Kate; Won’t You Ever Come
Again?; Fond Affection; Will You Love Me When I’m
Old?; Nell and I had Quarrels; Tell Me Why You’ve
Grown so Cold?; I Want to be Somebody’s Darling;
By the Gate; The Broken Engagement; Say You’ll
be Mine in a Year; I Cannot be Your Sweetheart; Kiss
Me Again; Just Going Down to the Gate; Darling, We
have Long been Parted; Our Hands are Clasped; Only
Flirting; I Loved You Better than You Knew; Mollie
Darling; The Jealous Girl; The Independent Girl; Willie,
Come Back; Free Again; The Hawthorn Tree; The Sailor
Lad; I’ll be All Smiles Tonight; Love, I’ve
been Faithful; Maggie’s Secret; I Rather Think
I Will; Little Sweetheart; Meet Me in the Moonlight;
He’s Got Money, Too; After the Ball; Sweet Bunch
of Daisies; In the Shadow of the Pines; On the Banks
of the Wabash; Mary has Gone with a “Coon.”