THE DEVELOPMENT OF THE “SELF”
ORIGIN AND DEVELOPMENT OF A SENSE
OF PERSONAL SELFHOOD. The expression of individuality
in opinion is only one way men have of expressing
their personality, individuality, or self. From
the beginnings of childhood, men experience an increasing
sense of “personal selfhood” which finds
various outlets in action or thought. So familiar,
indeed, in the normal man is his realization that
he is a “self,” that it seldom occurs
to him that this conception was an attainment gradually
accomplished through long years of experience with
the world about him. The very young baby does
not distinguish between Itself and the Not-Self which
constitutes the remainder of the universe. It
is nothing but a stream of experiences, of moment
to moment pulsations of desire, of hunger and satisfaction,
of bodily comfort and bodily pain. As it grows
older, it begins dimly to distinguish between Itself
and Everything-Else; it finds itself to be something
different, more vivid, more personal and interesting
than the chairs and tables, the crib and bottle, the
faces and hands, the smiles and rattles that are its
familiar setting. It discovers that “I am
I,” and that everything else ministers to or
frustrates or remains indifferent to its desires.
It becomes a person rather than a bundle of reactions.
It develops a consciousness of “self.”
In its simplest form this consciousness
of self is nothing more than a continuous stream of
inner organic sensations, and the constant process
of the body and limbs “and the special interest
of these as the seat of various pleasures and pains.”
This is what James calls the “bodily self.”
As it grows older, the baby distinguishes between
persons and things. And as, in setting off his
own body from other things, it discovers its “bodily
self,” so in setting off its own opinions, actions,
and thoughts from other people, it discovers its “social
self.” It is because Nature does in some
degree the “giftie gie us to see ourselves as
others see us,” that we do discover our “selves”
at all. “The normal human being, if it
were possible for him to grow up from birth onward
in a purely physical environment, deprived, that is,
to say, of both animal and human companionship, would
develop but a very crude and rudimentary idea of the
self."
THE SOCIAL SELF. A man’s
social self, that is, his consciousness of himself
as set over against all the other individuals with
whom he comes in contact, develops as his relations
with other people grow more complex and various.
A man’s self, apart from his mere physical body,
consists in his peculiar organization of instincts
and habits. In common language this constitutes
his personality or character. We can infer from
it what he will, as we say, characteristically do in
any given situation. And a particular organization
of instincts and habits is dependent very largely
on the individual’s social experience, on the
types and varieties of contact with other people that
he has established. There will be differences,
it goes without saying, that depend on initial differences
in native capacity. But both the consciousness
of self and the overt organization of instinctive
and habitual actions are dependent primarily on the
groups with which an individual comes in contact.
In the formation of habits, both of action and thought,
the individual is affected, as we have seen, largely
by praise and blame. He very early comes to detect
signs of approval and disapproval, and both his consciousness
of his individuality and the character of that individuality
are, in the case of most persons, largely determined
by these outward signs of the praise and blame of
others. And since, in normal experience, a man
comes into contact with several distinct groups, with
varying codes of conduct, he will really have a number
of distinct personalities. The professor is a
different man in his class and at his club; the judge
displays a different character in the court and in
the bosom of his family.
The self that comes to be most characteristic
and distinctive of a man, however, is determined by
the group with which he comes most habitually in contact,
or to whose approvals he has become most sensitive.
Thus there develop certain typical personalities or
characters, such as those of the typical lawyer or
soldier or judge. Their bearing, action, and
consciousness of self are determined by the approvals
and disapprovals of the group to which they are most
completely and intimately exposed.
Both the consciousness of self which
most men experience and the overt expression of that
selfhood in act are thus seen to be a more or less
direct reflex of the praise and blame of the groups
with which they are in contact. Men learn from
experience with the praise and blame of others to “place”
themselves socially, to discover in the mirror of other
men’s opinions the status and locus of their
own lives. As we shall see in a succeeding section,
the degree of satisfaction which men experience in
their consciousness of themselves is dependent intimately
on the praise and blame by which their selfhood is,
in the first place, largely determined. In the
chapter on the “Social Nature of Man,”
we examined in some detail the way in which praise
and blame modified a man’s habits. The
total result of this process is to give a man a certain
fixed set of overt habits that constitute his character
and a more or less fixed consciousness of that character.
On the other hand, a man’s character
and self-consciousness may develop more or less independently
of the immediate forces of the public opinion to which
he is exposed. One comes in contact in the course
of his experience not merely with his immediate contemporaries,
but with a wide variety of moral traditions.
Except in the rigidly custom-bound life of primitive
societies, a man is, even in practical life, exposed
to a diversity of codes, standards, and expectations
of behavior. His family, his professional, his
political, and his social groups expose him to various
kinds of emphases and accent in behavior. And
a man of some intelligence, education, and culture
may be determined in his action by standards whose
origin is remote in time, space, and intention from
those operative in the predominant public opinion
of his day. He may come to act habitually on
the basis of ideal standards which he has himself
set up through reflection, or which he has acquired
from some moral system or tradition, far in advance
of those which are the staple determinants of character
for most of his contemporaries. He may be one
of those rare moral geniuses, singularly unsusceptible
to praise and blame, who create a new ideal of character
by the dominant individuality of their own. Or,
as more frequently happens, he may follow the ideals
set up by such a one, instead of accepting the orthodoxies
which are generally observed. He may follow Christ
instead of the Pharisees, Socrates instead of the habit-crusted
citizens of Athens. We are, indeed, inclined to
think of a man as a peculiarly distinctive personality,
when his sense of selfhood, and the overt actions
in which that selfhood finds expression, are not determined
by the current dogmas of his day, but by ideal standards
to which he has reflectively given allegiance.
But so much is the self, both in its consciousness
and expression, socially produced that men acting on
purely imagined ideal standards, current nowhere in
their day and generation, have imagined a group, no
matter how small or how remote, who would praise them
or a God who noted and approved their ways.
CHARACTER AND WILL. From the
foregoing it would appear that the self is an organization
of habitual tendencies, developed primarily through
contact with other people and more specifically through
their praise and blame. And consciousness of
self is the awareness of the unique or specific character
of the habit-organization one has acquired. Individuals
differ natively in given capacities, and differences
in fully developed personalities depend, certainly
in part, on innate initial differences. But differences
in the kinds of selfhood displayed and experienced
by different men are due to something more than differences
in native capacities and native desires. The
self that a man exhibits and of which he is conscious,
at any given period of his life, depends on the complex
system of habits he has in the course of his experience
developed. One individual may, as we have seen,
develop a number of sets of organized dispositions,
a multiple character, as it were, as a consequence
of the multiplicity of groups with which he has come
in contact. But whether through deliberate or
habitual conformity to one group as a norm, or the
deliberate organization of habits of action and feeling
and thought, on the basis of ideal or reflective standards,
a man comes to develop a more or less “permanent
self.” That is, while men start with somewhat
similar native equipments, each man’s set of
inborn tendencies comes to be fixed in a fairly definite
and specific system. While all men start within
limits equally responsive and similarly responsive
to all stimuli, certain stimuli come to have the “right
of way.” They are more or less easily and
more or less readily responded to, according as they
do or as they do not fit in with the habit-organization
which the individual has previously acquired.
When we say that a man has no character
or individuality, we mean that he has developed no
stable organization of actions, feelings, and thoughts,
with reference to which and by the predominant drive
of which his actions are determined. There is
no particular system of behavior which he has come
consciously to identify as his person or self; no interweaving
of motives and stimuli by the persistent momentum of
which his conduct is controlled; no single group of
stimuli rather than another has, in his pulpy person,
attained priority in stimulating power. Such
men are chameleons rather than characters. Their
actions do not flow from a selfhood or individuality
at all; they are merely the random results of the
accidental situations in which such men find themselves.
The self exists, then, as a well-defined,
systematic trend of behavior. Impulses to action
attain a certain order of priority in an individual’s
conduct, and it is by the momentum of these primary
drives to action that his life is controlled.
What is commonly known as “will” is simply
another name for the power and momentum of a man’s
“personal self.” Will exists not
as a thing, but as a process. To will an action
means to identify it consciously with one’s permanent
self, to weigh and support it with all the emotions
and energies connected with one’s consciously
realized habitual system of behavior. A man may
bring to bear on the accomplishment of a given action
the deepest and most powerful motive forces of his
developed personality. To pass a course or make
a team a student may marshal all the habits of loyalty,
of self-assertion (and the emotional energies associated
with them) which have become the leading ingredients
of his character.
The “permanent self” becomes
involved in the same way in the case of willing not
to perform a certain action. Any stimulus may,
on occasion, be strong even if it has ceased to be
characteristic or habitual in a man’s behavior.
This is particularly the case with some of the primary
physical drives to action. Even the ascetic feels
the strong sting of sense-desire. A man in resisting
temptation, in denying the pressure of an immediate
stimulus, is setting up to block or inhibit it all
the contrary reactions and emotions which have become
part of the “permanent self.” In more
familiar language he is setting will over against
desire. The temporary desire may be strong, but
it is consciously regarded by the individual as alien
to his “real” or “better” self.
And will is this whole complex organization
of the permanent self set over against an alien intruding
impulse.
The phenomenon of will contending
against desire occurs usually when a stimulus not
characteristically powerful in a man’s conduct
becomes so through special conditions of excitement
or fatigue. When a man is tired, or stirred by
violent emotion, his systematic organization of habits
begins to break down. The ideal permanent or
inclusive self is then brought into conflict with
a temporary passion. Love conflicts with duty,
the lower with the higher self, flesh with spirit,
desire with will. Few men have so thoroughly integrated
a self that such conflicts altogether cease. Every
one carries about with him a more or less divided
soul.
Fire and ice within me fight
Beneath the suffocating night.
There are, in the records of abnormal
psychology, many cases of really divided personalities,
cases of two or more completely separate habit-organizations
inhabiting the same physical body. Such a complete
Dr.-Jekyll-and-Mr.-Hyde dissociation of a personality
is clearly abnormal. But it is almost as rare
to find a completely integrated character. We
are all of us more or less multiple personalities.
Our various personalities usually keep their place
and do not interfere with each other. Our professional
and family selves may be different; they do not always
collide. But the various characters that we are
in various situations not infrequently do clash.
The self whose keynote is ambition or learning may
conflict with the self whose focus is love.
“Resolve to be thyself; and know,
that he
Who finds himself, loses his misery!”
wrote Matthew Arnold. And it
does seem to be true that a man whose will is never
divided or confused by contending currents of desire,
whose character is unified and whose action is consistent,
is saved from the perturbations, the confusions, the
tossings of spirit which possess less organized souls.
But to find one’s self, and to keep one’s
self whole and undivided, is a difficult achievement
and a rare one. Even men whose interests and
activities are fairly well defined find their characters
divided and their wills, consequently, confused.
A man’s duties as a husband and father may conflict
with his professional ambitions; his love of adventure,
with his desire for wealth and social position; his
artistic interests, with his philanthropic activities;
his business principles, with his religious scruples.
A man can achieve a selfhood by thrusting out all
interests save one, and achieving thereby unity at
the expense of breadth. There are men who choose
to be, and succeed in being, first and last, scholars
or poets or musicians or doctors. All activities,
interests, and ideals that do not contribute to that
particular and exclusive self are practically negligible
in their conduct. Such men, although they have
attained a permanent self, have not achieved a broad,
comprehensive, or inclusive one. They are like
instruments which can sound only one note, however
clear that may be; or like singers with only a single
song. All lives are necessarily finite and exclusive;
every choice of an interest or ideal very possibly
precludes some other. A man cannot be all things
at once; “the philosopher and the lady-killer,”
as James merrily remarks, “could not very well
keep house in the same tenement of clay.”
But a strong character need not necessarily mean a
narrow one, nor need a determined will be the will
of a fanatic. The self may be in the
case of rare geniuses it has been diverse
in its interests, activities, and sympathies, yet
unified and consistent in action. A character
may be various without being confused; versatility
is not synonymous with chaos. A man’s interests
and activities may be given a certain order, rank,
and proportion, so that his life may exhibit at once
the color, consistency, clarity, and variety of a
finished symphony.
The consciousness of “self”
which starts as a mere continuum of bodily sensations
comes to be the net result of one’s social and
intellectual as well as physical activities. The
“self” of which we are conscious ceases
to be our merely physical person, and comes to include
our possessions. The house we live in and the
garden we tend, our children, our friends, our opinions,
creations, or inventions, these become extensions
and more or less inalienable parts of our personalities.
Our “selfhood” includes not simply us,
but ours.
Our possessions, and especially such
as are the fruits of our own actions, are indications
of what we are. We judge, and within limits correctly,
of a man by the company he keeps, the clothes he wears,
by the books he reads, the pictures with which he
decorates his home, the kind of home he builds or
has built. And a man may feel as provoked by insult
or injury to the person or things which have become
an intimate part of his life as if he were being attacked
in his physical person. Strip a man one by one
of his physical acquisitions, of his associates, of
the indications and mementos of the things he has
thought and done, and there would be no “self”
left. To speak of a man as a nonentity is to imply
that he is no “self” worth speaking of;
that he can be blown about hither and thither; that
neither his opinions nor desires, nor possessions,
nor associates make an iota of difference in the world.
A man who is a “somebody,” a “person
to be reckoned with,” is one who is a “self.”
He is one whose physical possessions or personal abilities
or standing in the community make him one of the “powers
that be.” And it is the desire to be a
factor in the world, to increase the scope and consequence
of one’s self that is the leading ingredient
in what we call ambition, and the desire for fame,
and at least one ingredient in the desire for wealth.
Men may want wealth merely for the sake of possession,
or for bodily comfort, but part of the desire consists
in the ability thereby to spread one’s influence,
to be “one of the happy sons of earth, who lord
it over land and sea, in the full-blown lustihood
that wealth and power can give, and before whom, stiffen
ourselves as we will ... we cannot escape an emotion,
sneaking or open, of dread."
THE ENHANCEMENT OF THE SELF.
The building-up of a more or less permanent self is
natively satisfactory to most men, and every means
will be taken to increase its scope and influence.
Biologically we are so constituted as to perform many
acts making for our self-preservation. The ordinary
reflexes and instincts such as those which prompt
us to eat, to defend ourselves against blows and the
threatening approach of animals, to keep our equilibrium
and recover our balance, are examples of these.
The development and preservation of
our social self is also made possible as it is initially
prompted by our specifically social instincts.
There is a native tendency, as already noted, to get
ourselves noticed by other people, to seek their praise
and avoid their blame. The instincts of self-display
and leadership, and many of the non-social instincts,
such as curiosity and acquisitiveness, are frequently
called into play in the service of the more directly
social tendencies of the individual. A large
part of our activity, whatever be its other motives,
is determined to some degree by the desire to develop
the social self, to be a “somebody,” to
cut a figure in the world.
In the enlargement of the social self,
various people use various means, and with varying
degrees of vigor, intensity, and persistency.
There are a few who go through life with almost no
sense of selfhood, who go through their daily routine
with no more recognition of their acts as their own
than that displayed by an animal or a machine.
In most men the sense of their personality and their
interest in it are high, and the development of the
self is sought in all possible or legitimate ways.
The ways in which the self is developed, and the kind
of self that is sought, help to determine whether a
man is self-seeking in the lowest sense of that epithet,
or idealistic and ambitious in the approved popular
sense.
The kind of self we seek to build
up depends, as we have seen, largely on the type of
praise and blame and the general character of the
moral tradition to which we have been exposed.
But whichever type of self a man does select as his
ideal or permanent self, all his activities will be
more or less consciously and more or less consistently
controlled by it. His habits of action, his habitual
choices, his habitual feelings, will be built up with
this ideal self as a standard and control. He
will do those things which “carry on” toward
the ideal self, leave undone those things which do
not. The man or woman who wishes simply to cut
a figure “socially” will cultivate the
wit, the gayety, the facility, the smartness, which
are the familiar ingredients of such a personality.
The same persons will be singularly blind to abysses
of ignorance which would be painfully in the consciousness
of those who had set up for themselves ideals of erudition
and culture. A laborer will live and move and
have his being serenely in clothes and in surroundings
that “would never do” for a professional
man who had committed himself to live according to
the social standards of his class. Sometimes
a man’s actions will be directed toward the
construction of an ideal self, on standards far in
advance of those of his group. A man in developing
such a self is, indeed, in some cases practically committing
social suicide. The extreme dissenter from the
current standards of action is attempting to build
up what James has well called a “spiritual self,”
a self in the light of his own ideals, rather than
those current among his contemporaries.
EGOISM VERSUS ALTRUISM.
The individual in developing his own personality need
not, necessarily, be selfish, nor is the enhancement
of one’s personality incompatible with altruism.
One man may find his individuality sufficiently developed
in a large bank account, another in discovering a
cure for cancer; one man may seek nothing but gratification
of his physical appetites; another may find his fulfillment
on the battlefield in defense of the national honor.
Since man is born with the original tendencies to
herd with and have common sympathies with his fellows,
and to pity those of them that are weak and distressed,
there is nothing more unnatural about altruism than
about egoism. It is true that in some men the
so-called altruistic impulses, the impulse to sympathize
with the emotions, feelings, aspirations and difficulties
of others, and to pity them in their distress, are
comparatively weak; that in some men the more obviously
egoistic impulses, such as the gratification of bodily
desires, the acquisition of physical possessions are
strong and uncontrollable. But through education
the altruistic and social impulses of men may be cultivated
and strengthened, so that they may become more powerful
and dominant than even the urgency of physical desire.
“Man cannot live by bread alone,” and a
man in whom a passion for reform or for religion,
for a cause or for a conquest has become strong, will
sacrifice food, sleep, and physical comfort, and may
even find the satisfactory fulfillment of self in
self-sacrifice and obliteration.
The old distinction between egoism
and altruism is thus an artificial one. A genuinely
altruistic individual derives satisfaction from the
beneficent things he does, though he does not, as
Jeremy Bentham supposed, calculate the benefits he
will derive from his beneficence. Altruism is
just as natural as egoism in its origins, though the
impulses of self-preservation and personal physical
satisfaction are natively stronger and more numerous.
But human beings can be educated to altruism, and
find the same satisfaction in service to others as
individuals reared in less humane conditions find in
satisfying their immediate physical desires.
SELF-SATISFACTION AND DISSATISFACTION.
Since the development of selfhood plays so large a
part in human action, it is natural that powerful
emotions should be associated with it. Individuals
become conscious of the kind of self they are and
measure it favorably or unfavorably with the kind of
self they would be. In so far as the actuality
they conceive themselves to be measures up to the
ideal self, to the fulfillment of which they have
dedicated themselves, they have a feeling of self-satisfaction,
of elation. They are jubilant or crestfallen,
satisfied or dissatisfied with themselves, in so far
as they are in their own estimation making good.
In normal individuals, these estimates of triumph
and frustration are, of course, colored and qualified
by signs of approval and disapproval from other people.
There are very few and these insanely conceited in
whom the opinions of others are not largely influential
in determining their own estimates of themselves.
The emotions themselves of self-satisfaction
and abasement are of a unique sort ... each has its
own peculiar physiognomical expression. In self-satisfaction
the extensor muscles are innervated, the eye is strong
and glorious, the gait rolling and elastic, the nostril
dilated, and a peculiar smile plays upon the lips.
This complex of symptoms is seen in an exquisite way
in lunatic asylums, which always contain some patients
who are literally mad with conceit, and whose fatuous
expression and absurdly strutting or swaggering gait
is in tragic contrast with their lack of any valuable
personal quality. It is in these same castles
of despair that we find the strongest examples of
the opposite physiognomy, in good people who think
they have committed “the unpardonable sin”
and are lost forever, who crouch and cringe and slink
from notice, and are unable to speak aloud or look
us in the eye.... We ourselves know how the barometer
of our self-esteem and confidence rises and falls from
one day to another through causes that seem to be visceral
and organic rather than rational, and which certainly
answer to no corresponding variations in the esteem
in which we are held by our friends.
Self-satisfaction depends, as has
been said, on the kind of self we are aiming at, and
that in turn depends on the kind of self we are.
A professional bank-robber may take a craftsman’s
pride in the skill with which he has rifled a safe
and made off with the booty, just as a surgeon may
take pride in a delicate operation, or a dramatist
in a play. The ideal and the measure of satisfaction
will again be determined by the group among whom we
move. The bank-robber will not boast of his exploits
to a missionary conference; the surgeon will prefer
to explain the details of his achievement to medical
men who can critically appreciate its technique.
The ideal self we set ourselves may far outreach our
achievements, considerable and generally applauded
though these be. A man may know in his heart
how futile are his triumphs, how far from the goals
he cherished as young ideals. Many a brilliant
comedian longs to play Hamlet; the gifted and scholarly
musician knows how easy it is to win an audience with
sentimental and specious music. The humility of
genius has again and again been noted. “The
more one knows the less one knows one knows.”
Many men attain self-satisfaction
through negation, through a serene surrender of the
unattainable. As the Epicureans counseled, they
increase their happiness by lessening their desires.
The content which middle-aged people exhibit is not
so frequently to be traced to the dazzling character
of their achievement as to their resignation to their
station. Young people are moody and unhappy not
infrequently because they cannot make a reconciliation
between what they would be and what they are.
Others again attain satisfaction vicariously in the
achievements of others, as mediocre fathers do in
their brilliant children, or as sympathetic and interested
people do in the whole world about them.
The magnanimity of these expansive
natures is often touching indeed. Such persons
can feel a sort of delicate rapture in thinking that,
however sick, ill-favored, mean-conditioned, and generally
forsaken they may be, they are yet integral parts of
the whole of this brave world, have a fellow’s
share in the strength of the dairy horses, the happiness
of the young people, the wisdom of the wise ones, and
are not altogether without part or lot in the good
fortunes of the Vanderbilts and the Hohenzollerns
themselves.
In some men a modicum of success will
give a disproportionate sense of confidence and power.
The man to whom success has always come easily is
not baffled by problems that would appall those who,
in middle life, “lie among the failures at the
foot of the hill.” As Goethe, who had always
been miraculously successful, said to one who came
to complain to him about the difficulty of an undertaking:
“You have but to blow on your hands.”
In a crowd one can hardly fail to note the easy air
of competence and confidence that distinguishes the
successful man of affairs.
THE CONTRAST BETWEEN THE SELF AND
OTHERS. The consciousness of self increases with
the expression of personal opinion and power.
The man whose books are translated into half a dozen
languages, to whose lectures people come from all parts
of the world, cannot help feeling an increased sense
of importance, although he may combine this consciousness
with a sense of personal humility. In the same
way a man who exerts great social power, who controls
the economic lives of thousands of employees, or whose
benefactions in the way of libraries and charitable
institutions dot the land, develops inevitably a sense
of his own selfhood as over against that of the group.
He begins to realize that he does make a significant
difference in the world. This was curiously illustrated
in a speech delivered by Andrew Carnegie when, after
a prolonged absence in Europe, he came back to the
opening of the Carnegie Institute, the building of
which had cost him six million dollars:
He said he could not bring himself
to a realization of what had been done. He felt
like Aladdin when he saw this building and was aware
that he had put it up, but he could not bring himself
to consciousness of having done it any more than if
he had produced the same effect by rubbing a lamp.
He could not feel the ownership of what he had given,
and he could not feel that he had given it away.
This sense of incredulity at one’s
actions or achievements is rarer than the consciousness
of self which it promotes. The intensity of this
self-awareness is increased when opinion is expressed
or power exerted in the face of opposition. The
man who finds himself standing out against the community
in which he lives, who is a freethinker among those
who are intensely religious, an extremist among those
who are custom-ridden, spiritualistic among people
who are controlled by materialistic ideas, finds the
sense of his own personality heightened by contrast.
When dissenting opinions are steadfastly maintained
in the face of the opposition of a powerful majority,
there develops a personality with edge and strength.
The man who can persist in his belief against the prevailing
winds of doctrine and of action may be wrong, but he
is a personality. He is intensely and persistently
aware of himself. Similarly, the exertion of
power in the face of opposition increases the sense
of one’s own power and helps to consolidate
it. One derives from it the same exhilaration
that one has in feeling a canoe under the impulsion
of one’s paddle overcome the resistance of the
water. In the same way, the exertion of social
power in the face of obstacles makes half the exhilaration
of politics and business for some types of men in
business and political life. One admires the ruthlessness
of a Napoleon at war or of a captain of industry in
the sharp industrial competition of the nineteenth
century, not because it is ruthless, but because it
is power. Such men are at least not neutral;
they are positive forces.
The contrast between the “self”
and the others may be friendly, with a recognition
of all other selves as equally entitled to existence.
One pursues the even tenor of one’s way, and
is content to let others pursue theirs. Men of
very powerful personality have exhibited the utmost
gentleness and consideration of others. Lincoln,
the typical strong, silent man, displayed a tenderness
for the suffering and distressed that has already
become proverbial.
The contrast between one’s self
and the world may be one of bitter opposition, as
when one’s ideas or actions are subjected to
social censure. As Mill argued over half a century
ago, the forceful suppression of opinion produces
a more violent manifestation of it. Socrates
was put to death, but the Socratic philosophy rose
like the sun in the heavens. A sense of injustice,
of unfairness, will not only intensify a man’s
opinions but his consciousness of his own personality.
To meet with opposition is to feel acutely the outlines
of one’s own person; to be forced to recognize
the differences between ourselves and others is to
discover what sort of people we ourselves are.
The contrast is likewise one of opposition,
sometimes to bitterness, when the individual seeks
to impose his own opinions or his own personality
forcibly on others. A Mohammed, fired with the
zeal of a religious enthusiasm, may spread his doctrine
by fire and sword and be resisted by similar violence.
Others than the Germans have betaken themselves to
arms to spread a specific and arbitrary type of life.
On a small scale it is seen wherever a fanatical parent
tries to force his own belief and type of life upon
his children, reared in a younger and freer generation.
In contemporary society most individuals are neither
tempted nor permitted to coerce people to their own
way of thinking, although economic pressure and social
ostracism are still powerful instruments by which
strategically situated individuals can force their
own opinions or types of life upon others.
TYPES OF SELF. The consciousness
of self varies in its expression and intensity and
at different times may display different types or
combinations of types. No one is ever utterly
consistent, and different situations, different groups,
provoke different selves in us. Nobody writes
quite the same kind of letter to his different friends,
or is, as has been pointed out, the same person in
different situations. But, except for those intellectual
will-o’-the-wisps, or moral ne’er-do-wells
who take on the color of every new circumstance in
which they happen to be cast, men do develop predominantly
one type of self which constitutes, in familiar language,
their character.
The manner of our consciousness of
our personality may vary in quality, even though it
be intense in degree. One may be aware even of
one’s importance, without being “self-important.”
One may be quite conscious of one’s significance
in the world and yet not be “self-conscious.”
It is indeed usually the little man who has a great
air about him. The officiousness and pettiness
of the small soul invested with authority has often
been commented on. Proverbial wisdom has succinctly
recorded the fact that empty barrels make the most
noise. Latterly, Freudian psychology has pointed
out the mechanisms by which insignificant people compensate
for the poverty of their person by bluster and brag.
SELF-DISPLAY OR BOLDNESS. The
most obvious type of consciousness of self is found
in individuals who seek mere social conspicuousness,
who spend no inconsiderable part of their energy in
deliberate display. The child says with naïve
frankness, “See how high I can jump.”
Many adults find more conspicuous or subtle ways of
saying the same thing. One need only to take
a ride in a bus or street car to find the certain
symptoms of self-display. These may consist in
nothing more serious than a peculiarly conspicuous
collar or hatband, or particularly high heels.
It may consist in a loud voice full of pompous references
to great banquets recently attended or great sums
recently spent. It may be in a raised eyebrow
or a disdainful smile. There are people among
every one’s acquaintance whose conversation is
largely made up of reminiscences of more or less personal
glory, of deliberate allusions to large salaries and
famous friends, to glorious prospects and past laurels.
On a larger scale this is to be found
in the almost universal desire to see one’s
name in print:
There is a whole race of beings to-day
whose passion is to keep their names in the newspapers,
no matter under what heading, “arrivals and
departures,” “personal paragraphs,”
“interviews” gossip, even scandal
will suit them if nothing better is to be had.
Guiteau, Garfield’s assassin, is an example of
the extremity to which this craving for notoriety
may go in a pathological case. The newspapers
bounded his mental horizon; and in the poor wretch’s
prayer on the scaffold, one of the most heartfelt
expressions was: “The newspaper press of
this land has a big bill to settle with thee, O Lord!"
As was pointed out in connection with
praise and blame, more of our actions than we should
care to admit are determined by this desire for recognition.
The loud, the vulgar, the notoriety seekers are merely
extreme illustrations of a type of self that most
of us are some of the time.
SELF-SUFFICIENT MODESTY. The
other extreme is exhibited by the type of personality
that is markedly averse to display and shrinks from
observation. In its intensest and possibly least
appealing form it is exhibited by people who become
awkwardly embarrassed in the presence of a stranger,
however fluent and vivacious they may be with their
friends. This type at its best may be described
by the epithet of self-sufficient modesty. To
be such a person may be said to be an achievement
rather than a weakness. To be self-sufficient
and modest at the same time means that one is going
about one’s business, that one is too absorbed
in one’s work to be continually and anxiously
noting what sort of figure one cuts in the world.
To quote Matthew Arnold’s well-known lines:
“Unaffrighted by the silence round
them,
Undistracted by the sights they
see,
These demand not that the things
without them
Yield them love, amusement, sympathy."
There are in every great university
quiet great men who steadily pursue vital and difficult
researches without the slightest reference or desire
for cheap conspicuousness. In every profession
and business there are known to the discriminating
men who are experts, even geniuses in their own field,
but who shrink back from the loudness of publicity
as from a plague. There are a number of wealthy
philanthropists in all our large cities who consistently
and steadily do good works in almost complete anonymity.
One finds in almost every department of human activity
these types of self-effacing men who find their fulfillment
in the work they do rather than in moving in the aura
of other people’s admiration.
THE POSITIVE AND FLEXIBLE SELF.
But in order to be effective in affairs, some positive
force must be displayed, and modesty need not mean
pusillanimity. A frequently observable type of
personality and socially one of a highly
desirable sort is the type of man who,
himself standing for positive convictions, ideas,
and principles of action, and not casually to be deflected
from them, has sufficient flexibility and sensitivity
to the feelings of others, to accept modification.
Such a self not only has its initial force and momentum,
but gains as it goes by the experience of others.
A personality must be positive to contribute to the
solution of difficulties and the management of enterprises,
but it must be receptive in order to benefit by the
ideas of others and cooeperate with them. To
have power and humility at once is sometimes sufficient
to make a leader among men. Humility prevents
us from rushing headlong along the paths of our own
dogmatic errors; it enables us further to deal with
other people who would be simply antagonized by our
flat-footed insistence on every detail of our own
initial position. The history of great statesmanship
is in part, at least, the history of wise compromise.
Nor does this mean sordid temporizing and opportunism.
As John Morley puts it:
It is the worst of political blunders
to insist on carrying an ideal set of principles into
execution, where others have rights of dissent, and
those others persons whose assent is as indispensable
to success as it is difficult to attain. But
to be afraid or ashamed of holding such an ideal set
of principles in one’s mind in their highest
and most abstract expression, does more than any other
one cause to stunt or petrify those elements of character
to which life should owe most of its savor.
DOGMATISM AND SELF-ASSERTION.
Too often, however, a person of powerful and distinctive
opinions is so moved by the momentum of his own strong
enthusiasms, so fixed by the habitual definiteness
of his own position that he cannot be swayed.
In its worst form this is rampant egoism and dogmatism.
All of us have met the loud-mouthed exponent of his
own opinions, who speaks whatever be the subject, as
if his position only were plausible or possible,
and as if all who gain-said him were either fools
or knaves.
If we examine the mental furniture
of the average man we shall find it made up of a vast
number of judgments of a very precise kind upon subjects
of very great variety, complexity, and difficulty.
He will have fairly settled views upon the origin
and nature of the universe, and upon what he will
probably call its meaning; he will have conclusions
as to what is to happen to him at death and after,
as to what is and what should be the basis of conduct.
He will know how the country should be governed, and
why it is going to the dogs, why this piece of legislation
is good and that bad. He will have strong views
upon military and naval strategy, the principles of
taxation, the use of alcohol and vaccination, the
treatment of influenza, the prevention of hydrophobia,
upon municipal trading, the teaching of Greek, upon
what is permissible in art, satisfactory in literature,
and hopeful in science.
The bulk of such opinions must necessarily
be without rational basis, since many of them are
concerned with problems admitted by the expert to
be still unsolved, while as to the rest it is clear
that the training and experience of no average man
can qualify him to have any opinion on them at all.
In action as well as opinion dogmatism
and unbridled self-assertion may be the dominant characteristics
of a personality. The man who has a strong will
and little social sympathy will be ruthlessly insistent
on the attainment of his own ends. This type
of self has indeed been set up as an ideal by such
philosophers as Nietzsche and Max Stirner, who urged
that the really great man should express his own personality
irrespective of the weaklings whom he might crush in
his comet-like career. Thus writes Nietzsche
in one of his characteristic passages:
The Superman I have at heart;
that is the first and only thing to me and
not man: not the neighbor, not the poorest,
not the sorriest, not the best....
In that ye have despised, ye higher
men, that maketh me hope.... In that ye have
despaired, there is much to honor. For ye have
not learned to submit yourselves, ye have not learned
petty policy.
For to-day have the petty people become
master; they all preach submission, and humility,
and policy, and diligence, and consideration, and
the long et cetera of petty virtues.
These masters of to-day surpass
them, O my brethren these petty people:
they are the Superman’s greatest danger!
It need scarcely be noted that even
if the genius or Superman were justified, as this
philosophy insists, on ruthlessly asserting his priority,
it is a dangerous procedure to identify one’s
ambitions with one’s desserts. As already
noted, a flamboyant assurance of one’s own importance
is sometimes a ludicrous symptom of the reverse.
The more legitimate manifestation
of strong individualism in action or opinion is in
the case of deeply conscientious natures, who will
not compromise by a hair’s breadth from what
they conceive to be the right. The fanatic is
seldom an appealing character, but he is a type that
enforces admiration. Of such unflinching insistence
are martyrs and great leaders made. There are
in every community men who will regard it as treachery
to their highest ideals to compromise at all from
the inviolable principles to which they feel themselves
committed. Such men are difficult to deal with
in human situations involving cooeperation and compromise,
and they exhibit frequently a rigid austerity, bitterness,
and hate that do not readily win sympathy. But
it is to such men as these that many religious and
social reforms owe their initiation. Bertrand
Russell, who, whether one agrees with him or not, exhibits
a puritanical devotion to his social beliefs, has finely
described the type:
The impatient idealist and
without some impatience a man will hardly prove effective is
almost sure to be led into hatred by the oppositions
and disappointments which he encounters in his endeavors
to bring happiness to the world. The more certain
he is of the purity of his motives and the truth of
his gospel, the more indignant will he become when
his teaching is rejected.... The intense faith
which enables him to withstand persecution for the
sake of his beliefs makes him consider these beliefs
so luminously obvious that any thinking man who rejects
them must be dishonest and must be actuated by some
sinister motive of treachery to the cause.
ENTHUSIASM. The enthusiast is
another type of self that plays an important part
in social life and makes not the least attractive
of its figures. The exuberant exponent of ideas,
causes, persons, or institutions is an effective preacher,
teacher, or leader of men, and may be, apart from his
utility, intrinsically of the utmost charm. Emotions
vividly displayed are, as already pointed out in connection
with sympathy, readily duplicated in others, and the
ardors of the enthusiast are, when they have the earmarks
of sincerity, contagious. A genuinely enthusiastic
personality kindles his own fire in the hearts of
others, and makes them appreciate as no mere formal
analysis could, the vital and moving aspects of things.
Good teaching has been defined as communication by
contagion, and the teachers whom students usually
testify to have influenced them most are not those
who doled out flat prescribed wisdom, but those whose
own informed ardor for their subject-matter communicated
to the student a warm sense of its significance.
Leaders of great movements who have been successful
in controlling the energies and loyalties of millions
of men have been frequently men of this high and contagious
voltage. It certainly constituted part of Theodore
Roosevelt’s political strength, and, in more
or less genuine form, is the asset of every successful
political speaker and leader.
Both for the one controlled by enthusiasm
and for the others to whom it spreads, experience
becomes richer in significance. Poets and the
poetically-minded have to a singular degree the power
of clothing with imaginative enthusiasm all the items
of their experience.
Enthusiasm does not necessarily connote
hysteria or sentimentalism. The unstable enthusiast
is a familiar type, the man who has another object
of eagerness and loyalty each week. Mark Twain
describes the type in the person of his brother, who
had a dozen different ambitions a year. But enthusiasm
may be a long-sustained devotion to a single ideal.
A curious instance of it was seen in the case of an
Armenian scholar who, so it is reported to the writer
by a student of Armenian culture, spent forty years
in mastering cuneiform script in order to prove that
the Phrygians were descended from the Armenians, and
not vice versa.
Shelley could kindle the spirit of
revolution in thousands who would have been bored
to death with the same fiery doctrines in the abstract
and cold pages of Godwin, from whom Shelley derived
his ideas of “political justice.”
The enthusiast, since he instinctively likes to share
his emotions, not infrequently displays an intense
desire for leadership, not so much that he may be
a leader as that he may win converts to his own cause
or creed. Such a personality finds its satisfaction
in some form of proselyting zeal, be it for a religion,
for a favorite charity, for good books, poetry, or
social justice. A well-known literary scholar
who died recently was thus described by one of his
former students:
Dr. Gummere was not a teacher; he
was a vital atmosphere and his lectures, as one considered
them from an intellectual or emotional angle, were
revelations or adventures. There never were such
classes as his, we believed. Who could equal him
in readiness of wit? Where was there such a raconteur?
Who else could put the feel of a poem into one’s
heart? ... His voice was very deep, and exceedingly
free and flexible. It always seemed to brim up
as from a spirit overflowing. Everything about
him was individual and spontaneous. He was perhaps
most like a powerful river that braced one’s
energies, and carried one along without the slightest
desire to resist.
THE NEGATIVE SELF. All the types
of personality or self that have thus far been discussed
are in some way positive or assertive. But the
self may be exhibited negatively, in a shrinking,
not only from observation, but from any positive or
pronounced action. This has already been noted
in connection with submissiveness. Most people
in the presence of their intellectual and social or
even their physical superior, experience a sense of,
to use McDougall’s term, “negative self-feeling.”
In some people this negation or effacement of the
self is a predominant characteristic.
It may be mere social timidity, which,
in the case of those continually placed in servile
positions, as in the case of the proverbial “poor
relation,” may become chronic. In its most
disagreeable form it is exhibited as an obsequious
flattering and a pretentious humility. Of this
the classic instance is Uriah Heep in David Copperfield:
“I suppose you are quite a great
lawyer,” I [David Copperfield] said, after looking
at him for some time.
“Me, Master Copperfield?”
said Uriah. “Oh, no! I’m a very
umble person.”
It was no fancy of mine about his
hands, I observed; for he frequently ground the palms
against each other, as if to squeeze them dry and
warm, besides often wiping them, in a stealthy way,
on his pocket-handkerchief.
“I am well aware that I am the
umblest person going,” said Uriah Heep modestly,
“let the other be where he may. My mother
is likewise a very umble person. We live in a
numble abode, Master Copperfield, but have much to
be thankful for. My father’s former calling
was umble. He was a sexton.”
“What is he now?” I asked.
“He is a partaker of glory,
at present, Master Copperfield, but we have much to
be thankful for. How much have I to be thankful
for, in living with Mr. Wickfield.”
Negative self-feeling may be provoked
by a genuine sense of unworthiness or modesty, and
when this takes place among religious people, it may
become a complete and rapturous submissiveness to
God. The records of many mediaeval and of some
modern mystics emphasize this complete yielding to
the will of God, and in His will finding peace.
James quotes in this connection Pascal’s Prière
pour bien user les maladies:
I ask you, neither for health nor
for sickness, for life nor for death; but that you
may dispose of my health and my sickness, my life and
my death, for your glory.... You alone know what
is expedient for me; you are the sovereign master;
do with me according to your will. Give to me,
or take away from me, only conform my will to yours.
I know but one thing, Lord, that it is good to follow
you, and bad to offend you. Apart from that,
I know not what is good or bad in anything. I
know not which is most profitable to me, health or
sickness, wealth or poverty, nor anything else in the
world. That discernment is beyond the power of
men or angels, and is hidden among the secrets of
your Providence, which I adore, but do not seek to
fathom.
Self-surrender, however, takes other
forms than religious absorption or devotion.
“Saintliness” is not unknown in secular
forms of life, in the devotion of men to any ideal,
despite pain and privation of worldly goods and successes.
The doctor sacrificing his life in a leper colony is
an extreme example. But something of the same
humility and submissiveness is exhibited every time
a man makes a choice which places the welfare of other
people before his own immediate success. It is
shown by the thousands of physicians and settlement
workers and teachers who spend their lives in patient
devotion to labors that bring little remuneration and
as little glory. Men of affairs and a large proportion
of other men generally measure worth by worldly success.
But even from the worldly, such signs of self-surrender
elicit admiration.
ECCENTRICS. There is one type
of self so various and miscellaneous that it can only
be subsumed under the general epithet, “eccentric.”
These are the unexpectedly large number of individuals
in our civilization who do not come under any of the
usual categories, who display some small or great
abnormality which sets them off from the general run
of men. That some of these are accounted eccentric
is to be explained in the light of man’s tendency,
as a gregarious animal, to think “queer”
and “freakish” anything off the beaten
track. Some are clearly and unmistakably abnormal
in some physiological or psychological respect.
From these are recruited the inmates of our penitentiaries
and insane asylums and the candidates for them.
But there are eccentricities of social behavior, types
of personality which though they cannot be classed
as either insane or criminal, yet definitely set an
individual apart.
These include what Trotter has called
the “mentally unstable,” as set over against
“the great class of normal, sensible, reliable
middle age, with its definite views, its resiliency
to the depressing influence of facts, and its gift
for forming the backbone of the State.”
There are the large group of slightly neurasthenic,
made so, in part, by the high nervous tension under
which modern, especially modern urban, life is lived.
These include what are commonly called the hysterical
or over-emotional, or “temperamental” types.
In a civilization where most professions demand regularity,
restraint, punctuality, and directness, unstability
and excess emotionalism are necessarily at a discount.
There are the vagabond types who, like young Georges,
Jean-qhristophe’s protege, regard a profession
as a prison house, in which most of one’s capacities
are cruelly confined. There are again those who,
possessing singular and exclusive sensitivity to aesthetic
values, to music, art, and poetry, find the world
outside their own lyric enthusiasms flat, stale, and
unprofitable. If, as so frequently happens, these
combine, along with their peculiar temperaments, little
genius and slender means, social and economic life
becomes for them a blind alley. Every year at
our great universities we see small groups of young
men, who, having spent three or four years on philosophy,
literature, and the liberal arts, and having no interest
in academic life, are put to it to find a profession
in which they can find a genuine interest or possible
success.
Among these “eccentrics”
a few have been reckoned geniuses by their contemporaries
or by posterity. In such cases society hesitates
to apply its usual formulae. One cannot condemn
out of hand a Shelley. He is not of the run of
men.
Shelley was one of those spokesmen
of the a priori, one of those nurslings of
the womb, like a bee or a butterfly, a dogmatic, inspired,
perfect, and incorrigible creature.... Being a
finished child of nature, not a joint product, like
most of us, of nature, history, and society, he abounded
miraculously in his own clear sense, but was obtuse
to the droll miscellaneous lessons of fortune.
The cannonade of hard inexplicable facts that knocks
into most of us what little wisdom we have, left Shelley
dazed and sore, perhaps, but uninstructed.
It is difficult to draw the line in
some cases between genius and insanity. There have
been time and again in society Cassandras who have
spoken true prophecies and have been thought mad.
There have been, on the other hand, those who, having
some of the external eccentricities of genius, have
given an illusive impression of greatness. The
professional Bohemian likes to make himself great
by wearing his hair long and living in a garret.
But it is unquestionably true that a highly sensitive
and creative mind is often ill at ease in the world
of action, and remains a vagabond, an enfant terrible
or an eccentric all through life. It remains
a fact that in contemporary society there are a small
number of people, some of them of considerable talents,
who simply cannot be made to fit into the social routine.
For such Bertrand Russell suggests a “vagabond’s
wage.” This he conceives as being just
large enough to enable them to get along, to give
them a chance to wander and experiment, but sufficiently
small to penalize them for not settling down to the
accustomed social routines.
Mill has generalized the situation of the genius:
Persons of genius, it is true, are,
and are always likely to be, a small minority; but
in order to have them, it is necessary to preserve
the soil in which they grow. Genius can only breathe
freely in an atmosphere of freedom. Persons
of genius are, ex vi termini, more individual
than any other people less capable, consequently,
of fitting themselves, without hurtful compression,
into any of the small number of moulds which society
provides in order to save its members the trouble
of forming their own character.... If they are
of a strong character, and break their fetters, they
become a mark for the society which has not succeeded
in reducing them to commonplace, to point at with
solemn warning as “wild,” “erratic,”
and the like; much as if one should complain of the
Niagara River for not flowing smoothly between its
banks, like a Dutch canal.
THE ACTIVE AND THE CONTEMPLATIVE.
One final distinction must be made, one that cuts
across all the types of self hitherto discussed, namely,
the distinction between the man of action and the
man of thought. One need not go far in literature
or in life to find the contrast made. In the Scriptures
Mary is set over against Martha, Rachel against Leah.
Hamlet and Ulysses are permanent representations of
the melancholy thinker and the exuberant adventurer.
The business man and the executive may be put over
against the poet and the scholar; the strenuous organizer
and administrator over against the quiet philosopher.
Both have their outstanding uses, and, in their extreme
forms, their outstanding defects. The active
type, as we say, “gets things done.”
He builds bridges and industries; he manages markets
and men. His eye is on the practical; he is dependable,
rapid, and efficient. In an industrial civilization
he is the great heroic type. The statesman and
the railroad builder, the newspaper editors and the
political leaders captivate the imaginations as they
control the destinies of mankind.
On the other hand, there are those
who stand aside (either from incapacity or disinclination
or both) from the management of affairs and the life
of action, and spend their lives in observation and
contemplation. Plato and Aristotle regarded this
as the highest type of life; it may have been because
they were themselves both philosophers. In its
extreme form it is exhibited in such men as Spinoza
or Kant, spending their lives in practical obscurity,
speculating on time and space and eternity. But
it is apparent in less extreme types. The “patient
observer,” the genial spectator of other men’s
actions is not infrequent. When he has literary
gifts he is a philosopher or a poet. Lucretius
in a famous passage stated the contemplative ideal,
contrasting it with its opposite:
Sweet it is when on the great seas
the winds are buffeting, to gaze from the land on
another’s great struggles; not because it is
pleasure or joy that any one should be distressed,
but because it is sweet to perceive from what misfortunes
you yourself are free. Sweet is it, too, to behold
great contests of war in full array over the plains,
when you have no part in the danger. But nothing
is more gladdening than to dwell in the calm high
places, firmly embattled on the heights by the teaching
of the wise, whence you can look down on others, and
see them wandering hither and thither and going astray,
as they seek the way of life, in strife matching their
wits or rival claims of birth, struggling night and
day by surpassing effort to rise up to the height
of power and gain possession of the world.
But in the two types it is not the
fruit of action or contemplation, but action and contemplation
themselves that the two types find respectively interesting.
The man of action finds an immediate satisfaction
in movement, change, the clamor of affairs, the contacts
with other people, the making of changes in the practical
world. The man of thought finds as immediate
enjoyment in noting the ways of men, and reflecting
upon them.
That contemplation, disinterested
thinking, also has its use goes without saying.
The thinker and the dreamer may be something at least
of what the Irish poet boasts:
“... the movers and shakers
Of the world, forever, it seems.”
The scholar, the thinker, the man
who stands aside from immediate action, may, often
does, help the world of action in a far-reaching way.
The researches of a Newton make possible eventually
the feats of modern engineering and telegraphy; the
abstruse study of the calculus helps to build bridges
and skyscrapers.
Both types, in their extremes, have
their weaknesses. The extremely practical man
“may cut off the limb upon which he is sitting,”
or “see no further than the end of his nose.”
A really great administrator is not penny-wise; he
thinks far ahead, around and into a problem.
He is concerned for tomorrow as well as to-day.
The contemplative man may come to be “sicklied
o’er with the pale cast of thought.”
There is the hero of one Russian novel who reflects
through three hundred pages on his wasted life, all
at the ripe age of twenty-three. The practical
man gains width and insight by checking himself with
reflection; the contemplative finds thought called
home and made meaningful by contacts with the world.
It was something of this balance which Plato had in
mind when he insisted that his future philosopher-king
should, after fifteen years’ study, go for fifteen
years into the “cave” or world to learn
to deal with men and affairs. The “mere
theorist” is often an absurd if not a dangerous
character; the practical man may come to make the
wheels go round without ever taking note of his direction.
As pointed out in the beginning of
this discussion, no one of these types is exclusively
exemplified in any one individual. To be exclusively
any one of these would be to be a caricature rather
than a character. But to be no one of these types
to any degree at all is to be no character at all,
is to be socially a nonentity, a minus quantity; it
is to be determined by the vicissitudes of chance
or circumstance; it is to be a succession of vacillations
rather than a distinctive self-determined personality.
Each of these types, moreover, if not extreme, has
its specific excellences, and their various presence
lends richness and diversity to social life.
EMOTIONS AROUSED IN THE MAINTENANCE
OF THE SELF. These various types of self may
be defended with bitterness and pertinacity, and in
their support the most powerful emotions may be enlisted.
As pointed out in connection with individuality in
opinion, men may be willing to die for their beliefs.
Similarly invasion of one’s home, infringement
or threat against what one regards as one’s
rights or one’s possessions, whether physical
or social, may be bitterly contested. And in
this conflict in support of the integrity of the self,
anger, hate, fear, submissiveness, all the nuances
of emotion may be aroused. The themes of great
tragedy are built largely on this theme of insistent
selfhood. Any obstruction of the self-integrity
one has set one’s self may provoke a violent
reaction. It may be interference with one’s
love, as in the case of Medea or Othello, the pain
of ingratitude as in Lear, the conflict between “the
lower and the higher self,” as in the case of
Macbeth’s loyalty and his ambition. These
are the staple materials of drama. In common
experience, an insult to one’s wife or friend,
an obstacle placed in the way of one’s professional
career, deprivation of one’s liberty or one’s
property, or one’s unhindered “pursuit
of happiness,” are the provocations to violent
emotions in the sustaining of the self. How violent
or what form the reaction will take depends on the
situation of the “self” involved.
If one has been grossly insulted by another upon whom
one is utterly dependent socially and economically,
a rankling and impotent rage may be the only outlet.
To a person gifted with humility, the disillusions
of a false friendship may provoke nothing more than
a deep but resigned disappointment. Where passion
and determination run high, and retaliation is feasible,
a violent hate may find violent fulfillment.
In earlier and more bloodthirsty days, the dagger,
the duel, and poison were, as illustrated in the history
of the Borgias, ways of maintaining the self and venting
one’s anger or revenge. Even in modern
society the still distressingly large number of crimes
of violence may be traced in many, perhaps most cases,
to blind and bitter hate. To any deep personal
injury, hate, whether it takes overt form or not,
is still the instinctive answer; just such hate as
Euripides represents in the jealous Medea, when she,
a barbarian captive among the Greeks, sees Jason,
her lover, about to be married to a Greek princess:
“... But I, being citiless,
am cast aside,
By him that wedded me, a savage
bride.
. . . . . .
. .
“I ask one thing. If chance
yet ope to me
Some path, if even now my hand can
win,
Strength to requite this Jason for
his sin,
Betray me not! Oh, in all things
but this,
I know how full of fears a woman
is,
And faints at need, and shrinking
from the light
Of battle; but once spoil her of
her right
In man’s love, and there moves,
I warn thee well,
No bloodier spirit between Heaven
and Hell."
In defense of the self in its narrower
or broader sense, courage and heroism may be displayed.
The martyr will die rather than submit; there have
been many to whom Patrick Henry’s “Give
me Liberty or give me death,” was something
more than rhetoric. The self for which we will
fight, of course, varies. A spoilt child will
go into a paroxysm of rage if its toy is taken away.
Older people will fight for smaller or larger points
of social position. There is the familiar citizen
who will insist on his rights, often of a petty sort,
in a hotel, theater, or department store. Or
a man may display the last extremity of courage in
defense of some ideal, as in a man’s surrender
of his life for his country. Something of the
same heroism is displayed by individuals who stand
out against their group in the face of ridicule or
persecution. It is the general sympathy with
the desire to preserve one’s selfhood untarnished
that gives point to Henley’s lines:
“Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from
pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable
soul.
. . . . . .
. .
“It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments
the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of
my soul."
In the same way as the emotions fear,
anger, and hate, and their variations and degrees,
may be aroused by attack or threat against the self,
so help and encouragement of an individual’s
selfhood arouse love, affection, and gratitude.
Even our affection for our parents, though in part
instinctive, is undoubtedly increased by the care
and persistence with which they have fostered our
own life and hopes, have educated us, and made possible
for us a career. The same motives play a part
in our affection for teachers who have beneficently
influenced our lives, for other older people who “give
us a start,” advice and encouragement or financial
aid. Even the love of God has in religious ritual
been colored with gratitude for God’s mercies
and benevolences.
THE INDIVIDUALITY OF GROUPS.
Groups may display the same individuality and sense
of selfhood as is exhibited by individuals. And
the members of the group may come to regard the group
life as something quite as important and inalienable
as their own personalities and possessions. Indeed
in defense of the integrity of the group life, as
in the case, for example, of national honor, the individual
life and possession may come to be reckoned as naught.
Man’s gregariousness and his instinctive sympathy
with his own kind make it easy for the individual
to identify his own life with that of the group.
What threatens or endangers the group will in consequence
arouse in him the same emotions as are aroused by threats
or dangers that concern his own personality.
An insult to the flag may send a thrill of danger
through the millions who read about it, just as would
an insult to themselves or their families.
Group feeling may exist on various
levels. It may be nothing more momentous than
local pride, having the tallest tower, the finest
amusement park, the best baseball team, or being the
“sixth largest city.” It may be a
belligerent imperialism, a “desire for a place
in the sun.” It may be a desire for independence
and an autonomous group life, manifested so strikingly
recently by such small nationalities as Poland and
Czecho-Slovakia and influential in keeping Switzerland
alive as a nationality through hundreds of years,
though surrounded by powerful neighbors. While a
group does not exist save as an abstraction, looked
at as a whole it may exhibit the same outstanding
traits, or the same types of selfhood as an individual.
It may be fiercely belligerent and dogmatic; it may,
like literary exponents of the German ideal, desire
to spread its own conception of Kultur throughout
the world. It may be insistent on its own position,
or its own possessions or its own glory. It may
be fanatic in aggrandizement. It may be interested
in the welfare of other groups, as in the case of
large nationalities championing and protecting the
causes of small or oppressed ones, such an ideal as
was expressed, for example, by President Wilson in
his address to Congress on the entrance of America
into the Great War:
... We shall fight for the things
which we have always carried nearest our hearts for
democracy, for the right of those who submit to authority
to have a voice in their own governments, for the
rights and liberties of small nations, for a universal
dominion of right by such a concert of free peoples
as shall bring peace and safety to all nations and
make the world itself at last free.
The selfhood displayed by various
groups varies with the degree and integration of the
individual within the group. In extreme cases,
such as that of Germany under the imperial regime,
the group individuality may completely overshadow
and engulf that of the individual. This ideal
was not infrequently expressed by German political
writers:
To us the state is the most indispensable
as well as highest requisite of our earthly existence....
All individualistic endeavor must be unreservedly
subordinated to this lofty claim.... The state
eventually is of infinitely more value than the sum
of the individuals within its jurisdiction. This
conception of the state which is as much a part of
our life as the blood in our veins, is nowhere to be
found in the English constitution, and is quite foreign
to English thought, and to that of America as well.
While custom-bound and feudal regimes
may emphasize the tendency to suppress development
of individuality, and insist on regimentation in thought
and action an ideal proclaimed with increasing
generality in Germany from Hegel down there may
be on the part of both individuals and groups the
tendency to promote individuality as itself a social
good. In such a case the social structure and
educational systems and methods will be designed to
promote individuality rather than to suppress it.
Individual variations, if it be generally recognized
that they are the only source of progress, will be
utilized and cultivated instead of suppressed.
Throughout the nineteenth century
(indeed throughout the history of political theory),
the pendulum swung between individualism and complete
socialization. Spencer long ago proclaimed the
dominance of the individual; T. H. Green, following
the German philosophers, the dominance of the state.
Like the contrast between egoism and altruism, an
emphasis on either side is bound to be artificial.
The individual can only be a self in a social order;
the individual is only an individual in contrast with
others. It is doubtful, for example, whether
a man living all his life alone on a desert island
would discover any individuality at all. A man’s
character is displayed in action, and his actions are
always, or nearly always, performed with reference
to other people. And a man’s best self-realization
cannot be achieved save in congenial social order.
A man will not readily grow into a saint among a society
of sinners, and unless the social order provides opportunities
for the highest type of life, it will exist only in
a very fortunate and favored few. One of the charges
that has been laid against democracy is that it fails
to encourage the highest types of scientific and artistic
interests, that it is the gospel of the mediocre.
It is too often forgotten, on the
other hand, by those who emphasize the importance
of society, that society is, after all, nothing more
than an aggregate of selves. The “state,”
the “social order” is nothing but the
individuals who make it up, and their relations to
each other.
The group exists, after all, even
as the most completely socialized political doctrines
insist, for the realization of individual selves,
for freedom of opportunity and initiative. It
is when “individualism” runs rampant, when
self-realization on the part of one individual interferes
with self-realization on the part of all others that
individualism becomes a menace. Individuality
is itself valuable, in the first place, because as
Mill pointed out in his essay on Liberty earlier
quoted:
What has made the European family
an improving instead of a stationary portion of mankind?
Not any superior excellence in them, which, when it
exists, exists as the effect, not the cause; but their
remarkable diversity of character and culture.
Individuals, classes, nations, have been extremely
unlike one another; they have struck out a great variety
of paths, each leading to something valuable; and
although at every period those who traveled in different
paths have been intolerant of one another, and each
would have thought it an excellent thing if all the
rest could have been compelled to travel his road,
their attempts to thwart each other’s development
have rarely had any permanent success, and each has
endured in time to receive the good which the others
have offered.
Apart from the variations in group
customs and traditions, and their progressive application
to changing circumstances which individuality makes
possible, it cannot be too strongly emphasized that
society is the name for the process by which individuals
live together. It is the individuals who are the
realities and the happiness of individuals which is
the aim of social organization. Such happiness
is only attainable when individuals are allowed to
make the most of their native capacities and individual
interests. The social group as a group will be
more interesting, colorful, and various when every
experimentation and variety of life are encouraged
and promoted. And the individuals in such a society
will be personalities, not the mere mechanisms of
a regimented routine.