Progress, man’s distinctive mark
alone;
Not God’s and not the beasts’;
God is, they are;
Man partly is and wholly hopes to be. Browning.
The partialness of man’s life,
the low level on which the race has been content to
dwell, is attributable, in no small measure, to the
injustice done to woman. It was assumed she was
inferior, and to make the assumption true, she was
kept in ignorance, dwarfed and treated as a means
rather than as an end.
The right to grow is the primal right;
it is the right to live, to unfold our being on every
side in the ceaseless striving for truth and love
and beauty. In comparison with this, purely political
and civil rights are unimportant. And in a free
state this fundamental right must not only be acknowledged
and defended, but a public opinion must be created
which shall declare it to be the most sacred and inviolable.
The principle is universal, and is as applicable to
woman as to man.
There is not a religion, a philosophy,
a science, an art for man and another for woman.
Consequently there is not, in its essential elements
at least, an education for man and another for woman.
In souls, in minds, in consciences, in hearts, there
is no sex. What is the best education for woman?
That which will best help her to become a perfect
human being, wise, loving, and strong. What is
her work? Whatever may help her to become herself.
What is forbidden her? Nothing but what degrades
or narrows or warps. What has she the right
to do? Any good and beautiful and useful thing
she is able to do without hurt to her dignity and
worth as a human being.
Between her and man the real question
is not of more and less, of inferiority and superiority,
but of unlikeness. Chastity is woman’s
great virtue; truthfulness, which is the highest form
of courage, is man’s; yet men and women are
equally bound to be chaste and truthful. Mildness
and sweet reasonableness are woman’s subtlest
charms; wisdom and valor, man’s; yet women should
be wise and brave, and men should be mild and reasonable.
The spiritual endowment of the sexes is much the
same, but they are not equally interested in the same
things. Man prefers thought; woman, sentiment;
he reaches his conclusions through analysis and argument;
she, through feeling and intuition. He has greater
power of self-control; she, of self-sacrifice.
He is guided by law and principle; she, by insight
and tact; he demands justice; she, equity. He
wishes to be honored for wealth and position; she,
for herself. For him what he possesses is a
means; for her, something to which she holds and is
attached. He asks for power; she, for affection.
He derives his idea of duty from reason; she, from
faith and love. He prefers science and philosophy;
she, literature and art. His religion is a code
of morality; hers, faith and hope and love and imagination.
For her, things easily become persons; for him, persons
are little more than things. She has greater
power of self-effacement, forgetting herself wholly
in her love. Whether she marry or become a nun,
she abandons her name, the symbol of her identity,
in proof that she is dedicate to the race and to God.
The arguments of infidels have less weight with her
than with man, for her sense of religion is more genuine,
her faith more inevitable. She passes over objections
as a chaste mind passes over what is coarse or impure.
She more easily finds complacency in her appearance
and surroundings, but she has less pride and conceit
than man. She is more grateful, too, because
she loves more, and the heart makes memory true.
If her greater fondness for jewelry and showy adornment
proves her to be more barbarous, her greater refinement
and chastity prove her to be more civilized than man.
And does not her delight in dress come of her care
for beauty, which in a world of coarse and ugly creatures
is a virtue as fair as the face of spring? Why
should the flowers and the fields, the hills and the
heavens, be beautiful, and man hideous, and the cities
where he abides dismal? Are we but cattle to
be stalled and fed? Are corn and beef and iron
the only good and useful things? Are we not human
because we think and admire, and are exalted in the
presence of what is infinitely true and divinely fair?
Faith, hope, and love are larger and
more enduring powers for woman than for man.
She feeds the sacred fire which never dies on the
altars of home and religion and country. She
lives a more interior life, and more easily retains
consciousness of the soul’s reality and of God’s
presence. If she speaks less of patriotism in
peaceful times, in the hour of danger the white light
flashes from her soul. It is this that makes
brave men think of their mothers and wives and sisters
when they march to battle. They know that those
sweet hearts, however keen the pangs they suffer,
would rather have them dead than craven. When
woman shall grow to the full measure of her endowments,
a purer flame will glow upon the hearth, and love
of country will be a more genuine passion.
If she gain a wider and more varied
interest in life, she will become happier, more willing
and more able to help the progress of the race.
Like man, she exists for herself and God, and in her
relations to others, her duties are not to the home
alone, but to the whole social body, religious and
civil. Whether man or woman, is a minor thing;
to be wise and worthy and loving is all in all.
Our deeper consciousness and practical recognition
of the equality of the sexes is better evidence that
we are becoming Christian and civilized than popular
government and all our mechanical devices. We,
however, still have prejudices as ridiculous and harmful
as that which made it unbecoming in a woman to know
anything or in a man of birth to engage in business.
If we hold that every human being has the right to
do whatever is fair or noble or useful, we must also
hold that it is wrong to throw hindrance in the way
of the complete education of any human being.
We at last, however slowly, are approaching the standpoint
of Christ, who, with his divine eye upon the sexless
soul, overlooks distinctions of sex, and placing the
good of life in knowing and loving, in being and doing,
makes it the privilege and duty of all to help all
to know and love, to become and do. Is it true?
Is it right? These are the immortal questions,
springing from what within us is most like God, and
they who deal deceitfully with them have no claim upon
attention. They are jugglers and liars.
What is developed is not really changed,
but made more fully itself, and by giving to woman
a truer education, the beauty and charm of her nature
will be brought more effectively into play. None
of us love “a woman impudent and mannish grown;”
but knowledge and culture and strength of mind and
heart and body have no tendency to produce such a
caricature. Whether there is question of man
or woman, the aim and end of education is to bring
forth in the individual the divine image of humanity
as it exists in the thought of God, as it is revealed
in the life of Christ.
“Yet in the long years liker must
they grow;
The man be more of woman, she more of
man:
He gain in sweetness and in moral height,
Nor lose the wrestling thews that throw
the world;
She mental breadth, nor fail in childward
care;
More as the double-natured poet each.”
The apothegm, man is born to do, woman
to endure, no longer commends itself to our judgment.
Both are born to do and to endure; and in educating
girls, we now understand that it is our business to
strengthen them and to stimulate them to self-activity.
We strive to give them self-control, sanity, breadth
of view, wide sympathies, and an abiding sense of
justice. One might, indeed, be tempted to think
it were well woman should retain a touch of folly,
that she still may be able to believe the man she
loves is half divine; but to think so one must be
a man, with his genius for self-conceit. To train
a girl chiefly with a view to success in society is
to pervert, is to hinder from attaining to the power
of free, rich, and varied life. It is to neglect
education for accomplishments; it is to prefer form
to substance, manner to conduct, graceful carriage
and dress to thought and love. We degrade her
when we consider her as little else than a candidate
for matrimony. A man may remain single and become
the noblest of his kind, and so may a woman.
Marriage is first of all for the race; the individual
may stand alone and grow to the full measure of human
strength and worth. The popular contempt for
single women who have reached a certain age, is but
a survival of the contempt for all women which is
found among savages and barbarians. In the education
of woman, as of man, the end is increase of power, of
the might there is in intelligence and love, of the
strength there is in gentleness and sweetness and
light, of the vigor there is in health, in the rhythmic
pulse and in deep breathing, of the sustaining joy
there is in pure affection and in devotion to high
purposes. Whether there is question of boys
or of girls, the safe way is to strive to make them
all it is possible for them to become, putting our
trust for the rest in human nature and in God; for
talent, like genius, is a divine gift, and to prevent
its development is to sin against religion and humanity.
For girls as for boys, the aim should be not knowledge,
but power; not accomplishments, but faculty.
Nine-tenths of what we learn in school is quickly
forgotten, and is valueless unless it issue in increase
of moral and intellectual strength. “In
whatever direction I turn my thoughts,” says
Schleiermacher, “it seems to me that woman’s
nature is nobler and her life happier than man’s;
and if ever I play with an idle wish it is that I
might be a woman.” Hardly any man, I imagine,
would rather be a woman, and many women doubtless
would rather be men; and yet there is much in Schleiermacher’s
thought, if we believe, as the wise do believe, that
love is the best, and that they who love most are
the highest and, therefore, the happiest, since the
noblest mind the best contentment has.
What fountains to the desert are,
What flowers to the fresh young spring,
What heaven’s breast is to the star,
That woman’s love to earth doth
bring.
Whether mid deserts she is found,
Or girt about by happy home,
Where’er she treads is holy ground
Above which rises love’s high dome.
Or be she mother called or wife,
Or sister or the soul’s twin mate,
She still is each man’s best of
life,
His crown of joy, his high estate.
What is our Christian faith but the
revelation of the supreme and infinite worth of love,
as being of the essence of God himself? Is it
not easy to believe that to a loving soul in an all-chaste
body the unseen world may lie open to view?
That Joan of Arc saw heavenly visions and heard whisperings
from higher worlds, who can doubt that has considered
how her most pure womanly soul redeemed a whole people,
and, by them forsaken, from midst fierce flames took
its flight to God?
Should women vote? The rule
of the people is good only when it is the rule of
the good and wise among the people, and of these, women,
in great numbers, are part. The leadership of
the best comes near to being the leadership of God.
But the question of the suffrage for women is grave;
it is one on which an enlightened mind will long hold
judgment in suspense. Does not political life,
as it exists in our democracy, tend to corrupt both
voters and office-seekers? Is it not largely
a life of cant, pretence, and hypocrisy, of venality,
corruption, and selfishness, of lying, abuse, and vulgarity?
Do not public men, like public women, sell themselves,
though in a different way? Is the professional
politician, the professional caucus-manipulator, the
professional voter, the type of man we can admire
or respect even? The objection so frequently
raised, that political life would corrupt women, has,
at least, the merit of a certain grim humorousness.
Could it by any chance make them as bad as it makes
men? To tell them they are the queens of the
home, to whom the mingling with plebeians is degrading,
is an insult to their intelligence. We have
forsworn kings and queens, both in private and in
public life, and at home women are, for the most part,
drudges. What need is there of a hollow phrase
when the appeal to truth is obvious?
“A servant with this clause
Makes drudgery divine;
Who sweeps a room as for thy laws,
Makes that and the action
fine.”
Active participation in political
life is not a refining, an ennobling, a purifying
influence. Is it desirable that the half of the
people to which the interests of the home, of the
heart, of the religious and moral education of the
young are especially committed, should be hurled into
the maelstrom of selfish passion and coarse excitement?
The smartness and self-assertiveness
of American women are already excessive; they lack
repose, serenity, and self-restraint. If they
rush into the arena of noisy and vulgar strife, will
not the evil be increased? Will not the political
woman lose something of the sacred power of the wife
and mother? Are not the primal virtues, those
which make life good and fair and which are a woman’s
glory, are they not humble and quiet and
unobtrusive? The suffrage has not emancipated
the masses of men, who are still held captive in the
chains of poverty and dehumanizing toil.
Do women themselves, those, at least,
in whom the woman soul, which draws us on and upward,
is most itself, desire that the vote be given them?
But whatever our opinions on the subject
may be, let us not lose composure. “If
a great change is to be made,” says Edmund Burke,
“the minds of men will be fitted to it, the
general opinions and feelings will draw that way.
Every fear, every hope will forward it; and then
they who persist in opposing the mighty current will
appear rather to resist the decrees of Providence
itself than the mere designs of men. They will
not be resolute and firm, but perverse and obstinate.”
Whether or not woman shall become
a politician, there is no doubt that she is becoming
a worker in a constantly widening field. The
elementary education of the country is already intrusted
to her. She is taking her position in the higher
institutions of learning. She has gained admission
to professional life. In the business world,
her competition with man is more and more felt.
In literature, in our country at least, her appreciativeness
is greater than man’s, and her performance not
inferior to his. There is a larger number of
serious students among women than among men.
In the divinely imposed task of self-education, they
are fast becoming the chief workers. They are
the great readers of books, especially of poetry.
The muse was the first school-mistress, and the love
of genuine poetry is still the finest educational
influence. The vulgar passions and coarse appetites
which rob young men of faith in the higher life and
of the power to labor perseveringly for ideal ends,
have little hold upon the soul of woman. Her
betrayers are frivolity and vanity, and a too confiding
heart; and the more she is educated the less will
she take delight in what is merely external, and the
greater will become her ability to bring sentiment
under the control of reason and conscience.
There are not two educations, then,
one for man, and another for woman, but both alike
we bid contend to the uttermost for completeness of
life; bid both trust in human educableness, which makes
possible the hope of attaining all divine things.
True faith in education is ever associated with genuine
humility. Only they strive infinitely who feel
that their lack is infinite.
The power of education is as many
sided and as manifold as life. There is no finest
seed or flower or fruit, no most serviceable animal,
which has not been brought to perfection by human
thought and labor, or which, were this help withdrawn,
would not degenerate; and if the highest thought and
the most intelligent labor were made to bear ceaselessly
upon the improvement of the race of man, we should
have a new world.
When we consider all the beauty, knowledge,
and love which are within man’s reach, how is
it possible not to believe that infinitely more and
higher lie beyond? Call to mind whatever quality
of life, physical, intellectual, or moral, and you
will have little difficulty in seeing that it is a
result of education. We are born, indeed, with
unequal endowments; but strength of limb, ease and
swiftness of motion, grace and fluency of speech,
modulation of voice, distinctness of articulation,
correctness of pronunciation, power of attention,
fineness of ear, clearness of vision, control of hand
and certainty of touch in drawing, writing, painting,
playing upon instruments and operating with the knife,
truth and vividness of imagination, force of will,
refinement of manner, perfection of taste, skill in
argument, purity of desire, rectitude of purpose,
power of sympathy and love, together with whatever
else goes to the making of a perfect man or woman,
are all acquired through educational processes.
Education is the training of a human
being with a view to make him all he may become; and
hence it is possible to educate one’s self in
many ways and on many sides.
Refinement, grace, and cleanliness
are aims and ends, as truly as are vigor and suppleness
of mind and strength and purity of heart. Like
sunshine and flowers and the songs of birds, they help
to make life pleasant and beautiful. Even the
fishes are not clean, but the only clean animal is
here and there a man or a woman who has forsworn dirt
visible and invisible. We can educate ourselves
in every direction, to sleep well even, and neither
physicians nor poets have told half the good there
is in sleep. The bare thought of it always brings
to me the memory of lulling showers, and grazing sheep,
and murmuring streams, and bees at work, and the breath
of flowers and cooing doves and children lying on
the sward, and lazy clouds slumbering in azure skies.
It is pleasant as the approach of evening, fresh and
fair as the rising sun which sets all the world singing,
sacred and pure as babes smiling in their dreams on
the breasts of gentle mothers. If thou canst
not see the divine worth in nature and in works of
genius, it is because thou art what thou art.
Can the worm at thy feet recognize thy superiority?
The blind and the heedless see nothing, O foolish
maid.
What I know and love is of my very
being, is, in fact, my knowing and loving self.
Quality of knowledge and love determines quality of
life, and when I know and love God I am divine.
As trees are enrooted in earth, as fishes are immersed
in water, and our bodies in air, that they may live,
so the soul has its being in God that it may have life,
that it may know and love. I become self-conscious
only in becoming conscious of what is not myself;
and when the not-myself is the Eternal, is God, my
self-consciousness is divine. The marvel and
the mystery of our being is that self-consciousness
should exist at all, not that it should continue to
exist forever. But words cannot strengthen or
explain or destroy our belief in God, in the immortality
of the soul, and in the freedom of the will.
The antagonism supposed to exist between scientific
facts or theories and religious faith would cease
to be recognized as real, were it not for the eagerness
with which those who are incapable of profound and
comprehensive views, catch up certain shibboleths
and hurl them like firebrands upon the combustible
imaginations of the unthinking.
To prove, means, in the proper sense
of the word, to test, to bring ideas, opinions, and
beliefs to the ordeal of reason, of accepted standards
of judgment. It is a criticism of the mind and
its operations, and hence it may easily happen that
to prove is to weaken and unsettle. In what
is most vital, in belief in God, immortality, and
freedom of the will, in religion and morality, our
faith is stronger than any proof that may be brought
in its defence; and this is not less true of our faith
in the reality of nature and the laws of science;
and when this is made plain by criticism, those whose
mental grasp is weak or partial, are confused and
tempted to doubt. They are not helped, but harmed,
and our ceaseless discussions and provings, in press
and pulpit, are the source of much of the unrest, religious
doubt, and moral weakness of the age. The people
need to be taught by those who know and believe, not
by those whose skill is chiefly syllogistic and critical.
Philosophic speculation is like a vast mountain into
which men, generation after generation, have sunk shafts
in search of some priceless treasure, and have left
in the materials they have thrown out the mark and
evidence of failure. But the noblest minds will
still be haunted by the infinite mystery which they
will seek in vain to explain. Their faith in
reason, like that of the vulgar, cannot be shaken,
nor can defeat, running through thousands of years,
enfeeble their courage or dampen their ardor.
Let our increasing insight into Nature’s laws
fill us with thankfulness and joy. It is good,
and makes for good. Let us bow with respect and
reverence before the army of patient investigators
who bring highly disciplined faculties to bear upon
the most useful researches. Let knowledge grow.
A nearer and truer view of the boundless fact will
not make the world less wonderful, or the soul less
divine, or God less adorable. If one should
declare that it is contrary to the teachings of faith
to hold that conversation may be carried on by persons
a thousand miles apart, it would be sufficient to
reply that such conversation takes place, and that
to attempt to annul fact by doctrine is absurd.
There is no excuse for the controversial conflict
between science and religion; for science is ascertained
fact, not theory about fact, and when fact is rightly
ascertained it is accepted of all men. The most
certain fact, for each one, is that he knows and loves,
and that this power comes to him through communion
with what is higher and deeper and wider than himself, with
God.
There was a time when collisions among
the masses of the sidereal system were frequent, shocks
of unimaginable force by which the celestial bodies
were shivered into atoms, so that what now remains
is but a survival of worlds which escaped destruction
in the chaotic struggle when suns madly rushed on
one another and rose in star-dust about the face of
God, who was, and is, and shall be, eternal and forever
the same. Where there is no thinker, there is
no thing. It is in, and through, and with Him
that we know ourselves and our environment; and recognize
that our particular life is, in its implications,
universal and divine. He is the principle of
unity which is present in whatever is an object of
thought, and which gives the mind the power to co-ordinate
the manifold of sensation into the harmony of truth;
He is the principle of goodness and beauty, which
makes the universe fair, and thrills the heart of man
with hope and love. Amid endless change, He
alone is permanent, and He is power and wisdom and
love, and they only are good and wise and strong who
cleave to His eternal and absolute being. But
since here and now the real world of matter as distinguished
from the apparent is hidden behind the veil of sense,
it is vain to hope that the world of eternal life shall
be made plain to the pure reason. Religion, like
life, is faith, hope, and love, striving and doing,
not intellectual intuition and beatific vision.
We find it impossible to separate our thought of God
from that of infinite goodness and love; but when
we look away from our own souls to Nature’s
pitiless and fatal laws, we realize that this faith
in all-embracing and all-conquering love is opposed
by seemingly insurmountable difficulties. It
is a mystery we believe, not a truth we comprehend.
Systems of philosophy, morality, and religion, however
cunningly devised, cannot make men philosophers, sages,
or saints. This they can become only through
the communion which faith, hope, and love have power
to establish with the living fountain-head of truth,
wisdom, and goodness.
The pursuit of knowledge, like the
struggle for wealth and place, ends in disillusion,
in the disappointment which results from the contrast
between what we hope for and what we attain.
The greater the success, the more complete the disenchantment.
As the rich and famous best see the unsatisfactoriness
of wealth and honor, so they who know much best understand
how knowledge avails not, how it is but a cloud-built
citadel, whose foundations rest upon the uncertain
air, whose walls and turrets lose in substance what
they gain in height. When we imagine we know
all things, we awake as from a dream to find that we
know nothing, that our knowing is but a believing,
our science but a faith. We are little children
who wander in a father’s wide domain, seeing
many things and understanding not anything, who imagine
we are in a real and abiding world, while in truth
we are but passing through the picture-gallery of
the senses.
Faith, Hope, and Love: these
three
Are life’s deep root;
They reach into infinity,
Whence life doth shoot.
But Faith and Hope have not attained
The Eternal best;
While Love, sweet Love, the end has gained,
In God to rest.
So long as these life-begetting, life-sustaining,
and life-developing powers hold mightier sway over
the soul of woman than over that of man, so long will
woman’s heel crush the serpent’s head and
woman’s arms bear salvation to the world.
She will not worship the rising sun, or become the
idolatress of success, but within her heart will cherish
fallen heroes and lost causes and the memory of all
the sorrows by which God humanizes the world.
If we consider mankind merely as a
phenomenon, the extinction of the race need give us
little more concern than the disappearance of Pterodactyls
and Ichthyosauri. What repels from such contemplation
is not man’s physical, but his spiritual being, that
which makes him capable of thought and love, of faith
and hope. The universe is anthropomorphized,
for whithersoever man looks he sees the reflection
of his own countenance. What he calls things
are stamped with the impress and likeness of himself,
as he himself is an image of the eternal mind, in
which all things are mirrored.
An atheist or a materialist, an agnostic
or a pessimist, may have greater knowledge, greater
intellectual force than the most devout believer in
God; but is it possible for him to feel so thoroughly
at home in the world, to feel so deeply that, whatever
happens, it is and will be well with him? In
an atheistic world the spirit of man is ill at ease.
He who has no God makes himself the centre of all
things, and, like a spoiled child, loses the power
to admire, to enjoy, and to love. Genuine faith
in God is such an infinite force that one may be tempted
to doubt whether it is found.
Undisciplined minds become victims
of the formulas they receive, and if what they have
accepted as truth is shown to be false or incomplete,
they grow discouraged and lose faith; but the wise
know that the verbal vesture of truth is a symbol
which has but a proximate and relative value.
The spirit is alive, and ceaselessly outgrows or transmutes
the body with which it is clothed. What we can
do with anything, with money, knowledge,
wealth, depends on what we are. Ruskin
prefers holy work to holy worship; but the antithesis
is mistaken, for if worship is holy it impels to work,
if work is holy it impels to worship. God’s
most sacred visible temple is a human body, and its
profanation is the worst sacrilege.
All true belief, when we come to the
last analysis, is belief in God, and the teacher of
religion must keep this fact always in view.
The law of the struggle for life applies
to opinions, beliefs, hopes, aims, ideals, just as
it applies to individuals and species. Whatever
survives, survives through conflict, because it is
fit to survive. It does not follow, however,
that the best survives, though we must think that
in the end this is so, since we believe in God.
When serious minds grapple with problems so remote
from vulgar opinion that they seem to be meaningless
or insoluble, the multitude, ever ready, like a crowd
of boys, to mock and jeer, break forth into insult.
These men, they cry are wicked, or they are fools.
In a society where it is assumed that
all are equal, those who are really superior incur
suspicion as though it were criminal to be different
from the multitude; and hence they rarely win the favor
of the crowd. The life-current of those who
stir up a noise about them, runs shallow. The
champion of the prize-ring or the race-course is hailed
with shouts, for the crowd understand the achievement;
but what can they know of the worth of a sage or a
saint? The noblest struggles are of the mind
and heart wrestling with unseen powers, with spirits,
as St. Paul says, that they may compel them to give
up the secret of truth and holiness. A glimpse
of truth, a thrill of love, is better than the applause
of a whole city. In striving steadfastly for
thy own perfection and the happiness of others thou
walkest and workest with God. Thy progress will
help others to labor for their own, and the happiness
thou givest will return to thee and become thine; and
what is the will of God, if it is not the perfection
and happiness of his children? To have merely
enough strength to bear life’s burden, to do
the daily task, to face the cares which return with
the sun and follow us into the night, is to be weak,
is to lack the strong spirit for which work is light
as play, and whose secret is heard in whispers by
the hero and the saint. To be able to give joy
and help to others we must have more life, wisdom,
virtue, and happiness than we need for ourselves;
and it is in giving joy and help to others that we
ourselves receive increase of life, wisdom, virtue,
and happiness. Be persuaded within thy deepest
soul, that moral evil can never be good, and that
sin can never be gain. So act that if all men
acted as thou, all would be well. If to be like
others is thy aim, thou art predestined to remain
inferior. To be followed and applauded is to
be diverted from one’s work. Better alone
with it in a garret than a guest in a banquet hall.
Let thy prayer be work and work thy prayer,
As God’s truth and love are everywhere,
And whether by word or deed thou strive
In Him alone thou canst be alive.
If thou hast done thy best, God will give it worth.
If thou carest not for truth and love,
for thee they are nothing worth; but it is because
thou thyself art worthless. Wisdom and virtue
is all thou lackest; of other things thou hast enough.
When the passion for self-improvement is strong within
us, all our relations to our fellow-men and nature
receive new meaning and power, as opportunities to
make ourselves what it is possible for us to become;
and as we grow accustomed to take this view of whatever
happens, we are made aware that disagreeable things
are worth as much as the pleasant, that foes are as
useful as friends. The obstacle arrests attention,
provokes effort, and educates. It throws the
light back upon the eye, and reveals the world of
color and form; from it all sounds reverberate.
We grow by overcoming; the force we conquer becomes
our own. We rise on difficulties we surmount.
What opposes, arouses, strengthens, and disciplines
the will, discloses to the mind its power, and implants
faith in the efficacy of patient, persevering labor.
They who shrink from the combat are already defeated.
To make everything easy is to smooth the way whereby
we descend. To surround the young with what
they ought themselves to achieve is to enfeeble and
corrupt them. Happy is the poor man’s son,
who whithersoever he turns, sees the obstacle rise
to challenge him to become a man; miserable the children
of the rich, whose cursed-blessed fortune is an ever-present
invitation to idleness and conceit. O mothers,
you whose love is the best any of us have known, harden
your sons, and urge them on, not in the race for wealth,
but in the steep and narrow way wherein, through self-conquest
and self-knowledge, they rise toward God and all high
things. Nothing that has ever been said of your
power tells the whole truth, and the only argument
against you is the men who are your children.
Education is always the result of personal influence.
A mother, a father in the home, a pure and loving
heart at the altar, a true man or woman in the school,
a noble mind uttering itself in literature, which is
personal thought and expression, these
are the forces which educate. Life proceeds
from life, and religion, which is the highest power
of life, can proceed only from God and religious souls.
Not by preaching and teaching, but by living the
life, can we make ourselves centres of spiritual influence.
Be like others, walk in the broad
way, one of a herd, content to graze in a common pasture,
believing equality man’s highest law, though
its meaning be equality with the brute. Is this
our ideal? It is an atheistic creed. There
is no God, there is nothing but matter, but atoms,
and atoms are alike and equal, let men be
so too. To struggle with infinite faith and
hope for some divine good is idolatry, is to believe
in God; to be one’s self is the unpardonable
sin. It is thy aim to rise, to distinguish thyself;
this means thou wouldst have higher place, more money,
a greater house than thy neighbor’s. It
is a foolish ambition. Instead of trying to
distinguish thyself, strive to become thyself, to
make thyself worthy of the approval of God and wise
men. “I am not to be pitied, my lord,”
said Bayard; “I die doing my duty.”
God has not given His world into thy keeping, but
he has given thee to thyself to fashion and complete.
If thou art busy seeking money or pleasure or praise,
little time will remain wherein to seek and find thyself.
They who are interesting to themselves, are interesting
to themselves alone. The self-absorbed are the
victims of mental and moral disease. The life
which flows out to others, bearing light and warmth
and fragrance, feels itself in the blessings it gives;
that which is self-centred, stagnates like a pool,
and becomes the habitation of doleful creatures.
There is a popularity which is born
of the worship of noble deeds, it is the
best. There is another, which comes of the crowd’s
passion for what is noisy and spectacular, it
is the worst. The one is the popularity of heroes,
the other that of charlatans.
Whatever thy chosen work, it is thy
business to make thyself a man or a woman, and not
a mere specialist; yet in following a specialty with
enthusiasm, thou shalt go farther towards perfection
and completeness of life than the multitude of pretenders,
who are not in earnest about anything. Every
harsh and unjust sentiment, every narrow and unworthy
thought consented to and entertained, remains like
a stain upon character. Whoever speaks or writes
against freedom or knowledge or faith in God, or love
of man or reverence of woman, but makes himself ridiculous;
for men feel and believe that their true world is a
world of high thoughts and noble sentiments, and they
can neither respect nor trust those who strive to
weaken their hold upon this world. Become thyself;
do thy work. For this, all thy days are not too
many or too long. If thou and it are worthy
to be known, the presentation can be made in briefest
time; and it matters little though it be deferred
until after thy death.
Besides whatever other conditions,
time is necessary to bring the best things to maturity,
and to imagine that excellence demands less than lifelong
work, is to mistake. It is by the patient observation
of the infinitesimal that science has done its best
work; and it is only by unwearying attention to the
thousand little things of life that we may hope to
make some approach to moral and intellectual perfection.
He who works with joy and cheerfulness in the field
which himself has found and chosen, will acquire knowledge
and skill, and his labor will be transformed into
increase and newness of life.
We gain a clear view of things only
when we set them apart from ourselves, and contemplate
them simply as objects of thought. To see them
aright we must be free from emotion and behold them
in the cold air of the intellect. To look on
them as in some way bound up with our personal good
or evil, is to have the vision blurred. Study
in the spirit of an investigator, who has no other
than a scientific interest in what he sets himself
to examine. The wise physician is wholly intent
upon making a correct diagnosis, though the patient
be his mother. What gain would self-delusion
bring him or her he loves? Things are what they
are, and it is our business to know them. Observe
and hold thy judgment in suspense until patient looking
shall have made truth so plain that to pass judgment
is superfluous.
The aim of mental training is clearness
and accuracy of view, together with the strength to
keep steadfastly looking into the world of intelligible
things. What rouses desire tends to enslave;
what gives delight tends to liberate; the one appeals
to the senses, the other to the soul. Hence,
intellectual and moral pleasures alone are associated
with the sense of freedom and pure joy. The lovers
of freedom are as rare as the lovers of truth and
of God. For most, liberty is but a trader’s
commodity, to be parted with for price, as their obedience
is a slave’s service. The chief good consists
in acting justly and nobly, rather than in thinking
acutely and profoundly. The free play of the
mind is delightful, but the law of moral obligation
is the deepest thing in us. Honor, place, and
wealth, which are won at the price of self-improvement,
the wise will not desire. Great opportunities
seldom present themselves, but every moment of every
hour of thy conscious life is an opportunity to improve
thyself, which for thee is the best and most necessary
thing. Since our power over others is small,
but over ourselves large, let us devote our energies
to self-improvement. “Nor let any man say,”
writes Locke, “he cannot govern his passions,
nor hinder them from breaking out and carrying him
into action; for what he can do before a prince or
great man he can do alone or in the presence of God,
if he will.”
The sure way to happiness is to yield
ourselves wholly to God, knowing that he has care
of us, and at the same time to seek to draw from life
whatever joy and delight it may bestow upon a high
mind and a pure heart, receiving the blessing gladly,
conscious all the while that what is external cannot
really be ours, and is not, therefore, necessary to
our contentment.
That many are wiser and stronger than
thou, is not a motive for discouragement; the depressing
thought is, that so few are wise and strong.
He who gives his whole life to what he believes he
is most capable of doing, succeeds, whatever be the
worth of his work. There are many who are busy
with many things; but one who has a high purpose,
and who devotes all his energies to its fulfillment,
is not easily found; and great and interesting characters
are, therefore, rare.
To what better use can we put life
than to employ it in ameliorating life? It is
to this every wise and good man devotes himself, whether
he be priest or teacher, physician or lawyer, philosopher
or poet, captain of industry or statesman.