“If Chaucer, as has been said,
is Spring, it is a modern, premature Spring, followed
by an interval of doubtful weather. Sidney is
the very Spring the later May. And
in prose he is the authentic, only Spring. It
is a prose full of young joy, and young power, and
young inexperience, and young melancholy, which is
the wilfulness of joy; . . .
“Sidney’s prose is treasureable,
not only for its absolute merits, but as the bud from
which English prose, that gorgeous and varied flower,
has unfolded.” FRANCIS THOMPSON, “The
Prose of Poets.”
The study of one’s own language
is the very heart of a modern education; to the study
of English, therefore, belongs a central place in the
education of English-speaking girls. It has two
functions: one is to become the instrument by
which almost all the other subjects are apprehended;
the other, more characteristically its own, is to give
that particular tone to the mind which distinguishes
it from others. This is a function that is always
in process of further development; for the mind of
a nation elaborates its language, and the language
gives tone to the mind of the new generation.
The influences at work upon the English language at
present are very complex, and play on it with great
force, so that the changes are startling in their
rapidity. English is not only the language of
a nation or of a race, not even of an empire; and the
inflowing elements affirm this. We have kindred
beyond the empire, and their speech is more and more
impressing ours, forging from the common stock, which
they had from us, whole armouries full of expressive
words, words with edge and point and keen directness
which never miss the mark. Some are unquestionably
an acquisition, those which come from States where
the language is honoured and studied with a carefulness
that puts to shame all except our very best.
They have kept some gracious and rare expressions,
now quaint to our ear, preserved out of Elizabethan
English in the current speech of to-day. These
have a fragrance of the olden time, but we cannot
absorb them again into our own spoken language.
Then they have their incisive modern expressions so
perfectly adapted for their end that they are irresistible
even to those who cling by tradition to the more stable
element in English. These also come from States
in which language is conscious of itself and looks
carefully to literary use, and they do us good rather
than harm. Other importations from younger States
are too evidently unauthorized to be in any way beautiful,
and are blamed on both sides of the ocean as debasing
the coinage. But these, too, are making their
way, so cheap and convenient are they, and so expressive.
It is needful in educating children
to remember that this strong inflowing current must
be taken into account, and also to remember that it
does not belong to them. They must first be trained
in the use of the more lasting elements of English;
later on they may use their discretion in catching
the new words which are afloat in the air, but the
foundations must be laid otherwise. It takes the
bloom off the freshness of young writers if they are
determined to exhibit the last new words that are
in, or out of season. New words have a doubtful
position at first. They float here and there
like thistle-down, and their future depends upon where
they settle. But until they are established and
accepted they are out of place for children’s
use. They are contrary to the perfect manner
for children. We ask that their English should
be simple and unaffected, not that it should glitter
with the newest importations, brilliant as they may
be. It is from the more permanent element in
the language that they will acquire what they ought
to have, the characteristic traits of thought and
manner which belong to it. It is not too much
to look for such things in children’s writing
and speaking. The first shoots and leaves may
come up early though the full growth and flower may
be long waited for. These characteristics are
often better put into words by foreign critics than
by ourselves, for we are inclined to take them as
a whole and to take them for granted; hence the trouble
experienced by educated foreigners in catching the
characteristics of English style, and their surprise
in finding that we have no authentic guides to English
composition, fend that the court of final appeal is
only the standard Of the best use. The words of
a German critic on a Collection of English portraits
in Berlin are very happily pointed and might be as
aptly applied to writing as to painting.
“English, utterly English!
Nothing on God’s earth could be more English
than this whole collection. The personality of
the artist (it happened that he was an Irishman),
the countenances of the subjects, their dress, the
discreetly suggestive backgrounds, all have the characteristic
touch of British culture, very refined, very high-bred,
very quiet, very much clarified, very confident, very
neat, very well-appointed, a little dreamy and just
a little wearisome the precise qualities
which at the same time impress and annoy us in the
English.”
This is exactly what might be said
of Pater’s writing, but that is full-grown English.
Pater is not a model for children, they would find
him more than “just a little wearisome.”
If anyone could put into words what Sir Joshua Reynolds’
portraits of children express, that would be exactly
what we want for the model of their English. They
can write and they can speak in a beautiful way of
their own if they are allowed a little liberty to
grow wild, and trained a little to climb. Their
charm is candour, as it is the charm of Sir Joshua’s
portraits, with a quiet confidence that all is well
in the world they know, and that everyone is kind;
this gives the look of trustful innocence and unconcern.
Their writing and talking have this charm, as long
as nothing has happened to make them conscious of
themselves. But these first blossoms drop off,
and there is generally an intermediate stage in which
they can neither speak nor write, but keep their thoughts
close, and will not give themselves away. Only
when that stage is past do they really and with full
consciousness seek to express themselves, and pay some
attention to the self-expression of others. This
third stage has its May-day, when the things which
have become hackneyed to our minds from long use come
to them with the full force of revelations, and they
astonish us by their exuberant delight. But they
have a right to their May-day and it ought not to
be cut short; the sun will go down of itself, and then
June will come in its own time and ripen the green
wood, and after that will come pruning time, in another
season, and then the phase of severity and fastidiousness,
and after that if they continue to write they
will be truly themselves.
In every stage we have our duty to
do, encouraging and pruning by turns, and, as in everything
else, we must begin with ourselves and go on with
ourselves that there may be always something living
to give, and some growth; for in this we need never
cease to grow, in knowledge, in taste, and in critical
power. The means are not far to seek; if we really
care about these things, the means are everywhere,
in reading the best things, in taking notes, in criticising
independently and comparing with the best criticism,
in forming our own views and yet keeping a willingness
to modify them, in an attitude of mind that is always
learning, always striving, always raising its standard,
never impatient but permanently dissatisfied.
We have three spheres of action in
the use of the language there is English
to speak, English to write, And the wide field of English
to read, and there are vital interests bound up in
each for the after life of children. As they
speak, so will be the tone of their intercourse; as
they write, so will be the standard of their habits
of thought; and as they read so will be the atmosphere
of their life, and the preparation of their judgment
for those critical moments of choice which are the
pivots upon which its whole action moves.
If practice alone would develop it
to perfection, speaking ought to be easy to learn,
but it does not prove so, and especially when children
are together in schools the weeds grow faster than
the crop, and the crop is apt to be thin. The
language of the majority holds its own; children among
children can express with a very small vocabulary what
they want to say to each other, whereas an only child
who lives with its elders has usually a larger vocabulary
than it can manage, which makes the sayings of only
children quaint and almost weird, as the perfection
of the instrument persuades us that there is a full-grown
thought within it, and a child’s fancy suddenly
laughs at us from under the disguise.
There is general lamentation at present
because the art of conversation has fallen to a very
low ebb; there is, in particular, much complaint of
the conversation of girls whose education is supposed
to have been careful. The subjects they care
to talk of are found to be few and poor, their power
of expressing themselves very imperfect, the scanty
words at their command worked to death in supplying
for all kinds of things to which they are not appropriate.
We know that we have a great deal of minted gold in
the English language, but little of it finds its way
into our general conversation, most of our intercourse
is carried on with small change, a good deal of it
even in coppers, and the worst trouble of all is that
so few seem to care or to regret it. Perhaps the
young generation will do so later in life, but unless
something is done for them during the years of their
education it does not seem probable, except in the
case of the few who are driven by their professional
work to think of it, or drawn to it by some influence
that compels them to exert themselves in earnest.
Listening to the conversation of girls
whose thoughts and language are still in a fluid state,
say from the age of 17 to 25, gives a great deal of
matter for thought to those who are interested in education,
and this point of language is of particular interest.
There are the new catch-words of each year; they had
probably a great piquancy in the mouth of the
originator but they very soon become flat by repetition,
then they grow jaded, are more and more neglected and
pass away altogether. From their rising to their
setting the arc is very short about five
years seems to be the limit of their existence, and
no one regrets them. We do not seem to be in
a happy vein of development at present as to the use
of words, and these short-lived catch-words are generally
poor in quality. Our girl talkers are neither
rich nor independent in their language, they lay themselves
under obligations to anyone who will furnish a new
catch-word, and especially to boys from whom they
take rather than accept contributions of a different
kind. It is an old-fashioned regret that girls
should copy boys instead of developing themselves
independently in language and manners; but though
old-fashioned, it will never cease to be true that
what was made to be beautiful on its own line is dwarfed
and crippled by straining it into imitation of something
else which it can never be.
What can be done for the girls to
give them first more independence in their language
and then more power to express themselves? Probably
the best cure, food and tonic in one, is reading;
a taste for the best reading alters the whole condition
of mental life, and without being directly attacked
the defects in conversation will correct themselves.
But we could do more than is often done for the younger
children, not by talking directly about these things,
but by being a little harder to please, and giving
when it is possible the cordial commendation which
makes them feel that what they have done was worth
working for.
Recitation and reading aloud, besides
all their other uses, have this use that they accustom
children to the sound of their own voices uttering
beautiful words, which takes away the odd shyness which
some of them feel in going beyond their usual round
of expressions and extending their vocabulary.
We owe it to our language as well as to each individual
child to make recitation and reading aloud as beautiful
as possible. Perhaps one of the causes of our
conversational slovenliness is the neglect of these;
critics of an older generation have not ceased to
lament their decay, but it seems as if better times
were coming again, and that as the fundamentals of
breathing and voice-production are taught, we shall
increase the scope of the power acquired and give
it more importance. There is a great deal underlying
all this, beyond the acquirement of voice and pronunciation.
If recitation is cultivated there is an inducement
to learn by heart; this in its turn ministers to the
love of reading and to the formation of literary taste,
and enriches the whole life of the mind. There
is an indirect but far-reaching gain of self-possession,
from the need for outward composure and inward concentration
of mind in reciting before others. But it is a
matter of importance to choose recitations so that
nothing should be learnt which must be thrown away,
nothing which is not worth remembering for life.
It is a pity to make children acquire what they will
soon despise when they might learn something that
they will grow up to and prize as long as they live.
There are beautiful things that they can understand,
if something is wanted for to-day, which have at the
same time a life that will never be outgrown.
There are poems with two aspects, one of which is
acceptable to a child and the other to the grown-up
mind; these, one is glad to find in anthologies for
children. But there are many poems about children
of which the interest is so subtle as to be quite
unsuitable for their collection. Such a poem is
“We are seven.” Children can be taught
to say it, even with feeling, but their own genuine
impression of it seems to be that the little girl was
rather weak in intellect for eight years old, or a
little perverse. Whereas Browning’s “An
incident of the French camp” appeals to them
by pride of courage as it does to us by pathos.
It may not be a gem, poetically speaking, but it lives.
As children grow older it is only fair to allow them
some choice in what they learn and recite, to give
room for their taste to follow its own bent; there
are a few things which it is well that every one should
know by heart, but beyond these the field is practically
without limits.
Perfect recitation or reading aloud
is very rare and difficult to acquire. For a
few years there was a tendency to over-emphasis in
both, and, in recitation, to teach gesture, for which
as a nation we are singularly inapt. This is
happily disappearing, simplicity and restraint are
regaining their own, at least in the best teaching
for girls. As to reading aloud to children it
begins to be recognized that it should not be too
explicit, nor too emphatic, nor too pointed; that it
must leave something for the natural grace of the
listener’s intelligence to supply and to feel.
There is a didactic tone in reading which says, “you
are most unintelligent, but listen to ME and there
may yet be hope that you will understand.”
This leaves the “poor creatures” of the
class still unmoved and unenlightened; “the
child is not awakened,” while the more sensitive
minds are irritated; they can feel it as an impertinence
without quite knowing why they are hurt. It is
a question of manners and consideration which is perceptible
to them, for they like what is best sympathy
and suggestiveness rather than hammering in. They
can help each other by their simple insight into these
things when they read aloud, and if a reading lesson
in class is conducted as an exercise in criticism
it is full of interest. The frank good-nature
and gravity of twelve-year-old critics makes their
operations quite painless, and they are accepted with
equal good humour and gravity, no one wasting any
emotion and a great deal of good sense being exchanged.
Conversation, as conversation, is
hard to teach, we can only lead the way and lay down
a few principles which keep it in the right path.
These commonplaces of warning, as old as civilization
itself, belong to manners and to fundamental unselfishness,
but obvious as they are they have to be said and to
be repeated and enforced until they become matters
of course. Not to seem bored, not to interrupt,
not to contradict, not to make personal remarks, not
to talk of oneself (some one was naïve enough to say
“then what is there to talk of"), not to get
heated and not to look cold, not to do all the talking
and not to be silent, not to advance if the ground
seems uncertain, and to be sensitively attentive to
what jars all these and other things are
troublesome to obtain, but exceedingly necessary.
And even observing them all we may be just as far
from conversation as before; how often among English
people, through shyness or otherwise, it simply faints
from inanition. We can at least teach that a first
essential is to have something to say, and that the
best preparation of mind is thought and reading and
observation, to be interested in many things, and to
give enough personal application to a few things as
to have something worth saying about them.
By testing in writing every step of
an educational course a great deal of command over
all acquired materials may be secured. As our
girls grow older, essay-writing becomes the most powerful
means for fashioning their minds and bringing out
their individual characteristics.
It is customary now to begin with
oral composition, quite rightly, for one
difficulty at a time is enough. But when children
have to write for themselves the most natural beginning
is by letters. A great difference in thought
and power is observable in their first attempts, but
in the main the structure of their letters is similar,
like the houses and the moonfaced persons which they
draw in the same symbolic way. Perhaps both are
accepted conventions to which they conform handed
down through generations of the nursery tradition though
students of children are inclined to believe that
these symbolical drawings represent their real mind
in the representation of material things. Their
communications move in little bounds, a succession
of happy thoughts, the kind of things which birds
in conversation might impart to one another, turning
their heads quickly from side to side and catching
sight of many things unrelated amongst themselves.
It is a pity that this manner is often allowed to
last too long, for in these stages of mental training
it is better to be on the stretch to reach the full
stature of one’s age rather than to linger behind
it, and early promise in composition means a great
deal.
To write of the things which belong
to one’s age in a manner that is fully up to
their worth or even a little beyond it, is better than
to strain after something to say in a subject that
is beyond the mental grasp. The first thing to
learn is how to write pleasantly about the most simple
and ordinary things. But a common fault in children’s
writing is to wait for an event, “something to
write about,” and to dispose of it in three
or four sentences like telegrams.
The influences which determine these
early steps are, first, the natural habit of mind,
for thoughtful children see most interesting and strange
things in their surroundings; secondly, the tone of
their ordinary conversation, but especially a disposition
that is unselfish and affectionate. Warm-hearted
children who are gifted with sympathy have an intuition
of what will give pleasure, and that is one of the
great secrets of letter-writing. But the letters
they write will always depend in a great measure on
the letters they receive, and a family gift for letter-writing
is generally the outcome of a happy home-life in which
all the members are of interest to each other and their
doings of importance.
What sympathy gives to letter-writing,
imagination gives to the first essays of children
in longer compositions. Imagination puts them
in sympathy with all the world, with things as well
as persons, as affection keeps them in touch with
every detail of the home world. But its work
is not so simple. Home affection is true and is
a law to itself; if it is present it holds all the
little child’s world in a right proportion,
because all heavenly affection is bound up with it.
But the awakening and the rapid development of imagination
as girls grow up needs a great deal of guidance and
training. Fancy may overgrow itself, and take
an undue predominance, so that life is tuned to the
pitch of imagination and not imagination to the pitch
of life. It is hardly possible and hardly to
be desired that it should never overflow the limits
of perfect moderation; if it is to be controlled, there
must be something to control, in pruning there must
be some strong shoots to cut back, and in toning down
there must be some over-gaudy colours to subdue.
It is better that there should be too much life than
too little, and better that criticism should find
something vigorous enough to lay hold of, rather than
something which cannot be felt at all. This is
the time to teach children to begin their essays without
preamble, by something that they really want to say,
and to finish them leaving something still unsaid
that they would like to have expressed, so as not
to pour out to the last drop their mind or their fancy
on any subject. This discipline of promptitude
in beginning and restraint at the end will tell for
good upon the quality of their writing.
But the work of the imagination may
also betray something unreal and morbid this
is a more serious fault and means trouble coming.
It generally points to a want of focus in the mind;
because self predominates in the affections feeling
and interest are self-centred. Then the whole
development of mind comes to a disappointing check the
mental power remains on the level of unstable sixteen
years old, and the selfish side develops either emotionally
or frivolously according to taste, faster
than it can be controlled.
There are cross-roads at about sixteen
in a girl’s life. After two or three troublesome
years she is going to make her choice, not always
consciously and deliberately, but those who are alive
to what is going on may expect to hear about this
time her speech from the throne, announcing what the
direction of her life is going to be. It is not
necessarily the choice of a vocation in life, that
belongs to an order of things that has neither day
nor hour determined for it, but it is when the mental
outlook takes a direction of its own, literary, or
artistic, or philosophical, or worldly, or turning
towards home; it may sometimes be the moment of decisive
vocation to leave all things for God, or, as has so
often happened in the lives of the Saints, the time
when a child’s first desire, forgotten for a
while, asserts itself again. In any case it is
generally a period of new awakenings, and if things
are as they ought to be, generally a time of deep happiness the
ideal hour in the day of our early youth. All
this is faithfully rendered in the essays of that
time; we unsuspectingly give ourselves away.
After this, for those who are going
to write at all, comes the “viewy” stage,
and this is full of interest. We are so dogmatic,
so defiant, so secure in our persuasions. It
is impossible to believe that they will ever alter.
Yet who has lived through this phase of abounding activity
and has not found that, at first with the shock of
disappointment, and afterwards without regret, a memorial
cross had to be set by our wayside, here and there,
marking the place of rest for our most enthusiastic
convictions. In the end one comes to be glad of
it, for if it means anything it means a growth in
the truth.
The criticism of essays is one of
the choice opportunities which education offers, for
then the contact of mind with mind is so close that
truth can be told under form of criticism, which as
exhortation would have been less easily accepted.
It is evident that increasing freedom must be allowed
as the years go on, and that girls have a right to
their own taste and manner and within the
limits of their knowledge to form their own opinions;
but it is in this period of their development that
they are most sensitive to the mental influence of
those who are training them, and their quick responsiveness
to the best is a constant stimulus to go on for their
sakes, discovering and tasting and training one’s
discernment in what is most excellent.
From this point we may pass to what
is first in the order of things but first
and last in this department of an English education and
that is reading, with the great field of literature
before us, and the duty of making the precious inheritance
all that it ought to be to this young generation of
ours heiresses to all its best.
English literature will be to children
as they grow up, what we have made it to them in the
beginning. There will always be the exceptional
few, privileged ones, who seem to have received the
key to it as a personal gift. They will find
their way without us, but if we have the honour of
rendering them service we may do a great deal even
for them in showing where the best things lie, and
the way to make them one’s own. But the
greater number have to be taken through the first steps
with much thought and discernment, for taste in literature
is not always easy to develop, and may be spoiled
by bad management at the beginning. We are not
very teachable as a nation in this matter our
young taste is wayward, and sometimes contradictory,
it will not give account of itself, very likely it
cannot. We have inarticulate convictions that
this is right, and suits us, and something else is
wrong as far as our taste is concerned, and that we
have rights to like what we like and condemn what
we do not like, and we have gone a considerable way
along the road before we can stop and look about us
and see the reason of our choice. English literature
itself fosters this independent spirit of criticism
by its extraordinary abundance, its own wide liberty
of spirit, its surpassing truthfulness. Our greatest
poets and our truest do not sing to an audience but
to their Maker and to His world, and let anyone who
can understand it catch the song, and sing it after
them. No doubt many have fallen from the truth
and piped an artificial tune, and they have had their
following. But love for the real and true is very
deep and in the end it prevails, and as far as we can
obtain it with children it must prevail.
Their first acquaintance with beautiful
things is best established by reading aloud to them,
and this need not be limited entirely to what they
can understand at the time. Even if we read something
that is beyond them, they have listened to the cadences,
they have heard the song without the words, the words
will come to them later. If there is good ground
for the seed to fall upon, and we sow good seed, it
will come up with its thirtyfold or more, as seed
sown in the mind seems always to come up, whether
it be good or bad, and even if it has lain dormant
for years. There are good moments laid up in store
for the future when the words, which have been familiar
for years, suddenly awake to life, and their meaning,
full-grown, at the moment when we need it, or at the
moment when we are able to understand its value, dawns
upon the mind. Then we are grateful to those who
invested these revenues for us though we knew it not.
We are not grateful to those who give us the less
good though pleasant and easy to enjoy. A little
severity and fastidiousness render us better service.
And this is especially true for girls, since for them
it is above all important that there should be a touch
of the severe in their taste, and that they should
be a little exacting, for if they once let themselves
go to what is too light-heartedly popular they do
not know where to draw the line and they go very far,
with great loss to themselves and others.
One of the beautiful things of to-day
in England is the wealth of children’s literature.
It is a peculiar grace of our time that we are all
trying to give the best to the children, and this is
most of all remarkable in the books published for
them. We had rather a silly moment in which we
kept them babies too long and thought that rhymes without
reason would please them, and another moment when we
were just a little morbid about them; but now we have
struck a very happy vein, free from all morbidness,
very innocent and very happy, abounding in life and
in no way unfitting for the experiences that have
to be lived through afterwards. No one thinks
it waste of time to write and illustrate books for
children, and to do their very best in both, and the
result of historical research and the most critical
care of texts is put within the children’s reach
with a real understanding of what they can care for.
A true appreciation of the English classics must result
from this, and the mere reading of what is choice
is an early safeguard against the less good.
Reading, without commentary, is what
is best accepted; we are beginning to come back to
this belief. It is agreed almost generally that
there has been too much comment and especially too
much analysis in our teaching of literature, and that
the majesty or the loveliness of our great writers’
works have not been allowed to speak for themselves.
We have not trusted them enough, and we have not trusted
the children so much as they deserved. The little
boy who said he could understand if only they would
not explain has become historical, and his word of
warning, though it may not have sounded quite respectful,
has been taken into account. We have now fewer
of the literary Baedeker’s guides who stopped
us at particular points, to look back for the view,
and gave the history and date of the work with its
surrounding circumstances, and the meaning of every
word, while they took away the soul of the poem, and
robbed us of our whole impression. We realize
now that by reading and reading again, until they
have mastered the music, and the meaning dawns of
itself, children gain more than the best annotations
can give them; these will be wanted later on, but
in the beginning they set the attitude of mind completely
wrong for early literary study in which reverence
and receptiveness and delight are of more account than
criticism. The memory of these things is so much
to us in after life, and if the living forms of beautiful
poems have been torn to pieces to show us the structure
within, and the matter has been shaken out into ungainly
paraphrase and pursued with relentless analysis until
it has given up the last secret of its meaning, the
remembrance of this destructive process will remain
and the spirit will never be the same again.
The best hope for beautiful memories is in perfect
reading aloud, with that reverence of mind and reticence
of feeling which keeps itself in the background, not
imposing a marked per-Bonal interpretation, but holding
up the poem with enough support to make it speak for
itself and no more. There is a vexed question
about the reading allowed to girls which cannot be
entirely passed over. It is a point on which authorities
differ widely among themselves, according to the standard
of their family, the whole early training which has
given their mind a particular bent, the quality of
their own taste and their degree of sensitiveness
and insight, the views which they hold about the character
of girls, their ideas of the world and the probable
future surroundings of those whom they advise, as
well as many other considerations. It is quite
impossible to arrive at a uniform standard, or at particular
precepts or at lists of books or authors which should
or should not be allowed. Even if these could
be drawn up, it would be more and more difficult to
enforce them or to keep the rules abreast of the requirements
of each publishing season. In reading, as in
conduct, each one must bear more and more of their
own personal responsibility, and unless the law is
within themselves there is no possibility of enforcing
it.
The present Cardinal Archbishop of
Westminster, when rector of St. John’s Seminary,
Wonersh, used to lay down the following rules for his
students, and on condition of their adhering to these
rules he allowed them great freedom in their reading,
but if they were disregarded, it was understood that
the rector took no responsibility about the books
they read:
1. “Be perfectly conscientious,
and if you find a book is doing you harm stop reading
it at once. If you know you cannot stop you must
be most careful not to read anything you don’t
know about.”
2. “Be perfectly frank
with your confessor and other superiors. Don’t
keep anything hidden from them.”
3. “Don’t recommend
books to others which, although they may do no harm
to you, might do harm to them.”
These rules are very short but they
call for a great deal of self-control, frankness,
and discretion. They set up an inward standard
for the conscience, and, if honestly followed, they
answer in practice any difficulty that is likely to
arise as to choice of reading. [1 In the
Appendix will be found a pastoral letter by Cardinal
Bourne, Archbishop of Westminster, then Bishop of
Southwark, bearing on this subject and full of instruction
for all who have to deal with it.]
But the application of these rules
presupposes a degree of judgment and self-restraint
which are hardly to be found in girls of school-room
years, and before they can adjust themselves to the
relative standard and use the curb for themselves,
it is necessary to set before them some fixed rules
by which to judge. While life is young and character
plastic and personal valuations still in formation,
the difficulty is to know what is harmful. “How
am I to know,” such a one may ask, “whether
what seems harmful to me may not be really a gain,
giving me a richer life, a greater expansion of spirit,
a more independent and human character? May not
this effect which I take to be harm, be no more than
necessary growing pains; may it not be bringing me
into truer relation with life as it is, and as a whole?”
There will always be on one side timid
and mediocre minds, satisfied to shut themselves up
and safeguard what they already have; and on the other
more daring and able spirits who are tempted beyond
the line of safety in a thirst for discovery and adventure,
and are thus swept out beyond their own immature control.
Books that foster the spirit of rebellion, of doubt
and discontent concerning the essentials and inevitable
elements of human life, that tend to sap the sense
of personal responsibility, and to disparage the cardinal
virtues and the duty of self-restraint as against
impulse, are emphatically bad. They are particularly
bad for girls with their impressionable minds and
tendency to imitation, and inclination to be led on
by the glamour of the old temptation; “Your
eyes shall be opened; you shall be as gods, knowing
good and evil.”
To follow a doubt or a lie or a by-way
of conduct with the curiosity to see what comes of
it in the end, is to prepare their own minds for similar
lines of thought and action, and in the crises of life,
when they have to choose for themselves, often unadvised
and without time to deliberate, they are more likely
to fall by the doubt or the lie or the spirit of revolt
which has become familiar to them in thought and sympathy.