This is spoken of the chief rulers
of the Jews, who, though they believed in Christ’s
Divine mission, were afraid to confess Him, lest they
should incur temporal loss and shame from the Pharisees.
The censure passed by St. John on these persons is
too often applicable to Christians at the present
day; perhaps, indeed, there is no one among us who
has not at some time or other fallen under it.
We love the good opinion of the world more than the
approbation of Him who created us, redeemed us, has
regenerated us, and who still preserves to us the
opportunity of preparing ourselves for His future presence.
Such is too often the case with us. It is well
we should be aware that it is so; it is well we should
dwell upon it, and that we should understand and feel
that it is wrong, which many men do not.
Now it is an obvious question, Why
is it wrong to love the praise of men? For it
may be objected, that we are accustomed to educate
the young by means of praise and blame; that we encourage
them by kind words from us, that is, from man;
and punish them for disobedience. If, then, it
may be argued, it is right to regard the opinions of
others concerning us in our youth, it cannot be in
itself wrong to pay attention to it at any other period
of life. This is true; but I do not say that
the mere love of praise and fear of shame are evil:
regard to the corrupt world’s praise or blame,
this is what is sinful and dangerous. St. John,
in the text, implies that the praise of men was, at
the time spoken of, in opposition to the praise of
God. It must be wrong to prefer any thing to
the will of God. To seek praise is in itself
as little wrong, as it is wrong to hope, and to fear,
and to love, and to trust; all depends upon the object
hoped, or feared, or loved, or trusted; to seek the
praise of good men is not wrong, any more than to
love or to reverence good men; only wrong when it is
in excess, when it interferes with the exercise of
love and reverence towards God. Not wrong while
we look on good men singly as instruments and servants
of God; or, in the words of Scripture, while “we
glorify God in them.” But to seek the
praise of bad men, is in itself as wrong as to love
the company of bad men, or to admire them. It
is not, I say, merely the love of praise that is a
sin, but love of the corrupt world’s praise.
This is the case with all our natural feelings and
affections; they are all in themselves good, and implanted
by God; they are sinful, because we have in us by
nature a something more than them, viz. an evil
principle which perverts them to a bad end. Adam,
before his fall, felt, we may suppose, love, fear,
hope, joy, dislike, as we do now; but then he felt
them only when he ought, and as he ought; all was
harmoniously attempered and rightly adjusted in his
soul, which was at unity with itself. But, at
the fall, this beautiful order and peace was broken
up; the same passions remained, but their use and action
were changed; they rushed into extremes, sometimes
excessive, sometimes the reverse. Indignation
was corrupted into wrath, self-love became selfishness,
self-respect became pride, and emulation envy and
jealousy. They were at variance with each other;
pride struggled with self-interest, fear with desire.
Thus his soul became a chaos, and needed a new creation.
Moreover, as I have said, his affections were set
upon unsuitable objects. The natural man looks
to this world, the world is his god; faith, love,
hope, joy, are not excited in his mind by things spiritual
and divine, but by things seen and temporal.
Considering, then, that love of praise
is not a bad principle in itself, it is plain that
a parent may very properly teach his child to love
his praise, and fear his blame, when that praise and
blame are given in accordance with God’s praise
and blame, and made subservient to them. And,
in like manner, if the world at large took a correct
and religious view of things, then its praise and
blame would in its place be valuable too. Did
the world admire what God admires; did it account
humility, for instance, a great virtue, and pride a
great sin; did it condemn that spirit of self-importance
and sensitiveness of disgrace, which calls itself
a love of honour; did it think little of temporal
prosperity, wealth, rank, grandeur, and power, did
it condemn arrogant and irreverent disputing, the
noisy, turbulent spirit of ambition, the love of war
and conquest, and the perverse temper which leads to
jealousy and hatred; did it prefer goodness and truth
to gifts of the intellect; did it think little of
quickness, wit, shrewdness, power of speech and general
acquirements, and much of patience, meekness, gentleness,
firmness, faith, conscientiousness, purity, forgiveness
of injuries, then there would be no sin
in our seeking the world’s praise; and though
we still ought to love God’s praise above all,
yet we might love the praise of the world in its degree,
for it would be nothing more nor less than the praise
of good men. But since, alas! the contrary is
the case, since the world (as Scripture tells us)
“lieth in wickedness,” and the principles
and practices which prevail on all sides of us are
not those which the All-holy God sanctions, we cannot
lawfully seek the world’s praise. We cannot
serve two masters who are enemies the one to the other.
We are forbidden to love the world or any thing that
is of the world, for it is not of the Father, but
passeth away.
This is the reason why it is wrong
to pursue the world’s praise; viz. because
we cannot have it and God’s praise too.
And yet, as the pursuit of it is wrong, so is it
common, for this reason: because God
is unseen, and the world is seen; because God’s
praise and blame are future, the world’s are
present; because God’s praise and blame are
inward, and come quietly and without keenness, whereas
the world’s are very plain and intelligible,
and make themselves felt.
Take, for instance, the case of the
young, on (what is called) entering into life.
Very many, indeed, there are, whether in a higher
or lower station, who enter into the mixed society
of others early; so early, that it might be thought
they had hardly had time to acquire any previous knowledge
of right and wrong, any standard of right and wrong,
other than the world gives, any principles by which
to fight against the world. And yet it cannot
quite be so. Whatever is the first time persons
hear evil, it is quite certain that good has been beforehand
with them, and they have a something within them which
tells them it is evil. And much more, if they
have been blessed, as most men are, with the protection
of parents, or the kind offices of teachers or of God’s
ministers, they generally have principles of duty more
or less strongly imprinted on their minds; and on
their first intercourse with strangers they are shocked
or frighted at seeing the improprieties and sins,
which are openly countenanced. Alas! there are
persons, doubtless (though God forbid it should be
the case with any here present!), whose consciences
have been so early trained into forgetfulness of religious
duties, that they can hardly, or cannot at all, recollect
the time I speak of; the time when they acted with
the secret feeling that God saw them, saw all they
did and thought. I will not fancy this to be
the case with any who hear me. Rather, there
are many of you, in different ranks and circumstances,
who have, and ever have had, general impressions on
your minds of the claims which religion has on you,
but, at the same time, have been afraid of acting
upon them, afraid of the opinion of the world, of
what others would say if you set about obeying your
conscience. Ridicule is a most powerful instrument
in the hands of Satan, and it is most vividly felt
by the young. If any one wishes to do his duty,
it is most easy for the cold, the heartless, and the
thoughtless, to find out harsh, or provoking, or ridiculous
names to fix upon him. My brethren, so many
of you as are sensitive of the laughter or contempt
of the world, this is your cross; you must wear it,
you must endure it patiently; it is the mark of your
conformity to Christ; He despised the shame:
you must learn to endure it, from the example and
by the aid of your Saviour. You must love the
praise of God more than the praise of men. It
is the very trial suited to you, appointed for you,
to establish you in the faith. You are not tempted
with gain or ambition, but with ridicule. And
be sure, that unless you withstand it, you cannot
endure hardships as good soldiers of Jesus Christ,
you will not endure other temptations which are to
follow. How can you advance a step in your after
and more extended course till the first difficulty
is overcome? You need faith, and “a double-minded
man,” says St. James, “is unstable in all
his ways.” Moreover, be not too sure that
all who show an inclination to ridicule you, feel exactly
as they say. They speak with the loudest speaker;
speak you boldly, and they will speak with you.
They have very little of definite opinion themselves,
or probably they even feel with you, though they speak
against you. Very likely they have uneasy, unsatisfied
consciences, though they seem to sin so boldly; and
are as afraid of the world as you can be, nay, more
so; they join in ridiculing you, lest others should
ridicule them; or they do so in a sort of self-defence
against the reproaches of their own consciences.
Numbers in this bad world talk loudly against religion
in order to encourage each other in sin, because they
need encouragement. They are cowards, and rely
on each other for support against their fears.
They know they ought to be other than they are, but
are glad to avail themselves of any thing that looks
like argument, to overcome their consciences withal.
And ridicule is a kind of argument such
as it is; and numbers ridiculing together are a still
stronger one of the same kind. Any
how, there are few indeed who will not feel afterwards,
in times of depression or alarm, that you are right,
and they themselves are wrong. Those who serve
God faithfully have a friend of their own, in each
man’s bosom, witnessing for them; even in those
who treat them ill. And I suppose no young person
has been able, through God’s mercy, to withstand
the world’s displeasure, but has felt at this
time or that, that this is so, and in a little time
will, with all humility, have the comfort of feeling
it while he is withstanding the world.
But now supposing he has not had strength
of mind to withstand the world; but has gone the way
of the world. Suppose he has joined the multitude
in saying and doing what he should not. We know
the careless, thoughtless, profane habits which most
men live in, making light of serious subjects, and
being ashamed of godliness and virtue; ashamed of
going to church regularly, ashamed of faith, ashamed
of chastity, ashamed of innocence, ashamed of obedience
to persons in authority. Supposing a person
has been one of these, and then through God’s
grace repents. It often pleases God, in the course
of His Providence, to rouse men to reflection by the
occurrences of life. In such circumstances they
certainly will have a severe trial to stand against
the world. Nothing is more painful in the case
of such persons, than the necessity often imposed
upon them of acting contrary to the opinion and wishes
of those with whom they have till now been intimate, whom
they have admired and followed. Intimacies have
already been formed, and ties drawn tight, which it
is difficult to sever. What is the person in
question to do? rudely to break them at once? no.
But is he to share in sins in which he formerly took
part? no; whatever censure, contempt, or ridicule
attaches to him in consequence. But what, then,
is he to do? His task, I say, is painful and
difficult, but he must not complain, for it is his
own making; it is the natural consequence of his past
neglect of God. So much is plain, he
must abstain from all sinful actions; not converse
lightly or irreverently where formerly he was not
unwilling so to do; not spend his time, as heretofore,
in idleness or riot; avoid places whither he is not
called by actual duty, which offer temptation to sin;
observe diligently attendance on church; not idle
away the Lord’s Day in vanity, or worse; not
add to the number of his acquaintance any thoughtless
persons. All this is quite plain, and in doing
this I know he will incur the ridicule of his companions.
He will have much to bear. He must bear to
be called names, to be thought a hypocrite, to be
thought to be affecting something out of the way, to
be thought desirous of recommending himself to this
or that person. He must be prepared for malicious
and untrue reports about himself; many other trials
must he look for. They are his portion.
He must pray God to enable him to bear them meekly.
He must pray for himself, he must pray for those
who ridicule him. He has deserved ridicule.
He has nothing to boast of, if he bears it well.
He has nothing to boast of that he incurs it.
He has nothing to boast of, as if he were so much
better than those who ridicule him; he was once as
they are now. He is now just a little better
than they are. He has just begun a new life.
He has got a very little way in it, or rather no
way, nothing beyond professing it; and he has the
reproach of the world in consequence of his profession.
Well, let him see to it that this reproach is not
in vain, that he has a right to the reproach.
Let him see to it that he acts as well as professes.
It will be miserable indeed if he incurs the reproach,
and yet does not gain the reward. Let him pray
God to perfect in him what He has begun in him, and
to begin and perfect it also in all those that reproach
him. Let him pray for Christ’s grace to
bear hardships in Christ’s spirit; to be able
to look calmly in the world’s face, and bear
its frown; to trust in the Lord, and be doing good;
to obey God, and so to be reproached, not for professing
only, but for performing, not for doing nothing, but
for doing something, and in God’s cause.
If we are under reproach, let us have something to
show for it. At present, such a one is but a
child in the Gospel; but in time, St. Peter’s
words will belong to him, and he may appropriate them.
“This is thankworthy, if a man for conscience
towards God endure grief, suffering wrongfully.
For what glory is it, if when ye be buffeted for
your faults ye shall take it patiently? but if, when
ye do well and suffer for it, ye take it patiently,
this is acceptable with God.”
What happens to the young in one way,
and to penitent sinners in another, happens in one
way or other to all of us. In the case of all
of us occasions arise, when practices countenanced
by others do not approve themselves to our consciences.
If after serious thought we find we cannot acquiesce
in them, we must follow our consciences, and stand
prepared for the censure of others. We must submit
(should it be unavoidable) to appear to those who
have no means of understanding us, self-willed, or
self-conceited, or obstinate, or eccentric, or headstrong,
praying the while that God’s mercy may vouchsafe
to us, that we be not really what we seem to the world.
Some are exposed to a temptation of
a different kind, that of making themselves seem more
religious than they really are. It may happen,
that to advocate right opinions may be profitable to
our worldly interests, and be attended by the praise
of men. You may ask, since in such cases God
and man approve the same thing, why should the applause
of the world be accounted dangerous then? I answer,
it is dangerous because God requires of us a modest
silence in our religion; but we cannot be religious
in the eyes of men without displaying religion.
I am now speaking of display. God sees our
thoughts without our help, and praises them;
but we cannot be praised by men without being seen
by men: whereas often the very excellence of a
religious action, according to our Saviour’s
precept, consists in the not being seen by others.
This is a frequent cause of hypocrisy in religion.
Men begin by feeling as they should feel, then they
think it a very hard thing that men should not know
how well they feel, and in course of time they learn
to speak without feeling. Thus they have learned
to “love the praise of men more than the praise
of God.” We have to guard against
another danger, against the mistake of supposing that
the world’s despising us is a proof that we
are particularly religious; for this, too, is often
supposed. Frequently it happens that we encumber
our religion with extravagances, perversions,
or mistakes, with which religion itself has no necessary
connexion, and these, and not religion, excite the
contempt of the world. So much is this the case,
that the censure of numbers, or of the sober-minded,
or of various and distinct classes of men, or censure
consistently urged, or continued consistently, ought
always to lead a man to be very watchful as to what
he considers right to say or do in the line of duty,
to lead him to examine his principles; to lead him,
however thoroughly he adheres to these after all,
to be unaffectedly humble about himself, and to convince
him in matter of fact (what he might be quite sure
of beforehand, from the nature of the case), that,
however good his principles are in themselves, he
is mixing up with them the alloy of his own frail
and corrupt nature.
In conclusion, I would say to those
who fear the world’s censure, this:
1. Recollect you cannot please
all parties, you must disagree with some or other:
you have only to choose (if you are determined to look
to man) with which you will disagree. And, further,
you may be sure that those who attempt to please all
parties, please fewest; and that the best way to gain
the world’s good opinion (even if you were set
upon this, which you must not be) is to show that
you prefer the praise of God. Make up your mind
to be occasionally misunderstood, and undeservedly
condemned. You must, in the Apostle’s words,
go through evil report, and good report, whether on
a contracted or a wider field of action. And
you must not be anxious even for the praise of good
men. To have, indeed, the approbation of those
whose hearts are guided by God’s Holy Spirit,
is indeed much to be coveted. Still this is a
world of discipline, not of enjoyment; and just as
we are sometimes bound in duty to abstain from indulgences
of sense in themselves innocent, so are we sometimes
bound to deny ourselves the satisfaction derived from
the praise even of the religious and conscientious.
Only let us beware in all this, lest we act from
pride and self-conceit.
2. In the next place, think of
the multitude of beings, who, unseen themselves, may
yet be surveying our conduct. St. Paul charges
Timothy by the elect Angels; and elsewhere he declares
that the Apostles were made “a spectacle unto
the world, and to Angels, and to men.”
Are we then afraid to follow what is right, lest the
world should scoff? rather let us be afraid not to
follow it, because God sees us, and Christ, and the
holy Angels. They rejoice over one sinner that
repenteth; how must they mourn over those who fall
away! What interest, surely, is excited among
them, by the sight of the Christian’s trial,
when faith and the desire of the world’s esteem
are struggling in his heart for victory! what rejoicing
if, through the grace of God, he overcomes! what sorrow
and pity if he is overcome by the world! Accustom
yourselves, then, to feel that you are on a public
stage, whatever your station of life may be, that there
are other witnesses to your conduct besides the world
around you; and, if you feel shame of men, you should
much more feel shame in the presence of God, and those
servants of His that do His pleasure.
3. Still further: you fear
the judgment of men upon you. What will you
think of it on your death-bed? The hour must
come, sooner or later, when your soul is to return
to Him who gave it. Perhaps you will be sensible
of your awful state. What will you then think
of the esteem of the world? will not all below seem
to pass away, and be rolled up as a scroll, and the
extended regions of the future solemnly set themselves
before you? Then how vain will appear the applause
or blame of creatures, such as we are, all sinners
and blind judges, and feeble aids, and themselves
destined to be judged for their deeds. When,
then, you are tempted to dread the ridicule of man,
throw your mind forward to the hour of death.
You know what you will then think of it, if you are
then able to think at all.
4. The subject is not exhausted.
You fear shame; well, and will you not shrink from
shame at the judgment-seat of Christ? There will
be assembled all the myriads of men who ever lived,
a vast multitude! There will be Apostles, prophets,
martyrs, and all saints from the beginning of time.
There will be all the good men you ever heard of or
knew. There will be your own kindest and best
friends, your pious parents, or brothers, or children.
Now what think you of being put to shame before all
these? You fear the contempt of one small circle
of men; what think you of the Saints of God, of St.
Mary, of St. Peter and St. Paul, of the ten thousand
generations of mankind, being witnesses of your disgrace?
You dread the opinion of those whom you do not love;
but what if a father then shrink from a dear son, or
the wife, or husband, your earthly companion, then
tremble at the sight of you, and feel ashamed of you?
Nay, there is One greater than parents, husbands,
or brothers; One of whom you have been ashamed on earth;
and what will He, that merciful, but neglected Saviour,
think of you then? Hear His own words: “Whosoever
shall be ashamed of Me and of My words, of him shall
the Son of Man be ashamed, when He shall come in His
own glory, and in His Fathers, and of the holy Angels.”
Then such unhappy men, how will they feel shame at
themselves! they will despise and loathe themselves;
they will hate and abominate their own folly; they
will account themselves brutish and mad, so to have
been beguiled by the devil, and to have trifled with
the season of mercy. “Many of them that
sleep in the dust of the earth,” says Daniel,
“shall awake, some to everlasting life, and
some to shame and everlasting contempt.”
Let us, then, rouse ourselves, and
turn from man to God; what have we to do with the
world, who from our infancy have been put on our journey
heavenward? Take up your cross and follow Christ.
He went through shame far greater than can be yours.
Do you think He felt nothing when He was lifted up
on the Cross to public gaze, amid the contempt and
barbarous triumphings of His enemies, the Pharisees,
Pilate and his Roman guard, Herod and his men of war,
and the vast multitude collected from all parts of
the world? They all looked on Him with hatred
and insult, yet He endured (we are told), “despising
the shame.” It is a high privilege
to be allowed to be conformed to Christ; St. Paul
thought it so, so have all good men. The whole
Church of God, from the days of Christ to the present,
has been ever held in shame and contempt by men of
this world. Proud men have reasoned against its
Divine origin; crafty men have attempted to degrade
it to political purposes: still it has lasted
for many centuries; it will last still, through the
promised help of God the Holy Ghost; and that same
promise which is made to it first as a body, is assuredly
made also to every one of us who seeks grace from
God through it. The grace of our Lord and Saviour
is pledged to every one of us without measure, to give
us all necessary strength and holiness when we pray
for it; and Almighty God tells us Himself, “Fear
ye not the reproach of men, neither be ye afraid of
their revilings. For the moth shall eat them
up like a garment, and the worm shall eat them like
wool; but My righteousness shall be for ever, and
My salvation from generation to generation.”