Whose part in all the pomp that fills,
The circuit of the summer hills.
Is that his grave
is green.
And deeply would their hearts rejoice,
To hear again his living voice.
BRYANT.
The funeral, with the usual celerity
with which such things are done in our country, was
to take place on the next day. Too often the haste
appears indecent, and it may be that in some instances
the body has been buried before life deserted it.
It would seem that the family felt constrained by
the presence of the corpse, and compelled to exercise
an irksome self-control, and, therefore, desired to
hurry it under ground, as if it would be less likely
there to know how soon it was forgotten.
But in the present case there was
no reason why the body should be longer kept.
There could be no doubt that life was extinct.
It had lain too long in the water to admit a ray of
hope to the contrary. The sooner it was placed
in its final earthly home the better for poor Jane
Sill, the widow. Her grief would the sooner be
mitigated, by withdrawing her thoughts from the dead
to fix them on the necessity of providing for the
living. Until the burial the sympathizing neighbors
took upon themselves to perform the usual work of the
household, such as cooking the necessary food, &c.,
and one or another came in at times to look after
the children, to see that nothing was neglected for
their comfort, and to console the lone woman in her
affliction. But this could not last long.
It was better it should not, but that things should,
as quickly as possible, resume their usual and natural
course.
When the hour for the ceremony arrived,
Mr. Armstrong sent round his carriage to convey the
mourning family in the melancholy procession, while
he and Faith, as the distance was short, proceeded
on foot to the house. It was situated on a sandy
beach, near the Wootuppocut, and a considerable company
had collected together before their arrival.
Poor Josiah’s generosity and good-nature had
made him a general favorite, and his acquaintances
had pretty generally turned out to render to him the
last testimony of affection it would ever be in their
power to pay. The house was too small to hold
all present, so that besides the relations, very few
except females were admitted. Faith entered,
but her father, though courteously invited in, and
in consequence of his connection with the accident
that caused the death, considered in some wise a mourner,
preferred to remain on the outside. Meanwhile,
during the preparations in the house, groups without
were scattered round, engaged, in low voices, in various
conversation. In some, expressions of condolence
and pity were let fall for the condition of the widow
and her family; others descanted on the good qualities
of the deceased; others debated on what might be the
feelings of Armstrong, and wondered what he would give
the widow. They were all acquainted with his
generosity, and doubted not of his desire to repair,
so far as he was able, the misfortune with which the
more ignorant would insist upon connecting him as
in some sort, a cause. For this reason, some
of them stole sly glances, from time to time, at his
face, wishing not to be observed, as if they expected
to read therein his purposes. But Armstrong,
his eyes fastened on the ground, and absorbed in his
own reflections, was unconscious of the attention
he attracted. So lost was he, indeed, in his own
thoughts, as not to observe many of the nods and greetings
directed to him.
Presently low tones, as of one speaking,
were heard issuing from the house, and those standing
outside gathered round the open door, to listen to
the prayer of the minister. It seems to be taken
for granted that on such occasions the prayer must
occupy some considerable time, whether because a short
one would be irreverent to the Being to whom it is
addressed, or disrespectful to the sorrowing friends,
or because the mind cannot sooner be impressed with
due solemnity. Hence it follows that as these
prayers are extempore, and the abilities and taste
of those who offer them of different degrees, they
are of various shades of merit. Seldom is one
made in which the canons of good taste are not violated,
and some are not compelled to smile who ought to weep.
The reverend gentleman who conducted the services,
was not insensible to what was expected from him, and
determined “to improve” the mournful event
to the benefit of the living. After alluding
to the gratitude his hearers ought to feel at not being
thus hurried, like poor Sill, without time for preparation,
before the bar of Judgment, who, however, he hoped,
was prepared, and in order to heighten the feeling
of thankfulness, contrasting the light and liberty
of life with the darkness of the grave (as if the spirit
were confined there), he ran through the usual common
places, speaking with an assured conviction, as if
the country beyond the grave were as familiar to him
as the streets of the town. With a tedious particularity
he then entreated the divine blessing upon the members
of the bereaved family, mentioning them by name, beginning
with the widow, to whom succeeded the children, two
boys, one of four, and the other of two years of age,
followed by fathers, and mothers, and brothers, and
sisters to an indefinite extent, until the compliment
was duly paid to all who were supposed to have any
claim to it. The prayer was closed very much
as it began, with a reference to the suddenness of
the death, which was treated as a warning sent for
their benefit, and a hope that it might be laid to
heart, and induce sinners to fly from the wrath to
come. The usual time being now consumed, the
minister who had labored hard, and not without sundry
hesitations and coughings to accomplish his task,
brought it to a conclusion, and announced an appropriate
hymn. There was something sadly sweet and touching
in the homely words and simple tune, sung in low and
suppressed tones, as if they were afraid of disturbing
the slumbers of the dead.
Upon the conclusion of the hymn, the
person who acted as master of the ceremonies went
to the door, and, addressing those gathered round,
said that all who desired might now have an opportunity
to see the corpse. Several accepted the invitation,
and among others, Mr. Armstrong.
The coffin was placed upon a table
in the centre of the room, with a part of the lid
turned back on hinges, so as to leave the face exposed.
The former friends and acquaintances of the dead man,
giving place and succeeding to one another, came,
looked, and passed out again, moving lightly on tip-toe
solemnized and subdued by the awful mystery of death.
As they came in and left the house, they could see
through an open door in an adjoining room the weeping
widow in full mourning, with her little boys on either
side, and the relations seated round in chairs.
All having gazed upon the corpse who
wished, preparations now commenced for screwing down
the lid of the coffin. The sobs and sounds of
grief which had proceeded from the room where the mourners
were collected, and which had been, as by an effort,
suppressed during the prayer and hymn, now broke forth
afresh.
“O, do not hinder me,”
poor Mrs. Sill was heard to say; “it’s
the only chance I shall have in this world.”
“I guess you’d better
not,” said a voice, trying to dissuade her.
“It’s no use; and, then, before all them
strangers.”
“I will see Josiah,” she
exclaimed, rising from her seat, and putting aside
the well-meaning hand that strove to detain her.
“Who has a better right to take the last look
than me?”
With these words, her crape veil thrown
in disorder back upon her shoulders, her eyes red
and swollen with crying, and tears streaming down
her cheeks, she advanced towards the body, all respectfully
making room for her as she approached.
We are not a very demonstrative people.
The inhabitants of New England are taught, from an
early age, the lesson of self-control. They do
not wear in their bosoms windows into which any eyes
may look. It is considered unmanly for men to
exhibit excessive feeling, and perhaps the sentiment
has an influence even on the softer sex. The conduct
of Mrs. Sill was unusual, and excited surprise; but
it is difficult to stem strong passion and it had
its way.
She moved quickly up to the table,
and threw her arms around the coffin, resting her
cheek on that of her husband, while the hot tears
ran in large drops down its marble surface. One
who thought he had a right to interfere, whispered
in her ear, and took hold of an arm to draw her away,
but she turned fiercely upon him.
“Who are you,” she said,
“to separate me from my husband? Go I
will keep him as long as I please.”
The person, seeing her determination,
desisted; and all looked on in mournful silence.
“O, Josiah,” she sobbed,
“who’d have thought it! The best,
the kindest husband a woman ever had. O! how
sorry I am for every hard word I ever spoke to you.
And you so good never to find fault when
I scolded. I was wicked and yet all
the time I loved you so. Did you know it, Josiah?
If you were back again, how different I would treat
you! The fire should always be burning bright,
and the hearth clean, when you came back cold from
fishing, and you should never, never ask me a second
time for anything. But you don’t hear me.
What’s the use of crying and lamenting?
Here,” she said, raising herself up, and addressing
those next her, “take him, and put him in his
grave.”
She staggered and fainted, and would
have fallen, had she not been caught in the arms of
sympathizing friends, who removed her into the adjoining
chamber, and applied the usual restoratives. This
caused some little delay, but, after a time, the person
who had assumed upon himself the arrangements of the
funeral, entered, preceding the four bearers, whose
hats he took into his own hands, to restore them to
the owners when the coffin should be placed in the
hearse a plain black wagon, with black
cloth curtains waiting at the door.
The coffin was taken up by them, and deposited accordingly;
after which, they took their places in front of the
hearse, while the four pall-bearers ranged themselves
on each side. At a signal from the director of
the ceremony, the whole moved forward, leaving space
for the carriages to approach the door. Mr. Armstrong’s
carriage was driven up, and the widow and children,
with two or three females, were assisted in. Then
followed a few other vehicles, with the nearest relatives,
after whom came others, as they pleased to join.
A large number of persons had previously formed themselves
into a procession before the hearse, headed by the
minister, who would have been accompanied by a physician,
had one assisted in making poor Sill’s passage
to the other world easier.
The mournful cortege wound slowly
up a hill to the burying-ground a piece
of broken land on the top. At the time of which
we write, the resting-place of the departed of Hillsdale
presented a different appearance from what it does
now. Wild, neglected, overgrown with briers,
it looked repulsive to the living, and unworthy of
the dead. The tender sentiment which associates
beauty with the memory of our friends, and loves to
plant the evergreen and rose around their graves,
seemed then not to have touched the bosoms of our people.
A pleasing change has succeeded. The briars have
been removed, trees planted, and when necessary to
be laid out, new burial-ground spots have been selected
remarkable for attractiveness and susceptibility of
improvement. The brook has been led in and conducted
in tortuous paths, as if to lull with a soft hymn
the tired sleepers, and then expanded into a fairy
lake, around which the weeping willow lets fall its
graceful pendants. The white pine, the various
species of firs, the rhododendron, mixed with the
maple, the elm, and the tulip tree, have found their
way into the sacred enclosure. The reproach of
Puritanic insensibility is wiped out. Europe may
boast of prouder monuments, but she has no burial-places
so beautiful as some of ours. Pere la Chaise
is splendid in marble and iron, but the loveliness
of nature is wanting. Sweet Auburn, and Greenwood,
and Laurel Hill are peerless in their mournful charms.
The coffin was lowered into the grave
in silence. No solemn voice pronounced the farewell
“ashes to ashes, dust to dust.” The
ceremonies were concluded. The minister took
off his hat, and addressing the bystanders, some of
whom, respectfully imitating his example, raised the
coverings from their heads, thanked them in the name
of the afflicted family for this last tribute of regard.
The procession was formed again, and slowly returned
to the house, leaving the grave-digger to shovel in
the gravel and complete his task.
As Mr. Armstrong and Faith walked
home together, but few words were exchanged between
them. Each was absorbed in reflection upon the
scene just witnessed. In Faith’s mind it
was solemn, but devoid of gloom. With the hopefulness
of health and youth, gleams of sunshine played over
the grave. She looked beyond, and hoped and trusted.
But with her father it was different.
Had it not been for him Sill might have been alive
and well. He had made the wife a widow and her
children orphans. He had introduced weeping and
wailing into a happy home. But this was a slight
calamity, and hardly worthy of a thought in comparison
with another. The words of the minister, that
the victim had been hurried to his sentence without
time for preparation recurred with a feeling of horror.
It was he through whose instrumentality Sill had been
thrust into tormenting but undestroying flames.
Better that he had never been born. Better that
he had been strangled in the hour of his birth.
With thoughts like these, this unhappy
man, whose heart was the seat of all the virtues,
tormented himself. It seemed sometimes strange
that people did not point their fingers at him:
that he was not arrested for the murder: that
he was permitted to walk abroad in the sunshine.
His mind, unknown to those about him, unknown to himself,
was hovering on the confines of insanity. Only
a spark, perhaps, was necessary to light a conflagration.
Alas! that one so good, so noble, should be a victim
of destiny. But we forbear to intrude further
into reflections alike miserable and insane.
Mr. Armstrong felt more composed the
next day, and in the afternoon, accompanied by Faith,
went to the dwelling of the widow. They found
her engaged in ordinary family affairs. The duties
to the living must be respected. To neither rich
nor poor does sorrow furnish an excuse for their neglect.
Let the mind find something to occupy it, the hand
something to do. Thus do we become sooner reconciled
to those dispensations of Providence at which our
weakness, and ignorance, and presumption rebel.
The poor woman received them kindly,
and offered chairs. Faith took into her lap the
younger child from the floor on which it was sitting,
gnawing a crust of brown bread, and began to talk to
him. The round eyes of the boy expressed his
astonishment, but as he looked into the loving face
and heard more of the sweet voice, the alarm he at
first felt at the approach of the stranger subsided,
and he smiled with the confiding innocence which children
return to the caresses of those who are fond of them.
“Jimmy doesn’t know what
a loss he’s had,” said Mrs. Sill.
“Jimmy will grow up to take
care of his mother bye and bye, and repay her for
some of her trouble, won’t he?” said Faith,
addressing the boy.
“O, Josiah and Jimmy are my
only comfort,” said the widow “now
that he’s gone. I don’t know what
I should do without them, I’m sure.”
Mr. Armstrong had called the elder
boy, Josiah, to his side, and the little fellow had
quickly become familiar enough to play with his gold
watch-chain. Seeing it pleased the child, he took
the watch and held it to his ear, at which the countenance
of the boy became radiant with delight. “O,
Jimmy,” he cried, “it talks.”
Mr. Armstrong released the watch into
the hands of Josiah, who ran with it to his brother.
“He will drop it,” exclaimed
Mrs. Sill, starting forward, taking the watch from
the hands of the disappointed boy, and offering it
to Mr. Armstrong.
“Keep it,” he said, “for
Josiah, to associate me, when he grows up, with his
father’s death.”
“You don’t mean to give
away your gold watch?” said Mrs. Sill, still
holding it out towards him.
“Yes, Mrs. Sill,” said
Mr. Armstrong, “I intended it for him: I
would give him all I have if I could thereby restore
his father to life.”
This observation renewed in full force
the sorrow of the poor woman. She sank back into
a chair, and covering her face with her apron, sobbed
and wept bitterly.
Faith looked at her father with an
expression which seemed to say do not refer
to the cause of her grief. Armstrong understood
the appeal, but he had that in his mind which was
unknown to his daughter, and after a pause he proceeded.
“I have more property than I
deserve, and what better use can I put it to than
give it to the deserving? You will find in that,”
he continued, handing a paper to the widow, “what
will entitle you to a little income during your life.
I hope it will enable you to take better care of your
children.”
Mrs. Sill took the paper mechanically,
and gazed upon without opening it or imagining the
extent of the gift. She kept turning it round
and round in her fingers, as if not knowing what to
do with it.
“Everybody knows you’re
a kind man, and as generous as you’re rich,
Mr. Armstrong;” at last she said, “But
I guess I shant want anything long in this world.”
“I hope you may live long yet,”
said Mr. Armstrong, “for the sake of the little
boys.”
This allusion recalled her more to
herself, and without looking at the paper she put
it into her bosom. “I’m sure I thank
you with all my heart, and shall always try to do
my duty by them,” she said.
Here Mr. Armstrong rose, and Faith,
putting down the child, that seemed loth to leave
her, spoke in a low tone some parting words of consolation.
“I’m sure you’re
very good; I’m sure I’m very much obleeged
to you,” was all Mrs. Sill could say.
On their way home Faith spoke of the
promising appearance of the children, and of what
the hopes of the mother must be on their account.
“It is true they are all that
are left to her,” said Mr. Armstrong, “and
what hopes she has of earthly happiness must be built
on them. But who can look into to-morrow?
A few days ago, never dreaming of misfortune, she
exulted in the enjoyment of her husband and little
boys. The first is taken away, and none know how
soon the latter may be. So joys and sorrows are
mingled together. At this moment she is more
miserable for having been happy, and so great is the
misery, it outweighs all the happiness of former years.
Such is the nature of pain and pleasure. A pang
of the former, an instant’s acute agony, may
be equivalent to hours of what is called enjoyment.
We are so made. We may hope for happiness:
we are certain of sorrow. We must seek after
the one: the other is sure to find us. When
I look round, what evidences of wretchedness do I
see! Alas, it is indeed a fallen world, and the
ground is cursed for man’s sake.”
“You take a gloomy view, father,”
said Faith. “Look beyond. Are we not
promised a happier time when the bliss of Eden shall
be renewed?”
“Yes, and the time will come.
Not only prophets and apostles have had it revealed
to them, but grand souls among the heathen have dimly
descryed its dawning from afar. But what unimaginable
scenes of horror must first be? What doleful
misérérés must first ascend to cloud the brightness
of the heavens and dim the joy of the blest! Long,
long before then, your and my remembrance, Faith,
will have perished from the earth. You will be
then a seraph, and I . If there be ever
an interval of pain, it will be when I think of your
blessedness, and you, if angels sometimes weep, will
drop a tear to the memory of your father, and it shall
cool his torment.”
What could the grieved and alarmed
daughter say? She spoke in gentle and loving
tones. She combated by every possible argument
these miserable fancies. She entreated him for
her sake as well as his own, to cast them off.
He listened to her without impatience, and as if he
loved to hear the sound of her voice. But he shook
his head with a mournful sadness, and his melancholy
remained. As may well be supposed, the dark cloud
that had settled down upon his mind was not thus to
be dissipated. Faith, though troubled, did not
despair. She trusted the impression of the late
calamity, to which she attributed much of his unhappiness,
would in time wear off. Meanwhile, she commended
him to the kind protection of that Gracious Being who
is loving to all his works.