Read TO MRS. HOUGHTON OF BOURMONT, ON PRAISING HER HUSBAND TO DR. SWIFT of The Poems of Jonathan Swift‚ D.D.(Volume I of 2), free online book, by Jonathan Swift, on

You always are making a god of your spouse;
But this neither Reason nor Conscience allows;
Perhaps you will say, ’tis in gratitude due,
And you adore him, because he adores you. 
Your argument’s weak, and so you will find;
For you, by this rule, must adore all mankind.