As I sit working at my back window,
I look out on a long row of other people’s back
windows; and it is quite impossible for me to help
seeing and being interested in my neighbours.
There are a good many children in those houses; and
though I don’t know one of their names, I know
them a great deal better than they think I do.
I never spoke a word to any of them, and never expect
to do so; yet I have my likes and dislikes among them,
and could tell them things that they have said and
done, which would astonish them very much, I assure
you.
First, the babies, — for
there are three: the aristocratic baby, the happy-go-lucky
baby, and the forlorn baby. The aristocratic baby
lives in a fine, well-furnished room, has a pretty
little mamma, who wears white gowns, and pink ribbons
in her cap; likewise, a fond young papa, who evidently
thinks this the most wonderful baby in Boston.
There is a stout, motherly lady, who is the grandma,
I fancy, for she is always hovering about ‘the
dear’ with cups, blankets, or a gorgeous red
worsted bird to amuse it. Baby is a plump, rosy,
sweet-faced little creature, always smiling and kissing
its hand to the world in general. In its pretty
white frocks, with its own little pink or blue ribbons,
and its young mamma proudly holding it up to see and
be seen, my aristocratic neighbour has an easy life
of it, and is evidently one of the little lilies who
do nothing but blossom in the sunshine.
The happy-go-lucky baby is just able
to toddle; and I seldom pull up my curtain in the
morning without seeing him at his window in his yellow
flannel night-gown, taking a look at the weather.
No matter whether it rains or shines, there he is,
smiling and nodding, and looking so merry, that it
is evident he has plenty of sunshine bottled up in
his own little heart for private use. I depend
on seeing him, and feel as if the world was not right
until this golden little sun rises to shine upon me.
He don’t seem to have any one to take care of
him, but trots about all day, and takes care of himself.
Sometimes he is up in the chambers with the girl,
while she makes beds, and he helps; then he takes a
stroll into the parlour, and spins the gay curtain-tassels
to his heart’s content; next, he dives into
the kitchen (I hope he does not tumble downstairs,
but I dare say he wouldn’t mind if he did), and
he gets pushed about by all the busy women, as they
‘fly round.’ I rather think it gets
too hot for him there about dinner-time; for he often
comes out into the yard for a walk at noon, and seems
to find endless wonders and delights in the ash barrel,
the water-but, two old flower-pots, and a little grass
plat, in which he plants a choice variety of articles,
in the firm faith they will come up in full bloom.
I hope the big spoon and his own red shoe will
sprout and appear before any trouble is made about
their mysterious disappearance. At night I see
a little shadow bobbing about on the curtain, and
watch it, till with a parting glimpse at a sleepy
face at the window, my small sun sets, and I leave
him to his dreams.
The forlorn baby roars all day, and
I don’t blame him; for he is trotted, shaken,
spanked, and scolded by a very cross nurse, who treats
him like a meal bag. I pity that little neighbour,
and don’t believe he will stand it long; for
I see him double up his tiny fists, and spar away
at nothing, as if getting ready for a good tussle with
the world by and by, if he lives to try it.
Then the boys, — bless their
buttons! — how amusing they are. One
young man, aged about ten, keeps hens; and the trials
of that boy are really pathetic. The biddies
get out every day or two, and fly away all over the
neighbourhood, like feathers when you shake a pillow.
They cackle and crow, and get up on sheds and fences,
and trot down the streets, all at once, and that poor
fellow spins round after them like a distracted top.
One by one he gets them and comes lugging them back,
upside down, in the most undignified attitude, and
shuts them up, and hammers away, and thinks they are
all safe, and sits down to rest, when a triumphant
crow from some neighbouring shed tells him that that
rascally black rooster is out again for another promenade.
I’m not blood-thirsty; but I really do long
for Thanksgiving that my neighbour Henry may find rest
for the sole of his foot; for, not till his poultry
are safely eaten will he ever know where they are.
Another boy has a circus about once
a week, and tries to break his neck jumping through
hoops, hanging to a rope by his heels, turning somersaults
in the air, and frightening his mother out of her wits
by his pranks. I suspect that he has been to
see Leotard, and I admire his energy, for he is never
discouraged; and, after tumbling flat, half-a-dozen
times, he merely rubs his elbows and knees, and then
up and takes another.
There is a good, domestic boy, who
brushes and curls his three little sisters’
hair every morning, and must do it very gently, for
they seem to like it; and I often see them watch at
the back gate for him, and clap their hands, and run
to meet him, sure of being welcomed as little sisters
like to be met by the big brothers whom they love.
I respect that virtuous boy.
The naughty boy is very funny; and
the running fight he keeps up with the cross cook
is as good as a farce. He is a torment,
but I think she could tame him, if she took the right
way. The other day she wouldn’t let him
in because she had washed up her kitchen and his boots
were muddy. He wiped them on the grass, but that
wouldn’t do; and, after going at her with his
head down, like a battering ram, he gave it up, or
seemed to; for, the minute she locked the door behind
her and came out to take in her clothes, that sly
dog whipped up one of the low windows, scrambled in,
and danced a hornpipe all over the kitchen, while the
fat cook scolded and fumbled for her key, for she
couldn’t follow through the window. Of
course he was off upstairs by the time she got in;
but I’m afraid he had a shaking, for I saw him
glowering fiercely as he came out later with a basket,
going some ‘confounded errand.’ Occasionally
his father brings him out and whips him for some extra
bad offence, during which performance he howls dismally;
but when he is left sitting despondently and miraculously
on an old chair without any seat, he soon cheers up,
boos at a strange cat, whistles to his dog, — who
is just like him, — or falls back on that
standing cure for all the ills that boys are heir
to, and whittles vigorously. I know I ought to
frown upon this reprehensible young person, and morally
close my eyes to his pranks; but I really can’t
do it, and am afraid I find this little black sheep
the most interesting of the flock.
The girls have tea-parties, make calls,
and play mother, of course; and the sisters of the
good boy have capital times up in a big nursery, with
such large dollies that I can hardly tell which are
the babies and which the mammas. One little girl
plays about at home with a dirty face, tumbled hair,
and an old pinafore on. She won’t be made
tidy, and I see her kick and cry when they try to
make her neat. Now and then there is a great
dressing and curling; and then I see her prancing away
in her light boots, smart hat, and pretty dress, looking
as fresh as a daisy. But I don’t admire
her; for I’ve been behind the scenes, you see,
and I know that she likes to be fine rather than neat.
So is the girl who torments her kitty,
slaps her sister, and runs away when her mother tells
her not to go out of the yard. But the house-wifely
little girl who tends the baby, washes the cups, and
goes to school early with a sunshiny face and kiss
all round, she, now, is a neighbour worth having,
and I’d put a good mark against her name if I
knew it.
I don’t know as it would be
proper for me to mention the grown-up people over
the way. They go on very much as the children
do; for there is the lazy, dandified man, who gets
up late, and drinks; the cross man, who swears at
the shed-door when it won’t shut; the fatherly
man, who sits among his children every evening, and
the cheery old man up in the attic, who has a flower
in his window, and looks out at the world with very
much the same serene smile as my orange-coloured baby.
The women, too, keep house, make calls,
and play mother; and some don’t do it well either.
The forlorn baby’s mamma never seems to cuddle
and comfort him; and some day, when the little fist
lies cold and quiet, I’m afraid she’ll
wish she had. Then the naughty boy’s mother.
I’m very sure, if she put her arms round him
sometimes, and smoothed that rough head of his, and
spoke to him as only mothers can speak, that it would
tame him far better than the scoldings and thrashings:
for I know there is a true boy’s heart, warm
and tender, somewhere under the jacket that gets dusted
so often. As for the fine lady who lets her children
do as they can, while she trims her bonnet, or makes
panniers, I wouldn’t be introduced to her on
any account. But as some might think it was unjustifiable
curiosity on my part to see these things, and an actionable
offence to speak of them, I won’t mention them.
I sometimes wonder if the kind spirits
who feel an interest in mortals ever take a look at
us on the shady side which we don’t show the
world, seeing the trouble, vanities, and sins which
we think no one knows. If they love, pity, or
condemn us? What records they keep, and what rewards
they prepare for those who are so busy with their work
and play that they forget who may be watching their
back windows with clearer eyes and truer charity than
any inquisitive old lady with a pen in her hand?