I hope to start a new lesson for some
of you, and I have gathered you all here to-day, whether
you will be able to come to it or not, because, in
thinking over what I wished to say about this one lesson,
I found I was led into describing what I should like
all lessons to do for you. My new lesson will
be a talk on various things in which you are, or ought
to be, interested. I have tried this plan before,
and have sometimes been laughed at for having such
miscellaneous lessons, but I found their effect very
good. I had a spare half-hour in the week, which
I gave to this Talking Lesson.
Once I took Dante, and after a sketch
of his life and of Florence, we went through the “Inferno;”
I read the famous parts in full and told the story
of the rest, and now many of those children who listened
feel, when they come on anything about Dante, as if
they had met an old friend.
Then I happened to go to Yorkshire
and saw several of its lovely abbeys: I came
back with a craze for architecture, so I and the girls
did that together. Neither they, nor I, imagine
that we understand architecture, or are authorities
on it; but though we only took the barest outline,
it made us all use our eyes and enjoy old buildings.
I often get letters from those girls, saying that
they have since enjoyed their travels so much more,
because they now notice the architecture. You
know the story of “Eyes and No Eyes” how
two boys went out for a walk one saw nothing
to notice, and the other found his way lined with
interesting things. I am sure, architecturally,
your way is lined with beauty in Oxford, which deserves
both outward and “inward eyes.”
Another time we took the French writers
of Louis XIV. and we all feel that Moliere and La
Fontaine and Mme. de Sevigne are our personal
friends, so that the value of their books is doubled
to us!
We took mythology at one time, and
many girls found that they understood, much better,
allusions in books and various pictures in the Academy,
which are often about mythological subjects.
Ignorance on this point may sometimes be very awkward.
I have heard of an American lady who invited her artistic
friends to come and see a picture she had lately bought
of “Jupiter and Ten.” The friends
puzzled over her notes of invitation, and, on arriving
at her house, were still more puzzled to know how to
pass off the mistake gracefully, when they found that
the picture was one of “Jupiter and Io.”
I trust you will not cause your friends embarrassment
of this kind!
Another time we took the history of
Queen Victoria, as our way of celebrating the Jubilee
patriotically. We began by all collecting as much
patriotic poetry as we could, which was surprisingly
little I wonder if you would find more and,
all through, we made a special point of finding poems
written about any of the events. We found Punch
a valuable assistance, and we much enjoyed the cartoons
and jokes which had been so mysterious to us before.
Just that part of history which is not in “Bright,”
and which, yet, is before our time, is so very hard
to find out about, and many allusions in the newspapers
and parliamentary speeches are consequently wasted
on us.
Now, all this was miscellaneous, yet
I had one object running through it all, and the girls
helped me to carry it out by listening in the right
spirit, knowing that I was only pointing out the various
doors through which they might go by-and-by.
Not one of them thought she had “done”
a subject because we had thus talked about it, we
all learnt to feel our own ignorance, and at the same
time, how much there was in the world to learn.
I want to show you this morning where
such a lesson should fit in, in the general plan of
your education. To do that, you must first have
the plan. Have you ever thought what education
was to do for you, or, are you learning your lessons,
day by day, just because they are set? I know
what I want to do with you, but I cannot do it unless
you work hand-in-hand with me, and you cannot do that
unless you think about the matter and realize that,
for instance, Euclid is not only Euclid, it ought to
teach certain mental and moral qualities which you
must have if you are ever to be worth your salt.
There is a story of Dr. Johnson, which seems to me
to apply to so many things. When his friend,
Mr. Thrale, the great brewer, died, there was a sale
of the brewery, which Dr. Johnson attended. An
acquaintance expressed surprise at the great man’s
honouring with his presence such an ordinary affair
as the sale of a brewery. “Sir,” said
Dr. Johnson, turning with crushing deliberation on
the unhappy speaker, “this is not the sale of
a mere brewery, but of the potentiality of growing
rich beyond the dreams of avarice.” This
story seems to me well worth remembering, both because
it is so characteristic of the Doctor, and because
it is applicable to so many things. It is so easy
to go through the world not seeing the importance
of things, like the common people in “Phantasies,”
who never saw what a fairyland they lived in.
Lessons, for instance, are not mere lessons, they
are “the potentiality of growing rich in wisdom
and in goodness beyond our highest dreams.”
I should be sorry if, in after life,
you should wake up and say to yourself, “How
much more good my lessons would have done me if some
one had shown me the real use of them and made me
think, so that I might have learnt all I could, instead
of just slipping through them day by day.”
No one can do the thinking for you. Unless you
work with me by trying to think, I cannot really do
much for you. I can bring you to the water, but
I cannot make you drink. Yes, after all, I can
make you drink, i.e. do your lessons day by
day as a matter of obedience. So a better illustration
would be that I can make you eat, but I cannot make
you digest your food. You can prevent its doing
you any good. If you simply learn your lessons
by rote and do not use your thinking powers, education
is very little good, the obedience will
have done you good, but, as far as mental growth is
concerned, you will not gain much, for that sort of
education drops off, like water off a duck’s
back, when you leave school. They say “a
fool and his money are soon parted,” but that
is nothing to the speed with which a fool and his
education are parted!
Now, I am going to take the chief
subjects you learn, and show the higher things which
I want you to gain when you are doing those lessons,
and you must want it too, or my wanting it
will not do much good. You do not learn Mathematics
simply that you may know so many books of Euclid, and
so many pages of Algebra; it is to give you power
over your minds, to enable you to follow a chain of
reasoning, to teach you to keep up continuous attention,
and not to jump at conclusions. I do not say you
cannot learn these things except by Mathematics; you
might do it by Logic, and I know many people who have
done it by mother-wit and the teaching of life; but
when a person is inclined to trust to his mother-wit,
and to neglect educational advantages because he can
do without them, I for one feel inclined to doubt
whether his share of mother-wit can be very large,
after all. The people I have known who are clever,
without having had the careful school-training you
enjoy, used all the advantages that came in their
way (though, when they were young, advantages were
fewer), and unless you do the same, you cannot expect
to be like them. Also, clever untrained people
often feel very much hampered by their want of training;
you see the cleverness, but they feel how much more
they could have done if they had been trained.
Therefore, do not allow yourselves to think “Euclid
is no good, because ‘Aunt So-and-so’ is
quite clever enough, and she never did it;”
depend upon it, that is not going the right road to
be like her. I feel quite sure that if this “not
impossible aunt” had had opportunities of learning
Euclid when she was young, she would have done it,
and very well too! Of course, if you mean to read
Mathematics from choice by-and-by, you will work hard
at the subject now, but I can quite understand that
those who are not going to do this, perhaps sometimes
feel, “What is the good? I shall never look
at a Euclid again after I leave school I
want to learn how to hold my own in after-life, I
want to be able to talk when I come out, I
want to be a sensible woman, whose opinion will be
asked by other people, I want to be clever
at house-work or cooking, or to be able to manage
a shop, I want to be strong enough and
wise enough to be a support and comfort to others, I
want to be a useful woman and not a mathematician!”
Well! that is just what I want you to be, but I am
quite sure that Mathematics will help you to this,
by making you accurate and reasonable and attentive,
without which qualities you will be no use and very
little comfort. If you work hard at Mathematics
while you are here, and gain these qualities, you have
my free leave to shut your Euclid for good on the
day you leave school, you will have learnt
his best lessons.
Is there any great mental good which
you can gain by the study of Languages, quite apart
from the advantage of being able to read and speak
when you go abroad? Yes; it enlarges your mind
to know the various ways in which things are expressed
by different nations. A person who knows no language
but his own is like a man who can only see with one
eye. It opens a whole new world of thought to
realize that other nations have other words.
Again, it makes you know your own
language. Translation gives you choice of words
and trains you to appreciate delicate shades of meaning;
this helps you to appreciate Poetry, for one of the
main beauties of great poets, such as Milton and Tennyson,
is their marvellous perception of shades of difference,
and the felicity with which they choose exactly the
right adjective!
It is said that barbarous tribes use
a very small vocabulary; I sometimes fear we may be
going back to a savage state, when I think of the
vocabulary of a modern schoolgirl, and see how much
ground is covered over with these two narrow words,
“awfully” and “jolly.”
Hannah More complained, in her day, of the indiscriminate
use of the word “nice.” “Formerly,”
she says, “a person was ‘charming,’
or ‘accomplished,’ or ‘distinguished,’
or ‘well-bred,’ or ‘talented,’
etc., and each word had its own shade of meaning;
now, every one is ‘nice,’ which saves much
thought.” “Nice” held its position,
for we find Miss Austen making Henry Tilney laugh
at the same misuse of the word. “Awfully”
and “jolly” seem to perform the same kind
office for us which “nice” did for our
grandmothers, they “save us much thought,”
and are used with a large disregard of their inappropriateness;
I have even been told by a girl that the Christian
Year was “such an awfully jolly book”!
Now, I am sure of this: you will find excessive
use of those two words always betokens an empty, or
rather an uncultivated, mind. I do not believe
in any exception; their votaries may have learning,
but they have not digested it, they are not thoughtful,
they are “young (or old) barbarians,” for
it is the unfailing mark of a cultivated mind, to
use the right word in the right place, and never “to
use a sixpenny word when a threepenny one will do.”
History should not be bare facts;
it illustrates and explains politics of our own day;
it teaches sympathy and large-mindedness, and the power
of admiring virtues which are not of our own type.
The Royalist learns to see the strength of Cromwell,
and the Roundhead to see the beauty of “the
White King.” It ought to make the world
bigger to us by helping us to realize other places
and other times. If we are to live quiet stay-at-home
lives afterwards, it is very important that we should
try not to be narrow and “provincial,”
and history and geography should help us in this matter.
Poetry in the same way helps to make
us imaginative, which is necessary, if we are to have
the Christian graces of tact and sympathy. It
is very important to learn the best poetry by heart;
it is dull perhaps at first, but new meanings unfold
themselves every time we say it. Mr. Ruskin says
we ought to read a few verses every day, as we should
do with the Bible, to keep our lives from getting
choked with commonplace dust, to remind us that the
Ideal exists. It certainly puts new beauty into
life if we know what poets have said about it, and
how they expressed themselves, and this might save
us from unworthy expression. I have heard an intelligent
schoolgirl, looking at a glorious sunset, say concisely,
“How awfully jolly!” I have heard a schoolboy
say, “How rum!” I believe they were both
touched, but I think they would have expressed themselves
differently and have got more pleasure out of it if
they had been taught to see, by having it reflected
from poets and painters, and had known more of “the
best that has been thought and said.”
There was so much I wanted to say
that it is difficult to stop. I have given only
general ideas, but bear in mind as the main
point of what I have said that I want you
to educate yourselves, to get ready for life, and
to use your lessons here to bring out those qualities
which you will want afterwards in everyday life.
Now, how will such general lessons help you in after-life?
First, I want them to help you to
be interested in the things you will meet with in
books and newspapers and conversation; you will not
hear much about some lessons, but you will about these
things they are things that it “becomes
a young woman to know.”
Then, too, I want you to leave school
with introductions to all sorts of nice people in
books; you will find it do you as much good as social
introductions. Schoolgirls are often “out
of it” for a time, when they go home, because
they had only “lesson-book” interests;
I should like to begin outside interests with you.
Also, this kind of general interest
makes the world seem bigger and more interesting;
we get an idea of how many delightful things there
are in it, and so our pleasures are increased, which
is always a great advantage. Happiness is a duty,
and sensible interests are a wonderful help to it.
Touching on many interests shows us
our ignorance. I have known schoolgirls, who
were kept to their lessons, Algebra and Latin and periods
of History, and who thought they knew a good deal,
because they measured by a schoolroom standard.
When they came in contact with the number of things
that cultivated people of society care for and appreciate,
they learnt a good deal of humility. Certainly
the more I read on general subjects the more I feel
my own ignorance, and I think it would be very odd
if it did not have the same effect on you.
The next reason for this sort of lesson,
and one of the best, is that it ought to raise our
taste. It is not enough to like or dislike a book:
we ought to train ourselves to like the best books.
We do not think ourselves born judges in music or
art; we submit to being trained before we think our
opinion worth giving. It would be just so with
a book, but you often hear girls quite sorry for the
author if they find a book dull; they feel he is to
blame! When I find an author dull, whom good critics
admire, I feel pretty sure that I am deficient on
that point, and I try to learn to see in him what
they do. I speak from experience; when I found
Wordsworth dull, I knew it was my own fault, and I
read and re-read him, and listened to those who could
appreciate him, and now I am rewarded by his being
a real part of the pleasures of my life. We need
not leave off liking the merely pretty writers, such
as Miss Procter and Longfellow. I love Longfellow
and admire Miss Procter, but I cared for them both
quite as much when I was seven, and an author who
can be in some measure appreciated at seven ought
to give way to deeper authors by-and-by. Like
Guinevere, it is our duty “to love the highest.”
The great good of cultivated homes is that we learn
to “put away childish things” and to admire
the better things which we hear talked of. Some
of you may not have this advantage; your people may
be too busy for talking about books and such things,
and some of you may be cut off from interesting talks
by having school lessons to prepare when you would
like to listen. Therefore, I should like you
to get some talk in school on such subjects to
spend some “Half-hours with the best Authors.”