Three gateways span the path of earthly
existence: one at the entrance which we call
the gate of birth; one at the close which we call the
gate of death, and one at the entrance to the wondrous
Land of the Teens, which we call the gate of manhood
or of womanhood. At each of these gates a wonderful
gift is presented to each individual. At the gate
of birth it is the gift of earthly life, at death
it is the gift of continued life, and at the gate
which opens into the Land of the Teens it is the gift
of creative life. You see that each gift is of
life.
The path of earthly life, beginning
at the gateway of birth, passes through the sunny
meadow-land of Childhood, and also through a strange,
mysterious land to which we have referred as the Land
of the Teens, before reaching the Heights of Maturity.
This Land of the Teens is peculiar in that the inhabitants
are neither children nor adults, and yet, with the
inexperience of children, they have many of the desires
and emotions of grown-up people. This constitutes
an element of great danger, while another source of
danger is the fact that adequate guidance is not always
given in this transition period, or, if proffered,
is proudly rejected by those who think that being in
their “teens” makes them wise above that
which is written.
When we visit foreign lands we are
grateful for guidance and direction, especially if
we are not acquainted with the language; so, if we
do not hire a guide we, at least, buy a guide-book.
It seems to me, then, that we ought not to rebel against
guides through the Land of the Teens, realizing that
one who has traveled through a country can point out
beauties and warn against dangers which would not be
recognized by the inexperienced traveler.
We can visit England, Italy, or Germany
many times, and at each journey can profit by former
experiences, but we pass through the Land of the Teens
but once, and the lessons we learn on that journey
we can only utilize for the benefit of others.
This is why many people on the Heights of Maturity
are anxious to light a beacon for those who are still
in their “teens.” They would gladly
help others to shun the by-paths where they have met
disaster, for they have learned the very solemn truth
that in youth one is determining what maturity shall
be. The seeds sown in the sunny meadow of Childhood
and in the broader fields of the Land of the Teens
are harvested in the uplands of Maturity, and the
harvest is always greater than the seed sown.
The petulance and pouting of the child hardens into
the gruffness, bad-temper, and moroseness of the man;
the idleness and shirking of the youth becomes the
shiftlessness and unreliability of the adult; the
boy’s neglect of duty and unwearied search for
pleasure may be harvested in dissipation and ruin
in mature life. It is, then, a very serious thing
to be passing through one’s “teens,”
and the wise youth will welcome any guide who will
show him a safe path. May I claim the privilege
of acting for a little time in that capacity?
The King of this land has made laws
for its government and wisdom, has builded paths wherein
one may walk in safety. The laws made by the King
are not harsh and cruel, but are beneficent, and he
denies no real good. He says to the traveler,
“You belong to me, and I am desirous of your
highest welfare; therefore, obey me and you shall be
rewarded; disobey me and you shall be punished.”
It needs some moral courage to bravely stay in the
path of Wisdom, for there are many allurements to leave
it; more particularly as the inexperience of the traveler
does not warn him of the dangers of following pleasures
that lead away from wisdom’s ways. The
guide worthy of trust must not fail to point out these
dangers; and the prudent youth will listen to the
warning voice and walk in Wisdom’s ways, for
“all her ways are pleasantness, and all her paths
are peace.”
We talk much about our personal liberty,
and assert that we have a right to live in Maine or
California, but we have not that much liberty in regard
to dwelling in the Land of the Teens. If we are
ever to reach the Heights of Maturity we must spend
ten years in the Teens. We cannot sell our domain,
nor give it away, and we cannot even hire some one
to cultivate it for us. This being the case,
it becomes important for us to study the soil and
how best to develop its advantages.
We find that the land has three divisions:
the Domain of the Body, the Field of Intellect, and
the Garden of the Heart, the same divisions
that exist in the Sunny Land of Childhood, and that
we have been cultivating ever since we were born.
These are the kingdoms which came to us with the gift
of life. We recognize that the gifts which come
to us at birth and death are of life for ourselves
alone, and we have had no thought during our childish
years except to develop our powers for our own advantage.
It may be we have not felt perfectly satisfied with
our lot in life, but we have felt that we were not
responsible for this. We did not choose to be
born in America instead of Asia, though we do not
rebel at this fact. We did not select to be white
instead of black. It is not our fault if we are
born of a family in which consumption is an inheritance;
and, on the other hand, we can claim no credit to
ourselves if we have inherited strong bodies with healthful
tendencies. It is our misfortune, and not our
fault, if we are not quite perfectly poised by nature;
it is our good fortune, not our foresight, if we have
genius instead of mediocrity. The gifts that come
to us through inheritance are ours without blame or
credit to us but they bring with them the responsibility
of their use. We are responsible for maintaining
or increasing our dower of health by obedience to physical
laws; responsible for the cultivation of our intellects,
for the development of inherited virtues, and the
annihilation of inherited vices.
If you study your characteristics
and talents you find that they repeat those of your
ancestry. Your eyes, hair, mouth, chin, your stature,
figure, complexion, your talents, capabilities, tendencies,
your likes and dislikes, your faults as well as your
virtues are repetitions of those who preceded you
in this living network of existence of which you form
a part. If you are not like father or mother you
may be like grandfather or great-grandmother.
If you do not find yourself repeating the characteristics
or personality of any one ancestor, you may find yourself
a composite photograph of several. And even if
you cannot trace in yourself a likeness to any family
representative, you may still be assured that from
some of them your traits have come to you. You
have only to recall the complexity of your sources
of inheritance and then remember how many words can
be spelled from the twenty-six letters of the alphabet
to see that you can hardly measure the peculiar forces
of mind and body that may come to you though that
power of transmission which we call heredity.
It may occur to you to ask why, if
we are not responsible for our inheritances, is it
needful to give them any particular thought? There
are two reasons why we should consider the good and
bad characteristics which may be ours through inheritance.
In the first place, heredity is not fatality, and
we are not absolutely obliged to follow the paths
which our ancestors marked out for us, and in the second
place, we can, by understanding our own characters,
mark out better paths for our posterity. We are
not only receivers of life, but we may be also givers
of life, and this is the gift that comes to you at
the entrance to the Land of the Teens. Can you
imagine a more important period in the life of an
individual than that point where is intrusted to him
the physical powers which make him the arbiter of
the destiny of those who come after him?
The gift of possible life for others
is even more marvelous than that of actual life for
one’s self and brings with it greater responsibility.
It is accompanied with marked physical changes.
You have observed them in yourself, though you perhaps
have not understood them. Up to this time you
have been but a child, and all your physical forces
have been occupied in keeping you alive and growing.
But you are now to become a man, with powers that
will unite you to the race; powers that will give
you the ability to form a new link in the living chain
that now ends with you. You have noticed the
rapid unfolding of your bodily powers; you have become
conscious of new and strange emotions; you have, it
may be, found yourself becoming irritable and have
felt bewildered with the new aspects of life and have
wondered what it all means. It may be you have
felt as did one boy who said to his mother, to whom
he confided all his problems of life: “Mamma,
I want to kick and cry, and I don’t know why.”
The mother knew. She understood the strange unfolding
that was going on in his physical organism, and she
kindly explained it to him, telling him that he must
have patience with himself, and govern himself by
his judgment and not allow himself to be carried away
by impulse, assuring him that God would hold him as
responsible for purity of character as He would the
dear sister of whom they all felt so careful.
He should reverence his manhood, even as he expected
her to reverence her womanhood. This is necessary,
not only for the good of each individual, but also
for the eternal interest of future generations.
This entrance into the Land of the
Teens is a serious, even a dangerous period, for if
you have not had right instruction you may be led,
or fall into habits of wrong doing or thinking.
If you are rightly taught you will begin to have an
added reverence for yourselves in that God is dignifying
you with new powers that will bring you more nearly
into co-partnership with himself. These powers,
the most sacred of all that have come to you, need
years for development, and should be guarded by pure
thoughts and kept for their holy office of promoting
the earthly usefulness and eternal blessedness of
those who hereafter will owe both earthly and immortal
life to you.
I have said that we are not responsible
for the dower of virtues or of vices which are ours
by inheritance, but we are responsible for the inheritances
of our children, and this is a most solemn thought.
Do you not begin to see that we cannot value ourselves
too highly if we have the right idea of what our real
worth is? We can scarcely overestimate the results
of our own deeds. We may think it does not matter
if we do not always tell the exact truth; if at some
times we equivocate and at others exaggerate, but
when we remember that truth is the foundation of character,
and realize that by our little equivocations or exaggerations
we may be weakening the foundations of many who are
from us to receive their talents and tendencies, we
begin to see that the matter is a very serious one.
I am sometimes told that young people will not be
influenced by a consideration for the welfare of unborn
generations whose existence is very problematical
in their thought; but my observation is that young
folks are much more sensible than we give them credit
for being. More than one young man has said to
me: “I was never taught that my conduct
and thought would impress themselves upon my children,
but now that I see that such is the case, I am sure
that I will hereafter be more careful of my life than
I ever have been.”
This field of investigation is a broad
one, and even if you never have an opportunity to
study the subject scientifically you can still be of
incalculable benefit to humanity by ever remembering
that you are living for an earthly, as well as for
a heavenly immortality. The young people who
to-day are in the Land of the Teens are they who are
determining the characteristics of the men and women
of the Twentieth Century, creating the standards of
thought and action, the methods of business, the level
of morals, in fact the whole status of society in the
world of a hundred years to come.
It is a very wonderful fact that God
has so created us that the result of our deeds is
not limited to our own lives, but makes its impress
upon those who are to come after us. We are not
separate units, but are links in a living chain of
endless transmission. This fact makes our lives
of far greater consequence than if, in their results,
they were limited to ourselves. If we are anxious
concerning the future of our country, we may take
to heart the thought that it will be what we ourselves
have made it. The Bible expresses the same idea
in many ways. “Whatsoever a man soweth,
that shall he also reap,” does not mean merely
that his own future will be influenced by his conduct,
but that his future in his children will be a record
which he himself has made.
Men often make their wills and bequeath
to their children their gold or houses and lands,
but sometimes against their wills they bequeath to
their children a bodily dwelling of inferior material,
and so poor in construction that it very soon falls
into decay through disease, or in very early life
becomes a tottering ruin. It would seem rather
amusing to us if one should sit down and write his
will and say: “I bequeath to my daughter
Mary my yellow, blotched and pimpled complexion, resulting
from my own bad habits of life. I bequeath to
my son John, the effects of my habits of dissipation
in my youth, with a like love for alcoholic liquors
and tobacco. I bequeath to my son Harry my petulant,
irritable disposition, and the rheumatic gout which
I have brought upon myself by disobedience to physical
law; and to my daughter Elizabeth, my trembling nerves
and weak moral nature.” But this is, in
truth, what many parents do, and the children find
it a sad, instead of an amusing fact.
On the other hand, if one has led
a life of uprightness and morality, and has obeyed
physical law, his children will inherit his physical
vigor, and his moral stamina. It becomes of exceeding
great importance that these facts should be known
to the young, in order that they may endeavor to overcome
their own weaknesses, and strengthen their own good
qualities for the sake of future generations.
This heredity, the transmission of
the qualities of the parent to the child, is found
among plants and animals as well as in the human race.
The seed of a plant produces another plant of the same
kind, and the farmer knows when he sows wheat, that
his harvest will be wheat, and he should know just
as certainly that if he “sows wild oats”
in his youth he may expect “wild oats”
in his children. The character of the food we
eat, the air we breathe, the occupations we follow,
the habits we create, are the forces which shape not
only our own destiny, but create the tendencies of
our children.
With these thoughts in mind, the question
of the use of narcotics becomes one of great importance.
There are few, if any, tobacco users who are anxious
that their boys should early begin the use of the weed.
But they do not realize the fact that in their own
use of it they may have diminished the vital force
of these boys, transmitting a tendency to disease,
or perhaps an appetite for the tobacco itself, and
not only will the boys feel the effects, but the girls
as well. As the thought of men is turned in this
direction, proofs are accumulating of the evil results
to the children of tobacco-using parents. A prominent
physician says: “I have never known an
habitual tobacco user whose children did not have
deranged nerves, and sometimes weak minds. Shattered
nervous systems, for generations to come, may be the
result of this indulgence. The children of tobacco-using
parents frequently die with infantile paralysis.
I have known two cases in which the crying of the baby
could not be stopped until the tobacco-pipe was placed
between its lips.” Dr. Pidduck asserts
that in no instance is the sin of the father more
strikingly visited upon his children than the sin of
tobacco using. “The enervation, the hypochondriasis,
the hysteria, the insanity, the dwarfish deformities,
the consumption, the suffering lives, and early deaths
of the children of inveterate smokers bear ample testimony
to the feebleness and unsoundness of the constitution
transmitted by this pernicious habit.”
The effect of alcohol upon the child
is equally marked, and from all sides comes the testimony
that the degenerations do not stop with the individual,
but pass on to succeeding generations. Sometimes
the influence is seen in the stunting of the growth,
both mentally and physically. Dr. Langden Downe
reports several cases of this sort where the children
had lived to be twenty-two years old and still remained
infants, symmetrical in form, just able to stand beside
a chair, utter a few monosyllabic sounds, and to be
amused with toys. Dr. F. R. Lees, referring to
the injury inflicted upon the liver by alcohol, says:
“And recollect, whatever injury you inflict
upon this organ, to your posterity the curse descends,
and as is the father, so are the children.”
Dr. Kerr asserts that the effects of injury to the
mind and body may not always show themselves in the
drinker himself, yet it is doubtful if his children
ever entirely escape the effects in one form or another.
These effects may be manifest in insanity, or in a
tendency to diseases of the stomach, liver, bowels,
lungs, or other organs; or with a like love for alcoholic
stimulants. Not only may the child be weak in
body but also in intellect. It is the statement
of a score of observant physicians that the children
of intemperate parents are apt to be feeble in body
and weak in mind.
Another very striking thought in this
connection is that while the physical effects may
not show in the individual himself, nor in his children,
they may be manifest in the deterioration of his grandchildren
and great-grandchildren. A prominent temperance
advocate who was laid up with rheumatic gout, which
is apt to be the result of alcoholic indulgence, replied
to a friend who wondered that he, a drinker of cold
water, should suffer with this disease, “Yes,
my ancestors drank the liquor and I foot the bills.”
In 1834 the Parliament of the British House of Commons
made a report of intemperance in which they stated
that the evils of alcoholism “are cumulative
in the amount of injury they inflict, as intemperate
parents, according to high medical testimony, give
a taint to their offspring before birth, and the poisonous
stream of spirits is conveyed through the milk of
the mother to the infant at the breast; so that the
fountain of life, through which nature supplies that
pure and healthy nutriment of infancy, is poisoned
at its very source, and a diseased and vitiated appetite
is thus created, which grows with its growth, and
strengthens with its increasing weakness and decay.”
A tendency to commit suicide seems
to be a marked bequest of an inebriate parent to his
children, and it is well to state that in the opinion
of medical men who are dealing with all forms of inebriety,
the evils resulting to the children may be transmitted
by parents who have never been noted for drunkenness.
Continual moderate drinking keeps the body so constantly
under the influence of alcohol that a crowd of nervous
difficulties and disorders may be transmitted even
more surely than from the parent who has occasional
sprees with long intervals of sobriety between.
It is not only through the drinking father that injury
is done to the children, but the mother may have a
vitiated inheritance from her father and transmit
it to her children.
When we recall the fact that one hundred
thousand men fall into drunkard’s graves every
year, we are appalled at the thought of that vast
army marching on to death and destruction. As
we listen, we can, in fancy, almost hear the tramp,
tramp of that “mighty host advancing, Satan
leading on.” In the front rank comes the
one hundred thousand men who shall fall into drunkard’s
graves this year, and behind them the one hundred
thousand men who are to fall next year. They come
with sound of revelry and song, and close beside them
press a crowd of weeping wives and mothers and little
children, starved, crippled, and murdered, who are
to be fellow victims with the drunkard. Not very
far back from the front row come one hundred thousand
young men in the very prime of young, vigorous life,
just beginning to drink their first glass of wine
or beer, with no intention of ever standing in that
front row, yet having started on the way. Back
of them, one hundred little school boys who think
it manly to ape the follies of their predecessors.
Back of them, one hundred thousand little toddlers
whose feet stagger in their innocent helplessness.
Back of them, one hundred thousand mothers with babies
in their arms. Oh, how sweetly those baby eyes
look up into the loving eyes that are brooding over
them. Is it possible those baby brows will ever
lie low in the gutter, those sweet lips be stained
by oath or glass; those crumpled rose-leaf fingers
ever strike the murderous blow incited by alcohol?
It must be, if that front rank of one hundred thousand
drunkards is to be recruited, for the drunkards of
the future are to-day babies in their mother’s
arms. Do you who read these words intend to join
this vast army of prospective drunkards, or will you
belong to the cold-water army that is marching on accompanied
by health, vigor, industry, prosperity, success and
long life?
We must not be so interested in the
inheritance of evil qualities as to forget the transmission
of good. We read in Exodus, twentieth chapter,
that the sins of the fathers are to be visited upon
the children unto the third and fourth generations
of them that hate the Lord, but mercy will be shown
to thousands of generations of them that love
Him and keep his commandments. As we have seen
the sins of the fathers are visited upon the children
in transmission of diseased bodies, perverted moral
natures and weakened wills, and realize that the promise
is being fulfilled in the visitation of the sins of
the fathers upon the children, let us see if the other
promise is being fulfilled also, in the mercy shown
to thousands of them that love the Lord and keep His
commandments.
An English specialist in children’s
diseases has carefully noted the difference between
twelve families of drinkers and twelve families of
sober parents during a period of twelve years.
If it were not a fact that health,
purity, integrity, intellect and virtue were being
transmitted to a far greater extent than sin and vice,
there would be little good in the world, but the transmission
of these good qualities is so extended, so like the
air and the sunshine and the water, a common thing,
that we almost forget to recognize it. When we
turn our thoughts to the investigation of this phase
of the subject, we find that vigorous parents have
healthful children, that powers of intellect are transmitted,
and that honesty and uprightness in the father warrants
us in expecting the same in the son. We recognize
the transmission of powers of intellect in the fact
that where the parents have a peculiar talent, we
very generally find the same talent in their children.
We are acquainted with musical families, mathematical
families, artistic families, and in the study of renowned
people of the world we find evidences of this transmission
of intellect. We also learn that the effects
of education are transmissible, and if the parents
are educated along a certain line the children receive
education along that line much more readily.
This fact becomes a wonderful incentive to us to build
up all that is best in our own natures in order that
through us the world may receive an impetus towards
higher and better things.
Sometimes when your faults and defects
press upon you with tremendous force and you find
it so very hard to overcome them, you may be tempted
to lay the blame on your ancestry who gave you such
a dower, who by their lives handicapped you in your
life-struggle. You may feel inclined to say with
some writer, to me unknown, who says:
HEREDITY.
“Your strictures are
unmerited,
Our follies are
inherited,
Directly from our gran-pas
they all came;
Our defects have
been transmitted,
And we should be acquitted
Of all responsibility
and blame.
We are not depraved beginners,
But hereditary
sinners,
For our fathers never acted
as they should;
’Tis the
folly of our gran-pas
That continually hampers
What a pity that
our gran-pas weren’t good!
Yes, we’d all be reverend
senators,
If our depraved
progenitors
Had all been prudent, studious
and wise;
But they were
quite terrestial,
Or we would be celestial,
Yes, we’d
all be proper tenants for the skies.
If we’re not all blameless
sages,
And beacons to
the ages,
And fit for principalities
and powers;
If we do not guide
and man it,
And engineer the planet,
’Tis the
folly of our forefathers not ours.”
But the lesson of these lines is not
that you should lie back in inaction, making no effort
to overcome your defects because they are inheritances.
There is for you a wiser lesson in the theme than that.
When Marshall Ney was taunted with the fact that the
Imperial nobility had no pedigree he proudly replied,
“We are ancestors.”
There is a grand thought for you.
If your ancestors did not do the best for you, will
you not profit by your knowledge of this fact and do
the best for those who shall look back to you as their
ancestor? Supposing that your parents in their
youth had said: “I will take care of my
health so that my children may be born with vigorous
bodies; I will make good use of my intellect so that
my children will inherit an added capacity for acquiring
knowledge; I will obey all laws of morality so that
my children will by inheritance tend toward virtue;”
and supposing that you to-day, with healthful bodies,
keen intellects and upward tending moral natures,
were reaping the reward of their forethought, would
you not bless them for it?
You have no right to remain listless
and discouraged because of your inheritances, whatever
they may be. Hear the inspiriting words of Ella
Wheeler Wilcox:
There is no thing you cannot
overcome.
Say not thy evil instinct
is inherited;
Or that some trait inborn,
makes thy whole life forlorn,
And calls for punishment that
is not merited.
Back of thy parents and grandparents
lies,
The great Eternal Will; that,
too, is thine
Inheritance strong,
beautiful, divine;
Sure lever of success for
one who tries.
Pry up thy fault with this
great lever will;
However deeply bedded in propensity;
However firmly set, I tell
thee firmer yet
Is that great power that comes
from truth’s immensity.
There is no noble height thou
canst not climb;
All triumphs may be thine
in time’s futurity,
If whatsoe’er thy fault,
thou dost not faint or halt,
But lean upon the staff of
God’s security.
Earth has no claim the soul
can not contest.
Know thyself part of the supernal
source,
And naught can stand before
thy spirit’s force
The soul’s divine inheritance
is best.
The youth of to-day have in their
own hands the molding of the future, not only of themselves,
but of the nation, by the every day habits of their
lives. By their thoughts and aspirations, by the
moral tendencies which they are cultivating in themselves,
they are determining what shall be the characteristics
of the nation in a hundred years to come. Shall
this be, in a hundred years, a nation of drunkards?
The young people of to-day are deciding that question.
Shall it be a nation of invalids? This, also,
the young people are deciding. Shall it be a
nation filled with greed of gain, with a low standard
of morals, with dishonest methods in business, or
shall it be a nation wherein vigorous health is the
rule, unflinching courage, absolute integrity and pure
morality shall everywhere reign? What the young
people of to-day are making of themselves physically,
mentally and morally, is deciding what shall be the
future of the country.