WHAT A YOUNG WOMAN OUGHT TO KNOW.
CHAPTER I.
WHAT ARE YOU WORTH?
MY DAUGHTER DEAR:
When I see you with your young girl
friends, when I look into your bright faces and listen
to your merry laughter and your girlish chatter, I
wonder if any one of you understands how much you are
worth. Now you may say, “I haven’t
any money in the bank, I have no houses or land, I
am worth nothing,” but that would only be detailing
what you possess. It is not what you possess but
what you are that determines what you are worth.
One may possess much wealth and be worth very little.
I was reading the other day that the
first great lesson for a young man to learn,
the first fact to realize, is that he is of some importance;
that upon his wisdom, energy and faithfulness all else
depends, and that the world cannot get along without
him. Now if this is true of young men, I do not
see why it is not equally true of young women.
It is not after you have grown old
that you will be of value to the world; it is now,
in your young days, while you are laying the foundation
of your character, that you are of great importance.
We cannot say that the foundation is of no importance
until the building is erected, for upon the right
placing of the foundation depends the firmness and
stability of the superstructure. Dr. Conwell,
in his little book, “Manhood’s Morning,”
estimates that there are twelve million young men
in the United States between fourteen and twenty-eight
years of age; that these twelve million young men
represent latent physical force enough to dig the iron
ore from the mines, manufacture it into wire, lay
the foundation and construct completely the great
Brooklyn Bridge in three hours; that they represent
force enough, if rightly utilized, to dig the clay
from the earth, manufacture the bricks and construct
the great Chinese Wall in five days. If each
one were to build himself a house twenty-five feet
wide, these houses would line both sides of eight streets
reaching across the continent from the Atlantic to
the Pacific. For each one to be sick one day
is equal to thirty thousand being sick an entire year.
Now, if there are twelve million young
men in the United States, we may estimate that there
are an equal number of young women. Although
we cannot calculate accurately the amount of physical
force represented by these young women, there are
some things we can tell. We know that for each
one of these young women to be sick one day means
thirty thousand sick one year. Just imagine the
loss to the country, and the gain to posterity if
it can be prevented!
Rome endeavored to create good soldiery,
but was not able to produce strength and courage through
physical culture of the men alone. Not until
she began the physical education of the women, the
young women, was she able to insure to the nation
a race of strong, hardy, vigorous soldiery. So
the health of the young women of to-day is of great
importance to the nation, for upon their vigor and
soundness of body depend to a very great extent the
health and capacity of future generations. We
are told that in the State of Massachusetts, in one
year, there were lost twenty-eight thousand five hundred
(28,500) years of time through the illness of working-people
by preventable diseases. Dr. Buck, in his “Hygiene,”
tells us that one hundred thousand persons die every
year through preventable diseases, that one hundred
and fifty thousand are constantly sick through preventable
diseases, and that the loss to the nation, through
the illness of working-people by diseases that might
have been prevented, is more than a hundred million
dollars a year. So we can see that each individual
has a pecuniary value to the nation. You are worth
just as much to the nation as you can earn. If
you earn a dollar a day, you are not only worth a
dollar a day to yourself and to your personal employer,
but you are worth a dollar a day to the nation; and
if, through illness, you are laid aside for one day,
the nation, as well as yourself, is pecuniarily the
loser.
Young women could not build the houses
that would line eight streets from New York to San
Francisco, but, rightly educated, they could convert
each one of these houses into a home, and to found
a home and conduct it properly is to help the world.
It is so easy to measure what is done with physical
strength. We can see what men are doing when
they build railroads, construct immense bridges and
towering buildings, but it is more difficult to measure
what is done through intellectual and spiritual forces;
and woman’s work in the world is not so much
the using of strength as it is the using of those finer
forces which go to build up men and women. With
this thought in your mind, can you answer the question,
How much are you worth? How much are you worth
to yourself? How much are you worth in your home?
How much money would your parents be willing to accept
in place of yourself? How much are you worth
to the community in which you live? How much
are you worth to the state, the nation, the human race?
You can recognize your value in the
home when you remember how much you are the center
of all that goes on there, how much your interest
is consulted in everything that is done by father and
mother. You can realize your value to the state
when you realize how much money is spent for the education
of young people, how cultured men and women give the
best of their lives to your instruction. You cannot
measure your value to the human race until you begin
to think that the young people of to-day are creating
the condition of the world in fifty or one hundred
years to come; that you, through your physical health,
or lack of it, are to become a source of strength
or weakness in future years, if you are a mother.
It is all right that young women should think of marriage
and motherhood, provided they think of it in the right
way.
I want you to reverence yourself,
to realize your own importance, to feel that you are
a necessity to God’s perfect plan. When
we are young and feel that we are of no account in
the world, it is difficult to realize that God’s
complete plan cannot be carried out without us.
The smallest, tiniest rivet or bolt may be of such
great importance in the construction of an engine
that its loss means the incapacity of that piece of
machinery to do its work. As God has placed you
in the world, He has placed you here to do a specific
work for Him and for humanity, and your failure to
do that work means the failure of His complete and
perfect plan. Now can you begin to see how much
you are worth? And can you begin to realize that
in the conduct of your life as a young woman you are
a factor of immense importance to the great problem
of the evolution of the human race? In the light
of these thoughts I would like to have you ask yourself
this question every day, How much am I worth?
CHAPTER II.
CARE OF BODY.
The question “How much are you
worth?” is not answered by discussing your bodily
conditions, for your body is not yourself. It
is your dwelling, but not you. It, however, expresses
you.
A man builds a house, and through
it expresses himself. The external appearance
causes the observer to form an opinion of him, and
each apartment bears the impress of his individuality.
To look at the house and then to walk through it will
tell you much of the man. The outside will tell
you whether he is neat, orderly and artistic, or whether
he cares nothing for the elements of beauty and neatness.
If you go into his parlor, you can judge whether he
cares most for show or for comfort. His library
will reveal to you the character of his mind, and
the dining-room will indicate by its furnishings and
its viands whether he loves the pleasures of sense
more than health of body. You do not need to
see the man to have a pretty clear idea of him.
So the body is our house, and our
individuality permeates every part of it. Those
who look at our bodily dwelling can gain a very good
idea of what we are. The external appearance will
indicate to a great extent our character. We
glance at one man and say, “He is gross, sensual,
cruel, domineering;” at another and say, “He
is intellectual, spiritual, fine-grained, benevolent.”
So we judge of entire strangers, and usually find
the character largely corresponds to our judgment,
if, later, we come to know the person.
The anatomist and microscopist who
penetrates into the secrets of his bodily house after
the inhabitant has moved out can tell much of his
habits, his thoughts, his capacities and powers by
the traces of himself which he has left on the insensate
walls of his dwelling. The care of the body,
then, adds to our value, because it gives us a better
instrument, a better medium of expression.
The old saying, “A workman is
known by his tools,” is equally true of the
body. The carpenter who cares for his saws, chisels
and planes, who keeps them sharp and free from rust,
will be able to do better work than the one who carelessly
allows them to become nicked, broken, handleless or
rusted. The finer the work which one does, the
greater the care he must take of the instruments with
which he works. A jack-knife will do to whittle
a pine stick, but the carver of intricate designs
must have his various sharp tools with which to make
the delicate lines and tracings.
When we speak of health and physical
conditions in discussing the question of your value,
we are discussing the instrument upon whose integrity
depends your ability to demonstrate your value.
Many young people think it nonsense
to pay attention to the preservation of health.
I have heard them say, “O, I don’t want
to be so fussy! It will do for old folks to be
coddling themselves, but I want a good time.
I’d rather die ten years sooner and have some
fun while I do live.”
I wonder what these same young people
would think if they should hear a workman say, “Well,
I have here a fine kit of tools; I am assured that
if they are destroyed they will never be replaced;
but now, while I am learning my trade, I don’t
want to be ‘so fussy’ about keeping them
in order. It will do for ‘boss workmen’
to take care of everything so constantly, but now
I want to break stones with these delicate hammers,
to cut nails with these razor-bladed knives, to crack
nuts with these slender pincers. By and by, when
I am older, I’ll use them as they should be
used, but I think it’s all nonsense to be so
careful now.” If in later years you should
hear him complain that he had nothing to work with,
would you feel like pitying him?
No “kit of tools” was
ever so complete as is the bodily instrument given
to each one of us. Its mechanism has been the
inspiration of inventors; it combines all forms of
mechanical devices; its delicacy, intricacy, completeness
and adaptability challenge the admiration of the philosopher,
the engineer, the master mechanic.
I cannot here tell you of all its
wonders, but I would like to give you such an exalted
idea of its importance that you would look upon it
with reverence and take a justifiable pride in keeping
it in perfect working order. I would like to
make you feel your personal responsibility in regard
to its condition.
You know that in the ages past men
believed the body to be the individual, and they endeavored
through care of the body to build up mental as well
as physical power. In those days the acrobat and
the sage were found working side by side in the gymnasium,
the one to gain physical strength, the other to increase
his mental ability, and each profited as he desired.
When men made the discovery that the
body is not the individual, but merely his dwelling
and instrument of expression, they came to feel less
regard for it, and lost their interest in its care
and culture. Even the early Christians, forgetting
what Paul said about the body as a temple, began to
call it vile, and thought it an evidence of great
piety to treat it with contempt. I have read of
one religious sect who believed that the Creator of
the body could not have been the Creator of the soul,
and held that the chief object of God’s government
was to deliver the captive souls of men from their
bodily prisons.
When men began to understand that
the thinking principle was the real self and the body
merely a material encasement, it was no wonder that
they valued the body less and held mind as of great
value. They failed to see that mind without a
material organ of expression is, in this world, of
no account. A great pianist with no piano could
not make music, and he would be considered a strange
being if he did not care for his instrument most scrupulously.
Think of a Rubinstein voluntarily breaking the piano
strings or smashing the keys, while he made discordant
poundings, and excusing himself by saying that it was
“fussy” to take care of a piano until it
was old. You cannot imagine such a thing.
We can all appreciate the value of a man-made instrument
or machine; but the God-created body, a combination
of machines and instruments of marvelous power and
delicacy, we neglect or treat with absolute, positive
injury, and excuse ourselves on the ground that when
it is old we will treat it more kindly.
Melville says it is a sin to die,
ignoring what is to be done with the body. “That
body,” he says, “has been redeemed, that
body has been appointed to a glorious condition.”
It seems to me we prize the body far
more after its use for us is at an end than while
it is ours to use. We do not neglect the dead;
we dress them in beautiful garments, we adorn them
with flowers, we follow them to the grave with religious
ceremonies, we build costly monuments to place over
their graves, and then we go to weep over their last
resting-place.
After all, is it not life that we
should value? Life here and hereafter, not death,
is the real thing for which we should prepare, and
earthly life without a sound body is not life full
and complete. Life is joy, vigor, elasticity,
freedom from pain or illness, enjoyment of all innocent
pleasures in maturity as well as in youth. We
have no right to look forward to decrepitude, to failure
in zest of living, to lessening of real enjoyment
because of coming years. Life should increase
in beauty and usefulness, in ability and joyousness,
as the years bring us a wider experience, and this
will be the case if we in youth have been wise enough
to lay the foundation of health by a wise, thoughtful,
prudent care of our bodies and our minds.
CHAPTER III.
FOOD.
If I can arouse in your mind a most
earnest desire to be strong and vigorous, I shall
not find it necessary to give you very minute directions,
for if you have the ambition you will find the way.
If I could excite in you an intense longing to visit
Paris, I should know that you would begin to seek
for the way of getting there. If I could create
in you an earnest aspiration to be well and physically
strong, I should know that you would seek for the
books that would give you the necessary instruction.
It will not be needful to talk of rules and restrictions
if I can make you feel the glory of having a sound
body.
If you were starting on a journey,
I should not need to warn you of by-paths, of traps,
or of dangers if I could be assured that your eye
was fixed upon your ultimate destination. So it
is in the matter of health; and yet there are some
general rules or principles which I might lay down
for your consideration.
In regard to the matter of diet.
I do not want you to be hampered by “don’ts”
and restrictions as to what you shall eat, but I do
want you to eat with the thought in view that eating
is to be governed by judgment and not by the pleasures
of sense. Why do we eat? Not merely because
the food tastes good. There is a better reason.
We eat to live. We know that the food which we
take into our bodies is digested, elaborated and assimilated that
is, made over into ourselves and unless
this digestion, elaboration and assimilation is properly
conducted, we shall not be fully and completely nourished.
Our body is made up of cells; the food which we eat
is transformed into cell structure, and this new cell-material
takes the place of the worn-out cells. Our reason
would tell us that if too little material is furnished,
cells will not be properly repaired and ill-health
will follow. Our reason would tell us in the
same way that if too much material is furnished, the
machine will be clogged and the work will not be properly
done. We will also understand at once that an
irregular supply of new material would interfere with
the elaboration of that which is undergoing the process
of digestion and assimilation. We can see, too,
that unless the various tissues receive the material
which they can transform into themselves, they will
not be fully repaired. If material is taken into
the system which supplies no tissue with what it needs,
this material becomes a source of irritation.
These general rules borne in mind
are sufficient to guide us into a wiser life than
if we do not understand them; and, understanding these
general principles, we will be anxious to study the
particular rules which govern digestion and assimilation.
I have known young women in college
to be so absolutely ignorant or indifferent to physiological
law as to be injuring themselves constantly by disobedience
of such laws. I knew one girl, supposed to be
a very fine student, and to have brought on “fits”
by overstudy, while away at school. I had an
opportunity to investigate the case, and I discovered
that she had been eating from morning till night.
She carried nuts, and candy, and apples in her pocket,
had pickles and cake in her room, and studied and
munched until it was no doubt a disturbed digestion,
rather than an overused brain, that caused the “fits.”
If you will eat regularly of plain
meat, vegetables, fruits, cereals, milk and eggs,
plainly prepared, and avoid rich pastries, cakes,
puddings, pickles and sweetmeats, you will have compassed
the round of healthful diet, and need give yourself
very little anxiety in regard to anything more.
I should like to emphasize the fact, however, that
tea and coffee are not foods. They are irritants,
stimulants, nerve-poisons. They bring nothing
to the system to build it up. They satisfy the
sense of hunger without having contributed to the
nourishment of the body. If you are wise you will
avoid them. You will not create for yourself
any false necessities. You will avoid the use
of alcohol in all forms, whether wine, ales, beer
or cider, as well as in the stronger forms, because
you will know that these products interfere with digestion.
Dr. Kellogg, of Battle Creek, has made an experiment
which proved that sherry to the amount of 1 per cent.
of the contents of the stomach retarded digestion nearly
4 per cent.
He calculates that 1 per cent. of
sherry would be equal to two tenths of 1 per cent.
of alcohol, and it would be necessary to take less
than an ordinary tablespoonful of the wine to obtain
this percentage.
When 3 per cent. of claret was used
(equivalent to three-tenths of 1 per cent. of alcohol),
there was marked diminution in digestive activity.
This certainly proves that even the so-called light
wines are injurious, and certainly the drinks that
contain a large per cent. of alcohol must be that
much more hurtful.
If you use good judgment both as to
the quality and quantity of foods, you need then give
the matter very little thought. People sometimes
make themselves dyspeptics by worrying about what they
eat. Eat what is set before you, making a judicious
choice both as to variety and quantity, and then determine
that your food shall digest.
When you live upon the higher plane
of thought, you will not be so much interested in
the question of food as regards gustatory pleasure.
You will understand that eating is a necessity, but
you will not be thinking about it; you will not be
desiring to please the sense of taste; you will see
that there are higher forms of sociability than mere
eating with friends, and you will not be so interested
in late suppers, and in various forms of sense gratification
because you enjoy more thoroughly the higher pleasures.
You will serve your friends with delicate food, simply
and daintily prepared, and seasoned with that wit
and wisdom which remain as a permanent mental pabulum.
You will make them feel that when you come to visit
them you come not to get something to eat, but to
enjoy them, to receive from them the inspiration which
they can give. We often treat our friends as if
we thought they came as beggars for physical food.
It is a much higher compliment to treat them as though
we thought they came to exchange thoughts with us,
to walk with us in the higher paths of living, and
that the physical food we give them is only incidental.
I was once entertained where a company of intelligent,
cultured people were assembled, and we did not see
the hostess from the time we entered the house until
supper was served. She sat at the table, worried
and anxious, and after the supper was over she did
not make her appearance until just as we were about
to leave. She did not pay us the high compliment
of giving us herself, but she bestowed upon us that
which a hired cook might have given.
You remember what Emerson says:
“I pray you, O excellent wife, cumber not yourself
and me to get a curiously rich dinner for this man
and woman who have just alighted at our gate.
These things, if they desire them, they can get for
a few shillings at any village inn; but rather let
that stranger see, if he will, in your looks, accents
and behavior, your heart and earnestness, your thought
and will, that which he cannot buy at any price in
any city, and which he may travel miles and dine sparely
and sleep hardly to behold.”
It would indeed be worth your while
to study food scientifically, to know how to prepare
dainty and tempting dishes wholesomely, and then to
serve your guests with such beauty of manner, such
graciousness of courtesy, that they will remember
the meal they have taken with you as idyllic in its
simplicity, beauty and helpfulness.
CHAPTER IV.
SLEEP.
Shakespeare writes of “Sleep
that knits up the ravelled sleeve of care.”
The metaphor is striking, but not accurate. To
knit up that which is ravelled implies using the old
material in repairing the damage, but that is not
the way in which the body is rebuilt. The old
material is thrown out and new material put in its
place, and that largely takes place during sleep.
We have read of brownies who came at night and swept
and churned and baked while the housewife slept.
So, in our bodily dwelling, the vital forces are our
brownies, and they can work more uninterruptedly while
we are asleep than when we are calling on them to
move us from place to place, or to aid us in various
activities.
Much of life’s processes must
remain a mystery to us, but certain things we have
learned, and one is that perfect health cannot be
maintained, strong nerves cannot be constructed, nor
a clear brain be built without plenty of sleep.
The baby sleeps almost continually because he is building
so much new structure. The growing child needs
more sleep than the adult; but even after reaching
maturity sleep cannot be materially lessened without
injury to the whole organization.
We appreciate the need of food.
We are often very needlessly alarmed for fear that
we shall starve from one meal to the next, but few
of us realize that food cannot be assimilated, built
into tissue, without some hours in which the vital
forces can devote themselves wholly to the work of
assimilation. During the working hours of the
day we are expending force. The brain is using
it in thought, the muscles are calling for force in
various activities, the emotions are expending energy,
and each of these activities is creating changes in
the cells of the body. We know that life in the
body is only possible through constant death of the
atoms of which it is composed. We can only live
because we are constantly dying. Huxley says,
“For every vital act, life is used up.
All work implies waste, and the work of life results
directly or indirectly in the waste of protoplasm (which
is the cell substance). Every word uttered by
a speaker costs him some physical loss, and in the
strictest sense he burns that others may have light.”
Each word, thought, activity, emotion
causes expenditure, and unless expenditure is in some
way made good, there will be bankruptcy. How
shall we get back the energy we have expended and so
restore our vital forces to their equilibrium?
The protoplasm of which our cells are made we can
obtain from the protoplasm of animal and vegetable
substances which we eat, but we cannot use the material
unless we are sometimes at rest, and by quiescence
of brain and muscle give a chance for worn-out cells
to be removed and new material put in their place.
It is when we lay our bodies down in the beautiful
repose of slumber that this process can go on with
most perfect results. Then, when all the forces
can be concentrated on the process of nutrition, will
nutrition be most perfect. When we awake refreshed
after a night of sound sleep we are really fed.
It is quite doubtful if, in a normal condition, we
would want food until we had been at work some time
and by destroying tissue have created a demand for
more new material.
If we were only half as anxious that
food should be assimilated that is, made
over into ourselves as we are that it should
be put into the stomach, we would be very careful
to secure for ourselves a due amount of good sleep.
And what is a due amount? That depends. I
once heard of a servant girl whose mistress complained
of her because she did not get up early in the morning,
and the girl’s excuse was, “But, ma’am,
I can’t get up early because I sleep so slow.”
It seems a ridiculous statement, and
yet there is a germ of truth in it. In some people
the vital processes go on with such rapidity that
the old, worn-out material will be eliminated and the
new material built into the body in a comparatively
short time. Seven hours of good sleep, perhaps,
make them feel strong and rested and able to start
on a new day’s work with courage and ease.
In others the vital processes are hindered or work
feebly and slowly, and eight or nine hours of sleep
scarcely suffice to complete the work of restoration.
What is the obvious inference? Simply that each
one shall judge for himself; but each should be wise
enough not to confuse sleeplessness with having had
sufficient sleep.
Very frequently the loss of sleep
makes it difficult or impossible to sleep, and not
until the excited condition of nerves can be calmed,
can refreshing slumber be obtained. Young women
who attempt to be in school and in society at the
same time often bring themselves into the condition
of insomnia or sleeplessness, and foolishly fancy that
because they do not sleep they do not need it.
It is not at all difficult to understand
that if you are constantly taking money out of the
bank, you must also be constantly putting money in,
or some day you will be told that your account is already
overdrawn and your draft will not be honored.
One can overdraw for a time, and right here is the
danger with young people. They fancy, because
they are not at once told that they are overdrawing,
that their bank account is unlimited, and then, when
it is too late, they find themselves on the verge,
if not clear over the verge, of bankruptcy.
How shall you know whether you sleep
enough? If you will make it a rule to go to bed
by ten o’clock every night, and go to sleep at
once, and sleep soundly and waken with a clear head
and a rested feeling, you may infer that you have
slept enough. If you are still tired or dull,
something is wrong. You may have been in bed long
enough, but your room may not have been ventilated,
and so you may be poisoned by breathing over and over
again the emanations from your own body. Or for
some reason the process of digestion and assimilation
may not have been carried on, and poisons have been
created instead of being eliminated.
If you waken unrefreshed, I should
want to inquire into your habits of life. Was
there opportunity for fresh air to enter your room?
Was there in it no uncovered vessel, no old shoes
in the closet, no soiled underclothing, nothing that
could contaminate the atmosphere? Did you eat
a hearty supper late in the evening? Is your system
oppressed with a superabundance of sweets? Are
you living on simple, wholesome food, or eating irregularly
of all sorts of trash? There may be many causes,
you see, for your “tired feeling” in the
morning, and instead of taking some “Sarsaparilla,”
or other drug, I should try to find out the cause
and remove it.
Many people are afraid of night air,
and scrupulously shut it out of their sleeping-rooms,
and yet, what kind of air can you get at night but
night air? And is it not better to have pure night
air from out of doors than the impure night air of
a close room? I once went with two ladies to
ascend the Rigi in Switzerland, in order to see the
sun rise. One of these was a Polish countess,
who took with her a little black-and-tan terrier.
The hotel at the Rigi Staeffel was crowded, and we
thought ourselves very fortunate to secure a room with
three beds. The Countess disposed herself in
one bed with her little dog, and I took one bed, saying
to my friend, “You’ll please open the window
before you go to bed?” “O certainly,”
she replied.
The little Countess sprang up in evident
alarm. “Open the window!” she cried;
“why, we’d all take our death of cold!
I beg of you don’t do it. I could not sleep
a wink if the window were open.”
My friend spoke reassuringly to her,
and she at length grew quiet, when my friend surreptitiously
raised a window and we went to sleep. The next
morning the Countess asked, with a strange air of
incredulity, “Were you in earnest when you spoke
about opening the window? Why, I never heard
of such a thing in my life. I know I should have
been ill if you had persisted in having the window
open.”
My friend and I exchanged glances
silently. We knew she was not ill and she had
slept with the window open, but doubtless she would
have been ill had she known it was open, for she had
a wonderful imagination. When we were called
at three o’clock to get up and go to the top
of the mountain to see the sun rise, she turned herself
luxuriously in her bed and said she could imagine it.
She had taken this journey and “climbed the
mountain” (that is, was carried up in a chair,
with her dog in her lap), to see the famous sunrise
on the Rigi, and then remained in bed and imagined
it! Her imagination seemed entirely satisfactory,
and so we did not quarrel with her.
Sleep is the most positive beautifier,
the best cosmetic. The term “beauty sleep”
is no misnomer. Sleep freshens the complexion,
smoothes out wrinkles, clears out the brain, strengthens
the muscles, puts light into the eyes and color into
the cheek.
CHAPTER V.
BREATHING.
The first thing you did when you came
into this world was to inspire, that is, to breathe
in. The last thing you will do will be to expire,
that is, to breathe out. And between your first
inspiration and your last expiration there will have
been the process of respiration, that is, breathing
in and out at an average rate of twenty times a minute.
Twenty times a minute means twelve hundred times an
hour, or nearly thirty thousand times a day, or over
ten million times a year. If you should live
to be fifty years old, you will have breathed in and
out over five hundred million times. We eat three
times a day, twenty-one times a week, over a thousand
times a year, fifty thousand times in fifty years,
but we breathe over five hundred million times in fifty
years.
We realize the importance of eating,
but we can live days without food. On the other
hand, we cannot live many seconds entirely without
air. We must infer from all this that breathing
is more important than eating. How can it be?
From our food our body is rebuilt. What life-process
is accomplished by breathing?
To understand this, we must learn
what processes are going on in the body, by means
of which food is converted into tissue, into heat and
energy. These processes we find are chemical,
and may be likened to the combustion of wood or coal
in the furnace. We know that fire must have air
in order to burn. Burning is the process of oxidation
or combustion of oxygen with the atoms of fuel and
the formation of a new substance thereby. Coal,
we are told, consists of carbon and nitrogen, both
of which readily combine with oxygen, and in the process
of uniting heat is liberated, and waste compounds
thus formed pass off through the smokestack or chimney.
We may not understand this scientifically, but we
know that if we want the fire to burn well we must
give it draft or air.
Our bodies are living engines, and
use food and air instead of coal and air. Food
in the body without air is like the coal in an engine
without air; and air is useful only because it brings
oxygen to unite chemically with the food. This
process is going on all over the body. Each little
microscopical cell is a furnace in which oxidation
is taking place; and not only is energy liberated,
but reconstructive processes are going on, new tissues
are being formed, and old tissues removed.
But how can the oxygen get to the
cells in all parts of the body? We can readily
see how it gets to the air-cells of the lungs, but
it would do little good if it stopped there.
It must be carried in some way to all the minutest
cells of all the tissues. This is done through
the breathing. The blood goes to the lungs, and
there it gives out the waste material it has collected
in its journey through the body and takes up oxygen.
The blood goes to the lungs dark in color from its
load of waste. It is changed to a bright red by
taking up oxygen. Each red blood-corpuscle takes
a load of oxygen, carries it to its destination, and
gives it to some tissue to be used up in the chemical
process of oxidation, upon which depends our life and
energy. During the hours of rest the tissues
are busy in this process, and during exercise the
energy stored up in the tissue-cells is liberated and
waste created. So we see that the process is a
continual round of taking food and air, using them
in rebuilding tissue, then using up the tissue by
exercise and casting out the waste products. And
now we can begin to understand that we live in proportion
as we breathe. Dr. Holbrook says: “The
activity of the child is in close relation to the
strength of its lungs; so, too, is the calmness, dignity
and power of a man in proportion to the depth and
tranquility of his respiration. If the lungs
are strong and active, there is courage and boldness;
if feeble, there is cowardice and debility. To
be out of spirits is to be out of breath. To
be animated and joyous is to be full of breath.”
“Breathing,” writes Dr. von der
Deeken, “is an actual vivifying act, and the
need of breath as felt is a real life-hunger and a
proof that without the continual charging of the blood-column
with the proper force, all the other vital organs
would soon stagnate and cease action altogether.”
Now I wonder how many young women
really know how to breathe. “Why,”
you say, “we have always breathed!” And
I reply, “So you have, to some extent; but do
you really breathe, or do you just let a little current
of air flow gently through a part of your lungs, not
reaching the minute air-cells at all, or have you
crippled a large part of your lung-power by the restrictions
of tight clothing?” Now you shrug your shoulders
and say, with a little irritation, perhaps, “O,
now she is going to scold about corsets and tight-lacing,
and I do not wear my clothes tight.” But
I am not now going to talk of lacing; I am going to
talk about singing, and speaking, and real living.
The highest class of living creatures are those that
have most power to breathe. The cold-blooded
animals breathe little, and are slow-moving creatures
with deficient sensation and small powers of action.
Man has large lung-capacity and should be full of
life and power, and will be, if he understands himself.
One benefit of exercise is the added impulse given
to the heart and lungs, calling for more breath, and
bringing more blood to the lungs to receive the added
supply of oxygen.
If we were wise we would practise
the art of deep, voluntary breathing, as a daily form
of gymnastics. What would it do for us?
Wonderful things, if we may believe the doctors.
Even in the old Greek and Roman times the doctors
recommended deep breathing, the voluntary holding
of air in the lungs, believing that this exercise cleansed
the system of impurities and gave strength. And
all our scientific discoverers have proven that they
were right, and modern doctors have only learned more
of the process and added to the wisdom of the ancients.
Professor Lehwess says that he uses deep breathing
not only as a health remedy but as a cure for muscular
convulsions, especially chronic spasms; and he says
that he bases his method for the cure of stuttering
mainly upon respiratory and vocal exercises, “whereby,”
he says, “we work on enervated muscles, and
make their function bring them into permanent activity
and make them obedient to our will.” Thus
not only will the respiratory system be enlarged and
quickened, and the lungs strengthened, but the blood
circulation is promoted and those injurious influences
overcome which often take away the stutterer’s
courage for speaking.
Dr. Niemeyer, of Leipzig, urges breathing
in these words: “Prize air; use good, pure
air; breathe fresh air in your room by night and day.”
Dr. Bicking says that respiratory gymnastics are the
only effectual remedy for pulmonary affection, especially
for consumption. The Marquise Ciccolina claims
that by the teaching of breathing gymnastics she has
cured people of a tendency to take cold easily; she
has benefited cases of lung and heart trouble, and
she has cured nervous asthma even in cases that have
lasted from childhood to maturity. Dr. Kitchen
asserts that if the various structures of the body,
including the lungs, are in a sufficiently healthy
state, consumption cannot find a soil in which to
commence its ravages, or, if already commenced, can
be cured by attention to the general health, by pure
air and deep breathing.
All this proves that the breathing
is of great importance of just as much
importance to women as to men. It used to be thought
that women breathe naturally with the upper part of
the chest and men with the abdominal muscles, but
we have now learned that in the breathing of both
men and women the diaphragm should be used and the
lower part of the chest expanded. The breathing
should neither be thoracic that is, with
the upper part of the chest nor abdominal.
It should be diaphragmatic; that is, with the expansion
of the sides of the lower part of the chest, thus
filling every air-cell and bringing the life-giving
oxygen to the blood. The importance of the diaphragm
as the breathing muscle cannot be overestimated.
A diaphragm, you know, is a partition across a cylinder;
the diaphragm is a muscular partition across the cylinder
of the body, dividing the lungs from the abdomen.
In breathing, the diaphragm becomes tense, and in becoming
tense becomes also flattened, just as an umbrella does
by being opened. In fact the opening and shutting
of an umbrella gives a very good idea of the motion
of the diaphragm in breathing. We can realize,
then, how much larger around the body will be when
the lungs are fully inflated than it is when we breathe
the air out and the lungs are empty. A few minutes
spent each day in exercising in diaphragmatic breathing
would be of great advantage in increasing beauty of
form, in giving strength and power to the voice, in
improving the complexion and adding to the health,
and therefore to the happiness. In taking these
exercises, one should either stand erect or lie flat
upon the back and draw the air in through the nose,
keeping the mouth closed. Draw in gently, allowing
the chest to expand at the sides, hold the air for
a little time, and then breathe out slowly.
These exercises performed in a room
that is well ventilated, or, better still, in the
pure air of outdoors, will do much toward driving
away headaches, clearing the brain, giving better judgment,
stronger will, and a clearer, happier, brighter disposition.
CHAPTER VI.
HINDRANCES TO BREATHING.
This little conversation will be on
the hindrances to deep breathing, for if we make up
our minds that it is so important to breathe deeply
we shall be very anxious to know how to avoid the hindrances
to deep breathing. First, let me speak of attitude.
If you study physiology and note the arrangement of
the internal organs, you will very easily see that
when the body is compressed in a sitting attitude there
must be a hindrance to full and deep breathing.
The girl who is running the typewriter or the sewing-machine,
or the girl who is working as bookkeeper or stenographer,
or the girl at her studies, is sitting so that it
will not be possible to breathe deeply, for the lungs
are encroached upon by the crowding together of the
other viscera (which means the vital organs)
and the action of the breathing muscles is impeded
by compression. As you will readily observe, there
can be no lifting of the chest in this compressed
attitude, no complete flattening of the diaphragm,
no full inflation of the minute air-cells; therefore,
as we have learned, the blood is not thoroughly purified,
and actual poisons created by the vital processes
accumulate in the brain and tissues until you feel
overpoweringly weary and stupid. You cannot think,
because you cannot fully breathe.
You have often found, when sewing,
that the machine would get, as you say, bewitched.
It wouldn’t feed, the thread would break or the
needle would snap, and the whole work go wrong.
Put the machine away, take a rest, and the next day,
without doing anything at all to the machine, you
find that it runs perfectly. The trouble was with
yourself. It is so with the girl who is running
the typewriter. She finds that it makes mistakes
in spelling, things go wrong altogether. It “acts
up,” as she would say. So with the girl
who is bookkeeper. The figures will not add themselves
up right. Now if, under these circumstances, the
girl would get up, go to the door, take a few deep
breaths and expand the lungs fully, she would relieve
the internal congestion consequent upon the cramped
position, the brain would be freed from the accumulated
poison, and as a consequence the troublesome problems
would soon be solved, the typewriter would spell correctly,
the figures would add themselves up accurately, and
life would become brighter at once. Five minutes
spent each hour in deep breathing of pure air would
add both to the quality and quantity of work done,
and so be a saving of time. This certainly is
of great value to you in your work in the world.
After working-hours are over, the
girl should make a special effort to sit erect for
other reasons than that of breathing, though that is
reason enough.
But wrong sitting-postures are not
the only attitudes that interfere with deep breathing.
Very often the position in standing is also objectionable.
When one stands with the weight resting on the heels
the body is thrown out of balance, and as a consequence
the shoulders are not on a vertical line with the
hips. In this attitude it is impossible to manifest
fullness of life, because the lungs are not fully
inflated with air at each breath. We live, enjoy,
accomplish only in proportion to our breathing ability.
As one writer says, “The deep thinker, the orator,
the fine singer, must of necessity be a good breather.”
The most serious hindrance to deep
breathing is found in the restrictions of the clothing.
I do not say of the corsets, because tight bands or
waists can also compress the body and make full breathing
impossible. Of course you say your dresses are
loose, and you run your hand up under your waist to
prove it to me. I will not argue the question
with you, but I will ask you to argue it with yourself.
If breathing is the measure of your
living and doing, then if, in the least degree, you
limit by your dress your breathing, the dress is too
tight. “Well,” you ask “how
shall I know if I am hindering my breathing?
My dress feels comfortable. It seems to me that
I breathe. Is there any way that I can prove
whether my dress is tight or not?”
It is true that one becomes accustomed
to uncomfortable things and scarcely realizes that
they ever were uncomfortable. The dress may seem
a little tight when you first put it on, then it begins
to grow comfortable, and after a while it feels loose,
and you say it certainly is loose. I will give
a simple rule by which you may know whether your clothing
is loose enough or not. Unfasten every article
of clothing; dress, corset, skirt-bands, everything.
Now breathe in slowly until every air-cell is full.
It may take some practice to do this, but persevere
until you find the chest elevated and filled to its
utmost extent. It should swell out at the sides
along the line of the insertion of the diaphragm.
There should be no heaving of the chest. Now,
with the lungs so completely filled with air, bring
your dress waist together without pulling a particle.
Will it fasten without pressing out a bit of air from
the lungs? If so, it is loose enough. If,
however, you have to pull it together, even to the
tiniest extent, you have pressed out some of the air.
The minute air-cells that have thus been emptied cannot
be again filled while the dress is fastened.
Therefore you are defrauded of your rightful amount
of air, and because part of the air is pressed out,
the lungs take less space and the dress seems looser.
You can understand how that would be.
The trouble is that our dresses are
usually fitted over empty lungs. The dressmaker
pulls the dress together, squeezes the air out of the
lungs, and fastens the dress. Now you can readily
understand that it will be impossible to fill those
air-cells so long as the dress is worn, and yet it
may not seem uncomfortable, because we become accustomed
to it. Nature has made us so that we can accustom
ourselves to many things that are not absolutely healthful,
but this should not make us willing to live unhealthfully
when it is possible to avoid it.
CHAPTER VII.
ADDED INJURIES FROM TIGHT CLOTHING.
We have talked of the effect of tight
clothing upon the breathing power. Let us see
what other injuries arise from wearing the dress too
tight. In the first place, the action of the heart
is impeded. The heart is a hollow muscle which
must be continually filled with blood and emptied
again many times a minute from the moment of birth
till the moment of death. You have been lying
down for an hour; let me count your pulse. Now
sit up for a few moments. I find, now, that it
beats faster. Now stand up, and it beats still
faster. You see, it increases continually as
you get into the erect position. Now walk quickly
across the floor and you will see how much it has increased
again in rapidity.
You will realize how much the dress
interferes with the action of the heart better from
an illustration. Professor Sargent made an experiment
with a number of girls. One day they were dressed
in perfectly loose clothing. He counted the pulse
of each. It beat on the average of eighty-four
times in a minute. He had them run five hundred
and forty yards in the space of two and a half minutes.
The pulse was again counted. It had increased
to one hundred and fifty-six beats in a minute.
This illustrates the effect of exercise even in loose
clothing. The next day at the same time, dressed
with a corset which reduced the waist to twenty-four
inches, they ran the same distance in the same length
of time, and then he found that the pulse had run up
to one hundred and sixty-eight beats in a minute, showing
how much harder it was for the heart to do its work
when restricted by tight clothing. No acrobat
would attempt to perform feats of strength or of agility
if restricted even so much as by a belt.
The Russian Government has issued
an edict that the soldiers must wear their pantaloons
held up by suspenders, for it has been demonstrated
that when they wear them supported by a belt around
the waist they are not able to do a fair amount of
work. The Austrian Government has also decreed
that the pantaloons of soldiers are not to be suspended
by belts because of the increase of kidney difficulty
caused thereby.
We will understand why kidney difficulty
is caused by tight clothing when we study the location
of the kidneys and how they are affected by compression
of the ribs. Most people think the kidneys lie
low down in the back, but in reality they lie up under
the short ribs, and the pressure of tight clothing
brings the ribs to bear directly upon the kidneys,
injuring them in such a way as often to cause disease.
The heart and lungs are protected
by a bony framework called the thorax, but below the
thorax there is no protection for the internal organs
except that of the muscles, therefore the corset or
tight clothing can do most damage to the vital organs
below the diaphragm. The largest of these is
the liver. It should lie close up under the diaphragm,
from which it is suspended. Under the influence
of tight clothing it is often pressed over on the
right side, sometimes extending over the whole front
of the body, or even as low down as the navel.
It is rutted by the pressure of the ribs. The
corset liver is well known in the dissecting-room.
Sometimes, where corsets are not worn and tight skirts
are worn, supported by the hips, the liver has almost
been cut in two, the pieces being only held together
by a sufficient band of tissue to keep them from dying.
When Hiram Powers, the great sculptor,
was in this country, he once attended an elegant party,
and was observed watching very intently a beautifully
dressed, fashionable woman. A friend, noticing
his interest, said to him, “What an elegant
figure she has, hasn’t she?”
“Well,” said Powers, “I
was wondering where she put her liver.”
You see, Powers had studied the human
body, and when he saw such an outline as the figure
of a fashionable woman, he knew that some internal
organ must be displaced in order to create that tapering
waist, and his anxiety was for the internal organs.
As an artist he did not admire the tapering waist,
as is shown by the beautiful marble statue which he
made. No artist would perpetuate in marble the
figure of the fashionable woman.
Not only is the liver thus displaced,
but the stomach is often pressed out of its original
position, which should be also close up under the
diaphragm, towards the left side. By the pressure
of clothing it is sometimes pushed down until it lies
in the abdominal cavity, even as low down as the navel.
This is the statement of Dr. J.H. Kellogg, who,
in his sanitarium at Battle Creek, examines hundreds,
or even thousands of women in a year, and asserts
that it is almost impossible to find a woman whose
stomach is where it belongs. This is a serious
matter, because no organ can do its work properly when
it is out of its rightful position. We understand
this in any machinery except that of the human body.
We would not meddle with a man-made machine because
that would hinder its perfect working, but we do not
hesitate to interfere with the body, forgetful that
it, too, is a machine, divinely created, and with
powers most fateful to us for weal or woe.
But the harm is not all done by the
displacement of the organs mentioned. The bowels
suffer, and we can best understand what is done to
them when we understand how they are placed in the
abdominal cavity.
Let me take the ruffle you are making.
The mesentery is a delicate, narrow membrane about
twenty feet long. We will compare it to the ruffle.
Folded in it at one edge are the small intestines,
just as I can run this bodkin into the hem of this
ruffle. The other edge of the mesentery is gathered
up as you have gathered the ruffle. It is gathered
into a space of about six inches in length, and is
fastened up and down the spine in the region of the
small of the back. You can see, if I gather up
twenty feet of this ruffle into a space of six inches,
how the mesentery, with the intestines folded in the
free edge, are held in the abdominal cavity.
They are held loosely, and at the same time so that
the intestines cannot be tied in knots or loops upon
each other. In this way the ruffle flares out
into the abdominal cavity. The intestines should
stay in their place close up under the liver and stomach,
but if pressure is brought to bear around the body
at this point, the bowels begin to sag into the abdominal
cavity. The abdominal walls lose their tonicity
because they are so compressed that they cannot have
a perfect circulation, the bowels sink down still
further into the pelvis, and pull upon their attachment
in the small of the back, creating backache.
The stomach sags down into the cavity; the liver sinks,
and all the organs pull upon their attachments; so
it is no wonder that women have backaches and headaches,
and their eyes feel bad, and they are unable to stand
or walk. We don’t want small rooms in our
dwelling-houses, we don’t like it if we haven’t
sufficient space for our furniture; but in this bodily
house in which we dwell we are quite willing to constrict
the rooms in which the vital organs or furniture are
placed, until everything is huddled together in the
closest pressure, so that the organs are unable to
do their work. It wouldn’t matter in our
parlors if the chairs and tables were huddled close
together, for they are not constantly changing in
size, but it does matter in a room where machines
must have space to work and such space is not permitted
them; and we cannot expect good work where we crowd
machinery so that it does not have adequate room.
The influence of tight clothing upon
the pelvic organs is to displace them and create a
great many difficulties which we know as “Female
Diseases.” But these, in my opinion, are
not the most important things. The important
things are the displacement of the vital organs of
the body those organs without which we cannot
live, and those organs the perfect working of which
is necessary both to our health and our happiness.
If we are wise we will be exceedingly anxious that
every vital organ shall be allowed to hold its own
position, to do its own work, with plenty of room.
The impeding of the heart-action by
tight clothing is not in itself the most serious effect
of this restriction. The serious trouble is in
the disturbance of the circulation. Upon a perfect
circulation depends perfect nutrition. The blood
must go in sufficient quantity to every organ in order
that it may be fully nourished. When the waist
is compressed the organs do not receive their full
amount of blood. It is retained, and therefore
the organs are congested. The feet are cold because
the blood does not reach them in sufficient quantity,
and the brain, it may be, is hot, because the blood
is not taken from the head with enough rapidity and
furnished to the other organs. So we find that
tight clothing interferes with the integrity and health
of every organ in the body, and consequently with
our happiness and with our usefulness.
The reason we admire the tapering
waist is because we have been wrongly educated.
We have acquired wrong ideas of beauty. We have
accepted the ideals of the fashion-plate rather than
those of the Creator. We find that some form
of physical deformity maintains in almost every country.
The Chinese deform the feet, and we think this is
barbarous, but it is really not as serious as the deforming
of the vital parts of the body. The Flathead
Indian is deformed in babyhood by being compressed
between boards until the head changes its shape.
Among some savage nations the leg is bandaged for a
few inches above the ankle and for a few inches below
the knee and the central part is allowed to expand
as it will, and this deformity to them constitutes
beauty. Among other nations, holes are made in
the ears and pieces of wood are inserted. The
size of these pieces is gradually increased until
the lobe of the ear will hang down upon the shoulder
and a piece of wood as large as a man’s arm
be worn in the ears. All of these things seem
to us most horrible; yet, after all, they are not as
much an insult to the Divine Architect of the body
as the deformity practised by civilized and so-called
Christian people, who by restriction of the waist
interfere with the vital organs and prevent the body
from being perfect in its development, or perfect in
its action. The activity of the body is an evidence
of its life, and if it is so tied up that it cannot
be active, it certainly is not in the fullest condition
of life.
CHAPTER VIII.
EXERCISE.
You said to me, my daughter, that
you wanted to join the class in Physical Culture.
I asked you why, and you said because you thought
you needed to build up in certain parts of the body.
You were defective in muscular development; you needed
also to acquire grace, you thought. And I said,
“Is muscular development the primary object
of physical education?” You seemed to think that
it is. Now I want to talk to you a little along
that line, and to demonstrate to you, if I can, that
physical education is not primarily for the building
up of big muscle, or for the gaining of power to do
great feats of bodily strength or skill. The
object of physical education is to develop a quickly
responsive, flexible instrument for the soul to use,
for that is what the body is. Physical culture,
rightly conducted, aims to secure the highest condition
of the body through the exercises that are required
by the laws of the body. Law, physical law, governs
the body, and exercise should be according to this
law. The first object of exercise is to make
a vital supply for the whole body. This is first
secured by proper attitude. If we stand or sit
properly we gain a proper position of the vital organs,
and then they will do their work well, and the result
will be more perfect nutrition.
The use of certain organs increases
supply, and the use of others quickens waste; a balance
should be maintained between the two. We must
nourish the life-sustaining organs before using the
organs which use up brain-supply, therefore we want
to be sure that we are working according to these
laws. A great many people have an idea that physical
culture means building up big muscle. They measure
the muscles of the arm and of the leg, and judge by
their increase in size of the value of the exercise.
This is not a correct measurement. Individuals
may weigh themselves down by development of muscles
until they have not sufficient internal vital force
to carry so much weight. If we could only balance
between the organs which supply nutriment and the
organs which use it up, we would keep in perfect health.
We want to learn how to secure a maximum
of results with a minimum of force. That is,
we want the body to be quickly responsive, to be flexible,
to be so that we can use it for the things we want
to do without wasting strength, and yet without being
weighed down by a superabundance of muscular tissue.
The first desideratum in taking exercise
is to have every organ of the body free, therefore
a gymnastic dress is a necessity. Then we should
have the exercise conducted by some one who understands
the peculiarities of each individual and knows just
what exercises are suited for her in her special physical
condition. They should also be directed by one
who understands perfectly that the girl with an anæmic
brain, that is, with a brain having too little blood,
cannot be conducted on the same plan as the exercise
of the girl who has a superabundance of blood in the
brain.
The best exercise is that which employs
the mind pleasantly. A good deal of exercise
may be obtained in housework, and, if conducted with
pleasure in the work, may be of great physical advantage.
Not long ago I listened to a very charming talk by
a lady whose dress betokened her a woman of society.
She wore white kid gloves, a dainty flower bonnet,
and in herself appeared an exponent of leisure and
happiness. Her address was entitled “The
Home Gymnasium,” and I supposed that it would
consist of descriptions of machinery that could be
put up in one’s own dwelling for gymnastic purposes,
but I soon found that her home gymnasium meant household
duties. She said one could scrub the table and
obtain the best exercise for arms and chest, and at
the same time produce an article or piece of furniture
which would be a delight to the eye in its whiteness
and brightness. She said that in scrubbing the
floor one obtained very much the same movement that
would be given in the gymnasium, while at the same
time the exercise would conduce not only to the personal
advantage but to the happiness of the family.
She spoke of sweeping, and dusting, and bed-making,
and expressed herself as competent to do all these
kinds of work, in fact, as doing them. And she
said she never felt more of a lady than when scrubbing
her kitchen floor, and she was not ashamed to be seen
by her friends at this work. If any one rang
the door-bell, she said she would simply put on a
clean apron and go to the door, and remark without
hesitation that she was just scrubbing her kitchen
floor, but she was glad to see her friends.
This sort of a home gymnasium is at
the command of nearly every girl, and if she can bring
herself to feel an interest in this home gymnastic
exercise, she may find it conducive not only to her
own physical well-being, but to the comfort and happiness
of all about her.
The question is often asked whether
bicycle-riding is injurious for girls, and I would
say that in my opinion it depends largely upon the
girl. Has she good common sense? Of course
I am speaking of the girl who is in a normal condition
of health. A girl of extreme delicacy, or who
is subject to some functional difficulty, or the victim
of some organic disease, might not find it advantageous
to ride. A physician should, in these cases,
be consulted. But for the ordinary girl, the
girl of fairly good health, if she will learn how to
sit properly upon her saddle, will have the good sense
to ride with judgment, it seems to me that the exercise
must be productive of great good.
My own experience is somewhat limited.
I made some discoveries in my attempts to ride.
In the first place, I learned that it was important
to know how to sit. In reading a book on “Physical
Culture and Hygiene for Women,” by Dr. Anna
Galbraith, I found this sentence: “Sit upon
the gluteal muscles, and not upon the perineum.”
This was a revelation to me. I found that I had
been doing the thing which was not proper, and bearing
the weight almost entirely upon the perineum had caused
constant rectal irritation. The gluteal muscles,
closely held together, form a firm support for the
body without injuring any of the vital organs.
I found that by distributing the weight a
little upon the handle-bars, and some upon the feet I
was able to sit with less weight and heaviness upon
the saddle. I found, too, that it was quite important
to have the saddle high enough, so that the legs might
be fully extended at each stroke, and with these precautions
I found the wheel a source both of enjoyment and of
strength.
The harm done by the wheel I believe
in most instances to be due to an ill-adapted saddle
or a lack of good judgment in the amount of exercise
taken. It is such a fascinating exercise, one
seems to be flying and scarcely realizes how much
of nerve-force is being expended. If the girl
learning to ride will be prudent, gauging the amount
of exercise by her amount of strength; if she will
gradually acquire the needed strength before attempting
long wheeling trips; if she will be judicious and
not ride, perhaps, during the first two or three days
of menstruation, there seems to be no reason why the
ordinary girl should not be entirely benefited by this
most delightful form of exercise. It is not as
objectionable, to any degree, as the exercise of dancing.
Dancing is a most fascinating amusement, and if it
only could be conducted under proper circumstances
it would be very delightful. In itself it is
not so objectionable as in its concomitants; the late
hours, the improper dressing, the hearty suppers in
the middle of the night, the promiscuous association
and the undue familiarity of the attitude of the round
dance are what make dancing objectionable. If
dancing could be conducted out of doors, in the daylight,
with intimate friends, without the round dances, only
those forms of dancing which may be likened to gymnastics,
as the contra-dance, the cotillion, the objections
to dancing would be largely removed, but I am of the
opinion that a large share of the fascination of dancing
would go at the same time.
Skating is a delightful, invigorating
form of exercise, if conducted with judgment.
One objection to it is that the girl will skate until
wearied, and then, in that exhausted condition, perhaps
ride home, or take a long, tiresome walk from the
pond to her residence, all of which is sapping her
unduly and annulling the value of the skating as an
exercise.
Lawn-tennis is delightful and beneficial,
provided it is undertaken with due judgment and the
girl is properly dressed. In fact, the subject
of dress is so closely associated with that of exercise
that they can never be considered separately.
Even the moderate exercise of walking, conducted in
the dress of the fashionable woman, is in itself an
element of danger, whereas more violent exercise in
a loose dress becomes a means of increased strength
and vigor.
I am often asked if girls should be
allowed to run up and down stairs. I see no reason
why girls should not go up and down stairs just as
freely as boys, if they are properly dressed; but going
up and down stairs in tight clothing is certainly
very injurious.
CHAPTER IX.
BATHING.
You and your girl friends take much
pains with your personal adornment. You spend
time in curling your hair and in putting on ribbons
and laces, but I sometimes think you do not pay as
much attention to personal cleanliness as you ought.
It would seem as if some of you thought that powder
would cover a defect in cleanliness and perfumery
would conceal the odors of the person; but indeed it
seems to me that the stylish make-up of your dress
or the curl of your hair is of very little importance
compared with the care of your health.
You each desire to have a beautiful
complexion. I used to be told in my childhood
that beauty was only skin-deep, but I have learned
better. I know that even the beauty of the complexion
depends upon the integrity of the nutritive organs
as well as upon the care and attention given to matters
of personal cleanliness.
I read the other day of a discussion
between two young men concerning the cleanliness of
girls of their acquaintance. One young man noticed
that although one of the girls wore a very pretty dress-gown,
she had forgotten to clean her finger-nails.
The other remarked that many things in regard to a
girl’s personal cleanliness could be learned
by riding behind her on a tandem. The two then
commented favorably upon the girl whose nails were
pink, whose ears and neck were clean, her teeth white
and dazzling, and her hair well brushed. I might
say, in passing, that this hair-brushing time at night
may be well employed in reviewing the experiences
of the day in order to learn the lessons they teach,
and thereby to avoid to-morrow the mistakes of to-day.
These same young men also said that
the complexions of some girls suggested the idea
of too little fresh air and too much candy. This,
they agreed, it was impossible to hide with powder.
So we see that the care of the skin is quite important
if one would have the respect and the admiration of
her associates.
The skin is a very beautiful, complex
and delicate covering of the body. It consists
of six layers, and contains arteries, capillaries,
lymphatics, nerves, sweat glands, sebaceous glands,
pigment, etc. So you see that the care of
the skin involves much. One writer has said,
“At the skin man ends and the outlying universe
begins.”
The skin, filled with nerves, is continually
reporting to the brain concerning what is the condition
of all parts of the body. The condition of the
skin reflects the condition of the digestive organs.
Many girls are trying to cure pimples on the face by
the use of salves and lotions, when in all probability
all that they would need to do to gain a good complexion
is to pay attention to diet, to quit eating between
meals, and not to eat so much pastry, pickles or sweetmeats.
Our athletes and pugilists are learning that they must
take care of the skin if they would keep in good condition,
and they are what in horses would be called well groomed.
The skin is rubbed, cared for, kept active, because
it is understood that it is an organ of sensation,
of secretion, of excretion, of absorption, and of
respiration. More solid matter is thrown out from
the skin than from the lungs, in the proportion of
eleven to seven. It is even more than the excretion
from the bowels.
The skin is an organ of breathing.
This seems strange to us, but it really does take
up oxygen and give out carbonic acid, so upon the
condition of the skin will depend very largely the
condition of the general health. We can detect
a constipated condition of the bowels through the
color and odor of the skin.
Many girls feel that it is more delicate
to neglect the care of the bowels than to attend to
a daily evacuation, but if they would remember that
it is just as indelicate to carry effete or dead matter
about in the bowels as it would be to carry it upon
the person in any other way, they would realize that
it is only politeness and refinement to see that this
part of their bodily housekeeping is duly attended
to. If the bowels do not do their work the skin
will be obliged to take extra labor upon itself; so,
as we have said, by the odor of the skin we can detect
the fact that the skin is doing the work that should
be done by the bowels. When a person is sick the
condition of the internal organs is shown in the complexion,
and nothing more clearly indicates health than the
condition of the skin.
If this is so important, how shall
we care for the skin? First, by bathing.
The tin bath-tub of the Englishman accompanies him
in all his travels, and has penetrated even to the
jungles of Africa. Bathing appliances are marks
of civilization, and the bath-room is becoming a necessity.
Where the bath-room does not exist it is easy to bathe
thoroughly and completely. A wash-basin of water,
with a sponge and towel, furnish all that is absolutely
necessary. A most convenient bath is the portable
thermal bath, an arrangement of rubber cloth that
can be opened out to form a square enclosure in which
the person sits, with the head in the free outside
air, the body enveloped in steam generated by an alcohol
lamp. This, followed by a quick sponge-bath of
cool water, is a most efficient way of cleansing the
skin; and this bath may be used in any room, no matter
how beautifully furnished, without soiling the carpet
or furniture in the least.
One great secret of healthful bathing
is, when warm or hot water is used, to follow it by
an immediate application of cold water, which leaves
the skin in a tonic condition. In preparation
for going out in cold weather, nothing is so efficient
a protection from the cold as a foot-bath. Soak
the feet for a few minutes in water as warm as is
comfortable, then plunge them into cold water and remove
immediately, or throw cold water over them, wipe them
thoroughly dry, rub them with a little olive oil,
draw on a pair of clean, warm hose, and the feet are
not only warmed, but are protected against cold and
will stay warm. These precautions will prevent
one taking cold from the foot-bath. Care of the
feet is a great necessity not only for health, for
equalizing the circulation, but for the prevention
of unpleasant odors.
As to time of bathing, I suppose that
the body is at its highest point of vital power at
about ten o’clock in the morning, but this is,
for most people, the most inconvenient time for a
bath. The circumstances of the individual are
to be consulted, and also the effect of bathing.
There are those who are made nervous by taking a bath,
consequently they will not be benefited by taking
one just before going to bed. In other cases
the bath conduces to slumber. This depends very
largely upon the amount of blood in the brain.
A person with an anæmic brain will not be benefited
by the bath at bedtime, but the person whose brain
is overcharged with blood will find the evening bath
quieting.
I would not advise everybody to take
a daily bath. There are those who are benefited
by it; there are others who might be injured by it.
It is best to study personal peculiarities and to
watch the effect of the bath. If, within a few
hours, or the next day, there is great exhaustion,
one might naturally conclude that the bath was not
altogether beneficial. There are those in such
delicate health that a cold bath at any time does
not seem desirable; but constant attention will secure
perfect cleanliness, as the arms and chest can be bathed
one day, the abdomen and back another, the lower extremities
still another day, and so the whole body be compassed
twice or more in the space of a week.
In regard to the use of soap for bathing
purposes, the finest, purest soaps should be used,
and these alone. It is generally supposed that
pure, white castile soap is the best. Various
soaps are widely advertised, while some that claim
to be of the very best are not always up to the requisite
standard. Yet one can tell by a little experience
what soap is of pure quality, and such soap can be
applied even to the face without injury.
In washing the face the hand is probably
the best instrument, with the thumb under the chin,
the fingers turned toward the upper part of the face.
The manipulation should be against the direction of
forming wrinkles, wherever there is a tendency for
wrinkles to appear. They can be held in check
by the judicious manipulation of the fingers in the
opposite direction. Wrinkles are created by obliterating
the capillary circulation of the skin. The manipulation
increases the circulation, and so tends to overcome
wrinkles. The expression of the face may form
wrinkles. I saw a girl the other day on a street-car
who continually held her eyebrows elevated, forming
longitudinal lines across her forehead, which had
become as fixed in her youthful face as if she had
been seventy years of age. This was a lack of
care in the governing of the expression of the face,
and also a lack in keeping up the capillary circulation.
The care of the hands may be considered
also while discussing the question of bathing.
The hands should be kept clean, the finger-nails particularly
cared for, as much of the beauty of the hands depends
upon the delicate appearance of the finger-nails.
The manicure sets, which are at the disposal of almost
every young woman of the present day, are a very great
addition to toilet appurtenances. The curved
scissors, the polisher, the blunt ivory instrument
for pushing back the fold of skin from the root of
the nail, all of these used but a few moments in the
day will conduce to great beauty in the hands, even
for those who are doing housework.