THE PRIMITIVE ATTITUDE TOWARD SEX AND WOMANHOOD
BY
IVA LOWTHER PETERS, PH.D
Primitive social control; Its rigidity;
Its necessity; Universality of this control in the
form of taboos; Connection between the universal attitude
of primitive peoples towards woman as shown in the
Institutionalized Sex Taboo and the magic-religious
belief in Mana; Relation of Mana to Taboo; Discussion
of Sympathetic Magic and the associated idea of danger
from contact; Difficulties in the way of an inclusive
definition of Taboo; Its dual nature; Comparison of
concepts of Crawley, Frazer, Marett and others; Conclusion
that Taboo is Negative Mana; Contribution of modern
psychology to the study of Taboo; Freud’s analogy
between the dualistic attitude toward the tabooed object
and the ambivalence of the emotions; The understanding
of this dualism together with the primitive belief
in Mana and Sympathetic Magic explains much in the
attitude of man toward woman; The vast amount of evidence
in the taboos of many peoples of dualism in the attitude
toward woman. Possible physiological explanation
of this dualistic attitude of man toward woman found
in a period before self-control had in some measure
replaced social control, in the reaction of weakness
and disgust following sex festivals.
A study of the elaborate, standardized,
and authoritative systems of social control found
among all primitive peoples gives a vivid impression
of the difficulty of the task of compelling man to
die to himself, that is, to become a socius.
The rigors and rituals of initiation ceremonies at
adolescence impressed the duties of sociality at that
impressionable period. The individual who refused
to bow his head to the social yoke became a vagabond,
an outcast, an excommunicate. In view of the
fierceness of the struggle for food and the attitude
toward the stranger among all primitives, the outcast’s
life chances were unenviable. It was preferable
to adapt one’s self to the social order.
“Bad” traits were the more easily suppressed
in return for the re-enforcement of power which was
the striking feature of group life; power over enemies,
power over nature, and a re-enforcement of the emotional
life of the individual which became the basis on which
were built up the magico-religious ceremonies
of institutionalized religion.
It is the purpose of this study to
consider a phase of social life in which there can
be traced a persistence into modern times of a primitive
form of control which in a pre-rational stage of group
life made possible the comparatively harmonious interplay
of antagonistic forces. This form of control
is called Taboo. A student of the phenomenon,
a recognized authority on its ethnological interpretation,
says of it: “To illustrate the continuity
of culture and the identity of the elementary human
ideas in all ages, it is sufficient to point to the
ease with which the Polynesian word tabu has
passed into modern language."[1, ]
We shall attempt to show that at least
one form of taboo, the Institutionalized Sex Taboo,
is co-extensive with human social experience, and
exists to-day at the base of family life, the socialized
form of sex relationship. The family as a social
institution has been scarcely touched until a very
recent historical period by the rationalizing process
that has affected religious and political institutions.
Economic changes resultant upon the introduction of
an industrial era which showed the importance of women
in diverse social relations were causes of this new
effort at adaptation to changing conditions.
It became apparent that taboos in the form of customs,
cérémonials, beliefs, and conventions, all electrically
charged with emotional content, have guarded the life
of woman from change, and with her the functions peculiar
to family life. There has doubtless been present
in some of these taboos “a good hard common-sense
element.” But there are also irrational
elements whose persistence has resulted in hardship,
blind cruelty, and over-standardization.
In order to comprehend the attitude
of early man toward sex and womanhood, and to understand
the system of taboo control which grew out of this
attitude, it is only reasonable to suppose that the
prehistoric races, like the uncivilized peoples of
the present time, were inclined to explain all phenomena
as the result of the action of spiritistic forces
partaking of both a magical and religious nature.
This supernatural principle which the primitive mind
conceived as an all-pervading, universal essence,
is most widely known as mana, although it has
been discussed under other names.
Certain persons, animals and objects
are often held to be imbued to an unusual degree with
this mana, and hence are to be regarded as holy
and held in awe. Inasmuch as man may wish to use
this power for his own purposes, a ceremonial cult
would naturally grow up by which this would become
possible. Otherwise, to come in contact with these
objects directly or indirectly, besides profaning
their sanctity would be exceedingly dangerous for
the transgressor, because of this same power of transmission
of a dread and little understood force. Therefore,
all such persons, animals or objects are taboo and
must be avoided. Under these circumstances it
can be seen that taboos are unanalyzed, unrationalized
“Don’ts,” connected with the use
and wont which have crystallized around the wish of
man to manipulate the mysterious and often desirable
features of his environment, notably those connected
with possession, food, and sex.
The idea of the transmission of mana
through contact is concomitant with the notion of
sympathetic magic, defined as the belief that
the qualities of one thing can be mysteriously transferred
to another. The most familiar illustration is
that of the hunter who will not eat the heart of the
deer he has killed lest he become timid like that animal,
while to eat the heart of a lion would be to gain all
the fierce courage of that beast. This belief becomes
so elaborated that the qualities of one object are
finally thought to be transferred to another which
has never come into direct contact with the first,
the transition being accomplished through the agency
of a third object which has been in contact with both
the others and thus acts as the conducting medium
through which the qualities of one pass into the other.
Just as the holy thing, which is to
be feared as the seat of a mystic, supernatural force,
is to be avoided lest harm befall from contact with
it, or lest it be denied by human touch and its divine
essence be affected, so the unclean thing is also
made taboo lest it infect man with its own evil nature.
Even as the savage will not have his idol polluted
by contact with his own personality, however indirect,
so he would himself avoid pollution in similar fashion
by shunning that which is unclean. Here also
the avoidance of the tabooed person or thing is based
on the principle of sympathetic magic understood as
a method of transference of qualities, and on belief
in the possibility of infection by contact.
The dual nature of taboo as the avoidance
of both the sacred and the unclean is noted by authorities
on the subject who differ in other respects as to
the definition of taboo, such as in the relation of
taboo to the magical ceremonies by which man undertook
to mould his environment to his wishes. Whether
the tabooed object be regarded in one light or the
other, the breaking of taboo is associated with dread
of the unknown besides the fear of infection
with the qualities of the tabooed object according
to the laws of sympathetic magic. There is also
the fear of the mysterious and supernatural, whether
conceived as the mana force or as a principle of “bad
magic.”
Dr. J.G. Frazer has collected
into the many volumes of “The Golden Bough”
a mass of evidence concerning the taboos of primitive
society. On the basis of his definition of magic
as “a misapplication of the ideas of association
by similarity and contiguity,” Dr. Frazer divided
magic into “positive magic,” or charms,
and “negative magic,” or taboo. “Positive
magic says, ‘Do this in order that so and so
may happen.’ Negative magic or taboo says
’Do not do this lest so and so should happen.’"[4,
, v.I.]
But Dr. Frazer’s conclusion,
which he himself considered only tentative, was not
long left unassailed. Prof. R.R. Marett
in his essay “Is Taboo a Negative Magic?"
called attention to the very evident fact that Dr.
Frazer’s definition would not cover the characteristics
of some of the best known taboos, the food taboos
of Prof. Tylor to which we have previously alluded
in this study, as a consequence of which “the
flesh of timid animals is avoided by warriors, but
they love the meat of tigers, boars, and stags, for
their courage and speed."[3, .] Are not these
food taboos rather, Dr. Marett asks, a “misapplication
of the ideas of association by similarity and contiguity”
amounting to the sympathetic taboos so carefully described
by such writers on Magic as MM. Hubert and Mauss
of L’Annee Sociologique? Still another
kind of taboos mentioned by Dr. Frazer but amplified
by Mr. Crawley in “The Mystic Rose,” the
taboos on knots at childbirth, marriage, and death,
are much better described by the term “sympathetic
taboo.” Moreover, if taboo were a form
of magic as defined by Dr. Frazer, it would be a somewhat
definite and measurable quantity; whereas the distinguishing
characteristic of taboo everywhere is the “infinite
plus of awfulness” always accompanying its violation.
As Dr. Marett observes, there may be certain definite
results, such as prescribed punishment for violations
against which a legal code is in process of growth.
There may be also social “growlings,”
showing the opposition of public opinion to which
the savage is at least as keenly sensitive as the modern.
But it is the “infinite plus” always attached
to the violation of taboo that puts it into the realm
of the mystical, the magical. It would seem that
Dr. Frazer’s definition does not include enough.
It is when we turn to the subject
of this study that we see most clearly the deficiencies
in these explanations to the “classic
well-nigh universal major taboo” of the woman
shunned. Dr. Marett uses her as his most telling
argument against the inclusiveness of the concepts
of Dr. Frazer and of MM. Hubert and Mauss.
He says: “It is difficult to conceive of
sympathy, and sympathy only, as the continuous, or
even the originally efficient cause of the avoidance.”
Mr Crawley had called attention to the fact that savages
fear womanly characteristics, that is, effeminacy,
which is identified with weakness. While noting
with great psychological insight the presence of other
factors, such as the dislike of the different, he
had gone so far as to express the opinion that the
fear of effeminacy was probably the chief factor in
the Sex Taboo. This is probably the weakest point
in Mr. Crawley’s study, for he shows so clearly
the presence of other elements, notably mystery, the
element that made woman the potential witch against
whom suspicion concentrated in so tragical a fashion
up to a late historical period.
Because of the element of mystery
present in taboo we are led to conclude that taboo
is more than negative magic if we accept so definite
a concept as “a false association of ideas.”
The presence of power in the tabooed object turns
our attention to mana as giving us a better
understanding of why man must be wary. Mana must
however be liberally interpreted if we are to see
to the bottom of the mystery. It must be thought
of as including good as well as evil power, as more
than the “black magic” of the witch-haunted
England of the 17th century, as is shown by the social
position of the magicians who deal with the Mana of
the Pacific and with the Orenda of the Iroquois.
It implies “wonder-working,” and may be
shown in sheer luck, in individual cunning and power,
or in such a form as the “uncanny” psychic
qualities ascribed to women from the dawn of history.
With this interpretation of mana in mind, taboo may
be conceived as negative mana; and to break taboo is
to set in motion against oneself mystic wonder-working
power.
Our study thus far has made it clear
that there are mystic dangers to be guarded against
from human as well as extra-human sources. There
is weakness to be feared as well as power, as shown
by the food and sex taboos. And once again there
is mystery in the different, the unusual, the unlike,
that causes avoidance and creates taboos. Man’s
dislike of change from the old well-trodden way, no
matter how irrational, accounts for the persistence
of many ancient folkways whose origins are lost
in mystery. Many of these old and persistent avoidances
have been expanded in the development of social relationships
until we agree with Mr. Crawley that taboo shows that
“man seems to feel that he is treading in slippery
places.” Might it not be within the range
of possibility that in the study of taboo we are groping
with man through the first blind processes of social
control?
It is worthy of note that the most
modern school of analytical psychology has recently
turned attention to the problem of taboo. Prof.
Sigmund Freud, protagonist psychoanalysis, in an essay,
Totem und Tabu, called attention to the
analogy between the dualistic attitude toward the
tabooed object as both sacred and unclean and the ambivalent
attitude of the neurotic toward the salient objects
in his environment. We must agree that in addition
to the dread of the tabooed person or object there
is often a feeling of fascination. This is of
course particularly prominent in the case of the woman
tabooed because of the strength of the sex instinct.
As Freud has very justly said, the tabooed object
is very often in itself the object of supreme desire.
This is very obvious in the case of the food and sex
taboos, which attempt to inhibit two of the most powerful
impulses of human nature. The two conflicting
streams of consciousness called ambivalence by the
psychologist may be observed in the attitude of the
savage toward many of his taboos. As the Austrian
alienist cannily remarks, unless the thing were desired
there would be no necessity to impose taboo restrictions
concerning it.
It is by a knowledge of the mana concept
and the belief in sympathetic magic, clarified by
recognition of the ambivalent element in the emotional
reaction to the thing tabooed, that we can hope to
understand the almost universal custom of the “woman
shunned” and the sex taboos of primitive peoples.
This dualism appears most strongly in the attitude
toward woman; for while she was the natural object
of the powerful sexual instinct she was quite as much
the source of fear because she was generally supposed
to be endowed with spiritistic forces and in league
with supernatural powers. During the long period
when the fact of paternity was unrecognized, the power
of reproduction which was thus ascribed to woman alone
made of her a mysterious being. Her fertility
could be explained only on the basis of her possession
of an unusually large amount of mana or creative force,
or by the theory of impregnation by demonic powers.
As a matter of fact, both explanations were accepted
by primitive peoples, so that woman was regarded not
only as imbued with mana but also as being in direct
contact with spirits. Many of the devices for
closing the reproductive organs which abounded among
savage tribes were imposed as a protection against
spirits rather than against the males of the human
species. The tradition of impregnation by gods
or demons was not confined to savage tribes, but was
wide-spread in the days of Greece and Rome and lasted
into biblical times, when we read of the sons of heaven
having intercourse with the daughters of men.
In addition to this fear of the woman
as in possession of and in league with supernatural
powers, there was an additional motive to avoidance
in the fear of transmission of her weakness through
contact, a fear based on a belief in sympathetic magic,
and believed with all the “intensely realized,
living, and operative assurance” of which the
untutored mind is capable. Crawley masses an
overwhelming amount of data on this point, and both
he and Frazer show the strength of these beliefs.
Indeed, in many cases violation proved to be “sure
death,” not by the hand of man, but from sheer
fright. As a result, just as woman was considered
to have both the tendency and power to impart her
characteristics through contact, so the sexual act,
the acme of contact, became the most potent influence
for the emasculation of the male.
If we wish for proof that the primitive
attitude toward women was essentially that which we
have outlined, we have only to glance at the typical
taboos concerning woman found among ancient peoples
and among savage races of our own day. Nothing
could be more indicative of the belief that the power
to bring forth children was a manifestation of the
possession of mana than the common avoidance of the
pregnant woman. Her mystic power is well illustrated
by such beliefs as those described by the traveller
Im Thurn, who says that the Indians of Guiana believe
that if a pregnant woman eat of game caught by hounds,
they will never be able to hunt again. Similarly,
Alfred Russell Wallace wrote of the aborigines of
the Amazon: “They believe that if a woman
during her pregnancy eats of any meat, any other animal
partaking of it will suffer; if a domestic animal
or tame bird, it will die; if a dog, it will be for
the future incapable of hunting; and even a man will
be unable to shoot that particular kind of game for
the future." In Fiji a pregnant wife may not wait
upon her husband. In the Caroline Islands men may
not eat with their wives when pregnant, but small
boys are allowed to do so.
The avoidance of the menstruous woman
is an even more widespread custom than the shunning
of pregnancy, probably because this function was interpreted
as a symptom of demonic possession. Primitive
man had no reason to know that the phenomenon of menstruation
was in any way connected with reproduction. The
typical explanation was probably very much like that
of the Zoroastrians, who believed that the menses were
caused by the evil god Ahriman. A woman during
the period was unclean and possessed by that demon.
She must be kept confined and apart from the faithful,
whom her touch would defile, and from the fire, which
her very look would injure. To this day there
is in the house of the Parsee a room for the monthly
seclusion of the women, bare of all comforts, and
from it neither sun, moon, stars, fire, water, nor
any human being can be seen.
All the ancient civilizations had
such taboos upon the menstruous woman. According
to Pliny, the Romans held that nothing had such marvellous
efficacy as, or more deadly qualities than, the menstrual
flow. The Arabs thought that a great variety
of natural powers attached themselves to a woman during
the menstrual period.[12, ] Rabbinic laws demand
that “a woman during all the days of her separation
shall be as if under a ban.” The epithet
Niddah, applied to a woman at that time, means “to
lay under a ban.” The reconstruction of
the ancient Assyrian texts shows that the law of the
unclean taboo on the woman in her courses holds for
them. Up to the present time the Semitic woman
is carefully segregated from the rest of the tribe,
often for a long time, and becomes taboo again on
each successive occasion. Peoples in the eastern
Mediterranean region will not permit a woman in her
courses to salt or pickle; whatever she might prepare
would not keep. This belief survives among the
folk to-day in America, and was evidently brought
early in the history of the country, for it is common
among pioneer stock.
There are very similar taboos among
the savage races. Among the Tshi peoples of West
Africa women are not allowed to remain even in the
town but retire at the period to huts erected for
the purpose in the neighbouring bush, because they
are supposed to be offensive to the tribal deities
at that time. The Karoks of California have a
superstition like that of the Israelites. Every
month the woman is banished without the village to
live in a booth by herself. She is not permitted
to partake of any meat, including fish. If a woman
at this time touches or even approaches any medicine
which is about to be given to a sick man, it will
cause his death. Amongst other Indian tribes of
North America women at menstruation are forbidden to
touch men’s utensils, which would be so defiled
by their touch that their subsequent use would be
attended by certain misfortune. The Canadian Denes
believe that the very sight of a woman in this condition
is dangerous to society, so that she wears a special
skin bonnet to hide her from the public gaze.
In western Victoria a menstruous woman may not take
anyone’s food or drink, and no one will touch
food that has been touched by her. Amongst the
Maoris, if a man ate food cooked by a menstrous woman,
he would be “tapu an inch thick." Frazer
quotes the case of an Australian blackfellow who discovered
that his wife had lain on his blanket at her menstrual
period, and who killed her and died of terror himself
within a fortnight. Australian women at this time
are forbidden on pain of death to touch anything that
men use or even to walk on a path that men frequent.
Among the Baganda tribes a menstruous woman is not
permitted to come near her husband, cook his food,
touch any of his weapons, or sit on his mats, bed,
or seat.
By some twist in the primitive way
of thinking, some “false association by similarity
and contiguity,” the function of childbirth,
unlike that of pregnancy, where the emphasis seems
to have been placed in most cases on the mana principle,
was held to be unclean and contaminating, and was
followed by elaborate rites of purification. It
may be that the pains of delivery were ascribed to
the machinations of demonic powers, or possession
by evil spirits, we know that this has sometimes
been the case. The use of charms and amulets,
and the chanting of sacred formulae at this dangerous
time all point to such beliefs. At any rate, although
the birth of the child would seem in every respect
except in the presence of blood to be more closely
connected with the phenomena of pregnancy than with
that of menstruation, as a matter of fact the taboos
on the woman in child-bed were intimately associated
with those on menstruous women.
Among the ancients, the Zoroastrians
considered the woman unclean at childbirth as at menstruation.
In the Old Testament, ritual uncleanness results from
contact with a woman at childbirth.
Likewise among savage tribes the same
customs concerning childbirth prevail. Among
the Australian aborigines women are secluded at childbirth
as at menstruation, and all vessels used by them during
this seclusion are burned. The Ewe-speaking people
think a mother and babe unclean for forty days after
childbirth. At menstruation and childbirth a Chippeway
wife may not eat with her husband; she must cook her
food at a separate fire, since any one using her fire
would fall ill.[10, v. ii, ] The Alaskan explorer
Dall found that among the Kaniagmuts a woman was considered
unclean for several days both after delivery and menstruation;
in either case no one may touch her and she is fed
with food at the end of a stick. Amongst the tribes
of the Hindu Kush the mother is considered unclean
for seven days after the birth of her child, and no
one will eat from her hand nor will she suckle her
infant during that period. In the Oxus valley
north of the Hindu Kush the period is extended to
forty days.
This attitude which primitive man
takes toward woman at the time of her sexual crises menstruation,
pregnancy, childbirth are but an intensification
of the feeling which he has toward her at all times.
Conflicting with his natural erotic inclinations are
the emotions of awe and fear which she inspires in
him as the potential source of contagion, for there
is always some doubt as to her freedom from bad magic,
and it is much safer to regard her as unclean.
Thus the every-day life of savage tribes is hedged
in by all manner of restrictions concerning the females
of their group. The men have their own dwelling
in many instances, where no woman may enter.
So, too, she may be barred out from the temples and
excluded from the religious ceremonies when men worship
their deity. There are people who will not permit
the women of their nation to touch the weapons, clothing,
or any other possessions of the men, or to cook their
food, lest even this indirect contact result in emasculation.
The same idea of sympathetic magic is at the root of
taboos which forbid the wife to speak her husband’s
name, or even to use the same dialect. With social
intercourse debarred, and often no common table even
in family life, it is veritably true that men and women
belong to two castes.
Of the primitive institution known
as the “men’s house,” Hutton Webster
says: “Sexual separation is further secured
and perpetuated by the institution known as the men’s
house, of which examples are to be found among primitive
peoples throughout the world. It is usually the
largest building in a tribal settlement ... Here
the most precious belongings of the community, such
as trophies and religious emblems, are preserved.
Within its precincts ... women and children ... seldom
or never enter ... Family huts serve as little
more than resorts for the women and children."
Many examples among uncivilized peoples
bear out this description of the institution of the
men’s house. Amongst the Indians of California
and in some Redskin tribes the men’s clubhouse
may never be entered by a squaw under penalty of death.
The Shastika Indians have a town lodge for women,
and another for men which the women may not enter.
Among the Fijis women are not allowed to enter a bure
or club house, which is used as a lounge by the chiefs.
In the Solomon Islands women may not enter the men’s
tambu house, and on some of the islands are
not even permitted to cross the beach in front of
it. In the Marquesas Islands the ti where
the men congregate and spend most of their time is
taboo to women, and protected by the penalty of death
from the pollution of a woman’s presence.
Not only is woman barred from the
men’s club house, but she is also often prohibited
from association and social intercourse with the opposite
sex by many other regulations and customs. Thus
no woman may enter the house of a Maori chief,
while among the Zulus, even if a man and wife are
going to the same place they never walk together.
Among the Baganda wives are kept apart from the men’s
quarters. The Ojibway Indian Peter Jones says
of his people: “When travelling the men
always walk on before. It would be considered
a great presumption for the wife to walk by the side
of her husband." In many islands of the South
Seas the houses of important men are not accessible
to their wives, who live in separate huts. Among
the Bedouins a wife may not sit in any part of the
tent except her own corner, while it is disgraceful
for a man to sit under the shadow of the women’s
roffe (tent covering). Among the Hindus,
no female may enter the men’s apartments.
In the Society and Sandwich Islands the females were
humiliated by taboo, and in their domestic life the
women lived almost entirely by themselves. The
wife could not eat the same food, could not eat in
the same place, could not cook by the same fire.
It was said that woman would pollute the food.
In Korea a large bell is tolled at about 8 p.m. and
3 a.m. daily, and between these hours only are women
supposed to appear in the streets. In the New Hebrides
there is a curious segregation of the sexes, with
a dread among the men of eating anything female.
Among many tribes this segregation
of the women and the separation of the sexes begin
at an early age, most often at the approach of puberty,
which is earlier in primitive peoples than in our own
race. The boys usually go about with the father,
while the girls remain with the mother. This
is true in Patagonia, where the boys begin to go with
the father at ten, the daughters with the mother at
nine. In Korea boys and girls are separated at
seven. From that time the Korean girl is absolutely
secluded in the inner court of her father’s home.
Mrs Bishop says: “Girl children are so
successfully hidden away that ... I never saw
one girl who looked above the age of six ... except
in the women’s rooms." Among the northern
Indian girls are from the age of eight or nine prohibited
from joining in the most innocent amusements with
children of the opposite sex, and are watched and guarded
with such an unremitting attention as cannot be exceeded
by the most rigid discipline of an English boarding-school.
Similar arrangements are reported among the Hill Dyaks,
certain Victorian tribes, and many others.
As already instanced, the separation of the sexes extends
even to brothers and sisters and other close relatives.
Thus in Fiji brothers and sisters are forbidden by
national and religious custom to speak to each other.
In Melanesia, according to Codrington, the boy begins
to avoid his mother when he puts on clothing, and
his sister as soon as she is tattooed. In the
exclusive Nanburi caste of Travancore brothers and
sisters are separated at an early age.
Women are more often than not excluded
also from religious worship on account of the idea
of their uncleanness. The Arabs in many cases
will not allow women religious instruction. The
Ansayrees consider woman to be an inferior being without
a soul, and therefore exclude her from religious services.
In the Sandwich Islands women were not allowed to
share in worship or festivals. The Australians
are very jealous lest women should look into their
sacred mysteries. It is death for a woman to
look into a Bora. In Fiji women are kept away from
worship and excluded from all the temples. The
women of some of the Indian hill-tribes may not sacrifice
nor appear at shrines, nor take part in religious
festivals. In New Ireland women are not allowed
to approach the temples. In the Marquesas Islands
the Hoolah-hoolah ground, where festivals are held,
is taboo to women, who are killed if they enter or
even touch with their feet the shadow of the trees.
Women are also excluded from the sacred festivals
of the Ahts. In the Amazon region, the women are
not even permitted to see the objects used in important
ceremonies. If any woman of the Uaupes tribe happens
to see the masks used in the tribal ceremony she is
put to death.
Crawley has explained the taboos on
the sexes eating together and on the cooking of food
by women for men as due to the superstitious belief
that food which has come in contact with or under the
influence of the female is capable of transmitting
her properties. Some southern Arabs would die
rather than accept food from a woman. Among the
old Sémites it was not the custom for a man to
eat with his wife and children. Among the Motu
of New Guinea when a man is helega, he may not eat
food that his wife has cooked. South Australian
boys during initiation are forbidden to eat with the
women, lest they “grow ugly or become grey.”
It was probably some fear of the charm-weaving
power of woman which lay at the root of the rules
which forbade her to speak her husband’s name,
the implication being that she might use it in some
incantation against him. For instance, a Zulu
woman was forbidden to speak her husband’s name;
if she did so, she would be suspected of witchcraft.
Herodotus tells us that no Ionian woman would ever
mention the name of her husband, nor may a Hindu woman
do so.
Frazer says that the custom of the
Kaffir woman of South Africa not to speak the name
of her own or husband’s relations has given rise
to an almost entirely different language from that
of the men through the substitution of new words for
the words thus banned. Once this “women’s
speech” had arisen, it would of course not be
used by the men because of the universal contempt
for woman and all that pertained to her. This
may have been the origin of the use of different dialects
in some tribes, such as the Japanese, the Arawaks,
some Brazilian tribes, and others.
Although the division of labour between
the sexes had a natural biological basis, and indeed
had its beginning in the animal world long before
man as such came into existence, the idea of the uncleanness
of woman was carried over to her work, which became
beneath the dignity of man. As a result, there
grew up a series of taboos which absolutely fixed
the sphere of woman’s labour, and prohibited
her from encroaching on the pursuits of man lest they
be degraded by her use, quite as much as they barred
man from her specific activities. In Nicaragua,
for example, it is a rule that the marketing shall
be done by women. In Samoa, where the manufacture
of cloth is allotted to the women, it is taboo for
a man to engage in any part of the process. Among
the Andamanese the performance of most of the domestic
duties falls to the lot of the women and children.
Only in cases of stern necessity will the husband
procure wood or water. An Eskimo even thinks it
an indignity to row in an umiak, the large
boat used by women.
They also distinguish very definitely
between the offices of husband and wife. For
example, when a man has brought a seal to land, it
would be a stigma on his character to draw it out
of the water, since that is the duty of the female.
In the Marquesas Islands, the use of canoes in all
parts of the islands is rigorously prohibited to women,
for whom it is death even to be seen entering one
when hauled on shore; while Tapa-making, which belongs
exclusively to women, is taboo to men. Among the
Betchuanas of South Africa the men will not let women
touch the cattle. The Baganda think that if a
woman steps over a man’s weapons they will not
aim straight or kill until they have been purified.
Among many South African tribes, if a wife steps over
her husband’s assegais, they are considered
useless from that time and are given to the boys to
play with. This superstition rings many changes
and is current among the natives of all countries.
The taboos which have thus been exemplified
and reviewed are based on the feeling that woman is
possessed of a demonic power, or perhaps of a mana
principle which may work injury; or else upon the fear
that she may contaminate man with her weakness.
It is very probable that many of these taboos originated
even as far back as the stage of society in which
the line of descent was traced through the mother.
There seems little doubt that the framework of ancient
society rested on the basis of kinship, and that the
structure of the ancient gens brought the mother and
child into the same gens. Under these circumstances
the gens of the mother would have some ascendancy
in the ancient household. On such an established
fact rests the assumption of a matriarchate, or period
of Mutterrecht. The German scholar Bachofen
in his monumental work “Das Mutterrecht”
discussed the traces of female “authority”
among the Lycians, Cretans, Athenians, Lemnians, Lesbians,
and Asiatic peoples. But it is now almost unanimously
agreed that the matriarchal period was not a time
when women were in possession of political or economic
power, but was a method of tracing descent and heritage.
It is fairly well established that, in the transition
from metronymic to patronymic forms, authority did
not pass from women to men, but from the brothers
and maternal uncles of the women of the group to the
husbands and sons. Such a method of tracing descent,
while it doubtless had its advantages in keeping the
woman with her child with her blood kindred, would
not prevent her from occupying a degraded position
through the force of the taboos which we have described.
With the development of the patriarchal
system and the custom of marriage by capture or purchase,
woman came to be regarded as a part of man’s
property, and as inviolate as any other of his possessions.
Under these circumstances virginity came to be more
and more of an asset, since no man wished his property
to be denied by the touch of another. Elaborate
methods for the preservation of chastity both before
and after marriage were developed, and in many instances
went so far as to consider a woman defiled if she
were accidentally touched by any other man than her
husband. Here we have once more the working of
sympathetic magic, where the slightest contact works
contamination.
We have in other connections alluded
to the seclusion of young girls in Korea, among the
Hindus, among the North American Indians, and in the
South Seas. One of the most beautiful examples
of this custom is found in New Britain. From
puberty until marriage the native girls are confined
in houses with a bundle of dried grass across the entrance
to show that the house is strictly taboo. The
interior of these houses is divided into cells or
cages in each of which a girl is confined. No
light and little or no air enters, and the atmosphere
is hot and stifling.
The seclusion of women after marriage
is common among many peoples. In the form in
which it affected western civilization it probably
originated among the Persians or some other people
of central Asia, and spread to the Arabs and Mohammedans.
That it did not originate with the Arabs is attested
by students of their culture. It was common among
the Greeks, whose wives were secluded from other men
than their husbands. In modern Korea it is not
even proper to ask after the women of the family.
Women have been put to death in that country when strange
men have accidentally touched their hands.[36, ]
The saddest outcome of the idea of
woman as property was the status of widows. In
uncivilized society a widow is considered dangerous
because the ghost of her husband is supposed to cling
to her. Hence she must be slain that his spirit
may depart in peace with her, as well as with the
weapons and other possessions which are buried with
him or burned upon his funeral pyre. The Marathi
proverb to the effect that “the husband is the
life of the woman” thus becomes literally true.
The best known case of widow slaying
is of course the custom of “suttee” in
India. The long struggle made against this custom
by the British government is a vivid illustration
of the strength of these ancient customs. The
Laws of Manu indicate that the burning of widows was
practised by primitive Aryans. In the Fiji Islands,
where a wife was strangled on her husband’s
grave, the strangled women were called “the
carpeting of the grave." In Arabia, as in many
other countries, while a widow may escape death, she
is very often forced into the class of vagabonds and
dependents. One of the most telling appeals made
by missionaries is the condition of child widows in
countries in which the unfortunates cannot be killed,
but where the almost universal stigma of shame is
attached to second marriages. A remarkable exception
to this, when in ancient Greece the dying husband
sometimes bequeathed his widow to a male friend, emphasized
the idea of woman as property.
Although the taboos which are based
on the idea of ownership are somewhat aside from the
main theme of our discussion, they nevertheless reinforce
the other taboos of the seclusion and segregation of
woman as unclean. Moreover, as will be shown
in a later chapter, the property idea has certain
implications which are important for the proper understanding
of the status of woman and the attitude toward her
at the present time.
In the face of the primitive aversion
to woman as the source of contamination through sympathetic
magic, or as the seat of some mystic force, whether
of good or evil, it may well be asked how man ever
dared let his sexual longings overcome his fears and
risk the dangers of so intimate a relationship.
Only by some religious ceremonial, some act of purification,
could man hope to counteract these properties of woman;
and thus the marriage ritual came into existence.
By the marriage ceremonial, the breach of taboo was
expiated, condoned, and socially countenanced.[1,
] This was very evident in the marriage customs
of the Greeks, which were composed of purification
rites and other precautions. The injunctions to
the Hebrews given in Leviticus illustrate the almost
universal fact that even under the sanction of marriage
the sexual embrace was taboo at certain times, as for
example before the hunt or battle.
We are now prepared to admit that
throughout the ages there has existed a strongly dualistic
or “ambivalent” feeling in the mind of
man toward woman. On the one hand she is the
object of erotic desire; on the other hand she is
the source of evil and danger. So firmly is the
latter feeling fixed that not even the sanction of
the marriage ceremony can completely remove it, as
the taboos of intercourse within the marital relationship
show.
There are certain psychological and
physiological reasons for the persistence of this
dualistic attitude in the very nature of the sex act
itself. Until the climax of the sexual erethism,
woman is for man the acme of supreme desire; but with
detumescence the emotions tend to swing to the opposite
pole, and excitement and longing are forgotten in
the mood of repugnance and exhaustion. This tendency
would be very much emphasized in those primitive tribes
where the corroboree with its unlimited indulgence
was common, and also among the ancients with their
orgiastic festivals. In the revulsion of feeling
following these orgies woman would be blamed for man’s
own folly. In this physiological swing from desire
to satiety, the apparent cause of man’s weakness
would be looked upon as the source of the evil a
thing unclean. There would be none of the ethical
and altruistic element of modern “love”
to protect her. Students agree that these elements
in the modern sentiment have been evolved, “not
from the sexual instinct, but from the companionship
of the battlefield." It is therefore probable that
in this physiological result of uncontrolled sex passion
we shall find the source of the dualism of the attitude
toward sex and womanhood present in taboo.