What a different picture the other
house presents to our view! The parents of the
Good Family are always cheerful and happy; the children
love each other and agree together; the servants are
content and eager to oblige, and visitors delight
to come to the house, because they pass their time
there with both pleasure and profit.
MANLY EDWARD, the eldest son, is a
fine youth, who makes himself the friend and protector
of his younger brothers and sisters. Edward has
true courage, for he will meet danger to help the helpless,
to rescue the oppressed, or in defence of the injured;
yet he tries to avoid all quarrels, and is very often
the peacemaker among those who are engaged in a dispute.
His manners are gentle and graceful. He shuns
the company of the rude vulgar boys, yet insults no
one by seeming to hold them in contempt. It is
not fine clothes or money that he pays respect to,
it is virtue and good manners; and if the poorest
boy in the school has the most of these good qualities,
he gains the most of Manly Edward’s love and
esteem.
STUDIOUS ARTHUR, the second son of
the Good Family, does not learn quickly, but what
he wants of that power he makes up by diligence.
As he finds he cannot get his task by heart as fast
as some other boys, he therefore fixes his whole thoughts
on his book; and no calls to go to play, nor any sort
of thing, can draw him from his lesson till he has
learned it perfectly. Arthur is seldom seen without
a book in his hand; and if he goes out to walk, he
puts one in his pocket, to be ready if he should chance
to have a few minutes to himself. He never wastes
any time, and by that means he gains a great deal
of knowledge. He is so attentive that he never
forgets what he reads and learns. Arthur will,
no doubt, become a very wise man, and already he often
finds the knowledge he has gained of great use to
him. His parents commend him, his friends admire
him, and his schoolfellows respect him.
WELL-BRED CHARLES, the third son,
is also a charming boy. He is greatly remarked
for his perfect good manners. He never forgets
to behave with politeness wherever he is. In
the company of his parents and their friends he is
attentive to supply the wants of every one. He
listens to the discourse, and when he is spoken to
he answers at once in a lively, ready, and pleasant
manner, but is never forward and talkative. When
he has a party of playfellows, his mirth is not noisy
and boisterous. He does not think, as some rude
children do, that all play consists in screaming,
shouting, tearing clothes, and knocking things to pieces,
but finds plenty of sport for his little visitors
without doing any of these things, and makes them
as merry as possible. When cakes or fruit are
sent into the playroom, he helps his guests all round
before he touches any himself. He places them
in the seats nearest the fire, or, in fine weather,
where they can see the most pleasant prospect.
As good manners always arise from a good temper and
a kind heart which desires to make others happy, so
they are sure to promote good-humour and happiness.
The play-parties of Charles, therefore, are never
spoilt by disputes and quarrels. His visitors
come with delight, and leave him with regret.
WELL-BRED CHARLES is constantly attentive
to the ease and comfort of those about him. He
pays great respect and deference to people who are
old. He never uses coarse words nor bad language,
and always speaks civilly to servants. He does
not enter the parlour with dirty hands and face, nor
ever greases his clothes, for he knows that dirty habits
are offensive, disgusting things, and therefore he
carefully avoids them.
Some children put on their good manners
with their best clothes, and think they need behave
well only before company; but the politeness of such
children is stiff, awkward, and troublesome, and they
always forget themselves, and return to some of their
vulgar habits, before they leave the company.
It is the constant practice of good manners, at all
times and in all places, that renders them easy, becoming,
sweet and natural, like those of Well-bred Charles.
The daughters of this good and happy
family are no less worthy of praise than the sons.
The eldest girl, whom we may call PATIENT EMMA, has
the misfortune to suffer from illness. Sometimes
she has severe pain, yet she bears it with patience
and fortitude. She even tries to hide what she
feels, that she may not afflict her kind parents; and
the instant she has a little ease she becomes as cheerful
as any one. She submits without a murmur to take
what medicines the doctors prescribe for the cure
of her illness. She is not so foolish as to expect
to find a pleasant taste in physic, but she expects
that it will be of service to her; and she would rather
have a bitter taste in her mouth for a few moments,
than endure days, weeks, and months of pain and sickness.
As peevish, fretful tempers often bring disease on
the body, so a patient, even temper not only lessens
all suffering, but helps to cure the diseases of the
body; Miss Emma, therefore, will perhaps in a short
time regain her health, and should such an event happen,
what joy it will give to all who know, pity, and admire
this excellent little girl!
GENEROUS SUSAN thinks all day long
how she can add to the happiness of others. It
is her greatest pleasure to relieve distress, to do
good, and to promote the comforts of all around her.
She watches the looks of her parents, that she may
fly to oblige them. If they are going out to ride
in the coach, and there is not room enough for all
the children, she will give up her place, that one
of her brothers or sisters may go. She will at
all times leave play, or decline paying a visit, to
attend on Emma, her sick sister. She sits whole
hours by her bed-side to watch her while she sleeps,
and is careful to stir neither hand or foot, lest she
should disturb her slumbers. When awake, she reads
to her, talks to her, or sings to her, if that seems
most to amuse her. She would gladly bear the
pain herself, if it were possible so to relieve poor
Emma.
When Susan has any money given to
her, she does not treat herself with sweetmeats or
toys, but buys something that will be useful to her
brothers or sisters. At other times she will buy
a pair of shoes for a poor child that goes bare-footed,
or purchase a book for some little boy or girl to
learn to read in. Her mamma often gives her old
frocks and gowns to bestow on some distressed family,
and then Susan works with all her might for several
days, to mend and make them up in the most useful
manner: for she has been told that a poor woman
who has two or three children to take care of, and
goes out to daily labour, has not time to work with
her needle, and perhaps does not know how to do it
properly. When Susan has mended or made three
or four little frocks, and sees the children neatly
dressed in them, she feels more delight and pleasure
than if she had twenty dolls of her own, clothed in
silks and satins. Generous Susan has the
blessing of the poor and the love of all her family.
MERRY AGNES, the youngest child of
the whole, is a fine, healthy, lively, sprightly,
laughing little girl, who feels no pain, and has no
cause for sorrow. She is a kind of plaything for
her elder brothers and sisters, who all delight in
her good-humour. They never tease, torment, and
try to put her out of temper, as some children do to
those who are younger than themselves, but they commend
her goodness and strive to improve her. When
they tell her not to do anything, she obeys them at
once: for she sees that they are all gay, smiling,
happy children, because they do what is right.
If she wants to have what is not proper for her, she
can bear to be denied, and skips away just as merry
as before. This little girl will become very
clever, for her brothers and sisters take pleasure
in teaching her what they have been taught, and she
attends to their lessons, and improves by their advice.
She knows that they are all good, and she wishes to
be like them.
It is a fine sight to see this Good
Family all together: for among them there are
no sour looks or rude words, no murmurs, no complaints,
or quarrels. No: all is kindness, peace,
and happiness.