If you have developed real capability
and first-class manhood, you have “the goods”
that are always salable. But you realize now that
the mere possession of these basic qualifications
for success will not insure you against failure in
life. You cannot be certain of succeeding
unless you know how to sell true ideas of your
best self in the right market or field of service,
and until you develop sales skill by continual
correct practice.
We will assume that you have had little
or no selling experience. You are conscious that
you entirely lack sales art. Therefore, though
in other ways you feel qualified to succeed in life,
you may be dubious about your future. Perhaps
you realize that skill in selling true ideas
of your best capabilities is all you need to make your
success certain. But you question, “Can
I be sure of becoming a skillful salesman of
myself?” You have no doubt of your ability to
learn the selling process, but very likely
you do not believe you ever could practice
it with the art of a master salesman. Consequently
you are not yet convinced of the certainty of your
success.
Of course success cannot be absolutely
assured in advance unless every element of
the secret we have analyzed can be mastered. Hence
it is necessary that you now be shown certain ways
to sell ideas ways that cannot fail,
that are adaptable to the sale of any right
“goods,” and that you surely can
master. You need to feel absolutely confident
that if you follow specific principles and use particular
methods, you can impress on any other man true ideas
of your best capabilities. When you become
skillful in making good impressions, you certainly
will be able to sell yourself into such chances to
succeed as fit your individual qualifications.
Your success with the best that
is in you can be made directly proportionate to your
skill as a salesman of “your goods.”
Mastery of the art of selling will enable you to cut
down to the minimum the possibilities of failure in
whatever you undertake. Remember that success
does not demand perfection. There never was a 100%
salesman. To be a success, you need only make
a good batting average in your opportunities to
sell. It is not necessary to hit 1000 to be a
champion batsman in the game of life. Ty Cobb
led his league a dozen years with an average under
.400.
The foundation of sales art
is knowledge of selling technique. So
the first step in the process of developing your skill
as a salesman of yourself is the study of the right
tools for making impressions of “true ideas
of your best capabilities.” You must know,
also, the scientific rules that govern the most
effective use of these right tools. Technique,
however, is only the basic element of salesmanship.
On the foundation of your sales knowledge it
is necessary to build sales skill that will
completely cover up your technique. Your perfected
sales art should seem, and really be second nature
to you.
Your salesmanship probably will be
crude until you overcome the awkwardness of handling
unfamiliar tools, or familiar tools in ways that are
new to you. But “practice makes perfect.”
The use of the right technique in selling true ideas
about your best self will soon become natural.
The skillful sale of ideas
is accomplished without waste of time or energy
in the selling process. The unskillful, would-be
salesman not only fritters away his own time and effort,
he also wastes the patience and power of the man to
whom he wants to sell his “goods.”
The sales artist, however, gets his ideas into the
mind of a prospect quickly, with the least
possible wear and tear on either party to the
sale. No one appreciates a fine salesman so thoroughly
as the best buyer. Skill in selling true ideas
about your particular qualifications will not only
assure your success, but will make it easy
for you to succeed.
The skillful salesman is the captain
of his own sales-man-ship. But in order to make
certain of landing his cargo of right impressions he
takes aboard the pilot Science to begin with, and
then concentrates on four factors of the art of selling
ideas:
First, discovering and traversing
the best channel into the prospect’s mind;
Second, locating the particular
point of interest upon which the salesman’s
cargo can be most effectively unloaded;
Third, maneuvering alongside
this center of the buyer’s interest;
Fourth, securely tying to the
interest pier so that the shipload of ideas may be
fully discharged.
The primary aim of the skillful salesman
when making port is to get safely to the right
landing place as soon as possible and with the least
danger of failure in his ultimate purpose of
completing the sale. At this initial stage of
the selling process, however, he concentrates his
thoughts on the skillful docking of his sales-man-ship.
The nature of the cargo a sailor ship captain
brings to port has little or nothing to do with the
art of reaching and tying up to the pier. Similarly,
whatever his “goods of sale,” the skillful
salesman uses the same principles and methods
to dock his salesman-shipload of ideas most effectively
in the harbor of the prospect’s mind. So
the art you are studying is standardized.
When you master it, you can apply it successfully
to the sale of your best self or any other “goods
of sale.”
Before considering the methods of
selling that are most effective, it will be well to
get rid of a mistaken idea that is all too common.
A great many people regard reasoning power, or the
force of pure logic, as an important selling tool.
There are so-called salesmen who attempt to “argue”
prospects into buying. Unthinking sales executives
sometimes instruct their representatives to employ
certain “selling arguments.” But
the methods and language of the debater have no place
in the repertory of a truly artistic salesman
or sales manager.
One debater never convinces
the other. At best he only can defeat
his antagonist. In a skillfully finished sale,
however, there should be neither victor nor vanquished.
The selling process is not a battle of minds.
There is no room in it for any spirit of antagonism
on the part of the salesman. So in your self-training
to sell true ideas of your best capabilities, do not
emphasize especially the value of logic and reasoning.
If you use them at all in selling yourself, disguise
their character most skillfully. Never suggest
that you are debating or arguing your qualifications
with prospective buyers of your mental or physical
capacity for service. You cannot browbeat your
way into opportunities to succeed.
Most employers buy the expected services
of men and women in order to satisfy their own desires
for particular capabilities. Few will buy against
their wishes. In order to sell your qualifications
with certain success, you first must make the other
man genuinely want what you offer. Almost
always mind vision and heart hunger must
be stimulated to produce desire. Therefore the
most skillful salesman of himself does not use the
words, tones, and actions of argument. In preference
to cold reason and logic he employs the arts of mental
suggestion and emotional persuasion.
Suggestion is especially effective
in producing desire; because an idea that is merely
suggested, and not stated, is unlikely to provoke
antagonism or resistance. A suggestion is given
ready access to the mind of the other man. Usually
it gets in without his realizing that a strange
thought has entered his head from outside. When
he becomes conscious of the presence in his mind of
an idea that has been only suggested to him,
he is apt to treat it as one of his own family of
ideas and not as an intruder. Naturally he
is little inclined to oppose a desire that he thinks
is prompted by his own thoughts. However,
he would be disposed to resist the same wish if he
realized it had been injected into his consciousness.
All of us know the great force of
suggestion; but there are very few people who so use
words, tones, and movements as to make the most
of their power of suggesting ideas in preference
to stating them. Probably no tool of salesmanship
will be of more help in assuring your success
than fully developed ability in suggestion, which is
the skillful process of getting your ideas into the
minds of others unawares.
The words we use are intended
to convey pretty definite meanings to listeners.
If we are entirely honest in our words, we expect whatever
we say to be taken at its face value as the truth.
Yet each of us knows that his own mind seldom accepts
without question the statements of other men, however
well informed and honest they are reputed to be.
You and I mentally reserve the right to believe or
to doubt the written or spoken words of someone
else; because they always enter our minds consciously.
We know that the words we hear or read come from outside
ourselves.
The skillful salesman proceeds on
the assumption that his words will be stopped at the
door of the prospect’s mind and examined with
more or less suspicion of their sincerity and truth.
Therefore the selling artist employs words principally
for one purpose to communicate to the other
man information about such facts as cannot be
introduced to his consciousness otherwise. Some
facts can be told only in words. But a master
of the selling process uses as few words as possible
to convey his meaning. He depends on his suggestive
tones more than on what he says. He reenforces
his speech with accompanying movements and
muscular expressions, to get into the mind of
the other man by suggestive action the true
ideas behind the words used.
Similarly when you bring your full
capability to the market of your choice, you should
not rely upon a mere declaration of your qualifications;
and upon word proof, written or spoken, that
you are the man for the job. Your words
are unlikely to be taken at their face value.
Any claims you have a right to make will be discounted
heavily if you say very much about your own
ability. You run the risk of being judged a braggart
and egotist when you talk up your good points;
though you may be telling no more than the plain truth.
However, if your tones of sincerity
and self-confidence denote really big manhood; and
if your every act and expression indicate to
a prospective employer that you are entirely capable
of filling the job for which you apply, he probably
will consider himself very shrewd in sizing you up.
Really you have suggested to him every idea
he has about you, but he will think he has
found in you the very qualifications he desires
in an employee. You can do more to sell yourself
by the way you walk into a man’s office than
you could accomplish by bringing him the finest letters
of introduction or by “giving him the smoothest
line of talk about yourself.” He is able
to read the principal characteristics of the real
You in your poise and movements and in the manner
of your speech. He will believe absolutely any
characteristic he himself finds in you. What
you say to him may have little real influence on his
judgment of you. But be sure that he will note
how you speak; and will make up his mind about
you from your tones and actions, rather than from
your words. He will think the ideas you suggest
to him are his own original discoveries.
Evidently, before you attempt to achieve
success, it is very important that you study the art
of suggestion by tones and actions. When you
know the principles, you should practice this art until
you make yourself a master of skillful suggestion.
You need to know precisely the effects
of tone variations, the exact significance
of the various tones you can use. It is
necessary also for you to comprehend not only that
“Every little movement has a meaning all its
own,” but just what that meaning is.
When you are equipped with thorough knowledge of how
to suggest particular ideas through tones and motions,
you should practice using the principles and methods
of suggestive expression you have learned, until it
becomes second nature always to speak and act with
selling art. Then you will be a skillful
salesman, sure of your power to sell true ideas of
your best capability wherever you are. Your success
will have been made certain through your sales art
built on the foundation of your sales knowledge
by your fully developed sales manhood.
Your increased selling skill
will result naturally, just as we have seen
that you will grow naturally in sales manhood,
if you employ the discriminative-selective method
when training your human nature in the art of suggesting
your best self. You need first to recognize the
exact differences of significance among the
various tones and movements at your command.
Then your self-training in suggestive expression should
be concentrated on the particular ways of speaking
and acting that will best demonstrate your qualifications
for success. Of course it is equally important
to eliminate all tones and movements that might
suggest unfavorable ideas about you. To make
sure of your success, be certain that everything you
do and say tells “the truth, the whole truth,
and nothing but the truth” about your capabilities.
It is necessary to make sure no word, tone, or movement
carries the least suggestion that might possibly leave
a false impression of the real You.
Let us make a brief analysis now of
words, tones, and acts the three means
of suggestive expression which are the natural equipment
of every man for conveying his ideas to the minds
of others. You cannot employ the discriminative-restrictive
method to develop your selling skill unless you know
very definitely just what your different tools
of expression are, and the almost infinite variety
of uses to which they can be put.
For the reasons already explained,
words are of much less value than tones and movements
in suggesting ideas the other man will admit to his
mind unawares. But the sales efficiency of words
can be very much increased if they are chosen with
intelligent discrimination, and if the choice
is restricted to words that have four qualifications.
First, they should be common words.
Second, short words are more forceful than
long words.
Third, words of definite meanings
are preferable to mere generalizations.
Fourth, words that make vivid
impressions are most effective in suggesting ideas.
When you employ words to sell true
ideas of your best capability, choose words that everybody
understands. Do not “air your knowledge”
in uncommon language. Unless you are seeking
a position as a philologist in a college, restrict
yourself to every-day common speech when selling your
personal qualifications. An important element
in the skillful sale of ideas is making them as easy
as possible for the other man to comprehend.
If you use unfamiliar words, it sometimes will be hard
for him to understand what you mean. The truly
artistic salesman avoids introducing any unnecessary
element of difficulty into the selling process.
So you should discriminate against all unusual expressions
and restrict yourself to the common words that
are easy for any man to comprehend.
A long word or phrase may convey your
idea clearly, but force is lost in the drawn-out
process. Remember that your words will
meet the intuitive resistance of the other man’s
mind before they are admitted to his full belief.
You cannot afford to sacrifice the driving-in power
of the short word. Therefore, when your
opinion is asked, it will be better salesmanship to
say, “I think” so and so than “It
is my impression ”
The definite word conveys a
particular meaning to the mind of the other
man, not merely a vague or general idea. Never
say, when you apply for a position, “I can do
anything.” That tells the prospective employer
simply nothing about your ability. Particularize.
It is of the utmost importance to
make vivid impressions with your speech.
You should employ words skillfully to produce in the
mind of the other man distinct and lifelike
mental images. He may not credit the words themselves,
taken literally and alone. But he will believe
in the pictures the words paint in his mind;
because he will think he himself is the mental artist.
He will not be suspicious of his own work. If
you apply for a situation in a bank, and the cashier
seeks to learn whether or not you are safely conservative
in your views, you can suggest in vivid words that
you have the qualification he requires. You will
make the desired impression if you say to him, “I
always carry an umbrella when it looks like rain.”
Our analysis of the three means of
self-expression turns now to tones. Rightly
selected words are tremendously augmented in selling
power when they are rightly spoken. Most
men employ but a small part of their complete tonal
equipment, and are ignorant of the full sales value
of the portion they use. The master salesman,
however, practices the gamut of his natural tones,
and utilizes each to produce particular effects.
Thus he supplements his mere statements with suggestive
shades of meaning. The way he says
a thing has more effect than the words themselves.
Conversely tone faults may
have a disastrous effect on one’s chances to
succeed. For illustration, ideas of mind, of feeling,
and of power can be correctly expressed by the discriminative
use of particular pitches of tone. But
a wrong pitch, though the words employed might be
identical, would convey a directly opposite and false
impression.
Suppose you are appealing only to
the mind of your prospective employer as
when you quote figures to him you should
restrict your tone temporarily to the mental pitch.
You are just conveying facts now. Therefore the
“matter-of-fact” tone best suits the ideas
expressed. Since it fits what you are saying,
the way you speak impresses the other man with the
suggestion that your tone and words are consistent.
Therefore his mind has no inclination to resist the
mental pitch on this occasion. He admits your
figures to his conscious belief more readily than
he would credit them if spoken in an emotive or power
tone. Such tone pitches would strike him as out
of place in a mere statement of fact.
If your prospective employer asks
how old you are, and how many years of experience
you have had, and you reply in a tone vibrant with
emotion or in a deep tone of sternness, the wrong
pitch certainly will make a bad impression on him.
By employing an inconsistent pitch when stating facts,
you might “queer” your chances for the
position you most desire. The tone fault in your
salesmanship would lie about your real character.
The man addressed would think you were foolish to use
such a pitch in merely imparting a bit of information
to his mind. He would expect you to employ for
that purpose simply a head tone, not
a chest tone nor an abdominal tone. The head
tone, when used to convey matters of fact,
aids in convincing the mind of the other man
because it is the pitch that fits bare facts the
tone of pure mentality.
This mental, or head tone, is most
effective in gaining attention, in conveying
information, in arousing the perceptive faculties
of another mind. Restrict its use to these purposes
only. The mental tone is not pleasing to the ear.
It is pitched high. It suggests arguments and
disputes. It is the provocative tone of quarrels.
So it should be employed most carefully, with every
precaution against giving offense by its insistence.
Avoid its use for long at a time.
Its very monotony is apt to irritate. The high
pitch suggests a mental challenge to the mind of the
other man, and hence arouses his mental tendency to
opposition. The unskillful over-use of
head tones may ruin a salesman’s best opportunity
to gain a coveted object.
There are times, however, when it
is necessary that you should insist briefly.
If you do so artistically, and do not persist
in the high, mental, rasping tone; but change to the
lower, emotive, chest tone very soon after your insistence
on the other man’s attention, you will not hurt
your chances. It is the continued use of
the head tone that is to be avoided.
The emotive (chest or heart)
pitch dissipates opposition as naturally as the mind
tone provokes a quarrel. Even a hot argument can
be ended without any lasting ill-feeling if the disputants
conclude with hearty expressions of good will for
one another. The same words spoken in head tones
would increase the antagonism by suggesting sarcasm
or insincerity. The resonant chest tone suggests
that it comes from the speaker’s heart.
The hearer’s heart makes his mind
believe the heart message conveyed by the emotional
pitch of the other man’s voice.
Therefore if you want your ideas to
penetrate a man’s heart, don’t aim
your tone high at his head. Lower it
to the pitch of true friendliness, of comradeship,
of human brotherhood. Aim at his breast
with your breast tone. Do not fawn or plead,
however, when selling ideas of yourself. You
can persuade best by suggesting that you have brought
all your manhood to render the other man a real service.
This suggestion will induce a feeling of respect
for you, which will certainly be followed by willingness
of the prospect to let you show him you are able “to
deliver the goods.”
Some people suggest by the over-use
of head tones that they depend altogether on what
they know to achieve success. They make
the impression that they expect their high degree
of mentality to open chances for them to succeed.
“They know they know” their business; so
when they secure opportunities to demonstrate their
capabilities, they emphasize too much what they know.
They are apt to use the mental tone continually.
Perhaps the prospective employer needs a man of exactly
such knowledge as is possessed by the candidate he
is interviewing. But if when presenting his qualifications
the applicant rasps the ears of his hearer for a long
time with high-pitched head tones, the listener intuitively
becomes prejudiced. He is impressed with the suggestion
that the speaker is a “know-it-all” fellow.
The employer is likely to turn down his application
because of the unskilled tone pitch in which it is
made.
When a man has talked glibly and fast
about superior qualifications he knows he possesses,
it dazes him if his exceptional capabilities fail to
win him the job for which he is particularly fitted.
He cannot comprehend why another applicant who plainly
is not so well qualified should be chosen. But
his voice has suggested to the employer that everything
he said was just “parrot talk.” Thousands
of bright “parrots” remain failures all
their lives for no other reason than their utter inability
to get inside the hearts of other men.
The ordinary canvasser who trudges from house to house
with his “sing-song” patter has grown
into the bad habit of using head tones almost exclusively.
As a natural reflex of the unpleasant impression he
makes with his voice, it is a common experience to
have a door slammed in his face.
The master salesman comprehends that
the mentality of a prospect is a barrier to
his emotional expression. That is, the
mind is an alert sentinel on guard to protect the
heart from its own impulses to unthinking action.
So the skillful salesman when making his “approach”
goes around the mind side of the prospect to
the emotional side, where there is no hostile guard.
He knows that “the hearts of all men are akin,”
and that “the hardest heart has soft spots.”
He realizes it is bad salesmanship to challenge the
sentinel mind of the prospect in a mental tone.
So the salesman artist makes his tone resonant
with chest vibrations that stimulate the direct response
of the other man’s heart. He works
at first to draw out fellow feeling, not to drive his
ideas into the head of the prospect
The mere presentation of thoughts,
or mental pictures of goods, is not enough
to induce a prospect to buy. The master salesman
comprehends that he has to deal with the dual personality
of the individual he plans to sell. Therefore
from the very beginning of his interview he works
to open the mind of the other man by first establishing
a unity of human feeling between his own heart and
the heart of his prospect. He uses the emotive
tone. He “talks like a brother.”
Of course he is careful not to exaggerate this show
of fellow feeling. He uses a “hearty”
tone without appearing in the least degree hypocritical.
When their hearts are in accord, the other
man is prepared to agree mentally with the
salesman.
The third pitch of your voice as a
salesman is the power tone. It can be
used skillfully to suggest that you have the force
required to succeed. It is the pitch that comes
from deep down and that calls into play the powerful
abdominal muscles. It is not necessarily a loud
tone, however. Often it is low, with a suggestion
of immense reserve strength behind it. With the
power pitch you can command in a simple request
which, spoken in a higher tone, might be refused because
it would lack the suggestion of force. In order
to succeed, you sometimes must employ power.
When a situation requires a demonstration of your strong
personality, augment the force of your words and acts
by using the tone pitch that suggests the power of
the big muscles of your waist.
Employ the emotive tone to convey
ideas of your truthfulness and honor. Show your
courtesy and kindness with the heart pitch; use it
to manifest your real desire to be of service to your
prospect. But suggest your solidity and capacity
for good judgment by employing the pitch of power.
With its aid you can convince your prospect of the
enduring quality of your best characteristics; you
can deny disparagement or doubt of your ability; you
will be able to brush aside unfounded objections; you
can compel respect.
The discriminative use of various
units of tone is as helpful in making suggestive
impressions as is the employment of character pitches.
The one-tone voice does not augment the force of words.
“Yes” said with but one tonal unit is
not nearly so powerful as “Y-es” in
two tones, the second pitched low. A two-tone
“Y-es” with the second unit high-pitched
suggests the very opposite of plain “Yes.”
It implies “No,” or a question instead
of an affirmation. Sometimes it is advisable to
suggest “No” when the word itself if spoken
bluntly would give offense. You can convey the
idea of skepticism or denial by using two tone units
skillfully pitched in saying “Y-es.”
While you ordinarily can double the
effectiveness of your tone by using two units, and
you may treble the effect if you employ three (as in
the exclamation A-ha-a!), if you attempted to use
more than three units of tone in any ordinary circumstances
you would be likely to appear odd or fantastic, if
not foolish. So be careful not to over-do the
employment of multiple tone units to stress your meaning.
There is selling value, too, in the
placing of tones in your mouth. A tone
placed far forward indicates lack of thought and instability.
It is the tone we associate with “lip judgments.”
On the contrary, hidden thoughts, unwillingness to
tell all you know, are suggested by tones placed far
back in your mouth. The middle-of-the-mouth tone
makes the impression that the voice is properly balanced,
and suggests the associated idea of mind balance.
Avoid the extremes in placing your tones, if you would
make certain of the most effective use of your voice
in selling ideas. Convince and persuade by employing
the secure, trustworthy tone of the “happy medium.”
Undoubtedly you have little bad
habits that tell lies about you habits
in the use of words, habits of tone, and especially
habits of action. When you fully understand the
significance of what you say, and of how
you say it, and of the things you do the
effects produced on other men you will
start changing your bad characteristics into good
factors that will certainly help you to succeed.
So study yourself most carefully, in order to learn
what your habits are, and their meanings.
Ordinarily a man is conscious of his
words and tones, but he often does things unconsciously.
Probably you realize only vaguely or not at all just
what your various actions suggest to people
who observe you. Therefore it is of the greatest
importance that you study the significance of discriminated
movements, gestures, and facial expressions as
aids or hindrances to the making of true impressions
of your best capabilities. You should restrict
yourself to acts that make the best impressions
Movements, and their results, may
be analyzed under three heads: Poise, Pose,
and Action.
It is a phenomenon of psychology that
the balancing of the body suggests mental balance.
Conversely, if the body is out of balance, there is
the suggestion that the mind is no better poised.
That is, if a man cannot keep his balance physically,
we have an intuition that he is mentally off his equilibrium.
Correct poise of course involves correct body support,
and suggests a rightly supported mind. Hence you
can make the impression, merely by the way you stand
and walk, that you are a person of well-poised judgment.
You may hurt your chances very much if it seems necessary
for you to prop your body with your legs. The
man who stands with his feet wide apart is out of
balance, and is easily tipped over. The impression
made by the incorrect poise is that such a man must
be unable to stand by himself like normal men.
The law of the association of ideas then immediately
suggests that his thoughts are similarly unable to
stand unless propped.
Incorrect poise of the body has another
bad effect in the sale of ideas. It makes the
impression of abnormality. Being unusual,
it distracts attention from the salesman and his capabilities,
and turns it to his lack of balance. You realize
that in order to sell your ideas effectively you need
the concentrated attention of your prospect.
It will help you to succeed in life if you perfect
yourself in the skillful poising of your body and
its members so that you will be able to appear perfectly
balanced in any normal position.
If you teeter from side to side, or
rock back and forth on your heels when you are talking
to a man whom you want to impress with your stability
of character, you will undermine everything you say
by what you do. Of course you should not
stand stiffly. Your leg posts are designed to
serve as a flexible pedestal for your body. Your
ability to shift your weight from one foot to the
other easily without losing your balance suggests
associated capability of your mind to keep your judgment
in balance. If you have a correctly poised mind,
it can balance your body.
The poses of your body, too,
are suggestive of ideas about your mental make-up.
The quiet pose aids in making impressions of the qualities
of solidity of purpose, of calmness, of confidence,
etc. The active pose is suggestive of enthusiasm,
force, hustling, and the like. Your pose should
be suited to the vocation you have chosen. In
a bank, for instance, the quiet pose of assured efficiency
perfectly suits the atmosphere of safety and security.
In a factory, on the other hand, you are likely to
make a better impression with a much more active pose
that matches the energy and speed of manufacturing
operations.
You should not, however, take any
pose as a pretense. Whatever poses you
employ to augment the things you say should be used
as means for the better communication of truth,
not to falsify in any degree. And you will
need to be extremely careful lest you over-do a particular
pose and suggest affectation. Doubtless you have
characteristic poses. Analyze yourself. Determine
what your habits of pose mean to other people.
Then make such changes in your characteristic poses
as will signify only the best traits you have.
Next we will make a brief study of actions
from four viewpoints.
First, the lines of action;
Second, the directions of action;
Third, the planes of action;
Fourth, the tension or the laxity of
action.
All movements are in straight, single
curved, or multiple curved lines of action.
Each of these classes of movements creates a particular
impression when it is perceived an impression
very different from that produced by movements of
either of the other classes. It will help you
greatly in your ambition to succeed if you understand
the exact significance of your every action
along the various lines, and if you employ intelligently
the right movements to suggest the particular ideas
you wish to convey.
The straight gesture always indicates
an appeal to mentality. Use it to aim ideas at
the other man’s mind.
The single curve, or wave movement,
invariably denotes feeling. Employ it to reach
into the breast of the other man and influence his
heart.
The gesture of double curves signifies
power. It should be employed to dominate
both the mind and actions of the prospect to
make him think and do the things
you will.
The different directions of
actions also suggest various ideas. Your selling
purpose is to get ideas over from your mind to the
mind of the other man. It is especially important
that the direction of your gestures should conform
to your sales intention. Every movement you make
to aid your purpose should suggest your mental action
toward the prospect, or away from yourself.
It should signify that you are taking something out
of your mind and offering it to his. Of course
you don’t break into his head with your
idea and force him to receive it. You just bring
it to the front porch of his mind. Then, if you
have been skillful in your salesmanship, he
will open the door of interest after you ring
the bell of attention, and will permit your idea to
enter his thoughts. But he is unlikely to admit
it unless by some indication from you to
him he knows what is expected of him.
If you gesture toward yourself when
expressing your thoughts, you do not suggest to the
other man that he take in your ideas. Instead
you concentrate his attention on your selfishness
and your individual opinion. The characteristic
gestures of the typical old peddler are displeasing
because they are made in the wrong direction.
He holds his arms close to his body and gesticulates
toward himself. He makes the impression that
he does not have your interest at heart in the least,
but only his own.
An up-and-down movement suggests something
standing. It has the associated significance
of vitality or life. Conversely, a side-to-side
gesture suggests similarity to things lying down, lack
of vitality, or the death of ideas. By holding
yourself erect you make a very different impression
of your energy than would be made were you to lean
to one side. You can affirm a statement by an
up-and-down movement of your hand or by a nod of your
head. You deny suggestively with a horizontal
gesture or by shaking your head from side to side.
The significance of action on different
planes or levels is seldom appreciated.
The level of eye action is of especial importance in
suggesting particular ideas.
When you look another person in the
eye, you convey to him the idea of direct mental energy.
You suggest the straight action of your mind in team-work
with his. Your eye action on the same level indicates
to him that you are thinking on the practical
plane.
But if your eyes repeatedly focus
above the level of the other man’s eyes, you
make the impression that you are an idealist
rather than a practical person. What you say
will not seem to him to apply directly to his case.
He will not feel the personal, or man-to-man contact
of your thoughts. Sometimes, however, it is important
to lift your eyes when talking to a prospect, in order
to suggest that he lift his thoughts from the level
of mere selfishness. By your suggestive eye action
on the upper plane you may stimulate in him a higher
vision of possibilities or an insight into the future,
if he seems inclined to take a strictly practical
view of his present needs only.
When you look below the eye level
of the other man, you indicate (1) modesty, if the
movement is directly down; (2) shame, if the movement
is a little to one side and downward; (3) disgust,
if your eyes look far down and far to the side.
The tensity or laxness
of your muscles when you are in the presence of a
prospect will suggest to him very diverse ideas.
Both tensity and laxity of muscles can be used to
good effect in selling. Your muscles should appear
somewhat tense when you are presenting ideas,
in order to make the impression that your mind is
fully active. Conversely, by normal relaxation
of your muscles when you are listening, you
suggest the receptivity of your mind and your entire
readiness to take in ideas from outside. When
you show your muscles are relaxed, you also indicate
that you are perfectly at ease and unafraid of objections
or criticism. If you were to sit tense under
criticism, you would suggest that you felt the necessity
of fighting back. But you disarm disparagement
of your capabilities when you appear entirely at ease
while you listen.
The brief outline in this chapter
of fundamental principles of selling skill,
and of the methods by which ideas may be conveyed through
artistic suggestion, is just an introduction to your
study and comprehension of the successive steps of
salesmanship practice which are to be analyzed in
the remaining chapters of this book. The limitations
of our present space have made it impossible to do
more than summarize here the chief factors of art
in selling ideas. You will need to master the
remainder of the book in order to amplify and to apply
most effectively in practice the general principles
and methods that have been outlined.
Surely you now are convinced that
skill in selling is not a vague mystery, not a natural
gift, not something impossible for you to attain.
Every element of sales art can be analyzed in detail.
You are learning exactly how to sell the true
ideas of your best capability. Practice of what
you learn will perfect your salesmanship.
There is absolutely no doubt that
you can master the right principles and methods.
By continual practice you surely can become skillful
in their daily use. When you make yourself adept
in the art, you certainly will be able to sell
your particular qualifications successfully.