The process of selling ideas comprises
several steps, part or all of which the salesman may
need to take in order to close a particular sale successfully.
In our study we are considering step after step in
regular order, but the actual selling process cannot
be reduced to such exactitude and routine. Before
we begin our analysis of this “presentation”
step, it should be clearly understood that success
in selling ideas is not achieved by going through
a machine-like process. We follow a regular
sequence in these chapters, but it is unlikely that
you will ever complete a sale of your services by taking
the various steps of the selling process in the precise
order of our study.
You may need to use them all in order
to succeed in a specific instance. Again, without
taking many of the steps here analyzed, you might be
able to gain the success opportunity you most desire.
The object of this book is to fit you for any and
every condition you are likely to meet in your
efforts to gain opportunities for your ambition.
It is improbable that in order to get your desired
chance and to make the most of it you will have to
use all you learn of the secret of certain
success. You cannot afford, however, to run an
avoidable risk of being at a loss regarding
what to do at any stage of the process of selling to
a selected prospect true ideas of your best capability.
You need to know the most effective ways to deal with
situations that may never happen, but which, on the
contrary, might be encountered. You cannot
start confidently on your quest for success
unless you are fully equipped.
If you believed it would be necessary
for you to do everything contained in this book in
order to gain the opportunities you desire, you likely
would feel very skeptical about succeeding. You
might think, “A single little slip and I’d
lose out. It’s a thousand to one against
me.” The fact is that the odds on the side
of failure are very heavy in the case of an ordinary
man. If you can reduce them only a little
in your own case, you will get a start towards
success because of the slight lessening of your handicap.
I recall a man who mastered but three
principles of prospecting needs. With
this limited knowledge of salesmanship he was able
to induce a great financier to open the door of opportunity
and take him into a field of rich chances to earn
a fortune. Another friend of mine got his start
solely from knowledge of a manufacturer’s principal
hobby. What he knew about the “single tax”
enabled him to plan a sure approach to the mind of
the factory owner. A young lawyer in Chicago seized
upon a chance for fame and wealth in his first meeting
with a poor, seemingly unsuccessful inventor.
In each of these instances a single step of the selling
process, taken correctly, carried the salesman through
the door of opportunity and brought him within reach
of the beginnings of success.
You may not need to knock at
that door, nor wait for an invitation to come in.
In your case, perhaps, the door stands open,
with a “Welcome” mat just outside.
Yet if you do need to knock with your ideas
for admittance to another man’s mind, and if
it ever becomes necessary for you to win a
welcome, this chapter will prove valuable reading.
You will be helped to gain your desired chance, and
the danger of your failure will be minimized, if you
know how to knock and exactly what to do
to assure your welcome.
Even the master salesman can never
be absolutely certain of the reception he will have
from any prospect. Therefore he “goes loaded”
for all imaginable contingencies. You, the salesman
of yourself, should be likewise prepared with knowledge
of how each and every step in the selling process
may be taken most effectively. Whatever emergency
arises, you must be ready to take the fullest advantage
of a favorable turn, and equally ready to reduce as
much as possible any disadvantage you encounter.
Of course it will avail you nothing
if you succeed only in reaching the particular
man through whom you have planned to gain success.
And after you meet him it will do you no material
good to size him up correctly; if you are then
unable to hold his attention to your presentation
of ideas. Your preliminary skillful salesmanship
would all be wasted. Evidently, in order that
you may continue the process of gaining your chance,
it is necessary that you should know how to knock
on the door of his mind in such an agreeable but
compelling way that he will be forced to
let his attention come out pleasantly to you
and your purpose. Hence right knocking at the
door of opportunity immediately follows the size-up
as an essential part of the process of making success
certain.
It is necessary next for you to know
how to prevent a turn-down on the front porch of your
prospect’s mind, and how to insure the admission
of your ideas to his thoughts. You can compel
your prospect to open the door of his attention, but
in order to get inside his mind and secure
his interest in your purpose, you must win his
willing invitation for your ideas to enter
his thoughts and make themselves at home there.
We have seen how you can make certain
of gaining your chance to reach the door of opportunity.
You can size up surely your prospect’s dominant
characteristics and what he is thinking. Likewise
you can guarantee to yourself, first the attention,
and second the interest of the man you have come to
see. It is necessary only that you use the methods
of the master salesman to compel the opening
of the door and to induce the extension of
welcome to your ideas.
Here again we meet our old acquaintance,
the discriminative-restrictive method. You must
discriminate between the process of knocking
at the door of opportunity and the process of securing
the invitation to come in. Then, in practicing
these related but different steps of the selling process,
it is necessary that when you knock you restrict
yourself to the use of the methods that are most effective
in gaining attention. Similarly you should
restrict yourself to using the very different
methods of securing interest, when you work
to get an invitation for your ideas to come inside
the other man’s mind and make themselves at
home there.
Psychologists define “Attention”
as “that act of the mind which holds to a given
object perceived by one or more senses, to the exclusion
of all other objects that might be perceived at that
time by the same or other senses.” A knock
at a door attracts attention because it temporarily
diverts the previous attentiveness of the mind to other
things, and concentrates it on a new object of attention.
The sense of hearing is struck. Whether
or not the mind is willing to hear, it cannot
help perceiving the sudden new sound. Its
attention is forced. The instant the knock
is heard, the mind is compelled to drop or suspend
what it has been thinking about; though this exclusive
new attention to the knock may last but a fraction
of a second.
Our senses function under the
control of the sub-conscious mind. It is futile
for us to will that we won’t hear,
or see, or taste, etc. We have to
take in sense impressions, whether we want to do so
or not. Therefore, if you employ restrictively
the sense-hitting method, you can force the
man upon whom you call to give his attention
to you or to the presentation of your ideas.
It is necessary to discriminate, however,
between the use of the avenues to reach the mind center
of attention, and the use of very different
ways into the mind center of interest.
If you start wrong, there is very little chance that
you will arrive at the right destination. The
center of interest is wholly under the control of the
conscious mind. Your prospect can refuse
to be interested, if he chooses, despite your determination
to interest him. His interest must be induced.
Any attempt to compel it is apt to have a fatal
result. Nearly always such an effort to force
interest develops antagonism, instead.
But there are methods of inducing
interest that are just as sure to succeed as are the
sense-hitting methods by which attention may be compelled.
This double step in the process of selling the
true idea of your best capabilities in the right market
can be taken with absolute certainty of success
if you know and practice the principles in accordance
with which the master salesman sells his ideas of goods
to prospects. We are to study these principles
now, as applied to the sale of your qualifications
for success in the field you have selected.
When you enter the office of your
prospect your chosen future employer, for
example he will be giving his attention
to something. No one, while he is awake,
can be wholly non-attentive. Your function,
at this stage of the selling process, is to compel
him to stop paying attention to something or somebody
else, and to give you and your ideas
his exclusive attention.
Of course good salesmanship makes
it advisable also to avoid creating a disagreeable
impression while forcing yourself and your ideas upon
the attention of your prospect. The conscious
mind governs a man’s likes and dislikes.
So if you knock compellingly at the door of that
mind to gain attention, you may arouse very unfavorable
attention. For illustration, a boisterous greeting
of your prospect, or a very noisy entrance into his
office, would doubtless compel his attention by the
direct hammering on his senses. But the attraction
of his attention to you would affect the operations
of both his conscious and sub-conscious minds, and
his conscious mind would be disagreeably impressed.
His compelled attention, therefore, might result in
your being thrown out.
However, you can knock at the sense
doors of the sub-conscious mind with such unobjectionable
sense-hitting methods that while agreeable attention
will be compelled thereby, you can also be sure
that a favorable impression on the conscious mind
of the prospect will be induced. For illustration,
if your prospect is evidently busy at his desk when
you are admitted to his office, you might compel his
attention by entering very quietly and by standing
in silence without interrupting him until he has had
an opportunity to finish what he is doing. His
sound sense would be struck, paradoxically, by your
exceptional quietness. His sense of equilibrium
would also be affected by your perfect poise while
waiting. Your whole attitude would impress him
so favorably that his especial interest in you would
be induced. His greeting would be pleasant.
Suppose your prospect looks up from
his work when you enter his presence, and you approach
close to his desk; if you are immaculate in dress
and body, you will appeal agreeably to his olfactory
sense. The law of the association of ideas will
then begin to work in your favor. Your prospect
will get subconsciously a conscious impression of your
clean character.
You might wear a fresh flower in your
buttonhole and so strike several of his senses pleasantly.
But unless the flower is inconspicuous and in good
taste it would make an unfavorable impression.
Let us assume now that when you enter
the office of your prospect, he is disgruntled about
something. You can take some of the heat out of
his ill temper by your appearance of cool self-confidence
and good nature.
There are many more such favorable
sense impressions which you could make by simply
standing in manly erectness while waiting to receive
the exclusive attention of your prospect. You
might employ all the sense-hitting features of bearing
and manner referred to above. The effect of the
sum of these would be the forced agreeable attention
of your prospect. He simply could not help noticing
the various items that would strike his different
senses; nor could he help being agreeably impressed;
though he might not give you any indication of the
effect you had compelled.
It is highly important that you should
be able first to gain the favorable attention
of your prospect, and second to hold it until
his interest is aroused. It may also be necessary
for you to regain his attention if it is temporarily
lost and diverted to some other object. The master
salesman realizes it is essential to have the attention
of his prospect continually centered upon the
ideas presented, throughout the selling process.
Only a poor salesman of ideas would go right on talking,
even though it might be clearly evident that he did
not have the exclusive attention of the man addressed.
When you proffer your capabilities
for purchase by a prospective employer, do not make
the mistake of continuing to present your best selling
points if you have any doubt that his attention is
exclusively yours. Stop your selling process if
his attention wanders or is diverted. Use
the sense-hitting method to compel it to come back
to you and your ideas. If some one should enter
his office while you are talking to him, or if his
telephone should ring, stop short in your presentation.
(Your sudden silence, in itself, will be attention
compelling.) Do not go on with your sales presentation
until the interruption is over. Then use some
sense-hitting method of making sure that his attention
is again concentrated on you and your ideas.
An acquaintance of mine who had especially
fitted himself for business correspondence, typed
striking paragraphs taken from form letters he had
devised and pasted the slips of paper on stiff filing
cards. He carried with him to his interview with
the president of a large corporation about thirty-five
or forty of these cards. His prospecting had indicated
that in the course of the half hour he had planned
to take up with a presentation of his capabilities
this executive would be interrupted often by telephone
calls and the entrance of subordinates. The salesman’s
size-up also revealed that his prospect’s attention
was likely to wander to the things on his desk.
From time to time when the correspondent was presenting
his ideas the president reached out his hand and picked
up a paper. Evidently he was inclined to give
but flighty attention to his caller.
The salesman, however, had “come
loaded” for exactly this situation. He
had worked out his selling plan in detail. As
he developed idea after idea, he used a device for
regaining attention by hitting at the prospect’s
senses of sight and hearing. Just
as soon as the president’s hand wandered to
a paper, the salesman ruffled the cards he held, quickly
selected one, and clicked it down on the desk top before
his prospect. He had to do this perhaps a dozen
times before he felt confident he had clinched the
interest of the executive. If the salesman had
used words merely, what, he said in presenting his
ideas to the prospect might have gone in one ear and
out the other. But his action of ruffling the
cards struck the president’s senses of sight
and hearing compellingly; as did the clicking of the
card on the desk top when it was presented for reading.
Repeatedly the return of the prospect’s wandering
attention was forced subconsciously; yet no disagreeable
impression was made on his conscious mind. In
the course of half an hour the correspondent succeeded
in selling his services at a very satisfactory salary.
If you similarly “come loaded”
for sense-hitting, you will be able to get your prospect’s
attention originally, and to regain it whenever it
is temporarily lost. In advance of your call on
the man to whom you want to sell your services, think
out things you can do that will strike one or more
of his senses forcibly, without making disagreeable
impressions. You can take with you to the interview
specimens of your work, or testimonials; and hold
them in your hand where they will attract notice.
Or you might plan to use attention-compelling gestures.
Changes of tone will make the other
man “perk up his ears” if his attention
wanders; so plan to introduce variety into your manner
of speaking. Don’t just open the spigot
of your mind and let your ideas run out in a monotone.
Variety of voice is pleasing, as well as attention-compelling.
I know a salesman who is in the habit
of using a spotlessly clean big handkerchief to help
him keep the prospect’s mind concentrated on
the proposition being presented. Whenever the
other man’s attention is diverted, this salesman
whisks his handkerchief from his pocket and touches
his lips with it. The flash of white hits the
sight-sense of the prospect and brings back his wandering
attention to the salesman.
But such devices are superficial.
The best sense-hitting means of compelling attention,
directly relates some sense effect to the salesman’s
purpose
The correspondent who ruffled his
cards and clicked them down on the prospect’s
desk would not have been so successful if on each card
he had not pasted a specimen of his work as an efficient
letter writer. If he had brought a pack of blank
cards, for example, the repeated use of his device
for getting attention might have irritated the other
man. To analyze the illustration further; if
the correspondent had brought the specimens of his
work on letter paper, not pasted on stiff cards, they
would have been much less effective. He could
not have ruffled them, and would have been unable
to make the clicking sound he used to hit the other
man’s ears.
Suppose you apply for a situation
as a bookkeeper or an accountant. One of the
best sense-hitting devices you could use to compel
attention to your ability would be a collection of
complicated tabulations in your handwriting, made
neatly without a correction or an erasure. Such
an exhibit of painstaking workmanship, if complemented
by a neat, attractive personal appearance, would force
the employer to notice you and the proofs of
your qualifications. You certainly would make
a most favorable impression. Your prospect would
imagine his books and records as you would keep them.
When presenting the evidences of your capability as
an accountant, you could suggest other qualities than
those mentioned such as the proper pride
of a good workman, serious earnestness, dignity, keen
intelligence, etc. Such suggestions made
with the aid of sense-hitting devices would help
you to complete the sale of your services.
Perhaps you wish particularly to impress
your qualities of alertness, energy, love of work,
and physical stamina. Then sit or stand easily
erect when you call on your prospect. If you should
slump or loll in your chair, you would suggest that
you lacked the very characteristics on which you are
depending to get the job.
Make your best qualities stand
out noticeably in your bearing. Should you
apply for a position of great trust, requiring the
exercise of the finest discretion, be sure to look
the other man frankly in the face and let him see
into your eyes. Also modulate your tones to the
pitch of discretion and confidence. Your manner,
your expressions, your voice will all draw attention
to your fitness for the chance you want.
Such illustrations as have been given
above should be understood as merely suggestive of
ways to use the sense-hitting method of compelling
attention. Do not copy the suggestions offered.
Think out for your individual use a collection
of sense-hitting devices of your own. Then you
will be able to select various ways to gain and to
re-gain attention when you are in the presence of
a prospect. No matter what may be your ability
and ambition, there are features of your character
and your service capacity that you can utilize to
make direct sense appeals. Find out for yourself
what they are, and plan how to use them most effectively.
If you cannot gain attention to your qualifications,
or if you are unable to recall wandering attention,
you may lose the chance you have succeeded in getting.
Insure yourself against the possibility of
such a disaster; so that your previous good salesmanship
in securing an interview will not all go for naught.
If you do something out of the
ordinary, the force of your sense-hitting will
be much greater than if you employ only common devices
for gaining attention. It is better to do
something that compels attention to your recommendations
than to say “I want to call your attention
to these letters.”
However, there is always the danger
that in gaining attention by unusual means
you may attract too much attention to the device
you use, and so distract notice from the proposition
you are presenting for sale. Therefore be sure
that whatever extraordinary thing you do to compel
attention contributes directly to your main purpose
and does not lead your prospect off on a side track
of thought.
A business house once got out an advertising
novelty and had samples distributed by the salesmen
as gifts to their principal customers. The novelty
was an ingenious mechanical device. It attracted
so much attention to itself that when a salesman put
it on the desk of a prospect before beginning his
sales talk, the attention of the other man was drawn
from what the salesman was saying and was given to
the novelty. The prospect would pick up and examine
the advertising device while the salesman was presenting
ideas regarding his standard line of goods. As
a result, many of the best points of the sales talks
were unnoticed. The advertising novelty was a
detriment. The sales volume fell off while it
was being distributed. The slump was traced directly
to the mistake of having the salesmen pass out
the attention-compelling device which was not related
to the staples of the house line.
The distribution was made by mail
thereafter, in advance of the salesman’s call.
It was effective then as an introduction for the traveler;
because by the time he came to see the prospect, the
novelty of the advertising device had worn off.
It was no longer an attention-distracter.
Remember that the attention of your
prospect is always given to something.
If another object of attention is more compelling than
your means of forcing his notice, your attempt
will fail. Therefore be sure that your attention-getting
device has at least one of three points of superiority.
(1) It can be stronger than
the other appeal to the same sense. If your prospect’s
attention to what you are saying wanders because a
phonograph starts to play in the next room, you can
recall it to your presentation by slapping your hands
together to emphasize a point, or you can change your
tone suddenly. His sense of hearing will be struck
compellingly by your device.
(2) Your appeal for attention can
be made to more senses than are being reached
by the distraction. The phonograph music hits
only the ears of your prospect. Besides slapping
your hands together or changing your tone, you can
supplement such appeals to his tone sense by an appeal
to his sense of sight. You can make a gesture,
or display a letter for him to read just at that moment.
(3) Your appeal can hit the senses
of your prospect more insistently than the
other. If the phonograph music proves very attractive
to him, you will need to keep hammering at
him with forceful changes of voice, with gestures,
by touching him, or by doing something else to make
his attention to the music “let go.”
To summarize the most effective method
of gaining attention hit each sense
to which you appeal as strongly as you can, without
making a disagreeable impression, strike as many senses
as possible, and keep on using your sense-hitting
device as long as necessary to get or to recover exclusive
favorable attention.
Many a man has gained success because
he first gained attention. He stood out from
the crowd, or was able to make his qualities noticeable.
When one is fully qualified for success, he may need
only to attract attention to his capabilities; then
he is likely to be given the chance he wants.
Often, however, the salesman is discomfited
after he gains attention. The prospect halts
the selling process by declaring, “I’m
not interested.” Suppose you are able to
compel your prospective employer to notice you favorably,
but he balks there and shows no inclination to buy
your services. He has listened attentively to
all you have said. He has concentrated his mind
upon you, and has not wandered in thought to other
subjects. Yet you perceive that he is inclined
to put you off or to turn you down. Evidently,
in order to prevent such a contretemps, you need to
resort now to a different selling step, which
you have not taken previously.
It is necessary that you have at your
command a way to induce interest. This interest-inducing
means must be as sure in its effects as the
sense-hitting method of compelling attention.
Otherwise you could not be certain of success with
the selling process. If the effectiveness of
every step cannot be assured in advance, you will not
rely confidently on salesmanship to achieve your ambition.
Probably you have never worked out
in your mind exactly the reasons why you are interested
in particular things and in certain people. Let
us make an analysis. Your attention might
be attracted so strongly to a vicious criminal that
for the time being you could think of no one else.
Yet his fate might be a matter of such indifference
to you that you would have absolutely no interest
in the man. But suppose you should see in his
face, or in an expression of his eyes, something that
haunted your memory appealingly. It would induce
you to read the newspaper accounts of his trial.
You would feel a little sorry for him, on learning
that he had been sentenced to a long term in prison.
Very likely you would say to yourself, “I suppose
he is a mighty tough character, but I believe there
is something in him that isn’t altogether bad.”
Your intuition would tell you he possessed undefined
traits that you like. In your own liking
for these characteristics that you vaguely discerned
in him when you saw him, is the key to the interest
he induced.
What do we like? Whom do we like?
Things that are like our own
ideas. People who are like the ideas we
have about likable people. Interest is all a matter
of recognizing points of likeness.
In order to draw your prospect beyond
the attention stage of the selling process, and to
induce his interest in your “goods,” you
must impress on him suggestions of the similarity
of your ideas to ideas already in his own mind. He
will like your ideas in proportion to their resemblance
to his own way of thinking on the same subjects.
So you should express yourself as nearly as possible
in his terms, and attract his interest by making him
feel that your mind and his are much alike.
One day I was sitting in the private
office of a very wealthy philanthropist. A salesman
presented a letter of introduction to the millionaire,
who in turn introduced me to his caller. The newcomer
thereupon proceeded to present most attractively a
business proposal. He offered my friend an excellent
opportunity to make a good deal of money by joining
an underwriting syndicate. The millionaire at
once declared he was not interested. “I
have all the money I want,” he said, and bowed
the salesman out. The ideas that had been presented
to him were altogether different from his own
financial motives.
That same afternoon another promoter
called upon my friend with a project for investment
in a house-building corporation. This second
salesman evidently had prospected the philanthropist
and had planned just how to interest him. He
did not stress the profits to be made from investment
in the stock of his corporation, but referred to them
in a minor key. He emphasized the need of the
city for more homes, and cited instances of distress
due to the housing shortage.
My friend was thoroughly interested.
He took home the salesman’s prospectus for further
study. Since he was a good business man, he satisfied
himself that the investment would be profitable.
But he subscribed for fifty thousand dollars worth
of securities principally because they represented
a project like his own ideas of the way money
should be put to work for human happiness.
When you call on the man you have
selected as your future employer, go equipped with
all the prospecting knowledge regarding him that you
have been able to get. Be sure you know his strongest
likes and dislikes. Size him up on the spot,
for the purpose of supplementing what you have previously
learned about him. Hit his attention with sense-appeals
related to his peculiarities. Then, in order to
make sure of his interest, present some idea that
is of the kind he especially likes. He
will open his mind and welcome your idea at once.
Suppose he has a reputation for brusqueness
and quick decisions, and is impatient about any waste
of time. You probably would help your cause by
looking him straight in the eye and saying bluntly
something like this:
“I want to work for you because
you are my kind of a man. Ask me any questions
you want, now. You won’t have to call me
on the carpet for information about my work after
you hire me. Pay me two hundred dollars a month,
and I won’t be back in this office to get a raise
until you send for me.”
I know a young man who secured a good
job from an “old crab” in just that way,
within three minutes after they first met.
Two men sought the position of office
manager of an automobile company. The owners
of the business were thorough mechanics who had designed
their own car, but who were comparatively unfamiliar
with office operations. They were not at home
outside their factory.
The first candidate for the vacant
position brought the finest recommendations of his
qualifications for office management. The other
applicant had had much less experience, and was not
nearly so well qualified. But the first man was
a poor salesman of his capabilities. He failed
to recognize, when he explained his ideas to the partners,
that he was talking to a pair of mechanics. They
did not understand the language he used. His
presentation of his qualifications as an office manager
would have impressed an employer accustomed to sitting
at a desk. But the partners were intuitively
prejudiced against the capable candidate who was so
very unlike themselves in all respects.
The other applicant was shrewd.
He used salesmanship in presenting his lesser qualifications
for the position. He talked in terms borrowed
from the language of shop practice. He compared
the plans he suggested for the office supplies stock
room, with the “tool crib” in the factory.
He explained his idea of office organization by using
as a model a chart of the plant departments.
He compared office expenses with factory overhead.
The owners of the business understood
very little about the subjects he discussed, but he
used words and expressions that were familiar to them.
So his ideas, as he presented them, impressed the partners
as like their own way of looking at things.
The better salesman, who knew how to interest his
prospects, got the five-figure job; though he was a
less capable office executive than the disappointed
applicant.
Do not try to sell another man particular
ideas because you like them. You are not
the buyer. Sell him ideas that he likes.
Fit the ideas you bring him to the characteristics
of his mind.
If you judge him to be a quick thinker,
do not hesitate in indecision a moment longer than
is necessary for you to make up your mind confidently.
On the other hand, should he be a deliberate thinker,
be careful not to make an impression that you are
rash or impulsive in your decisions.
If he is inclined to be finical about
his dress, or over-particular regarding orderliness,
he will be interested if your garb is punctiliously
correct and if you suggest to him the habits of precision.
I read a little while ago the story of a young man
who lost the chance to become the confidential assistant
of a noted financier. The young man missed his
opportunity because he made the mistake of wearing
a soft collar when he called for the final interview
with the financier.
Do not, of course, put on false
pretenses, to make your prospect like you and
your ideas. Remember that you must live up
to a first good impression. So appear nothing,
say nothing, do nothing that is untrue to your best
self. But without any dishonesty you can indicate
that your way of thinking has points of similarity
to the slant of the other man’s mind. If
he is a Republican, while you are a Democrat, and the
subject of politics comes up, do not pretend to be
an elephant worshiper. Admit your party allegiance
casually, and remark that you are not hide-bound in
your political faith, but open-minded. Maybe he
will employ you with the hope of converting you to
Republicanism.
There are few ideas regarding which
honest men are diametrically opposed on principle.
You can suggest to your prospective employer the idea
that you are in accord with his way of thinking; though
you may differ widely in many respects. You need
not emphasize the degree of your likeness in
mind. Certainly it would be very poor policy to
stress your differences of opinion.
Any likeness of your suggestions
to the ideas of the other man will impress him agreeably.
He will be pleased to find the points of resemblance,
and they will help to gloss over a possible prejudice
in his mind against you. The association of your
similar ideas on a subject will suggest to him imaginative
pictures of your association with him in his business.
“Like breeds like.” He will place
you mentally in a situation where the likable qualities
he has found in you might be employed to his satisfaction.
Then you will be safely inside
the door of his interest. Without realizing
it, your prospect would like to bring about the condition
he has imagined. He is beginning to want you
in his employ; though as yet he has no deep-seated
desire for your services. Objections to you may
spring up in his mind, but you certainly have been
successful throughout the processes of getting his
response to your knock, and of securing for your ideas
his invitation to come into his thoughts for a better
acquaintance with your purpose.
After admitting your ideas to his
mind, he may wish he had not welcomed them. He
may find objectionable things in you or in your proposal.
Sometimes a man responds to a knock on his door, and
becomes sufficiently interested in the caller to invite
him to enter the house; but regrets afterward that
he extended the welcome. This change of heart
and mind is usually due to something done by the visitor
after his admittance. However, we are not considering
just now any step of the selling process beyond winning
a welcome. In later chapters we will study how
to make the most effective use of hospitality and the
things to avoid that might impress the host as abuses
of the privileges of a guest.
Ideas have been called “the
furniture of the mind.” We have already
seen that they are the developments of repeated
sense impressions. A particular mind center
is partly or wholly furnished with ideas in proportion
to the man’s use of his sense avenues to bring
in ideas from outside himself. The doors of the
mind swing inward most readily when the new mental
furniture brought along a sense avenue matches the
ideas already in the mind center. Doubtless the
young man who lost the interest of a great financier
by wearing a soft collar would have been able to hold
it if he had dressed according to his prospect’s
ideas.
If there is one thing about you
that another man dislikes, it disproportionately tinges
his entire attitude of mind toward you. On the
other hand, if you have one especially likable feature,
it tends to lessen the disagreeable impression of
things about you that the other man does not like
So, when you come to a prospect as
a salesman of your best self and have gained his attention,
avoid making disagreeable suggestions to his mind,
and have at your command a number of sense appeals
you are sure he will like. You certainly will
secure his interest if you follow this selling process.
To win his interest you need not induce
your prospect to like you all through or in
every respect. If he likes but one thing
about you at first, he will be interested enough to
give you the chance to develop more interest. The
interest that produces the fruit of acceptance is
often a growth from only one seed sown by the salesman
of ideas.
At this stage of the selling process
it is not wise to plunge ahead fast. Do not go
to the extreme on any subject that you find
is interesting to your prospect. His interest
may be mild, and he might be prejudiced if you seem
to display excessive concern about something that
he considers of minor importance. I recall the
experience of a man who was complimented on keeping
an appointment to the minute. He over-emphasized
the virtue of punctuality and irritated his prospect,
who was not always on time himself. The job went
to another applicant.
Be moderate in your attitude
when you work to secure the beginning of interest,
lest you raise an obstacle in your path. Until
you are sure you have won a considerable degree of
interest, you cannot lead strongly in any direction
without running the risk of losing some of the advantages
you have gained. Therefore at the interest stage
proceed warily. “Watch your step.”
Be especially careful not to gush
over a hobby of your prospect, in which his interest
may not be so great as you suppose. Hobbies are
dangerous. Don’t harp on one. It
requires consummate art to show enthusiasm about another
man’s hobby without arousing his suspicions
regarding your sincerity.
Throughout the various steps of the
selling process, salesmanship is an art.
The art of knocking at the door of opportunity and
of winning the invitation to come in lies in making
favorable out-of-the-ordinary impressions in unusual
ways. The salesman himself, his methods of
presenting his services for sale, and his qualifications all
should stand out distinctly, and make impressions
of his individuality. He should not seem like
a common applicant for a position, but should suggest
to the prospective employer that he is a man of uncommon
characteristics and especial capability.
That is the way to make a good impression.
Such an impression of an extraordinary personality
first affords pleasure, then excites a degree of admiration,
and next arouses a certain amount of curiosity that
is nearly akin to interest. If you please your
prospect in your initial impression on him, he will
like you and begin to feel personal concern
about your application.
In order to qualify yourself for taking
this step of the selling process effectively hereafter,
analyze the impressions you make now. Discriminatively
select the good and bad details. Then restrict
your future practice in perfecting the art of inducing
interest, to the development and use of your pleasing
qualities only.
Most men begin an interview with a
prospective employer indefinitely or in merely general
terms. Naturally they confront a wall of non-interest.
You have come, remember, on a mission of service.
Please at once by presenting the idea that you know
a particular service which is lacking and which you
can supply. Break the ice of strangeness between
you and your prospect by an appeal first to his human
side through a smile of genuine friendliness
and by looking straight into his eyes so that he can
see into your heart.
Then in a business-like way get right
down to business without hesitation. Show enthusiasm,
which is contagious if not overdone. Base your
enthusiasm on real optimism. Indicate temperamental
youthfulness in vigor and courage. Say something
original something strong, maybe a little
startling; but it must be self-evidently true.
By all means avoid anything that suggests parrot talk
or indefinite thought. Do not expect the other
man to listen with interest to a statement proceeding
from premise to conclusion.
Use headlines prominently and often
to summarize the body of your proposal. Headlines
attract your attention and induce your interest in
particular newspaper items. Employ headline statements
for the same purpose in selling the idea of your capabilities;
just as surely you will get attention and interest.
A noted sales manager who had been
earning a large salary made up his mind that satisfying
success for him was to be gained only through a business
in which he would be partly an owner instead of just
an employee. He called together a group of financiers
and introduced his purpose by saying to them, “Gentlemen,
I have an idea in which I have so much confidence
that I will resign my $75,000 a year job to develop
it. I want to explain it to you and to have your
co-operation in financing a project I have worked
out.” His headline statement secured instant
interest, of course.
There is something about yourself
or your capabilities that you can put into headlines.
In forcible, vivid language you can strike some senses
of your prospects. Think of headline statements
about your services. Write them out in advance.
You may be certain they will produce the same psychological
effect as headlines in the newspapers.
Use the sense avenues to introduce
agreeable suggestions into your prospect’s mind
centers of attention and interest. Then you will
be employing the unusual methods of a master
salesman, who devises ways of using every possible
sense appeal.
The sense doors are always open.
They are held open by the subconscious mind.
If you understand your way through them there will
be no doubt about the effectiveness of your knock
at the door of opportunity, or about getting an invitation
for your ideas to enter the mind of the other man