There is no great mountain in the
world that has a natural, smooth road with an easy
grade all the way to the top. Mountain climbing
requires some hard work. It involves getting
around, or going over, or removing many obstacles
that block the path upward.
You will encounter similar difficulties,
obstacles, and resistance on your way to success.
If you cannot pass them, your ambition will be
defeated. You will quit the climb, discouraged;
or will be driven back, a failure. In order to
assure your success you must now ascertain
dependable ways to conquer obstacles. This advance
knowledge will make them seem less formidable.
Since you will have definite plans for dealing with
the difficulties that may obstruct your path, you will
not feel hopelessly blocked when you face them.
No great mountain has ever been scaled
by a novice ignorant of the science, and unskilled
in the art of climbing to supreme heights. But
an expert mountaineer learns from mastering one peak
something about how to climb others. He develops
ability to conquer any and all obstacles he may meet.
He proves repeatedly that what would be impossible
to a novice is a certainty to him. He
starts the most difficult ascent with absolute confidence
that he will gain the top.
You likewise can feel sure of your
ability to reach the highest peaks of success.
In preceding chapters you have been shown how to take
advantage of the easiest way up by following
the guide marks of salesmanship at every step.
Now we are to study the obstacles you will encounter,
in particular the objections the prospect may raise
to frustrate your purpose. At this stage of the
selling process you will be like a mountaineer fighting
in the Alps. It will probably be necessary that
you overcome or evade considerable human resistance
while you are climbing toward your goal.
Let us assume that you have already
gained a chance to sell your capabilities to the particular
man through whom you expect to succeed. He has
heeded your knock and welcomed you into his interest.
You have made such a presentation of your desirability
and service value that he wants you to be associated
with him. But now it will be natural for him
to begin a critical analysis, seeking whatever faults
he can discover or imagine in you or your proposition.
Your success or failure in your ultimate purpose
is likely to depend on how you handle the criticisms
he raises. Therefore it is of vital importance
that you learn in advance sure ways to gain your
goal despite normal opposition
Recognize first that it is natural
for your prospect to raise objections, whether he
is favorably impressed or not. His resistance
to your purpose may be only a precaution.
Perhaps it does not indicate opposition at
all. He may want you to convince him you are all
right; so that he will feel entire confidence in his
own judgment when he finally does as you wish.
Or he may object for no other purpose than to test
you thoroughly. If this is the case, his sympathies
will all be with you while you are dealing with the
obstacles he puts in your way.
Evidently objections of this sort
should not be handled the same as the objections of
opposition. It is necessary that you distinguish
between the two kinds and that when dealing with
each specific objection you determine in your own
mind what is its source. There should be nothing
in your method of handling the obstacle that might
antagonize your prospect. You should take
fullest advantage of his every inclination to cooperate
with you in his thoughts and feelings. He may
be “pulling for” you strongly when he
seems to be “bucking” the hardest.
An objection really is a favorable
sign. If you call upon a prospective employer
who, after hearing your presentation, begins to find
fault with it and with you, or tries to evade your
proposal, you may be sure that you have carried him
along a considerable distance toward the accomplishment
of your purpose. He objects or evades because he
is on the defensive. “You have him going.”
He is wary, and so takes measures for self-protection.
The moment your prospect begins to raise objections
in your way, he indicates that he is not entirely comfortable
in his own mind about escaping from your salesmanship.
He has felt the tug of desire; but he does not feel
sure yet that you deserve his confidence, or else
he has a pretty positive idea that in this matter of
your possible employment his interests and yours are
different. He is looking out for himself.
However, you have come with a true
service purpose. You believe he needs
you; that you can satisfy a lack in his business.
You feel your interests and his are alike, not different.
You know that you have no intention “to put
anything over on him.” You want your prospect
to be absolutely satisfied with what you propose.
Therefore you should welcome every chance to convince
his mind and win his confidence. An objection affords
you an opportunity to overcome it, and so both to strengthen
your proposition and to weaken his resistance
You should not, however, bring
up objections that the prospect has not raised
in his own mind. That would be putting up a straw
man and knocking him down, which is profitless and
unconvincing. Of course you must clear the path
when there is no other way to proceed, but do not
block it yourself. Sometimes it will not be advisable
to clear the path. If you can get around a difficulty
you see, without attracting your prospect’s
attention to it, you will be wise to go some indirect
way to your goal.
Suppose, for example, that you know
the salary you want is higher than your prospect has
been accustomed to pay. It will be good salesmanship
for you not to refer to the amount you have in mind,
until after you have carried him along with you to
consider the profits he will make from engaging your
services. Since you plan to show him that these
profits will pay your salary, you will be wise to avoid
the matter of your compensation until you have approached
nearer to the successful conclusion of your selling
process.
Almost every difficulty and opposition
you are likely to encounter can be anticipated.
Don’t wait until you come face to face with an
obstruction in the way of success. Let forethought
carry you imaginatively into just such a situation.
Think yourself out of a possible difficulty before
you actually get into it. Then you can win the
respect of your prospect by proving on the spot that
you are not a man who can be dodged or blocked, or
cornered. Every time you pass an obstacle, you
will be a long step nearer to success in selling
your services.
Suppose an employer says to you, “You
are too young. You have had no experience in
this line of work.” You cannot deny
your youth and you should not defend it as
if it were a fault. Nor can you claim experience
you have not had. But it is unnecessary for you
to indicate any feeling that inexperience is a demerit.
An ordinary applicant might be discomfited by such
resistance to his purpose. If you are a skillful
salesman, you will be prepared to deal with this very
obstacle and will turn it to good account. You
can say at once:
“Because I am young, I am adaptable
to your methods, instead of being set in ways that
might differ from yours. True, I am not experienced.
Therefore, I haven’t any wrong ideas to unlearn.
Think of me as raw material that won’t have
to be re-made, and that can be easily shaped as you
want to form it. I realize it will take some work
on your part, but the product will be satisfactory
to you when it is done. It seems to me that
the only question involved is whether or not I would
make it worth your while to do the work on me.
The fact that I have come to you of my own choice
proves I really want to be employed here. I assure
you now that I will make my services worth any pains
you take to teach me your methods, and I will be just
as eager to remain as I am to start.”
Analyze this method of dealing with
any particular obstacle. Plan to get rid of the
obstruction completely, leaving the way ahead smoothed.
When the objection of the prospect is so skillfully
disposed of, his desire for your services is
stimulated. He wants you more, because he
likes you better now that you have cleared away
the obstacle. Thus you have utilized the objection
as a help in selling yourself successfully.
Just so a mountain climber uses the rocks he encounters
as holding places to help him climb higher.
Your prospect may say that he has
no need for such services as you offer. He may
state reasons why you are not needed in his Business.
But if you have prepared yourself thoroughly, each
disclaimer of his lack, every suggestion of an objection,
will give you an opportunity to prove in some specific
way your service value to him
The president of a manufacturing company
had an ironclad rule that all positions in his business
were to be filled by promotion. He never hired
a new employee except to start at the bottom.
A competent young office man applied for a situation.
He was turned down flatly. The company’s
policy was quoted as the reason. He met this obstacle
in a new way.
“One of the principal reasons
I came to you, Mr. Blank, is that I hope to benefit
from your rule myself. I want to get into a company
where I will know that the way to advancement is sure
without going outside for my chance. But by my
experience in other employment I have developed certain
capabilities that would warrant you in making an exception
to your rule, in my case.
“You do not audit your own books.
Yet you have been self-auditing your methods of office
operation. Another thought I want to suggest.
You know that in the royal families of Europe the
stock runs down because they don’t get in fresh
blood. I would not advocate a change in your general
policy. But you have already made an exception
to your rule in having your books checked by a public
accountant whom you engage by the year for that purpose.
“I propose to bring in the outside
viewpoint for the study of your office system, with
the expectation of suggesting possible improvements.
I want to introduce fresh blood, and yet to become
part of your organization family. It is sound
business for you to engage me because I am from the
outside. You need an auditor of your operations
as much as an auditor of your accounts.”
This view of the matter had never
been presented before to the employer. It won
him over to the proposal. The new man broke in
where every preceding applicant had failed.
Thus far we have considered actual
obstructions, real blocks in the salesman’s
way. Now let us turn our attention briefly to
obstacles that are only apparent, to resistance
that is but a feint.
Your prospect may try to put you off.
Or perhaps he will attempt to evade uttering a downright
refusal, and instead will make some sort of an excuse
for not doing what you wish. If you dignify these
artificial or merely apparent obstacles
by treating them as real obstructions, you
will hinder your own progress toward success.
You have secured your chance to present
your services for purchase. You have made real
progress toward the successful accomplishment of your
ultimate purpose. Nearly always if you let yourself
be put off for any reason, without making a definite
advance toward your final goal, you will lose some
of the ground already gained. When your prospect
attempts to evade the issue by making an excuse or
by postponing further consideration of the subject,
he tacitly admits that your position is strong.
But if you have to start the selling process all over
again at another time, if you let him put you off
when your position is strong, you will be weaker
when you attempt to resume your sale.
Should you be put off, do one of two
things. Either disregard the evasion entirely and
go straight ahead with your selling process; or,
if you consent to the postponement or evasion, take
advantage of your strategical position of strength
to make a definite advance toward the accomplishment
of your purpose. For examples of the two methods
let us consider suppositious cases.
Your prospective employer might say,
“I’ll think over your application.
Come in next week and I’ll let you know my decision.”
You can handle this evasion effectively by going directly
ahead and proposing, “I am perfectly willing
that you should think over my usefulness to you, but
during the week you are considering me for future employment,
let me actually work on the job. If you decide
that you don’t want to keep me, tell me so at
the end of the week and there will be no charge for
my time.” You will be driving straight toward
your goal, not even pausing when he attempts to put
you off
This effort at evasion or postponement
might be handled in a different way. You could
say to the prospective employer, “Very well.
I will return in a week for your decision. Meanwhile
I will submit some additional references as to my
character and energy. I ask also that you permit
me to save a week instead of wasting it. I should
like your permission to spend this next week in your
office, studying the job. Then if you decide
to employ me, as I believe you will, I will be already
broken in.” Such a proposal is hard to refuse.
While you would consent to the postponement or evasion
of decision, you would be strengthening your own
position.
In one way or the other you can
make progress. Either you can brush the evasion
aside and carry your prospect through to the closing
stage of the sale of your services, or you can close
an intermediate sale on the spot, as in the second
illustration.
Do not, therefore, treat evasions
and postponements as real obstacles. Even in case
you cannot induce your prospect to go ahead with you,
or close an intermediate sale, you can avoid being
blocked by his attempt to put you off. When
he sees that he cannot get rid of you by his subterfuge,
he will be forced to make a real objection.
He will not give you another weak excuse after you
have disposed of his first attempt to evade.
When he tries to block you by making a real objection,
after the failure of his excuse or postponement, he
will fall right into your plan of the sale. You
will be all ready for the objection he states.
You will know exactly how to handle it and turn it
to good account so that his opposition will be weakened
and you will add to your strength.
Let us suppose your prospect comes
out with the flat statement, after you prevent him
from putting you off, “No, I have made up my
mind not to add any new employees for the present.”
He thinks that settles the question. In reality
it affords you a sales opening. You retort, “Your
attitude is perfectly right. You do not want to
add to expense. I should feel the same way myself,
were I in your position. However, I am not going
to be an expense. I shall be a money-maker.
I know you have no objections to increasing your profits.”
His opposition would have given you your lead.
A man applied for a position in a
bank. Business in general was dull; so the president
tried to put him off. The position sought offered
any one filling it opportunities to develop increased
business for the bank along certain lines. Thus
the objection of dull times was plainly unsound.
The applicant felt, however, that it would be a mistake
to urge very strongly his ideas about increasing the
business. He believed the president would not
accept them if fully stated. So the young man
met the attempted evasion by drawing the banker on
to a step that committed him only to the beginning
of the program outlined.
“I appreciate that business
is not rushing at present,” he said. “Therefore
you will have time to study how I propose to develop
some new business. If you were very busy, you
would not be able to investigate my plan thoroughly.
You may not care to put it into effect just now, but
while you have comparative leisure let me give you
an illustration of ways in which my idea can be worked
out.
“It is unnecessary to discuss
salary or a definite engagement at present, if you
prefer to wait awhile. But with your permission
I should like to come in here for a month and demonstrate
a few of my ideas in actual practice. At the
end of that time I will show you a chart of the results.”
The evasion was turned into a selling
aid. The banker, naturally desirous of making
additional profits, could not very well turn down
such a proposal. He would have felt a little ashamed
to accept services without paying for them. Therefore
he gave the applicant a chance and agreed to pay him
a moderate salary from the beginning. The new
man went to work immediately, and very soon demonstrated
such value that his compensation was increased to
an entirely satisfactory amount.
Already in this chapter you have been
warned against handling an objection in such a way
that the natural antagonism of the man who makes it
will be increased by your method of dealing with his
opposition. When he resists you, or puts obstructions
in your way, you of course must take the measures
that are necessary to enable you to proceed with your
purpose, notwithstanding the obstacles he raises. But
if he acts antagonistic, be careful not to appear
to fight back. Avoid making the impression that
you regard him as an opponent. Your difficulty
in closing the sale will be lessened if you keep him
from feeling at any time that he needs to adopt measures
of self-protection against you.
When your progress is obstructed,
it is necessary that you use a very high degree of
diplomacy and tact. This will carry you much farther
toward your purpose than any manifestation of naked
force. Of course you must meet many objections
squarely. You will encounter obstructions that
cannot be avoided, opposition that will not step aside.
There will be occasions when it will be necessary
for you to employ force. But you can always conceal
“the iron hand in the velvet glove” if
you exert your force in tones and with gestures
or movements, rather than by making word
statements. The art of suggestion can be employed
as effectively at the objection stage as at any other
step of the selling process
Let us assume that you are a greenhorn.
But you believe yourself capable of filling a certain
position. You apply for it. Your prospective
employer questions your capability because you lack
experience. He refuses your application, and
declares he is unwilling to run the risk of having
you make mistakes that might be expensive to him.
You know that you are very careful,
and that you would not take any important action on
your own responsibility if you were in doubt whether
or not you were right. You feel that his objection
is unsound; that he is exaggerating caution.
But it would certainly be a mistake for you to say,
“Nonsense!” That would make him bristle.
Of course you want to show him that
you do not take his objections seriously. You
can make the right impression by smiling at his statement.
You can reinforce the effect of your smile by making
a horizontal gesture with your hand. If you shake
your head slightly, force will be added to your denial
of incapacity or rashness. It may not be necessary
for you to say anything. Possibly your
suggestion will be stronger if you simply ignore the
point he has raised against you. Usually, however,
in such a case it is best to employ a few quiet words
in disposing of the objection; though chief reliance
should be placed on the suggested meaning behind the
statement.
I recall the case of a man who handled
an objection of that sort by first smiling while shaking
his head and making a gesture of negation, and then
said, “I could not lose much for you,
but if I were reckless or irresponsible I certainly
would lose for myself this opportunity that
you see I want very much. I have a great deal
more at stake than you. You may be sure I shall
not risk losing my chance to succeed, by causing you
any losses.” The tone used was the heart
pitch of sincerity, with the final assurance in the
deeper tones of power. The tone and the manner
of the applicant for the position indicated such strength
that the prospect felt the weakness of his objection
and did not persist in it.
When you make a direct admission
of the point the prospect raises against you, have
a strong answer ready and give it to him at once.
Otherwise you will not rid his mind entirely of the
objection. In most cases it is preferable to
make only an indirect or qualified admission
of the point raised. Then the objection, not having
been strengthened by your full confirmation, can be
overcome without the use of much force or power.
If your prospective employer says
to you, “We are not making any money. I
do not intend to put on a new man,” diplomacy
requires you to admit unequivocally the truth of his
assertion that his business is not profitable.
He may be exaggerating a temporary condition, but he
would take offense if you should question his blunt
statement. Therefore agree with him, and having
prepared the opening with your tact, introduce to
his mind agreeable ideas of satisfying his want for
profits. You might say, “I realize
business is poor. That is one of the reasons I
come to you just now. If you were making plenty
of money, you would not appreciate the value of my
ideas for increasing your profits. The results
of the work I propose to do might not be sufficiently
conspicuous among other large earnings to attract your
especial notice. This period of depression gives
me the very opportunity I need to prove to you that
I would be a money-maker, and not an expense to you.
Surely you would like to have me demonstrate that.
All I ask is a chance to convince you. Judge
me by the results.”
Analyze this unequivocal admission
of the validity of the objection. Such cases
can often be handled most effectively by granting the
point raised, directly and without any reservations,
and then answering the objection in such a way that
it is completely removed as an obstruction. This
is good salesmanship.
Suppose, however, you feel the objection
of poor business is unsound. Let us assume that
this prospective employer you are interviewing has
a dull season every year. Therefore the condition
of which he complains is simply normal, and his objection
is put forward as an excuse for rejecting your application.
In such a case you do not want to make the obstruction
more formidable by fully admitting its validity.
Yet tact forbids you to deny its soundness. It
will be better salesmanship to recognize indirectly
the point raised than it would be to give your full
agreement with the objection, as in the above example
of an unequivocal admission. You might use such
an answer as this:
“I notice, Mr. Blank, that you
are making some extensive repairs on your factory.
Though this involves additional expense in your dullest
season, you are having the work done now because this
is your slackest time. True, your profit showing
at present will not be so good as it would be if you
did not make the repairs. But the earnings of
your business will be improved during your busiest
season and you will avoid the extra expense of interrupting
your production when it is at the maximum. This,
of course, is the time to have your repair work done.
It would not be good business to put it off.
“My proposal that you engage
me now is directly along the line of your own policies.
What I would do in your office might be called repair
work. Your dull season is the time to have it
done. I can introduce my efficiency ideas now
without disorganizing your operations. Then, when
you are busiest, the new system will be in perfect
working order, for your service.”
When you study illustrations of the
application of basic principles, do not give them
merely superficial consideration. Examples are of
slight value unless they suggest to you how you should
use your imagination to make illustrations of your
own in actual practice of the principles. Whatever
your need for help in selling your services, and whatever
difficulties you may have to overcome or get around,
you will find in the pages of these books cues
to the methods of certain success. Evidently,
however, the scope of the series of chapters must be
somewhat limited. None of the answers to the
major problems of salesmanship are omitted from the
contents, but you must apply and fit the given
solutions to your individual necessities.
Turn your thought now to the different
bases of objections. It is of the utmost importance
that you know whether the obstruction is raised by
the mind or by the heart of your prospect.
Mental resistance can be met and overcome by
ideas, by points introduced by your mind
into the mind of the other man.
His heart may not be involved. But if
there is “feeling” in his opposition, it
is necessary that you displace it with a different
feeling toward you and your proposal. The
heart of your prospect must be turned from antagonism
to friendliness, if it is involved in an objection.
Therefore when a point is made against you, decide
from the evidence whether the obstacle raised has an
emotional or a mental basis. Treat it accordingly.
Use your own mind principally in dealing with
the purely mental objection of the prospect.
But depend on drawing out his heart with yours if
his emotions are involved in his opposition.
Suppose you have a plan about engaging
in a certain business. You have worked it out
carefully and are confident that it is “a winner.”
But you need financial backing. So you go to
a man who has money, and apply to him for a loan.
He listens to your plan. When you finish explaining,
he refuses your request. He uses the mental tone
of cold business when he states his reason. “You
offer me no security. I am not in the habit of
lending money without it.” His words and
manner indicate that he has listened to your plan
without the slightest feeling of sympathy for your
purpose. His emotions have not been stirred.
He is turning you down simply because his mind
is opposed to the form of investment you propose for
his money. It would be futile for you to make
an emotional appeal to this man, in the hope
of getting rid of his mental objection.
He would be disagreeably impressed were you to attempt
to stir his heart. You cannot offer him the security
he has in mind, but you need not be balked for that
reason. It is possible for you to make an appeal
to his mind only, and to suggest to him ideas of security
that he has not considered.
“Mr. J.P. Morgan,”
you might remind him, “when asked the basis upon
which he loaned money, replied, ‘Character, principally.’
I offer you the security that Mr. Morgan considered
most important. You know my reputation is good.
You perceive that my plan is sound, and that I have
thought it out thoroughly. You do not expect me
to lose money. I have proposed to protect you
as fully as possible by agreeing in advance that I
will take no step until after your approval has been
given. Therefore, in addition to my character,
I am offering you the security of your own mature,
sound judgment on all operations.
“Don’t you believe that
my squareness, guided by your advice, would secure
you? I have applied for a loan of only ten thousand
dollars. You will absolutely control the expenditure
of the money. You know, therefore, that at the
worst I could not have a large loss. I have offered
you life insurance to protect you against the possibility
of my death within the next five years. It is
altogether improbable that I should have a loss of
as much as a thousand dollars in the new business.
Certainly you have sufficient confidence in my ability
and integrity to believe that I could and would repay
you a thousand dollars with interest before the expiration
of five years. I expect, and you expect, that
my venture will prove successful. I have planned
a sound business enterprise, free from the dangers
of speculation. With the cooperation of your
judgment, your loan would be a secure investment.
I believe you are now convinced of that.”
Notice that the objection is dealt
with powerfully; yet there is no appeal that is aimed
away from the prospect’s mind. For
this very reason his sympathy with the proposal is
likely to be stimulated. Such salesmanship often
has the effect of enlisting the heart of the other
man after removing the objection of his mind
Let us assume now that the prospect
refuses to make the loan to you because he has been
imposed upon before by some one he has backed.
He may really want to lend you the money, but his
heart has been so embittered by his previous experience
that he turns a deaf ear to your proposition.
His opposition is based chiefly on feeling. His
heart, not his mind, is at the bottom of his refusal
of your request for a loan. He would not be reached
by the appeal that would be effective with the man
in the first example. This second prospect should
be addressed something like this:
“The experiences you have had
hurt you, principally because they have made you lose
faith in men. This, not the money involved, was
your greatest loss. So long as you have only
those experiences to think about, you will be unable
to get back your former belief in human nature.
You would like to recover it. You would be happy
to feel that the men who abused your confidence were
exceptions, and not the rule.
“If you will lend me ten thousand
dollars, and I make good my promises to you, your
new experience with me will go a long way toward restoring
your lost faith in men. It is natural that you
should feel embittered, but the taste in your mouth
is unpleasant. Back me up. I will help you
get rid of your bitterness, and will replace it with
a glow of satisfaction. You cannot doubt that
I will make good. You should not let your old
prejudice stand in the way of the gratified feeling
you will have when I prove to you that all men are
not unworthy of trust. After I justify your confidence
you will be happier for the rest of your life.”
In the illustration the objection
is dealt with emotionally; because its basis is
feeling. No mental appeal is made.
The salesmanship in this example is the direct converse
of that in the previous illustration.
Usually, however, it is best to counteract
objections by making appeals to both the heart
and the mind of the objector. In most cases
it is safe to assume that his mental opposition involves
his feelings to some degree, and it rarely happens
that an objection is so purely emotional that the
mind of the prospect does not take part in it at all.
So the rule of masterly salesmanship is to use neither
the appeal to mentality nor the appeal to feeling
exclusively, but rather to stress one or
the other, while using both. If the objection
appears to be based principally on opposition
of mind, it is more important to reach into
the prospect’s mind with the answer than
it is to draw out his heart; and vice versa.
If the thought behind the objection
arises principally from feeling, it will nearly
always be expressed in an emotive tone.
By this pitch of the prospect’s voice you can
determine whether he is speaking chiefly from his
heart or from his mind. Conversely, of course,
the mental objection will be pitched in the
high “head” tone. One of the most
difficult features of dealing with opposition from
the other man is uncertainty as to how much he
means of what he says and does. It would
be a mistake to take his resistance too seriously or
too lightly. Therefore it will aid your salesmanship
a great deal if you are able to discriminate between
the mental and the emotional tones in which opposition
is expressed. You can reply accordingly.
It is almost as important that you
recognize the pitch of power when it reenforces
the words of objection, and that on the other hand
you note when the power tone is lacking.
In the first case you will need to reply with considerable
force, whether you appeal to the mind or the heart
of the prospect. But when his objection is stated
in a powerless tone, even though it may be accompanied
by curtness or bluster, you need not waste much force
on your answering appeal to his mentality or his emotions.
The mental tone, as we recall from
previous study, is pitched higher than either the
tone of feeling or the tone of power. The medium,
heart tone is vibrant. It rings with sincerity.
The power tone is deep, and most sonorous of the three.
Keep your ears alert for these indications
your prospect will give you unconsciously when he opposes
your purpose. The discriminative reading of the
tones of objections will greatly reduce the danger
of “getting your wires crossed” when you
reply.
If you have to deal with opposition
expressed in the tone of power or with gestures of
force, you will be safe in concluding that considerable
feeling is behind the objection. Therefore
it will be necessary for you to put both feeling
and power into your answer. You should be
careful, however, when you meet such resistance, not
to make the impression that you are engaged in a contest
of power with your prospect. Throughout the selling
process avoid any suggestion that you are fighting
back. Use the tone of force, not to indicate that
your strength of purpose is greater than the strength
of the resistance, but just to emphasize the basic
soundness of your proposition. Thus you can
suggest that you are sure of your ground, while you
do not dispute the force and sincerity of the other
man in making his objection.
Suppose, for example, you apply for
a situation in a wealthy firm, and one of the partners
turns you down most emphatically by saying that they
can’t afford to engage any new men at present.
You realize the firm may be losing money temporarily,
but you believe that your services in the capacity
you have outlined will be valuable to the partners.
You can come back firmly and not retreat an inch from
your position. You need not antagonize
by manifesting your determination to have the merits
of your proposal given due consideration. You
know your prospect feels pretty strongly on the matter
of increasing his payroll while business is unprofitable,
but you should make him recognize that you believe
so thoroughly in your earning capacity that you feel
you would justify him in disregarding the temporary
depression, while he considers your service worth.
As we have noted previously, it is
important to know, at the time an objection is put
in your way, whether or not it is really meant.
When deciding in your mind on the right answer to
this problem, you will be helped very much if you
size up not only the tone pitch of the objection,
but also the units of tone employed by the prospect
in his expression of opposition. If he refuses
your application, but uses just one tone, you
may be sure his negative is not strong. If you
do not strengthen it to stubbornness by antagonizing
him, but use tact to get rid of his resistance, you
will not find it difficult to melt away the obstruction.
However, should the “No”
be spoken in two or more tones, with increased stress
at the end, your prospect certainly means his rejection
to be final. His mind is fully made up for the
time being. It would be poor salesmanship to
butt your head against his fixed idea, just as it would
be foolish to tackle a strong opponent when he stands
most formidably braced to resist attack. But
the two or three toned negative does not mean that
the idea behind it is fixed in the prospect’s
mind forever. Any one is prone to change
his mind, unless he is kept so busy supporting
a position taken that he has no chance to alter his
opinion.
Therefore leave alone at first the
rock you encounter. Get behind the boulder by
taking a roundabout path. Then quietly dig the
support from under the negative idea. If you
make no fuss while you are undermining the obstacle,
it will be likely to topple over and roll from your
path without your prospect’s noticing that it
has disappeared. If his interest is diverted
from it, there is no reason why he should turn his
mind back to a stubborn insistence on his objection.
Should he be conscious that the rock of his earlier
opposition has rolled away, he will probably think
it lost its balance. He will not realize that
you subtly undermined it and got rid of it by your
skillful salesmanship.
A salesman of an encyclopedia met
a prospect who refused to give favorable attention
to him and his proposition.
“No sir-e-e!” declared
this objector, shaking his head emphatically.
“No more book agents can work me. The last
slick one that tried to swindle me is in ja-a-il
now, and I put him the-ere!”
He gloated in two or three tones.
“Good for you!” praised
the undaunted salesman, who had come prepared for
adamantine obstacles in his path. “If more
book buyers would see that such rascals get what’s
coming to them, the rest of us salesmen, who represent
square publishers squarely, would not have to prove
so often that we are not crooks like some fellows
who have happened to precede us in a territory.
Please tell me the name of the man who swindled you.
He might hit my publishers for a job after he gets
out of jail, and I want to warn the boss against him.
Sometimes those slick rascals pull the wool over our
eyes, too. We are always on the lookout to avoid
getting tangled up with them.”
The salesman pulled out his note book
and pencil. When the name was given, he wrote
it down painstakingly. He asked the prospect to
spell it for him; so that he would be sure to get
it right. Then he thanked the man who had said
he would have nothing more to do with book agents.
Having “got around” the objector, the salesman
proceeded with his selling talk on the encyclopedia,
as if he had not been turned down flatly to begin
with. In less than half an hour he had secured
the signature of the prospect to a contract for the
finest edition.
If this salesman had not been thoroughly
prepared to meet the strongest kind of mental and
emotional opposition, he could not have come back so
quickly with the appropriate answer that undermined
the obstacle. You should be likewise ready for
the “tough customers” one hears about.
Practice in anticipation various ways of handling
every imaginable objection. Then, when you face
an actual difficulty, you will either have on the
tip of your tongue a solution of the problem, or your
forethought will assist you to devise on the spur of
the moment the way to work out the right answer.
Again we observe the importance of full preparation,
in assuring successful salesmanship.
No quality is more important to the
salesman than resourcefulness. Its first
requisite is knowledge, particularly advance
knowledge of the points that are likely to come up
in the course of the selling process. The second
is a mind trained to act quickly and effectively
in using its knowledge. If you have these
two essentials of resourcefulness, no objection will
ever catch you napping. It will do you no good
to look up the right answer after you leave the
prospect. Nothing can be more exasperatingly
worthless than an idea of something you “might
have said” but could not think of until too
late. Have all your facts on tap. And
be practiced in making use of them in every imaginable
way. Rare indeed will be cases that you are not
prepared to handle successfully.
I know a salesman who trained himself
in resourcefulness by typing on about fifty cards
all the objections to his goods or proposition that
he could imagine. For ten or fifteen minutes
every evening he played solitaire with these cards.
He would shuffle them, held face down, and then deal
off, face up, objection after objection. He never
could tell which was coming next. In a few weeks
he had trained himself to give an answer instantly
to each objection, and to utilize it as a help instead
of a hindrance in his selling. Thereafter opposition
and criticism from prospects had no terrors for this
salesman. He was able to get rid of objections
so swiftly, surely, and completely that they never
had time to grow formidable in the mind of the other
man.
Only a little less important than
resourcefulness in meeting objections, is adaptive
originality in answering them. The “pat,
new” reply is always very effective. But
do not unduly stress the value of the factor of originality
alone. It must be coupled with adaptation to
the particular viewpoint of the other man.
You must speak his language, if you would be sure
of making him understand you perfectly.
For example, suppose you apply to
a watch manufacturer for a position in his office.
He seems inclined to question your dependability.
You will make a hit with him if you quote a detail
from one of his own ads and say, “I have a seventeen
jewel movement,” and then particularize that
number of good points about yourself. Such a reference
preceding a specification of your qualities would
be adaptive originality. It would be an expression
exactly fitted to the way this prospect thinks.
So it would be more effective than an ordinary answer
to the objection. Adaptive originality in disposing
of objections is a manifestation of tact and diplomacy the
fine art of letting the other man down with a shock
absorber instead of jolting him to your way of thinking.
When your prospect starts objecting,
it is up to you to prevent him from wandering far
afield. At the objections stage, as at every other
step in the selling process, you should dominate
the other man. Tactfully keep him concentrated
on the subject and on your application. If he
starts to grumble that some man he has engaged previously
was “no good,” you can smile and reply,
“You would not give me credit for anybody
else’s fine work, and of course you do not
blame me for what that fellow did.”
You know what points are relevant
to the subject you have come to discuss, and what
are not. Discriminate, and make the prospect follow
you. Restrict your treatment of his objections
to points, means, and methods that will keep his ideas
from switching onto side-tracks of thought. When
he wanders away from the subject, do not ramble with
him. Promptly and diplomatically run his mind back
on the main line of your purpose. You are operating
a through train to success. You must not be diverted
into picking either daisies or thistles by the right
of way while your salesmanship engine stands idle
Tact and diplomacy include the qualities
of patience and calmness. You cannot
deal successfully with opposition if you are impatient
or flustered. Patience understands the other
man and avoids giving him offense; because it comprehends
his way of thinking and is considerate of his right
to his opinions. Calmness denotes a consciousness
of strength. Hence it inspires admiration.
Keep your patience open-eyed. See ahead.
Do not chafe restlessly because the present moment
is not propitious. A better chance for you is
coming. Because of your vision have faith in
your power to make it come. Whatever may
happen, be self-possessed when you meet it. You
can give no more impressive proof of your bigness.
Your calmness will win the confidence of the other
man. It will help in making the impression of
courageous truth. Only an honest purpose can
meet attack with quiet fearlessness.
The chief danger to the salesman
at the objections stage is that he may lose control
of the selling process. Be on your guard to prevent
the other man from dominating you by his opposition.
You have the advantage at the start. He cannot
be so well prepared to make objections as you should
be to dispose of them effectively. Keep the upper
hand. If you have not antagonized his feelings,
your prospect will admire you when he sees that he
cannot dominate you and realizes that you will not
let him have his own way. You will build up in
him a favorable opinion of your manhood, intelligence,
and power. He cannot help appreciating your art
in handling him
Dispose of each objection in such
a way that you will get yourself wanted more and more
as you remove or get around the obstacles encountered.
The prospect’s desire for your services should
grow in proportion as you overcome his opposition.
It is possible to use objections, or rather their
answers, to strengthen your salesmanship so greatly
that it will be easy to gain your object the
job or the promotion you seek.
Therefore do not quail from the obstacles
you meet. Recognize in each an opportunity to
succeed in demonstrating your capability; a chance
to increase the respect, confidence, and liking of
your prospective employer. Remember, if there were
no difficult, steep mountains to scale, the supreme
heights of success could not be gained. So, with
shining face, climb on and up undaunted!