Persons of the dialogue: Apollodorus,
who repeats to his companion the dialogue which he
had heard from Aristodemus, and had already once narrated
to Glaucon. Phaedrus, Pausanias, Eryximachus,
Aristophanes, Agathon, Socrates, Alcibiades, A Troop
of Revellers.
Scene: The House of Agathon.
Concerning the things about which
you ask to be informed I believe that I am not ill-prepared
with an answer. For the day before yesterday I
was coming from my own home at Phalerum to the city,
and one of my acquaintance, who had caught a sight
of me from behind, calling out playfully in the distance,
said: Apollodorus, O thou Phalerian (Probably
a play of words on (Greek), ‘bald-headed.’)
man, halt! So I did as I was bid; and then he
said, I was looking for you, Apollodorus, only just
now, that I might ask you about the speeches in praise
of love, which were delivered by Socrates, Alcibiades,
and others, at Agathon’s supper. Phoenix,
the son of Philip, told another person who told me
of them; his narrative was very indistinct, but he
said that you knew, and I wish that you would give
me an account of them. Who, if not you, should
be the reporter of the words of your friend?
And first tell me, he said, were you present at this
meeting?
Your informant, Glaucon, I said, must
have been very indistinct indeed, if you imagine that
the occasion was recent; or that I could have been
of the party.
Why, yes, he replied, I thought so.
Impossible: I said. Are
you ignorant that for many years Agathon has not resided
at Athens; and not three have elapsed since I became
acquainted with Socrates, and have made it my daily
business to know all that he says and does. There
was a time when I was running about the world, fancying
myself to be well employed, but I was really a most
wretched being, no better than you are now. I
thought that I ought to do anything rather than be
a philosopher.
Well, he said, jesting apart, tell
me when the meeting occurred.
In our boyhood, I replied, when Agathon
won the prize with his first tragedy, on the day after
that on which he and his chorus offered the sacrifice
of victory.
Then it must have been a long while
ago, he said; and who told you did Socrates?
No indeed, I replied, but the same
person who told Phoenix; he was a little
fellow, who never wore any shoes, Aristodemus, of the
deme of Cydathenaeum. He had been at Agathon’s
feast; and I think that in those days there was no
one who was a more devoted admirer of Socrates.
Moreover, I have asked Socrates about the truth of
some parts of his narrative, and he confirmed them.
Then, said Glaucon, let us have the tale over again;
is not the road to Athens just made for conversation?
And so we walked, and talked of the discourses on love;
and therefore, as I said at first, I am not ill-prepared
to comply with your request, and will have another
rehearsal of them if you like. For to speak or
to hear others speak of philosophy always gives me
the greatest pleasure, to say nothing of the profit.
But when I hear another strain, especially that of
you rich men and traders, such conversation displeases
me; and I pity you who are my companions, because
you think that you are doing something when in reality
you are doing nothing. And I dare say that you
pity me in return, whom you regard as an unhappy creature,
and very probably you are right. But I certainly
know of you what you only think of me there
is the difference.
Companion: I see, Apollodorus,
that you are just the same always speaking
evil of yourself, and of others; and I do believe that
you pity all mankind, with the exception of Socrates,
yourself first of all, true in this to your old name,
which, however deserved, I know not how you acquired,
of Apollodorus the madman; for you are always raging
against yourself and everybody but Socrates.
Apollodorus: Yes, friend,
and the reason why I am said to be mad, and out of
my wits, is just because I have these notions of myself
and you; no other evidence is required.
Companion: No more of that,
Apollodorus; but let me renew my request that you
would repeat the conversation.
Apollodorus: Well, the tale
of love was on this wise: But perhaps I
had better begin at the beginning, and endeavour to
give you the exact words of Aristodemus:
He said that he met Socrates fresh
from the bath and sandalled; and as the sight of the
sandals was unusual, he asked him whither he was going
that he had been converted into such a beau:
To a banquet at Agathon’s, he
replied, whose invitation to his sacrifice of victory
I refused yesterday, fearing a crowd, but promising
that I would come to-day instead; and so I have put
on my finery, because he is such a fine man.
What say you to going with me unasked?
I will do as you bid me, I replied.
Follow then, he said, and let us demolish the proverb:
‘To the feasts of inferior men the good unbidden
go;’
instead of which our proverb will run:
‘To the feasts of the good the good unbidden
go;’
and this alteration may be supported
by the authority of Homer himself, who not only demolishes
but literally outrages the proverb. For, after
picturing Agamemnon as the most valiant of men, he
makes Menelaus, who is but a fainthearted warrior,
come unbidden (Iliad) to the banquet of Agamemnon,
who is feasting and offering sacrifices, not the better
to the worse, but the worse to the better.
I rather fear, Socrates, said Aristodemus,
lest this may still be my case; and that, like Menelaus
in Homer, I shall be the inferior person, who
‘To the feasts of the wise unbidden goes.’
But I shall say that I was bidden
of you, and then you will have to make an excuse.
‘Two going together,’
he replied, in Homeric fashion, one
or other of them may invent an excuse by the way (Iliad).
This was the style of their conversation
as they went along. Socrates dropped behind in
a fit of abstraction, and desired Aristodemus, who
was waiting, to go on before him. When he reached
the house of Agathon he found the doors wide open,
and a comical thing happened. A servant coming
out met him, and led him at once into the banqueting-hall
in which the guests were reclining, for the banquet
was about to begin. Welcome, Aristodemus, said
Agathon, as soon as he appeared you are
just in time to sup with us; if you come on any other
matter put it off, and make one of us, as I was looking
for you yesterday and meant to have asked you, if
I could have found you. But what have you done
with Socrates?
I turned round, but Socrates was nowhere
to be seen; and I had to explain that he had been
with me a moment before, and that I came by his invitation
to the supper.
You were quite right in coming, said
Agathon; but where is he himself?
He was behind me just now, as I entered,
he said, and I cannot think what has become of him.
Go and look for him, boy, said Agathon,
and bring him in; and do you, Aristodemus, meanwhile
take the place by Eryximachus.
The servant then assisted him to wash,
and he lay down, and presently another servant came
in and reported that our friend Socrates had retired
into the portico of the neighbouring house. ‘There
he is fixed,’ said he, ‘and when I call
to him he will not stir.’
How strange, said Agathon; then you
must call him again, and keep calling him.
Let him alone, said my informant;
he has a way of stopping anywhere and losing himself
without any reason. I believe that he will soon
appear; do not therefore disturb him.
Well, if you think so, I will leave
him, said Agathon. And then, turning to the servants,
he added, ’Let us have supper without waiting
for him. Serve up whatever you please, for there
is no one to give you orders; hitherto I have never
left you to yourselves. But on this occasion
imagine that you are our hosts, and that I and the
company are your guests; treat us well, and then we
shall commend you.’ After this, supper
was served, but still no Socrates; and during the meal
Agathon several times expressed a wish to send for
him, but Aristodemus objected; and at last when the
feast was about half over for the fit,
as usual, was not of long duration Socrates
entered. Agathon, who was reclining alone at
the end of the table, begged that he would take the
place next to him; that ‘I may touch you,’
he said, ’and have the benefit of that wise
thought which came into your mind in the portico,
and is now in your possession; for I am certain that
you would not have come away until you had found what
you sought.’
How I wish, said Socrates, taking
his place as he was desired, that wisdom could be
infused by touch, out of the fuller into the emptier
man, as water runs through wool out of a fuller cup
into an emptier one; if that were so, how greatly
should I value the privilege of reclining at your
side! For you would have filled me full with a
stream of wisdom plenteous and fair; whereas my own
is of a very mean and questionable sort, no better
than a dream. But yours is bright and full of
promise, and was manifested forth in all the splendour
of youth the day before yesterday, in the presence
of more than thirty thousand Hellènes.
You are mocking, Socrates, said Agathon,
and ere long you and I will have to determine who
bears off the palm of wisdom of this Dionysus
shall be the judge; but at present you are better occupied
with supper.
Socrates took his place on the couch,
and supped with the rest; and then libations were
offered, and after a hymn had been sung to the god,
and there had been the usual ceremonies, they were
about to commence drinking, when Pausanias said, And
now, my friends, how can we drink with least injury
to ourselves? I can assure you that I feel severely
the effect of yesterday’s potations, and must
have time to recover; and I suspect that most of you
are in the same predicament, for you were of the party
yesterday. Consider then: How can the drinking
be made easiest?
I entirely agree, said Aristophanes,
that we should, by all means, avoid hard drinking,
for I was myself one of those who were yesterday drowned
in drink.
I think that you are right, said Eryximachus,
the son of Acumenus; but I should still like to hear
one other person speak: Is Agathon able to drink
hard?
I am not equal to it, said Agathon.
Then, said Eryximachus, the weak heads
like myself, Aristodemus, Phaedrus, and others who
never can drink, are fortunate in finding that the
stronger ones are not in a drinking mood. (I do not
include Socrates, who is able either to drink or to
abstain, and will not mind, whichever we do.) Well,
as of none of the company seem disposed to drink much,
I may be forgiven for saying, as a physician, that
drinking deep is a bad practice, which I never follow,
if I can help, and certainly do not recommend to another,
least of all to any one who still feels the effects
of yesterday’s carouse.
I always do what you advise, and especially
what you prescribe as a physician, rejoined Phaedrus
the Myrrhinusian, and the rest of the company, if
they are wise, will do the same.
It was agreed that drinking was not
to be the order of the day, but that they were all
to drink only so much as they pleased.
Then, said Eryximachus, as you are
all agreed that drinking is to be voluntary, and that
there is to be no compulsion, I move, in the next
place, that the flute-girl, who has just made her appearance,
be told to go away and play to herself, or, if she
likes, to the women who are within (compare Prot.).
To-day let us have conversation instead; and, if you
will allow me, I will tell you what sort of conversation.
This proposal having been accepted, Eryximachus proceeded
as follows:
I will begin, he said, after the manner
of Melanippe in Euripides,
‘Not mine the word’
which I am about to speak, but that
of Phaedrus. For often he says to me in an indignant
tone: ’What a strange thing it is,
Eryximachus, that, whereas other gods have poems and
hymns made in their honour, the great and glorious
god, Love, has no encomiast among all the poets who
are so many. There are the worthy sophists too the
excellent Prodicus for example, who have descanted
in prose on the virtues of Heracles and other heroes;
and, what is still more extraordinary, I have met with
a philosophical work in which the utility of salt
has been made the theme of an eloquent discourse;
and many other like things have had a like honour
bestowed upon them. And only to think that there
should have been an eager interest created about them,
and yet that to this day no one has ever dared worthily
to hymn Love’s praises! So entirely has
this great deity been neglected.’ Now in
this Phaedrus seems to me to be quite right, and therefore
I want to offer him a contribution; also I think that
at the present moment we who are here assembled cannot
do better than honour the god Love. If you agree
with me, there will be no lack of conversation; for
I mean to propose that each of us in turn, going from
left to right, shall make a speech in honour of Love.
Let him give us the best which he can; and Phaedrus,
because he is sitting first on the left hand, and
because he is the father of the thought, shall begin.
No one will vote against you, Eryximachus,
said Socrates. How can I oppose your motion,
who profess to understand nothing but matters of love;
nor, I presume, will Agathon and Pausanias; and there
can be no doubt of Aristophanes, whose whole concern
is with Dionysus and Aphrodite; nor will any one disagree
of those whom I see around me. The proposal,
as I am aware, may seem rather hard upon us whose place
is last; but we shall be contented if we hear some
good speeches first. Let Phaedrus begin the praise
of Love, and good luck to him. All the company
expressed their assent, and desired him to do as Socrates
bade him.
Aristodemus did not recollect all
that was said, nor do I recollect all that he related
to me; but I will tell you what I thought most worthy
of remembrance, and what the chief speakers said.
Phaedrus began by affirming that Love
is a mighty god, and wonderful among gods and men,
but especially wonderful in his birth. For he
is the eldest of the gods, which is an honour to him;
and a proof of his claim to this honour is, that of
his parents there is no memorial; neither poet nor
prose-writer has ever affirmed that he had any.
As Hesiod says:
’First Chaos came, and then
broad-bosomed Earth, The everlasting seat of all that
is, And Love.’
In other words, after Chaos, the Earth
and Love, these two, came into being. Also Parmenides
sings of Generation:
‘First in the train of gods, he fashioned Love.’
And Acusilaus agrees with Hesiod.
Thus numerous are the witnesses who acknowledge Love
to be the eldest of the gods. And not only is
he the eldest, he is also the source of the greatest
benefits to us. For I know not any greater blessing
to a young man who is beginning life than a virtuous
lover, or to the lover than a beloved youth. For
the principle which ought to be the guide of men who
would nobly live that principle, I say,
neither kindred, nor honour, nor wealth, nor any other
motive is able to implant so well as love. Of
what am I speaking? Of the sense of honour and
dishonour, without which neither states nor individuals
ever do any good or great work. And I say that
a lover who is detected in doing any dishonourable
act, or submitting through cowardice when any dishonour
is done to him by another, will be more pained at being
detected by his beloved than at being seen by his father,
or by his companions, or by any one else. The
beloved too, when he is found in any disgraceful situation,
has the same feeling about his lover. And if
there were only some way of contriving that a state
or an army should be made up of lovers and their loves
(compare Rep.), they would be the very best governors
of their own city, abstaining from all dishonour, and
emulating one another in honour; and when fighting
at each other’s side, although a mere handful,
they would overcome the world. For what lover
would not choose rather to be seen by all mankind than
by his beloved, either when abandoning his post or
throwing away his arms? He would be ready to
die a thousand deaths rather than endure this.
Or who would desert his beloved or fail him in the
hour of danger? The veriest coward would become
an inspired hero, equal to the bravest, at such a time;
Love would inspire him. That courage which, as
Homer says, the god breathes into the souls of some
heroes, Love of his own nature infuses into the lover.
Love will make men dare to die for
their beloved love alone; and women as
well as men. Of this, Alcestis, the daughter of
Pelias, is a monument to all Hellas; for she was willing
to lay down her life on behalf of her husband, when
no one else would, although he had a father and mother;
but the tenderness of her love so far exceeded theirs,
that she made them seem to be strangers in blood to
their own son, and in name only related to him; and
so noble did this action of hers appear to the gods,
as well as to men, that among the many who have done
virtuously she is one of the very few to whom, in
admiration of her noble action, they have granted
the privilege of returning alive to earth; such exceeding
honour is paid by the gods to the devotion and virtue
of love. But Orpheus, the son of Oeagrus, the
harper, they sent empty away, and presented to him
an apparition only of her whom he sought, but herself
they would not give up, because he showed no spirit;
he was only a harp-player, and did not dare like Alcestis
to die for love, but was contriving how he might enter
Hades alive; moreover, they afterwards caused him
to suffer death at the hands of women, as the punishment
of his cowardliness. Very different was the reward
of the true love of Achilles towards his lover Patroclus his
lover and not his love (the notion that Patroclus
was the beloved one is a foolish error into which
Aeschylus has fallen, for Achilles was surely the fairer
of the two, fairer also than all the other heroes;
and, as Homer informs us, he was still beardless,
and younger far). And greatly as the gods honour
the virtue of love, still the return of love on the
part of the beloved to the lover is more admired and
valued and rewarded by them, for the lover is more
divine; because he is inspired by God. Now Achilles
was quite aware, for he had been told by his mother,
that he might avoid death and return home, and live
to a good old age, if he abstained from slaying Hector.
Nevertheless he gave his life to revenge his friend,
and dared to die, not only in his defence, but after
he was dead. Wherefore the gods honoured him
even above Alcestis, and sent him to the Islands of
the Blest. These are my reasons for affirming
that Love is the eldest and noblest and mightiest
of the gods; and the chiefest author and giver of
virtue in life, and of happiness after death.
This, or something like this, was
the speech of Phaedrus; and some other speeches followed
which Aristodemus did not remember; the next which
he repeated was that of Pausanias. Phaedrus,
he said, the argument has not been set before us,
I think, quite in the right form; we should
not be called upon to praise Love in such an indiscriminate
manner. If there were only one Love, then what
you said would be well enough; but since there are
more Loves than one, should have begun by
determining which of them was to be the theme of our
praises. I will amend this defect; and first
of all I will tell you which Love is deserving of praise,
and then try to hymn the praiseworthy one in a manner
worthy of him. For we all know that Love is inseparable
from Aphrodite, and if there were only one Aphrodite
there would be only one Love; but as there are two
goddesses there must be two Loves. And am I not
right in asserting that there are two goddesses?
The elder one, having no mother, who is called the
heavenly Aphrodite she is the daughter of
Uranus; the younger, who is the daughter of Zeus and
Dione her we call common; and the Love
who is her fellow-worker is rightly named common, as
the other love is called heavenly. All the gods
ought to have praise given to them, but not without
distinction of their natures; and therefore I must
try to distinguish the characters of the two Loves.
Now actions vary according to the manner of their
performance. Take, for example, that which we
are now doing, drinking, singing and talking these
actions are not in themselves either good or evil,
but they turn out in this or that way according to
the mode of performing them; and when well done they
are good, and when wrongly done they are evil; and
in like manner not every love, but only that which
has a noble purpose, is noble and worthy of praise.
The Love who is the offspring of the common Aphrodite
is essentially common, and has no discrimination,
being such as the meaner sort of men feel, and is
apt to be of women as well as of youths, and is of
the body rather than of the soul the most
foolish beings are the objects of this love which
desires only to gain an end, but never thinks of accomplishing
the end nobly, and therefore does good and evil quite
indiscriminately. The goddess who is his mother
is far younger than the other, and she was born of
the union of the male and female, and partakes of
both. But the offspring of the heavenly Aphrodite
is derived from a mother in whose birth the female
has no part, she is from the male only;
this is that love which is of youths, and the goddess
being older, there is nothing of wantonness in her.
Those who are inspired by this love turn to the male,
and delight in him who is the more valiant and intelligent
nature; any one may recognise the pure enthusiasts
in the very character of their attachments. For
they love not boys, but intelligent beings whose reason
is beginning to be developed, much about the time
at which their beards begin to grow. And in choosing
young men to be their companions, they mean to be
faithful to them, and pass their whole life in company
with them, not to take them in their inexperience,
and deceive them, and play the fool with them, or run
away from one to another of them. But the love
of young boys should be forbidden by law, because
their future is uncertain; they may turn out good or
bad, either in body or soul, and much noble enthusiasm
may be thrown away upon them; in this matter the good
are a law to themselves, and the coarser sort of lovers
ought to be restrained by force; as we restrain or
attempt to restrain them from fixing their affections
on women of free birth. These are the persons
who bring a reproach on love; and some have been led
to deny the lawfulness of such attachments because
they see the impropriety and evil of them; for surely
nothing that is decorously and lawfully done can justly
be censured. Now here and in Lacedaemon the rules
about love are perplexing, but in most cities they
are simple and easily intelligible; in Elis and Boeotia,
and in countries having no gifts of eloquence, they
are very straightforward; the law is simply in favour
of these connexions, and no one, whether young or
old, has anything to say to their discredit; the reason
being, as I suppose, that they are men of few words
in those parts, and therefore the lovers do not like
the trouble of pleading their suit. In Ionia
and other places, and generally in countries which
are subject to the barbarians, the custom is held
to be dishonourable; loves of youths share the evil
repute in which philosophy and gymnastics are held,
because they are inimical to tyranny; for the interests
of rulers require that their subjects should be poor
in spirit (compare Arist. Politics), and that
there should be no strong bond of friendship or society
among them, which love, above all other motives, is
likely to inspire, as our Athenian tyrants learned
by experience; for the love of Aristogeiton and the
constancy of Harmodius had a strength which undid
their power. And, therefore, the ill-repute into
which these attachments have fallen is to be ascribed
to the evil condition of those who make them to be
ill-reputed; that is to say, to the self-seeking of
the governors and the cowardice of the governed; on
the other hand, the indiscriminate honour which is
given to them in some countries is attributable to
the laziness of those who hold this opinion of them.
In our own country a far better principle prevails,
but, as I was saying, the explanation of it is rather
perplexing. For, observe that open loves are
held to be more honourable than secret ones, and that
the love of the noblest and highest, even if their
persons are less beautiful than others, is especially
honourable. Consider, too, how great is the encouragement
which all the world gives to the lover; neither is
he supposed to be doing anything dishonourable; but
if he succeeds he is praised, and if he fail he is
blamed. And in the pursuit of his love the custom
of mankind allows him to do many strange things, which
philosophy would bitterly censure if they were done
from any motive of interest, or wish for office or
power. He may pray, and entreat, and supplicate,
and swear, and lie on a mat at the door, and endure
a slavery worse than that of any slave in
any other case friends and enemies would be equally
ready to prevent him, but now there is no friend who
will be ashamed of him and admonish him, and no enemy
will charge him with meanness or flattery; the actions
of a lover have a grace which ennobles them; and custom
has decided that they are highly commendable and that
there no loss of character in them; and, what is strangest
of all, he only may swear and forswear himself (so
men say), and the gods will forgive his transgression,
for there is no such thing as a lover’s oath.
Such is the entire liberty which gods and men have
allowed the lover, according to the custom which prevails
in our part of the world. From this point of
view a man fairly argues that in Athens to love and
to be loved is held to be a very honourable thing.
But when parents forbid their sons to talk with their
lovers, and place them under a tutor’s care,
who is appointed to see to these things, and their
companions and equals cast in their teeth anything
of the sort which they may observe, and their elders
refuse to silence the reprovers and do not rebuke
them any one who reflects on all this will,
on the contrary, think that we hold these practices
to be most disgraceful. But, as I was saying
at first, the truth as I imagine is, that whether
such practices are honourable or whether they are dishonourable
is not a simple question; they are honourable to him
who follows them honourably, dishonourable to him
who follows them dishonourably. There is dishonour
in yielding to the evil, or in an evil manner; but
there is honour in yielding to the good, or in an
honourable manner. Evil is the vulgar lover who
loves the body rather than the soul, inasmuch as he
is not even stable, because he loves a thing which
is in itself unstable, and therefore when the bloom
of youth which he was desiring is over, he takes wing
and flies away, in spite of all his words and promises;
whereas the love of the noble disposition is life-long,
for it becomes one with the everlasting. The
custom of our country would have both of them proven
well and truly, and would have us yield to the one
sort of lover and avoid the other, and therefore encourages
some to pursue, and others to fly; testing both the
lover and beloved in contests and trials, until they
show to which of the two classes they respectively
belong. And this is the reason why, in the first
place, a hasty attachment is held to be dishonourable,
because time is the true test of this as of most other
things; and secondly there is a dishonour in being
overcome by the love of money, or of wealth, or of
political power, whether a man is frightened into
surrender by the loss of them, or, having experienced
the benefits of money and political corruption, is
unable to rise above the seductions of them. For
none of these things are of a permanent or lasting
nature; not to mention that no generous friendship
ever sprang from them. There remains, then, only
one way of honourable attachment which custom allows
in the beloved, and this is the way of virtue; for
as we admitted that any service which the lover does
to him is not to be accounted flattery or a dishonour
to himself, so the beloved has one way only of voluntary
service which is not dishonourable, and this is virtuous
service.
For we have a custom, and according
to our custom any one who does service to another
under the idea that he will be improved by him either
in wisdom, or in some other particular of virtue such
a voluntary service, I say, is not to be regarded
as a dishonour, and is not open to the charge of flattery.
And these two customs, one the love of youth, and
the other the practice of philosophy and virtue in
general, ought to meet in one, and then the beloved
may honourably indulge the lover. For when the
lover and beloved come together, having each of them
a law, and the lover thinks that he is right in doing
any service which he can to his gracious loving one;
and the other that he is right in showing any kindness
which he can to him who is making him wise and good;
the one capable of communicating wisdom and virtue,
the other seeking to acquire them with a view to education
and wisdom, when the two laws of love are fulfilled
and meet in one then, and then only, may
the beloved yield with honour to the lover. Nor
when love is of this disinterested sort is there any
disgrace in being deceived, but in every other case
there is equal disgrace in being or not being deceived.
For he who is gracious to his lover under the impression
that he is rich, and is disappointed of his gains
because he turns out to be poor, is disgraced all the
same: for he has done his best to show that he
would give himself up to any one’s ‘uses
base’ for the sake of money; but this is not
honourable. And on the same principle he who
gives himself to a lover because he is a good man,
and in the hope that he will be improved by his company,
shows himself to be virtuous, even though the object
of his affection turn out to be a villain, and to
have no virtue; and if he is deceived he has committed
a noble error. For he has proved that for his
part he will do anything for anybody with a view to
virtue and improvement, than which there can be nothing
nobler. Thus noble in every case is the acceptance
of another for the sake of virtue. This is that
love which is the love of the heavenly godess, and
is heavenly, and of great price to individuals and
cities, making the lover and the beloved alike eager
in the work of their own improvement. But all
other loves are the offspring of the other, who is
the common goddess. To you, Phaedrus, I offer
this my contribution in praise of love, which is as
good as I could make extempore.
Pausanias came to a pause this
is the balanced way in which I have been taught by
the wise to speak; and Aristodemus said that the turn
of Aristophanes was next, but either he had eaten
too much, or from some other cause he had the hiccough,
and was obliged to change turns with Eryximachus the
physician, who was reclining on the couch below him.
Eryximachus, he said, you ought either to stop my hiccough,
or to speak in my turn until I have left off.
I will do both, said Eryximachus:
I will speak in your turn, and do you speak in mine;
and while I am speaking let me recommend you to hold
your breath, and if after you have done so for some
time the hiccough is no better, then gargle with a
little water; and if it still continues, tickle your
nose with something and sneeze; and if you sneeze once
or twice, even the most violent hiccough is sure to
go. I will do as you prescribe, said Aristophanes,
and now get on.
Eryximachus spoke as follows:
Seeing that Pausanias made a fair beginning, and but
a lame ending, I must endeavour to supply his deficiency.
I think that he has rightly distinguished two kinds
of love. But my art further informs me that the
double love is not merely an affection of the soul
of man towards the fair, or towards anything, but
is to be found in the bodies of all animals and in
productions of the earth, and I may say in all that
is; such is the conclusion which I seem to have gathered
from my own art of medicine, whence I learn how great
and wonderful and universal is the deity of love, whose
empire extends over all things, divine as well as
human. And from medicine I will begin that I
may do honour to my art. There are in the human
body these two kinds of love, which are confessedly
different and unlike, and being unlike, they have
loves and desires which are unlike; and the desire
of the healthy is one, and the desire of the diseased
is another; and as Pausanias was just now saying that
to indulge good men is honourable, and bad men dishonourable: so
too in the body the good and healthy elements are
to be indulged, and the bad elements and the elements
of disease are not to be indulged, but discouraged.
And this is what the physician has to do, and in this
the art of medicine consists: for medicine may
be regarded generally as the knowledge of the loves
and desires of the body, and how to satisfy them or
not; and the best physician is he who is able to separate
fair love from foul, or to convert one into the other;
and he who knows how to eradicate and how to implant
love, whichever is required, and can reconcile the
most hostile elements in the constitution and make
them loving friends, is a skilful practitioner.
Now the most hostile are the most opposite, such as
hot and cold, bitter and sweet, moist and dry, and
the like. And my ancestor, Asclepius, knowing
how to implant friendship and accord in these elements,
was the creator of our art, as our friends the poets
here tell us, and I believe them; and not only medicine
in every branch but the arts of gymnastic and husbandry
are under his dominion. Any one who pays the
least attention to the subject will also perceive that
in music there is the same reconciliation of opposites;
and I suppose that this must have been the meaning
of Heracleitus, although his words are not accurate;
for he says that The One is united by disunion, like
the harmony of the bow and the lyre. Now there
is an absurdity saying that harmony is discord or
is composed of elements which are still in a state
of discord. But what he probably meant was, that
harmony is composed of differing notes of higher or
lower pitch which disagreed once, but are now reconciled
by the art of music; for if the higher and lower notes
still disagreed, there could be no harmony, clearly
not. For harmony is a symphony, and symphony
is an agreement; but an agreement of disagreements
while they disagree there cannot be; you cannot harmonize
that which disagrees. In like manner rhythm is
compounded of elements short and long, once differing
and now in accord; which accordance, as in the former
instance, medicine, so in all these other cases, music
implants, making love and unison to grow up among them;
and thus music, too, is concerned with the principles
of love in their application to harmony and rhythm.
Again, in the essential nature of harmony and rhythm
there is no difficulty in discerning love which has
not yet become double. But when you want to use
them in actual life, either in the composition of
songs or in the correct performance of airs or metres
composed already, which latter is called education,
then the difficulty begins, and the good artist is
needed. Then the old tale has to be repeated
of fair and heavenly love the love of Urania
the fair and heavenly muse, and of the duty of accepting
the temperate, and those who are as yet intemperate
only that they may become temperate, and of preserving
their love; and again, of the vulgar Polyhymnia, who
must be used with circumspection that the pleasure
be enjoyed, but may not generate licentiousness; just
as in my own art it is a great matter so to regulate
the desires of the epicure that he may gratify his
tastes without the attendant evil of disease.
Whence I infer that in music, in medicine, in all
other things human as well as divine, both loves ought
to be noted as far as may be, for they are both present.
The course of the seasons is also
full of both these principles; and when, as I was
saying, the elements of hot and cold, moist and dry,
attain the harmonious love of one another and blend
in temperance and harmony, they bring to men, animals,
and plants health and plenty, and do them no harm;
whereas the wanton love, getting the upper hand and
affecting the seasons of the year, is very destructive
and injurious, being the source of pestilence, and
bringing many other kinds of diseases on animals and
plants; for hoar-frost and hail and blight spring
from the excesses and disorders of these elements of
love, which to know in relation to the revolutions
of the heavenly bodies and the seasons of the year
is termed astronomy. Furthermore all sacrifices
and the whole province of divination, which is the
art of communion between gods and men these,
I say, are concerned only with the preservation of
the good and the cure of the evil love. For all
manner of impiety is likely to ensue if, instead of
accepting and honouring and reverencing the harmonious
love in all his actions, a man honours the other love,
whether in his feelings towards gods or parents, towards
the living or the dead. Wherefore the business
of divination is to see to these loves and to heal
them, and divination is the peacemaker of gods and
men, working by a knowledge of the religious or irreligious
tendencies which exist in human loves. Such is
the great and mighty, or rather omnipotent force of
love in general. And the love, more especially,
which is concerned with the good, and which is perfected
in company with temperance and justice, whether among
gods or men, has the greatest power, and is the source
of all our happiness and harmony, and makes us friends
with the gods who are above us, and with one another.
I dare say that I too have omitted several things
which might be said in praise of Love, but this was
not intentional, and you, Aristophanes, may now supply
the omission or take some other line of commendation;
for I perceive that you are rid of the hiccough.
Yes, said Aristophanes, who followed,
the hiccough is gone; not, however, until I applied
the sneezing; and I wonder whether the harmony of
the body has a love of such noises and ticklings, for
I no sooner applied the sneezing than I was cured.
Eryximachus said: Beware, friend
Aristophanes, although you are going to speak, you
are making fun of me; and I shall have to watch and
see whether I cannot have a laugh at your expense,
when you might speak in peace.
You are right, said Aristophanes,
laughing. I will unsay my words; but do you please
not to watch me, as I fear that in the speech which
I am about to make, instead of others laughing with
me, which is to the manner born of our muse and would
be all the better, I shall only be laughed at by them.
Do you expect to shoot your bolt and
escape, Aristophanes? Well, perhaps if you are
very careful and bear in mind that you will be called
to account, I may be induced to let you off.
Aristophanes professed to open another
vein of discourse; he had a mind to praise Love in
another way, unlike that either of Pausanias or Eryximachus.
Mankind, he said, judging by their neglect of him,
have never, as I think, at all understood the power
of Love. For if they had understood him they
would surely have built noble temples and altars,
and offered solemn sacrifices in his honour; but this
is not done, and most certainly ought to be done:
since of all the gods he is the best friend of men,
the helper and the healer of the ills which are the
great impediment to the happiness of the race.
I will try to describe his power to you, and you shall
teach the rest of the world what I am teaching you.
In the first place, let me treat of the nature of man
and what has happened to it; for the original human
nature was not like the present, but different.
The sexes were not two as they are now, but originally
three in number; there was man, woman, and the union
of the two, having a name corresponding to this double
nature, which had once a real existence, but is now
lost, and the word ‘Androgynous’ is only
preserved as a term of reproach. In the second
place, the primeval man was round, his back and sides
forming a circle; and he had four hands and four feet,
one head with two faces, looking opposite ways, set
on a round neck and precisely alike; also four ears,
two privy members, and the remainder to correspond.
He could walk upright as men now do, backwards or
forwards as he pleased, and he could also roll over
and over at a great pace, turning on his four hands
and four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over
and over with their legs in the air; this was when
he wanted to run fast. Now the sexes were three,
and such as I have described them; because the sun,
moon, and earth are three; and the man was originally
the child of the sun, the woman of the earth, and the
man-woman of the moon, which is made up of sun and
earth, and they were all round and moved round and
round like their parents. Terrible was their
might and strength, and the thoughts of their hearts
were great, and they made an attack upon the gods;
of them is told the tale of Otys and Ephialtes who,
as Homer says, dared to scale heaven, and would have
laid hands upon the gods. Doubt reigned in the
celestial councils. Should they kill them and
annihilate the race with thunderbolts, as they had
done the giants, then there would be an end of the
sacrifices and worship which men offered to them;
but, on the other hand, the gods could not suffer
their insolence to be unrestrained. At last, after
a good deal of reflection, Zeus discovered a way.
He said: ’Methinks I have a plan which
will humble their pride and improve their manners;
men shall continue to exist, but I will cut them in
two and then they will be diminished in strength and
increased in numbers; this will have the advantage
of making them more profitable to us. They shall
walk upright on two legs, and if they continue insolent
and will not be quiet, I will split them again and
they shall hop about on a single leg.’ He
spoke and cut men in two, like a sorb-apple which
is halved for pickling, or as you might divide an
egg with a hair; and as he cut them one after another,
he bade Apollo give the face and the half of the neck
a turn in order that the man might contemplate the
section of himself: he would thus learn a lesson
of humility. Apollo was also bidden to heal their
wounds and compose their forms. So he gave a turn
to the face and pulled the skin from the sides all
over that which in our language is called the belly,
like the purses which draw in, and he made one mouth
at the centre, which he fastened in a knot (the same
which is called the navel); he also moulded the breast
and took out most of the wrinkles, much as a shoemaker
might smooth leather upon a last; he left a few, however,
in the region of the belly and navel, as a memorial
of the primeval state. After the division the
two parts of man, each desiring his other half, came
together, and throwing their arms about one another,
entwined in mutual embraces, longing to grow into one,
they were on the point of dying from hunger and self-neglect,
because they did not like to do anything apart; and
when one of the halves died and the other survived,
the survivor sought another mate, man or woman as
we call them, being the sections of entire
men or women, and clung to that. They
were being destroyed, when Zeus in pity of them invented
a new plan: he turned the parts of generation
round to the front, for this had not been always their
position, and they sowed the seed no longer as hitherto
like grasshoppers in the ground, but in one another;
and after the transposition the male generated in
the female in order that by the mutual embraces of
man and woman they might breed, and the race might
continue; or if man came to man they might be satisfied,
and rest, and go their ways to the business of life:
so ancient is the desire of one another which is implanted
in us, reuniting our original nature, making one of
two, and healing the state of man. Each of us
when separated, having one side only, like a flat
fish, is but the indenture of a man, and he is always
looking for his other half. Men who are a section
of that double nature which was once called Androgynous
are lovers of women; adulterers are generally of this
breed, and also adulterous women who lust after men:
the women who are a section of the woman do not care
for men, but have female attachments; the female companions
are of this sort. But they who are a section
of the male follow the male, and while they are young,
being slices of the original man, they hang about men
and embrace them, and they are themselves the best
of boys and youths, because they have the most manly
nature. Some indeed assert that they are shameless,
but this is not true; for they do not act thus from
any want of shame, but because they are valiant and
manly, and have a manly countenance, and they embrace
that which is like them. And these when they
grow up become our statesmen, and these only, which
is a great proof of the truth of what I am saving.
When they reach manhood they are lovers of youth,
and are not naturally inclined to marry or beget children, if
at all, they do so only in obedience to the law; but
they are satisfied if they may be allowed to live
with one another unwedded; and such a nature is prone
to love and ready to return love, always embracing
that which is akin to him. And when one of them
meets with his other half, the actual half of himself,
whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another
sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and
friendship and intimacy, and one will not be out of
the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a
moment: these are the people who pass their whole
lives together; yet they could not explain what they
desire of one another. For the intense yearning
which each of them has towards the other does not
appear to be the desire of lover’s intercourse,
but of something else which the soul of either evidently
desires and cannot tell, and of which she has only
a dark and doubtful presentiment. Suppose Hephaestus,
with his instruments, to come to the pair who are
lying side by side and to say to them, ’What
do you people want of one another?’ they would
be unable to explain. And suppose further, that
when he saw their perplexity he said: ’Do
you desire to be wholly one; always day and night
to be in one another’s company? for if this is
what you desire, I am ready to melt you into one and
let you grow together, so that being two you shall
become one, and while you live live a common life
as if you were a single man, and after your death in
the world below still be one departed soul instead
of two I ask whether this is what you lovingly
desire, and whether you are satisfied to attain this?’ there
is not a man of them who when he heard the proposal
would deny or would not acknowledge that this meeting
and melting into one another, this becoming one instead
of two, was the very expression of his ancient need
(compare Arist. Pol.). And the reason is
that human nature was originally one and we were a
whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is
called love. There was a time, I say, when we
were one, but now because of the wickedness of mankind
God has dispersed us, as the Arcadians were dispersed
into villages by the Lacedaemonians (compare Arist.
Pol.). And if we are not obedient to the gods,
there is a danger that we shall be split up again
and go about in basso-relievo, like the profile figures
having only half a nose which are sculptured on monuments,
and that we shall be like tallies. Wherefore let
us exhort all men to piety, that we may avoid evil,
and obtain the good, of which Love is to us the lord
and minister; and let no one oppose him he
is the enemy of the gods who opposes him. For
if we are friends of the God and at peace with him
we shall find our own true loves, which rarely happens
in this world at present. I am serious, and therefore
I must beg Eryximachus not to make fun or to find
any allusion in what I am saying to Pausanias and
Agathon, who, as I suspect, are both of the manly
nature, and belong to the class which I have been describing.
But my words have a wider application they
include men and women everywhere; and I believe that
if our loves were perfectly accomplished, and each
one returning to his primeval nature had his original
true love, then our race would be happy. And
if this would be best of all, the best in the next
degree and under present circumstances must be the
nearest approach to such an union; and that will be
the attainment of a congenial love. Wherefore,
if we would praise him who has given to us the benefit,
we must praise the god Love, who is our greatest benefactor,
both leading us in this life back to our own nature,
and giving us high hopes for the future, for he promises
that if we are pious, he will restore us to our original
state, and heal us and make us happy and blessed.
This, Eryximachus, is my discourse of love, which,
although different to yours, I must beg you to leave
unassailed by the shafts of your ridicule, in order
that each may have his turn; each, or rather either,
for Agathon and Socrates are the only ones left.
Indeed, I am not going to attack you,
said Eryximachus, for I thought your speech charming,
and did I not know that Agathon and Socrates are masters
in the art of love, I should be really afraid that
they would have nothing to say, after the world of
things which have been said already. But, for
all that, I am not without hopes.
Socrates said: You played your
part well, Eryximachus; but if you were as I am now,
or rather as I shall be when Agathon has spoken, you
would, indeed, be in a great strait.
You want to cast a spell over me,
Socrates, said Agathon, in the hope that I may be
disconcerted at the expectation raised among the audience
that I shall speak well.
I should be strangely forgetful, Agathon
replied Socrates, of the courage and magnanimity which
you showed when your own compositions were about to
be exhibited, and you came upon the stage with the
actors and faced the vast theatre altogether undismayed,
if I thought that your nerves could be fluttered at
a small party of friends.
Do you think, Socrates, said Agathon,
that my head is so full of the theatre as not to know
how much more formidable to a man of sense a few good
judges are than many fools?
Nay, replied Socrates, I should be
very wrong in attributing to you, Agathon, that or
any other want of refinement. And I am quite aware
that if you happened to meet with any whom you thought
wise, you would care for their opinion much more than
for that of the many. But then we, having been
a part of the foolish many in the theatre, cannot be
regarded as the select wise; though I know that if
you chanced to be in the presence, not of one of ourselves,
but of some really wise man, you would be ashamed
of disgracing yourself before him would
you not?
Yes, said Agathon.
But before the many you would not
be ashamed, if you thought that you were doing something
disgraceful in their presence?
Here Phaedrus interrupted them, saying:
not answer him, my dear Agathon; for if he can only
get a partner with whom he can talk, especially a
good-looking one, he will no longer care about the
completion of our plan. Now I love to hear him
talk; but just at present I must not forget the encomium
on Love which I ought to receive from him and from
every one. When you and he have paid your tribute
to the god, then you may talk.
Very good, Phaedrus, said Agathon;
I see no reason why I should not proceed with my speech,
as I shall have many other opportunities of conversing
with Socrates. Let me say first how I ought to
speak, and then speak:
The previous speakers, instead of
praising the god Love, or unfolding his nature, appear
to have congratulated mankind on the benefits which
he confers upon them. But I would rather praise
the god first, and then speak of his gifts; this is
always the right way of praising everything.
May I say without impiety or offence, that of all the
blessed gods he is the most blessed because he is
the fairest and best? And he is the fairest:
for, in the first place, he is the youngest, and of
his youth he is himself the witness, fleeing out of
the way of age, who is swift enough, swifter truly
than most of us like: Love hates him and
will not come near him; but youth and love live and
move together like to like, as the proverb
says. Many things were said by Phaedrus about
Love in which I agree with him; but I cannot agree
that he is older than Iapetus and Kronos: not
so; I maintain him to be the youngest of the gods,
and youthful ever. The ancient doings among the
gods of which Hesiod and Parmenides spoke, if the
tradition of them be true, were done of Necessity
and not of Love; had Love been in those days, there
would have been no chaining or mutilation of the gods,
or other violence, but peace and sweetness, as there
is now in heaven, since the rule of Love began.
Love is young and also tender; he ought to have a poet
like Homer to describe his tenderness, as Homer says
of Ate, that she is a goddess and tender:
’Her feet are tender, for she
sets her steps, Not on the ground but on the heads
of men:’
herein is an excellent proof of her
tenderness, that she walks not upon the
hard but upon the soft. Let us adduce a similar
proof of the tenderness of Love; for he walks not
upon the earth, nor yet upon the skulls of men, which
are not so very soft, but in the hearts and souls
of both gods and men, which are of all things the softest:
in them he walks and dwells and makes his home.
Not in every soul without exception, for where there
is hardness he departs, where there is softness there
he dwells; and nestling always with his feet and in
all manner of ways in the softest of soft places,
how can he be other than the softest of all things?
Of a truth he is the tenderest as well as the youngest,
and also he is of flexile form; for if he were hard
and without flexure he could not enfold all things,
or wind his way into and out of every soul of man
undiscovered. And a proof of his flexibility
and symmetry of form is his grace, which is universally
admitted to be in an especial manner the attribute
of Love; ungrace and love are always at war with one
another. The fairness of his complexion is revealed
by his habitation among the flowers; for he dwells
not amid bloomless or fading beauties, whether of
body or soul or aught else, but in the place of flowers
and scents, there he sits and abides. Concerning
the beauty of the god I have said enough; and yet
there remains much more which I might say. Of
his virtue I have now to speak: his greatest glory
is that he can neither do nor suffer wrong to or from
any god or any man; for he suffers not by force if
he suffers; force comes not near him, neither when
he acts does he act by force. For all men in all
things serve him of their own free will, and where
there is voluntary agreement, there, as the laws which
are the lords of the city say, is justice. And
not only is he just but exceedingly temperate, for
Temperance is the acknowledged ruler of the pleasures
and desires, and no pleasure ever masters Love; he
is their master and they are his servants; and if he
conquers them he must be temperate indeed. As
to courage, even the God of War is no match for him;
he is the captive and Love is the lord, for love,
the love of Aphrodite, masters him, as the tale runs;
and the master is stronger than the servant.
And if he conquers the bravest of all others, he must
be himself the bravest. Of his courage and justice
and temperance I have spoken, but I have yet to speak
of his wisdom; and according to the measure of my
ability I must try to do my best. In the first
place he is a poet (and here, like Eryximachus, I magnify
my art), and he is also the source of poesy in others,
which he could not be if he were not himself a poet.
And at the touch of him every one becomes a poet,
even though he had no music in him before (A fragment
of the Sthenoaoea of Euripides.); this also is a proof
that Love is a good poet and accomplished in all the
fine arts; for no one can give to another that which
he has not himself, or teach that of which he has no
knowledge. Who will deny that the creation of
the animals is his doing? Are they not all the
works of his wisdom, born and begotten of him?
And as to the artists, do we not know that he only
of them whom love inspires has the light of fame? he
whom Love touches not walks in darkness. The
arts of medicine and archery and divination were discovered
by Apollo, under the guidance of love and desire; so
that he too is a disciple of Love. Also the melody
of the Muses, the metallurgy of Hephaestus, the weaving
of Athene, the empire of Zeus over gods and men,
are all due to Love, who was the inventor of them.
And so Love set in order the empire of the gods the
love of beauty, as is evident, for with deformity
Love has no concern. In the days of old, as I
began by saying, dreadful deeds were done among the
gods, for they were ruled by Necessity; but now since
the birth of Love, and from the Love of the beautiful,
has sprung every good in heaven and earth. Therefore,
Phaedrus, I say of Love that he is the fairest and
best in himself, and the cause of what is fairest
and best in all other things. And there comes
into my mind a line of poetry in which he is said to
be the god who
’Gives peace on earth and calms
the stormy deep, Who stills the winds and bids the
sufferer sleep.’
This is he who empties men of disaffection
and fills them with affection, who makes them to meet
together at banquets such as these: in sacrifices,
feasts, dances, he is our lord who sends
courtesy and sends away discourtesy, who gives kindness
ever and never gives unkindness; the friend of the
good, the wonder of the wise, the amazement of the
gods; desired by those who have no part in him, and
precious to those who have the better part in him;
parent of delicacy, luxury, desire, fondness, softness,
grace; regardful of the good, regardless of the evil:
in every word, work, wish, fear saviour,
pilot, comrade, helper; glory of gods and men, leader
best and brightest: in whose footsteps let every
man follow, sweetly singing in his honour and joining
in that sweet strain with which love charms the souls
of gods and men. Such is the speech, Phaedrus,
half-playful, yet having a certain measure of seriousness,
which, according to my ability, I dedicate to the god.
When Agathon had done speaking, Aristodemus
said that there was a general cheer; the young man
was thought to have spoken in a manner worthy of himself,
and of the god. And Socrates, looking at Eryximachus,
said: Tell me, son of Acumenus, was there not
reason in my fears? and was I not a true prophet when
I said that Agathon would make a wonderful oration,
and that I should be in a strait?
The part of the prophecy which concerns
Agathon, replied Eryximachus, appears to me to be
true; but not the other part that you will
be in a strait.
Why, my dear friend, said Socrates,
must not I or any one be in a strait who has to speak
after he has heard such a rich and varied discourse?
I am especially struck with the beauty of the concluding
words who could listen to them without
amazement? When I reflected on the immeasurable
inferiority of my own powers, I was ready to run away
for shame, if there had been a possibility of escape.
For I was reminded of Gorgias, and at the end of his
speech I fancied that Agathon was shaking at me the
Gorginian or Gorgonian head of the great master of
rhetoric, which was simply to turn me and my speech
into stone, as Homer says (Odyssey), and strike me
dumb. And then I perceived how foolish I had been
in consenting to take my turn with you in praising
love, and saying that I too was a master of the art,
when I really had no conception how anything ought
to be praised. For in my simplicity I imagined
that the topics of praise should be true, and that
this being presupposed, out of the true the speaker
was to choose the best and set them forth in the best
manner. And I felt quite proud, thinking that
I knew the nature of true praise, and should speak
well. Whereas I now see that the intention was
to attribute to Love every species of greatness and
glory, whether really belonging to him or not, without
regard to truth or falsehood that was no
matter; for the original proposal seems to have been
not that each of you should really praise Love, but
only that you should appear to praise him. And
so you attribute to Love every imaginable form of
praise which can be gathered anywhere; and you say
that ‘he is all this,’ and ‘the cause
of all that,’ making him appear the fairest
and best of all to those who know him not, for you
cannot impose upon those who know him. And a
noble and solemn hymn of praise have you rehearsed.
But as I misunderstood the nature of the praise when
I said that I would take my turn, I must beg to be
absolved from the promise which I made in ignorance,
and which (as Euripides would say (Eurip. Hyppolytus))
was a promise of the lips and not of the mind.
Farewell then to such a strain: for I do not praise
in that way; no, indeed, I cannot. But if you
like to hear the truth about love, I am ready to speak
in my own manner, though I will not make myself ridiculous
by entering into any rivalry with you. Say then,
Phaedrus, whether you would like to have the truth
about love, spoken in any words and in any order which
may happen to come into my mind at the time. Will
that be agreeable to you?
Aristodemus said that Phaedrus and
the company bid him speak in any manner which he thought
best. Then, he added, let me have your permission
first to ask Agathon a few more questions, in order
that I may take his admissions as the prémisses
of my discourse.
I grant the permission, said Phaedrus:
put your questions. Socrates then proceeded as
follows:
In the magnificent oration which you
have just uttered, I think that you were right, my
dear Agathon, in proposing to speak of the nature of
Love first and afterwards of his works that
is a way of beginning which I very much approve.
And as you have spoken so eloquently of his nature,
may I ask you further, Whether love is the love of
something or of nothing? And here I must explain
myself: I do not want you to say that love is
the love of a father or the love of a mother that
would be ridiculous; but to answer as you would, if
I asked is a father a father of something? to which
you would find no difficulty in replying, of a son
or daughter: and the answer would be right.
Very true, said Agathon.
And you would say the same of a mother?
He assented.
Yet let me ask you one more question in order to illustrate
my meaning:
Is not a brother to be regarded essentially as a brother
of something?
Certainly, he replied.
That is, of a brother or sister?
Yes, he said.
And now, said Socrates, I will ask
about Love: Is Love of something or of
nothing?
Of something, surely, he replied.
Keep in mind what this is, and tell
me what I want to know whether Love desires
that of which love is.
Yes, surely.
And does he possess, or does he not
possess, that which he loves and desires?
Probably not, I should say.
Nay, replied Socrates, I would have
you consider whether ‘necessarily’ is
not rather the word. The inference that he who
desires something is in want of something, and that
he who desires nothing is in want of nothing, is in
my judgment, Agathon, absolutely and necessarily true.
What do you think?
I agree with you, said Agathon.
Very good. Would he who is great,
desire to be great, or he who is strong, desire to
be strong?
That would be inconsistent with our previous admissions.
True. For he who is anything cannot want to be
that which he is?
Very true.
And yet, added Socrates, if a man
being strong desired to be strong, or being swift
desired to be swift, or being healthy desired to be
healthy, in that case he might be thought to desire
something which he already has or is. I give
the example in order that we may avoid misconception.
For the possessors of these qualities, Agathon, must
be supposed to have their respective advantages at
the time, whether they choose or not; and who can
desire that which he has? Therefore, when a person
says, I am well and wish to be well, or I am rich
and wish to be rich, and I desire simply to have what
I have to him we shall reply: ’You,
my friend, having wealth and health and strength,
want to have the continuance of them; for at this
moment, whether you choose or no, you have them.
And when you say, I desire that which I have and nothing
else, is not your meaning that you want to have what
you now have in the future?’ He must agree with
us must he not?
He must, replied Agathon.
Then, said Socrates, he desires that
what he has at present may be preserved to him in
the future, which is equivalent to saying that he
desires something which is non-existent to him, and
which as yet he has not got:
Very true, he said.
Then he and every one who desires,
desires that which he has not already, and which is
future and not present, and which he has not, and
is not, and of which he is in want; these
are the sort of things which love and desire seek?
Very true, he said.
Then now, said Socrates, let us recapitulate
the argument. First, is not love of something,
and of something too which is wanting to a man?
Yes, he replied.
Remember further what you said in
your speech, or if you do not remember I will remind
you: you said that the love of the beautiful set
in order the empire of the gods, for that of deformed
things there is no love did you not say
something of that kind?
Yes, said Agathon.
Yes, my friend, and the remark was
a just one. And if this is true, Love is the
love of beauty and not of deformity?
He assented.
And the admission has been already
made that Love is of something which a man wants and
has not?
True, he said.
Then Love wants and has not beauty?
Certainly, he replied.
And would you call that beautiful
which wants and does not possess beauty?
Certainly not.
Then would you still say that love is beautiful?
Agathon replied: I fear that I did not understand
what I was saying.
You made a very good speech, Agathon,
replied Socrates; but there is yet one small question
which I would fain ask: Is not the good
also the beautiful?
Yes.
Then in wanting the beautiful, love wants also the
good?
I cannot refute you, Socrates, said
Agathon: Let us assume that what you say
is true.
Say rather, beloved Agathon, that you cannot refute
the truth; for
Socrates is easily refuted.
And now, taking my leave of you, I
would rehearse a tale of love which I heard from Diotima
of Mantineia (compare 1 Alcibiades), a woman wise in
this and in many other kinds of knowledge, who in the
days of old, when the Athenians offered sacrifice
before the coming of the plague, delayed the disease
ten years. She was my instructress in the art
of love, and I shall repeat to you what she said to
me, beginning with the admissions made by Agathon,
which are nearly if not quite the same which I made
to the wise woman when she questioned me: I think
that this will be the easiest way, and I shall take
both parts myself as well as I can (compare Gorgias).
As you, Agathon, suggested (supra), I must speak first
of the being and nature of Love, and then of his works.
First I said to her in nearly the same words which
he used to me, that Love was a mighty god, and likewise
fair; and she proved to me as I proved to him that,
by my own showing, Love was neither fair nor good.
’What do you mean, Diotima,’ I said, ‘is
love then evil and foul?’ ‘Hush,’
she cried; ‘must that be foul which is not fair?’
‘Certainly,’ I said. ’And is
that which is not wise, ignorant? do you not see that
there is a mean between wisdom and ignorance?’
‘And what may that be?’ I said. ‘Right
opinion,’ she replied; ’which, as you
know, being incapable of giving a reason, is not knowledge
(for how can knowledge be devoid of reason? nor again,
ignorance, for neither can ignorance attain the truth),
but is clearly something which is a mean between ignorance
and wisdom.’ ‘Quite true,’
I replied. ‘Do not then insist,’ she
said, ’that what is not fair is of necessity
foul, or what is not good evil; or infer that because
love is not fair and good he is therefore foul and
evil; for he is in a mean between them.’
‘Well,’ I said, ’Love is surely admitted
by all to be a great god.’ ‘By those
who know or by those who do not know?’ ‘By
all.’ ‘And how, Socrates,’
she said with a smile, ’can Love be acknowledged
to be a great god by those who say that he is not
a god at all?’ ’And who are they?’
I said. ‘You and I are two of them,’
she replied. ’How can that be?’ I
said. ‘It is quite intelligible,’
she replied; ’for you yourself would acknowledge
that the gods are happy and fair of course
you would would you dare to say that any
god was not?’ ‘Certainly not,’ I
replied. ’And you mean by the happy, those
who are the possessors of things good or fair?’
‘Yes.’ ’And you admitted that
Love, because he was in want, desires those good and
fair things of which he is in want?’ ‘Yes,
I did.’ ’But how can he be a god who
has no portion in what is either good or fair?’
‘Impossible.’ ’Then you see
that you also deny the divinity of Love.’
‘What then is Love?’ I
asked; ‘Is he mortal?’ ‘No.’
‘What then?’ ’As in the former instance,
he is neither mortal nor immortal, but in a mean between
the two.’ ‘What is he, Diotima?’
’He is a great spirit (daimon), and like all
spirits he is intermediate between the divine and the
mortal.’ ‘And what,’ I said,
‘is his power?’ ‘He interprets,’
she replied, ’between gods and men, conveying
and taking across to the gods the prayers and sacrifices
of men, and to men the commands and replies of the
gods; he is the mediator who spans the chasm which
divides them, and therefore in him all is bound together,
and through him the arts of the prophet and the priest,
their sacrifices and mysteries and charms, and all
prophecy and incantation, find their way. For
God mingles not with man; but through Love all the
intercourse and converse of God with man, whether
awake or asleep, is carried on. The wisdom which
understands this is spiritual; all other wisdom, such
as that of arts and handicrafts, is mean and vulgar.
Now these spirits or intermediate powers are many
and diverse, and one of them is Love.’ ‘And
who,’ I said, ‘was his father, and who
his mother?’ ‘The tale,’ she said,
’will take time; nevertheless I will tell you.
On the birthday of Aphrodite there was a feast of
the gods, at which the god Porös or Plenty, who
is the son of Metis or Discretion, was one of the
guests. When the feast was over, Penia or Poverty,
as the manner is on such occasions, came about the
doors to beg. Now Plenty who was the worse for
nectar (there was no wine in those days), went into
the garden of Zeus and fell into a heavy sleep, and
Poverty considering her own straitened circumstances,
plotted to have a child by him, and accordingly she
lay down at his side and conceived Love, who partly
because he is naturally a lover of the beautiful,
and because Aphrodite is herself beautiful, and also
because he was born on her birthday, is her follower
and attendant. And as his parentage is, so also
are his fortunes. In the first place he is always
poor, and anything but tender and fair, as the many
imagine him; and he is rough and squalid, and has
no shoes, nor a house to dwell in; on the bare earth
exposed he lies under the open heaven, in the streets,
or at the doors of houses, taking his rest; and like
his mother he is always in distress. Like his
father too, whom he also partly resembles, he is always
plotting against the fair and good; he is bold, enterprising,
strong, a mighty hunter, always weaving some intrigue
or other, keen in the pursuit of wisdom, fertile in
resources; a philosopher at all times, terrible as
an enchanter, sorcerer, sophist. He is by nature
neither mortal nor immortal, but alive and flourishing
at one moment when he is in plenty, and dead at another
moment, and again alive by reason of his father’s
nature. But that which is always flowing in is
always flowing out, and so he is never in want and
never in wealth; and, further, he is in a mean between
ignorance and knowledge. The truth of the matter
is this: No god is a philosopher or seeker after
wisdom, for he is wise already; nor does any man who
is wise seek after wisdom. Neither do the ignorant
seek after wisdom. For herein is the evil of ignorance,
that he who is neither good nor wise is nevertheless
satisfied with himself: he has no desire for
that of which he feels no want.’ ’But
who then, Diotima,’ I said, ’are the lovers
of wisdom, if they are neither the wise nor the foolish?’
‘A child may answer that question,’ she
replied; ’they are those who are in a mean between
the two; Love is one of them. For wisdom is a
most beautiful thing, and Love is of the beautiful;
and therefore Love is also a philosopher or lover
of wisdom, and being a lover of wisdom is in a mean
between the wise and the ignorant. And of this
too his birth is the cause; for his father is wealthy
and wise, and his mother poor and foolish. Such,
my dear Socrates, is the nature of the spirit Love.
The error in your conception of him was very natural,
and as I imagine from what you say, has arisen out
of a confusion of love and the beloved, which made
you think that love was all beautiful. For the
beloved is the truly beautiful, and delicate, and perfect,
and blessed; but the principle of love is of another
nature, and is such as I have described.’
I said, ’O thou stranger woman,
thou sayest well; but, assuming Love to be such as
you say, what is the use of him to men?’ ‘That,
Socrates,’ she replied, ’I will attempt
to unfold: of his nature and birth I have already
spoken; and you acknowledge that love is of the beautiful.
But some one will say: Of the beautiful in what,
Socrates and Diotima? or rather let me
put the question more clearly, and ask: When a
man loves the beautiful, what does he desire?’
I answered her ’That the beautiful may be his.’
‘Still,’ she said, ’the answer suggests
a further question: What is given by the possession
of beauty?’ ‘To what you have asked,’
I replied, ‘I have no answer ready.’
‘Then,’ she said, ’let me put the
word “good” in the place of the beautiful,
and repeat the question once more: If he who
loves loves the good, what is it then that he loves?’
‘The possession of the good,’ I said.
’And what does he gain who possesses the good?’
‘Happiness,’ I replied; ’there is
less difficulty in answering that question.’
‘Yes,’ she said, ’the happy are made
happy by the acquisition of good things. Nor
is there any need to ask why a man desires happiness;
the answer is already final.’ ‘You
are right.’ I said. ’And is
this wish and this desire common to all? and do all
men always desire their own good, or only some men? what
say you?’ ’All men,’ I replied;
‘the desire is common to all.’ ‘Why,
then,’ she rejoined, ’are not all men,
Socrates, said to love, but only some of them? whereas
you say that all men are always loving the same things.’
‘I myself wonder,’ I said, ‘why this
is.’ ’There is nothing to wonder
at,’ she replied; ’the reason is that one
part of love is separated off and receives the name
of the whole, but the other parts have other names.’
‘Give an illustration,’ I said. She
answered me as follows: ’There is poetry,
which, as you know, is complex and manifold. All
creation or passage of non-being into being is poetry
or making, and the processes of all art are creative;
and the masters of arts are all poets or makers.’
‘Very true.’ ‘Still,’
she said, ’you know that they are not called
poets, but have other names; only that portion of the
art which is separated off from the rest, and is concerned
with music and metre, is termed poetry, and they who
possess poetry in this sense of the word are called
poets.’ ‘Very true,’ I said.
’And the same holds of love. For you may
say generally that all desire of good and happiness
is only the great and subtle power of love; but they
who are drawn towards him by any other path, whether
the path of money-making or gymnastics or philosophy,
are not called lovers the name of the whole
is appropriated to those whose affection takes one
form only they alone are said to love,
or to be lovers.’ ‘I dare say,’
I replied, ‘that you are right.’
‘Yes,’ she added, ’and you hear people
say that lovers are seeking for their other half;
but I say that they are seeking neither for the half
of themselves, nor for the whole, unless the half or
the whole be also a good. And they will cut off
their own hands and feet and cast them away, if they
are evil; for they love not what is their own, unless
perchance there be some one who calls what belongs
to him the good, and what belongs to another the evil.
For there is nothing which men love but the good.
Is there anything?’ ’Certainly, I should
say, that there is nothing.’ ‘Then,’
she said, ’the simple truth is, that men love
the good.’ ‘Yes,’ I said.
’To which must be added that they love the possession
of the good?’ ‘Yes, that must be added.’
’And not only the possession, but the everlasting
possession of the good?’ ’That must be
added too.’ ‘Then love,’ she
said, ’may be described generally as the love
of the everlasting possession of the good?’ ‘That
is most true.’
‘Then if this be the nature
of love, can you tell me further,’ she said,
’what is the manner of the pursuit? what are
they doing who show all this eagerness and heat which
is called love? and what is the object which they
have in view? Answer me.’ ‘Nay,
Diotima,’ I replied, ’if I had known,
I should not have wondered at your wisdom, neither
should I have come to learn from you about this very
matter.’ ‘Well,’ she said,
’I will teach you: The object which
they have in view is birth in beauty, whether of body
or soul.’ ‘I do not understand you,’
I said; ‘the oracle requires an explanation.’
‘I will make my meaning clearer,’ she
replied. ’I mean to say, that all men are
bringing to the birth in their bodies and in their
souls. There is a certain age at which human
nature is desirous of procreation procreation
which must be in beauty and not in deformity; and
this procreation is the union of man and woman, and
is a divine thing; for conception and generation are
an immortal principle in the mortal creature, and
in the inharmonious they can never be. But the
deformed is always inharmonious with the divine, and
the beautiful harmonious. Beauty, then, is the
destiny or goddess of parturition who presides at
birth, and therefore, when approaching beauty, the
conceiving power is propitious, and diffusive, and
benign, and begets and bears fruit: at the sight
of ugliness she frowns and contracts and has a sense
of pain, and turns away, and shrivels up, and not
without a pang refrains from conception. And this
is the reason why, when the hour of conception arrives,
and the teeming nature is full, there is such a flutter
and ecstasy about beauty whose approach is the alleviation
of the pain of travail. For love, Socrates, is
not, as you imagine, the love of the beautiful only.’
‘What then?’ ’The love of generation
and of birth in beauty.’ ‘Yes,’
I said. ‘Yes, indeed,’ she replied.
‘But why of generation?’ ’Because
to the mortal creature, generation is a sort of eternity
and immortality,’ she replied; ’and if,
as has been already admitted, love is of the everlasting
possession of the good, all men will necessarily desire
immortality together with good: Wherefore love
is of immortality.’
All this she taught me at various
times when she spoke of love. And I remember
her once saying to me, ’What is the cause, Socrates,
of love, and the attendant desire? See you not
how all animals, birds, as well as beasts, in their
desire of procreation, are in agony when they take
the infection of love, which begins with the desire
of union; whereto is added the care of offspring,
on whose behalf the weakest are ready to battle against
the strongest even to the uttermost, and to die for
them, and will let themselves be tormented with hunger
or suffer anything in order to maintain their young.
Man may be supposed to act thus from reason; but why
should animals have these passionate feelings?
Can you tell me why?’ Again I replied that I
did not know. She said to me: ’And
do you expect ever to become a master in the art of
love, if you do not know this?’ ’But I
have told you already, Diotima, that my ignorance is
the reason why I come to you; for I am conscious that
I want a teacher; tell me then the cause of this and
of the other mysteries of love.’ ‘Marvel
not,’ she said, ’if you believe that love
is of the immortal, as we have several times acknowledged;
for here again, and on the same principle too, the
mortal nature is seeking as far as is possible to be
everlasting and immortal: and this is only to
be attained by generation, because generation always
leaves behind a new existence in the place of the
old. Nay even in the life of the same individual
there is succession and not absolute unity: a
man is called the same, and yet in the short interval
which elapses between youth and age, and in which every
animal is said to have life and identity, he is undergoing
a perpetual process of loss and reparation hair,
flesh, bones, blood, and the whole body are always
changing. Which is true not only of the body,
but also of the soul, whose habits, tempers, opinions,
desires, pleasures, pains, fears, never remain the
same in any one of us, but are always coming and going;
and equally true of knowledge, and what is still more
surprising to us mortals, not only do the sciences
in general spring up and decay, so that in respect
of them we are never the same; but each of them individually
experiences a like change. For what is implied
in the word “recollection,” but the departure
of knowledge, which is ever being forgotten, and is
renewed and preserved by recollection, and appears
to be the same although in reality new, according
to that law of succession by which all mortal things
are preserved, not absolutely the same, but by substitution,
the old worn-out mortality leaving another new and
similar existence behind unlike the divine,
which is always the same and not another? And
in this way, Socrates, the mortal body, or mortal
anything, partakes of immortality; but the immortal
in another way. Marvel not then at the love which
all men have of their offspring; for that universal
love and interest is for the sake of immortality.’
I was astonished at her words, and
said: ’Is this really true, O thou wise
Diotima?’ And she answered with all the authority
of an accomplished sophist: ’Of that, Socrates,
you may be assured; think only of the ambition
of men, and you will wonder at the senselessness of
their ways, unless you consider how they are stirred
by the love of an immortality of fame. They are
ready to run all risks greater far than they would
have run for their children, and to spend money and
undergo any sort of toil, and even to die, for the
sake of leaving behind them a name which shall be
eternal. Do you imagine that Alcestis would have
died to save Admetus, or Achilles to avenge Patroclus,
or your own Codrus in order to preserve the kingdom
for his sons, if they had not imagined that the memory
of their virtues, which still survives among us, would
be immortal? Nay,’ she said, ’I am
persuaded that all men do all things, and the better
they are the more they do them, in hope of the glorious
fame of immortal virtue; for they desire the immortal.
’Those who are pregnant in the
body only, betake themselves to women and beget children this
is the character of their love; their offspring, as
they hope, will preserve their memory and giving them
the blessedness and immortality which they desire
in the future. But souls which are pregnant for
there certainly are men who are more creative in their
souls than in their bodies conceive that
which is proper for the soul to conceive or contain.
And what are these conceptions? wisdom and
virtue in general. And such creators are poets
and all artists who are deserving of the name inventor.
But the greatest and fairest sort of wisdom by far
is that which is concerned with the ordering of states
and families, and which is called temperance and justice.
And he who in youth has the seed of these implanted
in him and is himself inspired, when he comes to maturity
desires to beget and generate. He wanders about
seeking beauty that he may beget offspring for
in deformity he will beget nothing and
naturally embraces the beautiful rather than the deformed
body; above all when he finds a fair and noble and
well-nurtured soul, he embraces the two in one person,
and to such an one he is full of speech about virtue
and the nature and pursuits of a good man; and he
tries to educate him; and at the touch of the beautiful
which is ever present to his memory, even when absent,
he brings forth that which he had conceived long before,
and in company with him tends that which he brings
forth; and they are married by a far nearer tie and
have a closer friendship than those who beget mortal
children, for the children who are their common offspring
are fairer and more immortal. Who, when he thinks
of Homer and Hesiod and other great poets, would not
rather have their children than ordinary human ones?
Who would not emulate them in the creation of children
such as theirs, which have preserved their memory
and given them everlasting glory? Or who would
not have such children as Lycurgus left behind him
to be the saviours, not only of Lacedaemon, but of
Hellas, as one may say? There is Solon, too,
who is the revered father of Athenian laws; and many
others there are in many other places, both among
Hellènes and barbarians, who have given to the
world many noble works, and have been the parents of
virtue of every kind; and many temples have been raised
in their honour for the sake of children such as theirs;
which were never raised in honour of any one, for
the sake of his mortal children.
’These are the lesser mysteries
of love, into which even you, Socrates, may enter;
to the greater and more hidden ones which are the crown
of these, and to which, if you pursue them in a right
spirit, they will lead, I know not whether you will
be able to attain. But I will do my utmost to
inform you, and do you follow if you can. For
he who would proceed aright in this matter should
begin in youth to visit beautiful forms; and first,
if he be guided by his instructor aright, to love one
such form only out of that he should create
fair thoughts; and soon he will of himself perceive
that the beauty of one form is akin to the beauty
of another; and then if beauty of form in general is
his pursuit, how foolish would he be not to recognize
that the beauty in every form is and the same!
And when he perceives this he will abate his violent
love of the one, which he will despise and deem a small
thing, and will become a lover of all beautiful forms;
in the next stage he will consider that the beauty
of the mind is more honourable than the beauty of
the outward form. So that if a virtuous soul have
but a little comeliness, he will be content to love
and tend him, and will search out and bring to the
birth thoughts which may improve the young, until he
is compelled to contemplate and see the beauty of institutions
and laws, and to understand that the beauty of them
all is of one family, and that personal beauty is
a trifle; and after laws and institutions he will
go on to the sciences, that he may see their beauty,
being not like a servant in love with the beauty of
one youth or man or institution, himself a slave mean
and narrow-minded, but drawing towards and contemplating
the vast sea of beauty, he will create many fair and
noble thoughts and notions in boundless love of wisdom;
until on that shore he grows and waxes strong, and
at last the vision is revealed to him of a single
science, which is the science of beauty everywhere.
To this I will proceed; please to give me your very
best attention:
’He who has been instructed
thus far in the things of love, and who has learned
to see the beautiful in due order and succession, when
he comes toward the end will suddenly perceive a nature
of wondrous beauty (and this, Socrates, is the final
cause of all our former toils) a nature
which in the first place is everlasting, not growing
and decaying, or waxing and waning; secondly, not
fair in one point of view and foul in another, or
at one time or in one relation or at one place fair,
at another time or in another relation or at another
place foul, as if fair to some and foul to others,
or in the likeness of a face or hands or any other
part of the bodily frame, or in any form of speech
or knowledge, or existing in any other being, as for
example, in an animal, or in heaven, or in earth,
or in any other place; but beauty absolute, separate,
simple, and everlasting, which without diminution and
without increase, or any change, is imparted to the
ever-growing and perishing beauties of all other things.
He who from these ascending under the influence of
true love, begins to perceive that beauty, is not far
from the end. And the true order of going, or
being led by another, to the things of love, is to
begin from the beauties of earth and mount upwards
for the sake of that other beauty, using these as steps
only, and from one going on to two, and from two to
all fair forms, and from fair forms to fair practices,
and from fair practices to fair notions, until from
fair notions he arrives at the notion of absolute beauty,
and at last knows what the essence of beauty is.
This, my dear Socrates,’ said the stranger of
Mantineia, ’is that life above all others which
man should live, in the contemplation of beauty absolute;
a beauty which if you once beheld, you would see not
to be after the measure of gold, and garments, and
fair boys and youths, whose presence now entrances
you; and you and many a one would be content to live
seeing them only and conversing with them without
meat or drink, if that were possible you
only want to look at them and to be with them.
But what if man had eyes to see the true beauty the
divine beauty, I mean, pure and clear and unalloyed,
not clogged with the pollutions of mortality and
all the colours and vanities of human life thither
looking, and holding converse with the true beauty
simple and divine? Remember how in that communion
only, beholding beauty with the eye of the mind, he
will be enabled to bring forth, not images of beauty,
but realities (for he has hold not of an image but
of a reality), and bringing forth and nourishing true
virtue to become the friend of God and be immortal,
if mortal man may. Would that be an ignoble life?’
Such, Phaedrus and I speak
not only to you, but to all of you were
the words of Diotima; and I am persuaded of their
truth. And being persuaded of them, I try to
persuade others, that in the attainment of this end
human nature will not easily find a helper better than
love: And therefore, also, I say that every man
ought to honour him as I myself honour him, and walk
in his ways, and exhort others to do the same, and
praise the power and spirit of love according to the
measure of my ability now and ever.
The words which I have spoken, you,
Phaedrus, may call an encomium of love, or anything
else which you please.
When Socrates had done speaking, the
company applauded, and Aristophanes was beginning
to say something in answer to the allusion which Socrates
had made to his own speech, when suddenly there was
a great knocking at the door of the house, as of revellers,
and the sound of a flute-girl was heard. Agathon
told the attendants to go and see who were the intruders.
‘If they are friends of ours,’ he said,
’invite them in, but if not, say that the drinking
is over.’ A little while afterwards they
heard the voice of Alcibiades resounding in the court;
he was in a great state of intoxication, and kept
roaring and shouting ’Where is Agathon?
Lead me to Agathon,’ and at length, supported
by the flute-girl and some of his attendants, he found
his way to them. ‘Hail, friends,’
he said, appearing at the door crowned with a massive
garland of ivy and violets, his head flowing with
ribands. ’Will you have a very drunken man
as a companion of your revels? Or shall I crown
Agathon, which was my intention in coming, and go
away? For I was unable to come yesterday, and
therefore I am here to-day, carrying on my head these
ribands, that taking them from my own head, I may
crown the head of this fairest and wisest of men,
as I may be allowed to call him. Will you laugh
at me because I am drunk? Yet I know very well
that I am speaking the truth, although you may laugh.
But first tell me; if I come in shall we have the
understanding of which I spoke (supra Will you have
a very drunken man? etc.)? Will you drink
with me or not?’
The company were vociferous in begging
that he would take his place among them, and Agathon
specially invited him. Thereupon he was led in
by the people who were with him; and as he was being
led, intending to crown Agathon, he took the ribands
from his own head and held them in front of his eyes;
he was thus prevented from seeing Socrates, who made
way for him, and Alcibiades took the vacant place between
Agathon and Socrates, and in taking the place he embraced
Agathon and crowned him. Take off his sandals,
said Agathon, and let him make a third on the same
couch.
By all means; but who makes the third
partner in our revels? said Alcibiades, turning round
and starting up as he caught sight of Socrates.
By Heracles, he said, what is this? here is Socrates
always lying in wait for me, and always, as his way
is, coming out at all sorts of unsuspected places:
and now, what have you to say for yourself, and why
are you lying here, where I perceive that you have
contrived to find a place, not by a joker or lover
of jokes, like Aristophanes, but by the fairest of
the company?
Socrates turned to Agathon and said:
I must ask you to protect me, Agathon; for the passion
of this man has grown quite a serious matter to me.
Since I became his admirer I have never been allowed
to speak to any other fair one, or so much as to look
at them. If I do, he goes wild with envy and
jealousy, and not only abuses me but can hardly keep
his hands off me, and at this moment he may do me
some harm. Please to see to this, and either
reconcile me to him, or, if he attempts violence,
protect me, as I am in bodily fear of his mad and passionate
attempts.
There can never be reconciliation
between you and me, said Alcibiades; but for the present
I will defer your chastisement. And I must beg
you, Agathon, to give me back some of the ribands that
I may crown the marvellous head of this universal
despot I would not have him complain of
me for crowning you, and neglecting him, who in conversation
is the conqueror of all mankind; and this not only
once, as you were the day before yesterday, but always.
Whereupon, taking some of the ribands, he crowned
Socrates, and again reclined.
Then he said: You seem, my friends,
to be sober, which is a thing not to be endured; you
must drink for that was the agreement under
which I was admitted and I elect myself
master of the feast until you are well drunk.
Let us have a large goblet, Agathon, or rather, he
said, addressing the attendant, bring me that wine-cooler.
The wine-cooler which had caught his eye was a vessel
holding more than two quarts this he filled
and emptied, and bade the attendant fill it again for
Socrates. Observe, my friends, said Alcibiades,
that this ingenious trick of mine will have no effect
on Socrates, for he can drink any quantity of wine
and not be at all nearer being drunk. Socrates
drank the cup which the attendant filled for him.
Eryximachus said: What is this,
Alcibiades? Are we to have neither conversation
nor singing over our cups; but simply to drink as if
we were thirsty?
Alcibiades replied: Hail, worthy
son of a most wise and worthy sire!
The same to you, said Eryximachus; but what shall
we do?
That I leave to you, said Alcibiades.
‘The wise physician skilled our wounds to heal
(from Pope’s Homer, Il.)’
shall prescribe and we will obey. What do you
want?
Well, said Eryximachus, before you
appeared we had passed a resolution that each one
of us in turn should make a speech in praise of love,
and as good a one as he could: the turn was passed
round from left to right; and as all of us have spoken,
and you have not spoken but have well drunken, you
ought to speak, and then impose upon Socrates any task
which you please, and he on his right hand neighbour,
and so on.
That is good, Eryximachus, said Alcibiades;
and yet the comparison of a drunken man’s speech
with those of sober men is hardly fair; and I should
like to know, sweet friend, whether you really believe
what Socrates was just now saying; for I can assure
you that the very reverse is the fact, and that if
I praise any one but himself in his presence, whether
God or man, he will hardly keep his hands off me.
For shame, said Socrates.
Hold your tongue, said Alcibiades,
for by Poseidon, there is no one else whom I will
praise when you are of the company.
Well then, said Eryximachus, if you like praise Socrates.
What do you think, Eryximachus? said
Alcibiades: shall I attack him and inflict the
punishment before you all?
What are you about? said Socrates;
are you going to raise a laugh at my expense?
Is that the meaning of your praise?
I am going to speak the truth, if you will permit
me.
I not only permit, but exhort you to speak the truth.
Then I will begin at once, said Alcibiades,
and if I say anything which is not true, you may interrupt
me if you will, and say ‘that is a lie,’
though my intention is to speak the truth. But
you must not wonder if I speak any how as things come
into my mind; for the fluent and orderly enumeration
of all your singularities is not a task which is easy
to a man in my condition.
And now, my boys, I shall praise Socrates
in a figure which will appear to him to be a caricature,
and yet I speak, not to make fun of him, but only
for the truth’s sake. I say, that he is
exactly like the busts of Silenus, which are set up
in the statuaries’ shops, holding pipes and
flutes in their mouths; and they are made to open in
the middle, and have images of gods inside them.
I say also that he is like Marsyas the satyr.
You yourself will not deny, Socrates, that your face
is like that of a satyr. Aye, and there is a
resemblance in other points too. For example,
you are a bully, as I can prove by witnesses, if you
will not confess. And are you not a flute-player?
That you are, and a performer far more wonderful than
Marsyas. He indeed with instruments used to charm
the souls of men by the power of his breath, and the
players of his music do so still: for the melodies
of Olympus (compare Arist. Pol.) are derived
from Marsyas who taught them, and these, whether they
are played by a great master or by a miserable flute-girl,
have a power which no others have; they alone possess
the soul and reveal the wants of those who have need
of gods and mysteries, because they are divine.
But you produce the same effect with your words only,
and do not require the flute: that is the difference
between you and him. When we hear any other speaker,
even a very good one, he produces absolutely no effect
upon us, or not much, whereas the mere fragments of
you and your words, even at second-hand, and however
imperfectly repeated, amaze and possess the souls
of every man, woman, and child who comes within hearing
of them. And if I were not afraid that you would
think me hopelessly drunk, I would have sworn as well
as spoken to the influence which they have always
had and still have over me. For my heart leaps
within me more than that of any Corybantian reveller,
and my eyes rain tears when I hear them. And
I observe that many others are affected in the same
manner. I have heard Pericles and other great
orators, and I thought that they spoke well, but I
never had any similar feeling; my soul was not stirred
by them, nor was I angry at the thought of my own slavish
state. But this Marsyas has often brought me to
such a pass, that I have felt as if I could hardly
endure the life which I am leading (this, Socrates,
you will admit); and I am conscious that if I did not
shut my ears against him, and fly as from the voice
of the siren, my fate would be like that of others, he
would transfix me, and I should grow old sitting at
his feet. For he makes me confess that I ought
not to live as I do, neglecting the wants of my own
soul, and busying myself with the concerns of the
Athenians; therefore I hold my ears and tear myself
away from him. And he is the only person who
ever made me ashamed, which you might think not to
be in my nature, and there is no one else who does
the same. For I know that I cannot answer him
or say that I ought not to do as he bids, but when
I leave his presence the love of popularity gets the
better of me. And therefore I run away and fly
from him, and when I see him I am ashamed of what
I have confessed to him. Many a time have I wished
that he were dead, and yet I know that I should be
much more sorry than glad, if he were to die:
so that I am at my wit’s end.
And this is what I and many others
have suffered from the flute-playing of this satyr.
Yet hear me once more while I show you how exact the
image is, and how marvellous his power. For let
me tell you; none of you know him; but I will reveal
him to you; having begun, I must go on. See you
how fond he is of the fair? He is always with
them and is always being smitten by them, and then
again he knows nothing and is ignorant of all things such
is the appearance which he puts on. Is he not
like a Silenus in this? To be sure he is:
his outer mask is the carved head of the Silenus;
but, O my companions in drink, when he is opened, what
temperance there is residing within! Know you
that beauty and wealth and honour, at which the many
wonder, are of no account with him, and are utterly
despised by him: he regards not at all the persons
who are gifted with them; mankind are nothing to him;
all his life is spent in mocking and flouting at them.
But when I opened him, and looked within at his serious
purpose, I saw in him divine and golden images of such
fascinating beauty that I was ready to do in a moment
whatever Socrates commanded: they may have escaped
the observation of others, but I saw them. Now
I fancied that he was seriously enamoured of my beauty,
and I thought that I should therefore have a grand
opportunity of hearing him tell what he knew, for
I had a wonderful opinion of the attractions of my
youth. In the prosecution of this design, when
I next went to him, I sent away the attendant who
usually accompanied me (I will confess the whole truth,
and beg you to listen; and if I speak falsely, do you,
Socrates, expose the falsehood). Well, he and
I were alone together, and I thought that when there
was nobody with us, I should hear him speak the language
which lovers use to their loves when they are by themselves,
and I was delighted. Nothing of the sort; he conversed
as usual, and spent the day with me and then went away.
Afterwards I challenged him to the palaestra; and
he wrestled and closed with me several times when
there was no one present; I fancied that I might succeed
in this manner. Not a bit; I made no way with
him. Lastly, as I had failed hitherto, I thought
that I must take stronger measures and attack him
boldly, and, as I had begun, not give him up, but see
how matters stood between him and me. So I invited
him to sup with me, just as if he were a fair youth,
and I a designing lover. He was not easily persuaded
to come; he did, however, after a while accept the
invitation, and when he came the first time, he wanted
to go away at once as soon as supper was over, and
I had not the face to detain him. The second
time, still in pursuance of my design, after we had
supped, I went on conversing far into the night, and
when he wanted to go away, I pretended that the hour
was late and that he had much better remain. So
he lay down on the couch next to me, the same on which
he had supped, and there was no one but ourselves
sleeping in the apartment. All this may be told
without shame to any one. But what follows I could
hardly tell you if I were sober. Yet as the proverb
says, ‘In vino veritas,’ whether
with boys, or without them (In allusion to two proverbs.);
and therefore I must speak. Nor, again, should
I be justified in concealing the lofty actions of
Socrates when I come to praise him. Moreover I
have felt the serpent’s sting; and he who has
suffered, as they say, is willing to tell his fellow-sufferers
only, as they alone will be likely to understand him,
and will not be extreme in judging of the sayings or
doings which have been wrung from his agony. For
I have been bitten by a more than viper’s tooth;
I have known in my soul, or in my heart, or in some
other part, that worst of pangs, more violent in ingenuous
youth than any serpent’s tooth, the pang of
philosophy, which will make a man say or do anything.
And you whom I see around me, Phaedrus and Agathon
and Eryximachus and Pausanias and Aristodemus and Aristophanes,
all of you, and I need not say Socrates himself, have
had experience of the same madness and passion in
your longing after wisdom. Therefore listen and
excuse my doings then and my sayings now. But
let the attendants and other profane and unmannered
persons close up the doors of their ears.
When the lamp was put out and the
servants had gone away, I thought that I must be plain
with him and have no more ambiguity. So I gave
him a shake, and I said: ‘Socrates, are
you asleep?’ ‘No,’ he said.
’Do you know what I am meditating? ‘What
are you meditating?’ he said. ’I
think,’ I replied, ’that of all the lovers
whom I have ever had you are the only one who is worthy
of me, and you appear to be too modest to speak.
Now I feel that I should be a fool to refuse you this
or any other favour, and therefore I come to lay at
your feet all that I have and all that my friends
have, in the hope that you will assist me in the way
of virtue, which I desire above all things, and in
which I believe that you can help me better than any
one else. And I should certainly have more reason
to be ashamed of what wise men would say if I were
to refuse a favour to such as you, than of what the
world, who are mostly fools, would say of me if I
granted it.’ To these words he replied in
the ironical manner which is so characteristic of him: ’Alcibiades,
my friend, you have indeed an elevated aim if what
you say is true, and if there really is in me any
power by which you may become better; truly you must
see in me some rare beauty of a kind infinitely higher
than any which I see in you. And therefore, if
you mean to share with me and to exchange beauty for
beauty, you will have greatly the advantage of me;
you will gain true beauty in return for appearance like
Diomede, gold in exchange for brass. But look
again, sweet friend, and see whether you are not deceived
in me. The mind begins to grow critical when the
bodily eye fails, and it will be a long time before
you get old.’ Hearing this, I said:
’I have told you my purpose, which is quite serious,
and do you consider what you think best for you and
me.’ ‘That is good,’ he said;
’at some other time then we will consider and
act as seems best about this and about other matters.’
Whereupon, I fancied that he was smitten, and that
the words which I had uttered like arrows had wounded
him, and so without waiting to hear more I got up,
and throwing my coat about him crept under his threadbare
cloak, as the time of year was winter, and there I
lay during the whole night having this wonderful monster
in my arms. This again, Socrates, will not be
denied by you. And yet, notwithstanding all,
he was so superior to my solicitations, so contemptuous
and derisive and disdainful of my beauty which
really, as I fancied, had some attractions hear,
O judges; for judges you shall be of the haughty virtue
of Socrates nothing more happened, but in
the morning when I awoke (let all the gods and goddesses
be my witnesses) I arose as from the couch of a father
or an elder brother.
What do you suppose must have been
my feelings, after this rejection, at the thought
of my own dishonour? And yet I could not help
wondering at his natural temperance and self-restraint
and manliness. I never imagined that I could
have met with a man such as he is in wisdom and endurance.
And therefore I could not be angry with him or renounce
his company, any more than I could hope to win him.
For I well knew that if Ajax could not be wounded
by steel, much less he by money; and my only chance
of captivating him by my personal attractions had failed.
So I was at my wit’s end; no one was ever more
hopelessly enslaved by another. All this happened
before he and I went on the expedition to Potidaea;
there we messed together, and I had the opportunity
of observing his extraordinary power of sustaining
fatigue. His endurance was simply marvellous
when, being cut off from our supplies, we were compelled
to go without food on such occasions, which
often happen in time of war, he was superior not only
to me but to everybody; there was no one to be compared
to him. Yet at a festival he was the only person
who had any real powers of enjoyment; though not willing
to drink, he could if compelled beat us all at that, wonderful
to relate! no human being had ever seen Socrates drunk;
and his powers, if I am not mistaken, will be tested
before long. His fortitude in enduring cold was
also surprising. There was a severe frost, for
the winter in that region is really tremendous, and
everybody else either remained indoors, or if they
went out had on an amazing quantity of clothes, and
were well shod, and had their feet swathed in felt
and fleeces: in the midst of this, Socrates with
his bare feet on the ice and in his ordinary dress
marched better than the other soldiers who had shoes,
and they looked daggers at him because he seemed to
despise them.
I have told you one tale, and now
I must tell you another, which is worth hearing,
‘Of the doings and sufferings of the enduring
man’
while he was on the expedition.
One morning he was thinking about something which
he could not resolve; he would not give it up, but
continued thinking from early dawn until noon there
he stood fixed in thought; and at noon attention was
drawn to him, and the rumour ran through the wondering
crowd that Socrates had been standing and thinking
about something ever since the break of day. At
last, in the evening after supper, some Ionians out
of curiosity (I should explain that this was not in
winter but in summer), brought out their mats and slept
in the open air that they might watch him and see
whether he would stand all night. There he stood
until the following morning; and with the return of
light he offered up a prayer to the sun, and went his
way (compare supra). I will also tell, if you
please and indeed I am bound to tell of
his courage in battle; for who but he saved my life?
Now this was the engagement in which I received the
prize of valour: for I was wounded and he would
not leave me, but he rescued me and my arms; and he
ought to have received the prize of valour which the
generals wanted to confer on me partly on account
of my rank, and I told them so, (this, again, Socrates
will not impeach or deny), but he was more eager than
the generals that I and not he should have the prize.
There was another occasion on which his behaviour
was very remarkable in the flight of the
army after the battle of Delium, where he served among
the heavy-armed, I had a better opportunity
of seeing him than at Potidaea, for I was myself on
horseback, and therefore comparatively out of danger.
He and Laches were retreating, for the troops were
in flight, and I met them and told them not to be
discouraged, and promised to remain with them; and
there you might see him, Aristophanes, as you describe
(Aristoph. Clouds), just as he is in the streets
of Athens, stalking like a pelican, and rolling his
eyes, calmly contemplating enemies as well as friends,
and making very intelligible to anybody, even from
a distance, that whoever attacked him would be likely
to meet with a stout resistance; and in this way he
and his companion escaped for this is the
sort of man who is never touched in war; those only
are pursued who are running away headlong. I particularly
observed how superior he was to Laches in presence
of mind. Many are the marvels which I might narrate
in praise of Socrates; most of his ways might perhaps
be paralleled in another man, but his absolute unlikeness
to any human being that is or ever has been is perfectly
astonishing. You may imagine Brasidas and others
to have been like Achilles; or you may imagine Nestor
and Antenor to have been like Pericles; and the same
may be said of other famous men, but of this strange
being you will never be able to find any likeness,
however remote, either among men who now are or who
ever have been other than that which I have
already suggested of Silenus and the satyrs; and they
represent in a figure not only himself, but his words.
For, although I forgot to mention this to you before,
his words are like the images of Silenus which open;
they are ridiculous when you first hear them; he clothes
himself in language that is like the skin of the wanton
satyr for his talk is of pack-asses and
smiths and cobblers and curriers, and he is always
repeating the same things in the same words (compare
Gorg.), so that any ignorant or inexperienced person
might feel disposed to laugh at him; but he who opens
the bust and sees what is within will find that they
are the only words which have a meaning in them, and
also the most divine, abounding in fair images of
virtue, and of the widest comprehension, or rather
extending to the whole duty of a good and honourable
man.
This, friends, is my praise of Socrates.
I have added my blame of him for his ill-treatment
of me; and he has ill-treated not only me, but Charmides
the son of Glaucon, and Euthydemus the son of Diocles,
and many others in the same way beginning
as their lover he has ended by making them pay their
addresses to him. Wherefore I say to you, Agathon,
’Be not deceived by him; learn from me and take
warning, and do not be a fool and learn by experience,
as the proverb says.’
When Alcibiades had finished, there
was a laugh at his outspokenness; for he seemed to
be still in love with Socrates. You are sober,
Alcibiades, said Socrates, or you would never have
gone so far about to hide the purpose of your satyr’s
praises, for all this long story is only an ingenious
circumlocution, of which the point comes in by the
way at the end; you want to get up a quarrel between
me and Agathon, and your notion is that I ought to
love you and nobody else, and that you and you only
ought to love Agathon. But the plot of this Satyric
or Silenic drama has been detected, and you must not
allow him, Agathon, to set us at variance.
I believe you are right, said Agathon,
and I am disposed to think that his intention in placing
himself between you and me was only to divide us;
but he shall gain nothing by that move; for I will
go and lie on the couch next to you.
Yes, yes, replied Socrates, by all
means come here and lie on the couch below me.
Alas, said Alcibiades, how I am fooled
by this man; he is determined to get the better of
me at every turn. I do beseech you, allow Agathon
to lie between us.
Certainly not, said Socrates, as you
praised me, and I in turn ought to praise my neighbour
on the right, he will be out of order in praising me
again when he ought rather to be praised by me, and
I must entreat you to consent to this, and not be
jealous, for I have a great desire to praise the youth.
Hurrah! cried Agathon, I will rise
instantly, that I may be praised by Socrates.
The usual way, said Alcibiades; where
Socrates is, no one else has any chance with the fair;
and now how readily has he invented a specious reason
for attracting Agathon to himself.
Agathon arose in order that he might
take his place on the couch by Socrates, when suddenly
a band of revellers entered, and spoiled the order
of the banquet. Some one who was going out having
left the door open, they had found their way in, and
made themselves at home; great confusion ensued, and
every one was compelled to drink large quantities
of wine. Aristodemus said that Eryximachus, Phaedrus,
and others went away he himself fell asleep,
and as the nights were long took a good rest:
he was awakened towards daybreak by a crowing of cocks,
and when he awoke, the others were either asleep,
or had gone away; there remained only Socrates, Aristophanes,
and Agathon, who were drinking out of a large goblet
which they passed round, and Socrates was discoursing
to them. Aristodemus was only half awake, and
he did not hear the beginning of the discourse; the
chief thing which he remembered was Socrates compelling
the other two to acknowledge that the genius of comedy
was the same with that of tragedy, and that the true
artist in tragedy was an artist in comedy also.
To this they were constrained to assent, being drowsy,
and not quite following the argument. And first
of all Aristophanes dropped off, then, when the day
was already dawning, Agathon. Socrates, having
laid them to sleep, rose to depart; Aristodemus, as
his manner was, following him. At the Lyceum he
took a bath, and passed the day as usual. In
the evening he retired to rest at his own home.