This is the Spirit of Infinite Love.
The moment we recognize ourselves as one with it
we become so filled with love that we see only the
good in all. And when we realize that we are
all one with this Infinite Spirit, then we realize
that in a sense we are all one with each other.
When we come into a recognition of this fact, we can
then do no harm to any one, to any thing. We
find that we are all members of the one great body,
and that no portion of the body can be harmed without
all the other portions suffering thereby.
When we fully realize the great fact
of the oneness of all life, that all are
partakers from this one Infinite Source, and so that
the same life is the life in each individual, then
prejudices go and hatreds cease. Love grows
and reigns supreme. Then, wherever we go, whenever
we come in contact with the fellow-man, we are able
to recognize the God within. We thus look only
for the good, and we find it. It always pays.
There is a deep scientific fact underlying
the great truth, “He that takes the sword shall
perish by the sword.” The moment we come
into a realization of the subtle powers of the thought
forces, we can quickly see that the moment we entertain
any thoughts of hatred toward another, he gets the
effects of these diabolical forces that go out from
us, and has the same thoughts of hatred aroused in
him, which in turn return to the sender. Then
when we understand the effects of the passion, hatred
or anger, even upon the physical body, we can see how
detrimental, how expensive this is. The same
is true in regard to all kindred thoughts or passions,
envy, criticism, jealousy, scorn. In the ultimate
we shall find that in entertaining feelings of this
nature toward another, we always suffer far more than
the one toward whom we entertain them.
And then when we fully realize the
fact that selfishness is at the root of all error,
sin, and crime, and that ignorance is the basis of
all selfishness, with what charity we come to look
upon the acts of all. It is the ignorant man
who seeks his own ends at the expense of the greater
whole. It is the ignorant man, therefore, who
is the selfish man. The truly wise man is never
selfish. He is a seer, and recognizes the fact
that he, a single member of the one great body, is
benefited in just the degree that the entire body is
benefited, and so he seeks nothing for himself that
he would not equally seek for all mankind.
If selfishness is at the bottom of
all error, sin, and crime, and ignorance is the basis
of all selfishness, then when we see a manifestation
of either of these qualities, if we are true to the
highest within us, we will look for and will seek to
call forth the good in each individual with whom we
come in contact. When God speaks to God, then
God responds, and shows forth as God. But when
devil speaks to devil, then devil responds, and the
devil is always to pay.
I sometimes hear a person say, “I
don’t see any good in him.” No?
Then you are no seer. Look deeper and you will
find the very God in every human soul. But remember
it takes a God to recognize a God. Christ always
spoke to the highest, the truest, and the best in men.
He knew and he recognized the God in each because he
had first realized it in himself. He ate with
publicans and sinners. Abominable, the Scribes
and Pharisees said. They were so wrapped up in
their own conceits, their own self-centredness, hence
their own ignorance, that they had never found the
God in themselves, and so they never dreamed that
it was the real life of even publicans and sinners.
In the degree that we hold a person
in the thought of evil or of error, do we suggest
evil and error to him. In the degree that he
is sensitively organized, or not well individualized,
and so, subject to the suggestions of the thought
forces from others, will he be influenced; and so
in this way we may be sharers in the very evil-doing
in which we hold another in thought. In the same
way when we hold a person in the thought of the right,
the good, and the true, righteousness, goodness, and
truth are suggested to him, and thus we have a most
beneficent influence on his life and conduct.
If our hearts go out in love to all with whom we
come in contact, we inspire love, and the same ennobling
and warming influences of love always return to us
from those in whom we inspire them. There is
a deep scientific principle underlying the precept If
you would have all the world love you, you must first
love all the world.
In the degree that we love will we
be loved. Thoughts are forces. Each creates
of its kind. Each comes back laden with the effect
that corresponds to itself and of which it is the
cause.
“Then let your secret thoughts be
fair
They have a vital part, and share
In shaping words and moulding fate;
God’s system is so intricate.”
I know of no better practice than
that of a friend who continually holds himself in
an attitude of mind that he continually sends out his
love in the form of the thought, “Dear
everybody, I love you.” And when we realize
the fact that a thought invariably produces its effect
before it returns, or before it ceases, we can see
how he is continually breathing out a blessing not
only upon all with whom he comes in contact, but upon
all the world. These same thoughts of love,
moreover, tokened in various ways, are continually
coming to him from all quarters.
Even animals feel the effects of these
forces. Some animals are much more sensitively
organized than many people are, and consequently they
get the effects of our thoughts, our mental states,
and emotions much more readily than many people do.
Therefore whenever we meet an animal we can do it
good by sending out to it these thoughts of love.
It will feel the effects whether we simply entertain
or whether we voice them. And it is often interesting
to note how quickly it responds, and how readily it
gives evidence of its appreciation of this love and
consideration on our part.
What a privilege and how enjoyable
it would be to live and walk in a world where we meet
only Gods. In such a world you can live.
In such a world I can live. For in the degree
that we come into this higher realization do we see
only the God in each human soul; and when we are thus
able to see Him in every one we meet, we then live
in such a world.
And when we thus recognize the God
in every one, we by this recognition help to call
it forth ever more and more. What a privilege, this
privilege of yours, this privilege of mine! That
hypocritical judging of another is something then
with which we can have nothing to do; for we have
the power of looking beyond the evolving, changing,
error-making self, and seeing the real, the changeless,
the eternal self which by and by will show forth in
the full beauty of holiness. We are then large
enough also to realize the fact that when we condemn
another, by that very act we condemn ourselves.
This realization so fills us with
love that we continually overflow it, and all with
whom we come in contact feel its warming and life-giving
power. These in turn send back the same feelings
of love to us, and so we continually attract love
from all quarters. Tell me how much one loves
and I will tell you how much he has seen of God.
Tell me how much he loves and I will tell you how
much he lives with God. Tell me how much he
loves and I will tell you how far into the Kingdom
of Heaven, the kingdom of harmony, he has
entered, for “love is the fulfilling of the
law.”
And in a sense love is everything.
It is the key to life, and its influences are those
that move the world. Live only in the thought
of love for all and you will draw love to you from
all. Live in the thought of malice or hatred,
and malice and hatred will come back to you.
“For evil poisons; malice shafts
Like boomerangs return,
Inflicting wounds that will not heal
While rage and anger burn.”
Every thought you entertain is a force
that goes out, and every thought comes back laden
with its kind. This is an immutable law.
Every thought you entertain has moreover a direct
effect upon your body. Love and its kindred emotions
are the normal and the natural, those in accordance
with the eternal order of the universe, for “God
is love.” These have a life-giving, health-engendering
influence upon your body, besides beautifying your
countenance, enriching your voice, and making you
ever more attractive in every way. And as it
is true that in the degree that you hold thoughts
of love for all, you call the same from them in return,
and as these have a direct effect upon your mind, and
through your mind upon your body, it is as so much
life force added to your own from without. You
are then continually building this into both your
mental and your physical life, and so your life is
enriched by its influence.
Hatred and all its kindred emotions
are the unnatural, the abnormal, the perversions,
and so, out of harmony with the eternal order of the
universe. For if love is the fulfilling of the
law, then these, its opposites, are direct violations
of law, and there can never be a violation of law
without its attendant pain and suffering in one form
or another. There is no escape from this.
And what is the result of this particular form of
violation? When you allow thoughts of anger,
hatred, malice, jealousy, envy, criticism, or scorn
to exercise sway, they have a corroding and poisoning
effect upon the organism; they pull it down, and if
allowed to continue will eventually tear it to pieces
by externalizing themselves in the particular forms
of disease they give rise to. And then in addition
to the destructive influences from your own mind you
are continually calling the same influences from other
minds, and these come as destructive forces augmenting
your own, thus aiding in the tearing down process.
And so love inspires love; hatred
breeds hatred. Love and good will stimulate
and build up the body; hatred and malice corrode and
tear it down. Love is a savor of life unto life;
hatred is a savor of death unto death.
“There are loyal hearts, there are
spirits brave,
There are souls that are pure
and true;
Then give to the world the best you have,
And the best will come back
to you.
“Give love, and love to your
heart will flow,
A strength in your utmost
need;
Have faith, and a score of hearts will
show
Their faith in your
word and deed.”
I hear it said, How in
regard to one who bears me hatred, towards whom I
have entertained no such thoughts and feelings, and
so have not been the cause of his becoming my enemy?
This may be true, but the chances are that you will
have but few enemies if there is nothing of an antagonistic
nature in your own mind and heart. Be sure there
is nothing of this nature. But if hatred should
come from another without apparent cause on your part,
then meet it from first to last with thoughts of love
and good-will. In this way you can, so to speak,
so neutralize its effects that it cannot reach you
and so cannot harm you. Love is positive, and
stronger than hatred. Hatred can always be conquered
by love.
On the other hand, if you meet hatred
with hatred, you simply intensify it. You add
fuel to the flame already kindled, upon which it will
feed and grow, and so you increase and intensify the
evil conditions. Nothing is to be gained by it,
everything is to be lost. By sending love for
hatred you will be able so to neutralize it that it
will not only have no effect upon you, but will not
be able even to reach you. But more than this,
you will by this course sooner or later be able literally
to transmute the enemy into the friend. Meet
hatred with hatred and you degrade yourself.
Meet hatred with love and you elevate not only yourself
but also the one who bears you hatred.
The Persian sage has said, “Always
meet petulance with gentleness, and perverseness with
kindness. A gentle hand can lead even an elephant
by a hair. Reply to thine enemy with gentleness.
Opposition to peace is sin.” The Buddhist
says, “If a man foolishly does me wrong I will
return him the protection of my ungrudging love.
The more evil comes from him the more good shall
go from me.” “The wise man avenges
injuries by benefits,” says the Chinese.
“Return good for evil, overcome anger by love;
hatred never ceases by hatred, but by love,”
says the Hindu.
The truly wise man or woman will recognize
no one as an enemy. Occasionally we hear the
expression, “Never mind; I’ll get even
with him.” Will you? And how will
you do it? You can do it in one of two ways.
You can, as you have in mind, deal with him as he
deals, or apparently deals, with you, pay
him, as we say, in his own coin. If you do this
you will get even with him by sinking yourself to his
level, and both of you will suffer by it. Or,
you can show yourself the larger, you can send him
love for hatred, kindness for ill-treatment, and so
get even with him by raising him to the higher level.
But remember that you can never help another without
by that very act helping yourself; and if forgetful
of self, then in most all cases the value to you is
greater than the service you render another.
If you are ready to treat him as he treats you, then
you show clearly that there is in you that which draws
the hatred and ill-treatment to you; you deserve what
you are getting and should not complain, nor would
you complain if you were wise. By following the
other course you most effectually accomplish your
purpose, you gain a victory for yourself,
and at the same time you do a great service for him,
for which it is evident he stands greatly in need.
Thus you may become his saviour.
He in turn may become the saviour of other error-making,
and consequently care-encumbered men and women.
Many times the struggles are greater than we can ever
know. We need more gentleness and sympathy and
compassion in our common human life. Then we
will neither blame nor condemn. Instead of blaming
or condemning we will sympathize, and all the more
we will
“Comfort
one another,
For the way is often dreary,
And the feet are often weary,
And the heart is very sad.
There is a heavy burden bearing,
When it seems that none are caring,
And we half forget that ever
we were glad
“Comfort
one another
With the hand-clasp close and tender,
With the sweetness love can render,
And the looks of friendly
eyes.
Do not wait with grace unspoken,
While life’s daily bread is broken
Gentle speech is oft like
manna from the skies.”
When we come fully to realize the
great fact that all evil and error and sin with all
their consequent sufferings come through ignorance,
then wherever we see a manifestation of these in whatever
form, if our hearts are right, we will have compassion,
sympathy and compassion for the one in whom we see
them. Compassion will then change itself into
love, and love will manifest itself in kindly service.
Such is the divine method. And so instead of
aiding in trampling and keeping a weaker one down,
we will hold him up until he can stand alone and become
the master. But all life-growth is from within
out, and one becomes a true master in the degree that
the knowledge of the divinity of his own nature dawns
upon his inner consciousness and so brings him to
a knowledge of the higher laws; and in no way can we
so effectually hasten this dawning in the inner consciousness
of another, as by showing forth the divinity within
ourselves simply by the way we live.
By example and not by precept.
By living, not by preaching. By doing, not
by professing. By living the life, not by dogmatizing
as to how it should be lived. There is no contagion
equal to the contagion of life. Whatever we sow,
that shall we also reap, and each thing sown produces
of its kind. We can kill not only by doing another
bodily injury directly, but we can and we do kill
by every antagonistic thought. Not only do we
thus kill, but while we kill we suicide. Many
a man has been made sick by having the ill thoughts
of a number of people centred upon him; some have
been actually killed. Put hatred into the world
and we make it a literal hell. Put love into
the world and heaven with all its beauties and glories
becomes a reality.
Not to love is not to live, or it
is to live a living death. The life that goes
out in love to all is the life that is full, and rich,
and continually expanding in beauty and in power.
Such is the life that becomes ever more inclusive,
and hence larger in its scope and influence.
The larger the man and the woman, the more inclusive
they are in their love and their friendships.
The smaller the man and the woman, the more dwarfed
and dwindling their natures, the more they pride themselves
upon their “exclusiveness.” Any one a
fool or an idiot can be exclusive.
It comes easy. It takes and it signifies a
large nature to be universal, to be inclusive.
Only the man or the woman of a small, personal, self-centred,
self-seeking nature is exclusive. The man or
the woman of a large, royal, unself-centred nature
never is. The small nature is the one that continually
strives for effect. The larger nature never
does. The one goes here and there in order to
gain recognition, in order to attach himself to the
world. The other stays at home and draws the
world to him. The one loves merely himself.
The other loves all the world; but in his larger love
for all the world he finds himself included.
Verily, then, the more one loves the
nearer he approaches to God, for God is the spirit
of infinite love. And when we come into the
realization of our oneness with this Infinite Spirit,
then divine love so fills us that, enriching and enrapturing
our own lives, from them it flows out to enrich the
life of all the world.
In coming into the realization of
our oneness with the Infinite Life, we are brought
at once into right relations with our fellowmen.
We are brought into harmony with the great law, that
we find our own lives in losing them in the service
of others. We are brought to a knowledge of
the fact that all life is one, and so that we are all
parts of the one great whole. We then realize
that we can’t do for another without at the
same time doing for ourselves. We also realize
that we cannot do harm to another without by that
very act doing harm to ourselves. We realize
that the man who lives to himself alone lives a little,
dwarfed, and stunted life, because he has no part in
this larger life of humanity. But the one who
in service loses his own life in this larger life,
has his own life increased and enriched a thousand
or a million fold, and every joy, every happiness,
everything of value coming to each member of this
greater whole comes as such to him, for he has a part
in the life of each and all.
And here let a word be said in regard
to true service. Peter and John were one day
going up to the temple, and as they were entering the
gate they were met by a poor cripple who asked them
for alms. Instead of giving him something to
supply the day’s needs and then leaving him in
the same dependent condition for the morrow and the
morrow, Peter did him a real service, and a real service
for all mankind by saying, Silver and gold have I
none, but such as I have I give unto thee. And
then he made him whole. He thus brought him
into the condition where he could help himself.
In other words, the greatest service we can do for
another is to help him to help himself. To help
him directly might be weakening, though not necessarily.
It depends entirely upon circumstances. But
to help one to help himself is never weakening, but
always encouraging and strengthening, because it leads
him to a larger and stronger life.
There is no better way to help one
to help himself than to bring him to a knowledge of
himself. There is no better way to bring one
to a knowledge of himself than to lead him to a knowledge
of the powers that are lying dormant within his own
soul. There is nothing that will enable him
to come more readily or more completely into an awakened
knowledge of the powers that are lying dormant within
his own soul, than to bring him into the conscious,
vital realization of his oneness with the Infinite
Life and Power, so that he may open himself to it in
order that it may work and manifest through him.
We will find that these same great
truths lie at the very bottom of the solution of our
social situation; and we will also find that we will
never have a full and permanent solution of it until
they are fully recognized and built upon.