The materials for preparing the memoirs
of those American ladies whose virtues were conspicuous,
and whose position in society imposed upon them great
duties, and gave them an extensive influence in their
day, are, in general, exceedingly scanty. Happily,
the piety of a descendant has, in the present case,
supplied the deficiency; and in a mode the most satisfactory.
We are here not only made acquainted with the everyday
life and actions as they were exhibited to the world
around, but are admitted to the inmost recesses of
the heart, and all its hopes and feelings are laid
open to us. There are few who could bear such
an exposure; but in respect to the subject of our present
sketch, a nearer acquaintance and more rigid scrutiny
serve only to increase our veneration, and to confirm
the verdict which her contemporaries had passed upon
her.
Abigail Smith, afterwards Mrs. Adams,
was born on the 11th of November, 1744. She was
the daughter of the Rev. William Smith, the minister
of a small Congregational church in Weymouth, Massachusetts,
and was descended on both sides from the genuine stock
of the Pilgrims.
The cultivation of the female mind
was neglected in the last century, not merely as a
matter of indifference, but of positive principle;
female learning was a subject of ridicule, and “female
education,” as Mrs. Adams tells us, “in
the best families, went no further than writing and
arithmetic; in some, and rare instances, music and
dancing.” But Mrs. Adams did not have an
opportunity of receiving even the ordinary instruction.
She was never sent to school, the delicate state of
her health forbidding it. But this is hardly to
be considered matter of regret, for constant intercourse
with her pious and talented relations had an influence
upon her character of even greater value than the
learning of the schools. The lessons which made
the deepest impression upon her mind were imbibed
from her maternal grandmother, the wife of Colonel
John Quincy. “I have not forgotten,”
says Mrs. Adams, to her daughter, in 1795, “the
excellent lessons which I received from my grandmother,
at a very early period of life. I frequently
think they made a more durable impression upon my mind
than those which I received from my own parents.
Whether it was owing to the happy method of mixing
instruction and amusement together, or from an inflexible
adherence to certain principles, the utility of which
I could not but see and approve when a child, I know
not; but maturer years have rendered them oracles
of wisdom to me. I love and revere her memory;
her lively, cheerful disposition animated all around
her, while she edified all by her unaffected piety.
This tribute is due to the memory of those virtues,
the sweet remembrance of which will flourish, though
she has long slept with her ancestors.”
But though the list of accomplishments
thought essential for a young lady’s education
was so scanty, it must not be supposed that the mind
was left wholly uncultivated. On the contrary,
few women of the present day are so well acquainted
with the standard English authors, as those of the
period of which we are now speaking. The influence
which they had on the mind of the subject of this memoir,
is apparent throughout her published correspondence,
not only in the style, in the fondness for quotation,
but in the love of fictitious signatures, of which
the “Spectator” had set the example.
The social disposition of youth renders an interchange
of thoughts and feelings between those of the same
age essential to their happiness. The sparse population,
and comparatively small facilities for locomotion
in the last century, rendered personal intercourse
difficult, and a frequent interchange of letters was
adopted as a substitute. This, as an exercise
for the mind, is of great value, as it induces habits
of reflection, and leads to precision and facility
in expressing ideas.
A few of Mrs. Adams’s letters,
written at an early period of her life, have been
preserved, and from one of these addressed
to a married lady, several years older than herself,
which will account for a gravity which is beyond her
years and ordinary disposition the following
extracts are made. It is dated at Weymouth, October
5th, 1761.
“Your letter I received, and,
believe me, it has not been through forgetfulness
that I have not before this time returned you my sincere
thanks for the kind assurance you then gave me of continued
friendship. You have, I hope, pardoned my suspicions;
they arose from love. What persons in their right
senses would calmly, and without repining, or even
inquiring into the cause, submit to lose their greatest
temporal good and happiness? for thus the divine, Dr.
Young, looks upon a friend, when he says,
’A friend is worth all hazards we
can run;
Poor is the friendless master of a world;
A world in purchase for a friend is gain.’
You have, like King Ahasuerus,
held forth, though not a golden sceptre, yet one more
valuable, the sceptre of friendship, if
I may so call it. Like Esther, I would draw nigh
and touch it. Will you proceed and say, ‘What
wilt thou?’ and ’What is thy request? it
shall be given thee to the half of my’ heart.
Why, no, I think I will not have so dangerous a present,
lest your good man should find it out and challenge
me. And now let me ask you, whether you do not
think that many of our disappointments, and much of
our unhappiness, arise from our forming false notions
of things and persons. We strangely impose on
ourselves; we create a fairy land of happiness.
Fancy is fruitful, and promises fair, but, like the
dog in the fable, we catch at a shadow, and, when
we find the disappointment, we are vexed, not with
ourselves, who are really the impostors, but with the
poor, innocent thing or person of whom we have formed
such strange ideas. You bid me tell one
of my sparks I think that was the word to
bring me to see you. Why, I believe you think
they are as plenty as herrings, when, alas! there
is as great a scarcity of them as there is of justice,
honesty, prudence, and many other virtues. I’ve
no pretensions to one. Wealth, wealth is the only
thing that is looked after now. ’Tis said
Plato thought, if Virtue would appear to the world,
all mankind would be enamored of her; but now interest
governs the world, and men neglect the golden mean.”
At the age of twenty, Miss Smith became
the wife of John Adams, afterwards president of the
United States. Connected with this event, an
anecdote is related, which, as an indication of the
fashion of the day, and of the disposition of the
bride’s father, is too good to be passed over.
Mary, the eldest daughter of Mr. Smith, was married
to Richard Cranch, an English emigrant, and, as it
would appear, with the approbation of all parties;
for, upon the Sabbath following, he preached to his
people from the text, “And Mary hath chosen that
good part, which shall not be taken from her.”
But Abigail was not so fortunate; for her match, it
would seem, met the disapprobation of some of her
father’s parishioners, either on account of the
profession of Mr. Adams, that of the law, which
was then an obnoxious one to many people, who deemed
it dishonest; or because they did not consider Mr.
Adams the son of a small farmer a
sufficiently good match for the daughter of one of
the shining lights of the colony. Mr. Smith,
having become aware of the feeling which existed, took
notice of it in a sermon from the following text:
“For John came neither eating bread nor drinking
wine, and ye say, He hath a devil.”
The first ten years of Mrs. Adams’s
married life were passed in a quiet and happy manner;
her enjoyment suffering no interruptions except those
occasioned by the short absences of her husband, when
he attended the courts. In this period she became
the mother of a daughter and three sons, of whom John
Quincy Adams was the eldest.
All are familiar with the distinguished
part performed by Mr. Adams in the scenes which immediately
preceded our revolution. In all his feelings
and actions he had the sympathy and support of his
wife, who had thus in some measure become prepared
for the stormy period which was at hand.
Mr. Adams, having been appointed one
of the delegates to the congress to be held at Philadelphia,
left home in August, 1774; and on the 19th of that
month, we find the following letter addressed to him
by his wife:
“The great distance between
us makes the time appear very long to me. It
seems already a month since you left me. The great
anxiety I feel for my country, for you, and for our
family, renders the day tedious, and the night unpleasant.
The rocks and the quicksands appear on every side.
What course you can and will take is all wrapped in
the bosom of futurity. Uncertainty and expectation
leave the mind great scope. Did ever any kingdom
or state regain its liberty, when once it was invaded,
without bloodshed? I cannot think of it without
horror. Yet we are told, that all the misfortunes
of Sparta were occasioned by their too great solicitude
for present tranquillity; and from an excessive love
of peace, they neglected the means of making it sure
and lasting. I have taken a very great fondness
for reading Rollin’s Ancient History. I
am determined to go through it, if possible, in these
my days of solitude. I find great pleasure and
entertainment from it, and I have persuaded Johnny
to read me a page or two every day, and hope he will,
from his desire to oblige me, entertain a fondness
for it. I want much to hear from you. I long
impatiently to have you upon the stage of action.
The 1st of September may, perhaps, be of as much importance
to Great Britain, as the ides of March to Cæsar.
I wish you every public and private blessing, and
that wisdom which is profitable for instruction and
edification, to conduct you in this difficult day.”
She perceived, at a very early period,
that the conflict would not be speedily settled, and
of the personal consequences to herself she speaks
in the following affecting terms: “Far from
thinking the scene closed, it looks as though the
curtain was but just drawn, and only the first scene
of the infernal plot disclosed: whether the end
will be tragical, Heaven alone knows. You cannot
be, I know, nor do I wish to see you, an inactive
spectator; but, if the sword be drawn, I bid adieu
to all domestic felicity, and look forward to that
country where there are neither wars nor rumors of
wars, in a firm belief that, through the mercy of
its King, we shall both rejoice there together.”
Indeed, from this period till she
joined her husband in Europe, in 1784, she enjoyed
very little of his society. Had the state of the
times rendered it safe or agreeable for her to have
accompanied her husband in his journeys and voyages,
the circumstances of the family would not have allowed
it. Without hereditary fortune, with no opportunity
of practising in his profession, and now serving the
public for a price which would not defray his actual
and necessary expenses, Mr. Adams would
have been, in his old age, in the lamentable condition
of many of the most active patriots of the revolution,
who, devoting their years of vigorous manhood to the
service of their country, were left, in their declining
days, in a state of penury, had he not
possessed in his wife a helper suited to the exigency.
She husbanded their small property, the savings of
years of professional prosperity; she managed the
farm with skill; and in all matters of business she
displayed a degree of judgment and sagacity not to
be exceeded. All the powers of her mind were now
called into activity, and her character displayed itself
in the most favorable colors. The official rank
of her husband imposed high duties upon her; her timid
neighbors looked to her for support and comfort, and
she was never found wanting.
The absence of Mr. Adams relieved
his wife from one source of anxiety that
for his personal safety. As the conflict in the
early periods of the revolution was confined to the
vicinity of Boston, and as the feelings of parties
were more exasperated here than elsewhere, he would
have been in the greatest danger at home. It was
a comfort to her that her husband should “be
absent a little while from the scenes of perturbation,
anxiety, and distress,” which surrounded her.
As from her residence she could be
an eye-witness of few of the events, the details of
which she relates, her letters are of most value as
furnishing a lively exhibition of her own and of the
public feeling. One event, which passed under
her own observation, she thus describes: “In
consequence of the powder being taken from Charlestown,
a general alarm spread through many towns, and was
pretty soon caught here. On Sunday, a soldier
was seen lurking about, supposed to be a spy, but
most likely a deserter. However, intelligence
of it was communicated to the other parishes, and
about eight o’clock, Sunday evening, there passed
by here about two hundred men, preceded by a horse-cart,
and marched down to the powder-house, from whence they
took the powder, and carried it into the other parish,
and there secreted it. I opened the window upon
their return. They passed without any noise, not
a word among them, till they came against
the house, when some of them, perceiving me, asked
me if I wanted any powder. I replied, No, since
it was in so good hands. The reason they gave
for taking it was, that we had so many tories here,
they dared not trust it; they had taken the sheriff
in their train, and upon their return they stopped
between Cleverly’s and Eltee’s, and called
upon him to deliver two warrants. Upon his producing
them, they put it to vote whether they should burn
them, and it passed in the affirmative. They
then made a circle and burnt them. They then called
a vote whether they should huzza, but, it being Sunday
evening, it passed in the negative. This town
appears as high as you can well imagine, and, if necessary,
would soon be in arms. Not a tory but hides his
head. The church parson thought they were coming
after him, and ran up garret; they say another jumped
out of his window, and hid among the corn; while a
third crept under his board fence, and told his beads.”
In the midst of her public cares and
anxieties, she did not neglect her sacred duties as
a mother. The care of the education of her four
children devolved entirely upon her, and “Johnny”
was at an age to require much attention. This
subject occupied much of her thoughts; and, indeed,
the greatest value of her published correspondence
consists in the hints which it gives us of the course
of culture pursued in producing those glorious fruits
of which other generations have had the enjoyment.
She carefully guarded against the contagion of vice
at that period when the mind and heart are most susceptible
to impressions. “I have always thought
it,” she says to her husband, “of very
great importance that children should, in the early
part of life, be unaccustomed to such examples as
would tend to corrupt the purity of their words and
actions, that they may chill with horror at the sound
of an oath, and blush with indignation at an obscene
expression. These first principles, which grow
with their growth and strengthen with their strength,
neither time nor custom can totally eradicate.”
By precept, and much more by example, she sought to
instil principles, and to form habits, which should
lead to the practice of every virtue. Can we
be surprised at the abhorrence which her “illustrious
son of an illustrious mother” has ever exhibited
to oppression, when we find her thus expressing her
sentiments in behalf of the oppressed, at a time when
the subject of which she speaks had not excited any
attention either in Europe or America? “I
wish sincerely there was not a slave in the province;
it always appeared to me a most iniquitous scheme to
fight ourselves for what we are daily robbing and plundering
from those who have as good a right to freedom as
we have.”
During the recess of Congress, Mr.
Adams was at home, but left it again for Philadelphia
on the 14th April, 1775. Four days afterwards
the expedition to Lexington and Concord took place.
The news of this event reached Mr. A. at Hartford;
he, did not, however, yield to his anxieties and return,
but contented himself by sending home encouragement
and advice. After saying that he never feels any
personal fear, he adds, “I am often concerned
for you and our dear babes, surrounded as you are
by people who are too timorous, and too much susceptible
of alarm. Many fears and imaginary evils will
be suggested to you, but I hope you will not be impressed
by them. In case of real danger, fly to the woods
with my children.”
Mrs. Adams might be excused for entertaining
fears; her residence was near the sea-coast, and the
enemy sent out foraging expeditions: the point
of destination was perhaps some island in the harbor;
but of this there could be no certainty. Of one
of the alarms thus occasioned, Mrs. Adams writes to
her husband as follows: “I suppose you
have had a formidable account of the alarm we had last
Sunday morning. When I rose, about six o’clock,
I was told that the drums had been some time beating,
and that three alarm guns were fired; that Weymouth
bell had been ringing, and Mr. Weld’s was then
ringing. I sent off an express to learn the cause,
and found the whole town in confusion. Three
sloops and a cutter had dropped anchor just below
Great Hill. It was difficult to tell their designs:
some supposed they were coming to Germantown, others
to Weymouth: people, women, children, came flocking
down this way; every woman and child driven off below
my father’s; my father’s family flying.
The alarm flew like lightning, and men from all parts
came flocking down, till two thousand were collected.
But it seems their expedition was to Grape Island,
for Levett’s hay.” “They delight,”
says she, on another occasion, “in molesting
us upon the Sabbath. Two Sabbaths we have been
in such alarm that we have had no meeting; this day
we have sat under our own vine in quietness; have
heard Mr. Taft. The good man was earnest and
pathetic. I could forgive his weakness for the
sake of his sincerity; but I long for a Cooper and
an Elliot. I want a person who has feeling and
sensibility; who can take one up with him,
And ‘in his duty prompt at every
call,’
Can ‘watch, and weep, and pray,
and feel for all.’”
The battle of Bunker’s Hill
followed soon, and, from the top of the highest house
in Braintree, Mrs. Adams beheld the conflagration of
Charlestown. But she does not lose her courage.
In writing to her husband, she seeks to lessen his
anxieties. “I would not,” says she,
“have you be distressed about me. I have
been distressed, but not dismayed. I have felt
for my country and her sons, and have bled with them
and for them.”
The appointment of General Washington
to the command of the army, then stationed at Cambridge,
inspired new confidence. Mrs. Adams thus speaks
of the impression made by her first interview with
him and General Lee: “I was struck with
General Washington. You had prepared me to entertain
a favorable opinion of him; but I thought the half
was not told me. Dignity with ease and complacency,
the gentleman and soldier, look agreeably blended
in him. Modesty marks every line and feature
of his face. Those lines of Dryden instantly occurred
to me
’Mark his majestic fabric! he’s
a temple
Sacred by birth, and built by hands divine;
His soul’s the deity that lodges
there;
Nor is the pile unworthy of the god.’
General Lee looks like a careless,
hardy veteran, and, by his appearance, brought to
my mind his namesake, Charles XII. of Sweden.
The elegance of his pen far exceeds that of his person.”
The horrors of war were now aggravated
by those of pestilence. From the British army
in Boston, the dysentery had spread into the surrounding
country. Mrs. Adams and her whole family were
attacked. “Our house,” she writes
to her husband, September 8, 1775, “is a hospital
in every part, and, what with my own weakness and distress
of mind for my family, I have been unhappy enough.
And such is the distress of the neighborhood, that
I can scarcely find a well person to assist me in
looking after the sick.” Again on the 25th
she writes, “I sit with a heavy heart to write
to you. Woe follows woe, and one affliction treads
upon the heels of another. My distress in my own
family having in some measure abated, it is excited
anew upon that of my dear mother. She has taken
the disorder, and lies so bad, that we have little
hope of her recovery.” On the 29th, “It
is allotted me to go from the sick and almost dying
bed of one of the best of parents, to my own habitation,
where again I behold the same scene, only varied by
a remoter connection
‘A bitter change, severer for severe.’
You can more easily conceive than
I can describe what are the sensations of my heart
when absent from either, continually expecting a messenger
with the fatal tidings.” “The desolation
of war is not so distressing as the havoc made by
pestilence. Some poor parents are mourning the
loss of three, four, and five children; and some families
are wholly stripped of every member.”
But the hand of the pestilence was
stayed, and her country again engrosses her thoughts.
She very early declares herself for independence,
and wonders how any honest heart can hesitate at adopting
the same sentiment. An attempt to drive the enemy
from Boston is meditated, and she tells us that she
has been kept in a state of anxiety and expectation.
“It has been said ‘to-morrow’ and
‘to-morrow’ for this month; but when this
dreadful to-morrow will be, I know not. But hark!
The house this instant shakes with the roar of cannon.
I have been to the door, and find it a cannonade from
our army.” The militia are all ordered
to repair to the lines. The result was thus related:
“I have just returned from Penn’s Hill,
where I have been sitting to hear the amazing roar
of cannon, and from whence I could see every shell
which was thrown. The sound, I think, is one of
the grandest in nature, and is of the true species
of the sublime. I could no more sleep than if
I had been in the engagement: the rattling of
the windows, the jar of the house, the continual roar
of twenty-four pounders, and the bursting of shells,
give us such ideas, and realize a scene to us of which
we could form scarcely any conception. All my
distress and anxiety is at present at an end.
I feel disappointed. This day our militia are
all returning without effecting any thing more than
taking possession of Dorchester Hill. I hope
it is wise and just, but, from all the muster and stir,
I hoped and expected more important and decisive scenes.
I would not have suffered all I have for two such
hills.” The British soon afterwards evacuated
Boston, and Massachusetts never again became the theatre
of war.
In 1778, the fortitude of Mrs. Adams
received a new trial. Her husband was appointed
one of the commissioners at the court of France.
The sea was covered with the enemy’s ships;
and, should he escape these and all the natural dangers
of the seas, and arrive at the place of his destination
in safety, rumor said that he would there be exposed
to one of a more terrific character, “to the
dark assassin, to the secret murderer, and the bloody
emissary of as cruel a tyrant as God, in his righteous
judgments, ever suffered to disgrace the throne of
Britain. I have,” continues Mrs. Adams,
writing soon after her husband’s departure,
“travelled with you across the Atlantic, and
could have landed you safe, with humble confidence,
at your desired haven, and then have set myself down
to enjoy a negative kind of happiness, in the painful
part which it has pleased Heaven to allot me; but the
intelligence with regard to that great philosopher,
able statesman, and unshaken friend of his country,” alluding
to a report of Dr. Franklin’s assassination
in Paris, “has planted a dagger in
my breast, and I feel with a double edge the weapon
that pierced his bosom. To my dear son remember
me in the most affectionate terms. Enjoin it
upon him never to disgrace his mother, and to behave
worthily of his father. I console myself with
the hopes of his reaping advantages under the careful
eye of a tender parent, which it was not in my power
to bestow.” Mr. Adams was accompanied by
his eldest son, John Quincy Adams, and, after incurring
various hazards from lightning, storm, and the enemy,
arrived in France. The maternal solicitude of
Mrs. Adams relieved itself in part by writing letters
to her son filled with the warmest affection and the
most wise counsel. She urges it upon him “to
adhere to those religious sentiments and principles
which were early instilled into your mind, and remember
that you are accountable to your Maker for all your
words and actions. Great learning and superior
abilities, should you ever possess them, will be of
little value and small estimation, unless virtue, honor,
truth, and integrity, are added to them. Dear
as you are to me, I would much rather you should have
found a grave in the ocean you have crossed, than
see you an immoral, profligate, or graceless child.”
As has already been said, Mrs. Adams
managed her husband’s money affairs at home.
A short extract from one of her business letters to
him may be interesting, and will show how a matter
always troublesome was in such times doubly so:
“The safest way, you tell me, of supplying my
wants, is by drafts; but I cannot get hard money for
bills. You had as good tell me to procure diamonds
for them; and when bills will fetch but five for one,
hard money will exchange ten, which I think is very
provoking; and I must give at the rate of ten, and
sometimes twenty, for one, for every article I purchase.
I blush whilst I give you a price current; all meat
from a dollar to eight shillings a pound; corn twenty-five
dollars, rye thirty, per bushel; flour two hundred
dollars per hundred pounds; potatoes ten dollars per
bushel, &c. I have studied, and do study, every
method of economy; otherwise a mint of money would
not support a family. I could not board our sons
under forty dollars a week at school. We have
been greatly distressed for grain. I scarcely
know the looks or taste of biscuit or flour for this
four months; yet thousands have been much worse off,
having no grain of any sort.” Nor were things
then at the worst; for in October, 1780, we find “meat
eight dollars, and butter twelve, per pound; corn
one hundred and twenty dollars, and rye one hundred
and eight, per bushel; tea ninety dollars, and cotton
wool thirty, per pound.” But our readers
must not suppose that this was entirely owing to a
scarcity of products; these prices are in “continental
money,” seventy dollars of which would hardly
command one of “hard money.”
Hitherto Mr. Adams’s residence
had seemed too unsettled to render it worth while
for his wife to undertake a long and dangerous voyage
to meet him. But after the acknowledgment of
our independence by Great Britain, a commission was
sent to Mr. Adams as first minister to that court;
and it was probable that his residence there would
be sufficiently long to justify him in a request to
Mrs. Adams to join him. The feelings of the latter
on the subject were thus expressed before the appointment
was actually made: “I have not a wish to
join in a scene of life so different from that in
which I have been educated, and in which my early,
and, I must suppose, happier days have been spent.
Well-ordered home is my chief delight, and the affectionate,
domestic wife, with the relative duties which accompany
that character, my highest ambition. It was the
disinterested wish of sacrificing my personal feelings
to the public utility, which first led me to think
of unprotectedly hazarding a voyage. This objection
could only be surmounted by the earnest wish I had
to soften those toils which were not to be dispensed
with; and if the public welfare required your labors
and exertions abroad, I flattered myself that, if
I could be with you, it might be in my power to contribute
to your happiness and pleasure.” “I
think, if you were abroad in a private character,
I should not hesitate so much at coming to you; but
a mere American, as I am, unacquainted with the etiquette
of courts, taught to say the thing I mean, and to
wear my heart in my countenance, I am sure
I should make an awkward figure; and then it would
mortify my pride, if I should be thought to disgrace
you.”
In spite, however, of this reluctance,
she embarked on board the Active, a merchant
ship, for London. Of this voyage Mrs. Adams has
given a most graphic and not very agreeable picture;
and nothing can present a greater contrast than her
dirty, close, narrow quarters, on board a vessel deeply
loaded with oil and potash, the oil leaking,
and the potash smoking and fermenting, with
the floating palaces in which the voyage is now made.
The culinary department was in keeping with the rest
of the ship. “The cook was a great, dirty,
lazy negro, with no more knowledge of cookery than
a savage; nor any kind of order in the distribution
of his dishes; but on they come, higgledy-piggledy,
with a leg of pork all bristly; a quarter of an hour
afterwards, a pudding; or, perhaps, a pair of roast
fowls first of all, and then will follow, one by one,
a piece of beef, and, when dinner is nearly completed,
a plate of potatoes. Such a fellow is a real
imposition upon the passengers. But gentlemen
know but little about the matter, and if they can get
enough to eat five times a day, all goes well.”
Yet the passengers, of whom there were a number, were
agreeable, and, as the wind and weather were favorable,
the voyage did not last more than thirty days.
She hoped to have found Mr. Adams
in London, but he was at the Hague; and “Master
John,” after waiting a month for her in London,
had returned to the latter place. She received,
however, every attention from the numerous Americans
then in London, refugees as well as others, many of
whom had been her personal friends at home. Ten
days were spent in sight-seeing, on the last of which
a servant comes running in, exclaiming, “Young
Mr. Adams has come!” “Where, where is
he?” cried out all. “In the other
house, madam; he stopped to get his hair dressed.”
“Impatient enough I was,” continues Mrs.
A.; “yet, when he entered, we had so many strangers,
that I drew back, not really believing my eyes, till
he cried out, ’O my mamma, and my dear sister!’
Nothing but the eyes, at first sight, appeared what
he once was. His appearance is that of a man,
and on his countenance the most perfect good-humor;
his conversation by no means denies his stature.”
Her first year in Europe was spent
at Auteuil, near Paris, and she seems to have enjoyed
herself, in spite of her ignorance of the language;
though she sometimes expresses her longing for home
and the enjoyment of social intercourse with her friends
in America. Her letters, during this period,
present us with a lively picture of the state of society
and of manners. We have space only for her account
of her first visit to madame de la Fayette.
“The marquise met me at the door, and with the
freedom of an old acquaintance, and the rapture peculiar
to the ladies of this nation, caught me by the hand,
and gave me a salute upon each cheek. She presented
me to her mother and sister, who were present with
her, all sitting in her bedroom, quite en famille.
One of the ladies was knitting. The marquise herself
was in a chintz gown. She is a middle-sized lady,
sprightly and agreeable, and professes herself strongly
attached to Americans. She is fond of her children,
and very attentive to them, which is not the general
character of ladies of high rank in Europe. In
a few days, she returned my visit, upon which I sent
her a card of invitation to dine. She came.
We had a large company. There is not a lady in
our country who would have gone abroad to dine so
little dressed; and one of our fine American ladies,
who sat by me, whispered to me, ’Good heavens!
how awfully she is dressed!’ I could not forbear
returning the whisper, which I most sincerely despised,
by replying that the lady’s rank sets her above
the little formalities of dress. The rouge, ’tis
true, was not so artfully laid on, as upon the faces
of the American ladies who were present. Whilst
they were glittering with diamonds, buckles, watch-chains,
girdle-buckles, &c., the marquise was nowise ruffled
by her own different appearance. A really well-bred
Frenchwoman has the most ease in her manners that you
can possibly conceive of.”
In June, 1784, Mr. Adams took up his
residence in London. His situation and that of
his wife was far from being a pleasant one. The
hostile feelings towards Americans, engendered by so
many years of warfare, and exasperated by the mortification
of ill-success, had not subsided. The loss of
his North American colonies was severely felt by the
king, who had too much good sense, however, to suffer
his feelings to appear in his intercourse with the
new minister; but the queen, who, though exemplary
in the discharge of domestic duties, was weak-minded,
proud, and petulant, could not conceal her bitterness,
and her conduct towards Mrs. Adams was hardly civil.
Perhaps, however, the account of it given by the latter
is colored by her own prejudices against the royal
family, which, throughout her life were expressed in
the strongest language, and which, towards the king,
at least, were entirely unjust. Her presentation
at court could not but be somewhat embarrassing and
awkward to all parties. The manner in which it
passed shall be related in her own words. “The
ceremony of presentation is considered as indispensable.
One is obliged to attend the circles of the queen,
which are held in summer once a fortnight, but once
a week the rest of the year; and what renders it very
expensive, is, that you cannot go twice the same season
in the same dress, and a court dress cannot be used
any where else. I directed my mantua-maker to
let my dress be elegant, but as plain as it could
be, with decency; accordingly it is white lutestring,
covered and full trimmed with white crape, festooned
with lilac ribbon and mock point lace, over a hoop
of enormous extent; a narrow train of three yards,
which is put into a ribbon on the left side, the queen
only having a train-bearer. Ruffle cuffs, treble
lace ruffles, a very dress cap, with long lace lappets,
two white plumes, and a blond lace handkerchief this
is my rigging. I should have mentioned two pearl
pins in my hair, ear-rings and necklace of the same
kind. ‘Well,’ methinks I hear you
say, ‘what is your daughter’s dress?’
White, my dear girls, like her mother’s, only
differently trimmed; her train being wholly of white
crape, and trimmed with white ribbon; the petticoat,
which is the most showy part of the dress, covered
and drawn up in what are called festoons, with light
wreaths of beautiful flowers; sleeves white crape,
drawn over the silk, with a row of lace round the sleeve,
near the shoulder, another half way down the arm,
and a third upon the top of the ruffle, a little flower
stuck between; a kind of hat cap, with three large
feathers, and a bunch of flowers; a wreath of flowers
upon the hair. We were placed in a circle round
the drawing-room, which was very full, I believe two
hundred persons present. The royal family have
to go to every person, and find small talk enough to
speak to all, though they very prudently speak in
a whisper. The king enters, and goes round to
the right; the queen and princesses to the left.
The king is a personable man, but with a red face and
white eyebrows. The queen has a similar face,
and the numerous royal family resemble them.
When the king came to me, Lord Onslaw said, ’Mrs.
Adams;’ upon which I drew off my right hand glove,
and his majesty saluted my left cheek, then asked
me if I had taken a walk to-day. I could have
told his majesty that I had been all the morning preparing
to wait upon him; but I replied, ‘No, sire.’
’Why, don’t you love walking?’ says
he. I answered that I was rather indolent in that
respect. He then bowed and passed on. It
was more than two hours after this, before it came
my turn to be presented to the queen. She was
evidently embarrassed when I was presented to her.
I had disagreeable feelings too. She, however,
said, ’Mrs. Adams, have you got into your house?
Pray, how do you like the situation of it?’ whilst
the royal princess looked compassionate, and asked
me if I was not much fatigued. Her sister, Princess
Augusta, after having asked your niece if she was
ever in England before, and her answering, ‘Yes,’
inquired of me how long ago, and supposed it was when
she was very young. And all this with much affability,
and the ease and freedom of old acquaintance.
As to the ladies of the court, rank and title may
compensate for want of personal charms; but they are,
in general, very plain, ill-shaped, and ugly; but
don’t you tell any body that I say so; the observation
did not hold good, that fine feathers make fine birds.”
Referring to this same occasion in a subsequent letter,
she says, “I own that I never felt myself in
a more contemptible situation than when I stood four
hours together for a gracious smile from majesty,
a witness to the anxious solicitude of those around
me for the same mighty boon. I, however,
had a more dignified honor, as his majesty deigned
to salute me.”
Of other sources of annoyance Mrs.
Adams thus speaks: “Some years hence, it
may be a pleasure to reside here in the character of
American minister; but, with the present salary, and
the present temper of the English, no one need envy
the embassy. There would soon be fine work, if
any notice was taken of their billingsgate and abuse;
but all their arrows rebound, and fall harmless to
the ground. Amidst all their falsehoods, they
have never insinuated a lisp against the private character
of the American minister, nor in his public line charged
him with either want of abilities, honor, or integrity.
The whole venom is levelled against poor America,
and every effort to make her appear ridiculous in
the eyes of the nation.”
It would have been difficult to find
a person better adapted than Mrs. Adams for the trying
situation in which she found herself. In other
times, a woman of more yielding temper, who could adapt
herself more readily to those about her, would, perhaps,
answer better. Love of country was engrained
in her; for her “the birds of Europe had not
half the melody of those at home; the fruit was not
half so sweet, nor the flowers half so fragrant, nor
the manners half so pure, nor the people half so virtuous.”
Three years’ residence in England produced no
change of feeling. In anticipation of a return
to her home, we find her writing thus: “I
shall quit Europe with more pleasure than I came to
it, uncontaminated, I hope, with its manners and vices.
I have learned to know the world and its value; I
have seen high life; I have witnessed the luxury and
pomp of state, the power of riches, and the influence
of titles, and have beheld all ranks bow before them,
as the only shrine worthy of worship. Notwithstanding
this, I feel that I can return to my little cottage,
and be happier than here; and, if we have not wealth,
we have what is better integrity.”
Soon after Mr. Adams’s return,
he was elected vice-president of the United States,
and took up his residence, at least during the sessions
of Congress, first at New York, and afterwards at Philadelphia.
The “court” of General Washington was
much more to the taste of Mrs. Adams than that of
George III.; the circle at the first “drawing-room,”
she tells us, was very brilliant; that “the
dazzling Mrs. Bingham and her charming sisters were
there; in short, a constellation of beauties.”
The next eight years of her life,
during which her husband held the office of vice-president,
were passed with few incidents to disturb her happiness.
Another generation, the children of her daughter, who
was married to Colonel Smith, were receiving the benefits
of her instruction and experience.
A residence at Philadelphia was not
favorable to her health, which, never having been
very firm, about this period began decidedly to fail.
The bracing air of Quincy was found to be more congenial.
For this reason, she was not with her husband at the
time when his official duty required him to announce
himself as the successor to General Washington; and
to this circumstance we are indebted for the following
letter, written on the day on which the
votes were counted by the Senate, in which,
says her biographer, “the exalted feeling of
the moment shines out with all the lustre of ancient
patriotism, chastened by a sentiment of Christian
humility of which ancient history furnishes no example:”
“QUINCY, February 8th, 1797.
“’The sun is dressed
in brightest beams,
To give thy honors to the
day.’
And may it prove an auspicious prelude
to each ensuing season. You have this day to
declare yourself head of a nation. ’And
now, O Lord, thou hast made thy servant ruler over
the people. Give unto him an understanding
heart, that he may know how to go out and come in
before this great people; that he may discern between
good and bad. For who is able to judge this
thy so great a people?’ were the words of
a royal sovereign, and not less applicable to him
who is invested with the chief magistracy of a nation,
though he wear not a crown, nor the robes of royalty.
My thoughts and my meditations are with you, though
personally absent; and my petitions to Heaven are,
that the ’things which make for peace may not
be hidden from your eyes.’ My feelings are
not those of pride or ostentation. They are
solemnized by a sense of the obligations, the important
trusts, and numerous duties, connected with it.
That you may be enabled to discharge them with honor
to yourself, with justice and impartiality to your
country, and with satisfaction to this great people,
shall be the daily prayer of your
A. A.”
Never has this country witnessed such
scenes as characterized the struggle between the two
great political parties which divided the people during
Mr. Adams’s administration. As the representative
of one of these, he was assailed with an asperity
and malignity to which, happily, succeeding electioneering
furnishes no parallel. Accustomed to take a warm
interest in political events, it could not be expected
that Mrs. Adams should cease to do so when her husband
was the chief actor; nor is it surprising that she
should have felt what she deemed the ingratitude of
his countrymen in casting aside so long-tried and
faithful a servant. Retirement to private life
was to her a source of rejoicing rather than of regret.
At her age, and with her infirmities, she was far
happier at Quincy, overseeing the operations of her
dairy, whilst her husband, like Cincinnatus, assumed
the plough. She has left a record of one day’s
life; and from this we suppose other days varied but
little. It is in a letter to her granddaughter,
dated November 19th, 1812. “Six o’clock.
Rose, and, in imitation of his Britannic majesty,
kindled my own fire. Went to the stairs, as usual,
to summon George and Charles. Returned to my
chamber, dressed myself. No one stirred.
Called a second time, with a voice a little raised.
Seven o’clock. Blockheads not out of bed.
Girls in motion. Mean, when I hire another man-servant,
that he shall come for one call. Eight o’clock.
Fires made. Breakfast prepared. Mr. A. at
the tea-board. Forgot the sausages. Susan’s
recollection brought them upon the table. Enter
Ann. ‘Ma’am, the man is come with coal.’
’Go call George to assist him.’ Exit
Ann. Enter Charles. ’Mr. B. is come
with cheese, turnips, &c. Where are they to be
put?’ ‘I will attend to him myself.’
Exit Charles. Just seated at the table again.
Enter George, with, ‘Ma’am, here
is a man with a drove of pigs.’ A consultation
is held upon this important subject, the result of
which is the purchase of two spotted swine. Nine
o’clock. Enter Nathaniel from the upper
house, with a message for sundries; and black Thomas’s
daughter for sundries. Attended to all these
concerns. A little out of sorts that I could
not finish my breakfast. Note; never to be incommoded
with trifles. Enter George Adams from the post-office a
large packet from Russia, (to which court her son
J. Q. Adams was then minister.) Avaunt, all cares!
I put you all aside, and thus I find good news from
a far country. Children, grandchildren all well.
For this blessing I give thanks. At twelve o’clock,
by previous engagement, I was to call for cousin B.
Smith, to accompany me to the bridge at Quincy Port,
being the first day of passing it. Passed both
bridges, and entered Hingham. Returned before
three. Dined, and, at five, went to Mr. T. G.
Smith, with your grandfather the third visit
he has made with us in the week; and let me whisper
to you, he played at whist. Returned. At
nine, sat down and wrote a letter. At eleven,
retired to bed. By all this you will learn that
grandmother has got rid of her croaking, and that
grandfather is in good health, and that both of us
are as tranquil as that bold old fellow, Time, will
let us be. Here I was interrupted in my narrative.
I reassume my pen upon the 22d of November, being
this day sixty-eight years old."
From 1801 until her death, in 1818,
Mrs. Adams resided at Quincy. Cheerful and retaining
the possession of her faculties to the last, she enlivened
the social circle about her, and solaced the solitary
hours of her husband. She lived long enough to
see the seeds of virtue and knowledge which she had
planted in the minds of her children, spring up and
ripen into maturity; to receive a recompense, in addition
to the consciousness of duty performed, for her anxiety
and labors, in the respect and honors which her eldest
son received from his countrymen.