DISCIPLINE OF THE QUAKERS: CHAPTER V
Disowning — foundation
of the right of disowning — disowning no slight
punishment — wherein the hardship or suffering
consists.
I shall conclude the discipline of
the Quakers by making a few remarks on the subject
of disowning.
The Quakers conceive they have a right
to excommunicate or disown; because persons, entering
into any society, have a right to make their own reasonable
rules of membership, and so early as the year 1663,
this practice had been adopted by George Fox, and
those who were in religious union with him. Those,
who are born in the society, are bound of course,
to abide by these rules, while they continue to be
the rules of the general will, or to leave it.
Those who come into it by convincement, are bound
to follow them, or not to sue for admission into membership.
This right of disowning, which arises from the reasonableness
of the thing, the Quakers consider to have been pointed
out and established by the author of the christian
religion, who determined that if a disorderly
person, after having received repeated admonitions,
should still continue disorderly, he should be considered
as an alien by the church.
The observations, which I shall make
on the subject of disowning, will be wholly confined
to it as it must operate as a source of suffering to
those, who are sentenced to undergo it. People
are apt to say, “where is the hardship of being
disowned? a man, though disowned by the Quakers, may
still go to their meetings for worship, or he may worship
if he chooses, with other dissenters, or with those
of the church of England, for the doors of all places
of worship are open to those, who desire to enter
them.” I shall state therefore in what this
hardship consists, and I should have done it sooner,
but that I could never have made it so well understood
as after an explanation had been given of the discipline
of the Quakers, or as in the present place.
There is no doubt that a person, who
is disowned, will be differently affected by different
considerations. Something will depend upon the
circumstance, whether he considers himself as disowned
for a moral or a political offence. Something,
again, whether he has been in the habit of attending
the meetings for discipline, and what estimation he
may put upon these.
But whether he has been regular or
not in these attendances, it is certain that he has
a power and a consequence, while he remains in his
own society, which he loses when he leaves it, or when
he becomes a member of the world. The reader
will have already observed, that in no society is
a man, if I may use the expression, so much of a man,
as in that of the Quakers, or in no society is there
such an equality of rank and privileges. A Quaker
is called, as we have seen, to the exercise of important
and honourable functions.
He sits in his monthly meeting, as
it were in council, with the rest of the members.
He sees all equal but he sees none superior, to himself.
He may give his advice on any question. He may
propose new matter. He may argue and reply.
In the quarterly meetings he is called to the exercise
of the same privileges, but on a larger scale.
And at the yearly meeting he may, if he pleases, unite
in his own person the offices of council, judge, and
legislator. But when he leaves the society, and
goes out into the world, he has no such station or
power. He sees there every body equal to himself
in privileges, and thousands above him. It is
in this loss of his former consequence that he must
feel a punishment in having been disowned. For
he can never be to his own feelings what he was before.
It is almost impossible that he should not feel a diminution
of his dignity and importance as a man.
Neither can he restore himself to
these privileges by going to a distant part of the
kingdom and residing among quakers there, on a supposition
that his disownment may be concealed. For a Quaker,
going to a new abode among Quakers, must carry with
him a certificate of his conduct from the last monthly
meeting which he left, or he cannot be received as
a member.
But besides losing these privileges,
which confer consequence upon him, he looses others
of another kind. He cannot marry in the society.
His affirmation will be no longer taken instead of
his oath. If a poor man, he is no longer exempt
from the militia, if drawn by submitting to three
months imprisonment; nor is he entitled to that comfortable
maintenance, in case of necessity, which the society
provide for their own poor.
To these considerations it may not
perhaps be superfluous to add, that if he continues
to mix with the members of his own society, he will
occasionally find circumstances arising, which will
remind him of his former state: and if he transfers
his friendship to others, he will feel awkward and
uneasy, and out of his element, till he has made his
temper, his opinions, and his manners, harmonize with
those of his new associates of the world.