“Generally speaking, the intellectualist
phase [of a boy’s career] is remarkably brief.
Just occasionally its morals are such as to cause
the swift expulsion of its leaders. More often
they leave in the natural course of things, or grow
weary of their pose which has, indeed,
not made them popular and return after the
holidays frankly and unaffectedly Philistine.
This transient fashion is not new. What is
new is the deliberate encouragement given to it by
a certain type of assistant master. We do not
imply that the wise master will suppress...
That kind of intellectual measles will work itself
out... But to leave the phase alone is one thing;
deliberately to foster and give it official backing
is quite another.” The Church Times.
When the morality of the public schools
is being discussed, attention is usually concentrated
almost exclusively on that particular branch of morality
which is concerned with sex. Nor is this unnatural;
for sex plays so important a part in the life of a
growing boy, and the development of his character
is so closely bound up with the development of his
physical nature, that the determining part may be
very easily confused with the whole. Yet there
are many boys who are sexually virtuous, but filled
with the worst type of hardness and intolerance; many,
too, who are sexually vicious, yet full of love and
sympathy. To imagine that the problem of public
school morality is solved as soon as we have discovered
the best method of making public school boys continent,
is to look at the matter from an altogether too narrow
angle; for the sins of the spirit, we have been told,
are more unpardonable than the sins of the flesh.
Nevertheless, when we have said this,
as say it we must, the fact remains that the sex question
is one of overwhelming importance. For if once
self-indulgence is allowed to become firmly rooted
in a boy’s character, in the majority of cases
it will be ineradicable; and he will either be the
victim throughout a great part of his life of temptations
which he loathes, and which will be a constant source
of unhappiness to him, or he will end by acquiescing
in a manner of life which is degrading, it may be
to himself alone, it may be both to himself and others.
It will be urged, of course, as it has been urged
against every school novel which has attempted to give
a true picture of the “manners” of a school
house, that we are grotesquely exaggerating the whole
business; that there may be a problem in the case
of this boy or that, but that in general there is no
problem at all. This simply will not do.
There is a problem, and a very grave one; and we
had better anticipate the possibility of being misunderstood
by stating very directly what it is. We believe
that the number of cases in which boys have undesirable
relationships with one another is not very large,
but we believe also that there is a very great deal
of that purely personal self-indulgence, that purely
self-regarding licentiousness, which is the cause of
so much unhappiness in boyhood.
But the reader will already be asking,
“What is all this to do with political education?”
The connection is a close one. For the prevalence
of this particular form of immorality may be ascribed
to two main causes. At some time during early
adolescence the majority of boys automatically become
acquainted with the sensation of sex, and, as part
of a natural process, try to reproduce the pleasurable
experience. But why do so many of these repeat
and repeat the process, until the thing becomes a
habit for which they can find no escape? Partly
because the verbal warning which is given to them by
parents and masters is made in a wrong form, and partly
because there is not that constant joy and romance
in their daily lives in comparison with which temptation,
when it comes, will appear sordid and unworthy.
In the second place, there is an atmosphere in the
houses of tolerance towards these practices, accompanied
by constant discussion, sometimes open, sometimes
secret, which encourages and not rarely actually suggests
them. This is certainly true of many houses in
many schools. The house prefects, it is true,
usually try to suppress as much of the unhealthiness
as they can; but since, on the one hand, they are often
known to have been “as bad as any one”
in their day, and on the other they use the method
of pretending that these are things which no decent
boy could possibly be guilty of, they meet at best
with a very partial success, derived only from the
fear which they inspire.
The common method of dealing with
the evil is a system of “talks” by masters
and heads of houses. The “talks”
follow a fairly stereotyped plan; they are either
religious in nature, and contain references to “the
temple of the body,” or medical, and convey warnings
of the physical consequences which will follow if
excess is persisted in. Sometimes the two types
of address are dovetailed into a single whole.
Neither are wholly satisfactory. The medical
variety sometimes terrifies a sensitive boy, who will
imagine that his whole life is ruined and all his
chance of future happiness wrecked. He will become
somewhat morose, and not unfrequently will finally
turn, in his despair, to the very thing against which
he has been warned. On the other hand, and with
another type of boy, it often fails equally disastrously,
because, judged by the medical standards to which it
appeals, it is proved by experience to be unsound.
In his anxiety to create a strong impression the
schoolmaster will sometimes make statements that are
simply untrue. He will tell the boy that these
practices will ruin his cricket or his football.
No doubt it sometimes will; but it is more than likely
that the boy knows several highly successful athletes
who are, as the boy knows, though the master may not,
complete adepts in schoolboy vice. Then there
is the old threat, possibly obsolete to-day, though
one hesitates to say that anything is obsolete in
the conservative world with which we deal the
old threat that half the inmates of the asylums of
England have been brought there by this practice.
That, again, is simply untrue, and if the boy happens
to know it, the effect of such an untruth upon him
may be very bad. Equally unsuccessful, in the
majority of cases, is the religious talk. The
unspeculative, dogmatic type of school religion does
not make an appeal to the ordinary boy sufficiently
strong to override what he has found to be the most
fascinating thing in his experience. It is too
much a conventional decency imposed upon him from without,
too little a force within him which he has been helped
to develop, such as is alone powerful enough to contend
with a desire itself arising spontaneously from within.
And when the sermon is accompanied by exhortations
to pray against temptation, it is sometimes not only
useless, but (again in the case of the ordinary boy)
positively harmful. For to get into the habit
of praying against temptation means to get into the
habit of thinking about it, to become self-conscious,
and to succumb. Not but that there are some quite
young boys who feel Christ’s nearness to them
as Friend and Helper so vividly that they can gain
real strength from praying to Him. But we are
talking of the average boy; and the average boy is
not of this type.
Conversations between master and boy
on the subject are, of course, quite necessary and
often very helpful. Very often a boy is mystified,
or it may be terrified, by what seems to him some peculiarity
in his nature, and it may do him all the good in the
world to unburden his soul to some one older and more
experienced than himself. It is best, too, that
the House master should be the man to whom such a boy
naturally turns; though if the boy should prefer to
turn elsewhere, the fact should be to the House master
food for thought rather than for anger. Indeed,
while in one way there is far too much talk on this
subject, in another there is far too little.
Too much may easily be made of conventional “talks”
on conventional occasions. What is rather wanted
is a relationship between boy and master, created by
frank intercourse on other topics, such as will naturally
bring the boy to the master for help in these difficulties,
with the sure knowledge that the latter will not “lecture”
him, but will speak as one who has been through similar
difficulties in his own boyhood, and is anxious only
to help and to explain.
Under the present system, when the
verbal appeal fails, recourse is often had to corporal
punishment. We have no room here for a discussion
of the ethics of punishment; but a method more foolish
could scarcely be devised, if the aim is to enable
the boy to overcome temptation. And of all forms
of punishment, corporal punishment is the worst.
The physical side of the boy’s nature is asserting
itself in all its strength; and you attempt to combat
it by making a physical appeal which must from the
nature of the case be far less powerful and compelling.
Moreover, any one with even a slight knowledge of
sexual psychology (and it is curious how few schoolmasters
take the trouble to acquire such knowledge) is aware
that given a certain temperament on the part whether
of the giver or the receiver, perils lurk in this form
of punishment of the very type which it is designed
to meet.
But the only sound way of combating
the over-development of one side of a boy’s
nature is to develop the other. Make a boy’s
whole life one of joy and interest; let him live with
a constant sense of the beauty of grass and sky, of
the exultation of vital work, of the happiness of
love and friendship. As the days go by, let him
feel his latent powers developing, and glory in the
thought that they have been given him for his own
joy and that of humanity. Then when temptation
comes to him, and he remembers how its indulgence
has left him slack and bored, it will seem to him
like a candle-flame in the sun of his happiness, a
wretched little mean and unworthy thing breaking in
on and threatening to ruin the peace and harmony of
his life. And so he will not give it a second
thought, and soon all danger will be over. This
may seem preposterously difficult. It is:
but it is also the only way. The master cannot
do it for the boy, but he can perhaps give the boys
some help towards doing it for themselves.
What we want is that every house should
become a small community of boys carrying on together
absorbingly interesting and romantic activities a
kind of club in which they may forgather and undertake
in common the intellectual and spiritual adventure
which thus become a part of their individual daily
lives.
In this way there will be none of
that boredom, that feeling of “having nothing
on earth to do or think about,” the presence
of which is the chief cause impelling a boy to turn
to the one thing which at least can provide him at
any moment with a temporary excitement. Rather
will his whole nature develop harmoniously, and sex,
about which we have become too self-conscious, take
its proper place as the (normally) unconscious inspirer
of many of our most vital activities and happiest emotions.
And once morbidity has been put away, and with it the
constant preoccupation of boys and masters with this
one topic, and all that suspicion and suggestiveness
which we know so well, then the graver problem which
has to do with the relationship of boy to boy will
be found to have been solved at the same time.
No one who knows a public school is likely to deny
that sexual emotion is nearly always an element in
the intensest schoolboy friendships; but that makes
them neither the less lovely nor the less desirable.
Indeed, the value of such friendships at their finest
cannot be overestimated. For when a boy “falls
in love,” he learns for the first time something
of the real splendour of living: he comes into
his birthright of beauty and ecstacy, and understands
how the greatest happiness is to be found in doing
everything for the service of another. There
is something very loathsome about the spying, and
secretiveness, the jokes and unclean hintings which,
in the majority of schools, make such a friendship
appear a thing to be ashamed rather than proud of,
and often in the end actually render it shameful.
Given a clean atmosphere, an absence of suspicion
on the part of masters and of morbidity on that of
boys, and we believe that very rarely would physical
acts result from schoolboy love.
But the reader will be asking, for
the second time, “What is all this to do with
political education?” And again we answer everything.
For we believe that the joy in life, and the intellectual
interest of which we have spoken can be awakened from
where they lie dormant in a boy’s nature by
political education. The subject is the boy’s
own destiny as a member of human society and a part
of the universe (for it will be remembered that we
include ethics and philosophy with history and politics
under the one broad heading); and there is hardly a
boy who does not find, at best in all these subjects,
at worst in one of them, the inspiration to vital
work and the sense of living well, which goes with
it. The boys start reading, widely; a thousand
topics occupy their attention; poetry, plays, novels all
these are reached from the one starting point.
Then clubs and groups of various kinds are started
in their houses; and the sex problem has become as
much as it ever can become, a thing of the past.
Nor, we may add, are we merely theorising, and talking of
hypothetical goods which might conceivably follow from the adoption of our plan.
All that we have written of is within our own experience. Time after time while
we were making our experiments did we come across cases of boys whose moral
health had been saved by their new-found interest. One had turned to physical
excitement as the only possible relief from the tedium of Latin grammar; after a
year under the altered circumstances he turned to it no longer. The parents of
another (a boy of about sixteen) had attempted to base his morality solely on
Christian dogma, which meant nothing to him; and the result was disastrous. But
a course of lectures on Platos philosophy gave him what religion had previously
failed to give him a belief in an ideal and the distinction between right and
wrong, and a determination to do always what seemed to him the absolute best. But by far the most
remarkable results were achieved in the house of which
we have already spoken in Chapter I. During his first
fortnight of office, the new head boy followed the
old method; he examined all suspicious cases, discovered
some that he had not suspected, and dealt out the
traditional treatment. Then he followed the old
method no longer; nor did he ever return to it from
that day till the day when he finally left the school
before his time. Instead, he set about interesting
the boys in politics. We have already described
the course of his experiments; how enthusiasm, kindled
over newspapers, spread to plays, to poetry, to pictures,
and to music. And the result? The house
was transformed: it became such a place as every
mother hopes the house where her own son is may be.
And yet during the whole time of which we are speaking
only one boy was beaten, and he for an act quite unrelated
to the seventh or indeed to any other of the Ten Commandments.
NOTE. A fortnight after
the writing of the present book was projected, one
of the writers was dispatched on military duty to India,
and the above chapter was sent home from “Somewhere”
in “Somewhere” I believe Taranto.
Close co-operation in authorship became impossible,
and upon his collaborator in England devolved the
responsibility of sole editorship. I leave the
above chapter almost as it was written, for there
is about it, as it seems to me, an indomitable optimism
which was a characteristic of the writer’s work
and a cause of its success.
Still, in so far as it suggests that
a complete solution has been found for a problem I
believe to be insoluble, I must in honesty add a few
words on my own account.
Our direct experience, or the more
remarkable part of it, amounts to this: that
a certain head of a house achieved during the course
of a year, using the methods described, an uplifting
of the whole tone of his house that can only be described
as marvellous. Other heads elsewhere have no
doubt achieved similar results by other means, though
we have never come across an example equally remarkable.
The goal can be reached, presumably, by the road
of saintliness. It might be reached, though
it is doubtful, by the road of Puritanism and “efficiency,”
the appeal to abstinence and “living hard.”
It cannot be reached, that is certain, by merely
disciplinary methods and the appeal to fear, for the
commonest form of schoolboy vice is such that, even
allowing for the casualness of boys, it will not be
detected once in a hundred cases.
Something, however, must be discounted
from this result, by reason of the fact that the experiments
were new. These boys had an enthusiasm bred
of the fact that they rightly felt themselves to be
pioneers. They felt themselves to be making history,
certainly for the first, possibly for the last, time
in their lives, and whether you admire them or whether
you laugh at them, making history they were, so far
as their own world was concerned. It seems doubtful
whether the spiritual force engendered would have
lasted at full strength when the thing had become
normal, and it was no longer possible to start the
hare of some new “stunt” (as they called
it, I am sorry to say) once every two or three weeks.
The experiment was cut short in its prime, and how
it would have developed when the first generation
of enthusiasts had passed away, one cannot say.
As for the other houses, something
had been begun in two or three, but nothing of much
value had been achieved. The minorities hesitated
between a desire to imitate and a desire to be quite
original, and the majorities looked a trifle askance
upon the whole affair. And the masters came
in here and put every sort of difficulty in the way,
for by this time the collapse was visibly approaching.
None the less, the lines on which
this strange and temporary achievement was based are
the only lines along which the moral problem can be
grappled with. A perfectly “pure”
public school is as impossible as a perfectly satisfactory
Marriage Law. A few incorrigibly bad boys there
will always be incorrigible, that is, when
they have reached public school age. Hopelessly
inanimate and feeble boys there will be also, doomed
to become the victims of the bad. But the present
moral average might be immensely raised, and the plain
way to raise it is to provide other adventures for
the soul. A boy once said to me, speaking of
the matter in hand, “You see, it’s the
only thing I’ve ever found to do here really
‘on my own.’” It was, in fact,
his one adventure. No amount of class-room tasks,
however well devised, no amount of organised games,
however healthy, no amount of school religion, however
sincere, could fill that gap. We must put the
boys on the lines to organise their own adventures,
and the only adventures that can compete with this
absorbing adventure of misapplied sexuality, must
be adventures that really lead up to the highest and
best things of life. It was only when he found
an empire to save that Clive ceased to be a young
ruffian. Nothing lower than “politics”
will suffice.