More hopeful than all wisdom is one
draught of human pity that will not forsake us.
Laughing is one of the products of
civilization. In the uncivilized tribes laughter
is entirely unknown.
Let him who neglects to raise the
fallen fear lest, when he falls, no one will stretch
out his hand to lift him up.
Time is a species of wealth which
it is impossible for us to hoard, but which we may
spend to good advantage.
Character is the eternal temple that
each one begins to rear, yet death can only complete
it. The finer the architecture, the more fit
for the indwelling of angels.
It is only by labor that thought can be made healthy, and
only by thought that labor can be made happy; and the two can not be separated
with impunity. John Ruskin.
Don’t moralize to a man who
is on his back. Help him up, set him firmly
on his feet, and then give him advice and means.
There is a pleasure in contemplating
good; there is a greater pleasure in receiving good;
but the greatest pleasure of all is in doing good,
which comprehends the rest.
Morality without religion is only
a kind of dead reckoning an endeavor to
navigate a cloudy sea by measuring the distance we
have to run, but without observation of the heavenly
bodies.
Most people keep too strong a hold
of their personality to be able to forget themselves
in their subject; they carry an unacknowledged self-consciousness
along with them. If to be single-minded is to
have an undivided interest in things, they are not
single-minded.
Real affection is independent.
A woman may passionately love a man who does not
care for her, and men have gone mad for the sake of
women who were indifferent to them. That affection
which survives coldness or even contempt on the part
of the subject is a stronger proof of its strength
than jealousy, however well founded.
To have a respect for ourselves guides
our morals, and to have a deference for others governs
our manners.
If you want to be miserable, think
about yourself, about what you want, what you like,
what respect people pay you, and what people think
of you.
One great impediment to the rapid
dissemination of new truths is that a knowledge of
them would convict many sage professors of having long
promulgated error.
The leaves that give out the sweetest
fragrance are those that are the most cruelly crushed;
so the hearts of those who have suffered most can
feel for others’ woes.
Each of us can so believe in humanity in general as to
contribute to that pressure which constantly levers up the race; can surround
ourselves with an atmosphere optimistic rather than the contrary. Selected.
He who has more knowledge than good works is like a tree with
many branches and few roots, which the first wind throws on its face; while he
who does more than he says is like a tree with strong roots and few branches,
which all the winds can not uproot. Talmud.
If we waited until it was perfectly
convenient, half of the good actions of life would
never be accomplished, and very few of its successes.
A helping word to one in trouble is
often like a switch on a railroad track, but one inch
between wreck and smooth rolling prosperity.
Prayer is the key of day and lock
of the night; and we should every day begin and end,
bid ourselves good morrow and good night, with prayer.
In order to love mankind, expect but
little from them; in order to view their faults without
bitterness, pardon them. The wisest men have
always been the most indulgent.
There are souls which fall from heaven
like flowers, but ere the pure and fresh buds can
open they are trodden in the dust of the earth, and
lie soiled and crushed under the foul tread of some
brutal hoof.
Many of the men we calmly set down
as failures may have been doing as much as those who
have made ten times as much noise in the world.
A great deal of the best work in the world is anonymous,
if we do not confine the term to writing.
To a man of brave sentiments midnight
is as bright as noonday, for the illumination is within.
That man who lives in vain lives worse than vain. He
who lives to no purpose lives to a bad purpose. Nevins.
Labor is the law of the world, and
he who lives by other men’s means is of less
value to the world than the buzzing, busy insect.
Deep is the sea, and deep is hell, but pride runneth deeper;
it is coiled as a poisonous worm about the foundation of the soul. Tupper.
The integrity of the heart, when it
is strengthened by reason, is the principal source
of justice and wit; an honest man thinks nearly always
justly.
Be firm, but be not too hasty to decide;
weigh well before you act, but, having weighed, act
promptly, and abide the result. This is the
test of judgment.
Wit loses its respect with the good
when seen in company with malice; and to smile at
the jest which plants a thorn in another’s breast
is to become a principal in the mischief.
Success never did, never will come
to that young man who knows everything in
his own opinion.
In love, as in everything else, truth
is the strongest of all things, and frankness is but
another name for truth.
Frequent disappointment teaches us
to mistrust our own inclination, and shrink even from
vows our hearts may prompt.
For children there is no leave-taking,
for they acknowledge no past, only the present, that
to them is full of the future.
To love, in order to be loved in return,
is man, but to love for the pure sake of loving, is
almost the characteristic of an angel.
Fond as a man is of sight-seeing,
life is the great show for every man the
show always wonderful and new to the thoughtful.
The sweetest book in all the world,
if properly read, is the Bible. Its leaves are
as fragrant as a bed of violets in full bloom.
Pity gilds mortality with rays of
immortal light, and through faith enables its possessor
to triumph over sin, sorrow, tribulation and death.
If we can not live so as to be happy, let us at least live so
as to deserve happiness. Fichte.
Little by little fortunes are accumulated;
little by little knowledge is gained; little by little
character and reputation are achieved.
Don’t rely for success upon
empty praise. The swimmer upon the stream of
life must be able to keep afloat without the aid of
bladders.
Industry In seeking a situation,
remember that the right kind of men are always in
demand, and that industry and capacity rarely go empty-handed.
Frankness is the child of honesty
and courage. Say just what you mean to do on
every occasion, and take it for granted that you mean
to do what is right.
To be always intending to lead a new
life, but never to find time to set about it, is as
if a man should put off eating from one day to another
till he is starved.
A man loved by a beautiful and virtuous
woman carries a talisman that renders him invulnerable;
every one feels that such a one’s life has a
higher value than that of others.
The great beauty of charity is privacy;
there is a sweet force, even in an anonymous penny.
Every heart has its secret sorrows,
and oftentimes we call a man cold when he was only
sad.
A promise should be given with caution,
and kept with care; it should be made with the heart
and kept with the head.
“The mind of a young creature,”
says Berkely, “can not remain empty; if you
do not put into it that which is good, it will be sure
to use even that which is bad.”
We all see at sunset the beautiful
colors streaming all over the western sky, but no
eyes can behold the hand that overturns the urns whence
these streams are poured.
We often live under a cloud, and it
is well for us that we should do so. Uninterrupted
sunshine would parch our hearts. We want shade
and rain to cool and refresh them.
Poverty is very terrible to you, and
kills the soul in you sometimes; but it is the north
wind that lashed men into vikings; it is the soft,
luscious south wind that lulls to lotus dreams.
There is nothing so valuable, and
yet so cheap, as civility; you can almost buy land
with it.
It has been justly said nothing in man is so Godlike as doing
good to our fellows. Selected.
Contentment swells a mite into a talent, and makes even the
poor richer than the Indies. Addison.
Never was a sincere word utterly lost,
never a magnanimity fell to the ground; there is some
heart always to greet and accept it unexpectedly.
There are people who often talk of
the humbleness of their origin, when they are really
ashamed of it, though vain of the talent which enabled
them to emerge from it.
A witty old deacon put it thus:
“Now, brethren, let us get up a supper and eat
ourselves rich. Buy your food, then give it to
the church; then go and buy it back again; then eat
it up, and your church debt is paid.”
Self-sacrifice is the essential mark of the Christian, and
the absence of it is sufficient at once to condemn the man who calls himself by
that name and yet has it not, and to declare that he has no right to it. Bolton.
There are many comfortable people
in the world, but to call any man perfectly happy
is an insult.
Women often make light of ruin. Give them but the
beloved objects, and poverty is but a trifling sorrow to bear. Thackeray,
Independence is a name for what no
man possesses; nothing in the animate or inanimate
world is more dependent than man.
Wealth is to be used only as an instrument of action, not as
the representative of civil honors and moral excellence. Jane Porter.
There is nothing purer, nothing warmer than our first
friendship, our first love, our first striving after truth, our first feeling
for nature. Jean
Paul Richter.
Shakespeare is as much out of the category of eminent authors
as he is out of the crowd. He is inconceivably wise; the others
conceivably. Representative
Men.
A smooth sea never made a skillful
mariner. Neither do uninterrupted prosperity
and success qualify a man for usefulness and happiness.
The storms of adversity, like the storms of the ocean,
arouse the faculties and excite the invention, prudence,
skill and fortitude of the voyager.
It is not work that hurts men.
It is the corrosion of uncertainty; it is the anticipation
of trouble; it is living in a state of painful apprehension.
Therefore we should endeavor to rise out of the atmosphere
of gloomy forebodings. The man who is lifted
above fear and its whole brood of mischief can go
through twice as much trouble as a man who is subject
to its influence.
He that looks out upon life from a
sour or severe disposition, with hard and stringent
notions, is ill prepared to meet the experiences of
the world; but he who has the sweetness of hope, he
who has an imagination lit up with cheerfulness, he
who has the sense of humor which softens all things he
who has this atmosphere of the mind has
made himself superior to accident. As the angel
described by Milton, who was smitten by the sword,
and whose wounds healed as soon as the sword was withdrawn,
so ought man to be; and when he receives a spear thrust
in life, no sooner should the spear be withdrawn than
his flesh ought to “close and be itself again.”
A married man falling into misfortune
is more apt to retrieve his situation in the world
than a single one, chiefly because his spirits are
soothed and retrieved by domestic endearments, and
his self-respect kept alive by finding that, although
all abroad is darkness and humiliation, yet there
is a little world of love at home over which he is
monarch.