I.
Men have been found to deny woman
an intellect; they have credited her with instinct,
with intuition, with a capacity to correlate cause
and effect much as a dog connects its collar with
a walk. But intellect in its broadest sense,
the capacity consecutively to plan and steadfastly
to execute, they have often denied her.
The days are not now so dark.
Woman has a place in the state, a place under, but
still a place. Man has recognized her value without
coming to understand her much better, and so we are
faced with a paradox: while man accords woman
an improved social position, he continues to describe
her as illogical, petty, jealous, vain, untruthful,
disloyal to her own sex; quite as frequently he charges
her with being over-loyal to her own sex: there
is no pleasing him. Also he discerns in this unsatisfactory
creature extreme unselfishness, purity, capacity for
self-sacrifice. It seems that the intelligence
of man cannot solve the problem of woman, which is
a bad sign in a superior intelligence. The trouble
lies in this: man assumes too readily that woman
essentially differs from man. Hardly a man has
lived who did not so exaggerate. Nietzsche, Schopenhauer,
agreed to despise women; Napoleon seemed to view them
as engines of pleasure; for Shakespeare they may well
have embodied a romantic ideal, qualified by sportive
wantonness. In Walter Scott, women appear as
romance in a cheap edition; Byron in their regard is
a beast of prey, Doctor Johnson a pompous brute and
a puritanical sensualist. Cervantes mixed in
his romantic outlook a sort of suspicious hatred,
while Alexandre Dumas thought them born only to lay
laurel wreaths and orange blossoms (together with
coronets) on the heads of musketeers. All, all from
Thackeray, who never laid his hand upon a woman save
in the way of patronage, to Goethe, to Dante, to Montaigne,
to Wellington all harbored this curious
idea: in one way or another woman differs from
man. And to-day, whether we read Mr. Bernard Shaw,
Mr. George Moore, M. Paul Bourget, or Mr. Hall Caine,
we find that there still persists a belief in Byron’s
lines:
“What a strange thing is man!
And what a stranger
Is woman!”
Almost every man, except the professional
Lovelace (and he knows nothing), believes in the mystery
of woman. I do not. For men are also mysterious
to women; women are quite as puzzled by our stupidity
as by our subtlety. I do not believe that there
is either a male or a female mystery; there is only
the mystery of mankind. There are to-day differences
between the male and the female intellect; we have
to ask ourselves whether they are absolute or only
apparent, or whether they are absolute but removable
by education and time, assuming this to be desirable.
I believe that these differences are superficial, temporary,
traceable to hereditary and local influences.
I believe that they will not endure forever, that
they will tend to vanish as environment is modified,
as old suggestions cease to be made.
This leads us to consider present
idiosyncrasies in woman as a sex, her apparently low
and apparently high impulses, her exaltations, and,
in the light of her achievements, her future.
I do not want to generalize hastily. The subject
is too complex and too obscure for me to venture so
to do, and I would ask my readers to remember throughout
this chapter that I am not laying down the law, but
trying only to arrive at the greatest possible frequency
of truth. This is a short research of tendencies.
There are human tendencies, such as belief in a divine
spirit, painting pictures, making war, composing songs.
Are there any special female tendencies? Given
that we glimpse what distinguishes man from the beast,
is there anything that distinguishes woman from man?
In the small space at my disposal I cannot pretend
to deal extensively with the topic. One reason
is the difficulty of securing true evidence.
Questions addressed to women do not always yield the
truth; nor do questions addressed to men; for a desire
to please, vanity, modesty, interfere. But the
same question addressed to a woman may, according to
circumstances, be sincerely answered in four
ways,
1. Truthfully,
with a defensive touch, if she is alone with another
woman.
2. With intent
to cause male rivalry if she is with two men.
3. With false modesty
and seductive evasiveness if she is with one
man and one woman.
4. With a clear
intention to repel or attract if she is with a man
alone.
And there are variations of these
four cases! A man investigating woman’s
points of view often finds the response more emotional
than intellectual. Owing to the system under
which we live, where man is a valuable prey, woman
has contracted the habit of trying to attract.
Even aggressive insolence on her part may conceal
the desire to attract by exasperating. These
notes must, therefore, be taken only as hints, and
the reader may be interested to know that they are
based on the observation of sixty-five women, subdivided
as follows: Intimate acquaintance, five; adequate
acquaintance, nineteen; slight acquaintance, forty-one;
married, thirty-nine; status uncertain, eight; celibate,
eighteen. Ages, seventeen to sixty-eight (average
age, about thirty-five).
II.
It is most difficult to deduce the
quality of woman’s intellect from her conduct,
because her impulses are frequently obscured by her
policy. The physical circumstances of her life
predispose her to an interest in sex more dominant
than is the case with man. As intellect flies
out through the window when emotion comes in at the
door, this is a source of complications. The
intervention of love is a difficulty, for love, though
blind, is unfortunately not dumb, and habitually uses
speech for the concealment of truth. It does
this with the best of intentions, and the best of
intentions generally yield the worst of results.
It should be said that sheer intellect is very seldom
displayed by man. Intellect is the ideal skeleton
of a man’s mental power. It may be defined
as an aspiration toward material advantage, absolute
truth, or achievement, combined with a capacity for
taking steps toward successful achievement or attaining
truth. From this point of view such men as Napoleon,
Machiavelli, Epictetus, Leo XIII, Bismarck, Voltaire,
Anatole France, are typical intellectuals. They
are not perfect: all, so far as we can tell,
are tainted with moral feeling or emotion, a
frailty which probably explains why there has never
been a British or American intellectual of the first
rank. Huxley, Spencer, Darwin, Cromwell, all
alike suffered grievously from good intentions.
The British and American mind has long been honeycombed
with moral impulse, at any rate since the Reformation;
it is very much what the German mind was up to the
middle of the nineteenth century. Intellect, as
I conceive it, is seeing life sanely and seeing it
whole, without much pity, without love; seeing life
as separate from man, whose pains and delights are
only phenomena; seeing love as a reaction to certain
stimuli.
In this sense it can probably be said
that no woman has ever been an intellectual.
A few may have pretensions, as, for instance, “Vernon
Lee,” Mrs. Sidney Webb, Mrs. Wharton, perhaps
Mrs. Hetty Green. I do not know, for these women
can be judged only by their works. The greatest
women in history Catherine of Russia, Joan
of Arc, Sappho, Queen Elizabeth appear
to have been swayed largely by their passions, physical
or religious. I do not suppose that this will
always be the case. For reasons which I shall
indicate further on in this chapter, I believe that
woman’s intellect will tend toward approximation
with that of man. But meanwhile it would be futile
not to recognize that there exist to-day between man
and woman some sharp intellectual divergences.
One of the sharpest lies in woman’s
logical faculty. This may be due to her education
(which is seldom mathematical or scientific); it may
proceed from a habit of mind; it may be the result
of a secular withdrawal from responsibilities other
than domestic. Whatever the cause, it must be
acknowledged that, with certain trained exceptions,
woman has not of logic the same conception as man.
I have devoted particular care to this issue, and
have collected a number of cases where the feminine
conception of logic clashes with that of man.
Here are a few transcribed from my notebook:
Case 33
My remark: “Most people
practice a religion because they are too cowardly
to face the idea of annihilation.”
Case 33: “I don’t
see that they are any more cowardly than you.
It doesn’t matter whether you have a faith or
not, it will be all the same in the end.”
The reader will observe that Case
33 evades the original proposition; in her reply she
ignores the set question, namely why people practice
a religion.
Case 17
Votes for Women, of January
22, 1915, prints a parallel, presumably drawn by a
woman, between two police-court cases. In the
first a man, charged with having struck his wife,
is discharged because his wife intercedes for him.
In the second a woman, charged with theft, is sent
to prison in spite of her husband’s plea.
The writer appears to think that these cases are parallel;
the difference of treatment of the two offenders offends
her logic. From a masculine point of view two
points differentiate the cases:
In the first case the person who may
be sent to prison is the bread-winner; in the second
case it is the housekeeper, which is inconvenient
but less serious.
In the first case the person who intercedes,
the wife, is the one who has suffered; in the second
case the person who intercedes, the husband, has not
suffered injury. The person who has suffered injury
is the one who lost the goods.
Case 51
This case is peculiar as it consists
in frequent confusion of words. The woman here
instanced referred to a very ugly man as looking Semitic.
She was corrected and asked whether she did not mean
simian, that is, like a monkey. She said, “Yes,”
but that Semitic meant looking like a monkey.
When confronted with the dictionary, she was compelled
to acknowledge that the two words were not the same,
but persisted in calling the man Semitic, and seriously
explained this by asserting that Jews look like monkeys.
Case 51, in another conversation,
referred to a man who had left the Church of England
for the Church of Rome as a “pervert.”
She was asked whether she did not mean “convert.”
She said, “No, because to become
a Roman Catholic is the act of a pervert.”
As I thought that this might come
from religious animus, I asked whether a Roman Catholic
who entered a Protestant church was also a pervert.
Case 51 replied, “Yes.”
Case 51 therefore assumes that any
change from an original state is abnormal. The
application to the charge of bad logic consists in
this further test:
I asked Case 51 whether a man originally
brought up in Conservative views would be a pervert
if he became a Liberal.
Case 51 replied, “No.”
On another occasion Case 51 referred
to exaggerated praise showered upon a popular hero,
and said that the newspapers were “belittling”
him.
I pointed out that they were doing
the very contrary; that indeed they were exaggerating
his prowess.
Confronted with the dictionary, and the meaning of
belittle, which is to cheapen with intent, she insisted that belittling
was the correct word because the result of this exaggerated praise was to make
the man smaller in her own mind."
Case 63
In the course of a discussion on the
war in which Case 63 has given vent to moral and religious
views, she remarks, “Thou shalt not kill.”
I: “Then do you accept war?”
Case 63: “War ought to be done away with.”
I (attempting to get a straight answer): “Do
you accept war?”
Case 63: “One must defend one’s self.”
Upon this follows a long argument
in which I attempt to prove to Case 63 that one defends,
not one’s self but the nation. When in difficulties
she repeats, “One must defend one’s self.”
She refuses to face the fact that
if nobody offered any resistance, nobody would be
killed; she completely confuses the defense of self
against a burglar with that of a nation against an
invader. Finally she assumes that the defense
of one’s country is legitimate, and yet insists
on maintaining with the Bible that one may not kill!
Case 33
Case 33: “Why didn’t
America interfere with regard to German atrocities
in Belgium?”
I: “Why should she?”
Case 33: “America did protest when her
trade was menaced.”
I: “Yes. America wanted
to protect her interests, but does it follow that
she should protest against atrocities which do not
menace her interests?”
Case 33: “But her interests
are menaced. Look at the trade complications;
they’ve all come out of that.”
Case 33 has confused trade interests
with moral duty; she has confused two issues:
atrocities against neutrals and destruction of American
property. When I tell her this, she states that
there is a connection: that if America had protested
against atrocities, the war would have proceeded on
better lines because the Germans would have been frightened.
I: “How would this have affected the trade
question?”
Case 33 does not explain but draws
me into a morass of moral indignation because America
protested against trade interference and not against
atrocities. She finally says America had no right
to do the one without the other, which logically is
chaos. She also demands to be told what was the
use of America’s signing the Geneva Convention
and the Hague Convention. She ignores the fact
that these conventions do not bind anybody to fight
in their defense but merely to observe their provisions.
I would add that Case 33 is a well-educated woman,
independent in views, and with a bias toward social
questions.
Naturally, where there is a question
of love, feminine logic reaches the zenith of topsy-turvy-dom.
Here is a dialogue which took place in my presence.
Case 8
Case 8, who was about to be married,
attacked a man who had had a pronounced flirtation
with her because he suddenly announced that he was
engaged.
Case 8: “How can you be so mean?”
The man: “But I don’t
understand. You’re going to be married.
What objection can you have to my getting engaged?”
Case 8: Its quite different. Nothing could move Case 8
from that point of view.
I do not contend that bad logic is
the monopoly of woman, for man is also disposed to
believe what he chooses in matters such as politics,
wars, and so forth, and then to try to prove it.
Englishmen as well as Englishwomen find victory in
the capture of a German trench, insignificance in
the loss of a British trench; man, as well as woman,
is quite capable of saying that it always rains when
the Republicans are in power, should he happen to
be a Democrat; man also is capable of tracing to a
dinner with twelve guests the breaking of a leg, while
forgetting the scores of occasions on which he dined
in a restaurant with twelve other people and suffered
no harm. Man is capable of every unreasonable
deduction, but he is more inclined to justify himself
by close reasoning. In matters of argument, man
is like the Italian brigand who robs the friar, then
confesses and asks him for absolution; woman is the
burglar unrepentant. This may be due to woman
as a rule having few guiding principles or intellectual
criteria. She often holds so many moral principles
that intellectual argument with her irritates the
crisper male mind. But she finds it difficult
to retain a grasp upon a central idea, to clear away
the side issues which obscure it. She can seldom
carry an idea to its logical conclusion, passing from
term to term; somewhere there is a solution of continuity.
For this reason arguments with women, which have begun
with the latest musical play, easily pass on, from
its alleged artistic merit, to its costumes, their
scantiness, their undesirable scantiness, the need
for inspection, inspectors of theaters, and, little
by little, other inspectors, until one gets to mining
inspectors and possibly to mining in general.
The reader will observe that these ideas are fairly
well linked. All that happens is that the woman,
tiring of the central argument, has pursued each side
issue as it offered itself. This comes from a
lack of concentration which indisposes a woman to
penetrate deeply into a subject; she is not used to
concentration, she does not like it. It might
lead her to disagreeable discoveries.
It is for this reason because
she needs to defend purely emotional positions against
man, who uses intellectual weapons that
woman is so much more easily than man attracted by
new religions and new philosophies by Christian
Science, by Higher Thought, by Theosophy, by Eucken,
by Bergson. Those religions are no longer spiritual;
they have an intellectual basis; they are not ideal
religions like Christianity and Mohammedanism and
the like, which frankly ask you to make an act of
faith; what they do is to attempt to seduce the alleged
soul through the intellect. That is exactly what
the aspiring woman demands: emotional satisfaction
and intellectual concession. Particularly in America,
one discovers her intellectual fog in the continual
use of such words as mental, elemental, cosmic, universality,
social harmony, essential cosmos, and other similar
ornaments of the modern logomachy.
Case 16
Case 16 told me that my mind did not
“functionalize” properly. And gave
me as an authority for the statement Aristotle, before
whom, of course, I bow.
A singular and suggestive fact is
that woman generally displays pitiless logic when
she is dealing with things that she knows well.
An expert housekeeper is the type, and there are no
lapses in her argument with a tradesman. It is
a platitude to mention the business capacity of the
Frenchwoman, and many women are expert in the investment
of money, in the administration of detail, in hospital
management, in the rotation of servants’ holidays
(which, in large households, is most complex).
It would appear that woman is unconcentrated and inconsequent
only where she has not been properly educated, and
this has a profound bearing on her future development.
There is a growing class, of which Mrs. Fawcett, Mrs.
Havelock Ellis, the Countess of Warwick, Miss Jane
Addams, are typical, who have bent their minds upon
intellectual problems; women like Miss Emma Goldman;
like Miss Mary McArthur, whose grasp of industrial
questions is as good as any man’s. They
differ profoundly from the average feminine literary
artist, who is almost invariably unable to write of
anything except love. I can think of only one
modern exception, Miss Amber Reeves; among
her seniors, Mrs. Humphry Ward is the most notable
exception, but not quite notable enough.
This tendency is, I believe, entirely
due to woman having always been divorced from business
and politics, to her having been until recently encouraged
to delight in small material possessions, while discouraged
from focusing on anything non-material except religion,
and from considering general ideas. Particularly
as regards general ideas woman has lived in a bad
atmosphere. The French king who said to his queen,
“Madam, we have taken you to give us children
and not to give us advice,” was blowing a chill
breath upon the tender shoot of woman’s intelligence.
Neither he nor other men wished women to conceive general
ideas: women became incapable of conceiving or
understanding them. Thence sprang generalization,
the tendency in woman to make sweeping statements,
such as “All men are deceivers,” or “Men
can do what they like in the world,” or “Men
cannot feel as women do.” It is not that
they dislike general questions, but that they have
been thrust back from general questions, so that they
cannot hold them. Here is a case:
Case 2
With the object of entertaining an
elderly lady, who is an invalid, I explain, in
response to her own request, the case that Germany
makes for having declared war. She asks one or
two questions, and then suddenly interrupts me to
ask what I have been doing with myself lately in the
evenings.
This is a case of interest in the
particular as opposed to the general. It is an
instance of what I want to show, that woman
drifts toward the particular because she has been
driven away from the general. To concentrate
too long upon the general is to her merely fatiguing.
Doubtless because of this, many middle-aged women become
exceedingly dull to men. So long as they are
young all is well, for few men care what folly issues
from rosy lips. But once the lips are no longer
rosy, then man fails to find the companion he needs,
because companionship, as differentiated from love,
can rest only on mental sympathy. Middle-aged
man is often dull too; while the middle-aged woman
may concern herself overmuch with the indigestion
of her pet dog, the middle-aged man is often unduly
moved by his own indigestion. But, broadly speaking,
a greater percentage of middle-aged and elderly men
than of such women are interested in political and
philosophical questions.
These men are often dull for another
reason: they are more conventional. The
reader may differ from me, but I believe that woman
is much less conventional than man. She does
all the conventional things and attacks other women
savagely for breaches of convention. But you will
generally find that where a man may with impunity
break a convention he will not do so, while, if secrecy
is guaranteed, a woman will please herself first and
repent only if necessary. It follows that a man
is conventional because he respects convention; woman
conventional because she is afraid of what may happen
if she does not obey convention. I submit that
this shows a greater degree of conventionality in man.
The typical Englishman of the world, wrecked on a
desert island, would get into his evening clothes
as long as his shirts lasted; I do not think his wife,
alone in such circumstances, would wear a low-cut dress
to take her meal of cocoanuts, even if her frock did
up in front.
It is this unconventionality that
precipitates woman into the so-called new movements
in art or philosophy. She reacts against what
is, seeking a new freedom; even if she is only seeking
a new excitement, a new color, a new god, unconsciously
she seeks a more liberal atmosphere, while man is
nearly always contented with the atmosphere that is.
When he rebels, his tendency is to destroy the old
sanctuary, hers to build a new sanctuary. That
is a form of idealism, not a very high idealism,
for woman seldom strains toward the impossible.
In literature I cannot call to mind that woman has
ever conceived a Utopia such as those imagined by
Bellamy, Samuel Butler, William Morris, and H. G. Wells.
The only woman who voiced ideas of this kind was Mary
Wollstonecraft, and her views were hardly utopian.
Nothings, such as Utopias, have been always too airy
for woman. The heroes in the novels she has written,
until recently and with one or two exceptions, such
as some of the heroes of George Eliot, are
either stagey or sweet. Mr. Rochester is stagey,
Grandcourt is stagey, while the hero of “Under
Two Flags” is merely Turkish Delight.
III.
A quality which singularly contrasts with womans vague
idealism is the accuracy she displays in business. This is due to her being
fundamentally inaccurate. It is not the accurate people who are always accurate;
it is the inaccurate people on their guard. Woman’s interest in
the particular predisposes her to the exact, for accuracy
may be defined as a continuous interest in the particular.
I suspect that it indicates a probability that by
education, and especially encouragement, woman may
develop a far higher degree of concentration than
she has hitherto done. In her way stands a fatal
facility, that of grasping ideas before they are half-expressed.
It is a quality of imagination, natural rather than
induced. Any schoolteacher will confirm the statement
that in a mixed class, aged eleven to twelve, the essays
of the girls are better than those of the boys.
This is not so in a mixed university. I suspect
that this latter is quite as much due to the academic
judgment, which does not recognize imagination, as
to the fact that in the later years of their lives
the energies of girls are diverted from intellectual
concentration (and also expression) toward the artistic
and the social. This untrained concentration produces
a certain superficiality and an impetuousness which
harmonize with the intrusion of side issues, to
which I have referred, and with the burgeoning
of side issues on the general idea.
Nowhere is this better shown than
in the postscript habit. Men do not, as a rule,
use postscripts, and it is significant that artists
and persons inclined toward the arts are much more
given to postscripts than other kinds of men.
One might almost say that women correspond by postscript;
some of them put the subject of the letter in the
postscript, as the scorpion keeps his poison in his
tail. I have before me letters from Case 58,
with two postscripts, and one extraordinary letter
from Case 11, with four postscripts and a sentence
written outside the envelope. This is the apogee
of superficiality. The writers have run on, seduced
by irrelevance, and have not been able to stop to
consider in all its bearings the subject of the letter.
Each postscript represents a development or qualification,
which must indicate the waste by bad education of
what may be a very good mind.
I would say in passing that we should
not attach undue importance to woman’s physical
disabilities. It is true that woman is more conscious
of her body than is man. So long as he is fed,
sufficiently busy, in good general health, he is normal.
But woman is far more often in an unbalanced physical
condition. There is a great deal to be said for
the Hindu philosophical point of view, that the body
needs to be just so satisfied as to become imperceptible
to the consciousness, as opposed to the point of view
of the Christian ascetics, who unfortunately carried
their ideas so far that they ended by thinking more
of their hair shirt than of Him for whose sake they
wore it. In this sense woman is intellectually
handicapped because her body obtrudes itself upon her.
It is a subject of brooding and agitation. I
suspect that this is largely remediable, for I am
not convinced that it is woman’s peculiar physical
conditions that occasionally warp her intellect; it
is equally possible that a warped intellect produces
unsatisfactory physical conditions. Therefore,
if, as I firmly believe that we can, we develop this
intellect, profound changes may with time appear in
these physical conditions.
IV.
The further qualification of woman’s
intellect is in her moral attitude. I would ask
the reader to divest himself of the idea that “moral”
refers only to matters of sex. Morality is the
rule of conduct of each human being in his relations
with other human beings, and this covers all relations.
Because in some senses the morality of woman is not
the morality of man, we are not entitled to say with
Pope that
“Woman’s
at best a contradiction still.”
She is a contradiction. Man is
a contradiction, apparently of a different kind, and
that is all. Thence spring misunderstandings and
sometimes dislike, as between people of different nations.
I do not want to labor the point, but I would suggest
that in a very minor degree the apparent difference
between man and woman may be paralleled by the apparent
difference between the Italian and the Swede, who,
within two generations, produce very similar American
children. But man, who generalizes quite as wildly
as woman when he does not understand, is determined
to emphasize the difference in every relation of life.
For instance, it is commonly said that woman cannot
keep her promise. This seems to me entirely untrue;
given that as a rule woman’s intellect is not
sufficiently educated to enable her to find a good
reason for breaking her promise, it is much more difficult
for her to do so. For we are all moral creatures,
and if a man must steal the crown jewels, he is happier
if he can discover a high motive for so doing.
Man has a definite advantage where a loophole has
to be found, and I have known few women capable of
standing up in argument against a trained lawyer who
has acquired the usual dexterity in misrepresentation.
In love and marriage, particularly,
woman will keep plighted troth more closely than man;
there is no male equivalent of jilt, but the male does
jilt on peculiar lines; while a woman who knows that
her youth, her beauty are going must bring things
to a head by jilting, the male is never in a hurry,
for his attractions wane so very slowly. Why should
he jilt the woman, make a stir? So
he just goes on. In due course she tires and
releases him, when he goes to another woman. That
is jilting by inches, and as regards faithfulness
a pledged woman is more difficult to win away than
a pledged man. (To be just, it should be said that
unfaithfulness is in the eyes of most men a small matter,
in the eyes of most women a serious matter.) A pledged
woman will remain faithful long after love has flown;
the promise is a mystic bond; none but a tall flame
can hide the ashes of the dead love. And so, when
Shakespeare asserts,
“Frailty, thy name is woman,”
he is delivering one of the hasty
judgments that abound in his solemn romanticism.
This applies in realms divorced from
love, in questions of money, such as debts
or bets. Women do run up milliners’ bills,
but men boast of never paying their tailors.
And if sometimes women do not discharge the lost bet,
it is largely because a tradition of protection and
patronage has laid down that women need not pay their
bets. Besides, women usually pay their losses,
while several men have not yet discharged their debts
of honor to me. It is a matter of honesty, and
I think the criminal returns for the United States
would produce the same evidence as those for England
and Wales. In 1913 there were tried at Assizes
for offences against property 1616 men and 122 women.
The records of Quarter Sessions and of the courts
of Summary Jurisdiction yield the same result, an
enormous majority of male offenders, though
there be more women than men in England and Wales!
And yet, in the face of such official figures, of
the evidence of every employer, man cherishes a belief
in woman’s dishonesty! One reason, no doubt,
is that woman’s emotional nature leads her,
when she is criminal, to criminality of an aggravated
kind. She then justifies Pope’s misogynist
lines:
“O woman, woman! When to ill
thy mind
Is bent, all hell contains no fouler fiend.”
Most men, however, have abandoned
the case against woman’s dishonesty and confine
themselves to describing her as a liar, forgetting
that they generally dislike the truth when it comes
from a woman’s lips, and always when it reflects
upon their own conduct. For centuries man has
asked that woman should flatter, but also that she
should tell the truth: such a confusion of demands
leads the impartial mind to the conclusion that vanity
cannot be a monopoly of the female. But it is
quite true that woman does not always cherish truth
so well as man. The desire for truth is intellectual,
not emotional. Truth is a cold bed-fellow, as
might be expected of one who rose from a well.
And among women cases of disinterested lying are not
uncommon. Here is Case 16:
An elderly woman talked at length
about not having received insurance papers, and made
a great disturbance. It later appeared that she
had not insured. On another occasion she informed
the household that her son-in-law had been cabled
to from South Africa to come and visit his dying mother.
It was proved that no cable had been sent.
I have a number of cases of this kind,
but this is the most curious. I suspect that
this sort of lying is traceable to a need for romance
and drama in a colorless life. It springs from
the wish to create a romantic atmosphere round one’s
self and to increase one’s personal importance.
Because men hold out hands less greedy toward drama
and romance they are less afflicted, but they do not
entirely escape, and we have all observed the new
importance of the man whose brother has been photographed
in a newspaper or, better still, killed in a railway
accident. If he has been burned in a theater,
the grief of his male relatives is subtly tinged with
excited delight. Romance, the wage of lies, is
woman’s compensation for a dull life.
V.
Vanity is as old as the mammoth.
Romantic lying, obviously connected with vanity, is
justly alleged to be developed in woman. No doubt
woman’s chief desire has been to appear beautiful,
and it is quite open to question whether the leaves
that clothed our earliest ancestress were gathered
in a spirit of modesty rather than in response to a
desire for adornment.
But it should not be too readily assumed
that vanity is purely a feminine characteristic.
It is a human characteristic, and the favor of any
male savage can be bought at the price of a necklace
of beads or of an admiral’s cocked hat.
The modern man is modish too, as much as he dares.
At Newport as at Brighton the dandy is supreme.
It would be inaccurate, however, to limit vanity to
clothes. Vanity is more subtle, and I would ask
the reader which of the three principal motives that
animate man love, ambition, and gold lust is
the strongest. The desire to shine in the eyes
of one’s fellows has produced much in art and
political service; it has produced much that is foolish
and ignoble. It has led to political competition,
to a wild race for ill-remunerated offices, governorships,
memberships of Parliament. Representatives of
the people often wish to serve the people; they also
like to be marked out as the people’s men.
There are no limits to masculine desire for honors;
seldom in England does a man refuse a peerage; Frenchmen
are martyrs to their love of ribbons, and not a year
passes without a scandal because an official has been
bribed to obtain the Legion d’Honneur for somebody,
or, funnier still, because an adventurer has blacked
his face, set up in a small flat, impersonated a negro
potentate, and distributed for value received grand
crosses of fantastic kingdoms. Even democratic
Americans have been known to seek titled husbands
for their daughters, and a few have become Papal barons
or counts.
Male vanity differs from female, but
both are vanity. The two sexes even share that
curious form of vanity which in man consists in his
calling himself a “plain man”, bragging
of having come to New York without shoes and with
a dime in his pocket; which, in woman, consists in
neglecting her appearance. Both sexes convey
more or less: “I am what I am, a humble
person ... but quite good enough.” The arrogance
of humility is simply repulsive.
Ideas such as the foregoing may proceed
from a certain simplicity. Woman is much less
complex than the poets believe. For instance,
many men hold that woman’s lack of self-consciousness,
as exemplified by disturbances in shops, has its roots
in some intricate reasoning process. One must
not be carried away: the truth is that woman,
having so long been dependent upon man, has an exaggerated
idea of the importance of small sums. Man has
earned money; woman has been taught only to save it.
Thus she has been poor, and poverty has caused her
to shrink from expenditure; often she has become mean
and, paradoxically enough, she has at the same time
become extravagant. Poverty has taught her to
respect the penny, while it has taught her nothing
about the pound. If woman finds it quite easy
to spend one tenth of the household income on dress,
and even more, it is because her education makes
it as difficult for her to conceive a thousand dollars
as it is for a man to conceive a million. It
is merely a question of familiarity with money.
Besides, foolish economy and reckless
expenditure are indications of an elementary quality.
In that sense woman is still something of a savage.
She is still less civilized than man, largely because
she has not been educated. This may be a very
good thing, and it certainly is an agreeable one from
the masculine point of view. Whether we consider
woman’s attitude to the law, to social service,
or to war, it is the same thing. In most cases
she is lawless; she will obey the law because she
is afraid of it, but she will not respect it.
For her it is always sic volo, sic jubeo.
I suspect that if she had had a share in making the
law she would not have been like this, for she would
have become aware of the relation between law and
life. Roughly she tends to look upon the law
as tyrannous if she does not like it, as protective
if she does like it. Probably there is little
relation between her own moral impulse, which is generous,
and the law, which is only just. (That is, just in
intention.) This is qualified by the moral spirit in
woman, which increasingly leads her to the view that
certain things should be done and others not be done.
But even then it is likely that at heart woman does
not respect the law; she may respect what it represents, strength, but
not what it implies, equity. She is
infinitely more rebellious than man, and where she
has power she inflames the world in protest.
I do not refer to the militant suffragists, but to
woman’s general attitude. For instance,
when it is proposed to compel women to insure their
servants, to pay employer’s compensation for
accident, to restrict married women’s control
of their property, to establish laws regulating the
social evil, we find female opposition very violent.
I do not mean material opposition, although that does
occur, but mental hostility. Woman surrenders
because she must, man because he ought to.
That is an attitude of barbarism.
It is a changing attitude; the ranks of social service
have, during the last half-century, been disproportionately
swollen by woman. Our most active worker in the
causes of factory inspection, child protection, anti-sweating,
is to-day woman. Woman is emerging swiftly from
the barbarous state in which she was long maintained.
She will change yet more, and further on
in this chapter I will attempt to show how, but
to-day it must be granted that there runs in her veins
much vigorous barbarian blood. Her attitude to
war is significant. During the past months I have
met many women who were inflamed by the idea of blood;
so long as they were not losing relatives or friends
themselves, they tended to look upon the war as the
most exciting serial they had ever read. Heat
and heroism, what could be more romantic? Every
woman to whom I told this said it was untrue, but
in no country have the women’s unions struck
against war; the suffragettes have organized, not
only hospitals, but kitchens, recreation rooms, canteens
for the use of soldiers; many have clamored to be
allowed to make shells; some, especially in Russia,
have carried rifles. In England, thirteen thousand
women volunteered to make war material; women filled
the German factories. Of course, I recognize that
this is partly economic: women must live in wartime
even at the price of men’s lives, and I am aware
that a great many women have done all they could to
arrest the spread of war. In England many have
prevented their men from volunteering; in America,
I am told, women have been solid against war with
Germany. But let the reader not be deceived.
A subtle point arises which is often ignored.
If women went to war instead of men, their attitude
might be different. Consider, indeed, these two
paragraphs, fictitious descriptions of a battlefield:
“Before the trenches lay heaped
hundreds of young men, with torn bodies, their faces
pale in the moonlight. The rays lit up the face
of one that lay near, made a glitter upon his little
golden moustache.”
“Before the trenches lay heaped
hundreds of young girls. The moonlight streamed
upon their torn bodies and their fair skins. The
rays fell upon one that lay near, drawing a glow from
the masses of her golden hair.”
Let the masculine reader honestly
read these two paragraphs (which I do not put forward
as literature). The first will pain him; the second
will hurt him more. That men should be slaughtered how
hateful! That girls should be slaughtered it
is unbearable. Here, I submit, is part of woman’s
opposition to war, of the exaggerated idea people have
of her humanitarian attitude. I will not press
the point that as a savage she may like blood better
than man; I will confine myself to suggesting that
a large portion of her opposition to war comes out
of a sexual consciousness; it seems horrible to her
that young men should be killed, just as horrible
as my paragraph on the dead girls may seem to the male
reader.
Some men have seen women as barbarous
and dangerous only, have based their attitude upon
the words of Thomas Otway: “She betrayed
the Capitol, lost Mark Antony to the world, laid old
Troy in ashes.” This is absurd; if man
cannot resist the temptation of woman, he can surely
claim no greater nobility. Mark Antony “lost”
Cleopatra by wretched suicide as much as she “lost”
him. If because of Helen old Troy was laid in
ashes, at least another woman, guiltless Andromache,
paid the price. To represent woman so, to suggest
that there were only two people in Eden, Adam and
the Serpent, is as ridiculous as making a woman into
a goddess. It is the hope of the future that
woman shall be realized as neither diabolical nor
divine, but as merely human.
VI.
We must recognize that the emotional
quality in woman is not a characteristic of sex; it
is merely the exaggeration of a human characteristic.
For instance, it is currently said that women make
trouble on committees. They do; I have sat with
women on committees and will do it again as seldom
as possible: their frequent inability to understand
an obvious syllogism, their passion for side issues,
their generalizations, and their particularism whenever
emotion is aroused, make committee work very difficult.
But every committee has its male member who cannot
escape from his egotism or from his own conversation.
What woman does man does, only he does it less.
The difference is one of degree, not of quality.
Where the emotionalism of women grows
more pronounced is in matters of religion and love.
There is a vague correspondence between her attitude
to the one and to the other, in outwardly Christian
countries, I mean. She often finds in religion
a curious philter, both a sedative and a stimulant.
Religion is often for women an allotrope of romance;
blind as an earthworm she seeks the stars, and it
is curious that religion should make so powerful an
appeal to woman, considering how she has been treated
by the faiths. The Moslem faith has made of her
a toy and a reward; the Jewish, a submissive beast
of burden; the Christian, a danger, a vessel of impurity.
I mean the actual faiths, not their original theory;
one must take a faith as one finds it, not as it is
supposed to be, and in the case of woman the Christian
religion is but little in accord with the view of
Him who forgave the woman taken in adultery.
The Christian religion has done everything it could
to heap ignominy upon woman: head-coverings in
church, practical tolerance of male infidelity, kingly
repudiation of queens, compulsory child-bearing, and
a multiplicity of other injustices. The Proverbs
and the Bible in general are filled with strictures
on “a brawling woman”, “a contentious
woman”; when man is referred to, mankind is really
implied. Yet woman has kissed the religious rods.
One might think that indeed she was seduced and held
only by cruelty and contempt. She is now, in a
measure, turning against the faiths, but still she
clings to them more closely than man because she is
more capable of making an act of faith, of believing
that which she knows to be impossible.
The appeal of religion to woman is
the appeal of self-surrender, that is,
ostensibly. In the case of love it is the same
appeal, ostensibly; though I suspect that intuition
has told many a woman who gave herself to a lover
or to a god that she was absorbing more than she gave:
in love using the man for nature whom she represents,
in faith performing a pantheistic prodigy, the enclosing
of Nirvana within her own bosom.
But speculation as to the impulse
of sex in relation to religion, in Greece, in Egypt,
in Latin countries, would draw me too far. I can
record only that to all appearances a portion of the
religious instinct of woman is derived from the love
instinct, which many believe to be woman’s first
and only motive. It is significant that among
the sixty-five cases upon which this article is based
there are several deeply religious single women, while
not one of the married women shows signs of more than
conventional devotion. I incline to believe that
woman is firstly animal, secondly, intellectual; while
man appears to be occasionally animal and primarily
intellectual.
Observe indeed the varying age at
which paternal and maternal instincts manifest themselves.
A woman’s passion for her child generally awakes
at birth, and there are many cases where an unfortunate
girl, intending to murder her child, as soon as it
is born discovers that she loves it. On the other
hand, a great many men are indifferent to their children
in infancy and are drawn to them only as they develop
intellectual quality. This is just the time when
woman drifts from them. Qualified by civilized
custom, the attitude of woman toward her child is very
much that of the cat toward her kitten; as soon as
the kitten is a few weeks old, the mother neglects
it. A few months later she will not know it.
Her part is played. So it is not uncommon to find
a woman who has been enthralled by her baby giving
it over entirely to hired help: the baby is growing
intellectualized; it needs her no more except as a
kindly but calm critic. And frequently at that
time the father begins to intervene, to control the
education, to prepare for the future. Whether
in the mental field this means much more than the difference
in temperament between red hair and black hair (if
that means anything), I do not know; but it is singular
that so often the mother should drift away from her
child just at the moment when the father thinks of
teaching it to ride and shoot and tell the truth.
Possibly by that time her critical work is done.
Indicative of the influence of the
emotions is the peculiar intensification of love in
moments of crisis, such as war, revolution, or accident.
Men do not escape this any more than women: the
German atrocities, for instance, largely proceed from
extreme excitement. But men have but slender
bonds to break, being nearly all ready to take their
pleasure where they can, while women are more fastidious.
Woman needs a more highly charged atmosphere, the
whips of fear or grief, the intoxication of glory.
When these are given her, her emotions more readily
break down her reserves; and it is not remarkable that
in times of war there should be an increase in illegitimate
births as well as an increase in marriages. Woman’s
intellect under those pressures gives way. A
number of the marriages contracted by British soldiers
about to leave for the front are simple manifestations
of hysteria.
As for caprice, it has long been regarded
as woman’s privilege, part of her charm.
Man was the hunter, and his prey must run. Only
he is annoyed when it runs too fast. He is ever
asking woman to charm him by elusiveness and then
complaining because she eludes him. There is hardly
a man who would not to-day echo Sir Walter Scott’s
familiar lines,
“O Woman! in our hours of ease
Uncertain, coy, and hard to please,
And variable as the shade
By the light quivering aspen made.”
It is not woman’s fault.
The poetry of the world is filled with the words “to
win” and “to woo”; one cannot win
or woo one who does not baffle; one can only take
her, and men are not satisfied to do only that.
Man loves sincerity until he finds it; he can live
neither with it nor without it; this is true most
notably in the lists of love. He is for falsehood,
for affectation, lest the prize should too easily be
won. Both sexes are equally guilty, if guilt
there be.
More true is it that many women lie
and curvet as a policy because they believe thus best
to manage men. They generally believe that they
can manage men. They look upon them as “poor
dears.” They honestly believe that the
“poor dears” cannot cook, or run houses,
or trim hats, ignoring the fact that the “poor
dears” do these things better than anybody, in
kitchens, in hotels, and in hat shops. Especially
they believe that they can outwit them in the game
of love. This curious idea is due to woman’s
consciousness of having been sought after in the past
and told that she did not seek man but was sought
by him. Centuries of thraldom and centuries of
flattery have caused her to believe this the
poor dear!
In ordinary times, when no world-movements
stimulate, the chief exasperation of woman resides
in jealousy. It differs from male jealousy, for
the male is generally possessive, the female competitive.
I suspect that Euripides was generalizing rashly when
he said that woman is woman’s natural ally.
She is too sex-conscious for that, and many of us
have observed the annoyance of a mother when her son
weds. Competition is always violent, so much
so that woman is generally mocking or angry if a man
praises ever so slightly another woman. If she
is young and able to make a claim on all men, she tends
to be still more virulent because her claim is on
all men. This is partly due to the marriage
market and its restrictions, but it is also partly
natural. No doubt because it is natural, woman
attempts to conceal that jealousy, nature being generally
considered ignoble by the civilized world. In
this respect we must accept that an assumption of coldness
is considered a means of enticing man. It may
well be that, where woman does not exhibit jealousy,
she is with masterly skill suggesting to the man a
problem: why is she not jealous? On which
follows the desire to make her jealous, and entanglement.
Because of these powerful preoccupations,
when woman adopts a career she has hitherto frequently
allowed herself to be diverted therefrom by love.
Up to the end of the nineteenth century it was very
common for a woman to abandon the stage, the concert
platform, and so forth, when she married. A change
has come about, and there is a growing tendency in
women, whether or not at the expense of love I do not
know, to retain their occupations when they marry.
But the tendency of woman still is to revert to the
instinctive function. In days to come, when we
have developed the individual and broken up the socialized
society in which we live, when the home has been swept
away and the family destroyed, I do not believe that
this factor will operate so powerfully. In the
way of change stand the remnants of woman’s
slavish habit. No longer a slave, she tends to
follow, to submit, to adjust her conduct to the wish
of man, and it is significant that a powerful man is
seldom henpecked. The henpecked deserve to be
henpecked, and I would point out that there is no
intention in these notes to attempt to substitute henpecked
husbands for cockpecked wives. The tendency is
all the other way, for woman tends to mould herself
to man.
A number of cases lie before me:
Case 61 married a barrister.
Before her marriage she lived in a commercial atmosphere;
after marriage she grew violently legal in her conversation.
Her husband developed a passion for motoring; so did
Case 61. Observe that during a previous attachment
to a doctor, Case 61 had manifested a growing interest
in medicine.
Case 18 comes from a hunting family,
married a literary man, and within a few years has
ceased to take any exercise and mixes exclusively with
literary people.
Case 38, on becoming engaged to a
member of the Indian Civil Service, became a sedulous
student of Indian literature and religion. On
her husband’s appointment to a European post,
her interest did not diminish. She has paid a
lengthy visit to India.
There are compensating cases among
men: I have two. In one case a soldier who
married a literary woman has turned into a scholar.
In the other a commercial man, who married a popular
actress, has been completely absorbed by the theater,
and is now writing successful plays.
It would appear from these rather
disjointed notes that the emotional quality in woman
is more or less at war with her intellectual aims.
Indeed it is sometimes suggested that where woman appears,
narrowness follows; that books by women are mostly
confined to love, are not cosmic in feeling.
This is generally true, for reasons which I hope to
indicate a little farther on; but it is not true that
books where women are the chief characters are narrow.
Such novels as Anna Karenina, Madame Bovary,
Une Vie, Tess of the D’Urbervilles
make that point obvious. As a rule, books about
men, touching as they do, not only upon love, but
upon art, politics, business, are more powerful than
books about women. But one should not forget
that books written round women are mostly written
by women. As women are far less powerful in literature
than men, we must not conclude that books about women
are naturally lesser than books about men. The
greatest books about women have been written by men.
But few men are sufficiently unprejudiced to grasp
women; only a genius can do so, and that is why few
books about women exist that deserve the epithet great.
It remains to be seen whether an increased understanding
of the affairs of the world will develop among women
a literary power which, together with the world, will
embrace herself.
VII.
In the attempt to indicate what the future may reserve for
woman, it is important to consider what she has done, because she has achieved
much in the face of conservatism, of male egotism, of male jealousy, of poverty,
of ignorance, and of prejudice. These chains are weaker to-day, and the goodwill
that shall not die will break them yet; but many women, a few of whose names
follow, gave while enslaved an idea of womans quality. Examine indeed this
short list:
Painting: Angelica Kauffmann,
Madame Vigee le Brun, Rosa Bonheur.
Music and drama: Rachel, Siddons,
Ellen Terry, Sarah Bernhardt, Teresa Carreno, Sadayacco.
Literature: George Eliot, Jane
Austen, the Brontes, Madame de Stael, Madame
de Sevigne, Christina Rossetti, Elizabeth Browning.
More recent, Mrs. Alice Meynell, Miss May Sinclair,
“Lucas Malet,” Mrs. Edith Wharton, “Vernon
Lee.”
Social service and politics:
Mrs. Charlotte Perkins Gilman, Miss Jane Addams, Madame
Montessori, Mrs. Fawcett, Mrs. Ennis Richmond, Mrs.
Beecher Stowe, Florence Nightingale, Mrs. Havelock
Ellis, Mrs. Sidney Webb, Miss Clementina Black, Josephine
Butler, Mrs. Pankhurst, Elizabeth Fry. Observe
the curious case of Mrs. Hetty Green, financier.
This list could be enormously increased,
and, as it is, it is a random list, omitting women
of distinction and including women of lesser distinction.
But still it contains no unknown names, and, though
I do not pretend that it compares with a similar list
of men, it is an indication. I am anxious that
the reader should not think that I want to compare
Angelica Kauffmann with Leonardo, or Jane Austen with
Shakespeare. In every walk of life since history
began there have been a score of men of talent for
every woman of talent, and there has never been a
female genius. That should not impress us:
genius is an accident; it may be a disease. It
may be that mankind has produced only two or three
geniuses, and that one or two women in days to come
may redress the balance, and it may be that several
women have been mute inglorious Miltons. We do
not know. But in the matter of talent, notably
in the arts, I submit that woman can be hopeful, particularly
because most of the names I give are those of women
of the nineteenth century. The nineteenth century
was better for woman than the eighteenth, the eighteenth
better than the seventeenth: what could be more
significant? In the arts I feel that woman has
never had her opportunity. She has been hailed
as an executive artist, actress, singer, pianist; but
as a creator, novelist, poet, painter, she has been
steadfastly discounted, told that what
she did was very pretty, until she grew unable to
do anything but the pretty-pretty. She has grown
up in an atmosphere of patronage and roses, deferential,
subservient. She has persistently been told that
certain subjects were “not fit for nice young
ladies”; she has been shut away from the expression
of life.
Here is a typical masculine attitude,
that of Mr. George Moore, in A Modern Lover.
Mr. George Moore, who seems to know a great deal about
females but less about women, causes in this book Harding,
the novelist, who generally expresses him, to criticize
George Sand, George Eliot, and Rosa Bonheur:
“If they have created anything new, how is it
that their art is exactly like our own? I defy
any one to say that George Eliot’s novels are
a woman’s writing, or that The Horse Fair was
not painted by a man. I defy you to show me a
trace of feminality in anything they ever did; that
is the point I raise. I say that women as yet
have not been able to transfuse into art a trace of
their sex; in other words, unable to assume a point
of view of their own, they have adopted ours.”
This is cool! I have read a great
deal of Mr. George Moore’s art criticism:
when it deals with the work of a man he never seeks
the masculine touch. He judges a man’s
work as art; he will not judge a woman’s work
as art. He starts from the assumption that man’s
art is art, while woman’s art is well,
woman’s art. That is the sort of thing
which has discouraged woman; that is the atmosphere
of tolerance and good-conduct prizes which she has
breathed, and that is the stifling stupidity through
which she is breaking. She will break through,
for I believe that she loves the arts better than
does man. She is better ground for the development
of a great artist, for she approaches art with sympathy,
while the great bulk of men approach it with fear and
dislike, shrinking from the idea that it may disturb
their self-complacency. The prejudice goes so
far that, while women are attracted to artists as
lovers, men are generally afraid of women who practice
the arts, or they dislike them. It is not a question
of sex; it is a question of art. All that is
part of sexual heredity, of which I must say a few
words.
But, before doing so, let me waste
a few lines on the male conception of love, which
has influenced woman because love is still her chief
business. To this day, though it dies slowly,
the male attitude is still the attitude to a toy.
It is the attitude of Nietzsche when saying, “Man
is for war, woman for the recreation of the warrior.”
This idea is so prevalent that Great Britain, in its
alleged struggle against Nietzschean ideas, is making
abundant use of the Nietzschean point of view.
No wonder, for the idea runs not only through men but
through Englishmen: “woman is the reward
of war,” that is a prevalent idea,
notably among men who make war in the neighborhood
of waste-paper baskets. It has been exemplified
by the British war propaganda in every newspaper and
in every music hall, begging women to refuse to be
seen with a man unless he is in khaki. It has
had government recognition in the shape of recruiting
posters, asking women “whether their best boy
is in khaki.” It has been popularly formulated
on picture postcards touchingly inscribed, “No
gun, no girl.”
All that woman as the prize
(a theory repudiated in the case of Belgian atrocities) is
an idea deeply rooted in man. In the eighteen-sixties
the customary proposal was, “Will you be mine?”
Very faintly signs are showing that men will yet say,
“May I be yours?” It will take time, for
the possessive, the dominating instinct in man, is
still strong; and long may it live, for that is the
vigor of the race. Only we do not want that instinct
to carry man away, any more than we want a well-bred
horse to clench its teeth upon the bit and bolt.
We want to do everything we can to
get rid of what may be called the creed of the man
of the world, which is suggested as repulsively as
anywhere in Mr. Rudyard Kipling’s Departmental
Ditties:
“My Son, if a maiden deny thee and
scufflingly bid thee give o’er,
Yet lip meets with lip at the lastward get
out! She has been there
before.
They are pecked on the ear and the chin
and the nose who are lacking
in lore.
“Pleasant the snaffle of Courtship,
improving the manners and carriage;
But the colt who is wise will abstain
from the terrible thornbit of
Marriage.
Blister we not for bursati?
So when the heart is vext,
The pain of one maiden’s refusal
is drowned in the pain of the next.”
There is a great deal of this sort
of thing in Moliere, in Thackeray, in Casanova.
The old idea of woman eluding and lying; of woman stigmatized
if she has “been there before”, while man
may brag of having “been there before”
as often as possible; of man lovelacing for his credit’s
sake and woman adventuring at her peril.
VIII.
I submit that each man and woman has
two heredities: one the ordinary heredity from
two parents and their forbears, the other more complex
and purely mental the tradition of sex.
Heredity through sex may be defined as the resultant
of consecutive environments. I mean that a woman,
for instance, is considerably influenced by the ideas
and attitudes of her mother, grandmothers, and all
female ascendants. They had a tradition, and
it is the basis of her outlook. Any boy born in
a slum can, as he grows educated, realize that the
world lies before him; literature and history soon
show him that many as lowly as he have risen to fame,
as artists, scientists, statesmen; he may even dream
of becoming a king, like Bonaparte. To the boy
nothing is impossible; if he is brave, there is nothing
he may not tear from the world. He knows it, and
it strengthens him; it gives him confidence.
What his fathers did, he may do; the male sexual heredity
is a proud heritage, and only yesterday a man said
to me, “Thank God, I am a man.” Contrast
with this the corresponding type of heredity in woman.
Woman carries in her the slave tradition of her maternal
forbears, of people who never did anything because
they were never allowed to; who were told that they
could do nothing but please, until they at last believed
it, until by believing they lost the power of action;
who were never taught, and because uneducated were
ashamed; who were never helped to understand the work
of the world, political, financial, scientific, and,
therefore, grew to believe that such realms were not
for them. I need not labor the comparison:
obviously any woman, inspired by centuries of dependence,
instinctively feels that, while everything is open
to man, very little is open to her. She comes
into the arena with a leaden sword; in most cases
she hardly has energy to struggle.
A little while ago, when Britain was
floating a large war loan, one woman told me that
she could not understand its terms. We went into
them together, and she found that she understood perfectly.
She was surprised. She had always assumed that
she did not understand finance, and the assumption
had kept her down, prevented her from understanding
it. Likewise, and until they try, many women think
they cannot read maps and time-tables.
With that heredity environment has
coalesced, and I think no one will deny that a continuous
suggestion of helplessness and mental inferiority
must affect woman. It means most during youth,
when one is easily snubbed, when one looks up to one’s
elders. By the time one has found out one’s
elders, it is generally too late; the imprint is made,
and woman, looking upon herself as inferior, hands
on to her daughters the old slavery that was in her
forbears’ blood. To me this seems foolish,
and during the past thirty or forty years a great many
have come to think so too; they have shown it by opening
wide to woman the doors of colleges, many occupations
and professions. Many are to-day impatient because
woman has not done enough, has not justified this new
freedom. I think they are unjust; they do not
understand that a generation of training and of relative
liberty is not enough to undo evils neolithic in origin.
All that we are doing to-day by opening gates to women
is to counter-influence the old tradition, to implant
in the woman of to-morrow the new faith that nothing
is beyond her powers. It lies with the woman
of to-day to make that faith so strong as to move mountains.
I think she will succeed, for I doubt whether any
mental power is inherent in sex. There are differences
of degree, differences of quality; but I suspect that
they are mainly due to sexual heredity, to environment,
to suggestion, and that indeed, if I may trench upon
biology, human creatures are never entirely male or
entirely female; there are no men, there are no women,
but only sexual majorities.
The evolution of woman toward mental
assimilation with man, though particularly swift in
the past half-century, has been steady since the Renaissance.
Roughly, one might say that the woman of the year 1450
had no education at all; in this she was more like
man than she ever was later, for the knights could
not read, and learning existed only among the priests.
The time had not yet come for the learned nobleman;
Sir Philip Sidney, the Earl of Surrey, the Euphuists,
had not yet dispelled the mediaeval fogs, and few
among the laymen, save Cheke and Ascham, had any learning
at all. In those days woman sang songs and brought
up babies. Two hundred and fifty years later
the well-to-do woman had become somebody; she could
even read, though she mainly read tales such as The
Miraculous Love of Prince Alzamore. She was
growing significant in the backstairs of politics.
Sometimes she took a bath. Round about 1850 she
turned into the “perfect lady” who kept
an album bound in morocco leather. She wrote
verses that embodied yearnings. Often she had
a Turkish parlor, and usually as many babies as she
could. But already the Brontes and George
Eliot had come to knock at the door; Miss Braddon
was promising to be, if not a glory, at least a power,
and before twenty years were out, John Stuart Mill
was to lead the first suffragettes to the House of
Commons.
To-day it is another picture:
woman in every trade except those in which she intends
to be; woman demanding and using political power; woman
governing her own property; woman senior to man in
the civil service. She has not yet her charter,
and still suffers much from the tradition of inferiority,
from her lack of confidence in herself. But many
women are all ambition, and within the last year two
young women novelists have convinced me that the thing
they most desire is to be great in their art.
Whether they will succeed does not matter much; what
does matter is that they should harbor such a wish.
Whether woman’s physical disabilities, her present
bias toward unduly moral and inadequately intellectual
judgments, will forever hamper her, I do not know;
but I do not think so. Whether the influence
of woman, more inherently lawless, more anarchic than
man, will result in the breaking down of conventions
and the despising of the law, I do not know either.
But if the world is to be remoulded, I think it much
more likely to be remoulded by woman than by man,
simply because that as a sex he is in power, and the
people who are in power never want to alter anything.
Woman’s rebellion is everywhere
indicated: her brilliance, her failings, her
unreasonableness, all these are excellent signs of
her revolt. She is even revolting against her
own beauty; often she neglects her clothes, her hair,
her complexion, her teeth. This is a pity, but
it must not be taken too seriously: men on active
service grow beards, and woman in her emancipation
campaign is still too busy to think of the art of
charming. I suspect that as time passes and she
suffers less intolerably from a sense of injustice,
she will revert to the old graces. The art of
charming was a response to convention; and of late
years unconventionality, a great deal of which is ridiculous,
has grown much more among women than among men.
That is not wonderful, for there were so many things
woman might not do. Almost any movement would
bring her up against a barrier; that is why it seems
that she does nothing in the world except break barriers.
How genuine woman’s rebellion is, no man can
say. It may be that woman’s impulse toward
male occupations and rights is only a reaction against
the growing difficulty of gaining a mate, children,
and a home. But I very much more believe that
woman is straining toward a new order, that the swift
evolution of her mind is leading her to contest more
and more violently the assumption that there are ineradicable
differences between the male and the female mind.
As she grows more capable of grasping at education,
she will become more worthy of it; her intellect will
harden, tend to resemble that of man; and so, having
escaped from the emptiness of the past into the special
fields which have been conceded her, she will make
for broader fields, fields so vast that they will
embrace the world.