CHAPTER LI - OBSERVATIONS ON THE SOCIAL CONDITIONS OF THE MAORIS
Feeling that I was not likely now
to be called upon to act offensively, I considered
myself at liberty to make numerous excursions round
our fortress, not only to admire this fertile and
beautiful country, but to visit some of my old friends.
I was very much astonished and shocked at seeing several
very beautiful young women, whom I left only a few
months back in perfect health and strength, now reduced
to mere “living skeletons,” and also to
hear of the death of others by consumption. This
disease seems to be the scourge of the young; and when
they are once seized with its symptoms, they are very
speedily brought to the grave. The natives say,
“It is Atua, the Great Spirit, coming into them,
and eating up their inside; for the patient can feel
those parts gradually go away, and then they become
weaker and weaker till no more is left; after which
the Spirit sends them to the happy island.”
They never attempt any means of curing or of alleviating
the pains caused by this cruel complaint; and all
those under its influence are tabooed. I procured
from the brig all my remaining stores of tapioca,
sago, arrowroot, and sugar, and distributed them in
the best way I could amongst my sick friends.
They were anxious for wine; but that portion of my
sea-stock, as well as spirits, had been long since
expended.
It seems unaccountable that the natives
of an atmosphere so dry as this is a country
in which there are no marshy bogs, and where, though
there is an abundance of water, it is generally seen
in clear and sparkling rills rushing down from the
mountains into the rivers should be subject
to so fatal a disease as galloping consumption.
The only cause to which I can attribute such an affliction
is, their indifference to lying out all night exposed
to every change of weather to cold and rain which,
in young and tender constitutions, must produce the
most pernicious consequences. If some few are
rendered hardy and robust by this process, many, no
doubt, are killed by it. I endeavoured to impress
on the minds of all my female friends the great danger
of thus exposing themselves to cold; but they only
laughed at my precautions, and said, “If Atua
wished it, so it must be; they could not strive with
the Great Spirit.”
I have heard so much said about the
great impropriety of the white settlers admitting
the native females into their society, so much of the
scandalous conduct of captains of ships suffering their
men to have sweethearts during their stay in port,
and so much urged in justification of the indignation
shown by the missionaries when this subject is touched
on by them, that I feel it necessary to state one decided
benefit which has resulted from that intercourse,
and which, in my opinion, far more than counterbalances
the evil against which there has been raised so loud
an outcry.
Before our intercourse took place
with the New Zealanders, a universal and unnatural
custom existed amongst them, which was that of destroying
most of their female children in infancy, their excuse
being that they were quite as much trouble to rear,
and consumed just as much food, as a male child, and
yet, when grown up, they were not fit to go to war
as their boys were. The strength and pride of
a chief then consisted in the number of his sons;
while the few females who had been suffered to live
were invariably looked down upon by all with the utmost
contempt. They led a life of misery and degradation.
The difference now is most remarkable. The natives,
seeing with what admiration strangers beheld their
fine young women, and what handsome presents were made
to them, by which their families were benefited, feeling
also that their influence was so powerful over the
white men, have been latterly as anxious to cherish
and protect their infant girls as they were formerly
cruelly bent on destroying them. Therefore, if
one sin has been, to a certain degree, encouraged,
a much greater one has been annihilated. Infanticide,
the former curse of this country, and the cause of
its scanty population, a crime every way calculated
to make men bloody-minded and ferocious, and to stifle
every benevolent and tender feeling, has totally disappeared
wherever an intercourse has taken place between the
natives and the crews of European vessels.
The New Zealand method of “courtship
and matrimony” is a most extraordinary one;
so much so, that an observer could never imagine any
affection existed between the parties. A man sees
a woman whom he fancies he should like for a wife;
he asks the consent of her father, or, if an orphan,
of her nearest relation, which, if he obtains, he carries
his “intended” off by force, she resisting
with all her strength; and, as the New Zealand girls
are generally pretty robust, sometimes a dreadful
struggle takes place; both are soon stripped to the
skin, and it is sometimes the work of hours to remove
the fair prize a hundred yards. If she breaks
away, she instantly flies from her antagonist, and
he has his labour to commence again. We may suppose
that if the lady feels any wish to be united to her
would-be spouse, she will not make too violent an
opposition; but it sometimes happens that she secures
her retreat into her father’s house, and the
lover loses all chance of ever obtaining her; whereas,
if he can manage to carry her in triumph into his own,
she immediately, becomes his wife. The women
have a decided aversion to marriage, which can scarcely
be wondered at, when we consider how they are circumstanced.
While they remain single, they enjoy all the privileges
of the other sex; they may rove where they please,
and bestow their favours on whom they choose, and
are entirely beyond control or restraint; but when
married their freedom is at an end; they become mere
slaves, and sink gradually into domestic drudges to
those who have the power of life and death over them;
and whether their conduct be criminal or exemplary,
they are equally likely to receive a blow, in a moment
of passion, of sufficient force to end life and slavery
together! There are many exceptions to this frightful
picture; and I saw several old couples, who had been
united in youth, who had always lived in happiness
together, and whose kind and friendly manner towards
each other set an example well worthy of imitation
in many English families.