LIFE AT PETERBORO.
The year, with us, was never considered
complete without a visit to Peterboro, N.Y., the home
of Gerrit Smith. Though he was a reformer and
was very radical in many of his ideas, yet, being a
man of broad sympathies, culture, wealth, and position,
he drew around him many friends of the most conservative
opinions. He was a man of fine presence, rare
physical beauty, most affable and courteous in manner,
and his hospitalities were generous to an extreme,
and dispensed to all classes of society.
Every year representatives from the
Oneida tribe of Indians visited him. His father
had early purchased of them large tracts of land, and
there was a tradition among them that, as an equivalent
for the good bargains of the father, they had a right
to the son’s hospitality, with annual gifts
of clothing and provisions. The slaves, too, had
heard of Gerrit Smith, the abolitionist, and of Peterboro
as one of the safe points en route for Canada.
His mansion was, in fact, one of the stations on the
“underground railroad” for slaves escaping
from bondage. Hence they, too, felt that they
had a right to a place under his protecting roof.
On such occasions the barn and the kitchen floor were
utilized as chambers for the black man from the southern
plantation and the red man from his home in the forest.
The spacious home was always enlivened
with choice society from every part of the country.
There one would meet members of the families of the
old Dutch aristocracy, the Van Rensselaers, the Van
Vechtens, the Schuylers, the Livingstons, the Bleeckers,
the Brinkerhoffs, the Ten Eycks, the Millers, the
Seymours, the Cochranes, the Biddles, the Barclays,
the Wendells, and many others.
As the lady of the house, Ann Carroll
Fitzhugh, was the daughter of a wealthy slaveholder
of Maryland, many agreeable Southerners were often
among the guests. Our immediate family relatives
were well represented by General John Cochrane and
his sisters, General Baird and his wife from West
Point, the Fitzhughs from Oswego and Geneseo, the Backuses
and Tallmans from Rochester, and the Swifts from Geneva.
Here one was sure to meet scholars, philosophers,
philanthropists, judges, bishops, clergymen, and statesmen.
Judge Alfred Conkling, the father
of Roscoe Conkling, was, in his late years, frequently
seen at Peterboro. Tall and stately, after all
life’s troubled scenes, financial losses and
domestic sorrows, he used to say there was no spot
on earth that seemed so like his idea of Paradise.
The proud, reserved judge was unaccustomed to manifestations
of affection and tender interest in his behalf, and
when Gerrit, taking him by both hands would, in his
softest tones say, “Good-morning,” and
inquire how he had slept and what he would like to
do that day, and Nancy would greet him with equal
warmth and pin a little bunch of roses in his buttonhole,
I have seen the tears in his eyes. Their warm
sympathies and sweet simplicity of manner melted the
sternest natures and made the most reserved amiable.
There never was such an atmosphere of love and peace,
of freedom and good cheer, in any other home I visited.
And this was the universal testimony of those who
were guests at Peterboro. To go anywhere else,
after a visit there, was like coming down from the
divine heights into the valley of humiliation.
How changed from the early days when,
as strict Presbyterians, they believed in all the
doctrines of Calvin! Then, an indefinite gloom
pervaded their home. Their consciences were diseased.
They attached such undue importance to forms that
they went through three kinds of baptism. At
one time Nancy would read nothing but the Bible, sing
nothing but hymns, and play only sacred music.
She felt guilty if she talked on any subject except
religion. She was, in all respects, a fitting
mate for her attractive husband. Exquisitely
refined in feeling and manner, beautiful in face and
form, earnest and sincere, she sympathized with him
in all his ideas of religion and reform. Together
they passed through every stage of theological experience,
from the uncertain ground of superstition and speculation
to the solid foundation of science and reason.
The position of the Church in the anti-slavery conflict,
opening as it did all questions of ecclesiastical
authority, Bible interpretation, and church discipline,
awakened them to new thought and broader views on
religious subjects, and eventually emancipated them
entirely from the old dogmas and formalities of their
faith, and lifted them into the cheerful atmosphere
in which they passed the remainder of their lives.
Their only daughter, Elizabeth, added greatly to the
attractions of the home circle, as she drew many young
people round her. Beside her personal charm she
was the heiress of a vast estate and had many admirers.
The favored one was Charles Dudley Miller of Utica,
nephew of Mrs. Blandina Bleecker Dudley, founder of
the Albany Observatory. At the close of his college
life Mr. Miller had not only mastered the languages,
mathematics, rhetoric, and logic, but had learned
the secret windings of the human heart. He understood
the art of pleasing.
These were the times when the anti-slavery
question was up for hot discussion. In all the
neighboring towns conventions were held in which James
G. Birney, a Southern gentleman who had emancipated
his slaves, Charles Stuart of Scotland, and George
Thompson of England, Garrison, Phillips, May, Beriah
Greene, Foster, Abby Kelly, Lucretia Mott, Douglass,
and others took part. Here, too, John Brown, Sanborn,
Morton, and Frederick Douglass met to talk over that
fatal movement on Harper’s Ferry. On the
question of temperance, also, the people were in a
ferment. Dr. Cheever’s pamphlet, “Deacon
Giles’ Distillery,” was scattered far
and wide, and, as he was sued for libel, the question
was discussed in the courts as well as at every fireside.
Then came the Father Matthew and Washingtonian movements,
and the position of the Church on these questions
intensified and embittered the conflict. This
brought the Cheevers, the Pierponts, the Delevans,
the Nortons, and their charming wives to Peterboro.
It was with such company and varied discussions on
every possible phase of political, religious, and social
life that I spent weeks every year. Gerrit Smith
was cool and calm in debate, and, as he was armed
at all points on these subjects, he could afford to
be patient and fair with an opponent, whether on the
platform or at the fireside. These rousing arguments
at Peterboro made social life seem tame and profitless
elsewhere, and the youngest of us felt that the conclusions
reached in this school of philosophy were not to be
questioned. The sisters of General Cochrane, in
disputes with their Dutch cousins in Schenectady and
Albany, would end all controversy by saying, “This
question was fully discussed at Peterboro, and settled.”
The youngsters frequently put the
lessons of freedom and individual rights they heard
so much of into practice, and relieved their brains
from the constant strain of argument on first principles,
by the wildest hilarity in dancing, all kinds of games,
and practical jokes carried beyond all bounds of propriety.
These romps generally took place at Mr. Miller’s.
He used to say facetiously, that they talked a good
deal about liberty over the way, but he kept the goddess
under his roof. One memorable occasion in which
our enthusiasm was kept at white heat for two hours
I must try to describe, though words cannot do it justice,
as it was pre-eminently a spectacular performance.
The imagination even cannot do justice to the limp,
woe-begone appearance of the actors in the closing
scene. These romps were conducted on a purely
democratic basis, without regard to color, sex, or
previous condition of servitude.
It was rather a cold day in the month
of March, when “Cousin Charley,” as we
called Mr. Miller, was superintending some men who
were laying a plank walk in the rear of his premises.
Some half dozen of us were invited to an early tea
at good Deacon Huntington’s. Immediately
after dinner, Miss Fitzhugh and Miss Van Schaack decided
to take a nap, that they might appear as brilliant
as possible during the evening. That they might
not be late, as they invariably were, Cousin Lizzie
and I decided to rouse them in good season with a
generous sprinkling of cold water. In vain they
struggled to keep the blankets around them; with equal
force we pulled them away, and, whenever a stray finger
or toe appeared, we brought fresh batteries to bear,
until they saw that passive resistance must give place
to active hostility. We were armed with two watering
pots. They armed themselves with two large-sized
syringes used for showering potato bugs. With
these weapons they gave us chase downstairs.
We ran into a closet and held the door shut. They
quietly waited our forthcoming. As soon as we
opened the door to peep out, Miss Fitzhugh, who was
large and strong, pulled it wide open and showered
us with a vengeance. Then they fled into a large
pantry where stood several pans of milk.
At this stage Cousin Charley, hearing
the rumpus, came to our assistance. He locked
them in the pantry and returned to his work, whereupon
they opened the window and showered him with milk,
while he, in turn, pelted them with wet clothes, soaking
in tubs near by. As they were thinly clad, wet
to the skin, and the cold March wind blew round them
(we were all in fatigue costume in starting) they implored
us to let them out, which we did, and, in return for
our kindness, they gave us a broadside of milk in
our faces. Cousin Lizzie and I fled to the dark
closet, where they locked us in. After long, weary
waiting they came to offer us terms of capitulation.
Lizzie agreed to fill their guns with milk, and give
them our watering pots full of water, and I agreed
to call Cousin Charley under my window until they emptied
the contents of guns and pots on his head. My
room was on the first floor, and Miss Fitzhugh’s
immediately overhead. On these terms we accepted
our freedom. Accordingly, I gently raised the
window and called Charley confidentially within whispering
distance, when down came a shower of water. As
he stepped back to look up and see whence it came,
and who made the attack, a stream of milk hit him
on the forehead, his heels struck a plank, and he
fell backward, to all appearance knocked down with
a stream of milk. His humiliation was received
with shouts of derisive laughter, and even the carpenters
at work laid down their hammers and joined in the
chorus; but his revenge was swift and capped the climax.
Cold and wet as we all were, and completely tired out,
we commenced to disrobe and get ready for the tea
party. Unfortunately I had forgotten to lock
my door, and in walked Cousin Charley with a quart
bottle of liquid blacking, which he prepared to empty
on my devoted head. I begged so eloquently and
trembled so at the idea of being dyed black, that
he said he would let me off on one condition, and that
was to get him, by some means, into Miss Fitzhugh’s
room. So I ran screaming up the stairs, as if
hotly pursued by the enemy, and begged her to let
me in. She cautiously opened the door, but when
she saw Charley behind me she tried to force it shut.
However, he was too quick for her. He had one
leg and arm in; but, at that stage of her toilet, to
let him in was impossible, and there they stood, equally
strong, firmly braced, she on one side of the door
and he on the other. But the blacking he was
determined she should have; so, gauging her probable
position, with one desperate effort he squeezed in
a little farther and, raising the bottle, he poured
the contents on her head. The blacking went streaming
down over her face, white robe, and person, and left
her looking more like a bronze fury than one of Eve’s
most charming daughters. A yard or more of the
carpet was ruined, the wallpaper and bedclothes spattered,
and the poor victim was unfit to be seen for a week
at least. Charley had a good excuse for his extreme
measures, for, as we all by turn played our tricks
on him, it was necessary to keep us in some fear of
punishment. This was but one of the many outrageous
pranks we perpetrated on each other. To see us
a few hours later, all absorbed in an anti-slavery
or temperance convention, or dressed in our best, in
high discourse with the philosophers, one would never
think we could have been guilty of such consummate
follies. It was, however, but the natural reaction
from the general serious trend of our thoughts.
It was in Peterboro, too, that I first
met one who was then considered the most eloquent
and impassioned orator on the anti-slavery platform,
Henry B. Stanton. He had come over from Utica
with Alvin Stewart’s beautiful daughter, to
whom report said he was engaged; but, as she soon
after married Luther R. Marsh, there was a mistake
somewhere. However, the rumor had its advantages.
Regarding him as not in the matrimonial market, we
were all much more free and easy in our manners with
him than we would otherwise have been. A series
of anti-slavery conventions was being held in Madison
County, and there I had the pleasure of hearing him
for the first time. As I had a passion for oratory,
I was deeply impressed with his power. He was
not so smooth and eloquent as Phillips, but he could
make his audience both laugh and cry; the latter, Phillips
himself said he never could do. Mr. Stanton was
then in his prime, a fine-looking, affable young man,
with remarkable conversational talent, and was ten
years my senior, with the advantage that number of
years necessarily gives.
Two carriage-loads of ladies and gentlemen
drove off every morning, sometimes ten miles, to one
of these conventions, returning late at night.
I shall never forget those charming drives over the
hills in Madison County, the bright autumnal days,
and the bewitching moonlight nights. The enthusiasm
of the people in these great meetings, the thrilling
oratory, and lucid arguments of the speakers, all conspired
to make these days memorable as among the most charming
in my life. It seemed to me that I never had
so much happiness crowded into one short month.
I had become interested in the anti-slavery and temperance
questions, and was deeply impressed with the appeals
and arguments. I felt a new inspiration in life
and was enthused with new ideas of individual rights
and the basic principles of government, for the anti-slavery
platform was the best school the American people ever
had on which to learn republican principles and ethics.
These conventions and the discussions at my cousin’s
fireside I count among the great blessings of my life.
One morning, as we came out from breakfast,
Mr. Stanton joined me on the piazza, where I was walking
up and down enjoying the balmy air and the beauty
of the foliage. “As we have no conventions,”
said he, “on hand, what do you say to a ride
on horseback this morning?” I readily accepted
the suggestion, ordered the horses, put on my habit,
and away we went. The roads were fine and we
took a long ride. As we were returning home we
stopped often to admire the scenery and, perchance,
each other. When walking slowly through a beautiful
grove, he laid his hand on the horn of the saddle
and, to my surprise, made one of those charming revelations
of human feeling which brave knights have always found
eloquent words to utter, and to which fair ladies have
always listened with mingled emotions of pleasure
and astonishment.
One outcome of those glorious days
of October, 1839, was a marriage, in Johnstown, the
10th day of May, 1840, and a voyage to the Old World.
Six weeks of that charming autumn,
ending in the Indian summer with its peculiarly hazy
atmosphere, I lingered in Peterboro. It seems
in retrospect like a beautiful dream. A succession
of guests was constantly coming and going, and I still
remember the daily drives over those grand old hills
crowned with trees now gorgeous in rich colors, the
more charming because we knew the time was short before
the cold winds of November would change all.
The early setting sun warned us that
the shortening days must soon end our twilight drives,
and the moonlight nights were too chilly to linger
long in the rustic arbors or shady nooks outside.
With the peculiar charm of this season of the year
there is always a touch of sadness in nature, and
it seemed doubly so to me, as my engagement was not
one of unmixed joy and satisfaction. Among all
conservative families there was a strong aversion
to abolitionists and the whole anti-slavery movement.
Alone with Cousin Gerrit in his library he warned me,
in deep, solemn tones, while strongly eulogizing my
lover, that my father would never consent to my marriage
with an abolitionist. He felt in duty bound, as
my engagement had occurred under his roof, to free
himself from all responsibility by giving me a long
dissertation on love, friendship, marriage, and all
the pitfalls for the unwary, who, without due consideration,
formed matrimonial relations. The general principles
laid down in this interview did not strike my youthful
mind so forcibly as the suggestion that it was better
to announce my engagement by letter than to wait until
I returned home, as thus I might draw the hottest
fire while still in safe harbor, where Cousin Gerrit
could help me defend the weak points in my position.
So I lingered at Peterboro to prolong the dream of
happiness and postpone the conflict I feared to meet.
But the Judge understood the advantage
of our position as well as we did, and wasted no ammunition
on us. Being even more indignant at my cousin
than at me, he quietly waited until I returned home,
when I passed through the ordeal of another interview,
with another dissertation on domestic relations from
a financial standpoint. These were two of the
most bewildering interviews I ever had. They succeeded
in making me feel that the step I proposed to take
was the most momentous and far-reaching in its consequences
of any in this mortal life. Heretofore my apprehensions
had all been of death and eternity; now life itself
was filled with fears and anxiety as to the possibilities
of the future. Thus these two noble men, who would
have done anything for my happiness, actually overweighted
my conscience and turned the sweetest dream of my
life into a tragedy. How little strong men, with
their logic, sophistry, and hypothetical examples,
appreciate the violence they inflict on the tender
sensibilities of a woman’s heart, in trying
to subjugate her to their will! The love of protecting
too often degenerates into downright tyranny.
Fortunately all these sombre pictures of a possible
future were thrown into the background by the tender
missives every post brought me, in which the brilliant
word-painting of one of the most eloquent pens of this
generation made the future for us both, as bright
and beautiful as Spring with her verdure and blossoms
of promise.
However, many things were always transpiring
at Peterboro to turn one’s thoughts and rouse
new interest in humanity at large. One day, as
a bevy of us girls were singing and chattering in
the parlor, Cousin Gerrit entered and, in mysterious
tones, said: “I have a most important secret
to tell you, which you must keep to yourselves religiously
for twenty-four hours.”
We readily pledged ourselves in the
most solemn manner, individually and collectively.
“Now,” said he, “follow me to the
third story.”
This we did, wondering what the secret
could be. At last, opening a door, he ushered
us into a large room, in the center of which sat a
beautiful quadroon girl, about eighteen years of age.
Addressing her, he said:
“Harriet, I have brought all
my young cousins to see you. I want you to make
good abolitionists of them by telling them the history
of your life what you have seen and suffered
in slavery.”
Turning to us he said:
“Harriet has just escaped from
her master, who is visiting in Syracuse, and is on
her way to Canada. She will start this evening
and you may never have another opportunity of seeing
a slave girl face to face, so ask her all you care
to know of the system of slavery.”
For two hours we listened to the sad
story of her childhood and youth, separated from all
her family and sold for her beauty in a New Orleans
market when but fourteen years of age. The details
of her story I need not repeat. The fate of such
girls is too well known to need rehearsal. We
all wept together as she talked, and, when Cousin Gerrit
returned to summon us away, we needed no further education
to make us earnest abolitionists.
Dressed as a Quakeress, Harriet started
at twilight with one of Mr. Smith’s faithful
clerks in a carriage for Oswego, there to cross the
lake to Canada. The next day her master and the
marshals from Syracuse were on her track in Peterboro,
and traced her to Mr. Smith’s premises.
He was quite gracious in receiving them, and, while
assuring them that there was no slave there, he said
that they were at liberty to make a thorough search
of the house and grounds. He invited them to stay
and dine and kept them talking as long as possible,
as every hour helped Harriet to get beyond their reach;
for, although she had eighteen hours the start of
them, yet we feared some accident might have delayed
her. The master was evidently a gentleman, for,
on Mr. Smith’s assurance that Harriet was not
there, he made no search, feeling that they could not
do so without appearing to doubt his word. He
was evidently surprised to find an abolitionist so
courteous and affable, and it was interesting to hear
them in conversation, at dinner, calmly discussing
the problem of slavery, while public sentiment was
at white heat on the question. They shook hands
warmly at parting and expressed an equal interest in
the final adjustment of that national difficulty.
In due time the clerk returned with
the good news that Harriet was safe with friends in
a good situation in Canada. Mr. Smith then published
an open letter to the master in the New York Tribune,
saying “that he would no doubt rejoice to know
that his slave Harriet, in whose fate he felt so deep
an interest, was now a free woman, safe under the shadow
of the British throne. I had the honor of entertaining
her under my roof, sending her in my carriage to Lake
Ontario, just eighteen hours before your arrival:
hence my willingness to have you search my premises.”
Like the varied combinations of the
kaleidoscope, the scenes in our social life at Peterboro
were continually changing from grave to gay.
Some years later we had a most hilarious occasion at
the marriage of Mary Cochrane, sister of General John
Cochrane, to Chapman Biddle, of Philadelphia.
The festivities, which were kept up for three days,
involved most elaborate preparations for breakfasts,
dinners, etc., there being no Delmonico’s
in that remote part of the country. It was decided
in family council that we had sufficient culinary talent
under the roof to prepare the entire menu of
substantials and delicacies, from soup and salmon
to cakes and creams. So, gifted ladies and gentlemen
were impressed into the service. The Fitzhughs
all had a natural talent for cooking, and chief among
them was Isabella, wife of a naval officer, Lieutenant
Swift of Geneva, who had made a profound
study of all the authorities from Archestratus, a poet
in Syracuse, the most famous cook among the Greeks,
down to our own Miss Leslie. Accordingly she
was elected manager of the occasion, and to each one
was assigned the specialty in which she claimed to
excel. Those who had no specialty were assistants
to those who had. In this humble office “assistant
at large” I labored throughout.
Cooking is a high art. A wise
Egyptian said, long ago: “The degree of
taste and skill manifested by a nation in the preparation
of food may be regarded as to a very considerable
extent proportioned to its culture and refinement.”
In early times men, only, were deemed capable of handling
fire, whether at the altar or the hearthstone.
We read in the Scriptures that Abraham prepared cakes
of fine meal and a calf tender and good, which, with
butter and milk, he set before the three angels in
the plains of Mamre. We are told, too, of the
chief butler and chief baker as officers in the household
of King Pharaoh. I would like to call the attention
of my readers to the dignity of this profession, which
some young women affect to despise. The fact that
angels eat, shows that we may be called upon in the
next sphere to cook even for cherubim and seraphim.
How important, then, to cultivate one’s gifts
in that direction!
With such facts before us, we stirred
and pounded, whipped and ground, coaxed the delicate
meats from crabs and lobsters and the succulent peas
from the pods, and grated corn and cocoanut with the
same cheerfulness and devotion that we played Mendelssohn’s
“Songs Without Words” on the piano, the
Spanish Fandango on our guitars, or danced the minuet,
polka, lancers, or Virginia reel.
During the day of the wedding, every
stage coach was crowded with guests from the North,
South, East, and West, and, as the twilight deepened,
carriages began to roll in with neighbors and friends
living at short distances, until the house and grounds
were full. A son of Bishop Coxe, who married
the tall and stately sister of Roscoe Conkling, performed
the ceremony. The beautiful young bride was given
away by her Uncle Gerrit. The congratulations,
the feast, and all went off with fitting decorum in
the usual way. The best proof of the excellence
of our viands was that they were all speedily swept
from mortal view, and every housewife wanted a recipe
for something.
As the grand dinner was to come off
the next day, our thoughts now turned in that direction.
The responsibility rested heavily on the heads of
the chief actors, and they reported troubled dreams
and unduly early rising. Dear Belle Swift was
up in season and her white soup stood serenely in
a tin pan, on an upper shelf, before the town clock
struck seven. If it had not taken that position
so early, it might have been incorporated with higher
forms of life than that into which it eventually fell.
Another artist was also on the wing early, and in
pursuit of a tin pan in which to hide her precious
compound, she unwittingly seized this one, and the
rich white soup rolled down her raven locks like the
oil on Aaron’s beard, and enveloped her in a
veil of filmy whiteness. I heard the splash and
the exclamation of surprise and entered the butler’s
pantry just in time to see the heiress of the Smith
estate standing like a statue, tin pan in hand, soup
in her curls, her eyebrows and eyelashes, collar,
cuffs, and morning dress saturated, and
Belle, at a little distance, looking at her and the
soup on the floor with surprise and disgust depicted
on every feature. The tableau was inexpressibly
comical, and I could not help laughing outright; whereupon
Belle turned on me, and, with indignant tones, said,
“If you had been up since four o’clock
making that soup you would not stand there like a
laughing monkey, without the least feeling of pity!”
Poor Lizzie was very sorry, and would have shed tears,
but they could not penetrate that film of soup.
I tried to apologize, but could only laugh the more
when I saw Belle crying and Lizzie standing as if hoping
that the soup might be scraped off her and gathered
from the floor and made to do duty on the occasion.
After breakfast, ladies and gentlemen,
alike in white aprons, crowded into the dining room
and kitchen, each to perform the allotted task.
George Biddle of Philadelphia and John B. Miller of
Utica, in holiday spirits, were irrepressible everywhere
at the same moment, helping or hindering as the case
might be. Dear Belle, having only partially recovered
from the white-soup catastrophe, called Mr. Biddle
to hold the ice-cream freezer while she poured in
the luscious compound she had just prepared.
He held it up without resting it on anything, while
Belle slowly poured in the cream. As the freezer
had no indentations round the top or rim to brace
the thumbs and fingers, when it grew suddenly heavier
his hands slipped and down went the whole thing, spattering
poor Belle and spoiling a beautiful pair of gaiters
in which, as she had very pretty feet, she took a
laudable pride. In another corner sat Wealthea
Backus, grating some cocoanut. While struggling
in that operation, John Miller, feeling hilarious,
was annoying her in divers ways; at length she drew
the grater across his nose, gently, as she intended,
but alas! she took the skin off, and John’s
beauty, for the remainder of the festivities, was
marred with a black patch on that prominent feature.
One can readily imagine the fun that must have transpired
where so many amateur cooks were at work round one
table, with all manner of culinary tools and ingredients.
As assistant-at-large I was summoned
to the cellar, where Mrs. Cornelia Barclay of New
York was evolving from a pan of flour and water that
miracle in the pie department called puff paste.
This, it seems, can only be accomplished where the
thermometer is below forty, and near a refrigerator
where the compound can be kept cold until ready to
be popped into the oven. No jokes or nonsense
here. With queenly dignity the flour and water
were gently compressed. Here one hand must not
know what the other doeth. Bits of butter must
be so deftly introduced that even the rolling pin
may be unconscious of its work. As the artist
gave the last touch to an exquisite lemon pie, with
a mingled expression of pride and satisfaction on
her classic features, she ordered me to bear it to
the oven. In the transit I met Madam Belle.
“Don’t let that fall,” she said
sneeringly. Fortunately I did not, and returned
in triumph to transport another. I was then summoned
to a consultation with the committee on toasts, consisting
of James Cochrane, John Miller, and myself. Mr.
Miller had one for each guest already written, all
of which we accepted and pronounced very good.
Strange to say, a most excellent dinner
emerged from all this uproar and confusion. The
table, with its silver, china, flowers, and rich viands,
the guests in satins, velvets, jewels, soft laces,
and bright cravats, together reflecting all the colors
of the prism, looked as beautiful as the rainbow after
a thunderstorm.
Twenty years ago I made my last sad
visit to that spot so rich with pleasant memories
of bygone days. A few relatives and family friends
gathered there to pay the last tokens of respect to
our noble cousin. It was on one of the coldest
days of gray December that we laid him in the frozen
earth, to be seen no more. He died from a stroke
of apoplexy in New York city, at the home of his niece,
Mrs. Ellen Cochrane Walter, whose mother was Mr. Smith’s
only sister. The journey from New York to Peterboro
was cold and dreary, and climbing the hills from Canastota
in an open sleigh, nine hundred feet above the valley,
with the thermometer below zero, before sunrise, made
all nature look as sombre as the sad errand on which
we came.
Outside the mansion everything in
its wintry garb was cold and still, and all within
was silent as the grave. The central figure, the
light and joy of that home, had vanished forever.
He who had welcomed us on that threshold for half
a century would welcome us no more. We did what
we could to dissipate the gloom that settled on us
all. We did not intensify our grief by darkening
the house and covering ourselves with black crape,
but wore our accustomed dresses of chastened colors
and opened all the blinds that the glad sunshine might
stream in. We hung the apartment where the casket
stood with wreaths of evergreens, and overhead we
wove his favorite mottoes in living letters, “Equal
rights for all!” “Rescue Cuba now!”
The religious services were short and simple; the
Unitarian clergyman from Syracuse made a few remarks,
the children from the orphan asylum, in which he was
deeply interested, sang an appropriate hymn, and around
the grave stood representatives of the Biddles, the
Dixwells, the Sedgwicks, the Barclays, and Stantons,
and three generations of his immediate family.
With a few appropriate words from General John Cochrane
we left our beloved kinsman alone in his last resting
place. Two months later, on his birthday, his
wife, Ann Carroll Fitzhugh, passed away and was laid
by his side. Theirs was a remarkably happy union
of over half a century, and they were soon reunited
in the life eternal.