“Deal gently with her; thou art
dear
Beyond what vestal lips have
told,
And, like a lamb from fountains clear,
She turns confiding to thy
fold.
She, round thy sweet domestic bower,
The wreath of changeless love
shall twine,
Watch for thy step at vesper hour,
And blend her holiest prayer
with thine.
“Deal gently thou, when far away
’Mid stranger scenes
her foot shall rove,
Nor let thy tender care decay
The soul of woman lives in
love.
And shouldst thou, wondering, mark a tear
Unconscious from her eyelids
break,
Be pitiful, and soothe the fear
That man’s strong heart
may ne’er partake.” Mrs. Sigourney.
The members of the Darling family
began to perceive that they had a sister of whom they
might justly be proud. She had endeared herself
to them all by many tender ministrations of love;
and whenever they thought of home, they thought of
Grace also. And when they were away from home,
pursuing their different avocations on the mainland,
it occurred to them that it would give Grace pleasure,
and show their appreciation of her kindness, if they
sent her an occasional present. Nor was there
any need to hold a consultation as to what form the
gift should take.
“Nothing will please Grace so
much as a book,” one and all would have said,
had their opinion been asked.
Grace’s fondness for reading
was indeed well known, as also her preference for
poetry. But hitherto she had been obliged to
content herself with the ballads of Bamborough and
the surrounding neighbourhood. Now, however,
her brothers sent her such books as she could revel
in namely, the poetic works of Goldsmith,
Cowper, Milton, and Shakespeare. She especially
enjoyed her favourite author, Goldsmith, and passed
many a pleasant hour in the lonely lighthouse-tower,
reading the “Traveller” and the “Deserted
Village.”
But in the midst of her reading-delights,
there occurred the first wedding in the family.
“Grace, will you be my bridesmaid!”
was the request which Mary Ann sent to her sister,
and of course it was one that could not be resisted.
Was there ever a girl who did not feel delighted to
attend a wedding? And the bridesmaids sometimes
have the best of it; for it is not to them so solemn
an occasion as it is to the bride. They are not
entering upon a new and untried sphere, nor seeking
to fulfil a position which may be, and is very delightful,
but which carries with it a large amount of responsibility.
The duties of a bridesmaid are altogether easy and
pleasant, and Grace had no difficulty in consenting
to take them upon herself.
But Mary Ann was not easily satisfied.
“I want Grace for a week,” she said.
“She can help me to do many things toward getting
my new home in order, and helping me with the necessary
preparations with my own dress; and I am sure that
a week is none too long for so much.”
“Would you like to go for a
week, Grace!” asked her mother.
“I never like being away from
home,” replied Grace, “but, upon such an
occasion as this, I think Mary Ann ought to have her
own way.”
Everybody thought the same, and Grace
accordingly arranged to go. But so endeared
was the lighthouse-home to Grace Darling, and so dear
was she to the hearts of the dwellers there, that
although her absence was to be only a short one, yet,
when she received the parting kiss of her mother,
and the blessing of her father, the affectionate girl
shed tears of regret at having to leave them.
Grace, however, never forgot the week
that followed, nor the happy time that she spent with
her sister. She listened with hearty interest
and sympathy to all the hopes of the bride to
the plans that she had formed, and the resolutions
she had made. She heartily entered into all
that concerned Mary Ann, and was not sorry to have
so good an opportunity of becoming better acquainted
with her brother-in-law, whom she soon learned to
love and respect. A man must need be worthy,
if a loving girl is willing to give her dear sister
into his keeping, and in this case Grace was not afraid.
He took his new sister into his confidence, and showed
her the neat and comfortable home which he had prepared
for his bride, and which altogether pleased her.
“And you must come to see us
as often as you can, Grace. Remember there will
always be a welcome for you, come when you may.”
“Thank you,” said Grace.
“I cannot get away from home very often, but
I will come when I can. At all events I am most
glad to be here now; and I know mother will be delighted
to hear all that I shall have to tell. She will
want to know full particulars about every table and
chair in Mary’s Ann’s new home.”
“Then you must describe everything
to her; and tell her we shall not be satisfied until
she and Mr. Darling have both been to see for themselves.”
The looked-for day came at last; and
Grace’s eyes sought the face of the young man
to whom her sister had given her love, and spoke to
him most eloquently. “Be kind to her she
is giving up everything for your sake,” said
those speaking eyes. Indeed, this is what should
be so whispered as to sink into the heart of every
bridegroom. A woman’s happiness is so
entirely in the care of her husband that, if he should
betray the trust, there is nothing but sorrow for her.
It is well when the man realises this, and prayerfully
resolves that, God helping him, he will make, and
not mar the joy of the heart that loves him.
This is what the young man meant to
do who married the sister of Grace Darling; and there
was every probability that they would be happy.
“If you love each other and
love God, you need not fear for the future,”
said a wise old man once to a married couple.
“If troubles come, bear them together as cheerfully
as you can. If pleasures come, share them with
each other, and so double them. In all things
acknowledge God, and keep Him before you, and all will
be well.”
And she whom Grace left tearfully,
and with many prayers for her happiness, doubtless
found the truth of this in her own experience.
Mr. and Mrs. Darling were very glad
to welcome their daughter home again, and she was
quite as glad to return. She found, as she expected,
that the mother had many questions to ask.
“Tell me some more about Mary
Ann, Grace,” said she many times; and as the
days were dull and wet, and there was nothing else
to do, these two had leisure to talk together, and
Mrs. Darling was satisfied.
She felt as all mothers do, when their
daughters have left the parental roof and chosen for
themselves one who shall take the place of the dear
old home friends, that little remained for her to do
now but to pray. Happily for us all, however,
there is a power in prayer that makes it worth more
to the beloved ones than any gift. And those
who pray bring down blessings upon the household,
though far away from it in body. One is always
near; and the Father of the human family is a prayer-answering
God.