“Who can find a virtuous woman?
for her price is far above rubies.
“She girdeth her loins with strength,
and strengtheneth her arms.
“She stretcheth out her hand to
the poor; yea, she reacheth forth
her hands to the
needy.
“Strength and honour are her clothing,
and she shall rejoice in time
to come.
“She openeth her mouth with wisdom;
and in her tongue is the
law of kindness.
“Many daughters have done virtuously,
but thou excellest them all.
“Favour is deceitful, and beauty
is vain; but a woman that feareth
the Lord, she
shall be praised.
“Give her of the fruit of her hands;
and let her own works praise
her in the gates.” Solomon.
It was not possible for Grace to carry
out the Scriptural injunction, and not let her right
hand know what her left hand did, for no sooner was
the account of the wreck published in the newspapers,
than the most intense excitement was created, and
a whole stream of admiration and praise set in the
direction of the lighthouse-girl. Such an occurrence
would naturally arouse the enthusiasm of our countrymen
and countrywomen, who would consider that they could
not too strongly express their feelings of delight.
All thoughts were immediately turned
to the wreck, and great interest was felt in the survivors.
Inquiries were at once made, in order to ascertain
the number of those who were lost in the “Forfarshire.”
It was not possible to do so, however, for no entries
had been made at the time of embarkation, so that
it was never certainly known how many had perished.
It was supposed that the passengers numbered more
than fifty, and the crew about twenty. Many
of the sufferers were Scotch, and some came from a
long distance. One gentleman lost his wife, son
and grandson; another his mother and brother.
The captain, and his wife, as has been already stated,
were both drowned.
Many people visited the wreck, some
from curiosity and some because they had a good purpose
in view. The wreck consisted of the forecastle,
part of the engine, paddle-wheels, anchor, cable, foremast,
and rigging. Two of the boilers were broken on
the rock, and the others were washed out to sea.
Search was made for the missing bodies, with partial
success; but the cargo, which was of great value, could
not be restored. Parts of the wreck were brought
by the waves to different places, such as Hauxley,
Amble, Hartley, and other parts of Northumberland.
The fishermen and revenue officers made every effort,
and rendered all possible assistance, but nothing of
much value could be recovered.
While this was going on, the Longstone
lighthouse became the centre of a marvellous fascination
to thousands of people. The story of the girl
going out in the boat over a stormy sea, and succeeding
in saving a number of lives that were in jeopardy,
thrilled the hearts of all who read, and made them
eager to know more of the wonder. Nor was simple
curiosity all that was excited. It was felt that
such a deed deserved most substantial reward, and
a public subscription was at once set on foot.
To this the bank-notes and gold of the wealthy, the
silver of the middle classes, and the coppers of the
poor, were willingly given; and in a short space of
time Grace was presented with the splendid sum of
700 pounds.
“The Royal Humane Society”
could not allow such an act to pass by without notice,
but forwarded a very expressive and flattering vote
of thanks to her. As if this were not enough,
the President of the Society presented her with a
very handsome silver teapot, in generous acknowledgment
of her service. Money, indeed, flowed in as well
as congratulation and praises. From Sunderland
a cheque was sent by Mr. Kidson; and we are able to
give Grace’s reply:
“To Mr. Kidson, Sutherland.
“Kind Sir I acknowledge
the receipt of yours of yesterday, with the cheque
for 15 pounds, 2 shillings, for which I trust you will
return my sincere thanks to the subscribers.
At the same time, I should feel much additional gratification
if you could, without much trouble, send me the names
of the same, which I wish to preserve.
“I remain, Sir,
“Your very obliged servant,
“G. H. DARLING.
“Longstone Light,
January 22nd, 1839.”
At Newcastle, as was only to be expected,
the greatest enthusiasm prevailed, and in that town
alone the sum subscribed reached the amount of 280
pounds, 10 shillings, 3 pence. Of this Grace
herself received 160 pounds, while a present of 58
pounds was made to her father, and 35 pounds to the
North Sunderland boatmen.
A statement of the amount of subscriptions
having been forwarded to her in a letter, Grace was
so affected by the perusal of its contents, that,
as she noted the sympathising language in which it
was couched, she shed tears of pleasure so exquisite
as are rarely shed by mortals. In the reply,
after expressing, in natural and unstudied language,
the grateful sense entertained by her of the kindness
of her friends in that town, she solicited the names
of the subscribers. It was only natural she
should wish to know and preserve them, for they were
those of her really warm friends and admirers.
This request was unhesitatingly complied with, and
the sheet has been carefully preserved in the lighthouse,
where we suppose it may still be seen. Amongst
the list occur the Trinity House, the Corporation,
T. E. Headlam, Esq., (that year mayor), Richard Clayton,
Matthew Bell, M.P., George Hawks, Joseph Cowen, and
a great many others.
An additional pleasure, as gratifying
as any previously received, was the following letter,
addressed by the hero of Navarino to the Editor of
the “Sun":
“SIR As I do not
know where to send the enclosed subscription for Grace
Darling, I shall feel obliged by your forwarding it
to the committee.
“I earnestly hope that the amount
collected may be commensurate with the extraordinary
deserts of that heroic girl, whose conduct in such
a perilous and almost hopeless undertaking, does honour
to humanity. I remain, &c.
“E. CODRINGTON.”
“The Royal National Institution
for the Preservation of Life from Shipwreck”
voted the silver medal of the Institution to Mr. Darling
and his daughter, and also subscribed the sum of 10
pounds in aid of the Darling Fund.
The Directors of the “Glasgow
Humane Society” sent to Grace their honorary
medal, to mark the high sense entertained by them of
her meritorious conduct. It bears the following
inscription:
“Presented by the Glasgow Humane
Society to Miss Grace Horsley Darling, in admiration
of her dauntless and heroic conduct in saving (along
with her father) the lives of nine persons from the
wreck of the ‘Forfarshire’ Steamer, 7th
September, 1838.”
The money was most freely and lavishly
contributed, every one appearing to feel it an honour
to testify their appreciation of the heroism and simple
courage of Grace Darling in every conceivable way.
His Grace, the Duke of Northumberland, exhibited
a very kindly interest in all that was being done,
not only giving a handsome subscription towards the
testimonial himself, but taking charge of the moneys
that were collected. Nor did his kindness end
even here; for with a sincere desire that the greatest
possible advantage should be gained from the contributions
of the public to the maiden for whom they were sent,
he advised her as to the best means of disposing of
the sums.
If she had chosen, Grace might have
made very considerable profit out of the deed.
Of course, her portrait was taken, and copies of it
sold with astonishing rapidity. Pictures were
painted and printed, and the members of every household
appeared to wish to possess one. Seeing the
furore which the girl had excited, one enterprising
manager of a theatre conceived the idea of having
the occurrence represented on the stage, and offered
her 800 pounds for merely sitting in a boat, so that
all eyes might see her. She, however, was too
modest a girl to take delight in anything of the kind.
“She was glad to have saved lives at the risk
of her own,” she declared, “and would most
willingly do it again if opportunity should occur,
but she could not feel that she had done anything
great; and certainly she did not wish for the praise
that was bestowed upon her. As to going to the
theatre to receive the plaudits of a curious crowd,
that was the last thing she desired!”
She was very nearly being caught in
a trap however, which was rather cleverly laid for
her. When receiving congratulations and being
interviewed was the order of the day, and therefore
excited no suspicion, a stranger came to the lighthouse,
who announced himself as a friend of Mr. Batty, the
proprietor of an equestrian circus, which was then
exhibiting at Edinburgh. Mr. Batty had given
an entertainment for the benefit of Grace, and had
thereby brought an overflowing audience to his theatre.
The stranger who came was welcomed as usual by the
Darlings, who gave him all the hospitable attentions
that were in their power, as indeed was their custom.
They could not help being pleased with him, for his
manners were courteous, his conversation lively, and
he evidently had a great desire to ingratiate himself
into their favour. He held frequent talks with
Grace, whom he flattered warmly, though so respectfully
that he did not give offence, and after a time he
contrived to insinuate a hint of his plan.
“The people of Edinburgh admire
you exceedingly, Miss Darling. I cannot imagine
anything that would give them greater pleasure than
to see you, if you would visit their beautiful city.”
“I should like to see it very
much, but I do not care to be looked at by the curious
eyes of strangers,” said Grace.
“Indeed, if the people are strangers,
they would be more friendly than curious, and you
know how sincere is their admiration of your heroic
act,” said the man.
“I know they are much more kind
than I deserve; and really I am not sure but that
it would make me happy to shake the hands of some of
them who are, though I have never seen them, my friends.”
“I wish you would come while
Mr. Batty’s company is there, Miss Darling.
It would give me great pleasure to show you any of
the lions of Edinburgh, or indeed to serve you in
any way I could.”
“You are very kind; I will think about it.”
“Cannot you decide while I am
here? Mr. Batty would himself be most delighted
to see you! May I not say that we shall have
the pleasure?
“Perhaps you may. I almost
think I will accept the kind invitation.”
“Thank you. It will give
me the most intense satisfaction, you may be quite
sure of that.”
Before the gentleman went away, he
said something which Grace seemed to consider in the
light of a joke about her presenting herself in Mr.
Batty’s circus. But the young woman did
not of course seriously consider such a thing, nor
even look at it in the light of a proposition.
Before he left the visitor handed
a paper to Grace, requesting her to sign it.
She ought to have read it, but not being well versed
in the ways of the world, did not consider it necessary
to do so; and only glanced at a word or two before
writing her name, imagining that she was simply sending
an acknowledgment of the money that Mr. Batty had
forwarded.
Then the man left; but if he had only
honestly declared his true errand, his reception would
have been very different.
What this really was came to light
a few days later, when an old and valued friend of
the family visited the lighthouse. Grace went
forward to greet him with a smile of warm welcome,
when she was suddenly chilled by his very grave and
cold manner.
“You are not pleased with me?
What is the matter?” cried Grace.
But the friend turned to William Darling,
and began to expostulate with him.
“I am not surprised that you
should be carried away by the stream of admiration
which has been lately pouring in upon you,” he
said, “but I never expected that you would consent
to such a thing as this in connection with Batty.
Grace might not know better, perhaps, but I cannot
think how her father could ever give his consent to
her submitting to the degradation of exposing herself
in the area of a circus for any idle eyes that please
to gaze upon her.”
“What do you mean?” cried
Mr. Darling, in horror. “I cannot understand
you! I have given my consent to nothing of the
kind!”
“Have you really done it without
your father’s permission?” said the friend,
turning to Grace.
“I wish you would explain yourself,”
said she. “I do nothing without first
consulting my father, and I am conscious of no wrong
now.”
“Yes, explain yourself,”
said Mr. Darling. “No man can be more anxious
than I to protect his daughter. Grace never has,
and never shall do anything that would compromise
her fair fame. I will watch jealously over that.”
William Darling felt warmly, and spoke
as he felt, and the visitor hastened to explain.
“I am told on good authority,
and indeed I know it to be true, that Mr. Batty holds
an agreement, signed by Grace, in which she pledges
herself to appear in his circus!”
“Oh, Grace, you surely never
did such a thing!” cried her father.
“No, father; indeed, I did not,”
said Grace, upon whom, however, a light flashed which
caused her to suspect the urbane visitor of a few
days before. “But, father, I did sign a
paper, which I believed was nothing but an acknowledgment
of the money that Mr. Batty sent me.”
“Did you put your name at the
bottom of the document without first reading it?”
“Yes, I did.”
“A most foolish thing to do,”
remarked their friend; “but the conduct of the
man who secured a promise in such a way, was most abominable.”
“Certainly it was,” replied
Mr. Darling; “and such an agreement cannot be
binding. Indeed, I will at once compel Mr. Batty
to contradict the report which is afloat. What
a shame it was!”
Grace coloured with vexation, and
there was an indignant ring in her voice, which told
how deeply the insult had hurt her.
“I could not help being flattered
by the attentions he paid me,” said Grace; “but
now, that I see what they were for, I feel completely
humiliated.”
“I will write a letter to this
Batty at once,” said Mr. Darling, “and
let him know what we think of his conduct.”
“Do,” replied his friend,
“you cannot be too decided in such a matter.”
Mr. Darling wrote, expressing, in
strong terms, the indignation which they all felt
at the deception which had been practised upon them,
and insisted that Mr. Batty should at once contradict
the false report which he had published.
The friend who had cared so much for
the family as to come to the islands to expostulate
with the Darlings on this subject, received the warmest
thanks, both of Grace and her father, for his kindness
and solicitude. Grace felt that she could scarcely
forgive Mr. Batty; and never afterwards alluded to
the circumstance, without giving expression to her
feelings of mortification. She had been really
humiliated; and the occurrence caused her to feel
what every woman does feel in similar circumstances,
that although good deeds draw the attention of the
world upon herself, yet there is very much that is
repugnant connected with publicity. The little
glimpse that is here given of the character of Grace
Darling’s father is interesting. He was
a member of the Church of England, and a good man.
He was upright, honourable, and courageous, as we
have already seen several times; and he was very particular
with regard to the habits of the children. He
did not allow cards nor dice in his household, nor
believe that people could go to theatres without receiving
some contamination. He wanted the young men
and women of his family to be content with simple pleasures,
and find their joy in doing their duty, and in the
companionships of their home. He had a special
wish that the girls should be modest and retiring;
and although Grace had been forced to the front, he
was still anxious that she should not lose any of
her maidenly reserve. It can, therefore, be
imagined how she was shocked and pained at the idea
of her appearing in the circus.
Grace become more and more famous
as the time went on. She paid a visit to the
Duchess of Northumberland, who sent for her, but such
an event deserves a special chapter. She did
not see the Queen, but Her Majesty was well acquainted
with the heroic deed, and the following ballad is
said to have been sung in the presence of our royal
and beloved Lady:
“The winds blew hard, the day looked
dark,
The clouds shot light’ning
forth,
But still the bold and vent’rous
bark
Sailed from the black’ning
north.
To foam was dashed each threat’ning
wave,
As o’er the vessel flew;
The sea yawned like a hungry grave
Around the gallant crew.
“When night closed in the storm
grew worse,
The boldest heart did quail;
The pious prayer the wicked
curse
Were mingled with the gale.
On, on they flew, with fated force;
They struck the deadly reef:
They sank! and through the wind so hoarse
Was heard the shriek of grief.
“While many a manly spirit quenched
Its life beneath the wave,
A few from death a moment wrenched,
Clung o’er an awful
grave.
Their cries were heard from lonely tower,
Unseen amidst the gloom;
A simple girl was sent, with power
To snatch them from the tomb.
“She urged her aged sire to ply,
With her, the frail boat’s
oar;
A father’s love had mastery,
He dared not leave the shore.
Her prayers prevailed they
forth were led
By God’s own helping
hand;
And those who were accounted dead
Sang praises on the land.
“’Tis sad to think the ocean
cave
May hide a gem so pure
But joy to feel ’tis ours to save
Such worth from fate obscure.
Then let us sing ‘The boatie rows,’
To tell of her fair fame,
Who honour on the race bestows
Grace Darling is her name.
“‘The boatie rows, the boatie
rows,’
In safety through the deep;
For Grace on Mercy’s mission goes,
And angels watch shall keep.”
Numerous songs in honour of the lighthouse-maiden
were written and sung, some of which we shall give
in these pages. Among the rest was the following,
which both Grace and her father highly esteemed, as
it was from the pen of Wordsworth:
“Among the dwellers in the silent
fields
The natural heart was touched, and public
way,
And crowded street, resound with ballad
strains,
Inspired by one, whose very name bespeaks
Favour divine, exalting human love,
Whom, since her birth on bleak Northumbria’s
coast,
Known but to few, but prized as far as
known,
A single act endears to high and low
Through the whole land to manhood,
moved in spite
Of the world’s freezing cares to
generous youth
To infancy, that lisps her praise and
age,
Whose eye reflects it, glistering through
a tear
Of tremulous admiration. Such true
fame
Awaits her now; but, verily, good deeds
Do not imperishable record find
Save in the rolls of heaven, where her’s
may live,
A theme for angels, when they celebrate
The high-soul’d virtues which forgetful
earth
Has witnessed. Oh! that winds and
waves could speak
Of things which their united power call’d
forth
From the pure depths of her humanity!
A maiden gentle, yet, at duty’s
call,
Firm and unflinching as the lighthouse
reared.
On the island rock, her lonely dwelling
place,
Or like the invincible rock itself that
braves,
Age after age, the hostile elements,
As when it guarded holy Cuthbert’s
cell.
“All night the storm had raged,
nor ceased nor paused,
When, as day broke, the maid, through
misty air,
Espies far off a wreck, amid the surf,
Beating on one of those disastrous isles.
Half of a vessel! half no
more! The rest
Had vanished, swallowed up with all that
there
Had for the common safety striven in vain,
Or thither thronged for refuge.
With quick glance
Daughter and sire through optic glass
discern,
Clinging about the remnant of this ship,
Creatures how precious in the
maiden’s sight!
For whom, belike, the old man grieves
still more
Than for their fellow-sufferers engulphed
Where every parting agony is hushed,
And hope and fear mix not in further strife.
’But courage, father! let us out
to sea
A few may yet be saved.’ The
daughter’s words,
Her earnest tone and look, beaming with
faith,
Dispel the father’s doubts; nor
do they lack
The noble-minded mother’s helping
hand
To launch the boat; and with her blessing
cheer’d,
And inwardly sustained by silent prayer,
Together they put forth, father and child!
Each grasps an oar, and, struggling, on
they go
Rivals in effort; and, alike intent
Here to elude and there to surmount, they
watch
The billows lengthening, mutually cross’d
And shattered, and regathering their might,
As if the wrath and troubles of the sea
Were by the Almighty’s sufferance
prolong’d
That woman’s fortitude so
tried, so proved
May brighten more and more!
“True
to that mark,
They stem the current of that perilous
gorge,
Their arms still strengthening with the
strengthening heart,
Though danger, as the wreck is neared,
becomes
More imminent. Nor unseen do they
approach;
And rapture, with varieties of fear
Incessantly conflicting, thrills the frame
Of those who, in that dauntless energy,
Foretaste deliverance; but the least perturb’d
Can scarcely trust his eyes, when he perceives
That of the pair tossed on
the waves to bring
Hope to the hopeless, to the dying, life
One is a woman, a poor earthly sister;
Or, be the visitant other than she seems!
A guardian spirit sent from pitying heaven,
In woman’s shape! But why
prolong the tale,
Casting weak words amid a host of thoughts
Arm’d to repel them? Every
hazard faced,
And difficulty mastered, with resolve
That no one breathing should be left to
perish,
This last remainder of the crew were all
Placed in the little boat, then o’er
the deep
Are safely borne, landed upon the beach,
And in fulfilment of God’s mercy,
lodged
Within the sheltering lighthouse.
Shout, ye waves!
Pipe a glad song of triumph, ye fierce
winds!
Ye screaming sea mews in the concert join!
And would that some immortal voice,
Fitly attuned to all that gratitude
Breathes out from flock or couch through
pallid lips
Of the survivors, to the clouds might
bear
(Blended with praise of that parental
love,
Pious and pure, modest and yet so brave,
Though young so wise, though meek so resolute)
Might carry to the clouds, and to the
stars,
Yea, to celestial choirs, GRACE DARLING’S
name.”
By a less-known writer, but one who
was evidently a keen admirer of
Grace, the following lines were also written:
“’Over the wave, the stormy
wave,
Hasten, dear father, with
me,
The crew to save from the wat’ry
grave,
Deep in the merciless sea.
Hear ye the shriek, the piercing shriek,
Hear ye the cry of despair?
With courage quick the wreck we’ll
seek,
Danger united we’ll
dare.
“’Out with the boat, the gallant
boat;
Not a moment to be lost.
See! she’s afloat, proudly afloat,
And high on the waves we’re
tossed;
Mother, adieu, a short adieu;
Your prayers will rise to
heaven.
Father, to you your child and
you
Power to save is given.
“’I have no fear, no maiden
fear;
My heart is firm to the deed,
I shed no tear, no coward tear;
I’ve strength in the
time of need.
Heard ye the crash, the horrid crash?
Their mast over the side is
gone;
Yet on we dash, ’mid lightning flash,
Safe, through the pelting
storm.
“’The wreck we near, the wreck
we near;
Our bonny boat seems to fly;
List to the cheer their welcome
cheer
They know that succour is
nigh.’
And on that night, that dreadful night,
The father and daughter brave,
With strengthened might they both unite,
And many dear lives they save.
“Hail to the maid, the fearless
maid,
The maid of matchless worth,
She’ll e’er abide the cherished
pride
Of the land that gave her
birth.
They send her gold, her name high uphold,
Honour and praise to impart;
But, with true regard, the loved reward
Is the joy of her own brave
heart.”
Very beautiful are the following lines,
which appeared in the
“Newcastle Chronicle,” and were written
by Miss Eleanor Louise
Montague:
“Sweet spirit of the merciful,
That smoothed the watery way!
From the true throb of heart to heart
Thou wilt not turn away;
Oh! softly, wilt thou lend thine ear,
When ’mid the tempest’s
war,
The feeble voice of woman’s praise
Shall greet thee from afar.
“I see thee in thy rock-built home,
Swept by the dashing seas,
I hear thy voice as on that night
It stilled the rushing breeze.
When stirred by heavenly visions,
Thou didst burst the bonds
of sleep,
To take thy place in peril’s path
The angel of the deep!
“Oh, where was then the tender form
That quailed to every blast!
Like the bread-gift to the famished,
‘Upon the waters cast!’
True to thy woman’s nature still,
While scorning woman’s
fears,
Oh, strongest in her gentleness,
And mightiest in her tears!
“Fair as thine own heroic deed
Thou risest on my dream,
A halo is around thee,
’Tis the tempest’s
lightning gleam
Upborne by every billow,
And o’erswept by every
gale,
One sound hath nerved thy noble heart
The dying seaman’s wail!
“Thine eye onto the wreck is turned
Thy hand is on the oar
Where is that death-prolonging shriek?
It thrills the seas no more!
A human soul to life hath risen
Where’er thy wing hath
waved:
The wail is hushed the storm
is past
The perishing are saved!
“Thou standest, like thy native
home,
A beacon lit on high;
Thy name comes o’er the waters
Like a nation’s gathering
cry;
And England’s sons shall hail thee,
Where’er that name shall
thrill,
A glory upon every wave
A light on every hill!”
So much praise was enough to turn
the head of any less sensible girl than our heroine;
but one who knew wrote of her after this time, in the
“Berwick and Kelso Warder:” “It
is indeed gratifying to state, that amidst all the
tumults of applause, Grace Darling never for a moment
forgot the modest dignity of conduct which became her
sex and station. The flattering testimonials
of all kinds which were showered upon her, never produced
in her mind any feeling but a sense of wonder and
pleasure. She continued, notwithstanding the
improvement of her circumstances, to reside at the
Longstone lighthouse with her father and mother, finding,
in her limited sphere of domestic duty on the sea-girt
islet, a more honourable and more lasting enjoyment
than could be found in the more crowded haunts of
the mainland, and thus afforded, by her conduct, the
best proof that the liberality of the public had not
been unworthily bestowed.”
A paper written in the “Scotsman”
on the subject is exceedingly good, and no doubt amazed
and delighted Grace as much as those that were more
apparently eulogistic; for to a sensible, modest girl,
too much praise is more disagreeable than none at
all.
“The Grace Darling Mania. Never
was poor girl in so fair a way of being spoiled as
Grace Darling. We were amongst the first to
acknowledge the credit due to this young damsel for
her exertions at the wreck of the ‘Forfarshire;’
but really we begin to have serious apprehensions
lest she herself should be whirled away by the tide
of public favour which has set in so strongly towards
her. Truly, the storm which roared and whistled
over the Fern rocks on the night of her achievement
has awakened a pretty echo in the mainland. Not
only have large sums of money been collected throughout
the country to reward the little heroine, but various
silver cups and medals have been presented to her,
both from private individuals and humane societies.
Five pounds, it is said, have been given by one person
(though not to her) for a lock of her hair, while
the painter, the sculptor, and the poet, have caught
the mania, and endeavoured to give permanence to her
celebrity. She has even been represented on the
London stage in the person of Mrs. Yates, and some
whispers were lately afloat of her appearing in Batty’s
arena in propria persona. She is also,
we perceive, made the subject of a tale now in course
of publication; while a vessel lately launched at
Sunderland has been called after her name. In
short, Grace Darling is the fashion. Dukes and
Duchesses have entertained her as their guest, and
she has even been honoured and rewarded by Royalty
itself. What mortal girl could bear up against
such rewards such flatteries?
Without detracting from her really praiseworthy conduct,
there is, we think, in the sensation she has created,
a little touch of the romantic. Had Grace Darling
been a married woman, dwelling in some poor alley
in an ordinary town, and with no rarer or prettier
an appellation than Smith, Brown, M’Tavish,
or Higginbottom, a greater deed would, perhaps, have
won her less favour. But a young woman a
sea-nymph inhabiting a rock in the ocean,
and coming to the few survivors of the wreck, like
a bird of calm over the troubled waters who,
that has a beating pulse, could resist! Grace
Darling, too, is a name to take one’s heart and
one’s memory; and although ‘a rose by
any other name would smell as sweet,’ we cannot
for all the pretty pleading of Juliet, read or speak
about roses without feeling something of their fragrance.
If, previous to that deed which has gilded her humble
name, any honest fisher-lad ever saw in Grace Darling
more to admire than even the world has seen since,
he will win a true heart if he contrive to keep her
affections. Those who have accidentally risen
are, in general, the least inclined to stoop; and
if she do not number suitors with Miss Burdett Coutts
or Queen Victoria herself, Malthus or Martineau, one,
or both of them, must answer for it. Meanwhile
with Grace Darling we have no quarrel; and if her
modesty only outlive the honours heaped upon her, we
shall be the first to acknowledge that her courage
has deserved them.”
Many a laugh, we may be sure, had
the lighthouse-family over such articles, though there
can be no doubt that the good sense of Grace caused
her to take advantage of every lesson taught to her,
whether by words of praise or blame. We cannot,
perhaps, exalt her deed too highly, but it should
always be borne in mind, that she would have been
just as good a girl if the “Forfarshire”
had never been wrecked on the coast of the Farne
Islands. Grace was heroic already, but the catastrophe
brought her qualities of courage, endurance, and humanity,
to the front. One feels glad to know that all
the praise did not make her other than the humble
British girl, though few, perhaps, could pass through
such an ordeal of adulation unscathed. The flatteries
had, however, a ludicrous as well as a touching side,
as may be seen from the following extract. Hero-worship
leads to the hoarding of many things, including bark
of trees, stones, mortar, old rags, and hair; and
it is little wonder if Grace found the latter tendency
rather inconvenient.
“Grace Darling’s name
is now as well known throughout the island as Queen
Anne’s; and to tell people of the decease of
the one is about as necessary as to warn them of the
living glory of the other. Grace is the admired
of all admirers, and far is it from us to wish her
grace diminished in men’s eyes, or herself less
a darling than she is at present. But the enthusiasm
of gratitude and idolatry is becoming somewhat alarming.
We know not how the persons who, principally by her
intrepidity, were saved from the wreck of the ‘Forfarshire,’
may feel towards their ‘good angel in the hour
of fate,’ but every body else seems to think
of her as one to whom they owe the life of some being
related to themselves by blood, and inestimably prized
by affection. The universal feeling in this case
shows us how truly
‘One touch of nature makes the whole
world kin.’
“All feel individually grateful
to Grace Darling; and not a stranger that talks of
her but knows her intimately. But, as we have
said, the expression of this feeling of love and reverence
is assuming an awkward character. It has taken,
it appears, the shape or shapes of infinite demands
upon her generosity in a minor way of countless
and incalculable requests addressed to her by admirers
of heroism, whenever stirred out of their arm chairs
but to accommodate themselves, and trumpeters of intrepidity
who have fainted at the bare idea of getting wet-footed,
that she will be so exceedingly self-devoted and munificent
as to clip from her head a curl just one as
a token by which her name and nature may be identified
and treasured up; just one ringlet one
apiece, for upwards of ten thousand applicants scattered
over various parts of the kingdom, but all linked
together by a common sentiment. The last report
is (we quote the newspapers) that Grace is nearly bald;
that lock after lock has gone, each finding its way
into ring, brooch, or locket, until
‘The Darling of life’s crew’
discovers, like Caesar, that a laurel
crown may be worn for use as well as ornament may
hide as well as adorn. Really, a lock at a time
is an extravagance a hair should suffice;
for if ever it could be said that
‘Beauty draws us by a single hair,’
it may be said of the moral beauty of Grace Darling.
“It is impossible to guard ourselves
against the tendencies to enthusiastic devotion for
the living life preserver, because the very name is
a provocative. Were two such words ever before
combined to form a name? the one expressing
the natural quality of the bearer of it, and the other
defining what her deeds have made her in the regard
of others.”
Not only was Grace Darling herself
likely to be made bald by the request of her loving
admirers, but those who belonged to her shared the
same inconvenience. One of her younger brothers
was away at sea, and did not know of his sister’s
fame until he came into the Thames. No sooner,
however, was his name heard than he had to answer a
number of questions. Did he know anything of
the Longstone lighthouse? Had he a sister?
Was the great Grace Darling any relation to him?
As soon as it was known that he really belonged to
the same family, he was himself exalted into a hero
of the second class, and people thronged round to
look at, admire, and cross-question him. The
young fellow bore it all very good-humouredly in
fact, he rather liked it. But after a time his
numerous and newly-found friends conceived the idea
of possessing a lock of the Darling hair, and the
young man could not well refuse so flattering a request.
So one helped herself, and told her friend, who told
his friend, and so it went on; and the end was, that
young Darling, who possessed a curly head of hair,
became completely, and rather irregularly shorn.
We give two other extracts from papers
that appeared at the time, or soon after. The
following is from the “Spectator:”
“It is not often that heroines
of real life possess the adventitious attractions
of a pretty name, or a charming person; but Grace Darling
has both. She would unquestionably have been
loved and admired as heartily had she been Dorothy
Dobbs, with a wide mouth, snub nose, and a squint;
but it is pleasant to find coupled with a fine and
generous nature, a lovely face, and a name at once
euphonious and cherishable. Grace Darling!
Poet or novelist need not desire one better fitted
to bestow on a paragon of womanhood; we would see
it embalmed in a sonnet by Wordsworth, or a lyric
by Campbell; but it will live in our land’s
language, even if not immortalised in song.”
The “Sunderland Herald,”
of November 22nd, contained the following interesting
article on the Darlings:
“Grace Darling, the heroine
of the day, was born on the 24th of November, 1815;
consequently she will be twenty-three on Saturday,
the 24th inst. She is rather short in stature,
being only five feet two and a half inches in height,
but well proportioned. Her features are admirably
adapted for the skill of the painter, and equally so
for the chisel of the sculptor. She is modest
and remarkably pleasant in her manners, and perfectly
free from the shy awkward gait of country girls in
general. And you will be surprised when I inform
you, that there is excellent accommodation to be met
with at the Longstone lighthouse, although it stands
alone, upon a barren rock, five miles from the mainland.
The tower is very ingeniously constructed, and contains
a well-furnished sitting room, in which is a capital
collection of popular works, and three or four comfortable
bedrooms. These, with an abundance of good,
wholesome, homely fare, together with the very cheerful
service of Grace and her parents, render a visit to
the Farne Islands a treat of no ordinary description.
Grace was taught to read and write by her father,
together with seven of her brothers and sisters; and
their school-room was the lantern of the lighthouse.
“William Darling, the father
of Grace, is only in the fifty-fourth year of his
age, though he looks much older His face reminds me
of the late Thomas Stothard, R.A., the painter of
the Canterbury Pilgrimage, and his person, of the
venerable Earl Grey. He reads much, and is most
passionately fond of natural history.
“Mrs. Darling is a hale, comely
old lady, bordering on threescore, and may be found
engaged three parts of the day at her spinning wheel.
It is true she assisted to make ready the boat at
day-break, on the morning of the melancholy wreck
of the ‘Forfarshire,’ but her heart failed
when her husband and child pushed off; and, as the
wave receded from the rock on which she stood trembling,
with tears she exclaimed, ‘Oh, Grace, if your
father is lost, I’ll blame a’ you for this
morning’s work?’ And who would censure
the mother under such circumstances, especially when
the fact is known, that she was left alone on the
island to witness their struggles as they crossed a
pass between the Longstone rocks and those on which
the surviving sufferers of the ill-fated ‘Forfarshire’
were anxiously looking out for help? The particulars
of that noble deed have already been published, but
I happen to have a newspaper account of another heroic
action by the same family, which took place in the
month of December, 1834, and was thus noticed in the
’Berwick Advertiser’:
“On Saturday night, December
27th, about eleven o’clock, the sloop ‘Autumn,’
of Peterhead, coal-laden, ran upon the Naestone rock,
outside the Farne Islands, and immediately sunk;
the master, in endeavouring to get the boat launched,
unfortunately went down with the sloop! The
other two men (being the whole of the crew), clung
to the mast and topmast, and as the tide receded,
descended the ship’s deck, and finally, about
four o’clock in the morning, the rock appeared,
which they got upon, and remained there till about
eight o’clock, when they were discovered by
the lighthouse-keeper, Darling, who most providentially,
having his three sons with him spending their Christmas,
got out their boat, and got alongside the rock about
nine o’clock (half an hour before it was covered
by the returning tide), and with great exertion succeeded
in getting a rope thrown to one of the men, who, having
lashed himself, was dragged through the sea to the
boat; the other poor fellow, having previously died
upon the fatal rock, was left there. With very
great exertions Darling and his sons gained the lighthouse,
having broken two of their oars whilst attempting
to approach the rock; and thus crippled, they got a
small sail set, but the wind being against them, they
had much difficulty in regaining the island.
Very great praise is due to Darling and his sons
for their great exertions having run a considerable
risk in approaching the rock with a heavy sea.
A signal gun upon each island where the lighthouses
are, would be of very great use in cases of accidents
of this sort, when assistance could be immediately
had from North Sunderland, Bamborough, or Holy Island for
had it not been for the circumstance of Darling’s
sons being there, this poor fellow must inevitably
have perished.”
We are sure that the birthday of the
heroine referred to in the above extracts was celebrated
in many a home, and that hundreds of thousands of
people wished her many happy returns of the day, a
wish which, however, was not to be realised.
But there can be no doubt that the day was a most
happy one to her; for it is not many who, looking back
upon a past year, can think of any good deed that deserves
to stand side by side with that of Grace Darling.
The following birthday lines were
written for her by Mr. J. G. Grant, of Sunderland:
“Maid of the Isle, heroic Grace!
’Midst desert rocks
and tempests thrown,
As though in sternest clime and place,
Where life and man have scarce a trace,
Maternal Nature would embrace
A heroine of her own!
“Methinks, while yet in cradled
sleep,
She loved and destined thee
to be
A dweller of the craggy steep,
A watcher of the stormy deep,
And bade its wild waves nurse and keep
Thy heart as strong and free.
“She bade thee draw a deep delight
An influence kind an
impulse brave,
From every season in its flight,
From gentle Spring and Summer bright,
From golden Autumn, and the might
Of winter’s wind and
wave.
“By every aspect she could show,
In heaven above and earth
below,
She bade thy spirit statelier grow,
And ‘champion human fears!’
Courage and love she bade thee know,
And with the noblest passions glow,
And melt with noblest tears!
“Like Ocean’s daughter Peril’s
bride
She nurs’d thee by the roaring tide,
The playmate of its storms,
And bade thee be in soul allied
With moral grandeur, strength and pride,
To her thy monitress and guide
In all her moods and forms.
“To thee she said, in accents bland,
’These desert rocks and wild sea-land
Shall be as dear a father-land
As ever yet was dearest;
’Midst all of lone, and stern, and
grand,
Thy heart shall burn, thy soul expand,
And thou shall know and understand
My voice in all thou
hearest
“’Day’s radiant arch night’s
cloudy dome,
Alike shall see thee fearless roam,
And life to thee shall dear become,
And thou its humblest forms
shall blend
With the sweet charities of home,
S’en the poor sea-bird on the foam
Shalt be to thee a friend!’
“This nature wills; her will avails,
Thy matchless deed may show.
Thy lofty heart that did not quail
When raged on high the stormy
gale,
And ocean rag’d below.
A meed of glory shall not fail!
Grace Darling’s is the noblest tale
That e’er made woman’s cheeks
look pale,
Or man’s with envy glow!
“Heroic girl! these volumes take,
For proudest admiration’s sake;
Proud volumes so possess’d!
And may my own brave Constance make
A kindred admiration wake
In thy congenial breast!
“And wouldst thou know, ’heart-honoured
maid!
How thrice a thousand-fold repaid
My humble gift may be?
With cheerful hand and heart unbraid
The band thy modest brow that shades,
And send, with three kind words convey’d,
One little tress to me!
“Be this a birthday doubly bless’d!
Joy to thine aged mother’s breast!
And long, caressing and caress’d,
May her maternal kiss,
While peaceful years melt calm away,
Make to thy heart each natal day
As joyous e’en as this!
“Brave daughter of a sire as brave
As ever risked a surging grave,
In tides of stormiest swell!
Thou that didst share that fearful strife,
All joy be to thee, maid or wife!
And may’st thou brave the storms
of life
As fearlessly and well.”
It may be interesting to the reader
to know that the boat which carried Grace Darling
and her father to the “Forfarshire,” is
probably in existence at the present day, It came
into the possession of Mr. George Darling, of North
Sunderland, who was the brother of Grace; and he took
great care of it this boat, with a history
of which so many people had thought with tears in
their eyes! He had often been solicited to sell
it, and at last did so, to Major Joicey, of Stocksfield-on-Tyne.
Pieces of this boat have come in for the affection
usually bestowed on interesting relics, for some planks
that were taken out for repairs have been preserved
as great treasures, and snuff-boxes and other articles
have been made from them. But nothing is needed
to keep in the hearts of the people of our own and
other lands the memory of the gallant deed.
Grace Darling is loved still, and we do not forget
our beloved ones.
These records give some idea of the
enthusiasm which had been awakened by the splendid
deed which has been related. Cold-hearted critics
there were, no doubt, who, never having done an unselfish
action in their lives, would not believe in Grace
Darling’s disinterestedness, and buttoned their
pockets closely when asked to contribute towards the
testimonial which was presented to her. But these
were very few. The greater number who heard
of the heroine’s name were generous in their
praise, so that her name became a household word among
them, and they were right, for they learned the blessedness
of giving.