In closing this volume, the author
wishes to say, as in opening, that no apology is offered
for what has been written or said herewith. All
has been set down in love, by a lover, for the sake
of lovers yet to be, in the hope of helping them
on towards a divine consummation.
As a final direction Master the
Art of Love, which is the divinest art in all
the world; then study, and do your best to master the
Science of Procreation. It is these two, the
Art of Love and the Science of Procreation, that,
together, make married life a success. Without
these, or, surely, without the first, there can be
no such thing as true marriage. Hence, this is
the first to learn, to master. It is worthy
of the most careful study, the most faithful experiment.
It is right for people who never can
have children to marry, and to share with each other
mutual sex delights. It is far better for a husband
and wife, having learned the Art of Love, to have
children and a home.
Thrice happy are the married lovers
who live in the spirit of this sentiment, exalted
to the highest spiritual plane; and if, out of such
love exchanges children are begotten and born, and
a perfect home is established, then married life is
worth living. God has joined such together and
nothing can put them asunder.
This volume is not something to be
read once, and then put aside and forgotten.
It should be studied, experimented upon, read again
and again, especially by those who have difficulties
in married life to overcome. And for all
young married people, it should be a sort of Guide
to Happiness that should be frequently consulted and
its directions “tried out” and followed
to the limit.
The fact is that, in true marriage,
neither the husband nor the wife can be selfishly
supreme. If selfishness asserts itself, on the
part of either husband or wife, hell is sure to follow.
There can be no true marriage under such circumstances,
because there is no supremacy in true love, and it
is only true love that can make an abiding true marriage.
In true marriage, such as both God and Nature design
should be, there is perfect comradery, equals walking
with equals, with the principle of love and mutual
helpfulness shared alike by both. Let no reader
of this book forget these primal facts, or fail to
act in accordance with them! For of such is the
Kingdom of Heaven!