We shall now proceed to state the
argument against Lord Byron.
1st, There is direct evidence that
Lord Byron was guilty of some unusual immorality.
The evidence is not, as the ‘Blackwood’
says, that Lushington yielded assent to the ex
parte statement of a client; nor, as the ‘Quarterly’
intimates, that he was affected by the charms of an
attractive young woman.
The first evidence of it is the fact
that Lushington and Romilly offered to take the case
into court, and make there a public exhibition of the
proofs on which their convictions were founded.
2nd, It is very strong evidence of
this fact, that Lord Byron, while loudly declaring
that he wished to know with what he was charged, declined
this open investigation, and, rather than meet it,
signed a paper which he had before refused to sign.
3rd, It is also strong evidence of
this fact, that although secretly declaring to all
his intimate friends that he still wished open investigation
in a court of justice, and affirming his belief that
his character was being ruined for want of it, he
never afterwards took the means to get it. Instead
of writing a private handbill, he might have come
to England and entered a suit; and he did not do it.
That Lord Byron was conscious of a
great crime is further made probable by the peculiar
malice he seemed to bear to his wife’s legal
counsel.
If there had been nothing to fear
in that legal investigation wherewith they threatened
him, why did he not only flee from it, but regard with
a peculiar bitterness those who advised and proposed
it? To an innocent man falsely accused, the
certainties of law are a blessing and a refuge.
Female charms cannot mislead in a court of justice;
and the atrocities of rumour are there sifted, and
deprived of power. A trial is not a threat to
an innocent man: it is an invitation, an opportunity.
Why, then, did he hate Sir Samuel Romilly, so that
he exulted like a fiend over his tragical death?
The letter in which he pours forth this malignity
was so brutal, that Moore was obliged, by the general
outcry of society, to suppress it. Is this the
language of an innocent man who has been offered a
fair trial under his country’s laws? or of a
guilty man, to whom the very idea of public trial
means public exposure?
4th, It is probable that the crime
was the one now alleged, because that was the most
important crime charged against him by rumour at the
period. This appears by the following extract
of a letter from Shelley, furnished by the ‘Quarterly,’
dated Bath, Sep, 1816:
’I saw Kinnaird, and had a long
talk with him. He informed me that Lady Byron
was now in perfect health; that she was living with
your sister. I felt much pleasure from this
intelligence. I consider the latter part
of it as affording a decisive contradiction to the
only important calumny that ever was advanced against
you. On this ground, at least, it will become
the world hereafter to be silent.’
It appears evident here that the charge
of improper intimacy with his sister was, in the mind
of Shelley, the only important one that had yet been
made against Lord Byron.
It is fairly inferable, from Lord
Byron’s own statements, that his family friends
believed this charge. Lady Byron speaks, in her
statement, of ‘nearest relatives’ and
family friends who were cognizant of Lord Byron’s
strange conduct at the time of the separation; and
Lord Byron, in the letter to Bowles, before quoted,
says that every one of his relations, except his sister,
fell from him in this crisis like leaves from a tree
in autumn. There was, therefore, not only this
report, but such appearances in support of it as convinced
those nearest to the scene, and best apprised of the
facts; so that they fell from him entirely, notwithstanding
the strong influence of family feeling. The Guiccioli
book also mentions this same allegation as having arisen
from peculiarities in Lord Byron’s manner of
treating his sister:
’This deep, fraternal affection
assumed at times, under the influence of his powerful
genius, and under exceptional circumstances, an almost
too passionate expression, which opened a fresh
field to his enemies.’
It appears, then, that there was nothing
in the character of Lord Byron and of his sister,
as they appeared before their generation, that prevented
such a report from arising: on the contrary, there
was something in their relations that made it seem
probable. And it appears that his own family
friends were so affected by it, that they, with one
accord, deserted him. The ‘Quarterly’
presents the fact that Lady Byron went to visit Mrs.
Leigh at this time, as triumphant proof that she did
not then believe it. Can the ‘Quarterly’
show just what Lady Byron’s state of mind was,
or what her motives were, in making that visit?
The ‘Quarterly’ seems
to assume, that no woman, without gross hypocrisy,
can stand by a sister proven to have been guilty.
We can appeal on this subject to all women.
We fearlessly ask any wife, ’Supposing your
husband and sister were involved together in an infamous
crime, and that you were the mother of a young daughter
whose life would be tainted by a knowledge of that
crime, what would be your wish? Would you wish
to proclaim it forthwith? or would you wish quietly
to separate from your husband, and to cover the crime
from the eye of man?’
It has been proved that Lady Byron
did not reveal this even to her nearest relatives.
It is proved that she sealed the mouths of her counsel,
and even of servants, so effectually, that they remain
sealed even to this day. This is evidence that
she did not wish the thing known. It is proved
also, that, in spite of her secrecy with her parents
and friends, the rumour got out, and was spoken of
by Shelley as the only important one.
Now, let us see how this note, cited
by the ‘Quarterly,’ confirms one of Lady
Byron’s own statements. She says to Lady
Anne Barnard,
’I trust you understand my wishes,
which never were to injure Lord Byron in any way;
for, though he would not suffer me to remain his wife,
he cannot prevent me from continuing his friend; and
it was from considering myself as such that I silenced
the accusations by which my own conduct might have
been more fully justified.’
How did Lady Byron silence accusations?
First, by keeping silence to her nearest relatives;
second, by shutting the mouths of servants; third,
by imposing silence on her friends, as
Lady Anne Barnard; fourth, by silencing her legal
counsel; fifth, and most entirely, by treating Mrs.
Leigh, before the world, with unaltered kindness.
In the midst of the rumours, Lady Byron went to visit
her; and Shelley says that the movement was effectual.
Can the ‘Quarterly’ prove that, at this
time, Mrs. Leigh had not confessed all, and thrown
herself on Lady Byron’s mercy?
It is not necessary to suppose great
horror and indignation on the part of Lady Byron.
She may have regarded her sister as the victim of
a most singularly powerful tempter. Lord Byron,
as she knew, had tried to corrupt her own morals and
faith. He had obtained a power over some women,
even in the highest circles in England, which had led
them to forego the usual decorums of their sex, and
had given rise to great scandals. He was a being
of wonderful personal attractions. He had not
only strong poetical, but also strong logical power.
He was daring in speculation, and vigorous in sophistical
argument; beautiful, dazzling, and possessed of magnetic
power of fascination. His sister had been kind
and considerate to Lady Byron when Lord Byron was brutal
and cruel. She had been overcome by him, as
a weaker nature sometimes sinks under the force of
a stronger one; and Lady Byron may really have considered
her to be more sinned against than sinning.
Lord Byron, if we look at it rightly,
did not corrupt Mrs. Leigh any more than he did the
whole British public. They rebelled at the immorality
of his conduct and the obscenity of his writings;
and he resolved that they should accept both.
And he made them do it. At first, they execrated
‘Don Juan.’ Murray was afraid to
publish it. Women were determined not to read
it. In 1819, Dr. William Maginn of the Noctes
wrote a song against it in the following virtuous
strain:
’Be “Juan,” then,
unseen, unknown;
It must, or we
shall rue it.
We may have virtue of our own:
Ah! why should
we undo it?
The treasured faith of days long
past
We still would
prize o’er any,
And grieve to hear the ribald jeer
Of scamps like
Don Giovanni.’
Lord Byron determined to conquer the
virtuous scruples of the Noctes Club; and so we find
this same Dr. William Maginn, who in 1819 wrote so
valiantly, in 1822 declaring that he would rather have
written a page of ‘Don Juan’ than a ton
of ‘Childe Harold.’ All English morals
were, in like manner, formally surrendered to Lord
Byron. Moore details his adulteries in Venice
with unabashed particularity: artists send for
pictures of his principal mistresses; the literary
world call for biographical sketches of their points;
Moore compares his wife and his last mistress in a
neatly-turned sentence; and yet the professor of morals
in Edinburgh University recommends the biography as
pure, and having no mud in it. The mistress
is lionized in London; and in 1869 is introduced to
the world of letters by ‘Blackwood,’ and
bid, ’without a blush, to say she loved’
This much being done to all England,
it is quite possible that a woman like Lady Byron,
standing silently aside and surveying the course of
things, may have thought that Mrs. Leigh was no more
seduced than all the rest of the world, and have said
as we feel disposed to say of that generation, and
of a good many in this, ’Let him that is without
sin among you cast the first stone.’
The peculiar bitterness of remorse
expressed in his works by Lord Byron is a further
evidence that he had committed an unusual crime.
We are aware that evidence cannot be drawn in this
manner from an author’s works merely, if unsupported
by any external probability. For example, the
subject most frequently and powerfully treated by Hawthorne
is the influence of a secret, unconfessed crime on
the soul: nevertheless, as Hawthorne is well
known to have always lived a pure and regular life,
nobody has ever suspected him of any greater sin than
a vigorous imagination. But here is a man believed
guilty of an uncommon immorality by the two best lawyers
in England, and threatened with an open exposure,
which he does not dare to meet. The crime is
named in society; his own relations fall away from
him on account of it; it is only set at rest by the
heroic conduct of his wife. Now, this man is
stated by many of his friends to have had all the
appearance of a man secretly labouring under the consciousness
of crime. Moore speaks of this propensity in
the following language:
’I have known him more than once,
as we sat together after dinner, and he was a little
under the influence of wine, to fall seriously into
this dark, self-accusing mood, and throw out hints
of his past life with an air of gloom and mystery
designed evidently to awaken curiosity and interest.’
Moore says that it was his own custom
to dispel these appearances by ridicule, to which
his friend was keenly alive. And he goes on to
say,
’It has sometimes occurred to me,
that the occult causes of his lady’s separation
from him, round which herself and her legal advisers
have thrown such formidable mystery, may have been
nothing more than some imposture of this kind,
some dimly-hinted confession of undefined horror,
which, though intended by the relater to mystify and
surprise, the hearer so little understood as to
take in sober seriousness.’
All we have to say is, that Lord Byron’s
conduct in this respect is exactly what might have
been expected if he had a crime on his conscience.
The energy of remorse and despair
expressed in ‘Manfred’ were so appalling
and so vividly personal, that the belief was universal
on the Continent that the experience was wrought out
of some actual crime. Goethe expressed this idea,
and had heard a murder imputed to Byron as the cause.
The allusion to the crime and consequences
of incest is so plain in ‘Manfred,’ that
it is astonishing that any one can pretend, as Galt
does, that it had any other application.
The hero speaks of the love between
himself and the imaginary being whose spirit haunts
him as having been the deadliest sin, and one that
has, perhaps, caused her eternal destruction.
’What is she now? A
sufferer for my sins;
A thing I dare not think upon.’
He speaks of her blood as haunting him, and as being
’My blood, the
pure, warm stream
That ran in the veins of my fathers,
and in ours
When we were in our youth, and had
one heart,
And loved each other as we should
not love.’
This work was conceived in the commotion
of mind immediately following his separation.
The scenery of it was sketched in a journal sent to
his sister at the time.
In letter 377, defending the originality
of the conception, and showing that it did not arise
from reading ‘Faust,’ he says,
’It was the Steinbach and
the Jungfrau, and something else, more than
Faustus, that made me write “Manfred."’
In letter 288, speaking of the various
accounts given by critics of the origin of the story,
he says,
’The conjecturer is out, and
knows nothing of the matter. I had a
better origin than he could devise
or divine for the soul of him.’
In letter 299, he says:
’As to the germs of “Manfred,”
they may be found in the journal I sent to Mrs. Leigh,
part of which you saw.’
It may be said, plausibly, that Lord
Byron, if conscious of this crime, would not have
expressed it in his poetry. But his nature was
such that he could not help it. Whatever he
wrote that had any real power was generally wrought
out of self; and, when in a tumult of emotion, he could
not help giving glimpses of the cause. It appears
that he did know that he had been accused of incest,
and that Shelley thought that accusation the only
really important one; and yet, sensitive as he was
to blame and reprobation, he ran upon this very subject
most likely to re-awaken scandal.
But Lord Byron’s strategy was
always of the bold kind. It was the plan of
the fugitive, who, instead of running away, stations
himself so near to danger, that nobody would ever
think of looking for him there. He published
passionate verses to his sister on this principle.
He imitated the security of an innocent man in every
thing but the unconscious energy of the agony which
seized him when he gave vent to his nature in poetry.
The boldness of his strategy is evident through all
his life. He began by charging his wife with
the very cruelty and deception which he was himself
practising. He had spread a net for her feet,
and he accused her of spreading a net for his.
He had placed her in a position where she could not
speak, and then leisurely shot arrows at her; and he
represented her as having done the same by him.
When he attacked her in ‘Don Juan,’ and
strove to take from her the very protection of
womanly sacredness by putting her name into the mouth
of every ribald, he did a bold thing, and he knew
it. He meant to do a bold thing. There
was a general outcry against it; and he fought it down,
and gained his point. By sheer boldness and
perseverance, he turned the public from his wife,
and to himself, in the face of their very groans and
protests. His ‘Manfred’ and his
‘Cain’ were parts of the same game.
But the involuntary cry of remorse and despair pierced
even through his own artifices, in a manner that produced
a conviction of reality.
His evident fear and hatred of his
wife were other symptoms of crime. There was
no apparent occasion for him to hate her. He
admitted that she had been bright, amiable, good,
agreeable; that her marriage had been a very uncomfortable
one; and he said to Madame de Stael, that he did not
doubt she thought him deranged. Why, then, did
he hate her for wanting to live peaceably by herself?
Why did he so fear her, that not one year of his
life passed without his concocting and circulating
some public or private accusation against her?
She, by his own showing, published none against him.
It is remarkable, that, in all his zeal to represent
himself injured, he nowhere quotes a single remark
from Lady Byron, nor a story coming either directly
or indirectly from her or her family. He is
in a fever in Venice, not from what she has spoken,
but because she has sealed the lips of her counsel,
and because she and her family do not speak:
so that he professes himself utterly ignorant what
form her allegations against him may take. He
had heard from Shelley that his wife silenced the
most important calumny by going to make Mrs. Leigh
a visit; and yet he is afraid of her, so
afraid, that he tells Moore he expects she will attack
him after death, and charges him to defend his grave.
Now, if Lord Byron knew that his wife
had a deadly secret that she could tell, all this
conduct is explicable: it is in the ordinary course
of human nature. Men always distrust those who
hold facts by which they can be ruined. They
fear them; they are antagonistic to them; they cannot
trust them. The feeling of Falkland to Caleb
Williams, as portrayed in Godwin’s masterly
sketch, is perfectly natural, and it is exactly illustrative
of what Byron felt for his wife. He hated her
for having his secret; and, so far as a human being
could do it, he tried to destroy her character before
the world, that she might not have the power to testify
against him. If we admit this solution, Byron’s
conduct is at least that of a man who is acting as
men ordinarily would act under such circumstances:
if we do not, he is acting like a fiend. Let
us look at admitted facts. He married his wife
without love, in a gloomy, melancholy, morose state
of mind. The servants testify to strange, unaccountable
treatment of her immediately after marriage; such that
her confidential maid advises her return to her parents.
In Lady Byron’s letter to Mrs. Leigh, she reminds
Lord Byron that he always expressed a desire and determination
to free himself from the marriage. Lord Byron
himself admits to Madame de Stael that his behaviour
was such, that his wife must have thought him insane.
Now we are asked to believe, that simply because,
under these circumstances, Lady Byron wished to live
separate from her husband, he hated and feared her
so that he could never let her alone afterwards; that
he charged her with malice, slander, deceit, and deadly
intentions against himself, merely out of spite, because
she preferred not to live with him. This last
view of the case certainly makes Lord Byron more unaccountably
wicked than the other.
The first supposition shows him to
us as a man in an agony of self-preservation; the
second as a fiend, delighting in gratuitous deceit
and cruelty.
Again: a presumption of this
crime appears in Lord Byron’s admission, in
a letter to Moore, that he had an illegitimate child
born before he left England, and still living at the
time.
In letter 307, to Mr. Moore, under
date Venice, Fe, 1818, Byron says, speaking of
Moore’s loss of a child,
’I know how to feel with you, because
I am quite wrapped up in my own children.
Besides my little legitimate, I have made unto myself
an illegitimate since [since Ada’s birth]
to say nothing of one before; and I look forward
to one of these as the pillar of my old age, supposing
that I ever reach, as I hope I never shall, that desolating
period.’
The illegitimate child that he had
made to himself since Ada’s birth was Allegra,
born about nine or ten months after the separation.
The other illegitimate alluded to was born before,
and, as the reader sees, was spoken of as still living.
Moore appears to be puzzled to know
who this child can be, and conjectures that it may
possibly be the child referred to in an early poem,
written, while a schoolboy of nineteen, at Harrow.
On turning back to the note referred
to, we find two things: first, that the child
there mentioned was not claimed by Lord Byron as his
own, but that he asked his mother to care for it as
belonging to a schoolmate now dead; second, that the
infant died shortly after, and, consequently, could
not be the child mentioned in this letter.
Now, besides this fact, that Lord
Byron admitted a living illegitimate child born before
Ada, we place this other fact, that there was a child
in England which was believed to be his by those who
had every opportunity of knowing.
On this subject we shall cite a passage
from a letter recently received by us from England,
and written by a person who appears well informed on
the subject of his letter:
’The fact is, the incest was first
committed, and the child of it born before, shortly
before, the Byron marriage. The child (a daughter)
must not be confounded with the natural daughter
of Lord Byron, born about a year after his separation.
’The history, more or less,
of that child of incest, is known to many;
for in Lady Byron’s attempts
to watch over her, and rescue her from
ruin, she was compelled to employ
various agents at different times.’
This letter contains a full recognition,
by an intelligent person in England, of a child corresponding
well with Lord Byron’s declaration of an illegitimate,
born before he left England.
Up to this point, we have, then, the
circumstantial evidence against Lord Byron as follows:
A good and amiable woman, who had
married him from love, determined to separate from
him.
Two of the greatest lawyers of England
confirmed her in this decision, and threatened Lord
Byron, that, unless he consented to this, they would
expose the evidence against him in a suit for divorce.
He fled from this exposure, and never afterwards
sought public investigation.
He was angry with and malicious towards
the counsel who supported his wife; he was angry at
and afraid of a wife who did nothing to injure him,
and he made it a special object to defame and degrade
her. He gave such evidence of remorse and fear
in his writings as to lead eminent literary men to
believe he had committed a great crime. The public
rumour of his day specified what the crime was.
His relations, by his own showing, joined against
him. The report was silenced by his wife’s
efforts only. Lord Byron subsequently declares
the existence of an illegitimate child, born before
he left England. Corresponding to this, there
is the history, known in England, of a child believed
to be his, in whom his wife took an interest.
All these presumptions exist independently
of any direct testimony from Lady Byron. They
are to be admitted as true, whether she says a word
one way or the other.
From this background of proof, I come
forward, and testify to an interview with Lady Byron,
in which she gave me specific information of the facts
in the case. That I report the facts just as
I received them from her, not altered or misremembered,
is shown by the testimony of my sister, to whom I
related them at the time. It cannot, then, be
denied that I had this interview, and that this communication
was made. I therefore testify that Lady Byron,
for a proper purpose, and at a proper time, stated
to me the following things:
1. That the crime which separated
her from Lord Byron was incest.
2. That she first discovered
it by improper actions towards his sister, which,
he meant to make her understand, indicated the guilty
relation.
3. That he admitted it, reasoned
on it, defended it, tried to make her an accomplice,
and, failing in that, hated her and expelled her.
4. That he threatened her that
he would make it his life’s object to destroy
her character.
5. That for a period she was
led to regard this conduct as insanity, and to consider
him only as a diseased person.
6. That she had subsequent proof
that the facts were really as she suspected; that
there had been a child born of the crime, whose history
she knew; that Mrs. Leigh had repented.
The purpose for which this was stated
to me was to ask, Was it her duty to make the truth
fully known during her lifetime?
Here, then, is a man believed guilty
of an unusual crime by two lawyers, the best in England,
who have seen the evidence, a man who dares
not meet legal investigation. The crime is named
in society, and deemed so far probable to the men
of his generation as to be spoken of by Shelley as
the only important allegation against him. He
acts through life exactly like a man struggling with
remorse, and afraid of detection; he has all the restlessness
and hatred and fear that a man has who feels that
there is evidence which might destroy him. He
admits an illegitimate child besides Allegra.
A child believed to have been his is known to many
in England. Added to all this, his widow, now
advanced in years, and standing on the borders of
eternity, being, as appears by her writings and conversation,
of perfectly sound mind at the time, testifies to
me the facts before named, which exactly correspond
to probabilities.
I publish the statement; and the solicitors
who hold Lady Byron’s private papers do not
deny the truth of the story. They try to cast
discredit on me for speaking; but they do not say
that I have spoken falsely, or that the story is not
true. The lawyer who knew Lady Byron’s
story in 1816 does not now deny that this is the true
one. Several persons in England testify that,
at various times, and for various purposes, the same
story has been told to them. Moreover, it appears
from my last letter addressed to Lady Byron on this
subject, that I recommended her to leave all necessary
papers in the hands of some discreet persons, who,
after both had passed away, should see that justice
was done. The solicitors admit that Lady Byron
has left sealed papers of great importance in the
hands of trustees, with discretionary power.
I have been informed very directly that the nature
of these documents was such as to lead to the suppression
of Lady Byron’s life and writings. This
is all exactly as it would be, if the story related
by Lady Byron were the true one.
The evidence under this point of view
is so strong, that a great effort has been made to
throw out Lady Byron’s testimony.
This attempt has been made on two
grounds. 1st, That she was under a mental hallucination.
This theory has been most ably refuted by the very
first authority in England upon the subject.
He says,
’No person practically acquainted
with the true characteristics of insanity would
affirm, that, had this idea of “incest”
been an insane hallucination, Lady Byron could,
from the lengthened period which intervened between
her unhappy marriage and death, have refrained from
exhibiting it, not only to legal advisers and trustees
(assuming that she revealed to them the fact),
but to others, exacting no pledge of secrecy from
them as to her mental impressions. Lunatics do
for a time, and for some special purpose, most
cunningly conceal their delusions; but they have
not the capacity to struggle for thirty-six years,
as Lady Byron must have done, with so frightful an
hallucination, without the insane state of mind
becoming obvious to those with whom they are daily
associating. Neither is it consistent with
experience to suppose, that, if Lady Byron had been
a monomaniac, her state of disordered understanding
would have been restricted to one hallucination.
Her diseased brain, affecting the normal action of
thought, would, in all probability, have manifested
other symptoms besides those referred to of aberration
of intellect.
’During the last thirty years,
I have not met with a case of insanity (assuming
the hypothesis of hallucination) at all parallel with
that of Lady Byron. In my experience, it
is unique. I never saw a patient with such
a delusion.’
We refer our readers to a careful
study of Dr. Forbes Winslow’s consideration
of this subject given in Part III. Anyone who
has been familiar with the delicacy and acuteness
of Dr. Winslow, as shown in his work on obscure diseases
of the brain and nerves, must feel that his positive
assertion on this ground is the best possible evidence.
We here gratefully acknowledge our obligations to
Dr. Winslow for the corrected proof of his valuable
letter, which he has done us the honour to send for
this work. We shall consider that his argument,
in connection with what the reader may observe of
Lady Byron’s own writings, closes that issue
of the case completely.
The other alternative is, that Lady
Byron deliberately committed false witness.
This was the ground assumed by the ‘Blackwood,’
when in July, 1869, it took upon itself the responsibility
of re-opening the Byron controversy. It is also
the ground assumed by ‘The London Quarterly’
of to-day.
Both say, in so many words, that no
crime was imputed to Lord Byron; that the representations
made to Lushington in the beginning were false ones;
and that the story told to Lady Byron’s confidential
friends in later days was also false.
Let us examine this theory.
In the first place, it requires us to believe in the
existence of a moral monster of whom Madame Brinvilliers
is cited as the type. The ‘Blackwood,’
let it be remembered, opens the controversy with the
statement that Lady Byron was a Madame Brinvilliers.
The ‘Quarterly’ does not shrink from the
same assumption.
Let us consider the probability of this question.
If Lady Byron were such a woman, and
wished to ruin her husband’s reputation in order
to save her own, and, being perfectly unscrupulous,
had circulated against him a story of unnatural crime
which had no proofs, how came two of the first lawyers
of England to assume the responsibility of offering
to present her case in open court? How came
her husband, if he knew himself guiltless, to shrink
from that public investigation which must have demonstrated
his innocence? Most astonishing of all, when
he fled from trial, and the report got abroad against
him in England, and was believed even by his own relations,
why did not his wife avail herself of the moment to
complete her victory? If at that moment she
had publicly broken with Mrs. Leigh, she might have
confirmed every rumour. Did she do it? and why
not? According to the ‘Blackwood,’
we have here a woman who has made up a frightful story
to ruin her husband’s reputation, yet who takes
every pains afterwards to prevent its being ruined.
She fails to do the very thing she undertakes; and
for years after, rather than injure him, she loses
public sympathy, and, by sealing the lips of her legal
counsel, deprives herself of the advantage of their
testimony.
Moreover, if a desire for revenge
could have been excited in her, it would have been
provoked by the first publication of the fourth canto
of ‘Childe Harold,’ when she felt that
Byron was attacking her before the world. Yet
we have Lady Anne Barnard’s testimony, that,
at this time, she was so far from wishing to injure
him, that all her communications were guarded by cautious
secrecy. At this time, also, she had a strong
party in England, to whom she could have appealed.
Again: when ’Don Juan’ was first
printed, it excited a violent re-action against Lord
Byron. Had his wife chosen then to accuse him,
and display the evidence she had shown to her counsel,
there is little doubt that all the world would have
stood with her; but she did not. After his death,
when she spoke at last, there seems little doubt from
the strength of Dr. Lushington’s language, that
Lady Byron had a very strong case, and that, had she
been willing, her counsel could have told much more
than he did. She might then have told her whole
story, and been believed. Her word was believed
by Christopher North, and accepted as proof that Byron
had been a great criminal. Had revenge been
her motive, she could have spoken the ONE WORD more
that North called for.
The ‘Quarterly’ asks why
she waited till everybody concerned was dead.
There is an obvious answer. Because, while there
was anybody living to whom the testimony would have
been utterly destructive, there were the best reasons
for withholding it. When all were gone from earth,
and she herself was in constant expectation of passing
away, there was a reason, and a proper one, why she
should speak. By nature and principle truthful,
she had had the opportunity of silently watching the
operation of a permitted lie upon a whole generation.
She had been placed in a position in which it was
necessary, by silence, to allow the spread and propagation
through society of a radical falsehood. Lord
Byron’s life, fame, and genius had all struck
their roots into this lie, been nourished by it, and
had derived thence a poisonous power.
In reading this history, it will be
remarked that he pleaded his personal misfortunes
in his marriage as excuses for every offence against
morality, and that the literary world of England accepted
the plea, and tolerated and justified the crimes.
Never before, in England, had adultery been spoken
of in so respectful a manner, and an adulteress openly
praised and feted, and obscene language and licentious
images publicly tolerated; and all on the plea of
a man’s private misfortunes.
There was, therefore, great force
in the suggestion made to Lady Byron, that she owed
a testimony in this case to truth and justice, irrespective
of any personal considerations. There is no more
real reason for allowing the spread of a hurtful falsehood
that affects ourselves than for allowing one that
affects our neighbour. This falsehood had corrupted
the literature and morals of both England and America,
and led to the public toleration, by respectable authorities,
of forms of vice at first indignantly rejected.
The question was, Was this falsehood to go on corrupting
literature as long as history lasted? Had the
world no right to true history? Had she who
possessed the truth no responsibility to the world?
Was not a final silence a confirmation of a lie with
all its consequences?
This testimony of Lady Byron, so far
from being thrown out altogether, as the ‘Quarterly’
proposes, has a peculiar and specific value from the
great forbearance and reticence which characterised
the greater part of her life.
The testimony of a person who has
shown in every action perfect friendliness to another
comes with the more weight on that account. Testimony
extorted by conscience from a parent against a child,
or a wife against a husband, where all the other actions
of the life prove the existence of kind feeling, is
held to be the strongest form of evidence.
The fact that Lady Byron, under the
severest temptations and the bitterest insults and
injuries, withheld every word by which Lord Byron
could be criminated, so long as he and his sister were
living, is strong evidence, that, when she did speak,
it was not under the influence of ill-will, but of
pure conscientious convictions; and the fullest weight
ought, therefore, to be given to her testimony.
We are asked now why she ever spoke
at all. The fact that her story is known to
several persons in England is brought up as if it were
a crime. To this we answer, Lady Byron had an
undoubted moral right to have exposed the whole story
in a public court in 1816, and thus cut herself loose
from her husband by a divorce. For the sake of
saving her husband and sister from destruction, she
waived this right to self-justification, and stood
for years a silent sufferer under calumny and misrepresentation.
She desired nothing but to retire from the whole
subject; to be permitted to enjoy with her child the
peace and seclusion that belong to her sex.
Her husband made her, through his life and after his
death, a subject of such constant discussion, that
she must either abandon the current literature of
her day, or run the risk of reading more or less about
herself in almost every magazine of her time.
Conversations with Lord Byron, notes of interviews
with Lord Byron, journals of time spent with Lord
Byron, were constantly spread before the public.
Leigh Hunt, Galt, Medwin, Trelawney, Lady Blessington,
Dr. Kennedy, and Thomas Moore, all poured forth their
memorials; and in all she figured prominently.
All these had their tribes of reviewers and critics,
who also discussed her. The profound mystery
of her silence seemed constantly to provoke inquiry.
People could not forgive her for not speaking.
Her privacy, retirement, and silence were set down
as coldness, haughtiness, and contempt of human sympathy.
She was constantly challenged to say something:
as, for example, in the ‘Noctes’ of November
1825, six months after Byron’s death, Christopher
North says, speaking of the burning of the Autobiography,
’I think, since the Memoir was
burned by these people, these people are bound
to put us in possession of the best evidence they still
have the power of producing, in order that we may
come to a just conclusion as to a subject upon
which, by their act, at least, as much as by any other
people’s act, we are compelled to consider it
our duty to make up our deliberate opinion, deliberate
and decisive. Woe be to those who provoke
this curiosity, and will not allay it! Woe be
to them! say I. Woe to them! says the world.’
When Lady Byron published her statement,
which certainly seemed called for by this language,
Christopher North blamed her for doing it, and then
again said that she ought to go on and tell the whole
story. If she was thus adjured to speak, blamed
for speaking, and adjured to speak further, all in
one breath, by public prints, there is reason to think
that there could not have come less solicitation from
private sources, from friends who had access
to her at all hours, whom she loved, by whom she was
beloved, and to whom her refusal to explain might seem
a breach of friendship. Yet there is no evidence
on record, that we have seen, that she ever had other
confidant than her legal counsel, till after all the
actors in the events were in their graves, and the
daughter, for whose sake largely the secret was guarded,
had followed them.
Now, does anyone claim, that, because
a woman has sacrificed for twenty years all cravings
for human sympathy, and all possibility of perfectly
free and unconstrained intercourse with her friends,
that she is obliged to go on bearing this same lonely
burden to the end of her days?
Let anyone imagine the frightful constraint
and solitude implied in this sentence. Let anyone,
too, think of its painful complications in life.
The roots of a falsehood are far-reaching. Conduct
that can only be explained by criminating another
must often seem unreasonable and unaccountable; and
the most truthful person, who feels bound to keep
silence regarding a radical lie of another, must often
be placed in positions most trying to conscientiousness.
The great merit of ’Caleb Williams’ as
a novel consists in its philosophical analysis of the
utter helplessness of an innocent person who agrees
to keep the secret of a guilty one. One sees
there how that necessity of silence produces all the
effect of falsehood on his part, and deprives him of
the confidence and sympathy of those with whom he
would take refuge.
For years, this unnatural life was
forced on Lady Byron, involving her as in a network,
even in her dearest family relations.
That, when all the parties were dead,
Lady Byron should allow herself the sympathy of a
circle of intimate friends, is something so perfectly
proper and natural, that we cannot but wonder that
her conduct in this respect has ever been called in
question. If it was her right to have had a
public expose in 1816, it was certainly her right to
show to her own intimate circle the secret of her
life when all the principal actors were passed from
earth.
The ‘Quarterly’ speaks
as if, by thus waiting, she deprived Lord Byron of
the testimony of living witnesses. But there
were as many witnesses and partisans dead on her side
as on his. Lady Milbanke and Sir Ralph, Sir
Samuel Romilly and Lady Anne Barnard were as much dead
as Hobhouse, Moore, and others of Byron’s partisans.
The ‘Quarterly’ speaks
of Lady Byron as ’running round, and repeating
her story to people mostly below her own rank in life.’
To those who know the personal dignity
of Lady Byron’s manners, represented and dwelt
on by her husband in his conversations with Lady Blessington,
this coarse and vulgar attack only proves the poverty
of a cause which can defend itself by no better weapons.
Lord Byron speaks of his wife as ‘highly
cultivated;’ as having ’a degree of self-control
I never saw equalled.’
‘I am certain,’ he says,
’that Lady Byron’s first idea is what is
due to herself: I mean that it is the undeviating
rule of her conduct . . . . Now, my besetting
sin is a want of that self-respect which she has
in excess . . . . But, though I accuse Lady Byron
of an excess of self-respect, I must, in candour,
admit, that, if any person ever had excuse for
an extraordinary portion of it, she has; as, in all
her thoughts, words, and actions, she is the most
decorous woman that ever existed.’
This is the kind of woman who has
lately been accused in the public prints as a babbler
of secrets and a gossip in regard to her private difficulties
with children, grandchildren, and servants. It
is a fair specimen of the justice that has generally
been meted out to Lady Byron.
In 1836, she was accused of having
made a confidant of Campbell, on the strength of having
written him a note declining to give him any information,
or answer any questions. In July, 1869, she was
denounced by ‘Blackwood’ as a Madame Brinvilliers
for keeping such perfect silence on the matter of
her husband’s character; and in the last ‘Quarterly’
she is spoken of as a gossip ’running round,
and repeating her story to people below her in rank.’
While we are upon this subject, we
have a suggestion to make. John Stuart Mill
says that utter self-abnegation has been preached to
women as a peculiarly feminine virtue. It is
true; but there is a moral limit to the value of self-abnegation.
It is a fair question for the moralist,
whether it is right and proper wholly to ignore one’s
personal claims to justice. The teachings of
the Saviour give us warrant for submitting to personal
injuries; but both the Saviour and St. Paul manifested
bravery in denying false accusations, and asserting
innocence.
Lady Byron was falsely accused of
having ruined the man of his generation, and caused
all his vices and crimes, and all their evil effects
on society. She submitted to the accusation for
a certain number of years for reasons which commended
themselves to her conscience; but when all the personal
considerations were removed, and she was about passing
from life, it was right, it was just, it was strictly
in accordance with the philosophical and ethical character
of her mind, and with her habit of considering all
things in their widest relations to the good of mankind,
that she should give serious attention and consideration
to the last duty which she might owe to abstract truth
and justice in her generation.
In her letter on the religious state
of England, we find her advocating an absolute frankness
in all religious parties. She would have all
openly confess those doubts, which, from the best of
motives, are usually suppressed; and believed, that,
as a result of such perfect truthfulness, a wider
love would prevail among Christians. This shows
the strength of her conviction of the power and the
importance of absolute truth; and shows, therefore,
that her doubts and conscientious inquiries respecting
her duty on this subject are exactly what might have
been expected from a person of her character and principles.
Having thus shown that Lady Byron’s
testimony is the testimony of a woman of strong and
sound mind, that it was not given from malice nor ill-will,
that it was given at a proper time and in a proper
manner, and for a purpose in accordance with the most
elevated moral views, and that it is coincident with
all the established facts of this history, and furnishes
a perfect solution of every mystery of the case, we
think we shall carry the reader with us in saying
that it is to be received as absolute truth.
This conviction we arrive at while
as yet we are deprived of the statement prepared by
Lady Byron, and the proof by which she expected to
sustain it; both which, as we understand, are now in
the hands of her trustees.